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Home. Single Mom

Hi everyone. I honestly hate to be on here begging people to help me financially, I just don’t know what else to do. I’ve been trying to buy the home me and my kids are currently living in (thanks to the seller being a great guy) for about a year. I finally found a lender that would give me a VA loan for this home. Then last minute after I thought I was getting close to getting things rolling he goes from telling me I should only have about $700 out of pocket to over $6000. I hate to beg like this, but if I don’t have the funds by February 19th me and my kids will have to move out of our home and I can’t afford to rent anything around here. I’m employed, but definitely don’t make alot. My paychecks get spent on rent, food and daycare. I know I’m not the only person that struggles and there are definitely people out there who are 10 times worse off than me. I just really need the help so we don’t lose our home. I would gladly make payments to pay anyone back if asked. Thank you for taking the time to read this

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Asking for Generational Wealth

Hello All,

I’m a “get to the point” person. As of today, I’m looking for 743,563.61 in order to pay off my debt. Do I have a unique testimony that will fill your heart with sorrow? No. My goal is not to provide you insight on my past trials and tribulations but to provide you a vision on what your investing in. You are investing in a husband, father, brother and son that will change the financial outlook within his family for generations to come. I know that is a bold statement but here is my blueprint.

  1. Always put GOD first
  2. Be thankful and grateful
  3. Stay humble
  4. Live for something bigger than myself
  5. Overcome my ego

These are the rules that I live by. If you can see my vision, invest in me so my family tree can reap the seeds that I’m sowing. Be Blessed and thanks for investing our future.

paypal.me/AsherStone

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Need help paying bank loan

My name is Dan Olsen and I’ve been struggling with major depression and anxiety for 10+ years and it’s only been getting worse. Really don’t know how I’ve made it this far as I am 32 years old now. I think a lot of it stems down from my up bringing. This is were I think it’s best to start. When I was born I got stuck inside my mother while she was giving birth to me, and doctors had to perform an emergency c-section. When the doctors administered the anesthesia my mother she was almost killed due to the fact that the oxygen for the inhaled anesthesia never turned on and she flat lined while I was still inside her. Somehow they managed to bring her back to life and get me out but I wasn’t breathing and my mother was now in a coma. they eventually got me breathing and had to be put in a incubator for the first 3 months or so of my life. My mother wasn’t so lucky, she was in a coma and doctors feared she might die. By some miracle she woke from her coma 2 month’s later but now has permanent brain damage and short term memory loss, it kills me inside everyday to know I can’t do anything to help her get better and give her a normal life. She turned 63 this year and lives in an elderly care living facility the next town over, so I don’t get to see her much due to the fact of being broke, and in debt without proper means of transportation to go see her. I do talk to her on the phone and video chat but it’s just not the same.

I was lucky enough to have two loving grandparents that raised me in their home, our father was never there, so they decide to take on the role of my parents while also taking care of my mother and fraternal twin brother. At a very young age I struggled in school, I got held back a year in kindergarten, even with tutors to help me I didn’t advance as quickly as the other children. I had terrible anger issues, ADHD, trouble making friends, acting out, eventually was kicked out of school in first grade. At my next school I still struggled with the same issues and was brought to multiple psychiatrist who just put me on Zoloft but I still struggled all the same and was in special education all through Elementary School.

Love my grandparents very much but it takes a toll on a young kid mentally when your grandfather is verbally and a physically abusive drunk. He could be nice at times but as soon as he started drinking literally every night the worst would come out of him, calling my brother and I piss ants, and little bastards, little shits, fucking bastards, all while he would walk past our room to refill his glass with another Vodka Martini over and over until he was drunk enough to pass out and go to bed. I knew just about every swear word in the book by the time I was 8 years old. My grandmother and mother would here it too but what could they do.

