Hi! I’m a 22 year old who left my family home to be with my wonderful 30 year old fiancée. We’ve been together for over 4 years and he provided me with a place since my family house was not the best for me mentally and emotionally. It’s been over a month of me being here.
A couple weeks ago he lost his state job, since then he has been behind on his payments due to not having any income. I’ve been trying to keep us both feeling positive and calm through this hardship. We have both also been applying to jobs everyday since then but with no luck. I’m hoping we can even end up staying here through this upcoming week. The rent is 2,600 a month, and we live on Oahu so the inflation cost is high for everyone. He also has to pay his $900 car payment, his phone bill, and some credit cards that have racked up and he’s always paid everything on time or early every single month. His mom also has used him for money when he was working and owes him $5,000 which has not been payed in over 2 years. After no luck with any funds I found this site and am doing this as a last resort option so we can keep ourselves afloat. My fiancée has no clue I’m doing this and I’m tired seeing him struggle with all this alone. He’s helped me out so much since being here and pays for everything, I want to be able to help him out and this could hold us over until I also get a job. I want to be able to surprise him with a wedding band for Valentine’s Day but do not have the funds, so this could help with that too.
He’s kept me relaxed, grounded, puts me first, and has always taken care of me. I really don’t want to go back to my other house, so this could really help us. And I want to show my family that I’m happier with him. I know he’s the one I’m meant to be with, regardless of my toxic family’s opinions on me or him since I left. I want to be able to do this for us both to be okay.
All I’m comfortable with asking for is $14,00o for it all. It’s a real emergency so I’d wholeheartedly appreciate some help, once the rent is out of the way I’m okay with waiting for the rest since we’ll have our home secured. I’m hoping to be able to help him out with this so any amount is appreciated. Would like the donation by this weekend at least since I have no clue how much time we have for the rent. Thank you so much for taking the time to read, have a wonderful day and thank you again.
(made a post earlier but nothing yet so this is the updated one)