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Last Updated: October 12, 2023

Emergency – my tuition fees are due and I have just lost my job.

 

I am just beginning the third and final year of my PhD. Over the past two years I have paid my fees by doing shift work, working long hours whilst also researching and writing my PhD thesis. All my efforts to obtain grants and scholarships have been unsuccessful, despite being put forward for scholarships on two separate occasions by my university department.

Yesterday, without notice and without any reason being given, I was laid-off (which legally they are able to do, even though I have been with them for three years, as I am classed as a casual worker.) I am now unable to fund my studies, with only a few days to go until my first payment is due. I have no idea what to do, as I do not now have enough time to find a new job before the payment is due and I do not have a credit card, nor can I apply for a loan as I am now unemployed.

I have been able to earn £1,300 pounds, but my fees are £4, 500 so I need £3,000 to make up the difference. I would be incredibly grateful to anyone who can help in any way.

https://paypal.me/DM3471?country.x=GB&locale.x=en_GB

 

Filed Under: Tuition Fees Tagged With: UK

Last Updated: October 12, 2023

Forclosure Pending

HI,

Wishing things were different.  I moved to another state to be closer to family,  was able to get a VA loan and move into a nice home.  I was working long hours in and out of town. Took a job offer outside of town, sold that house.  Two of my nieces knew a family about to loose their house and the Dad had passed away 5 years earlier.  So I was asked if I could help.  Did not realize what I was getting myself into.  Wound up getting another VA loan at the start of Co- Vid ,  started taking out loans to keep up, got into a forbearance but to many bills and high interest loans I couldn’t make the house payments. I have been trying to start working in online business but have lacked the money for the training and advertizing.  My Home catch up payment is aound 17,000.  I am hoping to raise about 20,000 to 25,000 to get caught up.  Thank you for all consideration.

Rick

Paypal.me

Rickie907

Filed Under: Home Foreclosure Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: October 12, 2023

Want a classic car

Howdy world, it’s a good day today!

I’m reaching out because I’m in a bit of a situation. I want a new car. Not a new car, just new to me. The reason I can’t get it is because I can’t afford it. Now, that doesn’t sound like much of a problem. And to most people, it wouldn’t be – they can take out a loan or ask friends or family to help them out and that’s that. But I don’t have friends or family who can help. Or, more accurately, the ones that can help would turn me down the second I opened my mouth. Because it is a silly idea at first glance.

The car that I want is a 1978 Chrysler New Yorker with 57,000 miles on it.

I want this car because I look at modern cars and I don’t like them. I also test drove this car and fell in love. The handling and ride quality are just nothing I’ve felt before. To put it short, I fell in love with this car. The butterscotch interior and exterior, the leather upholstery, the classic dials and gauges – everything fits my bill. This car is what I want people to think of when they think of me. I want to stand out from the parking lot of beigemobiles and I want people to know that I’m there purely because my car is unique.

There’s another reason I want this car. My current car is a broken Hyundai Blue Elantra “gift” from my abusive ex-boyfriend in Utah. The steering wheel rattles back and forth so hard on the freeway that my wrists ache after driving for long, there’s no noise deadening so the wind noise makes my ears ache, and the upholstery is so stained I’m ashamed to have passengers. I got the car because my ex wanted me to get him a Chrysler 300m a coworker was offering to me for cheap. So I got the Chrysler and traded for his Hyundai, with the understanding that I could trade it for something better eventually, since he didn’t have many options while living out among the sands. Well, that day never came. My boyfriend crashed and totaled the Chrysler 300m in the desert, then had me drive him up here for Christmas, wherein he crashed the Hyundai while driving too fast on an icy road. It didn’t total the car, but he couldn’t afford to fix it and I couldn’t either. So I’ve been driving this broken car and feeling very broken the entire time. I want to have a car that makes me excited to drive it and happy to be in it, not one that hurts me and forces me to relive all the miserable times I spent with my ex.

And yes, I have tried to get a loan and a different car. I’ve been turned down by nine different credit unions in person, three online, and four dealerships. I’ve thought seriously about taking on a payday loan just to get out of this car, but I don’t want to ruin my life any further.

