We often hear “I need money now” for rent, food or bills – not an easy situation to be in. See our advice below.

Emergency Rental, Food, and Bills Assistance Programs

How to get help with rent?

At times, many families find themselves homeless, or unable to continue to occupy the premises of their choice. This may be due to fire, accident, storms or many other causes, but often it is merely a problem in paying the rent. Illness that forces a breadwinner to stay home, or loss of a job; any and all of these conditions can put a family in need of temporary assistance to tide itself over until the members of the family find themselves again in a position to pay their own rent without the need of subsidising or other rental assistance.

Agencies have been set up in many parts of the country to help in this regard. Non-profit organizations, these charities, such as The Salvation Army, as well as some governmental agencies are often able to offer emergency rental assistance for families who are being evicted by a landlord, or who simply have no way to pay their rent at the moment. Realizing that landlords, despite the old cartoon imagery of a rich greedy person feeding off the work of renters, the vast majority of landlords are not really making a profit at all on the current tenant. This is only a stopgap so that the landlord may pay the monthly house payments in the hope of some future profit if housing increases in value some years later. If the tenant can’t pay the rent, the landlord may soon find himself in the same position with regard to the lender. Lenders do not want to hear sad stories.

Although these different programs for rental assistance may be available, much depends upon the funding at the moment. Some programs quickly run out of money and are simply unable at the moment to provide further help to persons in need of assistance.

The vast majority of families in need of temporary rental assistance are those to be found in the low-income range; seniors, disable persons and children are among those most often affected. Others too, faced at one point or another with a temporary emergency may qualify for assistance in these cases.

In most cases, those in need of longer-term assistance, persons who have not been gainfully employed for a considerable length of time with not prospects for the immediate future may not qualify for rental assistance under these temporary emergency programs.

Those more likely to receive aid are persons who are able to convince interviewers of their willingness to do what is necessary to get back on their feet along with the ability to do so. Since emergency funding is considered a short-term “fix” for a crisis situation, the grants may be only issued for a few days, perhaps to defray the cost of a motel room, pending the applicant’s ability to find other lodgings.

Therefore it is important, in most similar cases, for the applicant to show the interviewer the imminent possibility to become self-sufficient.

Most non-profit agencies as well as other agencies attempt to work closely with rental assistance applicants to help them with any additional support as needed depending upon each applicant’s situation. Often applicants are further given counseling and referrals to other agencies that may be more helpful to an applicant.

In such cases, any additional services rendered are free to the applicant in crisis. This may include lack of employment and such other problems that may arise such as medical emergencies. Most agencies participate in these endeavors as well as teaching applicants the processes involved in applying for governmental programs, immediate rehousing and how to apply for Section 8 vouchers as well as information about low income housing, and assistance in paying the security deposits that are almost universally demanded by today’s rental market.

Since the goal of all similar agencies to to render aid to persons in immediate need of emergency housing and other crisis situations, the funds issued to applicants for rent or other necessities is only meant to allow the applicant extra time to deal with the emergency. However, at the same time, applicants will normally be provided with support in the long term to guard against similar future emergencies.

If you have an eviction notice or expect to be unable to pay the rent in the immediate future, or even realize that you need to find less expensive living quarters, now is the time to apply for assistance. Often with early application, money may be available to catch up unpaid rent as well as other options that may be explained to you.

Assistance may also be available to help with the security deposit, the initial rents and even moving costs. In some cities non-profit agencies may offer other emergency assistance to those in crisis. These funds are normally paid out on a one-time basis. Depending upon the location, resources that may be in place for housing crisis families can be wide-ranging.

Potential applicants are advised to find the telephone numbers as well as any other information available to them and educate themselves about the different programs that may be able to help with emergency assistance.

