For most of my life, I’ve always tried to put others before me and make sure they were taken care of even at the cost of my own well being, whether that was physically, financially, emotionally, or mentally. My life from 2012 to 2019 was spent trying to constantly make sure someone who I thought was my best friend was okay since they went through a lot with cancer, losing their mom, and then their dad, and getting a divorce. Through all this, I was always there making sure everything was taken care of so they wouldn’t have to worry about anything. In doing this for so long, I ended up in a lot of debt and learned bad money management skills throughout the years they were in my life. I currently am struggling with credit card debt, student loans, and needing to make sure my rent is paid this month. I would have had the money for rent but I had to get new tires for my car because they were showing the threads and were about to blow. I understand I am responsible for my decisions and the consequences that come from them, and I hate to ask for help because I like to be the one to help others. I just need a little help to not feel like I’m drowning and I can breathe and enjoy life again without feeling stressed and depressed.

 

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Urgent Plea for Help: Desperate Single Mother in Need of Assistance

 

Hello Everyone,

I hope this message finds you in good health and high spirits. I apologize for reaching out to you in such distress, but I am facing an unimaginable crisis that has left me with no other option but to seek help from kind-hearted individuals like yourself.

 

My name is Kim,and I am a single mother of two beautiful children, one of whom is disabled and requires round-the-clock care. I find myself in a heart-wrenching situation where I am on the verge of losing our home due to a 5-day pay or quit notice, and our utility bills are dangerously close to being disconnected. The weight of this burden is unbearable, and I am desperately seeking assistance to keep a roof over our heads and provide a safe environment for my disabled child.

 

The series of unfortunate events that brought me to this point began when I was unexpectedly hospitalized, rendering me unable to work for an extended period. As a result, I fell behind on my bills and have been struggling to catch up ever since. Despite my relentless efforts, finding suitable employment that accommodates my responsibilities as a mother and caregiver has been an uphill battle. The pressure of this situation is exacerbated by the fact that I am still under the care of my doctors, which further limits my job prospects.

 

I am writing to you today with a heavy heart, hoping that you can find it in your kind soul to extend a helping hand during this incredibly challenging time. Your generous donation would not only assist in paying off the rent and utility bills but also alleviate the immense stress and uncertainty that my family is currently enduring.

 

Moreover, if you happen to be aware of any resources or organizations that may provide additional support in securing stable housing or work-from-home opportunities, I would be forever grateful for your guidance. Every lead or suggestion could be a lifeline for my family, offering us a glimmer of hope in the midst of this overwhelming situation.

 

Please know that any amount you can contribute, no matter how big or small, will go directly towards ensuring the basic needs and security of my children. Your kindness and compassion will not only offer us immediate relief but also restore our faith in humanity during these trying times.

 

From the depths of my heart, I want to express my sincerest gratitude for taking the time to read my plea. Your generosity and support mean the world to me and my children. Together, we can make a difference and create a brighter future for those in need.

 

With heartfelt thanks and warm regards,

Kim

I’m trying to raise $5000 to pay my past due rent balance and utility cut off notices. What ever amount donated is greatly appreciated!

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My Cash App is: $Jah1kEnt

 

I am from Haiti and being living in the US for a decade now my family (mother father brother and sister) still living over there. Even it is hard but I always find ways to support them through my full time job income. With the security situation in Haiti my family lost their home gang members occupied the area and took multiple houses including ours. With that situation my family became homeless. I am trying to help to most that I can sending clothes and money for them to survive.I took some money from my 401k to help them for a new place. Is been really though for my financially I have been late on rent car payment, loans  just to help my family. Please please I just need some help to catch up on rent $2267  my PayPal @stevenson2311

Greetings and salutations to you all, thank you for your kindness in sparing your time. I hope that this message reaches you in the best of health. I am a 48 year old father to a 11 year old daughter and a husband to my 43 year old wife. It has been 10 months since we been evicted from our apartment and are living with family. I am the sole provider we can’t afford daycare so my wife is a stay at home to take care of taking our daughter to and from school. We just got blessed with a car about 5 months ago and now registration suspended because I can’t keep up with insurance and it lapsed and also behind on the monthly payments. Where we live at with family is far from my daughter school is a commute daily. I just can’t seem to save enough to get a place because of living paycheck to paycheck.

