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Last Updated: July 25, 2021

Assistance for hospital bill for my cousin

To Whom It May Concern,

Hello..My name is Mary from Philippines..Im here knocking at your heart to please help us settle the amount for the hospital bill of my cousin Lyn..Lyn is 38 years old and just recently she diagnosed with Guillan Barre Syndrome.. She is pregnant and at 38 weeks she starting to feel weakness, severe backpain & high fever. When we brought her to the hospital her ob told her that her baby has no heartbeat and need to deliver the baby as soon as possible.. She lost her baby..Lyn condition now is a little bit good compared last week.. Because of not enough fund, We transfer her from my one hospital to another (3hospital) Each hospital we have dues that we need to settle. We just signed a promissory note. Right now Lyn still in ICU.. but we are struggling for her day to day medicine that is not available inside the hospital and aside from that her hospital bill is getting bigger & bigger.

Lyn lost her job last year due to pandemic. His husband has work but his salary is not enough to settle all this things. They also have a 14 yr old daughter. Even we shared all the money that we have still its not enough because we are also struggling.

Please help us.. We are struggling and we really need your help please. We love Lyn so much. So please help us. Any amount is highly appreciated.

You can help us thru my paypal.me/maryxpres

Thank you so much in advance 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Sincerely Yours,

Mary

P.S ..i attach here her hospital bill

Last Updated: July 25, 2021

Paying Off my Debts back in Home Country

I am currently in a huge debt of $35k and really need some help to tide me over each month’s payment. I’m going to be very frank with my figures and I really hope anyone of you who took the time to read this can help me in some way or another as i am father of 3 child as well. I am very depressed to get money that i came on this site and asking for help.

My current salary is only $1.5k and I have to pay off each month for my debt. From the past 9 months i am suffering to get even basic needs, which is not sufficient for me to pay both my rental and living expenses (about $600). I have eaten into savings and it is now bare. I really need help to tide this through and even $1 would be useful for me in my current situation.

A little backstory to how I landed myself in this situation. I always try to help people out of the way and placed my trust in my friends who by seeing my savings and good job came to me give me a business proposal for working in Forex markets. They show me the profits of their fake works and trades that my mouth started watering and during the COVID-19 wave, where everyone was suffering with pandemic and financial problems i planned to work on higher investments and i took loans from 3 banks, thinking that my saved money work itself and grow and that I would be able to get it all back within 6 months and pay it off and invested my own 10k dollars which i had saved in a long period of 10 years and invested with them first out of my own money they gave me 500$ in 2 weeks but afterwards they flew away and when after so many calls i reached their homes, their parents told me that they had done the same with 10 to 15 people and also took their money and flew away to other countries.

I have made a police report but all in vain as after passing 10 months none of them returned back from where they went. However, the current situation at hand needs to be resolved or I risk losing my job and a place to stay. I have been trying to take up more side jobs to increase my monthly earnings to sustain myself but I am still not earning enough even to meet basic needs of mine and my family as well.

I had made up my mind now that i had made a huge mistake now and this experience has taught me a lot. I hope any kind soul who took the time to read this story would be willing to help me in paying my debts as well as to fulfil my basic needs along with 3 children and a wife. I just want to request you people out there to please help me getting out of this situation, no matter big or small.

Here’s my Bitcoin address: bc1qep4kzk8vtulz2catvcuqe882tqy3vwugfwnymq

As in my country i can’t make Paypal.

If I ever make it big, I hope to be able to repay all the kindness I receive, please send an email to my email address after sending kindness that i can be able to return this kindness back to the ones who help me in my tough time. Please pay me as I had requested previously also

Last Updated: July 22, 2021

Home Damaged By Storm

We were sleeping at night when there was a rainstorm outside. We thought that considering our house is quite old but has been standing all these years including with tough storms, that nothing would happen to us. But the roof split open inwards and the walls started to crack when the rains were hitting. We’re not that fortunate of a family and we don’t come from a country with a decent economic situation. We live right next to our farm but our crops got damaged after the storm and we’re using what money we have left for buying food. All this, plus the strict lockdowns because of Covid and the drought in the area we live in adds to all the shortcomings that we can currently afford.

