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Financial Hardship Help

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Critical spine injury due to parachute accident. Desperately in need of 4383€ to cover unplanned medical expenses.

To all my readers. I will begin by thanking you for taking the time to read through this plead. I recently sustained a tremendous amount of damage to my spine in a military parachute accident. My spine has been twisted due to unforseem landing in a forest and it has currently veen 4 months that I have been placed on Morphine, Diazepam, Tramadol, lamaline and numerous other medications to keep my extreme pain under control. The medication itself has taken a huge strain on my body and mind and I have lost a small but noticable force in my legs , back and private area. I’m bound by two crutches and a back brace to keep my spine from moving and to remove all unnecessary pressure from my back.
Unfortunately due to the COVID-19 outbreak I had to hospitalized at home for 3 months with equipment provided by the hospital itself. Luckily I have a very supportive and brave woman in my life who provides and helps me throughout all my daily needs, which includes washing and cleaning up when I have unfortunate accidents in bed or when I need to get changed or even put my socks on. Without her love and support I would not have been able to keep my mind intact. I was finally able to be hospitalized itself a week ago due to the number of COVID-19 patients decreasing, and luckily my military medical fund has paid for a extremely large amount of my medical bills for which I will always be grateful… But without my knowledge and to a big surprise, they did not cover all of it. I recently recieved a medical bill of 3097.07 € , which came as a huge mental shock. Unfortunately due to the circumstances, my lady has not been working to help me in my daily needs, and my monthly pay that I still recieve will not even come close to paying these bills before the due date at the end of November 2020. I have tried taking a loan from the bank but because of the loan I took for my house a year ago, they unfortunately could not assist me In any more funds. This is a one time payment that I have to make due to numerous equipment and patches I had to use during my hospitalization at home. All my other medical expenses forward will be handled by my assurance, including my spine surgery. But I am in desperate need to pay off this Debt of 3097.07€

If anyone is willing to help me during a time where the whole world is in struggle. I WILL BE FOREVER GRATEFUL. Any donation, big or small, will take a big load off of our chests and minds. I have attached a screenshot to give you the idea of the medical bill

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paypal.me/pararotic

Thank you, and Be safe.

– Morné

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The Greatest Mom

Just recently my mom was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, and quite honestly I’m terrified. More scared of everything then I’ve every been.

I know there are many people out there who have are going through something similar. This is also not my first time hearing the diagnosis of cancer.

But no one ever tells you about the fear or the overwhelming heaviness.

No one every warns you about the sudden shift in dynamics and how quickly your whole life can change.

How a single phone call can make you feel like your whole life has been ripped out of you.

I’m currently writing this from a cot next to my mom’s hospital bed. Waiting for Thursday morning, when they are going to put a drain in and praying that it will help with the pain. Worried because it will be the second attempt, since they could not get it through the first time.

Then terrified, because she was in so much pain after the last attempt. All I could do was hold her hand as the nurses administered authorized pain meds and my mom cried.

Watch helplessly as someone I love so much is going through so much pain.

I’m awake, worrying about the chemo treatments she will be starting soon. Hoping they can get the drain in. Wondering if she’ll ever be able to eat without the searing pain that seems to reside constantly within her stomach. Feeling useless.

Wondering if they caught it in time. If we will be okay. Or if this will be like watching my grandma fade away. A diagnosis and then within four months, she was gone.

Im tired and scared.

My mom is my rock. She is my best friend and number one supporter. Without her, I would be lost.

I’m writing today to ask for help catching up bills and collecting money for my moms medical expenses. Before her diagnosis we were getting behind, though we were staying a float. But I don’t know how we are going to get everything paid. The accounts started overdrawn before we were paid due to last month’s attempts to catch up.

I could go on listing everything that has went wrong these past two week’s but then I just feel like all im doing is focusing on the negative.  And I can’t right now because all I would do is cry, which would probably wake my mom and she needs to focus on resting.

I guess over all I’ve just ran out of options. I don’t make enough money to really help right now though I’ve put all of it to gas money and a couple groceries this week.

