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In Danger of Losing Home! Help Demential Patient

Hi, my name is Victoria Burton and I have gotten myself into a very difficult situation.  I am 41 years old and have been helping care for my 74 year father with dementia for the past 9 years.  I myself have Lupus and have been struggling with my health as well. As you can imagine it has taken a major financial hit on our savings.  I own a two family house where my dad and his paid caregiver live on the first floor.  Unfortunately due to this pandemic, changes in my income and embarrassingly some poor financial management, I have fell behind on bills and most dangerously my property taxes.  I have now received notification that missing three payments has put a lien on my property and I am scared to death of losing my home due to owing $17,773 on the lein and about $7,000 for current year.  My credit is fair but I don’t know if I can get approval for a loan under these circumstances.  I am in hopes of an angel and a financial blessing to come our way.  I have worked hard at keeping my dad in the comfort of his home, as I do not want to send him to a nursing home until I have no other choice.  I would appreciate any assistance anyone can give, as I am desperate.  I pray for whoever reads this and has in their heart to give any amount.  Forever grateful.

Paypal.me/Victoria082197

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I need money to escape from my “family” and start a new life. / meet my partner.

Hello for whoever is reading this.

I am Japanese student, who currently studies at college in the Philippines (Online classes so I’m at Japan right now).

I have had a confusing life, so I’d like to write up a summary about how I have been grown. If you’d rather just want to straight up read the REASON of why I am begging for money, Please do scroll until the end.

So I was grown under fairly normal family, at least that’s what I saw at that age. I was born in Japan, grew up and graduated Elementary School in Japan.
I told my parents one day, “I want to learn English so I would be able to communicate with most of the people out there and I want to have a dream of going around the world.”.

Well my mother, who is from the Philippines, decided to bring me to the Philippines and let me go to a school in there.

So I have studied under International School for my middle/high school. Then I also went straight to the college in the Philippines as well.

Til then, I did not have any knowledge about how “Working to earn money” works in Japan. (Well I tried working in the Philippines, but they denied me for some reasons related with I needing to have a working VISA?)

2020, COVID-19 started to hit so hard. My college was closed, turned into online classes. I was worried of my family too, and Philippines wasn’t the best idea to stay at for sure.

So me and my mother decided to go back to Japan. On end of July, we went back to Japan. Met my brother and my father.

We were living in same condominium room.

After few months of staying in Japan, my parents told me “You should start working in part-time job so you can start earning your own money.”
And I was like “Yeah, definitely. I’ve been wanting to work anyway.”

So I made my first resume, started working in small restaurant in food court of a mall. It was my first ever job, ofcourse.

I’ve had mistakes and such, my workplace leader is little bit rough towards me even after 4 months of me working and I don’t make mistake anymore. But I guess that’s how the job goes.

Sometimes I even had 8 hours straight work, with only 30 minutes of break.
But I don’t really complain about the work, I mean I was surely tired mentally and physically too.

But my main problem comes after.
Which is my Family.
They suddenly changed, or rather, they started showing their true nature?

So it all started with my brother talking to me out of nowhere that he will get out of this house with his wife, he told me that my parents doesn’t have any money anymore so he needs me to start paying on stuff.

So I started paying 450 dollars per month, It may not sound much, but it was so much to me because again it was my first experience of working and I only earn 700 dollars.

But I was going with it, even though my mind was filled with so much stuff.
Because I do have college too, I can only work certain days / certain hours.

But he told me that I am not working enough, told me that I should start working on the midnight til morning.

I said that it’s too hard for me, I just started working for the first time, I also have college classes, and I’m going to have to work in midnight to morning? I will give up if I had to do that.

Then he told me that I was being a crybaby, his wife told me that I was a trash.

I cried on that night in my room, how I can’t express my anger and feeling, my thoughts and those towards them.

But all these were happening, I found myself someone to love.
I met her in a game, but we slowly started getting attracted to each other.
I confessed to her that I like her, and we started dating.
She lives in Osaka (which is around 500km away from my place).
We were going great, she wanted to meet me, so she did.
She came all the way to Tokyo just to meet me.
It was great, her everything was perfect to me, we have almost everything in common.
After few days, obviously she has to go back to Osaka because she’s got a work there.

So I was all sad and those, then day after that, I got talked by the people in my house again.