Middle school and high school was not much different than elementary school except the fact that I wasn’t on medication or seeing psychiatrist anymore. Still needed a lot of tutoring and made it through to the next grade with good enough grades to get by to the next one. Eventually graduating not knowing what to do with my life. Starting working this job or that dead end job only to be let go or fired. all the while my mental health just kept getting worse and feeling worthless and not good enough. Back taking medications but they don’t really help too much. I feel like I’m on my last leg and getting worse by the day. Don’t have any family to help me as my Grandparents are dead and that’s all I ever really had to help me. I miss them more and more everyday at times I think I’d be better off dead, I’ll just be one less burden in this cruel world we live in.

I’m now in a lot of debt to the IRS around $4000, the bank loan on my house around $18’000, behind on property taxes, and utilities doesn’t help either. I live in Wisconsin, and Winter is here. The anxiety and depression is gotten so bad I can’t even hardly be out in public anymore unless I absolutely have to be, like to get medications or food. I only can get those things because I’m now on food benefits from the state, and healthcare benefits from the state. I’m only one late payment away before the bank starts a foreclosure on my home. Please if anyone can find it in their heart to help a poor soul like me please help.

Thank you for taking the time to read this, IMG_20201204_153312.jpgGod bless you.

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Please help me

**Note: If you don’t have a genuine intention to help, if you intend to deceive and give false hope and demand/steal money from me, PLEASE don’t even bother to get in touch with me!
If you are claiming to want to help but are really just trying to scam me to pay for a “refundable fee”, again PLEASE don’t even bother – I once fell into this trap because I naively believed in the “well-being” of a person who assured me he/she wanted to help, and in the end I paid dearly for it.

Hi,
My name is Yerkebulan , I’m from Europe.
I want to emphasize that I feel uncomfortable doing this, but I am in a really difficult situation where I urgently need your help, because my family and I are going through a difficult time.

I lost my job in March because of the current situation (pandemic).
I worked/had a part-time job, and as a result I was struggling to pay my bills, rent and to buy food.
I tried to save some money, and have, but because I lost my job I had no choice but to spend it to survive the last couple of months.
I was forced to move back with my parents.
I am unemployed, my father is retired, my mother receives a disability allowance, and that hardly covers all the expenses (bills, food, health insurance).

My parents and I are in a tough situation because we are being sued for territory and plots by my uncle.
My father started building the house in the late 1970s, my uncle (his brother) joined him in the early 1980s. The house was completed in the late 1980s. But the relationship between the two changed for the worse when uncle’s partner moved in in 1991.
My father lived with his family on the first floor and my uncle and his partner lived on the ground floor. But uncle’s partner decided at the beginning of moving into the house that she was the owner of the house, even though she had not invested anything in the construction and furnishing of the house. Despite having a common entrance to the house and a common yard, we lived in conflict until 1997; you can only imagine what it was like every day.
When both realized that it was no longer possible to live like that, they decided to divide the common property. Upon the division of the co-ownership, they both arranged all the documents in agreement, each becoming the owner of half the house and the land around the house.
We lived in “peace” for almost 14 years. But everything changed about 9 years ago when my uncle started to listen to his partner’s demands to take as much property as possible, the one that my father is the rightful owner. Uncle and his partner have been suing us since 2011, because they claim that my father has a larger share of the house, even though my uncle has 65% and my father 35%, which is confirmed from the land register. The court rejected their lawsuit each time. But last year, in 2019, because my uncle’s lawyer bribed a judge, the court “gifted” him parts of the plots my father is the legal owner of.
We need to hire a very good lawyer as soon as possible, but that does not come cheap.
Due to all the lawsuits that have been going on for 9 years, we have accumulated a considerable debt that is difficult to repay.
Also, I have a student loan which is not fully repaid.

I know this is too much to ask, especially with everything that is happening, and a lot of people have lost their jobs, but we are in need of a total of 20.000 EUR.

To get back on our feet we would need at least 5.000 EUR; but any amount would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you in advance to all of you who took the time to read my request for help (I know I wrote the whole essay, but I wanted to describe in detail the situation my parents and I are in), but to those of you who chose to donate, words cannot describe my gratitude.

All the best,
Yerkebulan

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HELP US KEEP OUR HOME PLEASE!

Hello, friends.