I honestly don’t know what else to say, except for:

Please help.

If anyone can help I am truly thankful. Any amount will help. I’d like to get to $2000 but honestly I’d be happy with $10 for gas.

I know we are all going though a lot, so even if you stumble upon this and are unable to donate, still thank you.

Thank you for taking your time to read this and I wish you all the luck in the world.

My mom was sleeping so I posted a picture of part of the hospital we can see out the window.

 

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Domestic Abuse Survivor in need of assistance

I honestly don’t know how I am to begin this, or even end it for that matter. But please bare with me as this is my reality and I apologize if this is a trigger for some.

As my title states I am a survivor of domestic violence. I was in an abusive relationship for the past five years. It didn’t start that way, but unfortunately it progressed from verbal and emotional abuse to financial abuse and physical violence.

I was 22 and living my life to its fullest when I happened upon a sweet, kind, and loving man who wanted to share his time and life with me. About six month into our relationship we started planning on marriage and children. We decided it would be financially smarter if we lived together and it would help solidify and grow our relationship. Things were wonderful; we had a lovely suburban home, two dogs, and I had just landed my dream job. Everything seemed to good to be true.
And it was.

It went from perfect to slowly a nightmare I was so blind to. I wasn’t allowed to hang out with my friends, or do simple things like go to the gym or grocery store without him or his permission. He began to “budget” for me. Taking 75% of my paycheck to “plan our future.” I was convinced my dream job was too taxing on me mentally and that I shouldn’t put so much stress on our relationship, so he begged me to quit. Which I did because he “could take care of us”. I am 5’8” and weighed 120lbs but was getting chunky, would never fit in my wedding dress and should have more control when it came to food, so he began to monitor what I was eating. We got married after a year. I’ll never forget the first day it got physically violent; it was our 1 month wedding anniversary, I was playing with the dog and happened to accidentally bump his arm as he was standing in the kitchen. He grabbed me by the back of the neck and slammed me into the wall, breaking the picture that was hanging with my head and told me next time I’d better be more aware of my surroundings.
From that day on the abuse just began to increase little by little, at one point I had to take a week off of work to heal the bruises on my face and neck from being thrown to the ground and strangled. He has broken two of my teeth, my right hand, various ribs, and would grab me or hit me to the point where no matter what the weather I was hiding behind long sleeves and baggy clothes.

After five year and  being laid off during COVID I was home all day every day, I began seeing more women speaking of domestic violence and other forms of assault. Finally one day I had had enough. While he was at work I packed up my belongings and was going to drive to my mothers which is 2,000 miles from where we live. I didn’t know he had cameras in the house. He came home from work 5 hours early, I ended up being hospitalized and put into a woman’s shelter and he is currently incarcerated waiting for his trial.

I have exceed the limit of days allowed to stay in the women’s shelter and beginning next week I will be homeless if I cant come up with something.

I don’t even know where to begin to ask for help but if you have made it this far in my story any help or prayers would be greatly appreciated.

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Help with IVF – only Chance

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The picture shows me age 9, holding my little brother, and being 100% certain, that I would have my own kids one day. Back then I never saw myself having a specific occupation or even a husband, but I couldn’t see a future without children.

Well, sometimes life gives you lemons and it gave me a whole bunch of them.

When I had a routine check up at my gynaecologist with bloodwork, my hormone levels did not look good and they explained that the hormone that indicates the egg reserve is very low for my age. At 30 thought that I had at least a few more years to worry about that, so it came as a surprise.

While my levels were low, but not at menopause level, they recommended to start trying for a pregnancy rather sooner than later. This may sound easy when you’re married, but I’m single and had to do some research about possible options.

I decided to look for a private sperm donor (via cup/syringe method) and found the most amazing guy, who did not only drive about 400 km a month to my house to give his donation, but did not even want any money in return. He is a loving father to his own kids and I would have loved for him to be my child’s biological father.
But that would have been too easy.