Now they asked me to pay them 1500 dollars within 2 months.

Apparently it’s a “Fee” of me staying in here for the few months of me not working yet (When I arrived at Japan on 2020 July onwards)

My savings were 400 dollars.

My earnings can not reach 1500. even if I do, It means I would have to pay everything I have and I will have literally, absolutely no money.

It was my gf’s birthday just recently, and my birthday is coming up soon too, and she told me that she wants to meet me again and so she is saving money to come to Tokyo again.

In my deep night I always just wonder and wish I could have treated her better, I mean I am doing my best, what I meant is that I just wish I could meet her time to time, I can definitely do that if I didn’t have to pay all those to the people here.

It’s so hard to explain everything because It will be so long, But I’ve had suicidal thoughts in those times. Holding a cutter was reliefs my heart, I’ve attempt on getting hit by a car, I’ve almost cut myself so many times. Everything was pressuring me, but she always stayed by myside even though she definitely was tired of my bullshit mental breakdowns. So I decided to throw away whatever those suicidal thoughts I had, so far it is working, I don’t got no breakdowns.

But some night, I still have deep thoughts about what my life situation is.
I’m afraid I’d be back to breakdowns again.

But yeah, I think those are pretty much summarized my situation right now..

Simple:
I’m so lost in my life honestly, I have no money to do anything, I’m trying to save but it’s just going to my “family”. I’m trying to leave this house ASAP.

All I need is a possible of 5000 dollars, and I can escape away at least within end of this year or the start of next year. Honestly it’s not even an escape, I am soon to be send out of this house because of money.

Even a dollar would do so much to me.
Meeting my girlfriend costs about 300 dollars as well.

I recently got a new job related with English=Japanese translation stuff too, I am trying to make a whole new life start. I just would have to escape from here first, possibly go to different place than Tokyo and start living alone. I have knowledge of living alone because I used to do so for sometime.

That is why I am here begging for money.

Anything would do, I would really, really appreciate it.
Thank you so much for reading.

https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/hiro794

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I need help paying my mortgage and other bills

My name is Jack C. Catalano. I’m 39 years old. I lost my mother, who I was very close to, in December of 2017. She died from Uterine Cancer, Blood Clots and Kidney Failure. When she passed away, I was unemployed as I was taking care of her.  Her pension would pay the mortgage every month. When she passed away, the pension went away. I do have a small part time job now but it’s not enough to try to stay in my house. I need extra money because my house has a strict foreclosure date of July 26 and they will kick me out of the house. I have no where to go if I get kicked out of the house and I will be homeless. I don’t want that to happen. I could move but everything is so expensive that I can’t afford a place plus paying movers and whatnot. It would be cheaper to stay in the house.

I’m a good guy. I gave my life to take care of my grandparents and my mother. I don’t go out or do anything. All I do is go to work and come home.  I could really use this extra money for paying my mortgage and paying my bills. I also have a severe mental illness, which is OCD, and that makes it hard for me as well. Please, I beg of you, please help me. I’m estranged from my father who I haven’t seen in over a year. Plus, my uncle I:ve seen very rarely because of Covid, so I don’t have any family. I’m just so scared that I’m going to be homeless and I can’t be homeless. I’ll never survive being homeless. I just need some financial assistance so I can pay the bills and the mortgage and try to live a happy life which has been hard to do because I miss my mother everyday. Everyday is hard for me. Please don’t make it any harder. Thank You.

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Please help me pay my mom’s house off

Hello All,

I would be extremely grateful if I could get assistance to pay my mother’s home off. This is the only home I’ve known as a child.