Many of you already know us, but for those of you who don’t, Damian and I are working artists based in the Kansas City area. We have been performing together for over a decade (and separately for much longer). We are clowns, burlesque champions, actors, emcees, and more. We have been married for almost a decade, as well… To each other, even! We live in a bungalow in KC, just north of the river, with our two cats, two dogs, and sixteen-year-old son, Owen.

Over the last year, Damian has had several different health issues manifest. Gradually, and frighteningly, his mental health has suffered, due to a neurological condition that we are still trying to get to the bottom of. He is under treatment for a couple of dove-tailing issues, including hemochromatosis and low-testosterone, and the doctor’s suspicion is that he’s also having temporal lobe focal unaware seizures. These seizures affect emotional regulation and decision making, energy levels, and motor skills, among other things. We just this very day were able to get a prescription for a new epilepsy drug for him to try out, and we have referrals for a sleep study and EEG as soon as our insurance kicks in, in the new year.

As a result of Damian’s declining health and inability to work, he stopped making our mortgage payments. The mortgage is not in my name (as he already owned the house when we met) and I was unaware that he had stopped payments out of the fear and confusion that is a direct effect of this neurological condition.

We are now facing foreclosure on our home. If we can pay the past due amount, we can stop foreclosure and restructure the mortgage, reducing our payments to far less than what we would pay in rent in any other living situation. Paying this past-due amount is our only real option to keep our heads above water, and we are on a tight timeline.

We’ve had a hell of a year, and we are both seeking full-time employment on top of our free-lance work, which includes everything from design to performing to handy-man services and home organizing. I am also now taking care of my mother in her home, as she is recovering from a bout of septic-shock which very nearly killed her, followed by osteomyelitis and colon cancer.

We have a plan. We are going to get on top of these health concerns and financial struggles, but in the meantime, to save our home, we need some help from our friends.

If you can’t donate, please share. We love our friends from all over the world, and we appreciate any way you can lend us a hand during this insane and difficult time in our lives.

PAYPAL LINK paypal.me/BiamAder

I know there are so many people and organizations that need help right now. Thank you for your time and consideration.

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Trying to save my mom’s home

I’ve made a mistake. I’m not going to make an excuse for it. It was incredibly stupid and it’s deservedly cost me a great deal. I can’t practice in the profession I went to school for and I will never be able to. I’ve accepted that. I whole heatedly believe I deserve it. I’ve made what amends I could in this situation and I’ve moved on to the best of my ability. I’m not looking for sympathy or complaining about the cards I basically dealt myself in life. The thing I can’t accept, the part of the whole situation that isn’t fair is how it’s going to have a devastating affect on my mother. My mother who has always done the best to make sure I was taken care of. My mother who raised me to be a far better person than I turned out to be. My mother who kept it together when my father died at just 47 years old. My mother who made sure I still had the opportunity to go to college. My mother who is my best friend and my everything is facing losing her home. The home she and my father bought and paid for together because of my mistake. You see when my father died, his family insisted that my mother open a succession. This simple request all those years ago has come back to haunt every moment of my life right now. My father’s succession gave me (only 17 years old at the time) interest in the house. Half of it became mines. It was always just a thing on paper. It wasn’t something I gave a second thought about. Years later (almost 15 to be exact) I made a mistake. I was sued. I wasn’t completely aware of the ins and outs of the legal system. I had no idea that if I didn’t respond to the lawsuit I wouldn’t just get a court date. That’s what I thought would happen. Instead I learned in an extreme version of the hard way that something called a judgement of default exists. A judgement of default means no judge looks over the case, there is no court date, it’s just taken as a complete acceptance of fault. This is where my nightmare began. Don’t misunderstand. I did call a handful of lawyers when I got the original papers and because I live in a rural area I couldn’t even find one to take me on. I’m not sure I would have had the money to do much but, I would have done something had I known. About a year after my fate was already sealed (unbeknownst to me) I received a letter hand delivered by the police department giving me a court date, not to plead my case but to be judged as a debtor. I called lawyers again and did find someone who could at least look over the papers and tell me what they meant. I met with what is now my lawyer and he explained to me what had happened and told me that I needed to go meet with the lawyer who sent this paper. Because at the time I thought I didn’t own anything my lawyer told me it would be fine. I just needed to explain to them that I take care of my mom and I have no income currently. I went to the court date and the other lawyer was very nice to me. I answered all his questions and I cried more than I should have and at the end he said he would talk to my lawyer to see if we could work out a post judgement settlement. I thought this was a great idea. I honestly wanted the whole thing over and done with. About a week later I was informed the settlement was $71,000.00. I cried. My mom and I talked and we decided with the help of my husband we would refinance my mom’s house. That way everything could be taken care of and my husband and I could just pay the note and everything would be fine. We went through all of the paperwork and the back and forth and ended up with a non-qm mortgage loan. I didn’t have credit almost at all and my husband’s credit wasn’t the best. The note was going to be $800 a month. High but it was doable. Everything was going to be okay. We presented everything to the opposing lawyer and they agreed to give us time to get things done. We were set to close our loan on April 6th. I couldn’t wait. I paid for the new home insurance policy and my requested the 6th off my lawyer knew when we were closing. April 3rd my mortgage officer called and said she had bad news. My mortgage officer was pulling out of non-qm loans. COVID-19 was effecting the stock market too much. My closing wouldn’t go through. I would need to bring up our credit scores and as soon as Louisianan would go back into phase 3 they would come back. At the time she said we’d probably close by the end of the summer. It’s September and they have not gotten in to phase 3. Angel Oak still isn’t doing non-qm loans and I got the call that if I don’t come up with the money by October 14th. My mother will lose her home. This is all my fault. For her part my mom has been calm and reassuring as I continue to lose hope. I’ve never done anything like this before. This has been the absolute most humbling experience of my life. I never in my life thought I’d be in this position. I’ve completely run out of options. I can’t just let my mom be punished for something I did. Please, if there’s anyone out there that could help me or more importantly help my mom please please do. There’s no thank you that would ever be enough.

