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Grandparents chemo wishes for granddaughter.

My name is Emily.  I’m a mother of two young boys full of energy that I do not have and I am a wife to my husband who is medically unable to work till cleared medically of blackouts and such.   My grandparents are so wonderful even though they are going through hell and back with the third time of cancer.  My ma and pa seem to always have a smile even though they are worried or scared.  I love them and would love it if my boys could meet them.

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I am here to ask for any and all help in my pursuit to obtain a million or more dollars to fulfill my life’s dream of building my own home before my grandparents pass away from cancer treatments the more is to help my grandparents cancer treatment costs but also to make them rest assured I have fulfilled my dreams so they do not have to worry anymore.  I also want to take my hobby of photography and turn it into a career,  then make it into a blooming photography business.  I am unable to pursue this dream on my own without help (like an advance). I am not looking for pity or free money.   I’d rather partner with you in my photography business once I can fully open it up within my own home or building. 60/40 this way you have majority in my business and I can sign contract if needed be,  while I can still provide food and clothes and some fun things for my precious family.  And pay back the cost of helping us.

Here is my break down of my dreams that my grandparents want to see happen before they pass away.

Step 1:buy land (3-5acres)

Step 2:buy blue prints for house design.

Step 3:build home from blueprints with help from home builders. ( I would like to build most myself)

Step 5:Save approx. 8,000$ and become professional photographer with New York institute of photography

Step 6: Start up photography business out of home to start or build or lease building.  “Ginger Snaps Photography” or “RedMaiden’s Photography Studio”

Step 7:Purchase dodge caravan $ for resp for kids and future kids and learn to invest. Give grandparents 100,000 or more to cover chemo and other heafty expenses.

Any and all donations are appreciated but wishes for donation max total of $5million .  If you and/or someone you know that would be interested in this opportunity and philanthropy for my family.

If you prefer a different way of paying back the money I will consider it as long as it doesnt affect my morals and dignity since I work very hard for the little income I do get. Even if I have to work myself with multiple jobs inorder to pay it all back,  I will.

Donate Via:

paypal.me/RedMaiden

Emily Harwood

“May the sun shine, the leaves blow, the rain fall and the snow sparkle.”

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Help my husband pursue his dream

My name is Tijana and I am an English teacher. I work in a Primary school in a village called Grocka. As it is commonly known, my salary is not something to be boasted about, having in mind that I am only here as a substitute teacher it really affects my financial situation. I can pay my bills and buy food but is this really why I studied so hard to live like this? I think there is more to life than just paying bills and living to my next pay day.

My husband is a mechanic and he really likes and enjoys his job. He is really into cars and car races. It started out like a hobby but I think it is his passion. However, with our salaries we can not afford to have hobbies like this, or anything else. He is a very hard-working man and won’t admit that we fell on hard times. We can not afford to eat in restaurants once in a while, to buy new stuff for our home, not to mention that we haven’t been on a holiday for 3 years. He probably knows this well but to proud to admit it and I get that. Still, I believe that I can make him happy and satisfied with his life even though I’m just a teacher. Yes, I supported his idea and dream of becoming a car racer. For years, even before we met, he had a car in his garage, waiting to be prepared for the road. As I mentioned before, without any financial aid, spending only the money he earns monthly, he could only make a little progress with the car.

In the photos I uploaded, you can see my husband’s garage and the car in it. When I took these photos it was early in February and the first race is in March. I still hope he can finish this car and make it ready for the first race. He needs professional equipment such as racing gloves, suit, helmet and sneakers. I was hoping I could surprise him with these gifts on his birthday on the 7th of January (Christmas Day) but…. holidays got my wallet emptied.

I know these stuff are quite expensive and hard to get where we live, that is, there are no stores that sell racing equipment here, you can only order them online or go to Austria for example.

All in all, all this may seem funny to someone not to say embarrassing, how can it be that someone can not afford something like this? But let me tell you, I wouldn’t wish anyone in this world to feel like me right now. In desperate hope to fulfill my husband’s dream, but not having means to help him.

Can I really help him? PayPal.Me/tijanaognjanovic

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Chronic pain, must relocate to a state with A sun & heat.

Hey, I’m a woman who have lived with chronic pain for 30 years. Early years I self medicated because I couldn’t do anything without taking away my pain. For 15 years ago I got my diagnosis =Fibromyalgia & there are many symptoms & all of us living with this horrible pain don’t have all the symptoms. For me it’s worce Fall/Winter, that’s when I live on a couch. Eat, sleep etc. I can’t walk down the high stairs down to the store, walk my dog, I need help all the time with everything. It’s my back, shoulders, legs, feet & hands, migraine & this hopelessness of not be able to sleep. Don’t remember when I had an total full night with REM sleep. I feel worthless. I’m on my way to be a grandma & my big wish is to bake & play with my grand daughter. Take her places. Today I can’t stand STILL to cook or doing dishes, cutting something, peeling potatoes, in 3 minutes my back/arms are “killing” me. My joins in my hand are burning. I have as long as I remember wanted to do as the bears 🐻 sleep from October & not peeking out until April or something like it. All those years they gave me more & more pain medicine, anti depressive, for cramps, migraine. I have been working with myself to be free from all chemical medicine. I don’t want it anymore. My body gets beaten up of all medication. My DREAM is to live for example in Florida where it’s always warm,I had friends in Tampa before. 2016 I took a trip down to a friend in Costa Rica, & I noticed that I forgot to take my medicine now & than, I felt so good in the sun. Swim, do yoga & walking my dog long walks in the woods. That’s my belief that I can get medication Free little by little by moving/doing things with small steps. It’s so expensive too, I can’t work I get my sick pension, that’s it. It’s not about being rich with money. I must/need a rich life so I can start go out, meeting finding friends-I’m a very lonely person who are just dying living here. To long winters- 3 months of Summer if we are lucky. A home with one bedroom is all I need, kitchen & a patio of cource….maybe close to the pool & a park to walk in. I both must & need to beat this, I’m only 53 years old mentally but my body feels like (80)…..I know that there are 80 years ppl feeling absolutely fabulous, just a saying, so please I didn’t mean any harm)I never had a calm day for over 30 years. It hurts when I sit, lying down. Best feels to walk, in the warm periods I enjoy every second. But I do have pain 24/7 it’s just easier pain that you must learn how to live with. Cold pain is hard to describe & it’s always jumping from one place to another. But I am so tired over to be so tired all the time. Not able to sleep its like I dropp all my concentrations, I loose the words or the red thread when I talk. I’m not demented but it truly feel so sometimes. Cronic pain if I had enemies, I wouldn’t wish any of them this. I do try to stay positive anyway I’m a believer of the attraction law, karma. So this is the first time I beg for help, time is going so fast I really need your help, it has become to much. Want to feel that ppl need my help again, that I’m important or just that I exist.  I do so want to enjoy my last Years living healthy physically which I hope can make me do another dream; just to help dogs, horses -animals that has been mistreated no pay. Do it because I love animals & that I DID IT! Is there someone that have money to help me to relocate lets say Florida?  Or want to ask me more of my situation, please do. Respectfully Lia

https://paypal.me/namastelia

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Inspiring Photographer request

My name is Emily.  I’m a mother of two young boys full of energy that I do not have and I am a wife to my husband who is medically unable to work till cleared medically of blackouts.