Speaking of my life, the reason I keep getting turned down is because of my credit score. Which is as low as it is because of two credit cards a few years ago. I had just started a new job as a contract employee and I thought it was a good idea to start building my credit. I was making small purchases and paying it off, like you’re supposed to do. After three months, my job told me they had decided to hire me on as a real full-time employee. I was excited! None of my previous positions had ever done that, and I was looking forward to the future. I was going to be a new salaried employee for the first time in my life and thought things would be good for a long while. So I started taking care of my neglected dental issues, using my card to pay it off. After eight months, it turns out the company couldn’t afford me anymore, so they let me go. Just in time for the new year. So, being jobless and not knowing how long it would take to get a new position, I thought the responsible thing to do would be to call the credit union up and let them know, and ask if they could do any kind of forebearance. They said no, they can’t do that, and that since I told them I lost my job, they were going to cancel my cards. So they got canceled and I had to immediately start paying back. Which I fell behind on because of no job but I’ve been doing my best. Every time they call, I give them what they ask, but it’s taken a heavy toll on my score.

Even with my new job, everything I make goes toward maintaining things and I’ve struggled to hold on to any kind of savings. And since the car is priced so cheaply, there’s a real danger of it getting snapped up before I can get it. The seller wants $2,800 for the car, and I know it needs work. It needs hoses and belts replaced in the engine, along with new spark plugs and wires plus distributor cap maintenance, and the door seals need to be replaced because the passenger side leaks when it rains. I knew all this from the start and I’m willing to take this on because I don’t want to lose out on this beautiful piece of history. At this price and everything, it’s something I feel I would be stupid to pass up, and would regret it for a very long time. But I haven’t been able to get any help!

I was trying to get $5,000 so I would have enough to cover any basic repairs and the cost of the car itself, so if any one of you have it in you to help me get this car and help me feel better about driving in general, I would be incredibly grateful.

My PayPal link is PayPal.me/FoxStuff

Thank you for taking the time to read this, and I hope you have a magnificent day!

Filed Under: Wishes Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: October 12, 2023

Single Mom Needs Help to Save Home

Hi I am a single mom with a child who needs assistance in keeping her home. I have been struggling to manage credit card payments after making my mortgage payment each month. My debt has increased to $40,000 in credit cards. The second income diminished from the father fallen into a bad turn of a change and got into substance abuse. As a result, through a court order, we have a 10-year restraining order against the father that is protecting both of us. I am an educated woman who earned my bachelor’s in 2019 during my pregnancy and earned the highest honor Suma Cum Lade which is written on my diploma. In addition, I purchased a small condo for myself and my son. These past few years have been difficult as prices of groceries, healthcare, etc. keep increasing and I am stuck with my only income. If anyone can send a small amount, any amount will be a blessing for myself and my child. Thank you for reading my story and wish you the best as well. Thank you, Diana

 

paypal.me/DHubbard408

 

Filed Under: Single Moms Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: October 12, 2023

Credit card help

Hi Reader

I am a single man. Many years ago i bailed out a friend from been brought to court from a bill he didnt pay. It was near 4000 euro. That friend never gave a penny back and i used my credit card at time thinking he pay it off. We are no longer friends but i have been stuck paying this bill but with been single price of rent bills and other cost i was never able pay more than lowest monthly back. Now with increases for everyone i struggling to keep up with everything and it would help a great deal if i can at least get rid of this credit card. Any thing would be welcome.

Thank you

Tim

Paypal.me/linet90

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: EU

Last Updated: October 11, 2023

“Turning Adversity into Inspiration: A Journey of Resilience and Hope”

Dear Supporters,

I hope this message finds you well. My life’s journey has been a testament to resilience and the power of positive transformation. I’ve faced the adversities of a challenging childhood, worked diligently to overcome personal obstacles, and dedicated myself to becoming the best version of myself. It’s my belief that helping others is my true calling, and I’ve strived to make a meaningful impact on the lives of those around me.

My dedication to public service led me to run an office for a U.S. Senator, where I honed a strong work ethic and a deep commitment to community betterment. I even ventured into entrepreneurship, establishing my own business. However, the unanticipated challenges brought by the COVID-19 pandemic forced me to close my business, and I found myself facing homelessness for two months.

Despite these hardships, I’ve maintained an unwavering positivity and a firm belief in the goodness of humanity. It’s during this tumultuous time that I’ve discovered my true purpose – to empower and support individuals on their personal growth journeys.

I’ve taken a significant step in this direction by enrolling in courses with Mindvalley, the world’s largest personal growth company, to become a Life Coach and meditation teacher. These skills will enable me to guide and inspire others on their paths to self-discovery and personal improvement.

