Begging Money

Financial Hardship Help

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I never experienced love

Dear God,

I think I can call you that…

I am male, 28 years old, in semi perfect health… The only thing destroying my life is my finances…
I am currently in over €16.000 In debt and in debt management. How did I came their?

I was living at home until I was 24, when my mother sold her house to buy a new home yet to build. So I needed to move out and was able to get a loan from the bank… This loan destroyed my life being. I never really had much joy in life. Only troubles. I never had a girlfriend because I am to ashamed and I don’t want to drag my problems into a relationship.

I suffered from depression for several years because as a kid, I was a victim of sexual assault.. I spent my entire youth numbing myself with drugs and other kinds of distractions. Now I am 7 years clean and I like to pick my life back up. But it seems impossible… I changed my way of thinking, I am much more positive and productive… I have several business ideas and inspirations but can’t handle on it. Because in Belgium you can’t start a business if you’re in debt management.

The will to be an entrepreneur and “conquer the world” together with chains on my wrists and ankles because of my decisions in the past, is making me crazy… I feel like God or the devil is playing with me, I feel like my life is over…. I am a coward if it comes to committing suicide. And I even thought for a second to steal money but I have a high sense of empathy and responsibility. I could not live with that. And this is making me even more crazy. A man is supposed to survive and take care of himself. And I am not able to do that… I am now in the position to say “I’ll do anything for money”, only if it doesn’t hurt another person…

I wouldn’t dare ask you for 16K (unless you’re a bitcoin billionaire :P ) but if you have a spare €/$100 it could change my life in ways you can not imagine…

My story may not seem so hard as others, but it’s the truth..

If you could help me out today. I would be very grateful.. And I hope one day I can pay you back or pay it forward.

Thank You

paypal.me/gjvermeire

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I will name my child after you. My name is Julie, I am 25 years old, from Munich, Germany and been left alone pregnant by my ex fiancé without explanations.

My name is Julie, I am 25 years old, from Munich, Germany and been left alone pregnant by my ex fiancé without explanations.

I will name my child after you. My name is Julie, I am 25 years old, from Munich, Germany and been left alone pregnant by my ex fiancé without explanations.

He wanted me to have his child, I was very afraid but made this step for him, and now I am alone, 17 weeks pregnant.

I speak German, English and Russian fluently. I can offer you my service. Furthermore, I have very good basic French skills and can improve them for you rapidly. I have a gentle, calm voice and am a gentle, straight-forward and patient person in general.

I am excellent at calming people down and approaching their needs.

I currently am studying to become a teacher in Germany. But now I don’t know how to keep on with that, with a child and no money, no home.

I can work for you for my whole life if you can either offer me or pay me enough for:

A home, which is good and safe for my unborn child

Food and clothes for my child

A nice nanny and kindergarten for my child.

A driver’s license in case I need to drive my kid to the hospital or doctor.

I would do anything, so my child can grow up in a safe, socialized and cultivated environment, so this kid will grow up being intelligent and independent.

I am living in a good city right now but no one here can help me with finances and my baby. My parents came from Russia to Germany as emigrants. They are German but lived in Russia for 2 generations, and so they came here, not knowing the language and are working hard for very little amount of money. In Russia, they are academics but here they are nothing. They came here to offer me and my brother a better future. Unfortunately they don’t have the time to help me because they are dependent on their work.

I have my friends here, but I feel so judged because of my situation. I don’t feel comfortable here anymore, in fact I’m lost and hopeless right now. People in Germany are very judgmental. This is why I reach out to a stranger and pray for an opportunity to leave everything behind me and start fresh for and with my unborn child.

I will call my child after you or you can choose its name. I will forever be grateful if you can help  me. I can work for you as soon as I can after recovering from delivery. I will forever show my gratitude.

