Hello and thank you for reading my story. I can’t even believe it has come to this. Please I am on my knees begging for help. I have done everything I know to do to try and catch up but I just can’t get ahead. I lost my job and I have used all my savings and don’t have anything left. I also had a death in the family that put an extra burden on my situation. I am behind on everything and just had to flat out quit paying any bills except for the essentials, water, and electric. I have always helped out in the church and in the community whether it be financially or through service work, and now I am begging for help because my situation is dire. I have some major medical bills from my wife and my son’s illnesses. My wife has some major medical issues which is why she can’t work and help out and the bills keep piling up. I am doing odd jobs on the side trying my best to keep us afloat but it’s just not cutting it. I’ve cut all the unnecessary expense out of my household such as cable and anything else I don’t have to have. We are struggling to try and eat and still pay the mortgage so that my family isn’t out on the street. I am going to lose my house and everything else if I don’t come up with some money here real soon. I’m don’t have anywhere else to turn and I’ve never done this kind of thing or asked for help before but I am absolutely desperate for help or I wouldn’t be here asking. I know there are still a lot of good people in the world and I’m asking you to please find it in your heart to please help out a struggling family. These circumstances have hit me all at once and were beyond my control and now I’m about to be screwed and my wife and son and I are going to be homeless. I am so stressed out I can’t even sleep at night because of the worry of tomorrow. Please help any way you can. I don’t know what else to do. Please help my family, I will be forever grateful and will return the favor when I get back on my feet. Thank you and God Bless you for your generosity you don’t know how much this means to our family.
My name is Kayla, i’m currently 20 years old and I need some help quickly.
In July 2018 my Grandmom (who raised me since I was born) passed away from cirrhosis of the liver. My grandfather (who also raised me since birth) passed away in 2006 of ALS. They were my parents, following the fact my mother and father were both severe drug addicts. I have not had contact with either of my biological parents since I was 10/11 since they are both still addicts with thoughts of trying to get help.
Following the passing of my grandmother, our house we lived in went up for foreclosure since I am unable to pay the mortgage each month. I went to college in the fall and was attempting working full-time, but was still unable to keep up with the bills. I currently don’t have a car, since the one I was using was my grandmothers and the loan company she had it with repossessed it a month or so after her passing was announced.
I have family members, though none of them contact me or answer me if I contact them, since i’m too much of a burden for them to help. None of them have returned my calls or texts about me being removed from the property.
I lost my job a few months ago because I was unable to keep up with the payments for taxis/ubers/lyfts and the drive was 40/50 minutes, so walking was very complicated. I have applied to other jobs since then but there is an issue with most place with me not being able to drive.
I’m not sure when exactly i’m being kicked out of the home, currently the loan company doesn’t think anyone occupies the home so i’m currently considered a ‘drifter’ so they can kick me out at any time. I have received multiple notices in the mail, the one I attached up there is the first notice I received.
I hate asking for money, but I really really need help. I don’t want to end up not having any place to live. Any sort of money will help me to put a payment on an apartment so I have some place to stay.
Thank you so so much for reading this. paypal.me/kaylaskarsgard05
Hi there, so I never thought I would be here asking for help but here I am. I recently lost my job, naturally I was already behind on bills. Now add recently unemployed and you can imagine Im just getting deeper and deeper into the whole. I checked my mail today and there was a letter from my mortgage company telling me that they are getting ready to start the foreclosure process, the only way I can stop it is if I can get $1,700 to cover what I’m behind. On top of that right before I lost my job I took out three small personal loans to help me get caught up, only problem is I cant afford those now because I don’t have that income coming in. I didn’t want to get the loans to begin with because they are very very very high interest loans. But those were the only ones I could get because my credit score is so low. Those loans are around $6,000 all together. Not to mention I have my regular utilities and car insurance (which the car insurance just got dropped due to not having the funds to pay it)…. it’s like I’m being drug down a pit that is spiraling out of control, I literally feel like I’m drowning. It’s at a point where even if I got a job offer tomorrow I still wouldn’t be able to catch up. I NEED HELP, I am a hard worker and I’m trying everything to get back stable. But until then I don’t know what else to do… Help?? I added a picture of me and my husband, I don’t have any pictures of my bills uploaded to my computer or else I would for proof if that’s what you need.
this is the link paypal gave me, anything at all would be very much so appreciated you have no idea. Thank you so much in advance.
