Begging Money

Financial Hardship Help

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I need a miracle paypal.me/dmo8

Intro…

I’ve needed help for a long time, unsure of how or where to ask for it. It seems too good to be true that someone with a lot money would give some to a stranger, but I guess I would do the same if I were ever that fortunate (financially). I don’t know what would be an appropriate amount to ask for. 

 

Background (please excuse the wants)…

I want for more independence in life, and to not feel like such a failure. I used to be independent and a hard worker. I had my own rented accommodation and was in a good place. Unfortunately; when money troubles started, I borrowed from anywhere to keep my rent and bills covered. Losing my home was not an option. But the debt grew and when it hit £11,000+ in 2013, it was time to leave my home and move back in with my parents. My mental health deteriorated and I became unemployed. For a couple of years I tried to get back to that independence, working any jobs I could (which would only ever be temp jobs on zero hour contracts and the like) but in 2015 it all hit the fan. I came out of a relationship, I lost my job again, and my mental health went to new levels. Since 2015, it has manifested and I’ve been unable to form any kind of relationship, my social circle is null. I’ve become this agoraphobic recluse whose lost all faith and purpose in this world. I don’t seem to have ambition in life like I used to. No dreams, well realistic ones. (‘The Dream’ is to buy an area of land, build a miniature 2 bedroom castle-style home and turn the surrounding land from an empty expanse to a planted forest and lake escape). 

 

The Necessities…

I wish I could be better than this. The Dream, ok it’s unrealistic and I need to live in ‘reality’, but even the simplest of achievements seem to be just as difficult to accomplish. I want so badly to be able to have a career, a purpose, a standard income. With all my mental health troubles, the low self esteem, low confidence, doubts, trust issues, fear of judgement, philosophical thoughts on the construct of reality, existentialism, nihilism – how can I get a job when leaving the house causes shakes, palpitations and sweats. I just need help, if only to get help to buy clothes, it would be a BIG help. Or to see an optician and get the test and glasses I need. Or to get a new bed as I’m sleeping on the bed I was conceived on, which at over 32 years old isn’t good for my back. Or to see a dentist about a cracked tooth I have. Everything I own is torn, old and worn out. I can’t even go for a walk because of my ripped clothes. I need some help from somewhere. My parents are both retired and my mum cares for my grandmother who also lives with us. Maybe i’d ask them for help if I were younger, but I’m 32, I should be taking care of them now, not the other way around.

I’ve tried asking the government for help but I’m just given numbers for budgeting and money advice services. I’ve known tons of people throughout my life who have been unable to work but can get accommodation from their counsel. Whenever I try I just hit a wall and come to the realisation that I’m only going to get out of this if i get a job. But then that brings me back to my predicament. 

If you’ve read this then Thank You for your time.

Sorry if I’ve over/under-shared but my social cues/protocols are ‘off’ (or just not what they used to be).

paypal.me/dmo8

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Victim to Royal Mail Scam/£3000 stolen

During March I idiotically fell victim to a Royal Mail scam which has taken off during lockdown with the increase in online shopping. I received a text message saying that Royal Mail had attempted to deliver a parcel and that I needed to pay a small redelivery fee. I had just ordered a Mother’s Day Gift so I didn’t think much of it and followed the link. I was taken to a website which looked like Royal Mail, but rather than asking for card details it redirected me to my internet banking login page. Stupidly I popped my details in not stopping to question it, but then the site crashed and I gave up, resolving to come back to it later.

The following day during work I received a phone call from someone claiming to be from the Lloyds fraud prevention team saying that there had been some suspicious activity in my account including ATM withdrawals and online gambling. He asked whether I had shared my personal/banking information with anyone recently and it dawned on me…the Royal Mail text!! I had entered my card details to try and pay the redelivery fee. I logged onto my internet banking and couldn’t see anything suspicious, but was informed that the bank had blocked these transactions as they seemed out of character for this account. I was also told that credit checks had been run on my account which indicated that someone could be getting ready to use credit/take out a loan in my name (when I look back I could kick myself for not being more suspicious about this but in the moment you’re just panicked about your money and personal information being insecure).