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Help with one Bill

Im a 25 year old single mom of a 3 year old from Iceland. We recently bought our house right before the pandemic, everything was going well until I lost my job last summer, after that I’m stuck on piled up bills that are going to court if I don’t pay it soon with additional costs. I’m trying to pay it down with other bills piling up on the meantime and it seems impossible. Ally I want to is to be on 0 so I can provide for my girl.

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A Mother asking for help

Need help getting back on my feet

Hi a mother looking for little financial help been drowning in debt for a while now  cant find way out the more I try the more deeper I get in I need money to pay that means I need to borrow and cant  afford to pay back im just getting deeper and  deeper in just want my life back want to wake up happy take the kids out they deserve to be happy and deserve to be treated i now need to ask strangers for help as I have no way of doing this alone please any help would be so greatly appreciated I will pay it forward when I get back up on my feet  just want to wake up knowing I don’t have to be stressed and worrying anymore please any help will be do helpful when younger you don’t think of the future I regret not been smarter wish I knew all this and made future financial plans thanks for taking time to read my ask for help

I can put iban if any1 can help me please

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There’s someone out there for everyone

Thanks for taking your time to read.

Hello! I’m a 28 years old male from Sweden. 

 

Short backstory about the main thing:

So I was diagnosed when I was 13 (autism). I worked very hard to get a decent control over it. If we skip ahead a few years to when I was 17. I was still in school, a small one specialized for kids like me. I would NEVER imagine doing something other than sitting at home, playing video games and asking my mom to bring dinner (yeah I know).. 

But one day I met a girl who lived quite far away from me. I asked my friend to take the train with me to go see her, needless to say, the most stressful day of my life.

Short story, it did not end well.

But I kept trying, trying to find someone, just to fail. I gave up.

 

Up to date story:

One day I was gonna celebrate my buddy’s birthday (online since he lives a few hours away). 

He asked if we could play a game that we hadn’t played in a few years and I pointed out it would be fun with more people. He said “Can’t you check on that subreddit you always meet new people on”. I said “Sure”. 

I found 2 guys and 2 girls. The first girl joined the call right away, not very talkative. The guys joined in a second later. We had a good time and my friend was happy. I did manage to piss off the girl though. Yet I wrote to her the next day asking if she wanted to play. My friend was busy.

She said yes.

 

What next?

Well, her and I kept talking. About literally everything. A few arguments here and there, but we solved them quickly. We said the 3 words after less than a week. And yes I know how it sounds. 

We just couldn’t wait. We planned for her to come here. She’s from France and I’m from Sweden. 

But then… Covid struck. We did manage to get one of the only available flights out of France (lockdowns here and there).

But she arrived and it worked out great.. Except..

(TL;DR) Can she stay?

Short answer is No. Because of rules in Sweden regarding if you want to move here. We’ve looked at every possible solution. Job finding is insanely difficult where I live and without a car (for either of us) it’s not that likely.

We did apply for jobs, ask around for help, searching for hours on the internet for a solution. Nothing.

Problem is that there is only one way for her to stay now since the “tourist” time is over.

 

What do we need?

15.000€. That is what it costs for a year of living in Sweden according to the government. The thing is that we have enough to get by, but for them to see that she can actually stay and not be a liability to the system, she needs that money on hand. It’s insane.

 

Final words:

If you, a complete stranger, decide to help us with what you can. I will never forget it, I will pay it forward. This has been the most stressful 6 months for both me and her. And if we somehow get to that amount, I wouldn’t feel comfortable spending it. I just want to give her her dream life.

https://paypal.me/DPersson110?locale.x=sv_SE

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I need help paying my bills and moving back home

paypal.me/tyalls

At the beginning of 2020 I lost my job. I had worked for the company for over 11 years and I had moved to Germany specifically for this job. It was my dream role and I never expected to become unemployed so unexpectedly.

At first, my plan was to move back home. I thought I’d be happier being close to friends and family and that I’d find better work opportunities. So, I began looking for work in the U.K. (I think we can all tell where this is going).