I humbly ask for help so I can get my family a place of our own again closer to where my daughter school is and to get caught up on our car bills which is vital part of my family now.

I am a true believer of the American Dream. Mine is going through some roadblocks right now due to not having enough income [Read more…]

Since 2008 I have been struggling to “fix” myself after brain surgery due to a neurological condition. While the physical stuff was pretty challenging, the real test was the one of my mind. I admit, I fell apart. I stopped trusting my own thoughts and decisions and, inevitably, made a mess of everything I touched. It took quite a while, lots of therapy, and many mistakes to get to a place where I finally started learning to trust me and my brain again. For the last 6 months I have been unemployed, doing random gigs, online and on-site testing, donating plasma, using cash advances, and living off what savings I was able to hoard in order to survive. I finally found a job I have been wanting to get back into, I’m creating again (I have 3 low content books published on Amazon KDP), and I actually have a pretty sound plan but time and money have run out. I need help to keep my roof over my head. My new job starts next week but the funds are needed now. I would appreciate whatever help you can give but I really need $2000. That will get my rent paid and give me enough to last until my first check. Ironically, my 51st birthday is on Monday and it would great to actually be able to celebrate without having a panic attack. I’m not sure how this works, but if you would like one of my low content notebooks I will definitely send one to you! My guinea pigs will be ever so grateful as well. Please. I don’t want to lose what little I have managed to keep for myself.

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Hello, my name is Anna, and I found myself on this website after I heard about it on Youtube. I don’t normally like to share the difficult aspects of my life, and I am a very private person. However, I’m here because I decided to take a leap of faith.

I’m a single mom to two children (9 and 10 years old).

These last 2 years have been such a rollercoaster, and I lost 5 family members within a span of 6 months and became a single mom.

2023 has been a very eventful year.

I separated from my longtime partner of 13 years and became a single mother to my two children in February.

I live in California, and most of my family lives out of state. In March 2022, my cousin, whom I view as my brother, reached out and wanted to help him change his life and be free from addiction. I opened up my home to him, vowed to help him stay clean, and four months later he decided to go back east. As much as I did not want him to go back, I trusted God to protect him, and three days later, I got the news that my cousin overdosed. I was in complete shock and was unable to forgive myself, but I had to stay sane to keep things in order for my family.

A month after my cousin passed away, I started a new position and worked 100% from home as an advisor in the senior living industry. I buried myself in my work to distract myself and used my pain as motivation to make sure I continued to be self-sufficient.

For the majority of my relationship with my ex (13 years), I was the breadmaker. My ex was either unemployed, in between jobs, or incarcerated. For most of my children’s lives, I’ve been their sole caretaker, and I will do anything and everything for my kids.

Two months into my new job (September 2022), my ex began to be completely intolerable. I worked strategically to leave my apartment with my children and dogs right after every shift. We’d come home when we knew my ex would be asleep and barricade my children’s bedroom doors so he wouldn’t disturb us. Luckily for us, he would leave by 6 a.m., which allowed my kids and me peace in the mornings.

One night in November, my ex and I got into an argument, and he took my car keys and wallet, so I couldn’t leave with my kids. (There was a time in the relationship where we agreed to never fight in front of our kids and usually wait until the kids were in bed, but he really changed over the night.) That night in November, he was trying absolutely everything to get a reaction out of me, and I continued to ignore him until he started picking on our son, and I was completely enraged when our son started to cry. He’s a complete narcissist and will do anything for a reaction. He will hurt my dog or pretend to hurt her just to get a rise out of me. He was threatening to physically hurt my son for not getting him the remote controller for the TV, and I called the police for help. The police did not do anything, and I found myself hitting a brick wall every time I called for help because the abuse could not be proved. They were looking for physical evidence (a bruise or a black eye) in order to remove him from our home.

So I decided to plan an escape and save as much money as I could to move out by March, and I accepted that I would have to walk on eggshells until I had my own place.
A week after our argument, my other cousin was hospitalized due to an accident. A month later, my cousin passed away, and I found out about his passing while I had COVID.

The last week of January, I attempted to call the cops again for a similar situation but was turned away. I decided to go to court and file for a restraining order or move-out order, and that same exact day I got a phone call that my grandma was in the ICU.

