I guess our story really started when I lost my mother to cancer. I had already lost my father a couple years before from a massive heart attack at age 53. I worked as a manager for Dollar General for 5 years. I worked a lot. After I lost my mother I got really depressed. A depression I couldn’t get myself out of. The job I had put my everything into wasn’t showing any appreciation for what I did. I soon quit because I didn’t have anything left to give to it. My daughter and sons were trying to convince us to sell our home that we owned with no mortgage and come stay closer to her. They knew I needed a break. I worked typically 21hrs a day. No joke. 6am until usually 1:30am to 3am in the morning and come back and do it all over, everyday. She met a man and he had a travel trailer he was moving out of, to move in with her. They wanted us to sell the house and move into this travel trailer and take some time off and enjoy family and watch and spend time with our grandson. Finally they talked us into it. They also decided to get married and they moved up the wedding date. I had a month to come up with the money to pay for the wedding of her dreams. I settled on our wedding and I didn’t want that for her. So we finally decided to sell the house. That way we could pay for the wedding and get us a travel trailer of our own or whatever. The guy we sold to promised a quick sell. We read the papers over and over and signed. Biggest mistake of our life. The guy had put in a paper that we didn’t ever see, when signing. First it cheated us out of around 20,000, second was he could close basically whoever he wanted, third was we couldn’t sell to anyone other then him or he would get all profit from the sell. If the house burned down he would get the insurance money from that as well. Closing date came and went 3 or 4 times. It was a nightmare. While all this is going on we had moved into the travel trailer. Within the second week of staying there the landlord comes over and says we have to move the trailer. What??? He said David our daughters soon to be husband hadn’t paid lot rent in 3 months. David claims he will take care of it. Goes by that night. Couple days later landlord comes back and says we to move that day. David had wrote him a hot check. We move the trailer to a location we paid for, for a month and a half. We still didn’t know what we were going to do. That night the new landlord calls and tells me we’re not a good fit for his place. What??? The previous landlord had called and told the new one that we had wrote a hot check. I tried to explain we did not and we had nothing to do with that, but got no where with it. So once again we have to move the trailer. We move it to a park that was free, had water but no electric. We had no choice. During this time a formar neighbor asked to use our truck to run up to the store because he didn’t have time to walk there. He had helped us move the trailer so we let him use the truck. 30 min goes by no truck, 2 hrs no truck, 3am we get a call that he was in jail. He had taken our only vehicle and went out of town, got caught with drugs 😳. The vehicle becomes the county’s. At this point were already upset with David for lies about payments. We have to use his truck to go get the rest of our belongings out of our old house. He ends up starting a argument that would quickly escalate. He then tells us we have to get out of his trailer. It was being repossessed. He hadn’t made a payment in over 7 months. What???? At this point we’re out of any kind of money we had, still waiting for closing. We are officially homeless. We got help here and there until closing. By this time we owe so much we don’t have anything left after buying a vehicle and helping people out that we thought were friends. There’s a lot more that happens but none of it was good. It’s been one extreme to the next with no end in sight. A year ago we owned our our home had 2 vehicles, paid for our household and our daughters and threw out money to everyone in need and today we have nothing. We have stayed under bridges, behind stores and are currently in the woods finally in a tent. For awhile we didn’t have a tent, just a mat in the woods. Our kids aren’t speaking to us because of David. How we became the bad guys on that one is beyond me??? We have been to every place for help we could find. It’s a lot of waiting lists. Before when we seen homeless we just always thought they can get a job just like us. I’m here to tell you thats not so easy. Your constantly having to move around because there’s no town that accepts homeless. The cops are constantly harassing you because they assume your a bad person because your homeless. There is no place to stay and be content to try to make life better. You can’t get a job when you can’t shower and don’t know where you will be day to day. You spend every moment from the time you wake up just trying to make some kind of money on the phone or whatever to get something to eat and drink for the day. It’s a endless cycle. Our eyes have been opened to a whole world we didn’t know about. We