paypal.me/clcjustme

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Help Our Family to Live Together

Dear Sir/ Madam.

I am sorry to approaching you this way but thank you very much for the kindness to read my letter.

My Name is Chaminda Janaka, my home country is Sri Lanka and currently, I’m in the UAE. I have three kids and currently my wife, my mother, and kids live in Sri Lanka.

I was a businessman and I owned a Motorcycle Sales, Service, and Spare part shop and I performed well. Before three years ago I put an advertisement in a newspaper to recruit an employee to work in my workshop and that destroyed my entire carrier. After seen this advertisement on of the gangsters called me and asked some money to pay him and if I am unable to pay that he said he will kill me. Most good businessmen perform well most of the time face this kind of situation in our country. As requested by him I gave that money to him and did not inform the police as per his orders.

After a few months again he contacted me and asked for more money. It was a big amount and I was unable to pay that amount. After that, he started to threaten me and tried to kill me several times.

Finally, I stopped my all business, relocated my family in a safe place and came to the UAE in March 2018.

That time the job market was down in the UAE and I was unable to find a job for a few months. Finally, I joined an Advertising Company in Dubai as a Storekeeper and due to the crisis they also unable to pay us properly.

Now I work as a restaurant supervisor in a small restaurant and due to the Covid-19, I did not receive our salaries for the last five months.

I started my business by mortgaging my house to the bank. Due to the situations, I faced in the last few years I was unable to pay loan installments to the bank. Now they going to auction my house.

I need to overcome this situation somehow to save my house and live together with the family rest of my life. Any help you can extend to me can make a huge difference for me and my family.

Thank you very much for your kindness.

This is my Paypal Link: paypal.me/gettogetherall

Sincerely

Chaminda

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My suffering wife’s last desire to keep our house.

Dear people,

Me and my partner with our two kids, has lived a happy life the past years. We both bought a house through bank loan. But because of my job I lost 86% of my eyesight, and I lost my job because of that. I tried to find a new job but could not get accepted with this eyesight I had.

My wife is now also suffering from an unknown disease. The doctors says she only has 6 years left of her life. And I feel desperate. Her job is now obviously also gone because of this. Now we are both forced to live with sickness benefits as our income. But we no longer afford paying our bank loan. My wife really liked this house and wants us to keep it no matter what happens. and I was prepared to sell one of my kidneys and use that to pay for a part of the loan. But my kidneys are not as healthy as I believed and did not qualify to be sold.