My father’s old and my mother’s ill. Neither of them can leave the house due to Covid 19, and so I am the only breadwinner of my family right now. I have a 6 year old little brother that I have to take care of and I’m just 19 years old, and still haven’t graduated high school. Online schooling has been harder nowadays because of all the technical issues and internet outages in our part of the country. We have no more money and we can’t afford to sleep anywhere else. Now we’re sleeping in a mosque not that far from where our house is. The Imam was nice enough to let us stay inside.

We don’t like to ask or beg because we know that hardship is not rare in this world but we’re truly out of options. I believe my family should receive a donation because at this point, it feels like we’ve lost everything and we actually have. I hope this gets somewhere since I’m not familiar with this site. I managed to make about 25 dollars in the past week begging on the streets but when I went to the repair office for home rebuilding, they said that it would cost 15,000 dollars to rebuild our home. And when I asked about buying a new place to stay, they said the costs are even higher. And when I asked about rent, they said there were no rented houses available.

I am not sure what other options we have but this is the only thing I can think of. The government’s aid is so scarce and we don’t have any other place to stay. Please help us!

https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/hamody123?locale.x=en_US

Last Updated: July 13, 2021

Paying my Debts back Home Country

Here’s my Bitcoin address: bc1qep4kzk8vtulz2catvcuqe882tqy3vwugfwnymq

As in my country i can’t make Paypal.

Last Updated: July 13, 2021

Money for cancer patient

Hi I am 23 years old and I am a cancer patient. In our country we have to pay huge taxes for everything. So my father’s salary is $50 and it is not enough for the medical bills and other requirements. There are so many medicines to buy but we cannot do that with my father’s salary. We try so hard to save money sometimes we do not even have something to eat. It is really painful to see my father crying when he does not have enough money for me.

And I had dream to buy a car before I got this cancer. In our country we have to pay huge tax for a car. My father’s monthly salary is just $50 and a car price is more than $30000. And I am not in a situation to work because of this cancer. So I cannot go for that dream in this life. When I go to the hospital for the treatment I have to use the public transport. With this cancer I feel very tired and it is really painful. So it is very hard to use public transport with this situation. But I have to do it because we do not have money for a car. And also there is a COVID19 situation in our country. So it is really dangerous to use public transport for a cancer patient. Because of the treatments cancer patients’ immunity is very low. So they can be infected very quickly and if they infected COVID it is really hard to save. So every time I use public transport I feel like I am going to die within next couple of weeks. I am not afraid to die but my parents have only me they have no other children and they are very sad by seeing me like this. And also I like to go in a car before I die. It is just a small innocent dream. If anyone can help me with this situation they are my saviors and I really grateful to them with whole my heart. I just need money for my medicines and a buy a small car to go for the treatments. If I get more money, I will definitely donate them for other patients too who are suffering like me. Thank you all very much for taking time to read this for me. I kindly request from the people who got a good heart please help me if you wish to donate click on my PayPal link below. May God bless all of you.

https://paypal.me/renukanandani?locale.x=en_US

Last Updated: July 3, 2021

I need money to escape from my “family” and start a new life. / meet my partner.

Hello for whoever is reading this.

I am Japanese student, who currently studies at college in the Philippines (Online classes so I’m at Japan right now).

I have had a confusing life, so I’d like to write up a summary about how I have been grown. If you’d rather just want to straight up read the REASON of why I am begging for money, Please do scroll until the end.

So I was grown under fairly normal family, at least that’s what I saw at that age. I was born in Japan, grew up and graduated Elementary School in Japan.
I told my parents one day, “I want to learn English so I would be able to communicate with most of the people out there and I want to have a dream of going around the world.”.

Well my mother, who is from the Philippines, decided to bring me to the Philippines and let me go to a school in there.

So I have studied under International School for my middle/high school. Then I also went straight to the college in the Philippines as well.