basically lost our life over night it seemed. It still blows my mind to think how quickly everything was just gone. We are on every list you can imagine and pray everyday wr reach the top of some list. Neither of us were ever any good about asking for help. Honestly we still aren’t. We were always the people that everyone came to for help. And we helped without even thinking about it. Now that we need the help, there is no one in sight. We quickly learned that we only had each other. All that family and friends we thought we had was just a mirage so to speak. It’s really sad and really depressing. We need help please. If we can get into a place for a month or so, we would quickly get jobs and quickly get back on our feet. Work is no issue for us. We want to work. We just need a stable place and to be able to shower to get those jobs. We have had all of our stuff stolen 3 or 4 times out here on the street. You constantly have to watch your back, you can’t trust anyone. This world that we didn’t know existed is a heck of a place. Its a scary place. Not knowing anything from day to day and not being able to trust anyone around you is exhausting. We definitely have a whole new outlook on life and people. We try everyday to keep our faith and sometimes that’s hard to do. My husband is definitely better at that then me. So I’m reaching out for anyone, we need help. We have got to get out of this cycle and back to some kind of normal. Whatever normal is anymore. Please I’m begging for any kind of help anyone can give to help us get off the street and into our own place again. Thank you and God Bless.
Hi, I’m Ollie.
For a while, life was going great for me as a young university student in his second year studying engineering. I was excelling in my studies, embracing my passion for design and innovation. However, my world took a sudden and devastating turn when my beloved father suffered a heart attack.
Without hesitation, I took on the role of caregiver, providing emotional support and doing everything within my power to aid in his recovery. Naturally, my focus shifted entirely to my father’s well-being, causing my attendance at university to suffer. Despite informing the university about my situation, they made a decision, one month later, to remove me from the program due to my attendance drop and their assessment of my mental state.
This sudden dismissal sent me spiraling into a state of depression and anxiety. To make matters worse, I lost my student loan, leaving me unable to pay my rent. Panic set in, and feeling desperate, I made the regrettable decision to take out a loan without confiding in anyone. I now find myself burdened with a debt of 12,000 GBP, and I feel completely alone in this struggle.
The fear of stressing my father during his recovery has prevented me from sharing this burden with anyone close to me. I feel utterly defeated, as if everything that was going well for me has crumbled into nothingness. Even securing a job interview has become an uphill battle, adding to the weight of my situation.
Now, I have no choice but to face the harsh reality that I have just a week to repay the debt, or I risk losing everything I own. The weight of it all is becoming increasingly unbearable, and finding the will to carry on feels like an impossible challenge.
As I write these words, tears stream down my face. I want to emphasise that this is not a fictional tale but a true story of the person who sits behind this message. It may not seem scary to an outsider, but the terror and desperation I feel are very real to me.
I understand legitimacy may be called into question, so I urge you to view my profile pictures to see the emails I have received from a debt collecting company.
I reach out to you out of desperation. I am at breaking point, I’m typing this with remorse and embarrassment but I really feel I have no choice. If you haven’t been able to help anybody less off with their struggles, but you’ve always wanted to, then do please consider helping me, I’m at breaking point and I only have a week.
The financial support alone would lift me out of this dark depressive stage, and put me back on route to continue studies. With this debt looming I cannot afford to go back to Uni but I am so desperate to graduate one day.
I thank you sincerely for taking the time to read my heartfelt appeal. I hope that by sharing my struggles, I can find solace in knowing that there are people out there who may be able to offer support and help me navigate through these dark times.
Hello, this will be a request of me as an indebted person.
My story is a little longer, so buckle up and I hope you manage to read everything up to the very end to understand, even though I do not expect that of anyone.
Before I begin I would like to acknowledge that there are certainly people in need a lot more than I am, some are probably facing life or death decisions, some have nowhere to live…but I still have roof over my head and I have food on the table at the and of the day, so it’s really up to you people to decide whether I am worth your money.
