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Hurricane Ian and Desperate Need of Help for Rent

My name is Christina, I’m 27 years old and living in Florida. I’ve been having a rough time lately and I would really appreciate anyone willing to help. I recently switched jobs after having a tough time emotionally working at an animal shelter. I’ve been an animal caretaker for 7 years, mainly a veterinary nurse, and have seen a lot of sick and broken animals and people. But I reached my limit this summer in the height of kitten season and surrendered covid puppies. I took a job as a work from home scribe so I could have more time with my own pup Sora, and I’ve been really excited.

Of course things never turn out as planned, and right after I quit my job my landlord informs my family that he’ll be raising our rent, we should have known. We also have to renew car insurance, which is going to be an extra $600. Even with our regular income this would be hard, but since I’m delayed on paychecks from switching jobs I am in trouble. To top it all off this week started with the announcement of Hurricane Ian, so my options for selling or pawning anything with everything closed down are limited. I do live in an RV, so technically we are under evacuation orders, but that’s a whole other crisis. Currently we are safe, as far as weather is concerned. With my family’s wages we have enough to cover the insurance and my family’s car payments, but not our rent, which is $1600. My credit is stretched thin due to student loans otherwise I would just take out a personal loan. I feel like I’ve worked so hard and tried to do what is best for my self and my family and I just get no where.

Attached is a screenshot showing all the money I have with no paycheck coming in until October 14.

Thank you for reading, and I truly appreciate if you decide to give anything. Let me know if there is a way I can help you somehow!

PayPal.me/xtinaporter

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I need help to keep my future solid

Hello everyone, my name is Marco, I’m 23 years old from Rome, Italy, but I am living in Dublin. I could stay here for hours explaining how my life has changed in the last 7-8 months, so I will try to summarise: when I came here I was supposed to stay just for 1 month and a half, because I already had my future planned and ready to be lived back in Italy, the dream I had was actually the only plan I have ever had in my whole life, I literally never thought about anything else. Then fate decided to mess up everything and wanted me to end the experience earlier (I will avoid the technical explanation), but at that moment, maybe for the first time in my life, I doubted that it was really what I wanted: I opened my mind, I found that there are plenty of possibilities, many things that I can do instead of focusing just on one, so I took the most important decision of my life and I stayed, knowing that it would have not been easy and that I had to go through a tough time to realize what I was really doing and to not make my mind regret that decision, and so it was. A couple of months later I was a new person, I had the chance to really know who I am and what I really can do, my self-esteem went up and so did my energy, after many attempts, I finally found a job that I like and I wanna keep, and here we have the first reason why I am here asking for help, for the beginners the contract is flexy, so I do not have money guaranteed each month, but I want to hold on because, at least for me, it’s really rare for people nowadays to feel HAPPY while working. Today I have many projects in my mind and I know that it’s just a matter of time, I always achieved everything I wanted, I know what sacrifice means, I know what failure means, and I am trying to save as much as possible to finally do something concrete about it, but where I am living (Dublin), there is a serious housing crisis which is getting worse and worse, and I am going have to leave my current room in a month since the house has been sold, and you can look by yourself on the main websites to search for a house how much they ask for a bed… I can’t ask my parents for money because they are quite short now, my father recently retired after 40 years serving the nation as a policeman and because the bureaucracy is really slow, he has not seen a single euro for months. The last option is going back to my country, and this would be the worst thing for me: the way I am changed, the way I opened myself to something new, the way I am motivated now is also because I am far from a toxic environment: the same routine I always had, the same people I have always talked to, including parents and friends, even the same places to see, I feel like all of that was just limiting me and my potential. So here I am: I need some money as input to finally find stability with the house, give a start to my project, and keep something for potential off-time from my job. I do not know if this is going to work, but one of the things I have learned here is that there are a lot of good people in this world and that having hope is never wrong, so thanks in advance to all those who are going to donate, and I swear on my soul that I will never ever forget people who helped me in the past and that will help me in the future, I know I am going to do something big sooner or later, and I will give back everything and more to those who believed in me. Have a nice life everyone.

Marco

 

My goal: 3500 euro

My Paypal link: paypal.me/MCampagna779

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Financial/Mental Health Crisis

Hello all! Thanks for looking!