Til then, I did not have any knowledge about how “Working to earn money” works in Japan. (Well I tried working in the Philippines, but they denied me for some reasons related with I needing to have a working VISA?)

2020, COVID-19 started to hit so hard. My college was closed, turned into online classes. I was worried of my family too, and Philippines wasn’t the best idea to stay at for sure.

So me and my mother decided to go back to Japan. On end of July, we went back to Japan. Met my brother and my father.

We were living in same condominium room.

After few months of staying in Japan, my parents told me “You should start working in part-time job so you can start earning your own money.”
And I was like “Yeah, definitely. I’ve been wanting to work anyway.”

So I made my first resume, started working in small restaurant in food court of a mall. It was my first ever job, ofcourse.

I’ve had mistakes and such, my workplace leader is little bit rough towards me even after 4 months of me working and I don’t make mistake anymore. But I guess that’s how the job goes.

Sometimes I even had 8 hours straight work, with only 30 minutes of break.
But I don’t really complain about the work, I mean I was surely tired mentally and physically too.

But my main problem comes after.
Which is my Family.
They suddenly changed, or rather, they started showing their true nature?

So it all started with my brother talking to me out of nowhere that he will get out of this house with his wife, he told me that my parents doesn’t have any money anymore so he needs me to start paying on stuff.

So I started paying 450 dollars per month, It may not sound much, but it was so much to me because again it was my first experience of working and I only earn 700 dollars.

But I was going with it, even though my mind was filled with so much stuff.
Because I do have college too, I can only work certain days / certain hours.

But he told me that I am not working enough, told me that I should start working on the midnight til morning.

I said that it’s too hard for me, I just started working for the first time, I also have college classes, and I’m going to have to work in midnight to morning? I will give up if I had to do that.

Then he told me that I was being a crybaby, his wife told me that I was a trash.

I cried on that night in my room, how I can’t express my anger and feeling, my thoughts and those towards them.

But all these were happening, I found myself someone to love.
I met her in a game, but we slowly started getting attracted to each other.
I confessed to her that I like her, and we started dating.
She lives in Osaka (which is around 500km away from my place).
We were going great, she wanted to meet me, so she did.
She came all the way to Tokyo just to meet me.
It was great, her everything was perfect to me, we have almost everything in common.
After few days, obviously she has to go back to Osaka because she’s got a work there.

So I was all sad and those, then day after that, I got talked by the people in my house again.

Now they asked me to pay them 1500 dollars within 2 months.

Apparently it’s a “Fee” of me staying in here for the few months of me not working yet (When I arrived at Japan on 2020 July onwards)

My savings were 400 dollars.

My earnings can not reach 1500. even if I do, It means I would have to pay everything I have and I will have literally, absolutely no money.

It was my gf’s birthday just recently, and my birthday is coming up soon too, and she told me that she wants to meet me again and so she is saving money to come to Tokyo again.

In my deep night I always just wonder and wish I could have treated her better, I mean I am doing my best, what I meant is that I just wish I could meet her time to time, I can definitely do that if I didn’t have to pay all those to the people here.

It’s so hard to explain everything because It will be so long, But I’ve had suicidal thoughts in those times. Holding a cutter was reliefs my heart, I’ve attempt on getting hit by a car, I’ve almost cut myself so many times. Everything was pressuring me, but she always stayed by myside even though she definitely was tired of my bullshit mental breakdowns. So I decided to throw away whatever those suicidal thoughts I had, so far it is working, I don’t got no breakdowns.

But some night, I still have deep thoughts about what my life situation is.
I’m afraid I’d be back to breakdowns again.

But yeah, I think those are pretty much summarized my situation right now..

Simple:
I’m so lost in my life honestly, I have no money to do anything, I’m trying to save but it’s just going to my “family”. I’m trying to leave this house ASAP.

All I need is a possible of 5000 dollars, and I can escape away at least within end of this year or the start of next year. Honestly it’s not even an escape, I am soon to be send out of this house because of money.

Even a dollar would do so much to me.
Meeting my girlfriend costs about 300 dollars as well.