By the time it was February, my life was completely upside down, and I was still trying to drown myself in work despite the challenges I was facing in my personal life. I was able to take some time off of work to spend time with my grandma before she passed away. After a week off of work, I went back to my normal routine and just did my best to keep everything together.

I have over $3500 per month in bills, and I am the sole provider for my children. By the time my ex was ordered to leave, he removed himself from the lease, stopped paying for half of my rent, and I was financially responsible for everything. I was not qualified for any government assistance, nor have I received any child support.

I thank the Lord every day for blessing me with a career that can support my family of 3 plus 2 dogs.

Unfortunately, in April 2023, I hit a breaking point after I attended my grandfather’s funeral. I was unable to sleep, think properly, or function, and in June 2023, I had to go on a medical leave from work. Since I was not yet employed with the company for a year, I was ineligible for FMLA and had no choice but to pay my bills with my credit cards and my savings.

My medical leave ended up being 2 months long, and I just went back to work a month ago. My income is not the same as it was in May because I’m starting from scratch, and it takes at least 4-5 months to start seeing the fruits of my labor with my job. I used to also do grocery delivery as a side hustle to have extra money, but with the outrageous gas prices, I stopped driving 50 miles to get to the city, where I actually get orders to shop for people. My financial situation has completely changed since May, and I’ve also been avoiding my dentist and have postponed my dental procedure because I can’t afford it at this time. I’ve been wearing a temporary crown on my front tooth since May, and my tooth was scheduled to be extracted in August. I am also now in a position where I don’t know how I’m going to be able to pay all of my bills for the next few months, as this paycheck I just received will allow me to pay for my utilities, my phone bill, and groceries. I won’t have enough for my rent in less than 2 weeks, but I am hoping and praying for the best possible outcome.

I will be 31 in a few weeks and will be a mom for officially 11 years, 5 days after my birthday next month. My daughter will be turning 11. My daughter and son mean the absolute world to me.

11 years ago, I was in a woman’s shelter because I had a broken relationship with my parents. They were not accepting of me becoming a mom so soon, so I moved out to protect my daughter and contacted 211 for assistance. 11 years ago, I was saved by God, and he changed my life completely. God placed me in a beautiful shelter, which I lived in for 8 months. God transformed my life, and everything I prayed for then, God has blessed me with now. My relationship with my family has been mended, although distance is still a challenge. Despite my current circumstances, I know how faithful God is. He will not forsake me, as he always keeps his promises. I am grateful that God continues to provide, and therefore I am blessed.

I want to tell you how much I appreciate the time you shared with me to learn about my situation. I am fully aware and understand that there are people who are in need of more help, and I pray for them.

I would appreciate many prayers and want to thank you again for your time.

Prayers and all donations are appreciated.

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I am truly humbled by your kindness.

God bless.

Hi my Britney I have three children  I moved  from Boston Massachusetts. I have been about 7months after  moving  here haven’t be able adjust right away it been really  hard time for me scent  I be here

 

in Miami Florida  after I had a stroke  I haven’t  been back to work as home health aid  and I been waiting to see if  am able  to get any assistance  around  as of now I been not able to pay my bills  rents and things that my needs  to be met etc  also things I will love to do with my children  it been really  depressing  for  me telling  them no I can’t  when then are asking me for things that am not able  to buy them our doing nice things for school  things buy them clothes  our anything  that I like to do for them family going so I am really  able to help  as much  they will like too it really  heavy  weight  on my shoulders  and it hurt them am not there rent been over what I can handle  at to allows  when Bills not be able to do things that are supposed  as needed  hard getting it hard to  bed hard transportation   to get around  when need  make appointments  it been a journey  for not feeling that have the support  that need to get by I feel like it not getting  no better  I have reached  out to places  that I refer  to and still no help and I be praying  that things get better  hopefully  one day will the main problem  when I am not able to do things when my children need it overwhelming  yourself back to self trying  hear and  now looking brighter  day time to hold back to tear when their not looking  to able to stand in where I need to be I know still people  with good heart not able put all in one trying way all the things  facing being strong  trying  to hold it together  I have no father to help any my children life as well  to help myself to help them as am facing  these hardship  life issues  am facing around my health condition  it really  mess with they telling  me get a jobs not knowing  what their  mom facing  not having understanding  feeling like fall in dark place  in my  mind going threw process  having that love for your children and able to explain  how am going to make a way for them I been a way for a while  and coming back after my stroke  and not having  the same mind set as I had before  trying  to get my self back  and order to show them am still here holding on threw all things facing  allows myself  believe  it still    hope trying to  keep my head up no matter what hardtime  I  been up against what  not  having  the assurance  my help have as a income  is foodstamp as of now mostly  I have to tell coming  up with things about how am going  to pay rents to keep a roof over  my head stocking  him by not able to keep up my lease  agreement  I made with my landlord  so I really  from. Bottom my heart was hoping  their someone that will understand  on a mom going threw hardtime  in need as well  as of needed  any support  I can have a hand with will warm to my heart  trying make it threw turnover in my life not trying hopelessness as keep it up in prayer  for a break threw.