My mother was a nurse for over 30 years and she was the bread winner for our family while my father was an alcoholic. She loved to entertain and took pride in her home. Every holiday was held here. From weddings, to back yard cookouts, my mom’s home was the go to for all our family to enjoy. The festivities came to a halt when it was destroyed in Katrina. But my mom didn’t give up on it. This was her dream and forever home. She moved back to New Orleans, alone in 2007 to work while my 2 older sisters and I stayed in Georgia with family. Alone, She over saw the remodel (my father did nothing) all while working to provide for us, finishing her masters, and battling cancer. She did what she could and did everything thing with grace. However, the stresses of financial stability may have contributed to my mother’s demise. In 2012 my mom was diagnosed with stage II colon cancer. She battled it for 2 years and had it removed via a procedure called the Whipple. She was so brave and had so much more life ahead of her. My sisters were still in Georgia at the time and my father was MIA while my I accompanied my mom during Chemo. They were all present for her surgery. She seemed triumphant, she had beaten colon cancer and was cancer free for several months. But as fate would have it, stage IV pancreatic cancer resurfaced in November of 2014. It was too aggressive and within months she passed in June 2015. Since then, it has been difficult to handle all of her financial affairs. Her will wasn’t notarized in time and all of her assets were left to my father.
He gambled and drunk everything she left for upkeep of the home, as well as valuables she left for her girls. All within the 1st 4 months of her passing.  He let it go because he claimed he never wanted to assume responsibility of the home as if my mom did but I digress before this becomes a bash my dad rank. Presently it’s at risk of foreclosure and he only told us last year how much debt he was in and what hadn’t been paid. All at the beginning of the pandemic mind you.
so the home is also in need of repairs as he hasn’t attempted any maintenance since her passing and had fought us tooth and nail whenever we’ve offered help.
He said he can live in an adult living center and at this point I am in agreement with him.
He has proven himself irresponsible and unfit to maintain the home.
All I want is for the home my mother worked so hard to keep to be kept in our family (my sisters and I)
It would cost $85,000 to get her home back to its glory and that includes repairs.
My sisters and I work, but there isn’t much left to invest into my mother’s home after catering to our own expenses. Any donation would be greatly appreciated and none are too small. I know realistically I may never meet this goal, but it doesn’t hurt to ask. Also, I can’t miss what I’ve never right?
I’m also not against receiving prayers or sound advice so that my sisters and I can organize our own finances to reach this goal while we have some time. If you read this to the end thank you for your time. I know time is precious and I appreciate you spending a little of it to read what I have to say.
Thank you and bless you.

my paypal link is

paypal.me/chantoldc

 

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Home repair catchup

The derecho storm on 08/10/2020 caused significant damage to our home and automobiles. The repair cost for home repairs skyrocketed for everything; materials, labor, insurance, mortgage, etc. Right in middle of dealing with this natural disaster and the change in our cost of living, the whole family was diagnosed with covid-19. Fortunately, none of us needed hospital care, but there was a loss of wages. I am in the middle of a back-and-forth with the insurance company and the contractor about what is covered and who pays for it. There is a catch-22 because we can change insurance to a more reasonable rate but the house needs to repaired in order to change insurance companies. Interestingly, when I called the insurance company to find out specifically why it increased SO much, the agent stated, “I have never seen THIS much of an increase to coverage costs.” Of course, it didn’t make me feel any better.

We are getting dangerously close to losing our home because we do not have the necessary funds to cover the repairs and the sudden increase in bills. $20,000 is our goal and will go to nothing but repairs and bills we are behind on.

We are just trying to get our heads above water and get our lives back to normal. Anything would be appreciated and once we can breathe again, we will start paying it forward immediately.

Thank you for your time and your much needed help,

Darrin

https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/DarrinW54

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Please Help Me Save My Home!!

Hello and thank you for taking the time to read this.

If I am here asking for help, because I am desperate.

My parents bought their first home in 8/1989. My father worked so hard to purchase the home. We Refinanced our home to fix our home and of course to pay off credit cards but just to use them again. Leaving a hug balance on mortgage snd payment. My moms health started to deteriorate as years passed and so did my fathers. One day my father woke up not able to swallow and took him to ER to find out he had cancer and only had 3 months to live. He was diagnosed with stage 4 gallbladder cancer. My father passed away and my mother of course from her health and her severe depression of loosing her lifetime partner passed away too.  leaving me to hold and pay for this house.  Still here doing as best I can. The house grew older and needs work but it’s where we live. Covid hit I lost my job and With this said I have backed my home payment for the total amount of $13,621.21. I was told that my home won’t sell until June of 2021. I am petrified!!!!! I don’t know where I will live with my nephews and nieces.