After months and months of trying with the cup method, I finally got an appointment for a laparoscopy and sadly, the hormone levels where only a small problem compared to what they found.

Endometriosis and completely blocked fallopian tubes. They removed as much of the endometriosis as they could and flushed the tubes, but the chances of them being blocked again after only a few months are very high and the endometriosis was rather severe and can come back.

According to the doctors, chances of getting pregnant without an IVF are slim to none.

Unfortunately, Germany is not the best place to live when it comes to IVF and being a single woman. Only a few fertility clinics accept single women, so I will have to travel out of state for every appointment. Insurance only covers some of the costs when you are a married couple. And those costs are very high. A single try will cost about 6500 Euros (including spermbank costs and medication), and the chances of getting pregnant are about 25% with each try. While I do have a masters degree and a secure job that pays enough to raise a child on my own, these expenses won`t be possible without a loan or some help.
Waiting and putting more money aside is not an option, since my egg reserve hormone levels are already low and egg donation is not legal in Germany.

So here I am, writing to total strangers, hoping that there are people out there, that understand this wish of being a parent. I want first days of school, reading bedtime stories, and building forts in the woods. I want to kiss the pain away when they fall, hold them at their first heartbreak, and have dance parties in the living room. I want to good times and the hard times. I just want to be a mom. I would gladly consider adoption, but it is nearly impossible to adopt as a single in Germany, it’s even hard for couples.

This kid would grow up with the most amazing grandparents and uncle, surrounded by 4 languages, and most importantly, lots of love.

Thank you so much for taking the time to read my story and considering to help.

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My wife needs surgery

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Hello my name is Jaime Anthony this is my wife Ana Anthony. We she recently had our baby 3 months ago the Dr told her in one of her appointments that she had cancer cells. He told her after she gave birth he would check her again to see if she needs surgery, so he checked her about 3 weeks ago and told her the cancer cells are growing and she needs to get surgery done as soon as next week. We need to raise 4000 in a week for her surgery. We have 5 kids that depend on her and I couldn’t handle losing her. Our kids are still little they are 7yrs old, 6yrs old, 2yr old, 1yr old and our 3month old. Please help us get her surgery done we need her she has been our support and now its our turn to show her ours and how much we love her. This is our last resource please any help is greatly appreciated  here is my PayPal account again thank you.

We need 4000 please help us. We thank everyone in advance

Paypal.me/fearcandy

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Help while recovering from cancer and transplant

I moved from SYD to QLD with my mum in hopes for better job and life opportunities but 6 months after, about a month after my 20th birthday I was diagnosed with Acute Lymphoblastic Leukaemia and had to start chemo straight away. My mum was forced to leave work to care for me so our household income immediately diminished, I was not eligible for any government payments related to medical conditions, so I am only on a small amount each fortnight as a job seeker, and my mum is on a carers allowance. After 6 months on chemo it came to the doctors attention that my cancer was “stubborn” and wasn’t reducing as quickly as it should have been, so it was decided that I should have a Bone Marrow/Stem Cell transplant. In around December 2019 we started looking for a donor, my siblings were tested and neither were a match, I continued on really tough chemo for months and we finally found a donor in March. Luckily he was from Australia as international donor transplants were postponed due to Covid-19. We began the process for the transplant, lots of appointments, tests, etc. At the end of June I was admitted and started my pre transplant chemo and radiation, then on the 2nd of May I received the donors cells (had the transplant). I was in hospital for a month afterwards recovering and dealing with the immediate side effects from the transplant. Since being discharged I have been back in hospital with multiple infections, rashes, other side effects from the transplant. It has now been over 4 months and I am still struggling with the recovery, very fatigued, sore, constant doctor visits and blood tests to monitor my levels etc. My mum and I decided that we wanted to move back to Sydney to be with our family and friends as we were alone in QLD and had no emotional support which we both needed. My mum took all the money out of her superannuation account which was just enough for us to move back home, and we have been back in Sydney for 2 weeks now. The house we moved into was unfortunately not cleaned and the real estate has not done anything as of yet, and as the house has mould, extreme dust etc we needed to hire a cleaner asap as I can’t be living in those conditions while being so unwell, so it took my mums last few hundred dollars on hiring service people for that. My mum has her own medical conditions and can’t take care of the house or lawns, so we constantly need to hire cleaners and gardeners. We are really struggling with finances as we are  paying lots for medication and other expenses including petrol and hospital parking multiple times a week. My mum is due to go back to work in November but isn’t guaranteed a full time position and I as I can’t work for a while we are really worried about how we are going to survive. We have exhausted all resources from the Leukaemia foundation, cancer council and other organizations that helped us.