My story goes… 5 years ago I met the most beautiful girl on the planet, not only was she hot, she was smart, intellectual, spiritual, deeply connected to the universe, she became the love of my life. We are both still very young, but my love for her grows stronger everyday. We both had dreams of accomplishing something in life, something that can support us financially. We know love is important, but we are aware of the hardships life presents, when you have financial problems and not enough money. Finance are the number one reason for people breaking up and divorcing. So both of our goals were to meet ends need and achieve something that would pay us well. I was already working at the time that I met her and she was still in high school. Her goal was to be independent content creator or influencer (i know this may sound dumb to be a content creator, but its an occupation that allows you to be more free with how you manage your working hours, and she wasn’t ever going to settle working for someone else).
My goal however was to be a trader, to be able to profit off of transacting within the global markets for profits, which at the time I didn’t know much about, but then I was introduced to stocks, crypto etc. Of course I invested some money in, but I am from not so wealthy country so anything that a person invests, is already considered lost money. But I knew that’s exactly the type of thing holding people back in not achieving their dreams, not taking risks.
So I invested some more, trading was not my sole interest, I wanted to invest so I did. I am not going to repeat the story of a million people for you to know what happened next. I lost it all, kept trying to make it back, lost it again and again and again.
This post is not even about trying to make money that I had lost back, I couldn’t care less for it. It’s about finding my way out of it financially. See, I took a debt credit worth around 11,500€, and I bought couple of items on partial payments, so I could immediately sell them to get my hands on money that I would then almost intentionally lose (because why would you do it if you lost the first 3 times without recognising that something does not work). Fact of the matter is, I had enormous dreams of getting rich which have almost evaporated by now. I stopped and rethought my purpose in life, what I want, how I want it. I also recognised that motivation behind me trying to succeed in something that pays a lot is so that I can take care of my girl, my girlfriend. And the more I tried the more I f*cked it up. Of course until to this day she doesn’t know any of it. I am pretending that I actively trade and that at some point I am going to be able to live off of it. Truth is, I want to tell her situation that I have put myself into, but I can’t come up to her and say i am 11000€ in debt and I can’t repay it, to pay such a debt it would take likely 4 years minimum and if it doesn’t seem like much time to you, let me explain why it is to me.
Ever since my girlfriend finished high school, she saw no progress in achieving her dreams as an influencer, so she did a common practice, she joined a television love show to gain recognition, which by the way looked promising for her career after it aired, but one year after, it came out to be a total disaster. She was relevant at first and now the engagement is falling. In order for her to be able to maintain a living, she had to move to capital city, where she found part time job, but she’s also able to work independently on projects that are present in the city. We live approximately 1 hour apart by car, but we’ve always told ourselves we never want to live in long distance relationship. Well now we have exactly that. We see each other on weekends and not even every weekend, sometimes it’s just Sunday and it’s killing us. She can’t come back to pursue her dreams and I can’t go live with her because cost of living in the city is too high for me to be able to keep up paying debt and live there with average salary. But I want to, I am not the person who cares about the location of where I live, I am strongly convinced that your home is where your partner that you unconditionally love, is. So I am literally ready to do anything, my desperation goes beyond limits which brought me to the website here.
Our relationship feels like it’s slowly coming to an end because we can’t be there for each other when we most need to be. She doesn’t want to wait any longer for me to come to her and she sees situation as if I do not care enough for her. I also do not talk about my goals anymore, because I am so ashamed of what I had done. I stopped trading a while ago, but it was difficult for me to even pay up a vacation that we reserved for summer. And yes some people may never be able to go on vacation but me and her we are highly driven and ambitious individuals that cannot settle for lesser life. It’s going to ruin us, and frankly if we break up, which is a possibility, because the problems we face are getting bigger by the day, my life is going to end. In literal sense. I wouldn’t be able to take it.
What I am asking is not a small favour and I am sure many people need it far more than I do, but I am crying as I am writing this post and I am afraid that none of you will realise and understand how important it is for me to receive at least some of the debt that I owe, so I can pay it off quicker and move to my girl.