Forclosure Could Cause Me To Lose My Home And My 9 Year Old
I worked for over year, building up credit, working with my Landlords/Mortgage Brokers/Realtors to find the perfect house I could afford…once I signed on it and took a new job of course. Honestly, it was a risk, I knew the things they were telling me to do before closing like, “Only use cash for a month straight,” and “You can’t show any bills coming out of that account until I give the Okay,” were what one might politely call “creative” and maybe not so politely call “illegal” but I liked them and truly felt they were trying to help me so I did what they said and I was approved, started the new job, moved in and things were amazing!
Until I was fired three months later due to a car accident and having to take some time off work. I was out of job for just shy of a month, in that time I fixed my transportation issue and was hired in at an even higher rate by my current employer.
Things were going great again until my son came down with Influenza A otherwise known as the Bird Flu and I was forced to take three unpaid weeks off to provide care for him.
Shortly after my son recovered, his father and I ended up back in child custody court due to the fact that he owes me over $5000 in backed child care costs. Although we hope to resolve the issue in front of a judge exactly one month from today, I am now so behind on my still less than a year old mortgage that I am in active foreclosure and I fear that if my son’s father finds out he will use my forclosure status as leverage to pursue full custody and ask the judge to forgive his arrears.
So this is my last ditch effort to save my home and continue to give my son the stability, love and care I have since he was born. I have exhausted all other avenues at this point as I was not unemployed long enough to qualify for state funded programs and my mortgage is to young to qualify for a modification. My only hope left is you, and the faith that you will find it in your hearts to assist me in raising the $9000 the bank needs for a mortgage reinstatement.
This is where I planned to raise my child, this is the home that he loves and the community he has always known. I know there is an angel out there somewhere who will bring peace to this single mom’s heart and a home full of joy and comfort to her nine year old boy, maybe that angel is you?
A few years ago my father was terribly ill and had to stop working. Unfortunately, he is now at an age where no one will hire him, and my mother is too sick to work too. I am spending all of my time supporting them, paying for our home, the bills, food everything. Right now, our cupboards are empty, I have had to work with a debt company to help, but I still haven’t got enough money to make ends meet, the bills keep coming. I have dropped out of school and got a full time job, which I am struggling to afford to get to. Things have gotten so bad I have even considered selling pictures online. I’m lost and I don’t know what to do any more.
My PayPal link is https://paypal.me/Sianny269
Hello all who are reading this.. I am a 27 year old female who is a power engineer and I have worked extremely hard to get to where I am, that being said I’ve never so much as asked my parents for any help and paid for my student loans last year after working 40 days straight 12 hour shifts. I’ve been out in the cold – 35 for over 4 hours working and helping solve plant issues like frozen flares. I’ve always have been super independent and I’m struggling right now this month has been quite difficult for me as I have a trailer back in Alberta and have payments on it and made a life decision to move to Vancouver my company did not give me relocation allowance so everything was out of pocket including giving my dad $800 to help me move and paying for a Uhaul and then because I have a husky getting a place I could rent with him giving a large damage deposit for myself and him. I moved here to be close to family and friends in Vancouver and it is extremely difficult this month as my company pushed back my starting date so I haven’t gotten a cheque in a while and have to pay off my credit card and make car payments and transfer my insurance and drivers license over and even my education ticket everything is adding up. Even my mail forwarding was $75 for 4 months and it’s sad because I wouldn’t ask anyone for help well because my family isn’t that well off right now either to help me. I’m a little bit saddened by how hard I work and I took architectural technology before even and got scholarships but I wanted to go into power engineering but my mom wouldn’t allow me at the time because girls don’t go into power is what she said. I would just really appreciate a little bit of assistance for this month to get me through this financially tough time. Thank you much for any help available. I’ve been trying to sign up for any contest available hoping someway I can have a little bit of help. As you can see in my picture I owe more on my visa then I currently have in my account and don’t know how I am going to get through the month.
8 years ago, I ran a successful towing company, I was happily married, nice house paid off, healthy animals, and in good health.
Today, my wife is dead, my family pets are sick, my house is in foreclosure and my business was shut down by the competition. I was injured, severely in my back, i have been alone since 2014 and I’ve worked 2 labor jobs just to keep the power on and the household fed.
I have battled cancer, civil court by the competitors, and a multitude of incidents out of my control.
I have a 4 year old girl, 3 dogs and a cat that depend on myself to keep a roof over there head.