Long story short, the fraudster on the phone informed me that my security had been breached and that we would need to set up a new account. This was all done in quite a sophisticated way with official emails and links being sent which outlined the steps that needed to be taken. I ended up transferring approximately £3000 in savings and my current account balance :(  I have tried to recoup this through the bank but I don’t really have a leg to stand on as I transferred the money myself via my internet banking app.

I’m frustrated and heartbroken to have lost this much money through my own naivety. I am a mental health worker in London and have been trying to get a  deposit together to buy one day (in the very distant future). It kills me thinking that I’m now back at square one and I resent the criminals who steal from those without any back up in place.  I appreciate that there are  much more urgent causes out there and even on this site but if anyone could contribute anything it would be massively appreciated.

Paypal link is PayPal.Me/chlomiss

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I am struggling

Hello, i want to try keep this as simple as possible but explained in detail as much.

I am 22 from Edinburgh born and raised. Currently right now i am going through the hardest period of my life on my darkest days. I am homeless living in temporary accommodation with no money as my benefits aren’t accepted so basically i have no income at all.

This is the first time in my life i have become homeless with no where to go due to no fault on my own.

I can give a bit of background i am the oldest out of 3 other siblings – my sisters who are identical twins and our youngest brother who is 15. I used to live all my siblings including my mum and dad. Honestly, we have never had a good relationship in the family we have always had a rocky relationship for many years it was just getting worse the older everyone got.

Towards the end of April when my life changed me and my sister were at the dinner table and we argued because of the way my sister would speak to my mum me being me i couldn’t help but say something so i said to my sister you need to show mum more respect and then she kicked off with me and started to scream and shout the house down. We argued even more to the point when the burst open the door and screamed “I could ruin your life and i will ruin your life”.

 

She then went to police the next couple days and her and my other sister made false claims to the police now long story short i have bail conditions and not allowed to speak to any of my siblings including my brother, my life is a shambles i tried to attempt suicide. I was in hospital for a week for mental health watch. When I got discharged from hospital after a week I got placed in temporary accommodation which is the same place I am still currently staying at. I have to wait at least two years before the council give me a house so i’m stuck here. I am struggling for income as it’s really hard for me to find a job with how my mental health is going on and how physically my body is. I don’t get to see my mum all the time anymore and it breaks my heart as i miss my mum so much.

I can go into details all day but i’ll be honest i am a person who gets embarrassed to ask for anything and that is the god honest truth i am sodding lots as i type this as i have never been in this position before there is so much my parents can do when it comes to money as they can’t afford to give me money anymore as they need to worry about themselves which is right. My friends have all helped as much as they can and i am so blessed and thankful for everyone who has helped me as much as they can but now they can’t keep afford to do so anymore.

Now I have never been so desperate in my life i struggle to eat everyday and even take care of myself as my heart isn’t just broken my heart is in pieces as if someone dropped a plate and just trying to glue the pieces together again. My head is a mess my head is all over the place everyday i wake up and i try so much to pick myself back up again not a day goes by where suicide does cross my mind but i keep myself together for my mum and dads sake.

I am so embarrassed to ask anyone never mind the internet for someone who doesn’t know me but i am so so sorry for asking but anything helps and again i am sorry for asking but i have never been so desperate in my life and try and try everyday to get something sorted but for me every time i take a step forward it’s just three steps back for me and it’s just hurting so much where i’m struggling to deal with the pain.

Thank you for taking your time to read.