We had some saved up money, but all that went to monthly medical costs.

During our prime in our life, we frequently helped people we knew who were suffering from economical and health problems. Including relatives aswell as public charities. Now I desperately ask for your kind hearts to help me through this situation.

As of now, $250 000 remain from the bank loan.

Thank you in advance. I wish you all well.

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Need Help to save my home from foreclosure

Hello, I need some desperate help. I have been in the midst of a battle with the person who holds my trust deed. I need to get out of foreclosure ASAP. I have tried negotiating with him and nothing. I continue to help everyone in need while I myself am struggling. My husband was not working for the past 9  months due to an injury and is finally back at work. Please consider this request.

 

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Losing our house

Hi, My name is David I’m 70 years old. My wife Karen is 60 years old and still the love of my life We are about to lose our home. We have lived here for 19 years and love the place. We have 7 Years left on the mortgage but our world has now collapsed around us.

I have worked all my adult life. Served my country in the armed services and never been without a job. When I was 50 I was involved in an accident that damaged my back. I had surgery but still found it hard to continue the work I was used to doing. I tried an office job but had trouble keeping up with what was expected of me as I had been a builder’s laborer and HGV driver since leaving the forces. I was taken on as a part time shelf stacker that paid very little but continued until I retired at 65. At that time, it was OK because my wife had a good job. Her wages and my pension covered everything to do with the mortgage and living expenses but with nothing left over for savings. Last year my wife was made redundant from the company she had been with for 19 years. At 59 years old nobody is willing to give you a job in the sector she worked in. Karen has had 14 interviews with no takers. We are at the point of her redundancy money running out. I have sold every thing I had of any value and other than my state pension and a small amount from the unemployment office we have no other income. We are about to default on the mortgage for the first time ever. The bank has said we will need to keep the payments up to date or after 3 months they will seek possession. We will loose the house we have paid 19 years for. We re-mortgaged 7 years ago for some renovation work that was badly needed so there is no equity in the property so selling it now would not be an option.  We have nowhere to go when we lose the house so I’m asking for help. I have never ask anyone for help before and it took a lot of humble pie to get to this point. I have supported lots of charities over the years only to find now I’m a charity case. Please if anyone out there can help us out while we until we can find an answer to our problem, we will be forever grateful.

God bless you   https://paypal.me/davegb333

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Help for a place I can call “home”

Hi to every kind heart and not only.
My name is Andrea, I’m 27 and I’m living in U.K with my family.
I can not complain about how my life was until now because I would be ungrateful. We was never rich but we always had what to put on the table, what to dress and a roof over our heads.
My family is very traditional and they tried to give me the best education they could. They always told me that I have to be the best in everything and that everything is black or white. That the world is a tough place and I’m not going to succeed if I’m not perfect.
When it was the time to go to the University, I picked Psychology because I always though I’m good with people.
I did 2 years and I dropped it. I needed a job… and in the same time discouraged by other people around saying that is hard to get a job with that degree.
On the other side my friends were saying that I will be a very good psychologist one day hence to the fact that I helped them in their hardest times with good advices and  because of my kind heart as well.
I guess I chose the easy way.
Now I feel sorry because I dropped it…but I feel stuck.
Currently I’m working. I’m not happy with my job, but like I said, I feel stuck. I would like to change the city, the job, my life,everything…but I’m scared, scared of failure.
At the moment I have nobody to talk to. No friends, no boyfriend and my family is never listening to me. They have their own problems..
After giving loads of thoughts about what could make me not feel like this anymore, I realize that I have the same need like the rest of the people in this world, the need of security. And what would assure my security more than a place I can call home?
So here I’m…trying to accomplish my dream with others help as well.
Everything is welcomed. For some of you might mean nothing, but for me is everything. Together we are stronger x
In the end, I would like to say that I like helping people as well in the way I can. So…if anyone needs to talk to someone, needs to be listened or needs a friendly advice, It would be my pleasure. I think we all have a purpose in life, and this one is mine.
Thank you!

https://paypal.me/Acr06

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Family in Need

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Hello my name is Jodie. I am a 40 year old single mama to 3 boys. My boys are 14, 12, and 9. We reside in a small town in Northeast PA. Four years ago my 16 year marriage came to a screeching halt when I discovered that my then husband was having an affair and his mistress was pregnant with his child. My kids needed me, they needed consistency, something/someone they could depend on. The job I had at the time did not allow me to be what my boys needed, so I quit. I now work for myself, able to set my schedule around that of my kids.