I am seeking assistance with my financial crisis.

Recently our family uprooted our lives and moved 1600 miles away from our home of 26 years. This was in effort to help the mental health of our family due to outside family issues. Things were made unbearable for us there.

We moved, found jobs (except my husband who is disabled), and found an apartment. We started our life new and found some new peace! However, about 3 months ago, my daughter experienced a mental health crisis. She was not able to work for most of this time, and although she feels more stable now, has not been able to find a new job. I have barely scraped together rent and bills using predatory loans (all I qualify for), but I am drowning and overwhelmed now.

Between gas prices, inflation, the loans and medications, my full time job and my husband’s disability are not cutting it. We were always paycheck to paycheck, but now we are down 1/3 of our income. I often have needed to take off work to take them both to appointments. I need help with paying off the loans with 700% interest (around $4800 now) and rent. Once out of this crisis, we promise to pay it forward as our area, Salem OR, has a huge homeless population which always needs assistance. Thank you again for your consideration!

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Need help paying the bills and debts

Hello!

 

I am asking for some kind souls to help me and my boyfriend get out of the deep hole someone pushed us into after taking advantage of us for around one year.

 

To put this simply, I live in Belgium and moved in with my boyfriend over a year ago, and he was living with a roommate (his “best friend” since childhood, who was dating my best friend at the time (she’s tetraplegic, keep that in mind for later)). The best friend was fine with me moving in and even insisted since I was in a distance relationship with my boyfriend at the time, and he drove my boyfriend to my house several times (1h away from their place) to make sure we could see each other. So far everything was great, I moved in with them and I helped like I could with money, but since I didn’t have a job yet in that area, I only had 2000euros on my account and used it to pay for gaz everytime we needed it. The best friend was the only one of us working since my boyfriend got fired for burning his hand to the 3rd degree with boiling oil (his boss said it wasn’t a good excuse to not come to work even though his whole hand was burned and he couldn’t move it well, and he was a waiter so serving clients with a hand full of blisters wouldn’t be really nice).

 

But that was only the start of our troubles, because we managed to live like this for a few months, my boyfriend and I looking for jobs everywhere we could while our roommate worked. But the roommate had a dog (and we had a kitten that my boyfriend got for me, my baby Nugget, and the roommate used to put him in a bag and spin it around to “spook the kitty” and then he was surprised that Nugget wouldn’t go near him and I even told him he couldn’t touch my cat ever again) and kept him in a cage all the time, never taking him on walks, so I offered to do it for him since I love dogs and it would make the dog feel much better and the roommate could rest after his work day without having to worry about taking the dog for a walk. Unfortunately the dog only listened to him (out of fear, since he was abused by the roommate anytime he was angry)and everytime he got out of the cage (it happened a few times when I was alone in the house) he would jump on me and growl, and when he was in the cage he would just look at me with dead eyes and keep staring until I left the room. We managed to get him out on a walk with my boyfriend once, at the very beginning of us living together, and we took him in the woods near the house so he could run around, but even then he tried to jump on me and my boyfriend had to push him away, that’s when he first did it. And since no one could take him out safely other than the roommate, he had to live in his cage full of excrements and the roommate wouldn’t clean it, so the whole house smelled and even our clothes kept the smell when we would go out, it was horrible.

 

Soon after that, the landlord discovered the mess and accused my boyfriend since the rent was under his name. We had to get rid of the dog (they took him to a refuge and he was soon adopted by the roommate’s ex (original owner of the dog)), but the place was declared unsanitary and they gave us a week to move out (which is illegal here, by the way, then they claimed they never did that and only admitted when my boyfriend sent the mail telling us to move out as proof). The only place we found that was affordable and still available when we asked for a visit was in France (20 minutes from where we were, we lived near the border of the country) so we moved in and tried to find jobs and unlock financial aidsbut we couldn’t find any because we didn’t have the required papers (basically you need some papers to be able to work in France but to get those papers you need to find a job). The roommate kept his job near our previous house, so he still went to work and we could “survive” for the time being, but it didn’t last.

