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Trying to save my life

Hi everyone, I hope you are all doing well and safe during these times. So during the pandemic, me and my family were severely affected financially. My mum and dad both went out of work because of their health, I was out of work, we had bills, but we then also had medical expenses for my mum to be paid as she is very ill still today. We decided to borrow money from relatives, anyone and everyone and now we can’t return it because work is still tough, and our health is still bad. We thought it couldn’t get any worse but then my dad’s brother needed to get a kidney transplant urgently or they said he had zero to little chance of living. So we didn’t want to, but had to borrow more money. As of today, we owe people £60,000 and it would mean everything if we could just give the money back and somehow get life back on track without borrowing ever again. It got even worse when I got scammed as I had given money to someone who had promised to give me more money in return but because I was so desperate for money, I ended up giving him so much and in the end, I never got anything. That was stupid of me but when there are a lot of things going on, it’s hard to think straight. Please help me and I will forever be grateful to all of you.

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Cochlear Implantation Surgery for Hearing

My daughter, Brooke, who is now two years old, is deaf. She was born with bilateral sensorineural hearing loss, which means that has damage to both of her inner ears. I have spent a lot of money over several months going to audiologists, speech therapists, geneticists, radiologists, psychologists, cardiologists (apparently, there is some connection between that type of hearing loss and the cardiovascular system!), and of course pediatricians. She has been wearing hearing aids since she was three months old, but because she has severely profound hearing loss, they are not effective. In fact, the reason why she is wearing them is because it is one of the conditions that we must meet in order to be a candidate for a very expensive surgery called cochlear implantation. This procedure will allow for her to hear. In a nutshell, a device that is implanted in her skull will send signals to her inner ear that will be converted by her brain as sounds. However, to be a candidate for this surgery, there are several things that must be done first, one of which includes wearing hearing aids. Now that she has completed all of the steps, she is now a candidate for the surgery. However, she is unable to move forward with the surgery because the cost is so much – for one implant, it is $50,000 without insurance, so it will be at least $100,000 to get them implanted on both ears. My insurance does not cover this surgery at all (the insurance company wrote that this is an elective surgery and that hearing aids will suffice – which I explained is not true since she cannot hear even with the hearing aids), and I do not have the funds to pay for this upfront nor do I make enough to pay this amount off monthly. The money that I have spent on this process alone has eaten up my savings. I have been turned down at several banks and banking websites for loans because of a low credit score (mostly driven by both my large student loan debt as well as maxing out my credit cards for these medical appointments – which impacts credit utilization, a major aspect of one’s credit score). I could really use the compassion of anyone who has any excess funds to share – I know that it may be a tall ask since COVID-19 has impacted a lot of people. I hope that you can help. I would like for my daughter to hear all the things that we take for granted: the birds chirping in the morning, the dishwasher running, her father’s off-tune voice singing Twinkle Twinkle Little Star. Thank you for your time in reading this message.

 

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A story from the heart, realy help needed…

Hello,
I never thought it could be so hard to write such a letter. I don’t have words on how to put it correctly, so I’ll write as is.

Let’s start with the fact that I don’t want to get money in vain, it’s unacceptable to me because I tended to help others. I have hope and a great desire for everyone who helped me get my finances back through paypal right after I get on my feet.

I have been working independently since 2009, I am a blacksmith. I have a wife, two children and their pet hamster:)

Working for many years in my work with metal, seeing that people in need of essential services, I just didn’t take the money or made it very cheaply. Apparently, that’s why I have financial problems now, because I didn’t act like a real entrepreneur. But that’s fine, I think it’s humanity, and it should be, I’ll survive, I don’t regret helping others. With the workers, too, I hired those who needed financial help, paid more than they earned, and never punished for mistakes or damaged work materials, instead of punishing, I continued to train the craft. I don’t know, I’m maybe stupid, but I like to see happy people.