     I’m here asking for financial help because I have exhausted all other options and due to Covid-19 and being deemed non-essential, I’m on the verge of losing everything. I have depleted my savings account, I have had zero cash flow since March 13. I filed my 2019 taxes on February 23. The IRS website says they are still processing my return and I will get a Direct Deposit date when available. When I check the status of my stimulus, it says at the current time they can’t determine if I am eligible for the payment. Basically, until my return is processed they are unsure of eligibility. Last Saturday, April 18, PA finally opened the temporary unemployment portal for the self employed. I filed and my claim was accepted and payments will be retroactive, but they will not be disbursed for another 6-8 weeks. I have no money right now, absolutely zero. I can’t afford groceries for my kids. I’m in danger of losing our home. Since I file w/ 1099 misc not a W-2, Chase bank requires my tax transcripts to restructure. My transcripts won’t be available until my refund is processed. The IRS can’t be reached to answer questions at this time. I reached out to Senator Toomey who put me in touch with a tax advocate, who is taking on my case but told me with staff shortages it will be at least a couple weeks until any real progress is made. 

     I’m at such a loss. I feel forgotten. I am at the end of my rope and I’m scared. I’m physically sick and cry all the time. I work hard. I have my whole life. I support my children. I need help and I can’t find any. I beg of anyone who happens to read this,if you can, please help myself and my children. I don’t want my boys to lose more than they already have, but I don’t know how to stop it. This is my Hail Mary, and from the bottom of my heart, I thank anybody who reads this and does what they can to help….from prayers to monetary donations….My boys and I are eternally grateful!

paypal.me/jlfjmo

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Please help me pay for my farm

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Hello,
Please let me introduce myself first…….my name is Monica and I am a struggling older 👩‍🌾 farmer. I have been farming here on this block for forty years and there have been some great times and a lot of not so great times.
Mostly we grow in greenhouses and we produce many delicious vegetables 🌶🍆🥒🍅. When we began farming many years ago my husband and I were mad keen and super industrious. We hand built all our greenhouses by hand and dug the earth with shovel and fork ,I really can’t tell you how hard we have strived over the years.

We are modest people with modest needs so we also built a little house on our farm. We raised two children into adults without ever taking a day off. That’s just normal for farmers.
Over the years we have had some horrible situations which we could not control. Massive dry storms,hail storms ,mini cyclones and the list goes on.

We kept going ,through thick and thin, until the year 2011 when we had the worst flooding event our area in south-east Queensland ever had in its history. We were left basically penniless , within a month of this event my husband was rushed to the hospital with acute liver disease, he was nearly dead but finally he pulled through only to be wracked by illness for the next nine years. We have worked the farm consistently but we have aged ,the repairs haven’t been done due to lack of money and enthusiasm. We have always put on a happy front because what else is there but last Monday a visit to the hospital finally broke the camels back.

My husband was diagnosed with terminal cancer, with just 10 months to live. I have taken on a part time job on a chicken farm to pay for some bills but it is definitely not enough to pay for the bank loan which we have been paying off forever but with no progress in bringing it down. We really didn’t think it could get much worse then Coronavirus showed up.

please, I am embarrassed and ashamed to have to be in this position ,but it is what it is. I am 62 years old anD it will take the rest of my life to pay this loan off. If you could find it in your heart I would really appreciate any amount of money to get me through this horrible time.