Hello and God bless you all my name is Shane I am a father of four children first is Shane Jr. Second is Nikai and then my other blessings are my twin girls Layla and Lani they are my world and I do my very best to provide for them my oldest is 12 years of age my second son is 9 and the girls are 7 such a great set of ages they are all truly a joy. I have really been trying my best as a handyman to give them a stable life growing up but things have gotten so out of reach I can’t seem to catch up I have never tried anything like this before but times are very hard and I feel as if I am going to lose everything please if anyone can help us from ending up in a bad situation I would so greatly appreciate it I am a very hardworking man just extremely down financially I have lived in Florida for 20 years I just recently moved to the winter garden area and we really do like it once again any help I would very much be appreciated thank you and May God bless you every one $colvertshane

I’m not entirely sure where to start here. I have a penchant for TMI, and it often causes more problems than it solves, but here is my story and why I’m here today…

3 years ago I relocated back to America after living in England for 20 years. My first job back was cashier in a retail store I took, so I could save to build my credit from 0, and further get a car. Then I could be an Uber driver. I wanted to be a taxi driver ever since I saw a music video in ’92.

Once I got Sheila E. my Camry, I was ready to hit the road. Started driving with Uber and in 11 months I managed to save $4k, and built my credit to a very good score. I was proud of what I had achieved, and I was happy. And single. The only thing I didn’t have was my own place to live. It was alright sharing, but I wanted my own apartment. I was almost there. Then I fell into a relationship trap with someone who wasn’t at all who I thought. Everything you wouldn’t want from a man; cheating, lying, manipulating, etc. I confronted him, and he didn’t like that.

After leaving I got my own apartment but I wasn’t alone. He was cyber-stalking me, stealing identity, and much more. He was trying to financially and emotionally ruin me. Anyway, I couldn’t drive, and I lost my apartment within 3 months. I had to move back in with my father again. After a few months of heavy drinking, I started getting things together again, and then I met another guy in a local bar. I wasn’t looking for a relationship, but he was persistent and charming. At first anyway. He moved in with us and things were ok.

Then I wanted to move back to the city, because that’s where I could really make money again driving. What I truly love doing. I’ve had plans now for the last 2 years to go to Duke for post grad studies in Health & Wellness Coaching (which I feel is my true calling) but telling toxic family members about it was a mistake. Anyway, I still dream to go there, but that’s not the reason I’m here asking for help.

The guy I decided to move into a new apartment with in May this year, became a completely different person when we moved in. I helped him get a new job in a warehouse, earning more than ever, but he was never truly grateful. He never is. Nothing is enough unfortunately. He had bad spending habits and credit, and I tried explaining that we couldn’t be frivolous with spending, because bills and rent and more important things needed taking care of first. He became extremely controlling and jealous too. Didn’t want me to work as a driver anymore, because I liked it and picked up men. Even though it was strictly professional. He’d bought a car from my father, but didn’t want to drive it, because it was too slow, and he couldn’t drive on the busy highways. He said. So we shared my car. After 4 months of depression with me staying at home with our puppy, the penny dropped. And here we are. Here I AM anyway. Almost 2 months behind in rent. My credit card is maxed out (which I never had before,) all because I just had to give in to his whims and demands to keep some sort of peace. Emotionally beaten down.