Currently, I’m in search of employment, and though I’m confident that a new opportunity will come my way, I’m facing a financial setback. I need assistance to ensure that my educational pursuits do not suffer and to provide for my basic needs, such as rent and food.

I’m asking for your help with a modest sum of $2,500, which will not only support my educational journey but also sustain me as I continue to contribute to the collective well-being. I’m dedicated to spreading hope and positivity and helping others to achieve their full potential. In return for your support, I pledge to offer Life Coaching and meditation classes once I become certified, enabling me to share the skills and knowledge gained with the world.

Your assistance will not only help me but also empower others who will benefit from the guidance and encouragement I can provide. Thank you for taking the time to read my bio and consider supporting my endeavors.

With love and light,

Renee

PayPal Link: paypal.me/Renees1090


 

 

You’re very welcome! I’m glad you liked it. If you have any more questions or need further assistance in the future, feel free to reach out. Best of luck with your endeavors, and I hope your funding request is successful!

 

Filed Under: Tuition Fees Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: October 11, 2023

Mortgage

Hello,

My name is Kimberly Odom and I am asking for $2,000 to help me pay my mortgage. I am 53 years old and am semi-retired from teaching special needs children in the public schools. In 2020 when everything was shut down due to COVID-19 I was able to work from home teaching the children. However, I ended up contracting COVID in September of 2020 and I was sick for three months. I thought I was going to die. Actually, I asked God to take me because I was very sick. My husband took a leave of absence from work and nursed me back to health. I thank God for him everyday. When I recovered at the end of the year my husband didn’t want me to return to work because he was afraid I would get sick again. I love him and I understood why he had concern. So, I started searching for work from home to help contribute to the household. However, I wasn’t making enough. My husband filed for bankruptcy but it has taken a toll on both of us. He works everyday and his biweekly checks pay everything. My part-time job helps with food and I use whatever is left to pay on our credit card debt. Now, we have gotten behind on our mortgage and I just don’t know what to do. I am only asking for $2,000 to cover one mortgage payment because I was just hired for a job with BCBS and the job doesn’t start until November. I feel like we can get back on our feet once my full-time job starts in November. Thank you so much. My Paypal.me account is associated with my email, kimberly.odom16@gmail.com

 

Filed Under: Mortgage Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: October 11, 2023

I need help on my eviction. Please

I have an eviction for Monday my landlord is working with my and allowing me to pay it before Monday at 12:00 p.m. I fell behind on my bills when I was with someone and had to bond out of jail. It’s all I had and it’s the exact amount of my past due rent. I’ve been keeping up with my utilities and my kids needs I have 3 of them. I’ve made it to this point and I just need help catching up. Thank you.

$exy74love is my cashapp

 

Filed Under: Eviction Notice Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: October 11, 2023

“Empowering African American Ancestry: Help Share My Story.”

In the bustling city of Cleveland, Ohio, in 1958, I entered this world as the second child of a single parent, my mother. My elder sister, Denise, had one more connection to our family—a man named Donald “Ducky” Moore. However, as a young boy, I began to sense that there was something not quite right about our family dynamics. It wasn’t just the whispers and the hushed conversations that set me on this path of questioning; it was something deeper, something more profound. It was the contrast in our appearances, most notably my fair skin.

Ducky Moore had fathered other children, with different mothers, who fell between the age of my sister and me. These complexities were difficult for a young mind to grapple with, but I always believed in the guiding hand of the universe, a spirit that watched over me, showing me a path through life that was, in many ways, extraordinary.

Our journey led us from the heart of Cleveland to the radiant city of Los Angeles when I was just twelve years old, entering ninth grade. Cleveland’s landscape was marked by the aftermath of the riots, and our new home in Los Angeles bore the scars of the Watts riots. Despite the distance, I never gave up hope that one day I would return to Cleveland, seeking answers and the chance to share the beauty of California with the man I believed to be my biological father.

Los Angeles exposed me to the captivating legacy of my namesake, Ducky Moore, a retired Harlem Globetrotter and a close friend of the legendary Don King, both of whom were prominent figures in the world of numbers bookmaking. My life, like anyone’s, had its highs and lows, but throughout, that guiding spirit remained with me. It fostered my unwavering faith in the messages I received from the voice in my head. Perhaps, at times, I’m a bit of a “lucky man.”