We would really appreciate any donations you could spare, thank you

https://www.paypal.me/maddison1999

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Medical Claims Denied

Untitled design.jpgBack in October 2019 and after two years of searching for the right phycologist, I had finally found the right person to help with my mental health and childhood trauma.

Prior to starting the service, I went to my Aetna website and searched for my doctor who appeared to be covered within my insurance. The doctor’s office also verified prior to scheduling an appointment and had confirmed that indeed my phycologist was covered.

After several months going to the appointments, my doctor told me my claims were not covered by the insurance. I called Aetna and expressed my concerns and made an appeal but ended up being denied.

I made so much progress while going to the doctor but things changed drastically for me after I was no longer able to follow up with my doctor and mental health.

Covid19 has made things worse and now I have this bill that I am unable to pay.

After all this happened, they are now in fact covering for my phycologist but deny to cover for previous claims. My phycologist won’t schedule any sessions until I pay the bill. I am so overwhelmed!

Any help is appreciated!

paypal.me/Susanfayb21

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In debt

My name is Monique Gonzalez and I am 21 years old. I was born and raised in Colorado. I am reaching out to you today because I am in need of help towards my debt. In the last two years I have been suffering from depression, panic disorder, ptsd, and DID. I started therapy in March and started going on pills in April. I do therapy four times a month and I go to my psychologist at least once a month. With all this that was happening I gained a support dog but it is hard to give him the proper care because of my financial situation. These last two months I have been hospitalized twice because my stomach lining was being destroyed by the pills I was taking. The amount I am asking for is $2,000 to pay most of my recent medical bills.  I have lost so much money from trying to pay all these bills and now I am asking for help because I can’t do it alone anymore..

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End of the road

Hello,

I am 31 years old and for the first time in my life I can’t see any way out. After getting Covid during the beginning of the pandemic and having to remain in the hospital for over 8 weeks the resources I had began to quickly disappear. I never earned much and tried to save what I had, but one catastrophe is enough to swallow it all. My workplace let go of most people during that time and I can’t find a new job because I am still greatly struggling with post-covid health problems. The health problems grew worse by the day. I can barely breath when walking stairs, I developed heart problems from Covid and nothing seems to help. I tried to get through this with my own savings but I quickly ran out. I have no funds left and the medical bills keep piling up. I can’t get even the smallest loan anywhere because I have no securities and there is no one else I can ask for help. Asking the internet for help is now my last resort, I have no other options and I honestly don’t know how to continue on. The medical bills alone are around 10.000 and I have no way of paying them. On top of that I have overdue rent of 2000 to pay or I will be homeless and sick in a few weeks.

To add to the injury I had to give my 13 year old cat away to a friend because I could no longer afford taking care of her. She helped me when my depression started to get out of hand, but with how things are now the only thing I could do was make sure that she is safe and cared for. If the impossible happens and I recover from this I might be able to take her back. I miss her more than anything.

I don’t have the option to go to my parents, because my father is a raging alcoholic and I am not save with them. Most other people including my boyfriend decided that a sick depressed person is too much to handle, which pushed me even further into desperation. For the first time in my life I feel truly helpless and I can see no way out.  I always tried to be the one who helps people but now all I can do is ask for help myself and hope somebody hears it and my life does not end here.

Thank you for taking the time to read my story. If you have any means to help I would be forever grateful. If you are also struggling I hope you make it through it and find help.