 

At the time, he was still dating my best friend, who was in a rehabilitation center because she was paralysed from the head down since 2019 (he knew it before he started dating her), and it was hard for him to go see her regularly. His ex tried to get back in contact, but he supposedly blocked her and all, but he also stopped calling my best friend (they called each other every night and slept on call, but he pretended he was too tired for that, no logic). The thing is, my boyfriend and I could hear him every single night on a call with a girl, and it wasn’t his girlfriend but his ex. He even had the audacity to go see my best friend several times after that, only to have sex with her then leave and go call his ex in her back. He even denied cheating on her but went to his “dad” for a few days but was actually at his ex’s house.

 

After finally breaking up with my best friend (and leaving her in pieces without even feeling bad, still calling his ex every night but without even hiding it now) he told my boyfriend and I that he needed to leave and go back to his mom’s house for a while for his mental health, which I understand, he was the only one working, living with a couple and all, so we agreed that he would move out in a few weeks. But he didn’t because my boyfriend found a job (temporary, he was remplacing someone who got sick and couldn’t work for a few months). We thought the roommate got better and decided not to move out, but we were so wrong.

 

Around that time, we started receiving mails from our previous landlord, who wanted us to pay for the damage caused by the dog (the cage was against a wall, and he ripped the wallpaper off and all), and the roommate said that since it was his dog, he would pay for the damage, but he never did and the debt kept getting bigger (and was at the name of my boyfriend since the roommate wasn’t registered as living there too). We even made him sign a letter saying he was taking the debt and would pay it all of himself, but to this day he still didn’t do it. With this debt came another one, because apparently the roommate was too lazy to put the trash in front of the house and instead left it in front of the shop on the other side of the road (not very logic either, but there were witnesses who saw him do it) and we got another debt for littering on a public place, which he said he would pay as well.

 

With the debts pilling on and my boyfriend and I still not finding jobs (I managed to work for a few weeks where myboyfriend’s parents work, a restaurant, where they needed someone to clean the dishes and stuff. I was paid 100euros per day because the boss didn’t want to hire me because I looked poor (I tried wearing nice clothes but they expected me to wear Gucci or something like that to do the dishes, and our clothes didn’t smell bad anymore since we didn’t have the dog anymore and I deep cleaned all our clothes)) the roommate decided to move out (again) but said he would come back when things got better. He said he got fired from his job and preferred going back to his mom’s house, but my boyfriend’s mother knows the roommate’s boss personnally and asked what happened since he was one of the best employees, and she explained that he asked to get fired.

 

After all those lies, he finally moved out, promising he would help paying the rent until we found a job, and would even drive me around if I needed to for a job interview, but instead he ignored all our calls and texts, only answering to brag about his new phone, new car, etc. And now that we managed to find a house back in Belgium, with the help of my family (which helped us by paying our rent for a few months and helping us move out in my godmother’s deceased parents’ house) he now threatens to come to our house (he doesn’t have the address) with friends to beat my boyfriend.

 

My godmother was kind enough to let us live here rent free until we find jobs, but it’s a small village with no shops and we don’t have any means of transportation (the closest job is 3km away, and we tried getting a job there several times with no success) so we didn’t find anything yet and it has been 4 months, we keep receiving mails about the unpaid debts and even had couny court bailiff come to our door and tell us to pay or they will come back to take our belongings.

 

We can’t stand this situation anymore, we can’t sleep, my boyfriend already had health issues before all this but now they worsened and on some days his heart has some trouble working correctly and he even fainted a few times, I’m scared for his health and he mental health, as he was suicidal and keeps telling me I’m the only reason he hasn’t shot himself in the head yet…

 

My parents can’t keep helping us as I have 2 siblings that are still oging to school, and I understand that even for my family this situation is not possible, and I’m grateful for their help even though they didn’t even like my boyfriend at first, but I just want to be able to finally start living instead of surviving, I want to find a job and be able to pay back my family and help my boyfriend because he hides our debts from me but I know because I check the mail we get when he’s not watching, but honestly this is our last hope, we have tried everything else, even jobs online, selling our stuff, offering to work for people in the village (taking care of the lawn, animals, kids, cleaning the house, etc) but nothing worked and I hope this can v-because I don’t know what will happen if we can’t get back on our feet.