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We want a family :( ❤

20210227_234626.jpghi, me and my fiancee Olivia have been together for 3 years, engaged for almost 2, we are incredibly happy and we always try to do our best to save and save for our future. Unfortunately, i struggle with saving because I dont make enough money at work to save as much as I would like to. We really want to get married in the next 5 years time on my late grandfathers birthday on the 4th July :) but we also really really want to have a child. I (on the right) grew up as a single child for most of my life and in 2016 I found out that I had 2 sisters from my blood related father. I was so so happy, I never speak to my “father” anymore though because he just doesn’t care. But I was blessed with the most amazing stepfather who I have called my Dad since day 1 of meeting him, when I was just a year old. And he was only 17 then. He and my mum divorced a few years ago but he’s still here for me! I’m so lucky. So it proves that love doesn’t always have to just come from blood. My DAD ❤ helped me and Olivia with our first month’s rent and deposit in our lovely little flat. Which we’ve now paid him back for and never stop thanking him for everything he does for us. we’ve just signed a new year’s lease agreement because the area is perfect, especially for kids to grow up. But eventually we will need a 2nd bedroom and a bit more space.

The point in this BIG ASK is that, yes straight couples struggle to get pregnant also, but if you’re a woman in a relationship with another woman, its very difficult. And it can become expensive. And sometimes the treatment doesn’t always work the first time around. I just want to be a mother, for my mum to see me fully happy would mean the world to me and I want my grandparents to see how happy I am raising their grandchildren.

 

I feel so cheeky even posting this, even though I’ve heard that it’s a good site like go fund me. I still feel awkward asking for someone’s help who I do not know. But this is the most life changing, amazing thing and I’ve dreamt of this for so many years, I’m 25 in December and Olivia is 25 this June. And we are always surrounded by children and as much as I love my friends having kids, it makes me a little bit upset because it’s not so easy for me and liv to just plan it and go ‘you know what, let’s try and make a baby’ because we can’t. So anyone out there who’s willing to help.. Thank you in advance, this is my dream and my only goal in life xx

 

My paypal account is

Paypal.me/gemmarennicksalive

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Lost job following breakdown, no fixed home, lots of debt

I’m a young guy in my 20s. 6 months ago, I had a well-paid job, and I was able to rent a room in a nice house share in London. Now, I’m barely making enough money to scrape by, I have no fixed address and I’m reliant on the kindness of friends and family who have a spare bed or sofa. I’m trapped in a vicious cycle of debt, which is preventing me from renting a home and getting back into full time work. I’m desperate for some help with my finances. Please read my story below. Ultimately, I’m asking for a second chance and if possible, I ask you to please consider helping me: paypal.me/j922.

Growing up I felt a lot of pressure to be successful. It’s unfortunate that earning lots of money was central to my perception of success. I forewent opportunities to pursue my passions and instead pursued a career that paid well. Being paid well came at the cost of my happiness. I filled the void with spending and racked up a lot of debt, which peaked at £25,000. I found myself in a position where I was shackled to a job that I hated due to my debt obligations. Eventually I recognised the futility of my position and began paying down my debts so that I could leave and retrain for a new career. Unfortunately, last year the stress and pressure of the job became too much. I suffered a severe mental breakdown, and I was forced to leave the job. At this point, I was still in £12,000 of debt.

In September last year I had to leave my home because, without a job, I couldn’t afford to pay rent and continue to make monthly payments on my credit card and loan. I am fortunate that friends and family have offered to take me in. However constantly moving around staying in different beds, on different sofas has been unsettling.

Since December I have found some work, but the pay is low, and the hours are not guaranteed. Using money from the part-time work, I have been studying for a qualification to get into a career that I’m passionate about. However, in my current position I’m barely making enough to pay my monthly loan repayment of £485 and my minimum monthly credit card payment of around £320. In fact, this month I don’t have enough money to cover both. I have over £10,000 on my credit card and it’s only growing with interest. I’m due to finish my qualification in a couple of months and I’m keen to get started in my new career as soon as possible. However, it’s going to be incredibly difficult to get a job without a stable home, I’m constantly at the mercy of friends and family. While the small income I have available is being more than absorbed by my debt payments, it’s impossible for me to save for a deposit to rent somewhere.

My debt is a contestant source of anxiety and stress for me, it’s had a huge impact on my mental health. I finally feel like I’m on the right path with my career, but the debt is still weighing me down and creating a barrier to getting started. Therefore, I’m asking for some support with my loan repayments and paying down my credit card. Any help you can provide will be endlessly appreciated: paypal.me/j922.