My paypal is: paypal.me/IngaErbes

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IF EVERY PERSON THAT SAW THIS DONATED $0.50 I WOULD BE ABLE TO BUY THE CORRECT PILLS I NEED FOR MY MENTAL HEALTH :'(

Since Covid, it has been extremely harder to do everything in life . School, work, home life, family. It feels as if I cannot find anything that makes me happy or is fun. I suffer with MAJOR anxiety and depression (almost was convinced that I had agoraphobia – which is when you are so fearful that even leaving the house seems like an enormous draining task and is honestly scary and sad) Anyways, I’ve finally finally finally found a psychiatrist that has been working with me, letting me try various medications to see what can help me best, rather than just prescribing me something and saying ‘this will help’ ; then coming back month after month wondering when they are actually going to help you. When you can unclench your jaw, ease your shoulders, lay on your back and close your eyes without having a panic attack.

I finally, after 8,9 + years of taking various different antidepressants, anxiety, adhd, sleep medicine — where I couldn’t remember single pill names that had ever really helped me. Finally, I found a psychiatrist that let me be part of finding out what will work for me .

 

The only issue is my insurance won’t cover the prescriptions I need. I’m used to paying between $5-$10 for a prescription, and I almost started crying on the spot when the pharmacist said $597 and they had already tried to contact my insurance. I also gave them an extra RX card that wasn’t able to be used. I’ve lost my job partially due to COVID, partially due to me, myself and my own mental illnesses that I have been trying so hard to work on. I feel like I’ve gone nowhere, like this entire year of 2020 has been a dream and I’m just now waking up from it.

 

I feel like the right medication is going to going to give me a brand new start, or outlook on the rest of my life and I am trying extremely hard to stay positive and optimistic, but without active income the longer I wait the harder it feels.

 

If anyone could help out, At all, even a quarter. Like seriously it adds up and ANYTHING would help. This means literally the world to me. Like my entire life. I want to look forward to not feeling suicidal and only safe in my small 400 sq foot apartment.

 

Thank you for reading my story, even that I am appreciative of. I will continue to try to gather up money on my own/ calm my crazy and try to find a job but it’s never been this hard for me to do… Anyways, thank you in advance to anyone and everyone that donates even a penny. You’re making a bigger impact than you would ever think. I am always the one to be easy-going about money and sharing it with people , but as it usually works, those people aren’t around when you need them.

I would probably cry for a week if complete strangers helped me with this… like it’s pretty unbelievable but I thought… It’s worth a try, I don’t have much else to do!

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Want Her to Smile Longer

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Just had a word with the doctor and he said she won’t have much time left to live. Those words. Damn you pulmonary embolism, f*** you blood clots.

I was chatting with her just a moment ago. She said “take a picture of me, the sunrays are beckoning”. I took a photo of her, hoping is a memory I can keep even after I lose her, to keep me strong. But her smile, her gaze towards the brightly lit windows. It seems that she knows.

I don’t have much to spare now after selling my car and prized valuables. So much to pay for and I can’t bear to let you go. Now the hospital bills are stacking up, $136,800 in total… F***ING SH*”

I wana spend more time with you Hazel Lee, please don’t go.

Any kind soul, please, just help with what you can. I will be utterly grateful.

https://paypal.me/aiyeo

Thank you and God Bless You.

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Need financial help after suicide attempt/resulting medical problems

Hello,

This is the last thing that I am wanting to do but I am desperate. I am thankful to anyone who will read my story.

On September 14, 2019 at about 10 pm I attempted suicide by overdose. I was about 15 minutes from dying before my mom found me and saved my life. I woke up in the hospital about 18 hours later.