 

This is a desperate call for help from a couple trying their best to survive, and you would litterally save our lives if you helped us, even just a little. Thank you for reading my story and I hope you can help us…

 

My paypal.me link is https://paypal.me/saroushekapotato?country.x=FR&locale.x=en_US

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Please help me keep my little cousins out of foster care!

Hello, I’m not sure how to start this so that I may get across how much I require help. My name is Ashley, I am 31 years old with no children of my own. Earlier this year I moved into a new place in a new area and was settling in quite nicely. Working full time and working on illustrating and publishing my children’s books. However, both came to an abrupt hault when my first cousin called me screaming “bloody murder”. She exclaimed how the county’s Department of Human Resources had shown up at her house while her 3 and 5-year-old, well six. It was his birthday. Had been at home alone. Setting my frustration with my irresponsible cousin aside I knew I had to do something. Even though I was over an hour away from home working. I begged the worker to let family members get them and I would pick them up when I got off. Though they were hesitant they agreed, but insisted we meet the following day to sign proper paperwork. During the meeting I was informed the working has been at the home for an undisclosed period of time, and the children told them they’d been there all day by themselves; and they were starving. I was then told I was the only one that was allowed to care for the children unless the other persons had signed the safety plan been cleared through their system. I would have to miss work for a couple of days until I could get them into a cleared daycare program. So I searched high and low, but being that it was two weeks before school started I couldn’t find anyone who had room. I had already explained to my boss what had happened and they were initially understanding, or at least that’s the front they put on. Once I found a school in my district I got them registered and in school. I tried to return to work, unfortunately I had been removed from the schedule. My bills did not stop. Sought employment in every way possible putting in countless applications. Applied for unemployment. Looked into assistance programs in my community, and informed my landlord of my situation. So far I have not had any income coming in and my bills are piling up. I cannot let my little cousins suffer. If you could find it in your hearts to help me and them in any way you can it would be greatly appreciated and paid forward once I am back on my feet. If you made it this far thank you for taking the time to read and even consider giving! Please copy and paste the link below

https://paypal.me/ashleyrays?country.x=US&locale.x=en_US

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Emergency funds for rent

I recently moved out of an abusive home with savings and a loan and needed to move far away to a city with public transit because I was never allowed to learn how to drive, I have secured a job but it doesn’t start until after my next rent payment is due because it’s for a location that hasn’t opened yet. Anything at all will help, I’m trying to find gig work that doesn’t require a car. But I’m in need of $999 by October 1st to keep my first lease, preserve my tenant history, and stay housed.

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Please Help! Rent/Bills

First, thank you for this opportunity. I truly appreciate your consideration. I am hoping someone here will help me pay my rent and a few other bills (power, internet, water/sewage). If you have the time, let me walk you through how I got here. Buckle up, it has been quite a ride.

In January of 2020, I was in the bathtub hoping to soak away the pain in my right shoulder blade that had been nagging me for days when my husband burst in to inform me that Kobe had died. That was the starting line in mind. Nothing ever slowed down or felt normal again.

Turns out, the pain in my shoulder kept getting worse. I eventually had my husband take me to the ER, because I was certain I was having a heart attack, and I mean “the big one, Elizabeth.” After several tests, and an extremely painful ultrasound, it was determined that my gallbladder was the source of my agony. They transferred me to the county hospital for surgery. My poor husband. He spent every moment he had free the next 3 days in that room trying to take care of my mean ass. Yeah, no cigarettes in the hospital. Good news is I haven’t smoked since! Still mean though. He even brought my babies to see me. They were so worried about me, that he ignored the nurses warnings about the “really bad flu, that doesn’t test as flu” that was going around… We went home with a $10k bill, and the flu, which we now know was COVID.

We then lived the rest of 2020.

January of 2021, we moved in with my dad to help with my sick grandma. Three weeks later, she died of a stroke. Despite my better judgement, we stayed to help with bills. That year also took one of my cousins to police violence, one of my closest friends to Covid, and my father in law to a long battle with alcohol. My husband was diagnosed with congestive heart failure. All I had left to show was ruined credit, and a family pitted against one another. My sociopath of a father had divided and attempted to conquer. He almost succeeded, but my husband moved us out of there in less than 2 hours while my dad was at work. It honestly felt like escaping prison, just like finishing high school had. The man was awful. Controlling, manipulative, and physically violent with me on more than one occasion.