I have an enormous amount of references of the person I am and can prove everything I claim.
I have had more vet bills and sanctions lodged against me in the last 4 years than I can possibly name. I spent my entire savings on defending myself in 3 lawsuits against myself that were eventually dropped against me after 8 years and a total cost of $400,000.
I need help to get myself above water.
Below is kinda what happened to me by the competition that started my spiral downfall. Illinois Justice is just horrible.
I will be homeless in 3 months. I have no insurance on my truck, and I am out of money completely for myself and the dogs in less than a week.
Life is not easy for people like me. I’ve always been good and honest with everyone, but it seems like they are hardly going through a lifetime. I got a job. I worked and I did my best to do the best I could for the success of the company, but no one appreciated it. I’ve absorbed so much energy and knowledge in vain, and I think I was old enough before the time in that company.
And after all, I was fired in my 47th year. And then there are even bigger problems. I do not have money for basic things. And of course I’m falling into depression and every day I fight for survival and so here are 4 years. Family problems in society begin. My friends leave me and I am alone to fight the windmills. During that period, my brother dies, and I fall into depression more and more, because I felt as if a part of me disappeared.
I’m trying to get some money, but I’m not young now, and it’s hard to find a job. I did some temporary jobs, but it’s a little profit. I live with my parents who are old and sick and I suffer because I can not help them and we all live hard.
And the worst thing is that our home is endangered because I have a debt to a bank of about 9,000 $ and a court process is nearing completion and I can not pay that debt. While I worked regularly, I paid that loan, but when I was fired I could not pay it anymore. Because of this debt I am in a very difficult psychic state and I think of various things.
In my life I was fat and wanted to help others, but my life played with me, so now I need help and it’s very difficult for me to seek help, but I have no other way out. Good people help how much you can and God keeps you.
Hello, I just got word today that my parents are going into foreclosure. They need $50,000 to keep the home I grew up in and we have lived in the majority of our lives. The house is on a horse acre with 2 ponds and a basketball court. When they first purchased the property it was in very poor condition. My dad spent a lot of his time building and creating an amazing place to live. Our family has always let relatives and friends in need a place to stay for as long as they need.
My dad is the nicest and most caring person I know. Growing up he was a very successful coach. He coached year round (Baseball, Basketball and Soccer) and was a great asset to the community. People have always looked up to him and came to him first for any help.
My mom is amazing and has always been there for my family. She home schooled my sister for the majority of high school and helped her prepare to get her GED. My mom lost a child at birth and I miraculously survived birth myself. I love her and will do anything for her the rest of my life.
I am a music producer. I have annoyed everyone in this house at some point and then some. I wish I could just fork over the money they need but unfortunately I am not as talented as my parents. I was an amazing ball player thanks to my old man.
My sister was diagnosed bipolar; dyslexic, ADHD, manic depressive at an early age. She has done unspeakable things that would normally make a father disown a child. In my opinion her actions have taken a toll on my dad’s better well being and hurt his ability to sell houses.
In 2006 he was selling a state of the art home in Maltby for the 2006 street of dreams. An arson set the green built house on fire leaving my dad and the builder nearly bankrupt (https://www.seattletimes.com/seattle-news/street-of-dreams-arson-echoes-attack-in-06/). They spent all of their time on this home trying to win best in show. All of the hard work and time spent, just gone. My dad has been trying to recover from this since.
This has been a very hectic life for everyone in the family but we always stay positive no matter what. Please help us!
Thank you for anything you will give. God bless,
2019 is the year that I am dedicating to getting out of debt. I have cut up all my credit cards, sold anything of value, am working a second job, and currently am working with a counselor for helping me to stay on track. This past year I have had two major personal issues and it has wreaked havoc with my finances. I separated from a ten year relationship with a man who could not stop drinking or taking drugs and I took care of a friend of over 50 years. I am working on building up my life and becoming healthier mentally and physically for myself and my family. My childhood friend was down on her luck, and then found out she had hydro cephalos (a blockage in her brain). I became her caregiver. I did what anyone would do for a best friend. I took her in and helped any way I could. 12 months have gone by, my friend is on the mend after brain surgery and I am getting around to taking care of myself. My bills have added up to an overwhelming size. Working two jobs and taking care of her have taken a toll on my health and credit. I cannot get approved for a consolidation loan and have no wealthy family member. If you can help me with donations I promise I will pay it forward and help another person in the future as soon as I get a grasp on my own debt. If I could pay my credit cards and house bills with donations then I will be able to breath. I would be able to get my mortgage and car loans current, as well as continue helping my friend as she recovers from brain surgery. Please help me on my journey to better health, debt reduction and taking care of myself for a change. I am grateful for any help. Thank you in advance for your generosity and the faith that by doing good for others is what makes us human.