The problems started three years ago. When installing the gate, I accidentally turned on the remote control from the automated gate in my pocket and the gate injured my hand. It seems like a small problem, but how deliberately I had customers who, even on the day of the hand operation, realized that I would be late with the ordered products and demanded the return of the deposits, even though the work was halfway through. To whom I could, I returned to those who did not have enough funds, they went to the courts. Eventually, a large debt accumulated after the courts. To date, it is about € 21,500, but the problem is not that. I tried as much as I could to pay debts back. Contributed by both family and familiar and very economical lifestyle. As an example, now my family of 4 people live in a 1-room apartment, I, a wife, a 7-year-old daughter and a 4-year-old son. Not as easy as reading the text may seem, but possible. But even that’s not why I’m writing here, life’s hardships are a good way to get stronger and be stronger than before. I was already used to working with an injured hand, all that was left was that debt.
Now that that “second” wave of Covid has started, the number of orders has been reduced to a minimum, I haven’t had a single order in the last 3 months, I don’t know why, but my health has deteriorated a lot, I did tests, tests say I didn’t get Covid, but it is hard to walk, heart problems started, no more strength … maybe the tests are wrong, maybe something else struck my health. I can no longer feed the family. Every day i feel very bad. I can’t get a health check because I can’t have health insurance because of my existing debt.
I’m not asking to cover my debt, don’t pay attention to the numbers you saw in the text, I just wanted to convey a life story to better understand each other.
My debts remain my debts, I will pay them according to my possibilities, I will also repay You when I can, if I can. Just help me survive the current period, help me get funds to research my health and recover so that I can continue to live, enjoy my family and get a chance to help others through this website. At the moment, I have 30 euros left in my wallet for tomorrow’s food and then everything … but before I wrote this letter, I read other people’s stories … there are worse than those who live for me. I have life-threatening problems, but I don’t feel good addressing you. I feel naked after telling everything, I have nowhere to turn, Here is the last stop.

Just in case you think I am worth living and helping others in the future, help me today. Thanks to everyone, even the smallest penny will help us.

Feel free to contact me by email gamybaklaipeda@gmail.com if You think that i can do something for You, after Your donation.

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Cancer treatments

Hi. I’m looking for help financially for my cancer treatments I was diagnosed with stage 2B breast cancer In Aug 2020 I have had surgery and now I will start 31 radiation treatments and then 8 chemo treatments. I have 5 children and I’m doing everything I can for them and to get to my treatments but I’m really starting to struggle financially. I will start my treatments this afternoon February 12 2021 and honestly don’t have the money to get there. I need help with gas, prescriptions (some are covered but not all), meals (as I’m there over lunch and supper times), care giving for my children while I’m gone for the day, and also help at night time hen I’m sick.  I have never asked for help before and honestly I’m ashamed to have to ask but I just didn’t know what to do anymore. Thank you for reading my story. And I promise once my cancer journey is over and I’m back on my feet I will definitely be paying it forward. ❤️

https://paypal.me/sandycancer?locale.x=en_US

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please help my mom fight cancer

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Hello everyone, two years ago my mom’s left breast started to hurt her so we went to the hospital to check what’s going on , after examining it the doctor working there told us that everything was fine and that she should stop worrying, turns out he wasn’t right , months later the pain wouldn’t stop and the symptoms started to appear more and more; she had this huge lump on her breast and nipple discharge , at this point we were so worried and concerned for her health so we’ve asked her to do a mammogram which proved that she had breast cancer, This was devastating news to all of us ,I was so scared and anxious about this whole process, but I couldn’t show her this, I had to show her that I’m strong and that I’m there for her and that we’re going to get through this together .

After starting her treatment things have changed a lot, my mom had started to travel once a month to the capital city for her sessions because we didn’t have a hospital that treats cancer patients where we live, and that travel took her 4 hours to arrive. I remember arriving home and finding notes that she wrote in my room saying that she had to travel to go get her treatment, that was making me feel lonely and devastated as a teenager.

After several chemotherapy sessions the doctor told my mom that she was cured and that she was cancer-free, we were all so happy to hear that and we felt so much relief.