I recently got a new job related with English=Japanese translation stuff too, I am trying to make a whole new life start. I just would have to escape from here first, possibly go to different place than Tokyo and start living alone. I have knowledge of living alone because I used to do so for sometime.

That is why I am here begging for money.

Anything would do, I would really, really appreciate it.
Thank you so much for reading.

https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/hiro794

Last Updated: July 1, 2021

A helping hands goes a long way❤

My Dad passed away in 2013 and his sudden death was a huge impact to our family especially my mom who nearly went into depression. I was careful with her emotional and mental state and i am thankful that she is fine mentally. As i am the eldest in my family, i took up the role to manage the family. While i was working to make ends meet, i was also studying for my degree. Where my salary was not sufficient, i tap on credit cards to help me out financially. I thought i was able to manage until my mom and my health went under the weather. My mom and myself went for surgeries on different years and that puts stress and burden on me and my family financially. I realised that i was getting little breathless in paying all the interest and dues for the credit cards.

However, being the eldest, i try to provide as much as possible to my family. On top of that, i gave almost half of my pay to my mom as pocket money or household expenditures as she is no longer working due to her health.

Few years later, i fell in love and got married. Though He was a great guy, he was just starting his first actual career (he was already in his 30s then). Again, the vivacious cycle continues as i tap on the credit cards to live my life and manage 2 households now after marriage.

I thought i could continue to work and get my salary and pay. But i realised the amount has come up to about $65,000 and every month on pay day, my salary is cleared out in seconds. I barely has some money left. And i am worried about my mom’s health. What if there is an emergency and i do not have any extra to help out. My cards has been maxed out i couldn’t rely on that. I am financially stressed and i am also facing some new work demands which are draining me mentally and physically. I am usually quite an optimistic person. But my work demands and the financial stress is consuming me alive. I thought of changing my work so that mentally i am sane and my blood pressure doesn’t goes up to 200/120. But leaving this job would also means i will have lesser financial means to pay for the outstanding amount that is due monthly. With my mom due for another 2 surgeries and me on constant checkup.. How could i help more when i am not having extra to help my family. I would need $65,000 to clear my cards so as to free myself up to continue to care for my family and the ability to change a job that can let me stay sane. I chance upon this website and perhaps its a god-sent opportunity for a change to take place. I believe in the kindness of people. I humbly ask for kind soul like you to give a helping hand and empower me the ability to go on in life and to continue to provide the necessity and support to my family. Any amount counts. 🙏 please click the link below to make a difference in someone’s life. I am appreciative.🙏❤

https://www.paypal.me/mdpanda

Last Updated: June 30, 2021

Clearing My Debts Due To Being Scammed

I am currently in a huge debt of $15k and really need some help to tide me over each month’s payment. I’m going to be very frank with my figures and I really hope anyone of you who took the time to read this can help me in some way or another.

My current salary is only $3k and I am paying off $2.8k each month for my debt. The remaining 200 have been what I am living off for the past 3 months, which is not sufficient for me to pay both my rental (including bills adds up to $1k each month) and living expenses (about $300). I have eaten into savings and it is now bare. I really need help to tide this through and even $1 would be useful.

A little backstory to how I landed myself in this situation. I was naive and placed my trust in a wrong friend who had all along planned to cheat off the savings that I worked hard saving the past 3 years. He had a financial plan that was working out well and asked me to join him. As I was new and learning how to let my saved money work itself and grow, I did not doubt this friend and trusted him with my finances. As the principal amount was insufficient, I took a private loan, thinking that I would be able to get it all back within 6 months and pay it off. However, this friend took off and flew to China after he took my money (about $20k in total) and I have no means of finding him at the moment.

I have made a police report in both my home country and in China. However, the current situation at hand needs to be resolved or I risk losing my job and a place to stay. I have been trying to take up more side jobs to increase my monthly earnings to sustain myself but I am still not earning enough to make ends meet.

I am trying to take responsibility for my foolish naivety and this experience has taught me a lot. I hope any kind soul who took the time to read this story would be willing to step up and help me out, no matter big or small.