I am here to ask for any and all help in my pursuit to obtain a million or more dollars to fulfill my life’s dream of building my own home before my grandparents pass away from cancer treatments the or more is to help my grandparents cancer treatment costs but also to make them rest assured I’m have fulfilled my dreams so they do not have to worry anymore.  I also want to take my hobby of photography and turn it into a career,  then make it into a blooming photography business.  I am unable to pursue this dream on my own without help (like an advance). I am not looking for pity or free money.   I’d rather partner with you in my photography business once I can fully open it up within my own home or have my own studio. 60/40 this way you have majority in my business and I can sign contract if needed be,  while I can still provide food and clothes and some fun things for my precious family.  And pay back the cost of helping us.

Here is my break down of my dreams.

Step 1:

buy land (3-5acres)

Step 2:

buy blue prints from architectual designs 36068DK

Step 3:

build home from blueprints with help from home builders. ( I would like to build most myself).

Step 4:

get furniture for family

Step 5:

become professional photographer with New York institute of photography

Step 6:

Start up photography business out of home to start then build or lease building.  “Ginger Snaps Photography” or “RedMaiden’s Photography Studio”

Step 7:

Purchase dodge caravan with summer and winter tires with rims. Left over $ for resp for kids and future kids and learn to invest.

Step 8:

Give grandparents 100,000 or more to cover chemo and other heafty expenses.

If you and/or someone you know that would be interested in this opportunity and philanthropy for my family. Email me at redbomber_92@hotmail.com or even text or call my cell phone  613-602-0238.  I do want to pay it all back if one individual is able to help in my endeavors.  To make my grandparents know I’m doing great and is able to make my business and family wishes come true.

Thank you for your time and consideration. It is much appreciated.

Mrs. Harwood

“May the sun shine, the leaves blow, the rain fall and the snow sparkle.”

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Desperate to Move

My twin brother and I have lived with our older brother in his house ever since our parents died a few years ago. My twin and I both have mental disorders that prevent us from working outside the home, and neither of us has gotten at-home work for over a year. We’re down to our last few thousand dollars in savings and are struggling to get out of debt due to a major plumbing issue.

I love my older brother and am grateful to him for having helped my twin and I by letting us stay at his house. But my older brother has a terrible temper that’s only getting worse every day. It’s come to the point where we’re afraid for him to come home for fear of what mood he’ll be in. More than once, he’s gone ballistic over something really small, yelling and cursing at my twin and I for something we didn’t intend to do or that wasn’t our fault to begin with. He’s even used our mental issues against us just to hurt us when he’s angry.

On top of that, my twin and I are LGBTQ+ and we live in the Bible Belt. We don’t feel safe here, and we’re desperate to live somewhere where we’ll be accepted.

Ever since childhood, we’ve longed to live in England. We’ve done some research and have found that Norwich is not only queer-friendly but also one of the safest places in the UK.

We’d love to get out of this house and live in Norwich, but we have almost no money. It would cost $607,000.00 to buy a modest house and travel to Norwich from where we live. This doesn’t include shipping, baggage, etc–just economy class tickets.

We’re stripping our possessions down to the bare bones and selling everything we can so that we’ll have something to live on until we find work. We intend to pay off our debt with the last of our savings, and we’re both trying very hard to get stable, work-at-home jobs. 

If anyone has it in their heart to donate something to our cause, it would be more deeply appreciated than you can know. Any amount would be hugely welcome. And once we’re back on our feet, we intend to pay it forward and help out others who are in need by donating to organizations like animal charities and The Trevor Project, which helps prevent suicide among LGBTQ+ youth. 

Please help if you can.

Thank you.

http://paypal.me/payitforward182

 

 

 

 

 

 

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In need of a (used) car

Hi everybody,
I was in a car accident (picture), and I desperately need money to buy a used car.
If I wanted the car to be repaired, it would cost me 2500-3000 USD in total, and I can’t afford it plus I don’t think it is worth to repair it because there was a lot of damage to the front of the car (as seen in the picture), and I think if I had the car repaired, in the future I would have even greater costs with the car and various repairs.
I need a car ASAP.
I do have a job in retail and my monthly income is 580 USD, and all of it is spent for rent, bills, health insurance and food. I have no savings. My father is retired, his pension amounts to 585 USD, my mother receives a disability allowance of 290 USD.
I am pushing for a better job with a better salary, but they require that you have your own car in advance.
Currently my parents and I are in a tough situation because we are being sued for territory and plots by one of our neighbours because they claim that they are the rightful owners, although we have all the necessary certified documents proving that my father is the rightful owner. We hired a lawyer, and because of all the unnecessary expenses we found ourselves in debt.
I am not asking for much, only 1500-2000 USD, that is all I need to buy a used car.
I am not looking to buy some new, fancy car, I want to buy a car that is 10, 15 years old. And to show you what kind of car I want to buy, here is the link: www.avto.net/Ads/details.asp?id=15021953
I want to emphasize that I am not the type of person who easily begs for money, I feel uncomfortable doing that. When others need any kind of help, I immediately jump in and help, but I find it difficult to ask for help because my entire adult life I have been trying to overcome all the obstacles life throws at me all by myself, but at the moment I am in a really difficult situation where I urgently need your help.
When I am financially able, I always donate to various animal or humanitarian societies.
Whenever any of my relatives or friends needed financial or other help, I have always helped them, but now when my family and I need help, they all turned their backs on us.
Thank you in advance to all of you who took the time to read my request for help, but to those of you who chose to donate, words cannot describe my gratitude.

My paypal link is: paypal.me/andrejablasko

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Money Needed for Car Repairs, Credit Card Debt, Eye Doctor Bills, and an Escape

I’m a nineteen-year-old girl, looking to get out of a tough situation. I hate that I had to come to this, but I’m desperate.

I have some expenses that got in my way of looking for an apartment out of a home I don’t feel welcome in. My siblings only come to me when they want something, my stepfather’s never around, and my mother only seems to care when she wants to talk about her problems and what’s wrong in her life, but when it’s me, its always me being dramatic, or I’m doing something wrong. I can’t stand to live around that anymore.  I work two jobs and I go to a class 40 minutes away from my house, that i have to leave really early in the morning for. I’m hardly ever home, and when I am, all I want to do is lay in bed and just try to regain energy. I can’t recall the last time my back didn’t hurt. It’s just a part of my body at this point, but my family can’t understand that I need the rest. If I could just escape, then it’d be okay.

But, I have some things I want to get taken care of first so I can start saving for my own apartment at the very least.

My car was in an accident back in April, and the damage is substantial. I’ve always been afraid to take it in, because I don’t want them to total it, since its my only car, but if I could pay for the repairs, I feel like I could potentially keep it. The worst of it is the frame. When it was hit, it damaged the framing and the passenger side doors, to where they don’t close properly, and they get stuck, but still let water get inside. I want to pay to get that fixed, as well as get some minor damage out from repairing lights, such as repainting, metal repair, and dent repair.

Credit card debt is a plague to all. I won’t go into what I spent it on, I can admit that some of it was unnecessary, but the point is, I’m $200 deep in it, and usually can pay it, but this time, I can’t. The card’s locked up now, and I won’t be pulling it out unless its a necessity. An actual necessity, like groceries, or a bill that can’t be paid on my debit card. If that’s paid off, that’d take a weight off my chest immensly.

And finally, the bill for the eye doctor. $140 for the appointment, glasses, and contact lenses. I use contact lenses because I work in a shop, and I need to be able to put on safety glasses and the prescription ones can cost up to $400 sometimes. Glasses were needed as my old ones were my old prescription of course, and I need them as a backup as I have always struggled with contact lenses. It had been at least 2 years since my last appointment, so it was needed.