After a few months at my mother in law’s, we finally found a place of our own. My husband had been door dashing since he couldn’t lay asphalt anymore because of his heart, the manual labor was too much. The day after we moved in (to a 2 bedroom millhouse for $1000 a month! Rent is God awful nowadays!), the Jeep was totaled. No one was hurt, and we were not at fault. But it is a little difficult to door dash without a vehicle. And to add insult to injury, my job of 7 years ( the last 2 of which were remote) decided suddenly that I should return to the office. I was unable to do so due to the lack of transportation. I was told that I quit. I was dumbfounded. Here we are, in an overpriced cracker box, with no transportation or income.

That’s when our daughter dropped a bombshell, and confirmed that my father was a bigger piece of sh*t than I could have ever imagined. I won’t go into detail, but know that reports were made, investigations were conducted, and my sanity… well, haha, where did that run off to?

They lacked the evidence to charge him, so he feels good enough about himself to ride by our house at least once a week. Our road dead ends out. He isn’t just passing by. So instead of focusing on finding another job, I was focused on getting the kids enrolled in a different school that the one in this district. I managed, and they are spending a lot of time with their mawmaw that we were staying with in the spring.

They seem to be doing well in school, and my sanity is slowly creeping back in. My husband is glad of that. We’ve fought more since we left my dad’s house at the beginning of the year, than we ever have in our whole 15 years. I finally stopped to take a breath, only to realize rent is late, and our funds have been exhausted. Normally, I would ask my dad for help, but he’s dead to me now. . .

If you read all of that, God bless you. I need about $1500 to pay rent (1000), power (150), internet (50), water/sewage (150), and get a few essential items and a couple of meals. Absolutely anything will help. I will be so thankful for any help we get! I have an interview coming up for a remote healthcare customer service representative, and my husband is building his tarot reading business. This will be enough to get us back on our feet. Thank you!

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Seeking a Donation That Will Help Me Reset My Life

Hi. to best understand my situation, I’d like to provide some context. I just recently turned 25 years old, moved out, and am living on my own. I’ve been living on my own for about a year or so and I was able to make ends meet for the most part, however, after a few months, with the energy crisis going on in the European Union, my expenses started being a lot higher than I expected, and I started falling behind on my rent.

I say in the title that this donation will help me reset my life, because I also learned a lot in my first year living alone. Before I lived alone, I was making more than double my rent, was living very comfortably, going out, travelling, etc. However, when I began to live alone, the realness of life hit me like a bus. I had to start taking from my savings, had to adapt my lifestyle to conform to my budget, and understood what it means to maintain oneself. Unfortunately, I understood this a few months too late, as by that point, I already owed a few months of rent.

I take complete responsibility for my actions, especially since I am a freelancer and the amount of money that I make solely depends on me and the amount of work I am willing to put in. I know that if I had come to my senses earlier, I could have easily looked for more clients and I would have been able to avoid this entire situation.

The reason I am asking for a donation now is that, as I had mentioned, I am a freelancer and a person with entrepreneurial goals. At the moment, I build webpages, teach English, and I am beginning to dip my toes into the stock market, learning how to trade. At the same time, I am looking to the future and want to build the foundations of the life that I would like to live with my future family. What I mean is that I want to put in all the work necessary at my current age so that I am steady and have a source of income that will allow me to enjoy my family 5-10 years down the road.

I cannot focus and advance on growing my web design, marketing, and management business nor learn how to properly trade in the stock market because any income that I see, has to go directly to my current expenses and any leftover go towards the debt. The things I would invest in with my leftover income are: a new computer, as I’m still using an overused laptop from 2015; an online web development, marketing, and management business, and set aside capital to begin trading in the stock market.

Therefore, this donation, however much is possible, would allow me to wipe away my debt, and from there, without any outstanding expenses left to pay off, I would be able to invest all my leftover money into growing in the areas that I mentioned before. I know that I will be able to achieve my goals eventually, even with the debt, but I do believe in forgiveness and second opportunities, and after having recognized my mistakes and learning from the reality of life, I would like an opportunity to achieve my goals sooner, without any extra pressure.