Here’s my PayPal: paypal.me/yulieyul

If I ever make it big, I hope to be able to repay all the kindness I receive.

Last Updated: June 27, 2021

My baby torticollis

I am from one of the Asian poor country. first of all my baby has torticollis so I have to have surgery. but I have to raise money. I signed up gofundme, etc other too much sites. but there’s just only help there country USA, UK etc. My language is not good I know but I cannot help my birth baby. I am single mother. I need a little help to raise money.

my paypal : https://www.paypal.com/donate/?token=In8tHT_Na07Fq3yiFmYH6CUBOtgap8r8Wi5k4qpNkMmRNajRn23TWjt_3hzvTug2lry2BLC_3C_q2OhS&Z3JncnB0=

Last Updated: June 21, 2021

I need $1500 to pay off my tuition debt.

hello.

I am a young lady from South Africa who is studying in Taiwan and I am looking for funding to pay off my tuition debt as I am behind. My problem started out due to the incompetence of the university not telling me that the school was expensive and also that I would be forced to pay the tuition of NT$74000 in one month, but a week ago I had paid NT$39000 for quarantine while prior to that I was told wouldn’t pay. I have have been trying to find employment but due to the current covid situation it is impossible.

Please can you assist me. Any donation i shall be thankful for.

PayPal : @tiffMthembu

Last Updated: June 16, 2021

Debt Relief

Twelve years ago I arrived in Dubai as an Overseas Filipino Worker as I’m from the Philippines to find work to help my parents and siblings as well as my grandma who raised me at an early age. Luckily found a job with just enough salary like enough to send it to my parents as well to my grandma. In 7 straight Years, I wasn’t able to save funds for myself as I used the little funds left from my salary after sending most of them back home in Philippines to pay the small house and land monthly as we don’t have a house and lot back home at that time. In those years I used credit cards for my monthly expenses and I am paying with minimum per month. After paying the house and land lot completely for 7 years I manage to save funds for myself despite paying my obligation to the bank credit card, but after a year and a half I encountered challenging times my grandma became sick and she is in and out of the Hospital her medicine maintenance cost too high but I didn’t mind I used my savings whatever I have and I racked up a financial obligation as I wasn’t able to pay my credit card debt, once I exhausted everything but which is not enough she passed away. A year later 2019 my mom passed away due to an illness sort of like cancer although it is unconfirmed it is just sudden after she wasn’t able to made it to the hospital as she thought just an ordinary illness/sickness another spending. The financial obligation I racked during those times already ballooned I mean became huge but despite hardships, I try to settle those obligations monthly without saving anything for me until COVD19 came to the Middle East last year as UAE decided to lockdown the county around March and extend it to another month so on and so forth. When they open again the country for lockdown after 3 or 4 months some business company got closed while some resume operations like us but our salary was cut in half as no income to maintain the full salary of each employee. My effort to settle the financial obligation that I racked in the years prior suddenly futile as I prioritized my parent and siblings until I wasn’t able to settle it in promptly despite exhausting and trying other options just to manage it but to no avail, as they wanted more from me as more than I can afford and a case is looming against me because of this. That’s why I appeal for charitable donations from generous kind-hearted souls who are willing to help as any amount is a big help for my financial uncertainties. I am deeply thankful to every one of you if this fund drives success. Thank You from the bottom of my heart I will never forget the kindness and generosity that you showed.

Below is my paypal link:

paypal.me/Arl0906

Last Updated: June 12, 2021

Debt, Divorce, Depression – Mental Health Support Should be Covered

So hard to know where to start and I feel ashamed to be on this site.

I don’t know whether to start at the end of the beginning.

As of today, I am GBP20,000 in debt. I left my toxic and emotionally abusive marriage 5 years ago. I used to be an out-going, fun loving person, but my husband destroyed my confidence so much so that I would spend hours daily googling suicide and what effect it would have on my children to live with that legacy.

I have up my successful career when my premature twins were born as they had a lot of health problems, and slowly lost my identity and my confidence to a very controlling husband.