 

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I lost my smile because of my teeth.

I have lived with the motto:

”I learned to give, not because I have a lot, but because I know clearly how it feels when there is nothing.”

I am now in a situation where I have to ask my fellow people for help. I believe that there are many good and helpful people.

My name is Larisa and I am 53 years old. My dream is to pull out 6 roots and put in at least front teeth. To be able to live a full life. to be able to find work with people or not to work alone. To be able to meet men. I am a  widow for 15 years. I want to smile without putting my hand in front of my mouth.  Dental service is very expensive. I will never be able to earn that much money. Now you need to take painkillers often because pus has formed. I have lived with my problem and pain for years. I believe in the responsiveness and support of my fellow human beings. I believe that my dream will come true. I believe that I will be able to say thank you with a wide smile and not have to put your mouth.

paypal.me/nicelara50

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Wishing on a Eastern Star

Hi there, a few years ago I found out that I was able to dissociate and obviously this has left me feeling very emotional and insecure. I am frightened.

My life couldn’t be any worse. Right now I am unemployed and struggling financially due to bills and debts that have mounted up over the years. I suffer from depression and am also on the cusp of diabetes.

Twenty odd years ago, a colleague at work decided to set me up and stole some money from the petty cash tin. Obviously as I was the only black member working there I was immediately suspected of the crime. My employment ended with the law firm and although no legal action was taken against me, I have spent the last twenty three tears with my reputation in tatters and I have not been able to hold down a job in all that time. The last time I worked was a few years ago and during that time, another person that I worked with went into my bag when I was away from it and placed a reciept from her wallet into my wallet. I only found it when I got home but the message was clear: We know about you.

I was shocked and saddened to think that over 13 years had passed at that point but yet, I was still seen as an untrustworthy person. The next day I was officially sacked for some made up reason. At 10:30 that morning I was told to leave. That was day 11 of my employment at that company.

Since then I have largely just ‘existed’. I survive on government handouts that do not support me in any way at all. I have no family. My family chose to believe the woman who framed me and kind of turned their backs on me when they thought I was a thief – although they never stopped talking to me. My sister also informed my close school friends about my alleged thieving and obviously I now have not one close friend left. No family and no friends to ask for help from.

A few years ago I found out that I was abused as a child (and since…). When I attempted to alert my brother and sisters about our dire situation, they again turned their backs on me
– and I don’t think that at this point in our relationship there will ever be a reconciliation.

I have about £10,000 of accumulated debts that I am struggling to pay off at £1.00 per calendar month. I know that I will not be able to pay them all off right from the jump but anything that anyone can donate to my Paypal will be grately received.

Thanks in advance

Sue

Paypal.me/suethorpe

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Help my family

Hello my name is Hannah and I’m posting today in the hope that kind hearted individuals will hear my struggle and be willing to help.

Last summer my father had a stroke which has affected his and my families way of life. My dad was in hospital for approximately 13 weeks and received therapy to try and regain mobility. Despite these efforts, very little progress was made and my father has now come home but with limited quality of life. He is bed bound completely, blind in one eye and has lost the use of half his body. This has been a very difficult time for us all, both financially and mentally. We have no carers and look after my dad on our own, as a family. Whilst we are managing to do this, the struggle and hardships have not gone away.

Simple things like getting dad out of bed or even having a shower are now close to impossible. My father is 48 and had a good quality of life prior to this, but now he has a very limited quality of life and mentally he has been affected quite badly. My dad now has no employment so the bills have fallen upon the heads of my mother and myself. Whilst we work full time in our respective jobs, and care for dad, we are not making enough and need some help. This is what has bought me here today.

I am really hoping and praying that we receive donations to help get my dad some private physiotherapy sessions, to try and regain his mobility somewhat. I am also planning on using any money obtained to make house hold adjustments to care for him and clearing the mortgage to relieve some stress from my mother. These adjustments also include getting wheelchair access and a wet room, so my father can get a shower and feel more himself.