While I was looking for work surprisingly, I was offered a marketing role by a recruitment company I was using to help with my search. At the time it seemed like a sign from the heavens. How often do you get offered a job that you hadn’t applied for? Now in two minds over leaving Germany I couldn’t decide whether to go back home and have a fresh start or stay put and have the security of a guaranteed job?

And then, the COVID-19 pandemic hit Europe and caused an international lockdown and travel ban.

My job offer was rescinded and I was stuck in Germany.

Unable to find a new job in the U.K. or Germany my little savings quickly disappeared and the little unemployment benefit I was entitled to barely covered my monthly bills. As the debts mounted I remained unable to pay them. In total, I now owe around 8000€ which doesn’t seem a lot but, my monthly income is less than 1000€, my monthly expenses are 825€. I barely have enough money for food. And at the end of March I will no longer be entitled to any unemployment benefits at all. 

I desperately I want to pay off my debts and move back home to be close to friends and family but, I simply can’t afford to. I live alone and don’t have any family in Germany. I have spent the majority of this alone and lonely. But I have done my best to stay positive and productive. During the lockdown I have been taking online courses in Project Management,  Digital Marketing and Graphic Design. I have set up an Etsy store selling unique t-shirts which I have designed (haven’t sold any yet) and my long term goal is to set up my own online retail store selling eco friendly gifts.

I would greatly appreciate any help to pay off my growing debt, to help me move back home and to eventually help me invest into my future goals.

paypal.me/tyalls

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We lost our jobs, got sick and quarantined. Asking for help after trying everything we could to support ourselves, but we have been unable to manage the past few months.

Hello.

I apologize for asking for this, I tried many other options and I still can’t make ends meet.

We have a lot of debt, medical bills, and utilities and living expenses to cover, but I am only asking for help with the most essential right now.

During the pandemic all my family members lost their jobs. I found a job a month ago but it’s not gonna be enough to support 5 people and pay back the bank loans that were taken before the pandemic started. Some of my family members have mental disorders, and we are the first to admit that a lot of money was wasted, but we are working on paying it back.

Everyone is looking for a job, but until we all have stable jobs we can’t manage to pay bills every month, pay back loans and have money for food and basic necessities. What’s even worse, at the moment I can’t go to work because we are quarantined since my mother got sick. My sister is studying in a different city, and needs to pay rent and support herself as well, while also paying for her college semester fees. I never got to study since we didn’t have the finances, so I started working when I finished high school. We also need money to get medication for my mother, since she was already not entirely healthy, and getting sick stressed her out since she knows a lot of people her age who got this virus and sadly didn’t make it. My father died when I was 5 so she raised us alone with no financial support for 20 years, and I want to now help her out as much as I can. At least to have food and try to keep the heat on so she can recover.

I don’t have any pictures to post, what I am asking for is money to help us get trough the month, and not have to worry about utilities being turned off or not having food to eat.

Again I apologize for asking for anything, I don’t like to since i know people are struggling, but I am not able to pay utilities, food and medication with my paycheck alone, since minimum wage can’t cover everything. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance to anyone who reads this. I know a lot of people are in a difficult situation, and I hope it gets better for everyone.

Thank you very much for reading. I hope you are all healthy and have a good day.

paypal.me/nikolic24

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Financial hell

In need of help, support, tips, anything.

Late 2014 and my life was pretty good, I had just bought my first pet, a nice car and an amazing apartment, no loans or debt.

2015 my then gf cheated on me and I lost my job due to my employer, he had made me sign a contract that was fraudulent so when we got a new boss he just tossed me out, I was never employed for real.

2016 start and I’m depressed but looking for jobs and applied for financial support, living in Sweden so it should be easy, right?

still no job and no financial support, I have used most of my savings by this time… I started to study to become a nurse. They always have jobs! Sure enough I now work for almost no pay, but I still work! Got diagnosed with bipolar type 2 and when I tell my dad he told me to fuck off, we still don’t talk. Tried to take my life three times that year. 