I need $35,000

Thank you in advance. Monica grorud.

https://www.paypal.me/MonicaGrorud

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Breast Cancer Patient’s Home Being Foreclosed

Hello and thank you so much for taking the time to read my post.  I am really embarrassed to have to ask for money, but I am about to lose everything and I am going to have to rely upon the kindness of strangers.  I am facing foreclosure.  The financial struggle is getting to be too much.

I was diagnosed with breast cancer last January 2019 and I have been on short term and now long term disability since. I am only making 50% of my salary and the financial struggle is almost getting to be too much.  If I can’t get approved for a modification, I will lose my home.  Please, I don’t have anywhere to go.  I am going to be able to return to work in April, but it is simply too little too late.

Also, lymphedema is now starting in my right arm from the removal of 29 lymph nodes. It is swelling and painful and I am going to receive therapy.  I do have medical insurance, however I have to meet a $1300 deductible before my insurance is really helpful. I really need to get into see the doctor in to do the therapy, however I do not have the money to do so. Any donation would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you.  Please send any donations to paypal.me/hifrmthesky.

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Helping Me Not Lose My Home

In the middle of July my girlfriend Ari and I moved from the Chicago area to Tennessee. It was a very sudden move, and not anything we had ever seen coming. We were fired from our job and given 24 hours to be out of our house at the same time. We had no savings, and the little bit of money we had in our checking account was quickly gone to rent a moving truck. We piled in with our two cats and dog and drove straight to Tennessee to stay with my girlfriend Ari’s sister before crashing after being awake for almost 72 hours straight.

Two days before we moved in, on July 18 2019, Ari’s sister Jaime tripped over a small lip in between the living room and kitchen. She caught herself and thought she had simply rolled her ankle, but when we got here her foot was swollen and bruised, and I took her to the ER. They did an xray and sent her home, saying that nothing was wrong. They said to take Advil and Tylenol for the pain and to just go about her regular life. She went about her life as normal, and two weeks later her foot was black and blue and hurt to step on. She also had a black necrotic wound on her heel. Taking her back to the ER, they told her this time that amputation was likely, but they’d suggest getting a second opinion and suggested seeing the same ortho person that the Tennessee Titans sees. So we took her and were told that he had never seen anything like this in the entire time hes been working, and doesnt know what to do, so to head straight to Vanderbilt’s emergency room.

We sat in the waiting room for hours, but eventually Jaime was admitted to the hospital with a scheduled surgery for the next morning. They reset her foot and put an X-fixator in and kept her for 6 days. When they sent her home they never gave her or us any kind of care tips, only told her not to put weight on it at all, and to come back for a follow up in 2 weeks.

2 weeks later at the follow up they admitted her again, this time because her foot was infected, to the point of having maggots. They did surgery again to remove the infection, including removing some of her skin, and was in for another week. They attached a wound vac onto the wounds on her foot and told us to come in twice a week to have it cleaned and changed. Since then it’s been multiple follow ups and home health aids coming in. Someone had to stay at home with her at all times, and the one car that we have between the 3 of us has to be accessible very often in order to get her to lots of appointments. It was determined that her foot is ultimately unsaveable and was amputated on January 20th. Shell be fitted for a prosthetic in a few months, but until then will be in a wheelchair. This makes it difficult for her to get in and house of the house and car, to and from the bathroom, and makes it difficult for her to go back to work, even though shed like to because shes been out of work since the beginning of August 2019. She was drawing disability from her job, however they stopped paying her that about a month ago. She returned to work February 19, and while she has problems getting around and getting to the restroom by herself is impossible, it was going well. However, her doctor admitted her back into the hospital on Tuesday February 25 due to an infection in her amputation sight. She will have 2 more surgeries to clean it out and be in the hospital for a week or a week and a half before being released and being able to go back to work.

Currently, due to not having much income, we are extremely behind on bills, the worst one being our mortgage. We currently owe almost $4000 in back pay that we have no idea how we are going to pay. We also have March mortgage due soon and are unsure how to pay that either. Jaime will not be receiving pay for the time she is in the hospital, and I have not been able to work due to having to care for her. Ari has been looking for a job and has been unsuccessful in getting hired anywhere. My photo attached is of my mortgage bill.

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