Coming onto this site and begging strangers for money is never something I thought I would do, but my family is in a real hardship and the kindness from others to help us would be beyond amazing.

Thank you for taking the time to read about our struggle and helping us where you can. If you would like to make a donation I have listed my PayPal account below. Thank you again and god bless.

paypal.me/HJS123

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Debt consolidation – too much for me

Hi all, thank you for taking the time to read my request!

When I was 18-21 years old I struggled financially and got myself into a little debt. Nothing too extreme. Since then I have worked my whole life and started to clear it all. I lost my job in December due to the pandemic and since then have struggled to find work having countless interviews just not getting any luck. I have had to move into my partners parents house with her and our newly born son. We can’t afford our own place just yet!
Since losing my job I have just found myself further in debt and because of my previous history and now been unemployed I cannot find a debt consolidation loan :(.

I never knew sites like this excisted until I had to research because I have no other option now. In all honesty I don’t expect much from this as I’m unsure if they actually work but whatever I do recieve I am going to vouch that once I’ve found my feet again I’m going to donate to other unfortunate people who are seeking the same help.

Here’s my PayPal link.

https://www.paypal.me/SBuckton

 

thanks in advance everybody!

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Help Pay For Vinny’s Medical Expenses

My Bearded Dragon Vinny is not doing well at all. I rescued him early 2020 from a pet store that had no knowledge on dragons. He was around 3 months, he had 3 different kinds of parasites, dead bugs stuck to his scales. He was living in filth. I didn’t have much money but I took one look at him and knew he needed me as much as I needed him. My best friend passed away late 2019 and Vinny has been my escape from that, my support, the only thing that’s keeping me going. I don’t know what I’d do without him. When I bought him home for the first time he was severely underweight, we were also fighting his parasites off and during that time and I thought I was going to lose him. But we fought through it and he came out stronger than ever. We were okay for a few months and he was thriving!

Coming onto the end of 2020 Vinny fell ill again, this time it’s hit him harder than before. It’s been roughly 3 months and he’s still no better, he’s just getting worse. He’s so defeated, he can barely lift his head, he barely Keeps his eyes open, his fat pads are sinking… he’s got no fight left in him. I have to physically move him to his heat to keep warm because he will not move himself. I’ve spent thousands on him within the time I’ve had him and now it’s coming to the point where I cannot afford anymore, but it’s also at the point where he needs treatment the most. He refuses to eat and take water, so I’ve resulted to syringe feeding slurries with calcium and he will eat the occasional blueberry here and there to give him the nutrients he needs, force feeding is usually the outcome. Since owning him he’s needed so many vet visits for constant treatments of parasites with antibiotics, wellness checks, X-rays.

Unfortunately I have been out of work this entire time, I’ve been applying for so many jobs and none have come through leaving me with little to nothing. Vinny started to black beard constantly two days ago and he’s never done that, that’s one of the signs of discomfort in dragons. His stomach is hard and bloated, his liver is enlarged and has more fatty tissue around it, If this doesn’t improve he’s at risk of fatty liver disease, his lack of eating isn’t helping this situation. He has dislocated 2 congeal vertebrae (tail) and he has several dislocated toes which are extremely painful for him, stiff swollen joints, he’s losing weight rapidly, he also has kyphosis too which is a new issue. I don’t know what I can do anymore, I’ve done all I can but I’m running out of options.

Vinny is my everything, he is my emotional support animal for my many mental health issues, I’m no good at asking for help, but I can’t be without Vinny and I need help.

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Struggling

I’m not one to ask for help, especially financial help but I’m struggling to get through this on my own. I’ve unfortunately gotten myself into some debt with us making it difficult for me to afford other “luxuries” such as food and car bills.

I’ve been trying to get though my debt for a while now. The total amount I’d need completely is £5500/£6000 but any donations help.

I need the debt to be gone so I can finally live stress free and not worry about being able to afford things or getting from one month to the next.