I’ve managed to reduce my overdue rent from $2240 to $1490 over the last month, but that was through working as much as possible and some birthday money that I received.

The amount that would completely cover my overdue rent would be $1500, but I would appreciate any amount, whether it’s $50 or the full $1500.

I thank you for taking the time out of your day to care about my well-being, that alone already means a lot.

I am not sure what image to post, as I don’t have a statement of my overdue income. I will provide a picture of my apartment so that you can see where I eat, sleep, and work.

PayPal.Me/solorzanoeduardo

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Serious Help please

Hi,  im begging for someone to help me get out of this difficult situation that I have found myself in at the moment. a little background story, I recently lost my job and I have been needing to care for my brother.  im scare that I could get evicted from my apartment because I haven’t being able to pay rent.  between his payments, meds and me not having a job, it got out of my control and I have been doing what I can.

right now I am owing a little over 6k in all the things that I need to pay for him and my rent. I know its crazy money but im just asking this amount for me to be able to  level this debts that I have and keep pushing forward. helping him and working on finding a new job that would be able to help me.

Would greatly appreciate if someone could help me

 

thanks

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Changing Jobs While on Debt

Hi everyone.

So I’ve never out right asked anyone for money before – especially in such a manner as this. I’m usually quite proud and competent when it comes to taking care of myself and managing my own finances. I don’t make a lot of money but when I have spare money I usually buy people things they need or help my family with their financial issues (a habit I learned was related to my mental health). Lately, however, I’ve had to leave my job as a full time support worker as a result of a mental breakdown. I’m 29, have worked hard my whole life despite my challenges but it’s recently that my mental health struggle has got the best of me. I’ve been diagnosed with ADHD and I am now also being assessed for autism. This reality has slightly shaken my world but I feel like it’s also the kick/reality check I needed. My previous job asked too much of me and I don’t feel like my health was taken seriously – which is sadly ironic given the nature of my job. It got to the point I began to neglect myself and lose track of my healthier habits – again, apparently part of my mental health that I’ve somehow been oblivious to. This is what has lead me to starting a new part time job that will allow me to work similar hours in a less stressful position, without having to take on as many shifts in a week.

This recent transition has also opened my eyes and allowed me to start researching and accepting my own mental health. It’s also motivated me to take on studying psychology and ideally englighten and educated other people on the realities of their own mental health. It’s maddened me that it’s taken me 29 years of feeling alienated from the world to finally come to the conclusion that I’m neurodivergent, but better late than never, I suppose.

To get to the point – my last job has refused to pay me money that they owe and my start date for my new job won’t be for another few weeks yet. I can’t afford rent, I am running on broke and terrified I’ll get kicked out of my flat. I feel like I’ve been fighting a losing battle for awhile but now that there is a little hope because I’ve gained new insight and hopefully a new lease on life.

I feel ashamed and embarrassed even being in this website asking for anything but today, I’d ask if someone could help me out with my rent for this one month. It’s 1300 a month and even a portion of that would be a miracle at this point. If for some reason, someone does decide to help me – I’d like you to know that I will pay this forward when I’m back on my feet.

If you’ve read this far, thank you for taking the time.

Respectful Regards,

Taylor

PayPal link: https://paypal.me/TaylorStocks?country.x=GB&locale.x=en_GB

 

 

 

 

 

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looking for help with bills

Right before covid, I had a major accident and was in bed for over half a year. At that time, I was living in my parent’s house, but everyone was living in other states. I was behind on bills due to my disability check always being late and my mother still forced me to pay bills for her. She even forced me to get a loan to pay for her house bills. Until one day, I received a message from my sibling that telling me I should start finding a place to move out. I found out my mother had listed the house on sale without telling me. I was not fully recovered and was forced to move out in a week. It was right before thanksgiving. I found an apartment and moved out right away. I went back to the house to check if I left anything behind, and found out my mother already changed the lock, so I couldn’t even enter the house. (We never had a good relationship, which when my father was alive he caught her being very different compared to other siblings).