Months later, at her monthly medical examination we found out that cancer had spread to her brain and that she has Brain metastases, even after hearing this we still had hope that things would change for the better and we never gave up. Because of her brain tumour my mom lost her ability to walk and started to have memory problems, headaches and seizors. It’s been two months since she went to her therapy radiation because now, she can’t walk anymore, and if we want to take her, we will need an ambulance which is too expensive, and our financial situation does not allow this right now. Since my mom stopped working the responsibility of the entire family fell on my dad’s shoulder he had to pay for her medicaments, treatments, and even finance my studies in Spain.

This whole situation is difficult for us, time ago my mom used to be happy, full of life, and a kind person who helped everyone around her, she used to love her work at the office, and she used to enjoy spending time with us, but cancer had taken all of those things from us.

The whole purpose of this is to humbly ask for your generosity and help us raise money for my mom so that she can continue her treatment and hopefully soon get back on her feet so that she can come back to her normal life. I know that times are tuff for everyone during this pandemic, and we wouldn’t ask for help if we didn’t really need it.

Please remember that a small act of kindness can change a person’s whole life.

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Need funds for wife and mother in law stuck in Accra Ghana

My Name is Richard Rupert, I live in Creston, BC, Canada. My wife (Belinda)and her Mom (Janet) went to Ghana when their husband/ father passed away in Accra.  Very soon after arriving Belinda thought she caught the flu and delayed seeing a doctor. He situation grew worse such tha an ambulance was called and it turns out she had malaria. It was serious because Belinda didnt get diagnosed right away. She pulled through but a month later she contracted cholera. Janet was diagnosed with kidney failure and needed an operation. When they were healthy enough they hired a lawyer to assist in Belindas inheritance. This was a real mess because the lawyer was a fake and scammed us for thousands. I was concerened about this lawyer so I contacted Wymoo investigators and they said he was a scammer. He is now in jail but thousands of dollars were lost. Looking for a legit lawyer Belinda asked the Chief of police to suggest a good lawyer which he did. Full of hope and we tried again but this new lawyer was also a fake. Belinda wasnt healthy and entered the hospital and had an operation for stomach ulcers. Belinda lost a lot of weight, was stressed and needed lots of care when she fell into a comma  for 5 weeks. Janet had complications with her kidney operation and was back in the hospital. The bills have added up to a point that we couldnt keep up. If you are a foreigner to Ghana you are not released until all bills were paid. I have borrowed from my bank , friends and family.  They are well and healthy but I am not able to keep up with the bills to bring them home. We are now at the point when all we need to do to finish up is to have Belinda released to sign some documents to have her inheritance released. Something that should have been done quickly has turned into a couple years now. I am not looking for a hand out just a helping hand to finish and get them home. I need $5,000 to cover the hospitals. Once Belinda is free to finish her business she will have enough to pay back funds and a handsome reward. They have both been stuck in the hospitals for 6 months now. I am retired and on a fixed income. Any assistance will be more than appreciated and paid back. Thanks for your time Richard

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Medical Bill

Hello,

My name is Kinika Christensen.  I am 42 years old and I weigh 400lbs. I have been approved by my doctor for Gastric bypass surgery.  This surgery will contribute to the improvement of my health and well being. I have been diagnosed with arthritis and the weight just makes it harder to move about like I should. Im too young for this. I refuse to continue on this way. I’m begging for the down payment cost of my surgery $6,000. This is the portion my insurance won’t pay. I do not qualify for Obama Care or Medicare so forget about the state helping. I want to get this done before my health gets any worse. It would be nice to take more than a few steps without being so tiered an in pain. I don’t have any problem with providing proof of my needs or current health situation if needed. My situation is somewhat desperate and I’ve run out of other options. Thank you for your consideration.