2017 I got fired and had to sell my apartment, so I could eat and live, I somehow found a girl who likes me.

With the money I got from my apartment I bought a tiny house far away from any city for cheap!

Not long after my heater stops working, I pay way too much for a new air and water heating system but got heat again! Just in time for winter, great! Roof just broke, its snow outside and inside… I have to take a loan I have no money, fix it fast roof fast! we even find mold so this is not “new”. (My insurance doesn’t cover it, they only cover damages under the roof tiles.)

Soon to be new year, my roof breaks again, they took money to fix things they never did… I file a dispute, they come back to fix it, no need to pay! Tax time… I get screwed got to pay a profit tax for selling my apartment, I had to sell my car to dodge taking a loan.

2020 starts, got a job but just for the summer, roof breaks again new loan, new firm, new roof. Now roof holds out water but it’s still not done right, covide comes and I have no money, no job, no financial support and a broken house, it’s hard to want to live, but Im doing my best to see the light…

https://paypal.me/Nikkiswe

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Honestly need your help

Hello and thanks for taking time to read this message of help. For the past year I have been struggling with a breakup and a heart attack. To top it all up I was running a small business and due to the pandemic I had to shut down. Obviously bills kept piling up my only son who is 6 needs my support and I am trying to do my best to make ends meet. I am humbly requesting the amount of 50,000 so to cover all bills and rent due and hopefully have my son celebrate a decent Christmas. Whilst thanking you for your donation I sincerely wish you a happy Christmas and a Happy new year to you and your family.

 

https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/glenjpc

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I just want to stop worrying about money for a little bit, please

Hello.

So, I know with this pandemic and everything else I’m hardly going to be the only one asking for help, but I’m so desperate that I really went into google just searching “I’m begging you, dude, just give me some money!” and it gave me an article with all these websites when you can ask strangers who are, maybe, luckier than you, for some help. So that’s why I’m here. I’m sorry, I’m talking too much.

So, it’s not news that this covid situation with a lot of other bad things this year did a lot of damage to people. But, honestly, it’s not even news to me because I’ve been in this horrible place almost my whole life.

I’m coming from a small country that suffered not only from covid but from a local war, too. It was always me and my mom, it was always hard for us. At least, until three years ago, we had home to stay in, sometimes food to eat. But since that three years we’ve been practically homeless and by that I mean staying at some friends home who are clearly not glad about that kind of homeless. But even then we could get a little bit of money to just but some food. Since the start of this year everything just went down the hole. My mom lost the only job she could get with so much work. Because of the pandemic there are not even any jobs out there to go. Because of the war everything it’s even worse. My mom’s boss, a literal stranger! let us stay in her apartment, but things are getting bad even for her and she has to sell it to make a living for herself and we can’t ask her for more that she already did for us. And I… I don’t know what to do. I really… I understand that this is nothing compared to other things but I just can’t take this anymore I can’t even go to school to try and make a career because it’s expensive. My mom has a leg injury that is untreatable and it gets worse and it means soon there would be a really limited amount of things she could do.

I don’t even know how much money we need, honestly. There are some depts, lots of them. We need so much but even if this thing… this site could help a little bit, so even get a little bit of money so we could rent an apartment. The apartment we is already sold, tomorrow we have to leave. Maybe, we could get to stay a couple of days with someone if we find anyone. It’s getting cold and it’s Christmas soon. I don’t even remember the last time I was carelessly happy on Christmas. I honestly can’t believe that something like this would help, would I even help myself, I don’t know. I guess, it’s hard to kill the last bits of hope.

Strangers out there, people who are here for some reason maybe trying to make someone else’s life better, please, I… I’m really begging you, could you help me? I know I’m one of the many but what if this works out. I just… I want to believe.

Either way, thanks even for the person reading this right now if there is one.

paypal: https: paypal.me/kasachka

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Please help me

Hi everyone!