I worked hard and I live pay to pay. I don’t live in luxury, I don’t have my nails or hair or makeup done to be able to pay my debts,  But this one just takes the cake. I don’t know how I’ll ever be able to pay for it knowing that the bank won’t lend me anything because I have not good credit. I don’t want to lose this home my dad and mom loved so much. My nephews and niece that live with me are aware of our situation and their anxiety level has hit. They are with me because my sister is not able to care for them. This is the only home they ever have known and so has mine but I hide it to protect them.  I am so exhausted from having been strong all these years for my family, I don’t have the strength anymore to keep fighting.

So if you find it in your heart to help out with anything that your able to, and putting a smile and take away the nightless sleeps on some faces, I would be forever grateful to you. You can donate

at: https://www.paypal.com/donate?business=L7KD8SXHHWGPJ&item_name=Please+Save+My+Home%21%21&currency_code=USD

Anything helps and all donations will be thanked for personally.

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Catching up on bills post covid

6C9F162B-3428-467B-9312-536C223700B0.jpegSo a little back story on my situation: I worked for a small privately owned medical company. We stayed open throughout the beginning of the pandemic but had to cut back the longer the pandemic lasted. Luckily I didn’t lose my job at first but I did get laid off then lost my job due to the COVID pandemic a few months ago when company couldn’t sustain anymore with loss of revenue and shut down. I had a okay nest egg I thought but that lasted only a few months but ran out quicker than I thought it would. My parents that are a little older ended up catching the virus and I had to take care of them for awhile because they did not recover as quickly as some other people did and had a few long lasting effects from the virus. And they both lost their jobs at the beginning of the pandemic when everything shut down and so I’m also trying to help them stay afloat also and I am doing okay but need a little help right here near what I hope is the end of all of this pandemic situation. My house bill is six hundred and fifty dollars a month and my vehicle bill is two hundred and fifty dollars a month both of these were under the forgiveness program due to the pandemic but since the world is starting to open back up slowly but surely. The banks are not being lenient anymore and want a payment as soon as possible. I need three thousand dollars to get caught back up on these two bills and make a payment on my medical bills from when I caught COVID from taking care of my parents. I am getting things back caught up and getting back to a new type of normal. I was able to finish up some college classes and was able to get a new job. I start orientation for the new job in two weeks but will still not have a actual paycheck for the next month. So it is will not be in time to help me get caught up. But I am trying not to lose my house or car and am trying to get some help to help me get caught up. I know I should of asked for help before things got this far but no one could predict how this pandemic would affect them and that it would go on this long. Any help is appreciated and I hope that when I get caught up on my bills to pay any help I receive forward.

my PayPal is paypal.me/ashleyfar529

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Need Help To Save Family Home

Hello and thank you for taking the time to read this.

If I am here asking for help, it’s simply because I am pretty much desperate.

My parents bought their first home in July 1996. 2 weeks after moving into their dream home, my Mom passed away unexpectedly at the age of 47, leaving us all behind in huge grief. I was barely 18 and was left with younger siblings to raise and a father to carry through his grief. My siblings took some wrong turns and my father finally got fed up and moved across the world, leaving me alone to hold and pay for this house. I grew into adulthood having to figure it all out by myself.

25 years later, I am still here with my children, doing as best I can. The house grew older and needed work. However, we were floored to find out that our main drain was severely damaged by some huge tree roots and we had no other alternative but to replace the whole thing after we had sewer backup in the basement. I couldn’t possibly raise my children in such hazardous conditions.

Last week, we finally had the drain replaced. And then came the bill. $10,000. I cried so much. I work my butt off and I live pay to pay. I don’t live in luxury, I don’t have my nails or hair or makeup done to be able to pay my debts and feed my kids. But this one just takes the cake. I don’t know how I’ll ever be able to pay for it knowing that the bank won’t lend me anything until I bring my debts substancially down. But the contractor won’t wait and I don’t want to lose this home my mom loved so much even though she only got to live in it for 2 weeks. My children are aware of our situation and their anxiety level has hit an all-time high. And so has mine but I hide it to protect my children. I am so exhausted from having been strong all these years for my family, I don’t have the strength anymore to keep fighting.

So if you have some spare money you want to put into making someone’s life a little easier, and putting a smile on some faces, I would be forever grateful to you. Anything helps and all donations will be thanked for personally.

You can donate here: https://paypal.me/dina1978?locale.x=en_US

Thank you for reading me, and God bless you for helping people.

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Single Mother Seeking Assistance

Hello, I need your help!