11000$ in debt
To anyone deciding to donate, I will be forever grateful. Thank you for your time to read my story, if you’ve reached the end.
As a dedicated student pursuing a career in elementary education, I find myself in a challenging financial situation that requires assistance. This summary aims to shed light on my unique circumstances and emphasize the reasons why financial support would significantly impact my educational journey.
First and foremost, I want to highlight that I am solely responsible for financing my education due to being estranged from my parents. From the age of 17, I have been navigating life independently, working tirelessly while simultaneously attending school. Despite the numerous obstacles I have faced, I remain committed to achieving my goal of becoming an elementary school teacher.
Throughout my academic journey, I have maintained a commendable track record. With a current GPA of 3.7, I consistently strive for excellence in my studies, earning predominantly A and B grades. This dedication and academic success exemplify my passion for learning and my commitment to providing quality education to future generations.
To further enhance my skills and knowledge, I made the decision to take a year off work to focus on student teaching. This valuable experience has allowed me to gain practical classroom exposure, develop teaching strategies, and establish relationships with students and faculty. However, this decision has also placed a strain on my financial situation, as I temporarily sacrificed my income to invest in my professional growth.
Outside of my academic pursuits, I actively engage in various activities that promote personal development and community engagement. During my free time, I enjoy spending time with friends, indulging in my passion for reading and painting, and volunteering at my local animal shelter. These endeavors enrich my life and allow me to develop well-rounded skills that will undoubtedly benefit my future students.
While I have always prided myself on being self-reliant and independent, I now find myself in a challenging predicament. Due to unforeseen circumstances, I have fallen behind on bills, and with my new job commencing only at the end of May, I am currently without a stable income. The financial strain I am experiencing has become overwhelming, making it increasingly difficult to focus on my studies and fully dedicate myself to becoming an exceptional educator.
In conclusion, I humbly seek financial assistance to alleviate the burden that currently hampers my educational pursuits. Despite facing significant challenges and having no support from my parents, I have demonstrated unwavering determination, academic excellence, and a passion for teaching. Your assistance would not only provide immediate relief but also enable me to continue my educational journey without compromising my commitment to becoming an exceptional elementary school teacher.
Any money will help, but to make it through the month I need $500
Thank you in advance! https://paypal.me/msangela23?country.x=US&locale.x=en_US
A family of 3 (an aging mom, a slightly autistic 17 y.o. young man, and a mutant cat) is moving to Hawaii in a desperate attempt to rescue our dream sailboat, which is stuck in Honolulu without an engine. For right now, all I see are the fees and payment requests accumulating like a snowball. Taking the mister cat there is over $2,000 for the vet and quarantine – can’t leave him, the engine with repairs is about $10,000, and tickets with the luggage (cat) are close to $1,800 as well. Please buy something good from our five-star Etsy shop, so we could stay afloat.
All our items are fair trade, they are hand-made by foreign artisans from countries like Kenya, Zimbabwe, other parts of Africa, India, Pakistan, Nepal, Tibet, Italy, etc. The more we sell the more wonderful and unique items we can bring from overseas and the more artisans we can support with our shop. The final goal is to sail around to see the world and discover new markets and craft spots where we could buy something for our shop.
Thank you for deciding to read my story, that alone means so much to me.
I have tried for so many years to manage this alone so to take this step and ask for help feels so difficult but I am broken, feel like I’m drowning and in a state of panic constantly from worrying about money all the time.
My son became very ill very quickly 7 years ago, He went from a happy, smiley, full of energy 9 year old to a child that could hardly get out of bed for three years, had to have the curtains and windows shut all the time, lights off, hardly any talking or noise as some of his symptoms were a horrendous constant headache for years and zero noise tolerance aswell as constant tinnitus on top of extreme fatigue. It turned out to be m.e also known as chronic fatigue syndrome.
He was hardly out of bed, couldn’t watch tv or computer games etc for over two years as way too much for him.
It is a very underfunded and misunderstood illness that destroys people’s lives and their families.