 

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plz help me buy my antidepressants

 

Hello there, I suffer from anxiety and clinical depression since 2011. I make 500$ a month which hardly cover rent and bills. I just need some to pay for my medical expenses(antidepressant and doctor visits) which I cant afford and I struggle so much without them unfortunately. they cost exactly: 479 $ a month. which is almost my entire income. so, I have 2 choices either I spend my monthly income to cover my medical bills and live on the street or pay my rent and bills and stay without medical support which is very hard to handle with my severe anxiety and depression. I hope someone can help me out.

I just want to have enough money to pay for the basic stuff in my life but its really as a student with depression the next semester is my final semester from college then I will hopefully graduate. but I cant focus in my studies without having my basic needs as a human being. thats why I need your help. I want to beat my depression and succeed in life but its extremely difficult in my circumstances

If I have my basic needs then I will be able to focus on my studies but without my antidepressant its super hard to study. I hope none of you suffer from it. and I won’t wish it to my worst enemy.

life is painful with depression. I don’t have any social life or friends. the things I use to enjoy doing I no longer do. sometimes I wish I was never born and think of some dark things. I wish if someone would donate 2k-3k and I’ll be relieved from having to find money to pay for my treatments and can concentrate on my studies only next semester and graduate.

If I get the proper support I really feel like I can beat this thing or at least make it better. Depression is different from any other disease, most diseases when u get them you are afraid to die but when you get depression u wish that you die so you don’t feel the indescribable pain you suffer from.

I hope some kind hearted people can sympathize with my situation and help me out.

depression has paralysed my life completely it makes the easiest things you do the hardest things for someone with depression. no one can understand the pain that I go throw on daily basis. my days are the same, the only difference is the scale of depression that I have that day some days are worst than other and some days are better. but even at my my best days I still feel depressed and want to do nothing but lay on my bed.

I feel like my life has stopped since I got it. I don’t feel my self growing or maturing at a personal level because you got to have experiences in life to grow and mature but I got no experiences since Im always avoiding socializing and always alone and never go out of my home unless I have to.

I hope you can help me out and hopefully one day I’ll be the one who helps people out

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Melanoma, no more!

Hi there, my name is Rachel. I have been visiting a dermatologist for a year now, monitoring the maturity of what unfortunately is melanoma. After many visits as well as ultra sounds and an MRI, my dermatologist has determined the melanoma is rooted with in the unattractive mole I bare on the right side of my neck near my thyroid gland. The Discussion between My dermatologist and her partnering surgeon resulted in a game plan of removing the top layer, between two surgeries and following the initial removal, the roots in which have developed over the years, will have to be surgically removed resulting in a third surgery. Melanoma runs on my Mothers side of the family which is a frightening Hereditary fact due to having already lost my grandpa even after undergoing multiple melanoma removal surgeries to his facial area.I am on a fixed income and wish to have the medical care I Most honestly require at this point in diagnoses. I don’t want to leave my younger sister behind due to lack of financial means to take care of a most possibly curable diagnosis. I pray for the support and love I so greatly yearn for at this point in my life. Please find it in your heart to help me help my self and I promise to pay it forward in anyway god grants me the blessing to be able to.

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please help my dad he is just diagnosed with cancer

Hello families and friends !!!!

 My name is Simpson Marybeth I am 15 years old, On the 12th November  I received a message at the school from my dad asking me to meet him at the Barnes-Jewish hospital I was surprised and scared at the same time, Immediately after school dismissal I  headed straight to the hospital, On seeing my dad i was in tears cause the condition I saw my dad  was very bad he was losing his hair, His face looks pale, His skin looks a bit tanner than the usual. He skin is dry his lips are chapped, He doesn’t n have appetite, doctor told me that my dad had stage 3 bowel Cancer, And that we need to commence chemotherapy on him before 10th  January we also need to make a down payment of 50,000,i am setting up this account for you people to please help me and my single dad my dad had to work 3 jobs just to be able to be able to take care of my and pay for my tuition please i am so scared, Please help my dad I don’t want to lose my dad he is my world, He is my hero, Please help us Paypal my dad @TylerSimpson847  no matter how little or big is what you can give, It means a lot to us.!!!!