 

Once these are done, and of course once I can find a much better paying job (I work as a waitress for two different places. Counting tips, I made $277 off of both paychecks after working for two weeks) then I can finally get back on my feet and move on into this world.

I wish I could post pictures, but the websites saying that the files are too big. I’m sorry, I just really need the help

My PayPal is paypal.me/hannahparkton

 

Please help me

 

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Young Teen Dreamer in Desperation

I’m a struggling young woman trying to make it through this world the best I can. I’m really trying to make it to the point where I can move out from my parents’ house and start life on my own. I can’t handle being in this house where I’m constantly berated for not wanting to be around my family, when all they do is demand and beg from me, or yell at me, or just make me feel like I don’t belong.

I know this isn’t the best way to try and get a home, but it can help with the payments that I do want to make so that I can start saving for my own home. I can make a whole list of things that I need to be paid for, some necessities, some not so much but would help me in future endeavors, and such, but I won’t make a massive list, I’ll just name a few.

Back in April, my poor car who has been lovingly named the Shitmobile was ran into by a guy who shouldn’t have been on the road. He scarred my poor little sister, and the entire passenger side of my car was damaged. The doors need to be replaced and the frame needs to be fixed so that I can put new doors in and maybe fix up the front and back fenders. Otherwise, water and snow and everything else leaks in. There are also damages around the taillight and one of the headlights because (I’ll be honest) I backed into my stepdad’s car on accident and destroyed my taillight, so I paid to fix his car, and he was kind enough to replace my taillight (For legal reasons I needed a taillight) but the area is so messed up that the taillight always looks like its about to fall off. The headlight has a problem because someone backed into it, and that area is also very damaged. Both areas have rust, and need new paint, my poor car just has so many problems. If I just got the outside fixed, my car would stop breaking the way it does.

I recently got a credit card as well to help build credit because I was told that would help me in trying to get an apartment, which was my only reason for getting it. Well, Christmas came and went, and then the rent I pay to my mom, and a few other expenses got in the way, and I didn’t use my debit card because I was trying to save money (In a stupid way, I know) and now I have a little debt that I cannot afford right away. I usually save enough, but because of a bunch of other expenses I don’t want to divulge into (very personal stuff, not clothes or makeup or crap like that) and now I can’t seem to get back up to the amount I need. I work two jobs, but they’re just waitressing jobs and I can’t seem to make enough to make ends meet, especially after expenses come and go. I pay for my car insurance and for my phone, as well my rent to my mom, so its a lot right now. I think I literally made about 200 dollars from my last two paychecks, and I only get paid every two weeks. I just need enough to pay that off, and then the credit card goes away for emergencies only.

And then of course there are the less important I WANTS. I want to buy a camera set so I can start doing YouTube more professionally and I want to get a tattoo. Less important of course, but I want to be honest.

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Helping my daughter.

Hello, first of all, English isn’t my first language, so sorry for the errors. I’m a 41 year-old mother who tries to help her sweet 15-year-old daughter. I will tell you my story: My daughter suffers from depression. This is something I learned recently in the worst way, when my daughter tried to take her life by taking many pills. Luckily I could stop her, and that is why I’m here now. She’s going to the psychologist and is slowly improving, but there is something (Or rather, someone) that makes her the happiest person. These people are VAV, a South Korean pop group. And yes, it may sound silly, but really those 7 boys make her the happiest person in the world just by singing songs, dancing and talking. One of the members is special to her; Jacob. My daughter always talks to me about him, about how much she loves him and how much she wishes to see him in person to tell him that he helped her overcome even her most difficult moments. Well, I never thought about the possibility of that group coming to our country, since we don’t usually get included in the tours, but it happened. VAV is coming to my country and my daughter is really very excited. On May 5 she turns 16, and I wanted to give her the ticket to go see VAV as an advance gift, but it’s a lot of money to me. When I told my daughter the situation, she started crying in frustration and locked herself in her room without telling me anything else. Two weeks have passed since that time, and every single day I heard her crying at night. Once I heard her praying, asking that me please have enough money to buy her the ticket or at least she get a job to be able to pay for it herself. The ticket I want to buy costs $ 148.5 (including taxes), with this my daughter will be able to see her beloved Jacob, talk to him and take a photo with him, something that will surely make her too happy. (150 dollars may not sound too money, but in my country it costs more than half of a minimum wage). Please help me fulfill her dream. All I want is for my daughter to be happy, even if it’s only a few hours. I want to see her smile, crying of happiness and I want her to tell me how beautiful her favorite group looked in person.

https://www.paypal.me/linakichan

(My profile is my daughter)

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Sober but needing a break…..

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Hi!

I have completely turned my life around! Im clean and sober for the first time in my adult life. I will have 90 days tomorrow! I am living in a sober living home for women and although all my basic needs are met and I am grateful, I am really having a hard time with communal living. I share a bedroom with 4 women, 2 cats, and a dog! I’m 43 years old and I am the kind of person that really appreciates time to herself. I have not a moment of time except to take a timed shower. Since coming here I have gotten my ID, a bank account and a full time job. I have to stay here because I have pending case with the courts, but I am not court ordered. Just turned out that its best i stay here so that I can prove to the courts i am still sober and making good choices!

I told the owner of the sober living about needing a break and she suggested that I get a hotel room. I get 48 hour passes and i havent used one because I have no family to visit and not really any friends that aren’t also in this home. I have had lots of men ask me out on dates, but I am trying to just work on myself for a year and not get into any relationships until i am whole and healthy, but I would give anything for a room to myself where i could just breathe. I would listen to music, light candles, take a long untimed bubble bath, order room service, sleep in a big bed without listening to girls snore and cough etc. Its a bit pricey where i live in Santa Barbara, CA and i doubt anyone is even going to see or read this, but i think a nice room for 2 days would be about $600. I am at the giving tree sober living home for women in santa barbara currently. Doesn’t hurt to try i just thought…

https://www.paypal.me/betsyandbear

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Family of 4, 2 children under 2yrs old in need of help

Hey there

Mother of 2 under 2yrs old here.

I am asking for monetary donations, and here’s why, I am a mother of 2 little sweet baby’s one I just had recently and I have completely diminished my savings, My husband works a full time HVAC Job and I work a Seasonal pool service job, this season I needed to take leave early due to being pregnant with my second child, well I had enough money to cover my off season, when in December my washer and dryer went up, well living in a 2 bedroom garage it’s a bit crammed so we obviously had no choice but to get a stackable unit which cost more than your average cheap separate units, and we are just kind of just stressed living paycheck to paycheck, we had hopes to possibly buy a home this year but they are withering away realizing that we have nothing now due to me not working the rest of my season, and unexpected things that needed to be paid for. I keep feeling like I shouldn’t ask for help cause I know that things will come in due time but it’s been five years of being a homebody, never doing anything, rarely buying new clothes or shoes until they become broken, all so we can save up for a home all for something else to come around and have to pay for it, and if your wonder, like oh well how can you afford to buy a home if you can’t even get your crap together when renting, here’s the thing in my state it’s a lot higher to rent a home than have a mortgage on a home, and that’s exactly why we cant ever seem to come up with closing cost, we’ve perfected every aspect, our credit, paying debts off, everything and now were literally down to just the down payment and closing cost. And yes there is some grants you can get, but if you get those grants your gonna be in a home that the mortgage is the same as our rent and we want a simple home that’s not going to cause us much debt with a lower payment than our rent. I’ve asked my parents for help a couple times, when they’ve received lumpsums of money from their inheritance, and the answer is always no, and just for the record neither me or my husband came from money, my husbands  mom passed when he was 7  and his dad when he was 20, and has been raised by his Gma, both him and his brother has  and my parents have always lived paycheck to paycheck and are a bit wreck less with their money, so when they finally do get inheritance they spend it on fun and vehicles, not saying that it’s a bad thing, I’m just saying that we have no one, no one to help and the state doesn’t help people they consider middle class. I just need help, anything will help.

