Dear friends,
I’ve never been the type to ask for help, but today I find myself at a point where I don’t know where else to turn. I’m reaching out to you all in a moment of great need, and with the hope that some of you may be able to offer a little bit of help or support in whatever way you can.
My wife, Elisabeth, is a beautiful, strong woman and an amazing mother to our kids. But right now, she’s facing a health crisis that’s threatening to change our lives in ways we never imagined. For the past few months, she’s been struggling with severe heart issues—specifically aortic arrhythmia and sinus tachycardia. These conditions have been terrifying and life-altering, and after numerous tests and doctor’s visits, we’ve finally received the recommendation for surgery. The surgery is not just a suggestion—it’s something that will literally save her life.
The cost of the surgery, however, is a staggering $7,000. And the truth is, I can’t afford it. I’ve been doing everything I can to keep our family afloat, but between the rent for our small apartment, monthly bills, and taking care of our kids, I’m struggling just to get by. We don’t have a lot of savings, and what we do have is being eaten up by the rising costs of everyday life.
To make matters even more difficult, the insurance company has refused to cover the surgery, citing her heart condition as a “pre-existing condition.” It’s something we’re both devastated by, and honestly, I feel like I’ve hit a wall. I’ve spent hours on the phone with them, trying to reason with them, trying to figure out any way they can help. But, as of right now, they’ve made it clear that there’s no way they’ll cover the surgery.
I’ve tried to look into every possible option, but nothing seems to be working. The hospitals offer payment plans, but with my income, I just don’t see how I can make the monthly payments on top of everything else. I feel like I’m drowning, and no matter how hard I try to stay afloat, the weight keeps pulling me down.
This isn’t just about the surgery—it’s about my wife. It’s about the woman I love, the mother of our children, the person who’s been by my side through thick and thin. She’s scared, and I’m scared. I don’t want to lose her. I don’t want my kids to lose their mother. And I don’t want to be in a position where I can’t do everything in my power to help her.
I’m reaching out to you all today to ask for help. I know that this isn’t something anyone likes to do, but I don’t know what else to do at this point. If there’s anyone who might be able to donate, whether it’s $5, $10, or anything you can afford, it would mean the world to us. Every little bit helps, and I’m so grateful for anything you can give.
I know times are tough for everyone right now, and I never want to make anyone feel obligated. But if you can, please consider donating to help us cover the cost of this surgery. We’ve set up a Paypal.me account, which is the easiest way for you to donate. The link is below:
paypal.me/cosmicquesadilla
If you can’t donate, I completely understand. But even just sharing this post with your friends and family would mean so much to us. The more people who know, the more likely it is that we can raise enough to give my wife the care she needs.
I’m also asking for your prayers. I know that sounds cliché, but in a time like this, when everything feels uncertain and out of control, I believe in the power of faith and community. If you could keep my wife in your thoughts, and send good energy our way, I would appreciate it more than words can express.
I want to take a moment to say thank you to everyone who has already reached out to offer words of encouragement. It’s been overwhelming and humbling to see how much love and support we’ve received. You all have made a huge difference in helping us stay positive and hopeful during this difficult time. Even if you’re not in a position to help financially, just knowing that we’re not alone means everything.
Please, if you can, help us in any way you can. I’m doing everything I can to keep my family together, to keep things from falling apart, but I can’t do it alone. With your help, we can get my wife the surgery she needs, and we can hopefully get back to living our lives without this constant fear hanging over us.
I don’t want to let this be the story of our lives. I want my wife to come out of this stronger than ever, and I want to be able to continue to take care of our family. So, I’m asking for your help, not just for money, but for hope. For love. For my wife.
Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for your time, your support, and for being part of this journey with us. It means more than I can ever express.