Its been horrendous for him obviously which has such a knock on isolating effect on the family. I have tried everything over the year’s to help him, racking up a lot of debt to try and get him better, whilst suffering from chronic illness myself and undergoing spine surgery etc in the meantime, not been able to work as he’s needed me 24/7.
Amazingly he is now much better than he was, he is still ill but has quality of life now and able to do things including miraculously sitting his maths and English gcses at home this past few weeks which I can’t explain who fab that is but now my mental health is shattered from constantly being consumed by money worries, I can’t afford to pay for him to go swimming let alone anything else and he deserves so much after what he’s been through, even if it’s just having me in a state where I don’t feel like I’m drowning and in a constant state of panic that I’m going to lose my home and family etc.
I’m sorry I have gone on and on, I haven’t confided in anyone about this and it’s now just pouring out. This feels so wrong asking for help from people I haven’t met but this feels like my last chance to start making a bit of headway the debt so I can start living again and more importantly help my son to get his life back.
Thank you so so much for reading this and if you are able to help no matter how small, I thank you from the bottom of my heart.
I’m a single guy in his late 30’s. Always like to see the best in people, kindhearted and believe in positive karma.
Sadly 2023 hasn’t been that great. Unfortunately was made unemployed In January when the company I worked for, went out of business.
I managed to secure a temporary casual job for couple months until they sadly had to let me go, as there wasn’t enough business.
I have been successful in being offered a job in Bermuda. Before I move though, thing that’s worrying me is the bills that have racked up since January. Loosing your job unexpectedly is stressful and I took out loans, and ended up paying other bills, food, travel expenses for interviews on credit cards. Currently stands I owe £6,671, and the burden of this on my shoulders is heavy.
This new job will be a fresh new start that I need to turn this year around.
If there is any kind hearted soul out there who could possibly help me in anyway, I would be truely grateful.
My PayPal link is paypal.me/thomaskermeen1
Thank you for taking the time, Kindest Regards
I am in desperate need of financial assistance due to a series of unfortunate events that have left me in a dire situation. The COVID-19 pandemic has affected millions of people, and I am one of them. After 15 years of working at the same job, I lost my employment due to the epidemic. Unfortunately, this was just the beginning of my problems.
When I applied for unemployment benefits, I was denied because someone was using my identity and claiming my disability benefits. This led to me being left without any EDD or DI benefits. I was left with no choice but to rely on my savings, which quickly ran out.
In an effort to make ends meet, I wrote a book and started two businesses, but I fell short as I did not have enough capital to keep them afloat. I became a delivery driver, working day in and day out, but it still wasn’t enough to cover all of my expenses.
In addition to my financial struggles, my son was diagnosed with kidney disease stage three last year. This has been an emotional and financial burden on me as I have been trying to provide him with the necessary medical care. He has since become an alcoholic, and I believe this is due to the stress of our difficult situation.
To make matters worse, we are being evicted from our home, and due to my poor credit and lack of funds, we have nowhere to go. We owe the PG&E company over $1000, and our car is in the process of being repossessed. The garbage pickup has stopped, and our water is scheduled to be shut off tomorrow.
Despite my efforts to work and pay off my debts, it seems like I am only falling further behind. I need to get ahead, but I am struggling to do so on my own. I am reaching out for help in the hope that I can turn my life around and provide a better future for my son and myself.
In conclusion, I need financial assistance to help me get back on my feet. I am willing to work hard and make any necessary sacrifices to get my life back on track. Any help, no matter how small, would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for taking the time to read my story.