Once I got to a new apartment, I found a new job and did not have time or money to continue my physical therapy. I was in pain a lot and covid started. I lost my job after. I was behind my bills and I started to get sick. I had surgery and that added on top to my financial issues. I had no choice and had to move to another apartment building during quarantine. I got another new job after months. Little do I know, my boss started to pay me late, and finally she ghosted me. She never paid me for the work I did. She even moved. I had to apply for rental assistance program but took a long time to approve and only covered a little of my rent. I did not know that landlords are not supposed to evict you during that pending decision. My landlord sent me twice eviction notice. I was so stressed and scared to be homeless, so I had to call my relatives to ask for help and finally told them the truth between me and my mother and asked for help. Then, my mother decided to tell them with fake information. She said she has been helping me and I have been taking drugs and giving money away to friends, which is not true. I did not think a mother would do so, and all my relatives started to send me nasty messages, which lead to me killing myself. My best friend and boyfriend found me, and I got rescued. I am still behind bills and no bank loans were being approved due to no income. I finally have some friends to trust me to do the freelance marketing job for their small businesses, but my bills have been staking up and my landlord giving me trouble, banks are calling me for payments, and my electricity are getting termination notice.

I don’t know what to do and I do not want to go into depression with suicidal thoughts because there are friends and family who care about me. So please if anyone could help me out to pay the rent and bills, I would truly appreciate it and have some hopes.

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looking for help with bills

Right before covid, I had a major accident and was in bed for over half a year. At that time, I was living in my parent’s house, but everyone was living in other states. I was behind on bills due to my disability check always being late and my mother still forced me to pay bills for her. She even forced me to get a loan to pay for her house bills. Until one day, I received a message from my sibling that telling me I should start finding a place to move out. I found out my mother had listed the house on sale without telling me. I was not fully recovered and was forced to move out in a week. It was right before thanksgiving. I found an apartment and moved out right away. I went back to the house to check if I left anything behind, and found out my mother already changed the lock, so I couldn’t even enter the house. (We never had a good relationship, which when my father was alive he caught her being very different compared to other siblings).

Once I got to a new apartment, I found a new job and did not have time or money to continue my physical therapy. I was in pain a lot and covid started. I lost my job after. I was behind my bills and I started to get sick. I had surgery and that added on top to my financial issues. I had no choice and had to move to another apartment building during quarantine. I got another new job after months. Little do I know, my boss started to pay me late, and finally she ghosted me. She never paid me for the work I did. She even moved. I had to apply for rental assistance program but took a long time to approve and only covered a little of my rent. I did not know that landlords are not supposed to evict you during that pending decision. My landlord sent me twice eviction notice. I was so stressed and scared to be homeless, so I had to call my relatives to ask for help and finally told them the truth between me and my mother and asked for help. Then, my mother decided to tell them with fake information. She said she has been helping me and I have been taking drugs and giving money away to friends, which is not true. I did not think a mother would do so, and all my relatives started to send me nasty messages, which lead to me killing myself. My best friend and boyfriend found me, and I got rescued. I am still behind bills and no bank loans were being approved due to no income. I finally have some friends to trust me to do the freelance marketing job for their small businesses, but my bills have been staking up and my landlord giving me trouble, banks are calling me for payments, and my electricity are getting termination notice.

I don’t know what to do and I do not want to go into depression with suicidal thoughts because there are friends and family who care about me. So please if anyone could help me out to pay the rent and bills, I would truly appreciate it and have some hopes.

https://paypal.me/christine0e?country.x=US&locale.x=en_US

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A message for a helping hand

