It all started with a happy relationship, 8 miscarriages, 2 ruptured ectopic pregnancies and 8 years later I couldn’t take anymore. The beatings were bad but the emotional abuse was horrible. I won’t get into details about it all as I would be here forever but I finally got away. I was placed into emergency housing by my local authority with the help of woman’s aid. Unfortunately the rent was £185 a week for a house that I couldn’t afford to heat, I complained constantly and was told I’d get a suitable house in no time, it took 18months. In the first six months I spent all my savings trying to get by and then major depression hit, I still managed to carry on working but I also hit the drink and ended up in alot of debt, not far off £20000. £7000 was rent arrears the rest was an alcohol fuelled rampage. Then one day I met a new guy, one that has been nothing but kind and caring towards me, he took me into his arms and promised me everything would be okay and nearly three years later it’s almost perfect. Money is my only issue, I work hard to keep the house I’m in and to try and pay off my debts but everytime I think I’m getting somewhere financially something happens and i start to struggle again. My new guy works but isn’t in a place to help me out and I wouldn’t expect him to. Replaced my knackered old car with a more suitable one, I’m a home carer so rely heavily on my car, my more suitable car cost me nearly £2500 in the first four months of owning it, the car isn’t even worth half that. Then my cat got poorly, that cost me nearly £1000 and just the other week my old dog got poorly, that was £750 and unfortunately he couldn’t be saved so he was put to sleep. Between loosing my precious, beat friend dog and my financial worries I’m starting to feel depression get hold of me again. Due to my miscarriages I have been referred for IVF which I’m really excited about but then I also worry that I can’t afford a child. I’m 40 and in nearly £20000 debt and only managing to pay off about £100 a month. I’d be eternally grateful for anything you can spare to help me pay off my debts so I can get back on track with my life and gain a new life if IVF is successful
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