So I really don’t know how to start this so I am just going to get to the point. I am in desperate need of money, but everyone on this site is, I guess. Well I don’t need money for trips or shopping or anything like that. I need money so I can finally start paying my bills. Two years ago I had a decent job, lived alone, had my own car and everything was great. So when I signed a contract at my job I decided it was time to replace my 20 year old car with a younger one so I got the loan from the bank, I did buy new car and furniture for my place, and even started dating. And everything was great for like 3 months I think, and then last year I had a car accident, my tire blew while I was driving, luckily I wasn’t hurt baddly. But my „new“ car was wrecked, I had to take time off from my job for a full month, my boss wasn’t happy with that and he decided he won’t pay me for last month that I worked, and that’s when I decided it’s time to quit that job, the guy I dated gave me an offer to move to a bigger city with him and we can share rent and I can find a better job there. So I decided to sell my wrecked car and I paid for apartment, rent and everything, I found a job really fast. And it was great, I loved the job, I loved everything, but that’s when he decided to break things with me. And that’s when it all started, I was in big city alone, I didn’t make enough money to pay full rent alone and survive whole month, and I couldn’t pay my loan for the car. I managed for 4 months alone, starving myself and that’s when the bank blocked all my cards. I got my paycheck but the bank took all of it, so I couldn’t pay rent, I tried everything but eventually I got back to my parents house. No job, no money, in debt. I started working at my old job again, and it was awfull, they were mean to me, I tried to just shut it and work but I couldn’t, after almost half a year I quited again, I couldn’t get up at 3am anymore, get yelled at. And I only slept for like 2 hours because I was sleeping in living room and there was always someone there. So I started searching for a new job, but with no success, 4 months passed and I still didn’t receive positive answer that I got the job. And now my bills are starting to pile up again, and I really need help to pay at least some of them. They are blocking me from all sides. I will be gratefull for anyone who read this and who is willing to help me. I can promise you when I get back to my feet and without any debt and a decent job I will help someone that needs it just like I need it now.

paypal.me/andrea13261102

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Family need help

Hello
Really thank you for taking the time to read this. My name is Nathalie from Sweden so I apologize for poor English.
I have come to a point in my life where I really have to ask for help, I usually sort it out but this time it does not work. 2 years ago I got through my long-awaited debt restructuring of 5 years was completely overjoyed and have done everything I could to keep it but due to the fact that both I and my partner are currently unemployed and I only have the unemployment fund about SEK 9,400 a month and Kent has no compensation at all, so the bills pile up. Trying to split up and push forward but it no longer holds.
And the debts to friends and family are only getting bigger. I do everything I can to maintain the debt restructuring as it will change my family’s life later on and I may finally be able to buy my own house for my family where we all have a place. Due to the fact that my partner is also in debt, this is not possible at present. My debt is over SEK 500,000 and if I manage the debt restructuring, I will be debt free in 4 years.
Then we have child allowance and housing allowance plus maintenance. The rent plus electricity, water, heat and garbage now under colder conditions goes up to 12,000sek  a month. Then we have a lot of other bills on it and the food. There is rarely any money left over to pamper the children with new things.

To tell you a little about myself and my family. I am 31 years old and my name is Nathalie and I live with my partner Kent 31 years and our 4 wonderful children Cassandra 11, Lukas 9, Melizza 6 and Nelly 2 years plus we are expecting a son in March 2021. Due to the pregnancy I have huge problems especially but constant migraines and started getting back pain. We are both constantly looking for work, but unfortunately my partner does not have a driver ‘s license, I am a carpenter, I am an assistant nurse but no one wants to hire a pregnant woman.