A decade later, through a twist of fate and the mysterious workings of the universe—guided by that ever-present voice—I found myself working at the American Broadcasting Company in the motion picture department. From the front desk, I had the privilege of welcoming movie stars like Cher, Kurt Russell, Martin Sheen, and many others. Life was an adventure, and I was thrilled to be part of it.

Then, one day, I received a phone call from my sister, who had grown into a respected attorney in the state of California. She had an inkling about who our biological father might be, and the revelation was in Los Angeles—a revelation that would change the course of my life forever.

Through a series of mystical events and after 58 years of searching, my Ancestry DNA test revealed the truth about my father’s identity. My story is one of unyielding persistence, of never giving up in the face of the impossible. I penned this book not as a professional writer but as a man compelled by an inner voice, a story that could only unfold through a higher power, whatever that means to you.

Now, I seek your support in sharing this compelling narrative with a wider audience. I’m not aiming to cast shadows on any character within this tale. Life was fun, and I want to convey that message, even during the toughest times. My book has already found its way to Amazon, but with your assistance, I can bring it to more hearts and minds. I need your help to hire a public relations and marketing company, as I strive to transform this remarkable journey into something that could grace the silver screen.

Thank you for joining me on this incredible voyage of self-discovery and sharing African American culture. Your contribution will be a vital step in making this story known and heard, as many have already asked, “When will they make the movie?”

MICHAEL MOORE
@happyvibes137

Filed Under: Business Capital Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: October 11, 2023

help saving family car

In the face of unprecedented challenges brought by the COVID-19 pandemic, our family finds ourselves in the depths of financial hardship. The loss of our car, which was recently repossessed, has added yet another layer of struggle to our already difficult lives. Our car was not merely a mode of transportation, but a lifeline that allowed us to maintain our jobs, take our children to school, and handle everyday activities. In a series of tough financial decisions, we prioritized paying rent and putting food on the table, leading to the car loan falling behind. Our unwavering commitment to hard work and determination is what has sustained us through these trying times. However, the consequences of the car’s repossession have been daunting. The financial burden of reinstating the loan, along with associated fees, has reached a staggering $4,000. This amount includes unpaid payments, fees, towing costs, and insurance expenses. As we share our story, we do so with a genuine need for assistance and a vulnerability that stems from the belief in the power of unity during difficult times. We are willing to put in the effort and work tirelessly to overcome this hardship, but without a reliable means of transportation, we are left dreading the countless hurdles that stand between us and a brighter future. Your support or any kind gesture that can help us save our car would be met with immeasurable gratitude. We know that life often tests our resilience and luck, and we fervently hope for a positive outcome that will allow us to rebuild and thrive once again.

 

cashapp $mountainjoe408

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: October 11, 2023

Please help us single mother of four.

Hello my name is Zulema Perez I’m from salinas california living in yuma arizona. I’m here to ask for help we are going to become homeless and we need a place for my kids I lost my job back in October 2022 my boss told me that it was my job or family because he said that was because there was a break in my home found a man in my home at the time I pressed charges not on that two weeks before trail he shot where we lived my self and kids he want me to drop charge we went to court and the case was drop that same day was when my daughter told me that it was not just a break in she was raped he took advantage of me leaving that afternoon to pick up clothes at the laundry we continue to put charge. He came around everyday broke window would sit out there it became scary calling everyday the sheriff to help. Missing two days of work and my boss had enough. I have always provided for my children lil by lil losing faith in the system and not having anyone to help and protect, we have got kick out by landlord because of the shooting and cops coming around went to a safe house, he found out we where there had to leave because it was high risk they said we slept in our car until my old landlord gave me the opportunity for 15 day to figure what to do next that same day my car got stolen and that we really needed looking for a job that I been doing and court and no place to live i really need help I don’t usually ask because I think I can do it all but to day I ask I beg for the help I have all my court papers everything that has been going on all this time again thank u.       Paypal.me/msmona90    cashapp_ monalopez928

 

 

Filed Under: Single Moms Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: October 11, 2023

My Pride is Getting The Best of Me …

Morning Kind World,

Back in the winter months, 2018, I lost the lost of my life. The mother of my daughter, and her 2 sons. Like most urban couples today, she was known as my Baby Mother. But we were talking marriage, if we were to ever get our crap together.