Hey my name is mike.. I have never done this type of thing before . My girlfriend and I live in a two bedroom apartment and things where going great at first and couldn’t ask for a better life but then next thing you know it all started to fall apart I got let go from my job I’ve had for 3 yrs due to some health problems and then my girl got stuck with all the bills and was driving back and forth to chapel hill NC working as a traveling respiratory therapist while still working at 2 other hospitals and it was draining her mentally and physically and she finally had a break down and it caused her to lose two of her jobs because she just couldn’t handle the pressure anymore and I feel like it’s my fault she has always been there for me and I hate this has happened and now we have our car payment rent light bill we have 7 kids between the both of us and things are just so hard I’ve finally found a job working with someone but I’m only making 60 dollars a day yes 60 because he’s trying to start his business and I’m hoping that if I stick with him that things will exceed what we’re hoping and then it will all have been worth it I’m asking that anyone may find it in their heart to help out with our struggles and help us in any way possible I don’t care what the amount is anything would be a blessing right now and I would appreciate it from the bottom of my heart I have tried so hard to find a better job but with no way to work it’s hard too she works about 40 miles away and has to drive and I have no way to get back and forth times are just hard right now and I don’t won’t go see us lose everything we’ve tried so hard to have and schools coming up and we are having to get help with supplies for the kids and she has never had to ask anyone for help with this I truly hope someone reading this would be able to help us I know it’s easier said than done and that the chances are small but I’m damn near begging right now because I have no other options at this point and don’t know what else to do we have about a 2 dollars total between  us to get by for the next two weeks and that’s the honest truth we have cut back and changed a lot of things in our home but still the bills just keep adding up if I could just get enough for gas for her to make it back and forth this week that would be great and also a blessing in it self I’m not on here trying to ask for a lot just enough to get us back and forth to work and maybe enough left over to get some food I’m sorry I’m not the best at writing stuff like this times have changed so much and I wish I didn’t have to ask anyone for help because it’s no one’s fault this is going on and  definitely no one’s responsibility and than you for taking the time to read this and hope you all have a great day and I hope that one day I’m able to help someone myself ..Michael B.

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help with paying rent

Hi, my name is Eleonora, I’m 24 years old and I’m from a small town in Israel.

growing up with an abusive single mother and battling depression for most of my life has not been easy. I don’t have any complaints about the cards I’ve been dealt with, they made me who I am and for that I’m grateful;

all that I wish for is a better starting point.

now that I’m doing better mentally I’ve begun studying accountancy and renting my own little place (which is important for my psyche). unfortunately my day paying job cannot cover it all. most of my salary goes to my student loans and paying the bills.  graduation is still far away and I need help with getting on my feet for the first time in my life. I dream of traveling for the first time, being independent and to start focus on my health which been ignored for years.

please help me get through this crucial time period. I believe the future holds better opportunities for me.

once I’m in a better place ill be sure to pay the favor forward.

regardless- thank you for reading! hope all is well with you x

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If I don’t ask I’ll never know

 

Thanks for taking your time to even think about being the type of person to read these types of letters.

I am proud of you for that even if I do not know you.

I just want/“need”/wish I could have someone to financially just push me through this so I can provide for myself without having to fear asking people I know don’t have the funds to help me for anything already.
I have got the numbers down and if I have my rent paid until may 2023 and my truck fixed now like today and save what I would be paying in rent I could have a good lump some of money for me to put aside in an account for my nephew for his future since his parents are sadly not going to be able to do that his dad passed away before he was born and my sister is very sadly just in the grip of addiction and needing mental health help but when she wants it she will get it that’s on her time I’ve learned, but the kid needs someone to set him up somehow and that’s me my dads dead my mom is disabled and I’m the oldest and that’s all I got so anyways sorry for the rambling. Also I am trying to figure out how I need to invest and invest into what,who,where,when..ect so I also can have a better future and possibly be where you are one day reading one of these letters and making a decision to change someone’s life even in the smallest,

The “what you should write about” example said I should tell you about myself so here’s that part
I grew up in the cowboy capital of the world and graduated in 2012 I moved to the city and worked at a motel 6 as the front desk guest services rep and from there I worked my way up to being the overnight manager at the number 1 resort in the south Western Hemisphere of the world and have really worked hard to try and be someone that makes me feel proud but makes others that know me feel good to tell anyone where I work and what I do. I have met more people then I’ll ever be able to count and have had the most amazing scary sad hilarious mind blowing situations happen and I wouldn’t change it for anything. Anyone you possibly could meet that may know me somehow would tell you my handshake is just as good as any man’s word.

but the hospitality industry will only take you so far until you either have the money to get your own property or until the big man decides to let you take over and I don’t have time for that
i don’t have anyone else to ask and I can not bring myself to use the resources I have as a human body / play with another humans emotions to get what I need to get going financially it just doesn’t sit right with me.

i feel like I may have-ish or may not have done a very persuasively good job on this letter but the instructions said be yourself so I did that.

Thanks again for being who you are. Tell your parents (or maybe not your parents lol) good job for me!

yours in service,
Haley

Amount 4500-5000

 

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