Some background in what led up to this event. I have dealt with major depressive disorder and generalized anxiety disorder since I was 8 years old. I was incredibly shy, had terrible social anxiety, and this resulted in not having many friends. I went through med after med, counselor after counselor and never found the help I needed. When I was 15 I got into a relationship with an extremely abusive guy. For 6 years I went through this because my depression told me no one else would ever love me. During this time I also suffered a miscarriage at 16. High school was hell for me. I would openly tell people how I was feeling because I was so desperate for help but instead of help, I was voted “drama queen” in my high school yearbook by my classmates. My depression got worse. I went off to college to get my art degree which was a good separation from the people who put em down so much. Here I was able to get away from my ex fiance and things started to look up. For a couple years I was okay but toward the end of college I fell into a dark hole. I was raped by a guy at a club when I was 22. This was the spark of my downfall. A year later I graduated and moved back home. Transitioning back to life with my parents was difficult and entering the “adult” world was terrifying. I luckily fell into a wonderful job working in a screen printing shop. I met some people where I lived and made quite a few friends. But, these people drink. By drink, I mean full on alcoholics. I was so desperate for friends that I fell right in with them and fell down the hole of being an alcoholic. So here I am, spiraling for about a year and a half. My depression and anxiety are just getting worse and worse and worse. No matter how much I cried and begged for help, there was no one. That night of September 14th, I wrecked my car into a tree due to low profile tires and worn out tread, it was the first major rainfall of the season and I slid straight into a tree and totaled my car. This was the final blow. I was done. The second I got back home I took all of my anti-anxiety, anti-depressants, and blood pressure medicine. I locked all the doors and laid down in bed. I was ready to be done. I was ready to be free. Somehow my mom just had a feeling that something was wrong and she got in. She saved me and I woke up in the hospital confused and angry. I said I wanted to leave and the doctors just let me get up and walk out. The state I was in, they should have never let me leave that hospital. If they would have kept me there, I could have had the help I needed quicker. Instead I struggled for almost 6 months. Wanting so badly to try to end my life again. But then, in March I met a guy. He made me feel like I have never felt before and he was willing to help me. He pushed for me to see more doctors and get the help I needed. I found the right medications and was able to start fixing my thought process. He encouraged me to be healthier and live a life I wanted to live. He saved me. Today I am happy and healthier but I still struggle with extreme social anxiety and get extremely overwhelmed/overstimulated easily.

The reason I need financial help: the suicide attempt and stress wrecked complete havoc on my body. I lost about 3/4 of my hair due to the shock to my body, my organs took a beat, and the medical bills have all added up. I feel like I am drowning. My mental state is still not the best and that mixed with covid makes it almost impossible for me to get a job. I try my best to do graphic design jobs here and there but it is barely enough to get me by. I need help. Please. Anything would help me. I would be so thankful and when I can afford to, I will pay it forward to someone else in need.

Thank you for taking the time to read this. <3

http://paypal.me/pixtercutie

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In debt unable to work and sick.

Hello, I’m not sure how to start this so I’ll go straight to the point.

I’m currently in debt, I have been diagnosed a while ago with severe depression and anxiety. I have also just recently (last 4-6 months) had a problem with my right shoulder that has left me unable to continue doing my job, I am signed off long term sick whilst trying to get it fixed, however in the current state of things it’s taking a very long time and statutory sick pay is nowhere near enough for me to keep ontop of my bills. I hate the idea of begging but I’ve no idea where else to turn to, especially considering how hard it is for me to talk to people openly about my rough situations in life due to my anxiety so I’ve fallen back to my old friend, the internet. I took out a large loan from the bank several years ago after I landed a decent job that I’ve been employed at for 4-5 years now, the loan was to pass my driving test+lessons and get my first car. I was able to keep up with payments fine just scraping by. My nan then passed away and my depression really hit hard, in which I had a period of 4 months signed off from work to take medication for my mental health and recover, in this time my bills and debts stacked up against me. A while after that I then had a car crash (The car was faulty. No-ones driving caused the accident.) So I was left with a big debt, no car, and a lot of bills to pay off. Yet, I managed to keep going for a while longer, until now. I’ve been signed off work the last 3 months due to my shoulder, and I my debts have gotten bad at this point, my depression is hitting hard and my anxiety won’t allow me to pick up the phone and make important phone calls I need to make, like visit the GP to get mental health medication, or ring the companies that I owe money to. I rarely go outside and eat 1-2 meals every 3 days. I can’t even afford my mental health medication even if my anxiety would let me attempt to get it. It’s gotten to the point where I feel like my only option is to give up and just let my life come to an end, I’m not sure what’s going to happen next and I hate to beg, especially with a sob story. Yet, here I am, pleading for help to pull me out of this dark tunnel I’ve been falling down for the last 5 years. Thank you to anyone that reads and considers helping me, I will be forever in your debt if you help me.