My husbands PayPal https://www.paypal.me/HorneyFamily

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Get out of a toxic relationship and live a happy life

To whom reads this, first off thank you so much for even acknowledging it, secondly, beware that this might be really long… I’m going to start from the beginning of my life. My whole life I lived struggling with my mom financially but we were living comfortably. She had me when she was 17 and raised me on her own. She always told me to do better than she did. At first, being the teenager I was when she told me, I didn’t listen but as I got a little older about 19/20 years old, I realized she was right and I’ve started off doing a LOT better than she did. I bought my first car on my own, $2000, from working my ass off as a waitress. Then once I knew I could afford it, I took that almost broke down piece of crap to the car lot and got a car ON MY OWN. She needed help to get all of her cars or whatever else. I didn’t want to be like that so for five years so I got a job and I’ve been busting my ass to get the things I want or need. But recently, I’ve been busting my ass for nothing. Long story short. I had money saved up. I didn’t need anybody. But guess what, EVERYBODY NEEDED ME! It has literally sucked me dry. I was on the path to having enough saved up to get a place for myself, everything was going uphill for me. I was happy. I was able to do what I wanted. When I wanted. With MY OWN money that I EARNED BY WORKING MY ASS OFF FOR 40 hours a week on $2.13 plus tips. I was living life. But then the boyfriend I got the same year as I got my job started sucking me dry… before I get into this, let me tell you about him. He’s 3 yrs older than me. He has epilepsy so he can’t work. I knew that way before we started dating but I figured we’d get a check for him soon but he won’t go do it. He’s lazy. Sits on his ass. Does NOTHING. Uses his disability to his advantage. Selfish. Controlling. Acts like he’s the one making the money. I felt bad for him at first so I didn’t mind but now I see him using me, controlling me, mentally abusing me, and doing all of this just because he knows I’m stuck since I can’t afford to go anywhere. And I can’t afford to quit my job and get another, risking everything just incase it didn’t work out. I’ve been depressed for over a year and struggling more and more because of him. Because he guilt trips me. Uses things against me. Well mainly how I cheated on him a year ago. But I wasn’t happy so that’s why I cheated. You might be thinking well why not tell him and leave? Well we live with his grandma so I really don’t have bills here. Just my car, 2 loans, and insurance. Under $700 a month… I just want to get away from him and be happy and do whatever I wanna do. Once I get away, get on my own, get a better job, then I’d be able to afford living on my own and support my dog too. But for how much he controls me, belittles me, and treats me the way he does, you’d think he was making the money in the house but he literally does not lift a finger for anything at all! Always wants things handed to him. I’m just to the point where I’m done. I need to get out of here before I go insane. I’m tired of it. I’m getting more and more depressed living like this. I’m not trying to give a pity story or anything, I’m telling you the straight up truth and how I just don’t know what to do anymore. And as of right now, I have the two loans and car payment that need to get paid ASAP… I honestly just don’t know what to do right now. I’m so stuck and in the biggest rutt of my life and I never wanted to have to be in a spot where I need someone to help me with money… I’m sorry this was so long but this is what I think about daily… any little bit will help. I need to start my life over.
If you want to help…

PayPay.Me/deville62

I’ll have to take pics of my bills later but I hope my dog and I are okay for now :)

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Family Home

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I’m Looking To Come Up With $500,000 To Put My Family In This House My Mom Said She Wished She Could Afford A House Like This & To Be Honest She Deserves It.

She Is 65 Had Me When She Was 40 Years Old & Suffers From Kyphosis I Spinal Abnormality & Is Other Words Disabled & Cant Work.

Me & My Siblings Grew Up Struggling & As I Have Gotten Older I Realize She Has Truly Tried Her Best To Give Us A Better Life Then She Had.

I Want To Give Her The World 🌎 & Show Her A Better Life Before She Passes, She Has Never Been Out Of The Country Let Alone Never Really Traveled In America At That I Want So Much More For My Mother But I Want To Start By Giving Her A Dream House.

I Have Full Support From My Younger Brother & My Nephew We Are All On The Same Page, We All Want Better For Her & Will Work For It But We Do Need Help. None Of Us Have Had Any Guidance To Show Us How To Be Men In This World So Were Figuring This Whole Life Thing Out & We’ve Made Soo Many Sacrifices To Get Where We Are At Now & We Just Want To Show Her Better Before It’s Too Late.

She Is The One Of The NICEST Woman You Could Ever Meet, She Will Pray For You & Ask That God Bless You Before Her Self. She Truly Tried Her Best To Raise Us Even Tho She Couldnt Supply Much She Gave Everything She Could.

I Just Want To Show Her How Much I Appreciate Everything She Has Done For Us All.

I Truly Pray Someone Sees This & Tried To Help Please & Thank You 🙏🏽

& For Additional Contact You Can

Email Me @ Trapwolfkos@gmail.com

 

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Well I never thought I would do this!

My name is Linda, I’m 41, a single mum of a beautiful 16 year old daughter, she is doing well at school and has a bright future. I own my very small house and have a mortgage on my own. We live in bonny Scotland UK.

I have always been strong and independent, always worked hard and appreciated everything I have achieved, I am also ex RAF and served my country. So why am I on here you ask?

Where to begin, I was diagnosed with depression and anxiety about 2 years ago after  suffering a breakdown, I just thought I was exhausted and lonely (through my own choice became a hermit). Within this 2 year period I have struggled with jobs and changed jobs several times, (I’ve never really found anything that truly satisfied me) in my heart i am a singer/musician but never found an opportunity to make money from it.  This meant I have struggled to Keep up with the normal bills and mortgage, I’m actually behind a months payment on everything right now.

What’s completely ironic is I am a spiritual person I have great belief in the law of attraction, belief that we create our reality, but I think I’ve fallen so low it’s just gained more and more momentum that I can get off and I find myself (despite believing things will get better) struggling more and more. I’ve managed to rack up considerable debt to friends and family as well as loans and credit cards which seems never ending at this time. So in a nutshell that’s why I’m here, I’m asking for help, maybe the universe has guided me here to find you and fortune favours the brave right?

So how much do I need I here you say? £1000-1500 would get me back on track, even a couple a hundred at this point!  But if I was going dream big, if someone was gonna bless me with making my financial dreams come true it would be £160,000. That would pay my mortgage off and all debts, it would enable me to work part-time, instead of the 2 jobs I have always worked, which in turn would mean more time with my daughter and actually living a life instead of surviving. I know it’s a big ask but I have asked and I’m gonna keep on dreaming and imagining it happening. Because there’s always hope. We have a saying here “shy bairns dinnie get any sweeties” shy children don’t get any sweets lol.