I wasn’t and still isn’t big on Christmas; but she was. Her job was having its annual Christmas potluck the following day so she was in her kitchen burning it down. She was an awesome cook. I was in my home, she was in hers. (She was suffering from bipolarism, so that put a strain on our relationship).

Suddenly, my phone rings and it’s her. She’s crying uncontrollably. All I heard was my head is hurting again. Please come over! I dropped everything! This was the 2nd time this week I had rush to her side. Not knowing this would be our last phone call to each other.

I packed up the Tyler,her 4yr old son, and put him in thebcar first. Then our 2yr old daughter Kennedy into the car next. Her older son had moved in with his father near the Tennessee border. Before walking Vanessa into the car, I turned off all of the burners she had cooking.

Vanessa was also suffering from bad migraines, but she hadn’t had one in quite a while. When we got to the hospital, got checked in, and was called to the back, we were both in great spirits because she was in her comfort zone; the hospital.  So we thought!

As the kids slept,  Vanessa and I actually tried sharing a laugh or two about her food not being done. She was more concerned about feeding her co-workers than her migraine.

Her doctor came in, checked her out and went over some things with her. I can’t honestly say what was said because we’ll use to it. But I did hear the doctor say that she’ll be heading home soon.

After a good time waiting to be released, a nurse walked in. I watched this nurse insert one shot in Vanessa’s left shoulder, walked around her, and inserted another shot in her right.

In 10 seconds, Vanessa fell face first! And that would be the last time we would share a laughed.

The nurse must have hit the panic button because it seconds we were surrounded. They literally kicked the kids and I out the room for over and hour. And at this point, I am sh*** bricks!

The wait was so long that I called my best friend at that time to come sit with me. After what seem to be a lifetimenof waiting, the doctor called me to the back.

In the doctor’s exact words, she said,

“We put her in an induce comma to stop the pains he was suffering from. In the morning, we gonna have a brain doctor come check her out, wake her up,  and send her home!”

Me not knowing anything about medicine, I Fell For It!

About 7ish the following morning, I get a weird phone. It’s her sister from her father side.

“McKey, I’m at the hospital and I could’ve sworn I just saw Vanessa getting into an ambulance.” They said that they’re taking her to Augusta, Ga.” (A little over an hour drive).

I’m calling and calling but no one would give me any answers. I was meet with resistance. Since we weren’t married, they didn’t have to tell me anything. (Even though I’m her only emergency contact)!

By this time, my mom had arrived to my home and took the kids with her. I drove back to the hospital,very fast.

She was indeed gone.

I made some more phone calls to the hospitals in Augusta until I found her. And when I arrived, the doctor there was just as puzzled as I was.

Why is she here? He kept asking me. And I couldnt give him any answers.

For.5 days, I drove back and forth to Augusta just to meet up with this doctor who was more angry then me. He said, I’ve done everything for her at this point. Every test! The final test is up to you.  Allowing me to remove these breathing tunes from her. If she can breath on her own, I will keep fighting for her.

December 23rd, Two days before Christmas, Vanessa lost her life.

Her brother(who’s suffers from substance abuse) wouldn’t allow the hospital to do an autopsy on her because he didn’t want her scarred. Again, because we weren’t married, and even though I’m her emergency contact, and she did not and do not interact with her family at all, I HAD NO SAY SO.

The doctor and I both felt that was a dumb decision.

I, with the help of my mother, paid for everything when it came to her homecoming. We didnt even attend her funeral because of death threats from her side of the family who she didn’t even talk too. Well.at least not in the entire 5.5 yrs we were together.

Not only did I pay for the funeral, but months later, I.paid the cost to adopt her son Tyler( who was a result from a one night stand). His father wouldnt come to court because of a warrant he had for his arrest!

Doing that time, I was working as a correctional officer of 9 yrs. I had to resign because i couldn’t figure out how to be a single father.  All my money was going to daycare.  She was on Medicare and receiving Childcare.  I wasn’t so lucky.  I kept getting denied.

No law firm will take my case cause again, we weren’t married.  I can’t really work cause of child care expenses.  I own and operate a 360videophotobooth business but even that’s tough finding reliable babysitters.

I travel back and forth to SC to pick my brother up; who’s a recovering substance abuser himself, to watch my kids while I go to didn’t events to earn a dollar. But even that gives be bad anxiety.