Finally when my twins were 12, I found the confidence to leave. I moved into a flat, and had 50/50 custody of my children, but I live in a county that requires me to have sponsorship. I found a job, and aged 45, started at the bottom and within a year was promoted. I have a good job, but do not earn enough money to support me and my 2 children. I do not receive alimony, or support from my ex husband, but I did get the money for half of our marital home and bought a flat which I rent out to top up my salary and care for my children.

Since buying the flat I have had disaster after disaster and have not only not revived rent but had to pay endless bills for damage, sewage leaks.

I have never had a credit card before, but in the end couldn’t pay my bills, so took out a card. Everything is spiralling out of control, and I have been hit by debilitating depression. I am off work on sick leave for my mental health and feel like I need support. I have health insurance as healthcare where I live is not free, but it doesn’t cover my mental health care. I need to go to the doctor next week, but if I go, I leave no money for food or bills. I am trapped in a rental contract that I can’t get out of until May 2022 (the country I live in has strict laws.

I took a loan to consolidate my credit card debt and was then fined nearly £1000 to cancel the cards, and then yesterday was hit with an £1800 bill for issues in my flat that I rent out and still owe £1000 in a service charge that I haven’t been able to pay, and am now being fined late fees. It doesn’t seem to matter what I do, I just cannot get on top of my financial debt.

On the surface I have a good life, but I am drowning in debt and I can’t see a way out. If I earned my regular salary I would be ok – not quite comfortable, but ok. But with the debt, loans and now my ex husband, not only not supporting me but instead asking me for money, I am at breaking point. I have become so overwhelmed and depressed that I can’t work, and have been signed off sick by the doctor – if I take more time off work, I will be on unpaid sick leave. I just don’t know how to get through today or tomorrow. My financial debt is crippling and every time I take a step to fix it I am hit by another tidal wave.

If anyone can help in any way, I would be incredibly grateful. I feel ashamed to be on this site, but am hoping for some kindness for my kids and me. I am a generous person and have raised money for charity over the years many times, and will always help those in need. Right now I am relying on the kindness of friends, but feel so indebted and can’t accept anything more, however desperate I am.

Thank you for reading and thank you for helping.

https://www.paypal.me/stephaniepujol1972

Last Updated: June 8, 2021

Bank Settlement

Dears,

Hope all is well with you.

Allow me first to introduce my self. My name is Omar, 35 Years Old and a father of 2 and husband of a lovely wife.

I am currently unemployed and looking for a job since November 2020, as I am at a Managerial Level in HR.

I am writing you this message, with regards to my financial situation I am facing with my former bank in UAE. I have received an email from them last year on July 11th, 2020 regarding my liabilities towards them. I have been trying my best to reach to an agreement with them for installment payments but with no luck.

As shown in the picture I posted, the break down for the amount is for the Personal Loan, Credit Card, as well as the Over Draft. I have been struggling with payments since budget cuts imposed by the employer and salary delays, and now ended with no work for me and I have been on job hunt since November 2020 (After 4 months from receiving the email from the bank).

Before that I was paying my installments regularly and have paid out more than half of my liabilities towards the bank.

I am kindly requesting your assistance in helping me cover this and remove this burden off my chest. the amount remaining by the bank is (114374.03 UAE Dirhams), which is almost (31139.26 US Dollars).

It would be really appreciated if I could get assistance in settling this amount once and for all.