Thank you so much for reading my story if you would like to help me please donate and if not hopefully my story has been a good read if nothing else.

paypal.me/lindamc78

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Father of 7 in need

Hello,

Thank you to anyone that may read and consider this request. I am a father of seven wonderful kids. I had three from a previous marriage and my wife also had three from a previous relationship. After we were married we had an “oops” baby and she 100% completed our little “Brady Bunch”. My wife and I are in our late 30’s and both are employed. She is a paramedic and I work at a local factory. We have a small home which we are very great fuel to have. It was my grandparents home built in 1958 and my mother was raised here. The house is in need of several updates including: septic, heat and ac, windows and electrical. The list could go on but any homeowner can make a list like that. We are rapidly out growing our home. We currently have two 13 year old boys, a 12 year old girl, a 12 year old boy, a 7 year old boy and a 3 year old girl. The oldest is 20 and has moved on to live with his girlfriend. We have tried and tried to find the means to do an addition to our home to make more space for the kids as well as get the necessary updates listed above. We do not have enough equity in our home to make all of this happen and while I do have some construction knowledge, I am not able to take on this endeavor alone. The addition we have had drawn up will be close to doubling the size of our home. It would give each child their own bedroom plus add an additional full bathroom and half bathroom. The kitchen would be remodeled to allow for enough space to have a family dinner table added because my wife and I would love to be able to sit down for dinner each night with the kids and be able to use that time to find out how things are going in each of their lives. The cost involved in all of this is great. The addition and updates will be near $100,000. That being said as well my wife and I would like to ask for an additional $150,000 to pay off the mortgage completely so that we may be able to use the money saved from that expense to give our children a life we never had as children. A comfortable life. I have worked for everything that I have and am very blessed to have a healthy and happy family. My wife and I are simply not able to find a way to make this happen without asking for a donation. Once the work is completed and all the changes are complete, we would welcome any donor to come and see what they made possible for our family. Thank you so much for the time you’ve taken to read this and have a blessed day.

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Struggling mother and son

Hi, I’m Tyrese Caldwell, I’m 19 years old and I’m not here for me. I’m here for my mom. Some years back she was in a bad accident and she broke her ankle. She was on her way to come get me from school because I had collapsed and a tractor trailer truck pulled out in front of her, she sued them but didn’t win the case because she didn’t fight hard enough and some “witness” said she was driving as if she blind. My mom is A class driver, been driving since she was 14 and never had an accident. I know the accident wasn’t my fault, it’s just after the reason why she came for me is because of me. After all of that, she sat at home for months, She had trouble finding a job for a while after she was well enough to work, specifically a year, then she got one at a warehouse but it’s not good for her, she doesn’t get paid what she deserves,every time she comes home she is limping, I tried helping but with college on top of everything and also needing money for that. I tried getting a job but it’s hard. One year when her tax return came she was gonna use that for a car but unfortunately my younger cousin died at the age of twelve and she gave my uncle (her brother) the money for the funeral when his baby momma said they didn’t have insurance on him. But turns out she did have insurance and used that money to get herself a car. Basically stole my mom’s money and didn’t even care. We have been Immobile for a while and finding a good job has been terrible. 

What we’re asking for is enough for a used car for each her and I or just one for us to share. I’m not asking for much. If we had a car we would be alright. I just need some help with it please, I’m seriously begging for help, a car would help me with a job and school. Just this once. Please, I wouldn’t be here if I wasn’t desperate. Up to $5,000 is the most I ask for. Nothing more my paypal link is on my name at the top. And again I’m not here for myself. I’m here for my mom. We still live my grandparents and my mom is 42 now. We need all the help we can get. 

I want to thank you for taking the time to read this.

 

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Not urgent, but would be appreciated

Hello, my name is Alexis. I am asking for money for a couple of reasons. One of the reasons is because I plan on moving out by November, and any assistance would be very helpful. I recently lost my job, so I am behind on my savings goal for the month (my parents have a goal that I must meet to prove that I am serious about moving, and they won’t co-sign for me in November unless I continue to meet this goal). I have been job searching ever since, but have yet to get another job. I am also planning on going back to nursing school because I would like to be able to become a labor and delivery nurse. Lastly, I would like to be able to go back to therapy for my depression and anxiety issues, as well as go to the doctor for my sleeping issues. My family does not want to pay for these appointments because how expensive they are, which is completely understandable, but I hope to be able to do that sooner than later. Any assistance would surely be appreciated. Thank you to anyone who took the time to read my message!

PayPal.me/AGlaser77

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I WANT TO HELP OTHERS BE AMAZING!

C3E54330-98EC-4247-93F9-AD47A59C5934.jpegI That in the image that I posted I seem happy. I seem to be in the best part of my life living the most fullest life that you can ever live. This scene is deceiving. Even though I’m in the small island in Mexico I was in the worst part of my life. I believed that success was achieved by lavish trips and beautiful cars. I am a middle class man with high class dreams. I believed in out working the next man because the world deserved to give me what I never had. I believed in vanity and believed in a distorted faith of my own mirror that I will be someone because my upbringing I was laughed at. This moment in 2017 after I lost everything. I lost a home for my kids and wife. I lost my mental health and still fighting. My wife lost her mental health and I went under Financially. I put all cards on the title to chase my pride. I had no clue I would be humbled to realize life is not about helping yourself but helping others. See you can’t be the only one at the top of a steep mountain. What comes up ultimately and most certainly will come down. That is the laws of physics. I didn’t build a community of successful people. I believed I would make it and one day others will see my cling to glory and never look down on me again. I believed I was super. Now I realize I am mortal I am able to fail. I am able to see loss. Not because of the life that I had but the most beautiful pictures come from the most negative frames. See my goal is to help others who don’t believe in their ability to make a change. I want to influence those who hope was put out because they lost it all. Maybe they did have good intentions but didn’t have support. Maybe they just needed some one to hear them out and give some kind of direction. Your probably asking well why do I need money? You can do this for free. The question really is. If that were true why isn’t everyone doing it? See I make music and have been for years. I have spent years and debt obtains equipment and software to better my craft. Not once have I been given a hand towards my goal in funds. I had to work for it. When I lost everything in 2017-2019. I could barley buy food for my family. Opening and maxing credit cards to survive and feeding off inspiration to make music and influence others. Since I have donated my studio set up to others I felt needed it. Gave my last bit of money to those for an honorable cause. I remember giving a 2 for 2 McDonald sandwich to a homeless man and gifted him a brochure of hope with it. It’s in these moments I realized that the niche I’m after is helping others musically of course but expanding to other ways. To motivate those from the ashes to emerge into a living story of success not from an inner power but the power of others. To do it for more then yourself and be grateful for the life we have while doing it! I have faith in people and in love and believe that this is not just words you are reading but a bigger sense of self that we ignore because we have our own problems. If others thought of others well your problems are solved. I want to really start a YouTube channel and motivate with music and vlogs that you can raise from nothing and attain more because you want everyone to do so. I am in the mist of something way different. I want everyone around me to achieve whatever level of success they can mustard up. Success is what we make it. This life we live is so precious so why waste it. Stop worrying about you and start focusing on others. This is why your here, RIGHT? You are part of a change. So I ask you this help me change the narrative. Help me help others. Help them reach their dreams. I can’t do it alone and my funds can only pay for my family’s food on my table. If you help me help others you are part of a bigger plan. Part of something bigger then ourselves and the universe will reward it. ONLY AND IF ONLY WE ARE GENUINE. Start now. Choose to help someone like me to help someone else. Maybe they can be the next Jordan or Jackson. They next big thing to inspire us again and again. We can’t all be the guy the world loves but we can be a person to help them to make a change. One step one dollar one day at a time. Be the change and give to change.

https://www.paypal.me/TruCrownMusic

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Looking for assistance to pay of Neutralisation fees

Thank you for taking time to look at my page.Where do I start.My name is Tapfuma Shumba,originally from Zimbabwe. Im a 36 year old father of two beautiful boys who I adore.I came here to the Uk just after I had turned 18 and have never gone back to my home country since.The reason not being that I don’t want but because I couldn’t. Background of my story is I came on a student visa and eventually became an asylum seekers.My journey was rough but it taught me a lot about life.Most people assume that it is easy being in a foreign land with no papers to actually progress yourself in society but it’s not. Dont get me wrong,I’m not looking for sympathy,I’m actually happy about that happened in my life so fa.The good and the bad.

