Hi it started with me asking for a transfer to over side of the country, then being made redundant due to night work being canned and my partner pregnant with our second child so I went and did a 60 hour night shift to pay rent and bills and to look after my family.
Six months of doing this with 3 hours sleep my body could not cope so moved my family to Scotland renting a nice house in a small village. Everything seemed to be looking up. I got my partner and two children settled in Scotland and drove 8 hours on weekend too see my family and then 8 hour’s when I could getting ahead in rent and paying all bills ahead of needing paying. Did this for a while until I could not anymore and handed in my notice and moved to Scotland to be with my family. I looked online and found a few jobs applied and went for interviews. One thing or another I could not get job then a supermarket job came up applied and went to prove ID and birth certificate got damaged in my wallet and they could not except it and it was during COVID and could not get a replacement so said could not employ me.
I went and applied to work in a holiday camp as a money collector and apparently people do not last very long doing this I found out afterwards due to what it involves. Got job seasonal yippee. First year past ok and at end of season looked for work and found a dog food company so applied and started working for them over winter and enjoyed it. Then came really not well and found out I was allergic to deer antler what was one of there main products, so had to leave was very disappointed. Found out my partner was pregnant.
We had a home birth in a pool due to COVID baby girl number three I love every single one of my children and work as hard as I can to provide for them
Next year started applied to join holiday camp again and this time I worked in there shop as well as money collection and near end of year said the warehouse could be done better as was a warehouser in past so I was aloud to strip and put knew shelving in the warehouse almost doubling the space. Time goes on and get full time contract at holiday camp I thought ok very hard work but it’s a job. Also found out my partner was pregnant again after our first holiday I was able to do for us.
Then the worst happens a team leader came to work with COVID and they said he had to work in warehouse where I was working and gave me COVID very badly. I lost my balance and my body got weak and almost lost my job as manager was not understanding. So as soon as I was better looked for another job while still working and found a job back at the same company I got made redundant from applied and got the job went and spoke to holiday camp manger and handed in my notice. During the period before moving to new job more and more was pushed onto me to get done and the last week before moving to new job my body gave up and hurt all my back and arm. I was devastated. I had to speak to the company and said I hurt my back and arm is it ok to keep job open they said sorry but no they needed someone to start now.
So lost new job and job at holiday camp thought no, I started to loose all the advance payments I had done bring rent to one month in advance and bills month by month before healing and finding a new job at a supermarket my baby was about to be born and was told I had the job. Yes. Then the new we baby boy was born at home in the same birthing pool as my daughter and was ment to start work that week I called the company up as my baby boy had to go to hospital as one of his lungs was not inflating and was put in a incubator in a room on his own. My partner stayed at hospital while I was looking after my three daughters and going to hospital every day with them. The company was understanding and kept my job open after about two weeks my boy was home but now starting to go in debt I started new job.
Was as hard as ever going back to work after a new boy was born but I did soon got given back door to do as well as shelf filling as was impressed with my work. Went free probation period and got offered two days felt destroyed after all I was doing. But excepted it as a job is better than none. So did overtime when ever it was possible to increase my wage. I managed to say and pay of debts but still could not get ahead again like I was.
I save for a family holiday and went on our second holiday my second ever holiday and went back to work and got food poisoning from a fast food shop as bought a treat for family and wish I had not and had to take time of work and putting me back into debt. Some time went past after.
Then the worst happens I get a email saying you are going to be evicted due to owner was wanting to sell up…
I don’t have the money to get another property have no family that lives near and four children with another on the way and a partner and I am supposed to be providing for them.
The new baby was coming and I delivered him my self at home in the birthing pool that my other two was born in. Was amazing then 45 minutes later midwives turned up baby healthy but partner was ill she was rushed to hospital and they did tests and found a extra muscle on her heart. She came home and can’t do much and has to do more hospital visits to find out if anythink can be done.
Now I had a eviction notice delivered to the door by two people saying I have a choice finding £75,000 by July to buy from owner or leave. I spoke to my mum and told her the price and said I will pay her rent above the mortgage repayments if she could buy it so my family had a roof over there head. But my mum said she could not help us and can not get a mortgage so have to rent another three bedroom house.
So I have a family with five children 8 ,6 ,4, 1,0 and a sick partner being evicted and I only have a part time job but supermarket said they can give me a extra day permanently that will help but will not help with getting another property. I have never asked for help from strangers I have been the one that tries to help overs.
But now I am asking to anyone that can help I require help please as my children and partner means everything to me
Thank you for reading
I hope you are keeping well and having a happy life.
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