My name is Crystal, and I am 32 years old. I Co-Own a small business located in Russell, Ks with my partner Justin.
My HOME is in FORECLOSURE, and up for a SHERIFF’S SELL next week!!!!
I am in desperate need of help PLEASE! I have no one to turn to as of now, thus the reason why I’m begging. I have considered bankruptcy, but can’t seem to go through with filing.
I have worked hard all my life, and finally was able to buy my first home in 2017. My home is my safe place, and if I don’t find some type of loan, or financial help then my home is going to be taken from me! It’s extremely devastating to be in this situation.
In order to get my home reinstated it will cost me $5,500.00! That’s also including the lawyers fee.
I wouldn’t normally be in this much financial debt as I always try to pay my bills on time, and have an excellent work ethic.
My extreme hardship just started in September of 2018 when my business partner had to be away for personal family related reasons. He left me (not by choice) to take on our small business storefront alone for two months. Which overwhelmed me financially to the point of not being able to pay my own mortgage at times. Once my partner arrived back to Russell he saw how hard it was on me, so we decided to close the storefront doors to save on over head cost.
Our business has been a successful job printing business that we both started in 2017 together out of pocket. We offer graphic design, graphic website, custom apparel, and products.
Im asking out of the kindness of my own heart for help please. I would never turn to anyone if it wasn’t an emergency situation. I’m always the one who helps people in need, and now that I need help it’s impossible. I just want to be able to breath again please. Anything will help I promise. I will remember to pay it forward when things get better on my end. I’m even willing to earn the money by offering our business services to anyone looking for custom products.
Thank you so much for reading my story. Love, Crystal
I am brave. I am resilient . I have had a spinal cord injury that rendered me paralyzed. I have suffered with trigeminal neuralgia, an illness that causes the worst pain know to mankind . But of all these things the worst thing that I have had to endure is domestic violence. And now it is putting me at risk of loosing my home. What makes the domestic violence the worst, compared to a spinal cord injury and trigeminal neuralgia is being attacked, over-powered and bullied by another person and not being able to stop it. And the attacks are not just physical, they are financial, psychological, and emotional. And the more you try to fight back or defend the harder he attacks. That is what makes domestic violence worse than my spinal cord injury or trigeminal neuralgia.When I was unable to work and at home due to my spinal cord injury an aid would come and shower and dress me a few times a week. It was humbling to be an adult an need to be showered by an adult. But that also made me more determined. I worked hard at home with a therapist and I went from a wheelchair to a walker to forearm crutches with a brace on my leg. I got back to work. It took over a year and a half but I was able to overcome this adversity because so much was in my hands. When I got back to work at the businesses that my husband and I owed and worked together, I discovered that I had been locked out via password of all the bank accounts and payroll. Prior to my injury, I had brought in 90% of the revenue and handled all of the finances. As I continued to work again I went right back up to being the main revenue stream but was still locked out of all the finances. I did not receive a paycheck either, only my husband did. When I would question him he would say “it doesn’t matter, we are married” or he would get violent with me.
A few years after being back to work I developed another illness called trigeminal neuralgia “TN”. It causes intense electric shock pain in the area of the face and mouth.
There is no greater pain known to exist in medicine than the pain of TN. It is caused by inflammation, trauma, or compression of the trigeminal nerve in the brain. There is no cure for the disease. My TN is atypical in that when it flares and the nerve fires it does not fire for a few seconds but for hours at a time days days at a time. Sometimes I can go two weeks without eating drinking or speaking. TN is also called “suicides disease” because the pain is so unbearable-it has the highest rate of suicides of any illness. And yes, as bad as TN is, enduring domestic violence is worse.
After the abuse continued in my marriage I filed for divorce. I didn’t know at the time that this is often the most volatile time for the victim. As the victim tries to pull away the abuser is loosing the thing he loves to control–and lashes out more. And he did.