To cut the story short I went through the process off seeking asylum and eventually was granted indefinite leave to remain.Happiest moment of my life.I was on top of the world because this meant countless opportunities had come my way.First thing I did was enroll on a degree course with the University of Wolverhampton and got a degree in accounting and finance.I met my partner shortly afterwards and before we knew it we were celebrating the birth of our first son.Finding a job was hard without a passport because most employers didn’t like the idea of hiring someone who just had a piece of paper granting him permission to stay.To make things worse life became a bit difficult after Brexit. Attitude towards immigrants changed.I eventually landed a job working for a company in a finance team but haven’t really had the opportunity to utilise my degree but had to settle as we were expecting another little bundle of joy.Like my mother always told me,its not what you do it’s why you do it.I get paid enough to pay the bills and just barely make it to the next payday.This is the reality of the world we leave in,most disheartening thing is knowing there are thousands of family across this country in the same situation.

The hardest challenge about finding is the lack of having a passport.This is why I have made this attempt to ask for help to raise money for the process.As an immigrant,the process is long,series of tests and applications that cost a lot of money for anyone who is struggling to make earns meet already.I don’t know if this would work but there is no harm in trying and I hope I can get to a situation where I can have enough money to start the process of applying for citizenship and make a better future for my family.

Thank you reading this and I hope I haven’t offended anyone by coming on here.Reading through what other people are going through makes me feel as is my issues are nothing.God bless.

https://paypal.me/neutralisation?locale.x=en_GB

 

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Single Dad of 2 daughters

Hi, first, Thank You! For taking the time to read my request. I am a single day of two daughters. They are 15 and 11. I like to consider myself a well above average dad. I love my daughters and they mean everything to me. I have given up relationships because they got in the way of me being there always for my daughter. Their mom does have them a couple days a week but overall, I take care of them.

I don’t spoil by daughters with belongings, but I do tend to spoil them with other things, like going to the parks, ice cream, road trips together, etc. You can see our apartment we don’t have a lot of fancy things, but it is nice, and it is our place.

About me, I have been working for 19 years in the same company, a couple company names through mergers and buyouts but my seniority is at 19 years, almost 20 😊 I am a hard worker, I have had 2-3 jobs often my whole life, even starting work at 15 in a restaurant, however I had newspaper routers, shoveled snow, mowed grass from a very young age for money. I am not afraid to work. Even now I do Shipt, a grocery delivery service and Lyft to get extra money. I am a very nice person, I always tell everyone that is one of my biggest strengths but also biggest weaknesses. Sometimes I might help someone even thought I can’t really afford to. I love helping people and would love to continue helping.

However, I am not the best with money, one thing I feel I have changed a lot in the past year and will continue to change this year is my money situation. I have reduced some of my debt and looking for ways to decrease it more. Being single and taking care of two daughters on one income is not easy. I was fortunate in 2019 to get two promotions so I am making ok dsm family 2.jpgmoney, but I still can’t get caught up. Plus, I must travel more and when I do, I must bring my mom to town which eats away at my raise.

Currently I am sitting about $5000 behind on bills. Here is a breakdown of what I have:

  • Brother 1 – owe $10,000
  • Brother 2 – owe $5,000
  • Car 1 2017 Nissan Rogue – Payoff $25,000 – approx.
  • Car 2 2007 Toyota Tundra – Payoff $15,000
  • Credit Card – $2,000
  • Current amount to get my current on my bills – $5,000

 

I would like to try and get $5000 but will take anything. And I am willing to pay if forward, if not a loan, I will take any money given to me and start to pay it forward once I am all caught up and able to. I work hard and I don’t like hand outs if I don’t need to take them so I will assure anyone I will try and pay this forward as much as possible. Thank you for taking the time to read my message 😊

David.

paypal.me/dsmbradley

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I need help getting my life together again.

I am a 19-year-old girl. I was recently released from a juvenile facility for something that I did at the age of 15. I expected to come home to support and to also have the support from the facility that I was released from however things did not work out that way. Since I’ve been home I have struggled financially , But luckily I have had a friend who has allowed me to stay with her. My problem lies where I know I cannot stay with her for as long as I need to to get financially stable and I’m asking that you guys help me to make enough money to for the time being pay my part of the rent since we are on a roommate system as well as make enough money to at least pay the deposit fee to be part of a section 8 program.  I know you may be thinking why should I help you when you have done something in the past to get into this current predicament however I must say that I have changed tremendously and I am attempting to be the best me that I possibly can. I have so far, done everything in the right way without relapsing or resorting to old ways and I am trying to continue to do so with help from you all. I am currently unemployed, because people will not hire a person with a background like mine so it’s been a struggle so far. So please help where you can, I would really appreciate it. Nonetheless I am extremely grateful for your collaboration and your consideration. I hope you all have a nice day and a nice life, God bless.

PayPal.me/bionca20

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The Campfire took everything

  • 1F755899-7428-429B-927E-61BF10A1FD91.jpegEveryone has a sob story right? Thank you for taking the time to read mine. A year ago on November 8th a fire ravaged through the town of paradise Ca.I honestly don’t know how to feel anymore. Going back to November before this fire took Paradise away. I thought I had my life figured out. I was a part of this amazing community. Blessed with great friends and co workers. We use to meet up and sip on wine and enjoy the view and company. I loved my job. My house was made into a home. I felt safe happy and secure. All of that changed without reason or warning.

. I have spent the last year trying to build a new life. I have at times felt like giving up. I saved and finally bought a car only to have it stolen and wrecked. In tears I put so much blood sweat into the car to get it back to being road worthy. I almost got it then got laid off from my job and had to move again. So again I found myself starting over. I’m not use to asking for help I have always been the helper. This time I need help I worked so much after the fire I didn’t get to utilize any of the help while it was still available. I have a very small family My son his fiancé and their tiny baby along with 5 dogs.  I am just trying to get a reliable vehicle that we can transport the baby in when needed along with to and from work. Help paying for the rental and deposit along with some items needed to try and turn this empty place into a home. I just need a little help over this obstacle so my family and I can build a new normal. There isn’t a donation too small every dollar is greatly appreciated

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Help me get debt free after long sickness.

Hello kind strangers!

 

My name is My (It’s Swedish. So it may be hard to pronounce). I’m a 25 year old girl living with my two beautiful cats in Stockholm. My family lives 6 hours from me so I’m basically alone here. And that’s why I’m asking you for help

 

Since January I’ve been sick with depression and anxiety after I cut my contact with my father and got bullied at my last workplace. So I quit my job, and used all my Savings and took a loan to live and pay rent. And I’m blaming myself for getting into this mess. But I could handle it anymore so I needed to get out of there. 