 

THANKS

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Help paying off medical bills

My daughter and I walked out of a toxic relationship back in July. In the relationship it was not good for my daughter nor I. One day after getting a pretty intense verbal beat down., I left the room. My daughter who  is 14, goes “mom are you, okay” I held back my tears ,smiled and said Ill be fine just give me a few minutes.  My daughter gave me a big hug and said ” Mom you have NOT been fine for 4 years, I don’t know how much more of this I can watch you go through, its to the point where if WE done leave… I will.” It was then I decided It was time to leave. I stayed as long as I did because  I wanted my daughter to have the world. Little did I know I was her world. She is an amazing young lady.  It did not matter what kind of lifestyle I left behind. My daughter is my number one priority.  During the last year of that relationship I was so verbally beat down that I retreated to one thing I knew I could control. My weight. I went through an eating disorder. I was anorexic/bulimic and forcing diet pills down and intensely working out. I am 4’10 and at the time i was 105 lbs. I dropped down to a dangerous 79 lbs.  I snapped out of this huge rut pretty quickly when I started to see my daughter suffering to. Not only was he verbally abusing to me but he was to my daughter as well. So much so she sank into the same depression as I did.  Because she had no way of releasing her stress, her body did it for her causing involuntarily muscle jerks in her arms. The would be so intense and last for hours. After trips to the ER and Drs. and a Neurologist Everything was ruled out. The main cause was stress.  I found that CBD oil was the best cure for her for awhile, but it was just a band aide.

The last episode of when he just tore me down was when I had enough especially when my daughter was asking me to choose. Was when I knew I had to walk away. Ever since we moved out NOT ONE more involuntary twitch as my daughter experienced. The life has returned back to both of us and we are doing amazing.

The reason why I am here today, During that marriage I was under the impression that my daughter and I were covered under his insurance. It turns out once the medical bills hit as soon as I left, she was no longer covered and insurance did not cover any of  her bills.  Because of this I am looking at 10,000 worth of bills

An EMR for 4500

a Neurologist bill for 945.00

A clinical visits that are 3000.00

and Lab work for 700.00

and a Therapist for 945.00

The divorce is making me responsible for all of these bill. We manage just fine, but pay check to pay check is not easy. I am a correctional nurse. I love my job very much even in the midst of these scary times.  My daughter is my rock and will always will be. I worry about multiple things liking helping her get her first car, helping her pay her way through college. She is so smart and talented. She has the biggest heart. I worry about making sure I pay my bills on time, and just simply living.

I want to be able to have a Christmas tree, decorations. She wants to do Christmas baking. She denies the need or desire for gifts. But this girl deserves something incredibly special.. But with all of the bills I am worried I wont be able to give her that.

I’m not asking for any amount Specified amount. Because anything would be a blessing.

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Medical Bill Help

Hello-

I’m currently unemployed from COVID. I was a school bus driver for the local district until they shut down earlier this year.
I currently am having issues finding money to pay off medical bills that have accumulated this year, and part of last year.
I had an ER visit last year when I fell and hit my head. I have counseling bills to pay as well surrounding depression and anxiety. I also have a bill from my doctor regarding medication which was not fully covered by insurance, along with xrays from a fall over the summer which also caused many issues. All of which I’ve been paying minimums for a while, but would like to get them gone.
My unemployment was exhausted in October and I have been unable to find another job. I applied for the federal extension, but have yet to hear from them. I’m also not one to beg family for money if I can, as I’d rather they not know how down and behind I am.
Anything that can be done to help would be greatly appreciated, just to get out from under some of this debt would be an amazing gift for the Christmas season and would do wonders for my depression.
Thank you in advance, and I promise, when able, to pay it forward.
PayPal.me/natatha

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44 year old stroke patient in DESPERATE need of help