On November 25, my oldest daughter will be 12 years old and it is so heartbreaking when you do not know how to get something for her, she is absolutely not picky and has a heart of gold. After I / we never catch up, there will also be no money left over for more than just food.
Then comes Christmas where you should try to get some Christmas presents and Christmas food for all four children, it is an equation that I unfortunately can not solve without asking for help.
I’m not asking for lots of money, I’m just asking for a helping hand to catch up with debts and bills. And a helping hand to have a memorable Christmas for my wonderful children with Christmas presents. This year, Christmas will be at home with us as the rest of the family and their cohabitants and children will be about 20 people
My mother always helps but right now I have so much debt to her that I can not ask for more help she does not have much myself.
It would have been so nice to get rid of the anxiety that constantly hangs over you when you do not know where to turn. Avoid crying in the evenings
Had this been resolved, we could have started a whole new start next year.

Thank you for all the people you help. And even if you do not want or can help me, I wish you a really Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.

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if you feel it read

I am Antigona 24 years old
I currently live in Germany but my origin is from Kosovo that many do not know, a poor country with white people
I have 1 year here in Germany, completing an education / training, but unfortunately the money I earn is a solid salary, it is not enough (enough to live, eat, drink) and I still do not have a car that is very necessary for it travel
I have a family in Kosovo whom I want to help and I want to see them for the New Year that I have 1 year since I saw but I do not have enough money to go
for those who feel no matter how little they help me thank you endlessly from my heart

paypal.me/antigonaferati

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Please help us to make it

In short I need to raise at least 10000€ so I can provide my family with healthcare and food. That’s all because of this COVID-19 virus. My mom and me got fired from our jobs because of this virus and now we even can’t afford food for us not even speaking about healthcare and my grandfather only got 400€ a month and that’s for all three of us for now. We cant pay any of the bills because we barely can afford to survive. Situation is very rough, never thought that we will be here in this position begging for help from others, because we were always the ones who helped others. With the money  I’m begging we could afford to live for a while and take our healthcare and I could even open my own small business so we could start earn money slowly again and keep going. It would mean a world to us not only that but also a life for us three. I try not to lose faith in good, please be understanding and thank you for anything, hope till tomorrow.

paypal.me/abovebelowus

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To continue my studies and help my family.

Who I am?

My name is Jaime and I am a 24 year old young man from south of Spain. I am the oldest of three brothers in a happy (but humble) family.

After many financial efforts made by my parents,  I made it to the university, to study an Engineering Degree. But arriving is not enough, and continue paying the tuition was impossible for my family. So I had to drop out of college and  start working to contribute at home.

I was working a year, but I needed some studies to open up to the job market. Thanks to public education, I was able to study something new again: Web Applications Development. These studies also created a need. And it’s that need that made me get here…

What’s is my need?

Basically, get my daily work tool: a computer.

When I started these studies, I managed to raise some money by giving private lessons of what I had learned in university (math, physics, chemistry…) and I bought a second-hand laptop. My classmates have good computers that made it easy for them to complete the course efficiently. However, I have a 2009 computer that makes me have big headaches to do the simplest tasks. Still, with a lot of patience and understanding from my teachers, I managed to complete the first course with that old machine.

Now, I am in the second and last year of training and my computer cannot directly perform the simpler tasks that teachers require us and I am finding it difficult to complete the course in this way.

For this reason, any contribution that I get will go to get a new computer that allows me to continue developing professionally.

My family  situation…

In my house we are 5 people. Due to the health and economic crisis, my mother has lost her job and my father has seen his salary reduced by 40%.

My twin brother Adrián is trying to emigrate to get a job as a psychologist and my sister Candela is looking for any job, although she studied fashion design. I am combining my studies while I teach private classes to young people who need help with their primary studies.

We live in Cádiz, the Spanish province with the highest unemployment rate in Spain, which makes it very difficult to find stable and well-paid jobs that help us get out of the pothole.

That is why I would like to be able to finish my studies as soon as possible and start working as a web developer, thus being able to help my family as she always did for me.

 

I hope my English was good enough to make me understand well.

Any contribution will be a ray of sunshine to clear the black clouds above us, thank you very much…

 

PayPal: paypal.me/jaimedaw