 

Because of earlier life experience with anxiety that I never really took care of (My brother died 8 years ago and I never really recovered from that) was this time so important for me to really just cut everything and try to start fresh. I never took a day off from school or work because of that. And I think in January, everything came back and hit 100 times harder, if you understand? 

 

Now I finally have a new job. But it’s only part-time because I can’t work more because of my depression. So right now I drowning I debt. I have a huge loan of 8000$ that I’m paying off, and my salary is covering everything to the max. So I can barely get groceries or anything just because of everything.

 

I have tried everything, cutting all my expenditures just to have some money left so it figure I can write here as a last chance and maybe get some help. 

 

I’m not asking for much 1000$ – 2000$ (but seriously every little penny is fine) is all I’m asking for, just to live a little and buy nice things for my cats. They need a new cat-tree for example, and I wanna have a savings account if something bad happens with my cats. Because my cats is everything for me, I love them and I want them to have a great life with me. 

 

I would be so grateful for all the help I could get. Really from the bottom of my heart!

And I feel that when I’m back on my feet I would like to help others this way to

 

Sincerely My

 

My PayPal.me link https://www.paypal.me/pawsie94

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Life is Good, But Could be Better!

I am 65 and have a mortgage until I am 85. I live a modest and frugal life in a 2 bedroom/2bath 950 sq ft home that I purchased in 2008. I try to keep myself fit at 5’5” 125 lbs. I’ve been on disability since 2010 and live on $1100 a month. In my 20’s, I hit a stalled 18 wheeler on top of a bridge instead of hitting the driver of the truck that had appeared just as I was going to pass to put the flairs to the back of the truck.  I fractured my neck which they did not find out til 20 years later when I had fusion done on C5,6 and 7. Arthritis has set in. Recently I had the nerves burned on each side of my neck. The first procedure was done on the right side. I also received third degree burns during that procedure. Two weeks later I was just healing from that when they did my left side and I came out with a cut and swollen nose. I guess they took me off the table while I was still under and my nose had to hit a door jam. Then, while attending a exercise class at the gym the instructor asked us to do various exercises going across the floor. We usually workout on a mat. That day I strained my groin and piriformis muscles. I spent my 65th birthday on ice because I could not walk.   I managed my parents business for 25 years and had no retirement. While I was raising my children in a marriage we had enough money to have a decent life. I’ve given up looking for a partner because I looked for eleven years and could not find anyone. I’ve had some expenses come up that I have put on a credit card. Like having to have a palm tree removed because homeowners association. My credit is excellent and I would like to keep it that way. I drive a 2004 Honda and hopefully that will last another 15 years. I still pay $500 a year for the $7500 that was given to first time homeowners in 2008. I put that on my credit card. $1,000 would help me tremendously so that I can pay my credit card. I will appreciate any donations. Right now I feel a little beat up and down. I hope you feel my sincerity in writing this and help me. I will appreciate anything and be grateful for your help.

PayPal.me/begginmoney

 

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Please help.

My name is Hunter Mooney. I am a 32 year old male from South Mississippi. I have always been an extremely hard working individual with supporting my family as my #1 priority. I am married to an amazing woman. I have an adopted 3 year old step daughter whom I’ve had full custody since she was 5 months old who is my baby girl and a 1 year old son. I have always worked off in the oilfield since I got out of college and a year and a half ago I started having major health Issues. My health issues consumed my life and I had to leave the oilfield. I found a job close to home then a miracle happened. My son was born. I then took a job closer to home as the Director of Sales for a local company who build and sell timber (wood) mats for road ways and heavy equipment in wet areas. It has been a huge pay cut working off sales commission but I was home with my family. We sold our house in the subdivision and both vehicles and got a mobile home and smaller more affordable cars but I was extremely happy being home every night. After a few months ago finding out my cancer has came back after the 3rd time has consumed us in medical bills. I have my medical builds caught up at the moment but last month The company I worked for owner announced his retirement and everyone was laid off. We lost our commission on sales, insurance, retirement and everything. Already struggling week to week now I have failed my family and fallen behind about to lose everything. I have never asked for help a day in my life and I am not asking for a free hand out. I am going everyday looking for employment as I have to find a job. I have came to this website multiple times but get embarrassed and leave. I’m more than willing to pay back in any help that I possibly recieve once I find a job. The most important thing of asking for help is not losing my truck or getting my phone turned off or even my utilities cut off but trying to get food for my babies and most of all them not having a Christmas this year. I’ve always been financially blessed in the oilfield and never had nothing less than great Christmas events every year but this year I’ve completely falling short of being what a father should be, I’m sorry for even asking this but any help in anyway would be a true blessing to me and my family. I can promise whomever any help would be greatly appreciated and not be used in any foul play but for Christmas, groceries and items for my kids as I can do without items for myself. I just want to give my kids a Christmas and food and shortly I will find employment and give my all on supporting my awesome family. Thank you. GOD BLESS AND MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!
P.S. I am not currently receiving any financial assistance of any kind at this moment. I have $0 income coming in at this time. Just laid off unemployed and looking to get back on my feet immediately. I would be more than happy to pay back any financial assistance I received once u find employment and get caught up. Again, thank you for listening!!!

paypal.me/Mooney1987

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Family

Hello, I’m a married mother of two girls. I work for a large retail company and have been there for 15 years. At the moment, I’m only part-time because daycare costs so much and honestly, I love being home and spending time with my babies. My children are my life and seeing them happy and healthy is my only goal. My oldest daughter has had 3 surgeries. Two were on her ears and she almost lost her hearing in her left ear, but thankfully the surgeon at Cook’s Children’s in Ft Worth saved her hearing. She’s four. My youngest daughter is almost 6 months old. She’s absolutely precious and she’s the happiest baby I’ve ever seen in my life. I was actually told I wouldn’t be able to conceive when I was younger because of my own health issues, so when I found out about my first, I was ecstatic! Two years later, we miscarried and I went on a downward spiral of depression. It almost cost my marriage. My husband is my soulmate, if there really is such a thing, and he went through it all with me, helped me, and continues to try his best to make our lives as comfortable as possible. We’re in debt, not because of credit cards (neither of us have ever even had a credit card) but because of life. My oldest daughter’s medical bills are over 6000 dollars (we’ve paid a lot toward them). I took out a loan to get a car out of my own 401k from work for 8000 dollars and I’m slowly paying that back through working (it’s taken directly out of my checks). I work around 20 hours a week, sometimes more, and with medical insurance and the loan, I am almost working just to pay those. I have almost paid off my student loans which total about 6000 now. We have a lot of debt but we are working to repay that. We’re a happy family that struggles, but my children will not know that if I can help it. We are actually both very good people. We help others, even if it is something small, like a meal I cook, or helping watch a friend’s child so they can work. I never ask for anything in return, because I know the struggle of being a mother. My husband works hard to try to provide for us, but we barely scrape by. He’s honestly the best person I know with high moral values. Our daughter’s (and I, of course) are lucky to have him. He’s the best father and loves his girls with all of his heart. He’s always dreamed of starting his own business (he had one before doing IT work). He has a lot of ideas, but we are unable to make those dreams a reality with our situation. It was my student loans that took all of our tax return last year. We were (and still are) planning to move closer to his job. He drives at least two hours a day and we really need a change. I just got back to work in October. I took off for almost 10 months because I was put on “bedrest” for the duration of my pregnancy. Since I was part-time, there was no money coming in from my side because my company doesn’t have a long-term disability insurance for part-time workers. It was devastating, but I refused to have another miscarriage. I wanted our baby girl and he did, too. She was worth it!
Honestly, I don’t expect a reply, but I hope I get one. I might

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Please help us meet in person

Kyu lives in Incheon, Korea and I, Angela, live in NY, USA.