I also have a dog which as many people will know can become expensive.

Thank you for your time.

https://www.paypal.me/alixlaura

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FrontLine

Hi, I am Community Nurse (District Nurse), working in London, UK.

During this pandemic, I have been providing care and support to all my patients in their own houses.

Unfortunately, I haven’t been very lucky during this pandemic.

With great sadness, I lost several amazing people (patients) and also, I have been very unwell.

Being part of the frontline on the combat of the COVID-19. I spend all lockdowns out there going from house to house in a ghost city, and never know what I was going to find in the next house.

Only very recently I start to have images and thinking and digesting the situations  I was in during the first lockdown. Very very sad period.

All my life has been affected on a large scale, my health, and financially.

I self-isolated several times, for about 8 weeks in total, I was sick for 6 weeks also.

I am not 100% yet. I am constantly short of breath and very tired, I developed also terrible insomnia, part of long-term COVID effects.

For the last few years, I have been working in NHS via an agency.

The government put in place some strategies to make the nurses go back to NHS as full-time workers. Turning our lives harder.

Being an agency nurse, I am only entitled to £90 per week as sick pay. For self-isolated and sickness period. When all the other people have been paid 80% of their salary.

Result in being unable to go back to work earlier and not having any support in this Pandemic crisis. I am now in terrible financial despair.

I am a decent and honest guy, but I haven’t been having much luck.

I have contacted several charities for help, but unfortunately, they don’t help individuals they help companies. I cant understand, this attitude.

I really need to sort out my rent very urgently to prevent me to become homeless. I have already been informed; they are waiting now for a court hearing.

I really appreciate it and I will be extremely grateful if I could borrow £12.000 to pay my rent arrears and clean my debt electricity and my council taxes.

I just need a chance and the opportunity to rebuild my life again.

Honestly, at moment I am struggling and I can’t see the way to pay these bills in arrears asap I really need to pay the rent arrears very urgently. I am now in the process to become Homeless.

It’s the scariest, depressing, and saddest period in all my life.

Friends? good guess. Vanished… Big surprise and a huge shock. Lessons to learn. Unfortunately the hard way.

I hope with your help and kindness I can have my life back on track again.

Thank you for taking your time to read this message.

I am an honest and genuine guy, unfortunately, I haven’t had luck in life.

I do know now the hard way. We never know tomorrows day. Never passed thru my mind. One day I would be here writing a message to people asking for help to pay my bills.

It’s extremely painful and sad, after being out there during this all-pandemic period exposing and putting my life at risk helping others, I have all my life completely rip apart. Sorry but it’s extremely difficult to explain and has been extremely difficult to stay alive.

I do find it a really high price to pay for being out there helping people during all this Pandemic period.

I appreciate that you must get a lot of requests like this. I would like you to know I haven’t got any intention to rip you off or abuse your Kindness.

I am contacting you to request your help and understanding of my situation that I am facing and live my life at the moment.

I will be extremely grateful for the rest of my life if you could have the opportunity to rebuild again my life to the simple normal life that I had before this pandemic appears

I am also very happy J give you all the information regarding my bills in arrears and the account details where the payments can be made. By doing this you will have the guarantee that my request is genuine and honest.

Thank you so much for taking your time to read this help request, I am very thankful and I really appreciate

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Pet Insurance Denied – Trying to make a dying cat comfortable

Our wonderful, friendly and kind six year old cat became a bit peaky earlier this year. He went on and off his food and then seemed to quickly recover. When our poor little guy went much more severely downhill in February we were terrified and rushed him to the vets immediately, and ran up a huge amount of debt getting him tested in every way possible. The verdict was grim, initially Feline Hepatic Lipidosis which has, more recently, been discovered to have been caused by Lymphoma. We don’t know how long our little guy has left but we want to give him as happy and comfortable a life as possible.