And to top it off, my suv transmission just went out trying to take my brother back home to make sure he made it to his doctor’s appointment. ($3500)

I love being a business owner.  The freedom to show my kids things and take them places is worth every struggling dollar I make.  But I’m tired.  I’m in my 50s raising a 9yr old and a 6yr old(turning 7 this month), and I’m at my wits end.

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Filed Under: Single Dads Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: October 11, 2023

For another losing their home when he helps anyone and everyone

No matter how tired or stressed he’s never let anyone else lose what they love.

Hello my name is Bee and this man who has actually paid for his home for over 30 yrs had his uncle who had lived with his parents since before he was born and since the day he passed due to lower mortgage payment. When growing up he went every where with the uncle( whos not supposed to be blood but his parents n uncle took the secert to the grave it was really his dad) and sadly he was cremated. So we would need a donation for a dna test proving he is next to kin. that i believe runs 3500. The house was before in the man im asking for donations for name as i stated he had it transfered to his uncles to lower the rates or apr im not sure what the fancy words are called but a week goes by and his uncle who had never takin a vaction in all his yrs literally finally took one and during that time they had made an appointment to put him back on and when he didnt see his uncle all day on his first day off he figured he had been enjoying resting. well sadly the next morning he had realized his uncle had past. His sister the uncles that is came and wiped out his bank account sold his tools that were insured for over a million dollars, and gave his nephew nothing. Not that he cares about that im sure it just kinda sucks cause she took his ashes and he would want his uncle to be with him. This man i am speaking of i see wake up early does whatever he has to to support the strangers he meets who are both men and women he allows people to come stay but they get chores and if they do what is normal like just work clean and show they want a better life he buys them cars and helps them into their new place. He is only behind 30000.  He had fallen behind due to being diagnosied with prostate cancer. Theres not a person in this area who can say anything bad about him. He wont ask for help. he took off 2 weeks of work from what i seen and you can tell hes in pain but he is not giving up before his dad died he asked him to not sell the house and leave it for his daughter that he raised on his own with no child support. The home in total i asked one day well how much do you owe is only 90000. Please im afraid that not only id end up with a jerk neighbor but the world would lose one hell of a good soul that gave when he shouldnt. He almost had it all just a month ago then met a man who was in a horrible accident that killed his soon to be fiance. Look it up it was last oct in norco ca. He was in wheel chair losing his home because he couldnt work and didnt have money to buy medical supplies or pay his storage and this man did the most selfless thing and made sure he got to keep all his things and helped him find a place to live and paid his debt.  Please help me give him what hes givin so many I believe he has around 10000 saved and he just needs to get the mortgage current so we can start probate. He said he has less than 30 days. The attorney he has says it will be no hassle since the uncles family has already givin paperwork saying that they dont want or have any interest in the home that its rightfully the mans who has paid for it but because circumstances and cost transferred it into uncles to help out and he passed before being able to get a trust drawn up.  my cash app is $best2bee12

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Filed Under: Home Foreclosure Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: October 11, 2023

Young couple fighting for a life

Dear Reader,

we trying to get a home and this is our endless story in short:

My name is Stefanie and I came from Egypt to Vienna/Austria for the summer holidays, where my mother is living, to volunteer at a refugee camp in 2015 during the refugee crisis in Europe. There I met my husband Mansour, who volunteered at the same place as a refugee at this place.

Long story short, he got a deportation notice back to Afghanistan in 2019 for not having evidence enough of being in life danger. His brother worked for the Afghan Government, so his life was in constant threat of being kidnapped. Despite that, car bombs were a daily routine in Afghanistan. So he decided to run to the next neighbour country Germany, telling his story and asking for help. He was denied, and returned to Austria on his way back police took him to prison waiting for his deportation.

It was clear to him that there was no life back in Afghanistan and he could not risk my life in bringing me to Afghanistan as well. So he set his cell room on fire one day before his deportation. An act of desperation and a cry for help (https://www.krone.at/1774440). He survived with burns on his back and hands. He got charged in court for doing that and he got an entry ban to the European Union for 8 Years. Sent back to Afghanistan.

Our separation caused us sadness and depression. Hopelessness, no place for us on this earth to live together a life. I suffered from a chronic Eppstein bar infection which was activated by stress, which attacked my brain and significantly limited my cognitive abilities compared with severe exhaustion. I got treated over the next years and I am at least able to do 50 % of what I was able to do before.