Warmest Regards,

Omar

Paypal.me Account: paypal.me/OAbdelFattah

Last Updated: June 5, 2021

Debt Relief

Hello hope you are doing well in these difficult times. I hadn’t a clue such a site existed. Where I can request for help. I desperately need some help. In September of last year 2020, I was made redundant because of the ongoing Covid-19 pandemic, the strain of looking for another job added to my pre-existing loan which I took to help my family, my younger brother supported to relocate our parents from Lebanon as the economic crisis there was unbearable and they are both well over the age of 60 and cannot take anymore stress and needed someone to take care of them, but as the pandemic raged on and my job loss, he couldn’t handle both taking care of the family and himself,
I managed for a few months in hopes of landing a job that would stabilize my loan as I had a small amount kept away for emergency, but as the months dragged on I went into credit card debt as well. Moreover, as flights were closed for the duration of the lockdown, this only contributed much more to the already existing debt in which I had already started missing payments on at this point. During this time the situation for my parents became unbearable, and we had to fly them out. Thus, as soon as the opportunity presented itself I borrowed yet another amount and to help my brother make sure that they are sent home. The amounts kept payback piling up until the bank issued a police case against me and had me banned from traveling or even renewing my visa in which failing to do anything about it would lead me to being detained. The amount the amount that I have to prepare for payment is approximately $2200, $1400 for the fine for bounced check on the loan and $800 for the one raised towards the credit card payments. I cannot name the country this is happening in as they are not friendly towards those who highlight such cases and that would tarnish their image, and I fear for my safety as well as they can easily detain me and that would be indefinitely as I would have no means of paying the loan and credit card which amount to again approximately to $41,000 in total.
The payment of the fines of the Police Case would buy me enough time to be able to keep searching for a job and is a more reasonable amount rather than the full amount, I am landing a number of interviews which have increased lately and in the hopes of getting a stable job soon, but without clearing the fine I will not be able to even have them process a work visa and would only dig me deeper until I reach to the final stage which is a court hearing and given the strict laws here which deal with defaulters as jailed until the amount is cleared,
I will be sharing the receipts of the payments I will be doing and hopefully will be able to clear them soon and I would appreciate for any amount that would contribute to the amount that I am requesting I cannot share any bank statement as I am in fear of anyone finding out and making my situation much worse, as in this country PayPal is not accepted I will be using my brother’s account from outside the country for the amount to be transferred to him and through an exchange I will receive the funds, since any bank transfer to my account will automatically hold the amount and will not even go towards the outstanding that I have,
Thank you all for looking at my post and reading this was a good therapeutic talk as well and any amount would really help in these difficult times and I will pay it forward remembering the help I received in these dark times, stay safe and keep your loved ones close.

The PayPal account is @serjagopian

If you want to get in touch you can reach me by email.

Last Updated: June 4, 2021

All bad things happened to me at once

Hi all,

I am here because I am out of options and I don’t know what else I can do.

Everything came tumbling down all at once since the beginning of 2020 and I have been trying my best to keep my family and I going forward. Taking the easy way out has crossed my mind many times but I don’t think I want to be a selfish and irresponsible being for my family to remember and hate.

I am not going to copy and paste some tear jerking stories from the Internet and make something up to get easy help. Even if I get zero help, I am happy to use this platform as a tool to tell my stories, rant like an old man and release some steam.

In order to make my stories precise and easy to read, I will put them in point form:

January 2020, my father-in-law had some kinds of respiratory disease and it costed USD300 daily for his care before my wife decided to pull the plug 6 months later.
May 2020 I was having constant chest pain, went to see the doctor and I ended up going through a heart surgery known as the “balloon angioplasty”. The bill was around USD35,000.
Around the same time, my wife was forced to take no-pay vacation indefinitely due to covid.
September 2020, my brother passed away because of covid.
December, 2 days before Christmas Eve, my company laid off around 300 employees. I was one of them.
February 2021, my family and I moved to a smaller apartment. I sent out about 100 CVs and there was no job and no interviews. We started to apply for government subsidy, loans, all sorts of help we can imagine.

I am hanging by a thread at this point, barely able to keep my family alive and here come the real juicy part of the story:

My wife, with her brilliant mind and foremost thinking, thought “gambling” could save us from all these financial turmoils. She secretly put all the remaining saving and loan on the stock market, invested on some high risk derivatives and of course ended up losing absolutely everything in just a matter of weeks.

That’s what happened to me in the past 18 months. At this point, I am unusually calm. Thank you for reading my story. I am really out of options at this point and I would be most appreciated if you think I deserved some help and decided to donate some money to ease my pain.

Thank you for your kindness.

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