Hi!  I am a 44 year old woman who had a stroke on 9/6/2020.  It has completely disrupted my life because I no longer can do the things I previously did.  Rehabilitation is going super slow and has actually gone backwards the last month.  I am feeling frustrated and defeated and losing the will to go on.  I was employed and am receiving a very small amount of disability.  Before the stroke I was earning $2000/mo which was more than enough to survive on with all my bills.  Now, I am getting $400 every two weeks because I only get 60% of my income and my employer is deducting all my insurance and retirement and everything out of the disability payment.  $800/mo doesn’t even cover my rent which is $1250.  I’m going to lose everything.  The first to go was my car because I can’t even afford rent.  My whole pay checks have been going to my landlord, and I am just getting further and further behind.  I can’t buy groceries, I can’t pay the medical bills that are just going up and up.  I have at least $20,000 in medical bills just because a small little clot decided to travel to my brain.  I had to have a medical procedure to close the hole in my heart which is what all the doctors seem to think caused it.  Now I experience episodes of A fib which causes my heart to beat erratically at various times.  I am no where near able to go back to work yet.  If I don’t get help soon, I am going to be living on the street in the snow.  I can’t buy groceries so once a day, I go to a friends house around the time they are eating and sweet talk my way into staying for dinner.  This is not the way to live.  I am frustrated because I can’t do the things I used to be able to, it takes me 45 minutes to put clothes on, 15 minutes to walk up 10 steps.  I live in a basement apartment and trying to leave is  a workout.

Please, please help if you can.  I am utterly desperate at this point and don’t know what I am going to do.  I need to be able to get a car, catch up on my rent, pay my medical bills so they don’t ruin my credit, buy groceries, and just be able to survive which I am not doing very well at.  I would be so grateful for any help at all.  I can provide all documentation needed for medical bills, my stroke diagnosis, doctors prognosis.  I won’t be able to go back to work for at least another 6 months and if I end up on the street, I won’t make it.  Please find it in your heart to help me.  I promise the money will be used to help me recover and get back on my feet so I can turn around and help someone else.  Thank you!!

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Loss, medical, and credit cards have ran their toll

Hello, my name is Brandi. Ever since my son passed away my finances haven’t been the best. I ran up credit cards. I’m having a hard time making my car payment and my car is all I have left besides some belongings.  My medical bills will be rolling in soon. I’m getting a sonogram on my abdomen and breasts. I’m getting a mammogram and I’m getting tested for carpal tunnel. I have no idea how I’m going to pay for what insurance isn’t going to cover. I’m only 33. Life shouldn’t be this hard and sad. I truly hope there is someone out there that could help me with a fresh start to better my life and get me on the right track.

Paypal.me/brandijones351

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You can help safe a life

I am a 36 year old woman and a single mother of three and  I came to Canada 3 years ago with my three children to start a new life after being through a very tough time of loosing my partner, the father of my three kids. Hard to find job so I enrolled in school to upgrade myself.

Just before the lock down of COVID-19. My mum came to Canada from South Africa to spend time with my family and help me with my kids whilst I recover from an emotional breakdown and suicide attempt.

Life has been hard for me both emotionally and financially. On November 23rd, my mum fell and couldn’t move. My daughter had to call me and when I got to her she suddenly could not speak or move. The left side of her body was almost paralyzed. My kids and I were so scared I had to call the ambulance and they were able to revive her and take her to the hospital. After much testing we were told she has leak or rupture of a blood vessel, due to a block in a vessel by a clot. And that she will require a carotid endarterectomy surgery.  The cost of the surgery and bills is about $50,000. Unfortunately for me I don’t have health insurance for her treatment. Already I have borrowed money from the few friends I have to pay for her admission. I am so scared. I do not want to lose my mum. She is a nice and caring mother and she really loves her grandchildren. We are all so broken and my kids misses their grandma. Please help safe her life and put a smile back on our faces.  I really need help. Please help give life to my mum and my family. Right now, my account is in the negative as I have been struggling as a single mum and a student.

Your contribution is highly appreciated, and I pray that you will be blessed. Please share if you can. Safe my mum, safe me, put a smile on our faces

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