I started my own company and he was able to “socially engineer” the employees to disconnect my business phone, and he hacked my website and had my business email shut down. My customers thought that my business closed. I lost so many customers. That was just one of a list of many things done to financially harm me. It took me six years to get divorced. He told me “I’m not going to give you a divorce, I am going to make you live in misery”. Over the six years were were in and out of court so much. I had hired separate corporate lawyers to try and get payroll and access to the accounts from the company, but by the time it got to court there was nothing left. I lost everything.Even after the divorce was final there were so many legal fees trying to hold him in contempt. I had a protective order and there were legal fees for obtaining and enforcing that.
It has been six years of being run through the courts. With my trigeminal neuralgia I have missed a significant amount of time from work that I do not get paid for. With all of the missed pay and legal fees I am financially drained and have fallen behind on my mortgage. The bank has file a pre-foreclosureproceeding. My house has special modifications to help with my disability. I work in health care. I devote my life to helping others. I have worked so hard to over come so much but I don’t know how to over come this. I am working 6 days a week. I appreciate any financial help anyone can give to keep me in my home. Thank you.
Please forgive the multiple request submission. I missed including the PayPal Me Link and was unable to edit/locate upload after submission.
What I’m doing with regards to reaching out for financial assistance is very hard for me, but I find it very necessary as I have run out of options for saving my home and ensuring the well-being of my elderly parents.
Requested Amount: $10,000.00 instead of the $13,000+ needed
Requested by Date: 1/27/2019 (any day before foreclosure sale date)
Payments Can be Received via:
- PayPal Me Link: me/helpingmyparents
- Equal amount of products delivered to you when ordered online: MySweetScentsations.com
I have been the sole support for my family (parents and sister). I am the go to person for everyone in my family. And while I’ve been in a position to assist most of my families caregiving needs, I have allowed that support to put me in jeopardy of losing my home.
No, I did not get behind on my mortgage as a result of job loss, divorce or sudden death in the family. My financial dilemma is because of my not saying no to my parents when they were facing eviction and other family members experiencing some sort of issue. I was sure that the income I had coming in would be able to support my giving, but there were several unexpected financial obligations that came up resulting in more bills than the money I had to pay: $1,100 utility bills, $24,000 MD state tax bill, $19,000 IRS bill (which payment arrangements have been made and continue to be paid timely)
While I do have the means to maintain consistent and on-time payments for my mortgage, I do not have the means to bring my mortgage current. Currently, I will need to provide my lender with $13,110.00 to bring my note current and re-establish on-time payments beginning February 1.
I am aware this is a lot to ask of any one person to provide assistance to a stranger. With the exception of filing bankruptcy which is the last result I wanted to reach out here for donations or a one-time pay it forward type of help from this community. I am a hard working person and have NEVER asked anyone for help, so this is extremely hard for me. But my goal here is to stay in my home and have it to move my parents in beginning March 1st.
If you find it in you to help with saving my home, I would be very grateful and even willing to pay what I can back through structured payment plan or by providing any donations received with equal amounts of products from my bath, body, spa, and home fragrant business.
While I am not in active foreclosure, it is my hope that I am able to provide the current balance of 13,110 due before February 1 or foreclosure filing by my lender.
Any assistance is appreciated.
PayPal Me Link: paypal.me/helpingmyparents
It is extremely difficult gathering my thoughts and putting them in writing for all to see.
Because I have pretty much tried everything possible to get my situation turned around lead me to this site in hopes to obtain the monies necessary to prevent foreclosure. That amount is $13,110.00.
I cannot say that I lost my job, I experienced a divorce or even fail behind as a result of accelerating mortgage. My dilemma was solely based on me caring for my elderly parents who did not ha e enough income of their own to cover their household expenses and providing for other family members.
At the time of providing this continued help to my family members I received several unexpected bills.
I have been the go to person in my family for years. I’ve always been in a position to help them unfortunately I’ve helped so much that it has resulted in me not being able to maintain my commitment with my my own expenses and keep up with mortgage payments.
This donation will help me to maintain my home and have a place for my parents to officially move into so they no longer have to struggle. My income is sufficient to maintain mortgage payments. I just need the help to get back on track and current to avoid foreclosure.
I have submitted a loss mitigation package to my lender, but I learned today the request was denied. While the lender has indicated I can file an appeal within 10 or bring mortgage current, the reality is I have no means to pay the amount due.
I purchased my 1st house at the age of 29 and was forced out of my home when I lost my job. It has taken me 17 years to be in a position to purchase again and the pain of not being able to save my home or care for my elderly parents hurts.
I appreciate any assistance.