I am a single mother humbly seeking financial assistance in the amount of $50,000.00. This money will go towards saving my home from the bank foreclosure, home repairs and school fee payment’s.

A few years ago I lost my job. Things started to get a bit hard our economy had taken a hit and unemployment was high. It wasn’t easy but I was getting by. After a year we took a hit from hurricane Dorian that left us devestated. Over 50% of the population became unemployed. To add to the matter one year later without recovering as yet came Covid.  

I’ve never been a person that ask for help. God has always blessed me to be able to take care of my own and others in need. So finding myself here is not easy but it’s my last option. As a mother I have to find away to keep a roof over my kids head, food on the table and see to it that they are safe and healthy and have a good education but I feel as if I am losing this battle to do so. I don’t know where else to turn.

I am in trouble with the bank. My mortgage is behind the interest has surpass the actual loan amount. My payoff balance is approximately 200k. I was connected with some people who wanted to assist me in repairing my roof after hurricane Dorian. The estimate for the repairs was over thirty thousand. They knew the situation with my house and the bank and didn’t want to risk putting the money into the house only for it to be repossessed. So they told me to find out if the bank would accept the repairs money and forgive the balance of my loan in order to save my home. I went in to the bank they told me to put the proposal in writing which I did. Before the hurricane my house was insured. I was able to claim on the insurance to repair my home in the amount of 26K. The bank took the entire check and held it towards my mortgage. They have accepted the proposal and agreed for the 35k to be paid. Now because of this pandemic the offer to assist me is no longer available for me. The bank is now waiting for an update by Friday. 

I have managed to get assistance to fix the roof top eliminating all leakage. The outside roof underneath still need repairs. It has large openings that has become the home for doves. The inside roof is still moldy and need repairs. Due to the hurricane it caused the roof to shift casing the sheetrock to split in the inside ceiling. A total of 13k is needed to complete the repairs. 

My daughter has been out of school for over a year I have been researching online schools for her to finish high school in order for her to get her diploma and two thousand dollars will allow her to complete her course. Between the money for the bank, repairs and school that’s a total of $50,000. 

During these past few years we’ve been through a lot. We have lived with no light, water and most times struggling to find something to eat. Regardless of it all I give God thanks because we still have life. 

So I ask you, if you are in a position to help us please do so and may the blessing of the Lord rest upon. You can send a donation via PayPal: https://paypal.me/connect2alpha?locale.x=en_US

I’m not allowed to put personal information on here. I will attach as much info as i can without revealing personal info. If you want to reach out after making a donation you can send me a message through PayPal and i will respond. Thank you in advance for any assistance rendered. https://paypal.me/connect2alpha 

My location is not listed as an option so I picked the nearest one.

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Home. Single Mom

Hi everyone. I honestly hate to be on here begging people to help me financially, I just don’t know what else to do. I’ve been trying to buy the home me and my kids are currently living in (thanks to the seller being a great guy) for about a year. I finally found a lender that would give me a VA loan for this home. Then last minute after I thought I was getting close to getting things rolling he goes from telling me I should only have about $700 out of pocket to over $6000. I hate to beg like this, but if I don’t have the funds by February 19th me and my kids will have to move out of our home and I can’t afford to rent anything around here. I’m employed, but definitely don’t make alot. My paychecks get spent on rent, food and daycare. I know I’m not the only person that struggles and there are definitely people out there who are 10 times worse off than me. I just really need the help so we don’t lose our home. I would gladly make payments to pay anyone back if asked. Thank you for taking the time to read this

paypal.me/strauch1021

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Asking for Generational Wealth

Hello All,

I’m a “get to the point” person. As of today, I’m looking for 743,563.61 in order to pay off my debt. Do I have a unique testimony that will fill your heart with sorrow? No. My goal is not to provide you insight on my past trials and tribulations but to provide you a vision on what your investing in. You are investing in a husband, father, brother and son that will change the financial outlook within his family for generations to come. I know that is a bold statement but here is my blueprint.

  1. Always put GOD first
  2. Be thankful and grateful
  3. Stay humble
  4. Live for something bigger than myself
  5. Overcome my ego

These are the rules that I live by. If you can see my vision, invest in me so my family tree can reap the seeds that I’m sowing. Be Blessed and thanks for investing our future.

paypal.me/AsherStone