We changed Pet Insurance providers in December, and sadly they decided that since we had, in our tearful and sleep deprived state mentioned on our first emergency vet appointment that “he had been a bit ill over Christmas and had lost a little weight” (as recorded in our pet’s notes by the vet) that this was a pre-existing condition and we are no longer covered by their insurance for anything relating to this.

As such we are currently trying to find ways to clear the massive amounts of debt we have just incurred and will likely continue to incur should our fluffy best friend have to go through chemotherapy and other treatments to improve his quality of life.

If you can spare just a little it would mean the world to us. Thanks to our mounting vet bills during COVID we are struggling to make ends meet, and ensuring that our amazing little friendly cat has the best quality of life is our top priority.

Thank you so much.

https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/quixoticish

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No pressure, any help is greatly appreciated

I realise you probably won’t have time to read this, but if you do come across it, I’m just glad you given me the time and really appreciate it.
Please believe me when I say this is the first time I’ve ever felt so low and desperate that I’ve had to consider this.
I have kids and a partner who have no idea I’m doin this. For the last 20 years I’ve suffered from anxiety and depression since my dad died. I had a brilliant job working for 12 years when I left school. I lost that job as a consequence of my condition. Over the years I’ve slowly got worse to the point where I just can’t hold a job down due to having to take a lot of time off to try and get better. I’m about to lose my latest job which I’ve been off from for the last month. I’ve been on various different medications and just recently decided I had to open up and tell my mother what had been going on which was extremely hard as she’s been to hell and back herself.
I’m now going through the process of having to go to higher professional therapy as I’m suspected to have been suffering from PTSD all this time. No matter how hard I’ve tried to power on for my family’s sake, I just can’t do it anymore. I need to try and get my self better. It’s got to the point where I struggle to leave the house. I’m currently filling out online surveys just to try and pay a few extra bills. My partner is a carer for the elderly in a care home. Her wages barely cover our rent and utility bills.

I just need help with being able to try and get myself back on my feet and being able to support my family through all of this.
If there’s anything you can do for me, you don’t know how much I’d appreciate it. Please don’t worry if not, I’m just glad that you have given me the time out of your day. I’m struggling to sleep right now so it’s also given me a different way to get things of my chest. I’ve chose not to post any debt pics etc as I don’t want to put that pressure on anyone. Whatever help I receive will be unbelievable

Thanks for your time

https://www.paypal.me/alanknights

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Please reunite me with my fiancè

Hello. My name is Jeri, I’m in my 20s, I live in London and I need assistance. I know the last year has been difficult for everyone but I need to see if any kind soul out there can help.

I’ve been stuck in England away from my fiancé for over a year now. In that time I’ve lost my income (as has he) struggled as we all have, but most importantly I’ve been forced to use all the money I had saved to go back to the US to see the love of my life on basic needs. We’re both creatives, in low paying jobs before covid, and now with the pandemic, things have gone from bad to worse. He can’t travel due to some health problems, so if I’m to see him again, I need to go there. Every day I wake up and pray this nightmare is finally over, but what makes it unbearable now is that even once things are ‘normal’ again, it could be a very very long time until I have the funds to go through with our plans to wed.
I would ask for help from family like most people, but I haven’t that luxury- I escaped a very violent household upbringing, leaving me completely estranged from my family. I live with friends who are unable to help me in this regard. From asking literally everyone I know for help, to applying for every job I can find, to trying to teach music without proper video call equipment, I have made very little progress. It’s breaking my heart that I can’t fix this and make it better, to the point where I am desperately hoping that someone out in the world will help reunite me with my fiancè. All I want is to have him by my side as we rebuild our lives, pick ourselves up and hopefully one day be in a position not only to fully support ourselves but to help others too.
If anyone out there can find it in their hearts to help me get back to my fiancè I would be grateful beyond words. To reunite me with the one human who loves and nurtures and supports me is a gift that I couldn’t want more than I already do- it is all I want. I believe that there is good in the world and I’m humbly asking for help from any good soul reading this for any help at all they can offer.
Thank you for reading this.

Jeri Miah Kaur

paypal.me/jerixox