We’ve been chatting online, video chatting, and texting for the past four months. We would love to meet in person and get to know each other better. We pray together over the phone, and have faith that we will meet one day soon.

However, because of our financial situations, this is simply not a reality for us.

Kyu and his family are drowning in debt from loans obtained from private entities (loan sharks). With ridiculously high interest fees, their debt gets bigger and bigger every day. For the past few months, he has been surviving off very minimal amount of food, and he’s been getting sick repeatedly due to malnutrition, lack of sleep, and the cold. There have been times where his heat is turned off due to not being able to pay bills, or when the landlord locked the door because he was late on rent. On multiple occasions, he and I had to email back and forth when his phone service was cut off due to not being able to pay the phone bill.

Every other few days, loan sharks come to Kyu’s workplace and his family’s home to pressure them for money. There have been times where Kyu and his mother sustained injuries (scratches, muscle sprains, etc.) from the loan sharks pushing them.

Kyu works his normal day-time position, 7 days a week, and most days, he also works the night-shift. He’s been getting a couple hours of sleep here and there. I honestly don’t understand how he’s surviving. But, that’s what it is. He’s barely surviving – not living.

I have sent over more than 10 grand to provide support, and this has caused me to go into debt, as well. However, I can’t complain. Yes, I do pinch pennies, look for coupons everywhere I go, and sometimes skip meals to save a few bucks. My debt is manageable. However, my issue is that I no longer can help him, and I just feel so helpless, knowing what he’s going through.

We aren’t looking for our lives to change overnight.

I just pray that Kyu and his family will have enough to pay off some of the immediate debt, and be able to pay off the rest in a manner that doesn’t prevent them from fulfilling the basic necessities of life, such as food, sleep, and warmth.

Any amount will be such a blessing to us.

Thank you so much!

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Please help us meet in person

Kyu lives in Incheon, Korea and I, Angela, live in NY, USA.

We’ve been chatting online, video chatting, and texting for the past four months. We would love to meet in person and get to know each other better. We pray together over the phone, and have faith that we will meet one day soon.

However, because of our financial situations, this is simply not a reality for us.

Kyu and his family are drowning in debt from loans obtained from private entities (loan sharks). With ridiculously high interest fees, their debt gets bigger and bigger every day. For the past few months, he has been surviving off very minimal amount of food, and he’s been getting sick repeatedly due to malnutrition, lack of sleep, and the cold. There have been times where his heat is turned off due to not being able to pay bills, or when the landlord locked the door because he was late on rent. On multiple occasions, he and I had to email back and forth when his phone service was cut off due to not being able to pay the phone bill.

Every other few days, loan sharks come to Kyu’s workplace and his family’s home to pressure them for money. There have been times where Kyu and his mother sustained injuries (scratches, muscle sprains, etc.) from the loan sharks pushing them.

Kyu works his normal day-time position, 7 days a week, and most days, he also works the night-shift. He’s been getting a couple hours of sleep here and there. I honestly don’t understand how he’s surviving. But, that’s what it is. He’s barely surviving – not living.

I have sent over more than 10 grand to provide support, and this has caused me to go into debt, as well. However, I can’t complain. Yes, I do pinch pennies, look for coupons everywhere I go, and sometimes skip meals to save a few bucks. My debt is manageable. However, my issue is that I no longer can help him, and I just feel so helpless, knowing what he’s going through.

We aren’t looking for our lives to change overnight.

I just pray that Kyu and his family will have enough to pay off some of the immediate debt, and be able to pay off the rest in a manner that doesn’t prevent them from fulfilling the basic necessities of life, such as food, sleep, and warmth.

Any amount will be such a blessing to us.

Thank you so much!

paypal.me/angelach0 (Zero at the end)

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Home for the Holidays

I’m not sure where to start, usually writing things out is a strong suit of mine but now that involves asking for money my pride has taken hold, and embarrassment has set in.

I’d like to start from the beginning but I’d also like to keep things short and sweet. How not to run on about this and that and how to get to the point.

Here goes; the point is I need money. I suppose everyone here either does, or they have some to give and I’m hoping that those of you who fall into the giving category are willing to lend a hand, or a dollar.

My wife and I recently moved a few thousand miles away from our east coast home. I was transferred to a new position which seemed at the time to be a great new adventure. Unfortunately what seemed a grand adventure quickly turned into that scene from gulliver’s travels where Gulliver himself is tied down by a million tiny people. Although in our case those tiny people were just a lot of life’s downs.

The cost of living was an adjustment (100% an understatement) from the price of gas, to the price of groceries and housing. Then my wife had to have emergency surgery, and thankfully our insurance covered all of it, her inability to work afterwards became a burden to say the least. She specifically is struggling on so many more levels than we are together. She left her schooling, and her family behind to start this new adventure, and as soon as we arrived was hired on for a company that seemed a good fit. We still don’t know when she will be able to go back to work and that has set us back substantially. Being home all the time isn’t suiting her either, not having the support we once had close by has been a terrible blow and her anxiety has taken over and I worry every day.

We have a good handle on her health now, and her job is waiting for her to return thankfully but somewhere between moving and medical emergencies came the car accident.

Which once again another thing to be thankful for is that no one was hurt, and again our insurance took care of the car payment so we were not left with a large bill and no vehicle. Just with no vehicle and a credit score that is laughable at best. We managed to get approved for a new car and despite our wariness of a car payment and a yet another loan we felt… Well I felt backed into a corner, and thus welcome to the family 2019 Nissan Kicks, your tiny gas tank and incessant beeping whenever I approach a vehicle at more than 4 mph without breaking will be worth it in the long run…I hope.

After that we worked hard to get back on our feet, the car payment is hefty especially on one income alone but we’re managing. As we always do.

At this point you’re probably wondering what I’m asking for help for, our insurance covered my wife’s medical needs, our car insurance covered the accident and we’re getting by making payments.

What I’m asking for and what I’m starting to think is selfish considering some of the other posts I’ve read on this site is help going home.

Although we’re just scraping by, our bill’s are paid (mostly) and although our refrigerator isn’t over flowing, we have food, and a roof over our heads.

I want to take my wife home for the holidays. I want to spend Christmas morning with her mother eating cinnamon rolls, and watching holiday movies. I want to stroll down the main street of our town at night and admire the decorations however over the top and somewhat tacky they may be. If you’re from the east coast, and ever strayed far around this time of year, you know there is no place like it during the holiday season.

I’ve come to regret our big adventure and although I strive everyday to make the best of it, and learn and grow from it. I just want to be able to break up this ever growing dark cloud with a little light.

I know it is last minute but I am hoping that the holiday spirit might fuel someones charitable inclinations so I did the math (I googled the math) and it will cost roughly $700 in gas to get home and back. Although I’m sure we will need to stop along the way to sleep and eat I can make it work somehow I just need a jumping off point and a little help.

Please note that if you’re considering donating, I appreciate it just as much as if you do, and if you do, know that you’re helping in such a big way. I can’t express what it would mean to me, my wife and our family to make it home in time for Christmas cinnamon rolls.

Thank you for reading, and thank you for donating if you do.

Paypal.me/mcmsm