Then all of the sudden a few weeks ago, I NEED TO WORK he told me. He can’t do it all on his own, and more types of verbal and emotional abuse. So I have been trying to get back to work, but almost every time I come home, there’s drama. He had my things packed at the front door once, or just makes me feel miserable to ruin the fact I enjoyed my shift. I have pawned things to come up with some money. He refuses to pawn things he owns.

I don’t want to be with him anymore, but we both signed the lease. And the only downfall of self employment is lack of healthcare. (I’m relying on his benefits as well, seeing the doctor I love, and saw when I was with the last headache.) He said I could take my name off the lease when we pay rent, but I know if I do, he’ll start saying it’s his apartment and I need to move out. I like where we live. Especially the location. It’s perfect for my work, being so close to the airport.

He’s extremely manipulative. Always playing games, and furthermore, I found out he’s also cheated. He has hidden dating apps on his phone. I have reason to believe he’s installed spyware in my phone as well. To keep tabs on me. Same thing the guy I saw before did. So, I am in a public library writing this to keep my privacy.

I don’t know what to do. I thought about going back to England, because I’m somewhat homesick, but I can’t leave my puppy behind. He’s a pitbull, and he’s not allowed entry there, and here, he’d be abused. I also have an adopted cat I love, too.

So, the only thing I can hope to ask for is enough money to catch up on my rent. Perhaps enough to help me get back on my feet again. To set aside, so I actually CAN leave in the near future and head southwest. Start a new life in another state. I have dreams and goals of getting so far in life with a career, though I feel I need trauma healing therapy, and abilities to create to create stronger boundaries to get there.

Thank you for reading my plea. And if you made it this far, thank you again for taking the time to. Genuinely appreciative. Have a blessed day.

 

 

I went through a monumental set back back in my life having to start with nothing and have climbed up out of homelessness into my own apartment.  I badly injured myself that has taken over 2 years to recover from and have started physical therapy the end of August.  My landlord has been patiently waiting for the amount I owe in back rent.  I cannot physically work yet.  I need $3,000 for back rent plus $1,000 for current rent and $3,000 to repair my car and get it registered.  It is parked with 2 flat tires that keep going flat after repair work at auto shop.  I need new set of tires for winter and  emission work and windshield to get my car to pass state inspection and get the registration and license plate for it so I have transportation to a job once I can work a job again.  I need $7,000 which will keep me from being evicted and being homeless and have transportation to get to work in the very cold snowy climate in Vermont in winter coming soon.

I had broken my leg and nearly ripped all of my ligaments on both knees.  I could not walk for a long time.  My apartment is upstairs and I was home bound because I could not go up and down stairs.  I am walking now but still have great difficulty with stairs.  I have a few more months of physical therapy and healing before I can return to a job.  I only receive food stamps and no other source of income.  It has been a struggle each month asking  for help with phone bill and car insurance paid by a disabled friend on very low income.  When I am healed, I can work again and support myself.

I just went through a terrible flood disaster in July in Vermont.  Everything  in front and back of my house washed away in the flood.  I am trying to hold on after having climbed my way up from nothing.   I have trained for good job when healed so am nearly back on my feet when I am recovered enough to start working if my financial need is met by caring people who can help me.

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Hi,

I hope this letter finds you in good health. I am writing this with a heavy heart to tell you about my current financial situation, which has left me unable to meet my most basic financial obligations, including my rent of $2,500.

Over the past few months, I have faced some challenges which greatly weighs me down, unexpected medical expenses, job loss, inability to pay my rent, which have significantly impacted my income. Despite my best efforts to budget and find work, , my financial condition has reached a point where I am extremely broke, and I find myself unable to afford even the necessities.

I understand the importance and responsibility of paying rent, and it deeply distresses me to be in this position. I value the home I have here . My intention is not to avoid my obligations, but rather to seek assistance during this incredibly challenging time.

I am actively searching for a new job and exploring assistance programs, and I am hopeful that my situation will improve in the coming months. In the meantime, I am asking if there might be any way i could address my rent payments. I just want to pay my rent so i can have a place to sleep.

I am more than willing to provide any documentation or further information you may require to verify my current situation. Once I am in a better financial position, I am committed to addressing any arrears.

I appreciate your understanding during this difficult period in my life.

Thank you for your consideration and understanding.

Warm regards,

odemijie osemudiamen.

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