https://paypal.me/skittlebc?locale.x=en_GB

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need help refilling prescription meds

D8C4B777-3E1D-467F-81BC-9C4F89E6AA58.jpeghello all, first of all thank you for your time even reading this. i’ve never posted here before so forgive me if i’ve done it incorrectly but i am in need of help at the moment. a little bit about me, i am disabled and currently out of work and have been for a few months now. i stopped working due to my multiple chronic illnesses and disabilities. (fibromyalgia, bipolar, chronic uticaria, costichondritis are a few of the diagnoses illnesses that effect my daily life) i am also currently living in a toxic situation (living with verbally abusive family in a house with no ac in 100° heat, black mold and they are severe hoarders) because i don’t have any foreseeable income and need a roof over my head but i want to be able to save up so that i can move to a better situation.  i hit my “rock bottom” recently after several life changing things happened all at once, losing my job, leaving an abusive relationship, being pushed out of my living situation at that time, having a physical illness that at the time was undiagnosed and then having a subsequent mental break and ending up in the hospital several times and struggling with both severe mental illness and physical disability along with chronic pain. its become increasingly hard to save up enough money to relocate because my medical expenses are so high. past due bills from 4 hospitalizations, monthly dr visits and weekly therapy (all dr mandated) so all of the little money i am able to make/save end up going to these expenses. my most urgent need to medical expenses specifically medications i need to be refilled. these are meds i take several times a day and can’t function properly without. i truly don’t know where to turn because times are tough for everyone at the moment and most people that care about me are in a similar or worse situation as me so i don’t know who to ask for help because i feel buried and like i can’t get my head above ground. this best way to make a step toward that is to make sure i have the medication i need to stay healthy enough to find a way out of these situations. if any of you have anything to spare it would truly change my life and i’m not exaggerating. every little bit helps. bless you and thank you for even taking the time to read this. i wish you all happiness and love. thank you

my paypal is paypal.me/tracitracifowler

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Help with Medical Debt

Hi

I have honestly never asked anyone for help in this way before but I am at a point where I need any help I can get.
I am happily married to the love of my life and we have four wonderful kids that I love so much. My wife is a self employed midwife and I am a stay at home dad.
I was forced to become a stay at home dad due to a fall I had at work. I did a lot of damage to my back and neck and it left me with a lifetime of pain. I have had two surgeries to help with the pain but unfortunately they have not worked and it has left me with more pain. I am right now just living with the pain and going about my day as normal as I can.
Due to all the surgeries and doctor bills I had to put some of it on our credit card, I had no other option but to do it. We were making headway on the credit card debt but then I got news that hit my like a ton of bricks. Roughly 24 months ago my father got diagnosed with stage 3 lung cancer and at the time I took the responsibility for getting him the scans, tests, medication etc. I also tried holistic medicines and treatments but unfortunately on January 12th of this year he passed away.
At the time of paying for all stuff for my dad I didn’t care about the fact I was charging it all to the credit cards because I wanted him to survive, I didn’t want to lose him but in the end I did and it has put a massive burden on me. We are not massively in debt but when all you can afford are the minimum payments each month it is a lot, we owe $13,500 roughly and I hate to admit it but its mostly all my medical debt and my dad’s.  My wife was understanding towards it but we are now facing a lot of debt to pay off and its because I was selfish.
I understand that this story is probably too long and I apologise but I had to get a lot of my chest and this felt like the right place to do it. Thanks so much for reading my story.
I am posting a pic of my fantastic kids because they are my life and soul.

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