2020 he tried to to come to me, taking a dangerous way through Iran. He failed and got beaten up and nearly shot at the border of Iran. He suffered from injury on his legs. He made it to get a medical visa to Turkey in 2021 during the pandemic.

Luckily we are finally both together in Turkey :) we have been here since 2021 on a tourist visa which we have to renew every 6 months. There is no permanent residence to apply for us. Every 6 months we fear the result of our application because there is no way for us with an Afghan Passport. All of his family left Afghanistan after the takeover of the Taliban.

His Turkish visa didn´t get extended this time and with a lawyer, we are waiting for the answer. We are tired of never having a stable home. For at least 8 years we have feared and worried about how can we have a life. We don´t have children because we worry too much, stress is too much.

There is only one place and one way to have a stable residence. Which is purchasing an apartment in Turkey for at least 70,000 Dollars. This will grant us the residence for owning a property in Turkey. My husband works from Monday to Sunday, building stone walls on the streets of Turkey. I am trying to earn some money with online jobs. We already saved 15,000 Dollars which was extremely hard, earning just about 700-900 Dollars per month (our monthly costs if we are not sick or something like that is about 350 Dollars).

Our wish in life is just to live permanently in one place, my husband wishes to work and make money as much as possible. My wish is to get at least one child. We wish to then to help our families and cover our parents’ medical expenses. After that, we wish to help other people. We have much compassion for people in need and we enjoy to help. We want to help people in Turkey and we want help especially children in Afghanistan to build a future. But first, we need to make it to help ourselves. We have been fighting for 8 years. We fear our life ends before we make it.

In summary, what we are trying to do is to save 55.000 Dollars to purchase a home before we depart from Turkey to Afghanistan.

This is my PayPal Link: https://paypal.me/here576?country.x=AT&locale.x=de_DE

I honestly don´t expect help but it felt good to share our story and maybe there is a person who would like to help. In any case, thank you for reading our story may God bless you.

 

 

 

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Last Updated: October 11, 2023

Please save our heritage left from our great-grandfather in the Adirondacks, so we can continue his dream of teaching children about God’s country! Help us keep it so it doesn’t turn into more condos! $lavlauren1

My great-grandfather in the 1930s was stricken with tuberculosis.            He traveled to saranac Lake New York and thankfully recovered!h     He said it was fresh air! He fell in love with the land and bought property in Wilmington NY .  We always called the Bowman’s Riverbend !  That’s our last name. When my great-grandfather passed away, he and his wife and his sister were buried right on the property in a beautiful Rock flower garden!     My grandfather took over the property and turned it into camp whiteface mountain.  My father was of course a camp counselor. And my mother from Connecticut took a summer job there as a horse riding instructor, Summer romance, they were married,  here I am!!  . After the camp retired we’ve always enjoyed this property. Unfortunately my aunt who’s only 60 has been stricken with terminal brain cancer. We had to put it on the market.        We don’t want to lose our property that has always been in our family!  I want my aunt to be able to live out what time she has left in the land that we all love. And then I would like to turn it into a girl’s camp once again in the summer for unprivileged children.   I  have so many ideas! One Summer girls the next boys . And an animal sanctuary for homeless animals, horse rescue.                                      I think I could do both of these dreams on this beautiful property of 23 acres and I think I could change a lot of lives just as mine was changed and educated of the greatness of nature and the beauty of the mountains. I would love to bring City children there so they can see a mountain for the first time and smell what a real pine tree smells like!  Teach them about animals and nature!! . Please help us keep our great-grandfathers land!!  Don’t let a contractor buy it up and turn it into condos! Anyone who donates is welcome to come up and enjoy the land with us it’s on the ausable River the best trout fishing in the state! Beautiful in the fall and perfect for skiing in the winter as White face mountain is right down the street. If you remember the 1980 Winter Olympics. Please help us to keep our land 23 acres, from being taken over and turned into more commercial property. Keep my great-grandfather’s dream alive, let my aunt live out what little time she has left, and let me bring children there and teach them about nature and animals.  I would love to take in as many animals that need homes or healing or horse rescue. This is my dream I don’t want to lose this land!!   it made such a difference in my life! Feel free to take a visual tour on Zillow 55 Riverbend way Wilmington New York!.

  • So much appreciate anyone’s contributions, big or small anyone who contributes is welcome to come up and fish and camp and enjoy pristine nature!!  Thank you!
  • Lauren  [Read more…]

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