Thank you Denise
Hello my name is Phoenix. I am a single mother of my daughter who starts university in Hamilton this fall. Things haven’t been too great since the house we were living in for over 10 years was sold and we were evicted. I had to put all our belongings into storage. My daughter has been living at her boyfriend’s family home and I’ve had to stay at my cousin’s in Tweed. 2 months ago I lost my job because I was late one too many times. Work started at 7 and was driving an hour and 20 mins. each way. The commute was just too much, I wouldn’t get home until 8-9 some nights after cleaning all day. I’ve fallen behind in my storage payments and they are going to auction my life away June 30th. On May 25th I crashed my car into the ditch trying to avoid hitting a deer. I left the scene because I didn’t have my cell phone and I was in middle of no where. I had to walk 40 minutes on the 37 hwy to get to my cousin’s place. The police must have come across it between the time I left it and 10 am when we went to go pull it out. It had already been towed to Stirling which is almost an hour away. I have been so broke and don’t have the money to pay the towing company the fees for the tow and storage and they won’t let me take it to collision center until I pay them in full. My insurance can’t pay me until I get it to collision center to be assessed and have to pay a $500 deductable before i can settle with insurance and get a rental for now. I have no family that is alive or in a position to lend me the money and because I’m not working I can’t get a loan anywhere, I’ve tried. I’m going to lose my storage if I don’t pay them $1253.59 by June 21 they are going to auction it off. Our life is in that locker, all my daughter’s baby pictures, our summer clothes and our camping gear which I could use to live in for the summer. And I definitely need to get a car up and going to help my daughter find a place and relocate her to Hamilton for the fall and so I can get back to work. She starts the mid wife program. She wanted to be a doctor but it’s hard to get into medical school and after trying once she decided to change her career choice. She has worked so hard and Id hate to not be able to get her there because I don’t have a vehicle. The tow company is expecting me to pay $900 for storage and towing and I have to pay the $500 detuctible to get things rolling with my insurance claim. So I’m hoping that someone can help with the $2653.57 I need to keep things together. I don’t know what I will do if I lose everything. And can’t get anywhere out here without wheels. This is my last option at saving what little we have left. If anyone is able to help I would be forever greatful. I’d even be willing to take it as a loan and pay it all back. I will definitely pay it forward when I’m back on solid ground. Im amazed that there are people out there willing to help perfect strangers. Thank you to all who took the time to read my story.
I know so many people are asking for help right now, but with nowhere else to turn after getting out of a financially and emotionally abusive relationship, here I am asking for your help!.
My 2 beautiful children and I need help. Funds are very limited after being financially abused for years, i have only 13 cents in my bank account and a massive amount of debt. I feel like a failure.
Financial abuse kept me down and stuck for so long I felt like there was no way out. Life never really turns out how you want it to. I would love to get back to finish my studying and put myself back together. I want to get back on my feet and keep fighting but i could really use a leg up!!
My children and I need help to get some money together to have a safe home of our own. whilst people have been kind with allowing us to stay with them we need space and my kids deserve a bed to sleep on.
Hi my name is maribel i am behind 2 payments on my car and if I don’t pay it by Saturday I can get it taken away . Work has been really really slow and I don’t have the money to pay for the last 2 months of late due so it adds up to 2,463.78 I justed payed rent too and i didn’t even get to pay all of rents but the person I rent with said it’s okay if I give them half of rent and I gave them the half because I do have my 2 year old rent is 900 gave them 500 . I worried to get my car taken away that’s how I get to work take my son to his appointment any thing helps I don’t have anything but 30 dollars in my bank please if you can help that would mean a lot
The past few months have been really hard financially, and my fiance and I are feeling it. He runs his own business and has had a really unsteady client base this year (we’re not sure why either). I have a good job with consistent pay, thankfully.
However, with getting slightly less pay from him and having the year we’ve had, things are getting chaotic. My car was hit in a parking lot and was totaled. The old car was paid off, and now we have a car payment again after a few years without one. I’ve been to the ER three times this year and I’m managing the extra bills from that right now. The total was about $7,000 I’m in school right now as well, which is generally paid by a grant. I took one class unpaid and set up a payment plan to pay the tuition. Well, I just found out that they have not been talking the money they said they have, and I owe my school over $1,000. Starting next month, rent goes up to.
I have severe food allergies and have to eat the most expensive foods. We’ve stopped eating out and still can’t make ends meet. He can have ramen noodles, but there is no equivalent for me. We’ve got two cats to take care of and a wedding to plan. We were going to get married next June, but if we can’t get this money stuff figured out we may have to put it on hold.
Thank you for any help you can give.
My name is Carson Michael Haynes. I was born on May 23rd, 1992. I have one full brother that is younger and one late half sister. I was born in Missoula, MT. I went to grade school in Stevensville, MT. I attended university at the University of Montana in Missoula. I have never obtained any degrees. (Yet)
By the time I was 15, I was already making quite a bit of trouble for myself. I started smoking weed and skipping school. I eventually ended up getting expelled from my school and had to relocate from Stevensville to Missoula. I went and lived with my father. The bad habits I had accrued had only worsened.
I left my dad’s house when I was 16 and went to live with a friend over my summer between sophomore and junior year of high school. That summer I learned to do concrete and spent all of my earnings on smoking weed and drinking. It was also the first time I had thought I might have been possibly gay. I quickly realized I was straight.
My junior year of Hellgate High School I could start fresh and was having even more fun. It led to me being expelled at the very end of the year and was forced to go to an alternative high school. My senior year of lasted two days before I dropped out and went to complete my GED.
I moved back to Stevensville and was couch surfing until I met a person I would have never “clicked with”, and blindly knocked her up and married her when I was 18. Knocked her up again quite swiftly. She was a very good person with great morals and a kind heart. She is a bit mental but I won’t hold that against her. She is not very fond of me. I’m a bit of a dick. The marriage did not last.
When I was 20 years old after had having two children and going through a divorce, I had started dating a stripper. My new found significant other had a friend in Costa Rica that owned a hostel and restaurant. He brewed his own beer for the restaurant and needed help with all aspects and offered me a job. Before leaving, I saved up money working at a gas station. I bought a 1983 Sunflyer Winnebago and made the 4,300 mile trip to Costa Rica from Missoula, MT. It was quite a trip with my stripping girlfriend, her mother, and our pitbulls.
I moved back after a couple of visas had expired to stay at my father’s I decided to be with the TRUE love of my life. I had always known she was the one. It wasn’t the first time I had met her. I first stumbled into her magical infatuation when I was 11 years old. She was a couple years ahead of me. I was introduced by a mutual friend that was her age. The moment I saw her, I knew, no matter what my life had planned for me, she was going to be a part of it for the majority of the best and the worst. She will be my wife until I am dead. A few months after being back I received a message from my now current wife and was instantly excited. We started hanging out and eventually decided to make it an official label. We were together as a Boyfriend and Girlfriend. This was in the summer of 2015.
I had always been an addictive person. To anything that had instant gratification. I had never really experimented with much other than alcohol and marijuana before moving back to the states. I had tried a few hard drugs but never really liked those highs at that point in my life. Brittany Haynes was and still is an addict to opiates. I am too… Again… I didn’t care much at the time and she decided to quit when we first got together. Eventually, not long, into the relationship, she had wanted to get some pills. I was hesitant but agreed and we started in on one of the worst decisions I have ever made in my life. All this being said, my addiction was not her fault. I made the choice. Couples that use together create the much more complicated scenario worse. We eventually ended up having a beautiful baby boy together. Enzo Joshua Haynes. We adopted him to family due to the fact that we could not be the parents we wanted to be for him. It was the single most heartbreaking thing I had and ever will experience.
My wife and I split for a bit but eventually got married on August 9th, 2022. I wouldn’t change a thing about the way my life molded. I have every intention to change for the better and meet not only my goals, but succeed and shatter the glass ceiling of my dreams. We are currently homeless. Brittany works at a memory care facility transitioning elderly people with dementia to wherever we go after this. I am a starving software developer. We are getting help with our addiction, with councilors helping with emotional support and guidance towards stability. We take medications for our addiction and it is closely monitored and controlled.
I have done most pick up jobs like fast food and construction. My last job was bartending. Loved it. Killed it. Still looking for temp work like that.
I have always wanted to contribute to something bigger than myself. Something that helps friends, family, and humanity. Something that will let my soul rest in peace when I die. Knowing, I was worthy.
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