Not only non-profit private agencies, but many governmental agencies, are able to provide interim assistance, depending on the locality. Massachusetts has a program called RAFT, while in Texas a rental assistance program called TDHCA is available. Florida has a similar program called EFAHP and in Connecticut their program is called RAP. Many other government programs around the country also offer assistance to pay rent or a portion of overdue rent in their ongoing efforts to reduce the growing threat of homelessness in their particular communities.

Another program, called the Federal Stimulus Program is a little-known program through which our federal government provides billions of dollars across the nation to provide rental assistance for qualified applicants. These funds have become invaluable to families that find it increasingly difficult to keep up with the rising costs of rent and other housing needs.

HUD the Housing and Urban Development, agency works throughout the country as well. A number of families approaching two million are able to use this program, a program that can not only help those in need to pay their rent and/or security deposits, but HUD can issue vouchers to provide temporary housing as well as providing assistance to senior citizens and the disabled to keep up with overdue rental payments.

These programs not only offer grants to help pay rent, but the government Rent Voucher Program aids applicants to seek housing in the privately owned housing market.

These agencies can, generally, offer legal advice to those facing eviction. Every year millions of people receive free legal advice and assistance to educate them with the eviction process and their rights as well as responsibilities. The government provides funded Legal Services Corp. which provides attorneys who may mediate a solution between landlord and tenants in addition to advising tenants of their rights as well as help them apply for Section 8 or other assistance and another positive aid they offer is help and counseling on housing discrimination.

Counseling may also be provided to help applicants apply for government and/or private grants. Money is available for many of these crisis situations.

It is the goal of these agencies to prevent evictions wherever possible. The federal government as well as the many non-profit private agencies strive wherever possible to help applicants remain in their current quarters without the fear of being summarily evicted. Often these agencies are able not only to prevent evictions, but subsequent lawsuits that may be brought against a tenant. Alternatively, the agency may be able to find more suitable and affordable housing for an applicant facing eviction.

Many churches too offer funds that can help those in short-term financial difficulties. United Way and The Salvation Army are only two of the better-known charitable institutions that may be able to offer help when needed. Generally they give priority to those living in apartments and facing short-term financial crises.

A good number of other national and local charities are ready to help with the expenses of rent and other essential needs as well as providing case management and many other social services. No all charities have ready money all the time, but even those may be able to help by helping an applicant with information about other resources and assistance in applying for free grants to pay overdue rent.

Other agencies that often provide help might be, for example, Catholic Charities, Social Service Offices, United Way, the American Red Cross, the Legal Aid Society and as mentioned earlier, The Salvation Army. Aside from these examples there exist many other emergency aid agencies for those who are able to become informed.

While most of these programs provide only short-term emergency aid, they are designed for the most part to tide a family over until a longer-term solution becomes available. Often these same agencies will be able to direct qualified applicants to resources that may assist them in finding an apartment or house for more permanent security.

It is important however, during these times of crisis, to keep in touch with creditors and the applicant’s current landlord so they understand what you are doing and what you expect to accomplishment. It is important that the applicant be extremely honest with everyone about the situation and it may sometimes be possible to have monthly payments temporarily lowered, or even be allowed to skip a monthly rental payment. Other plans may be devised and put into place to avoid being evicted.

It is well-understood that not only landlords but other creditors too are much more willing to cooperate with persons who are up-front with them, honest in their discussions and show a willingness to cooperate and do whatever they can to improve with situations.

How to get help with bills?

Ask The Energy Company

if energy bills are the source of the hardship, then the energy providers’ own in-house programs are often the quickest way to help rearrange and meet repayments.

LIHEAP: Low Income Home Energy Assistance Program

This national program’s focus is on subsidies for repairs, weatherproofing and utility bills that families cannot afford to pay.

LIHEAP covers any energy related home repairs for low-icome families, including seasonal expenses like air cooling systems and winter heating bills. The local LIHEAP office is the first point of contact for those in need of energy or utility assistance. Eligibility varies from state to state.

WAP: Weatherization Assistance Program

The WAP is a federal grant organized by the Department of Energy that helps needy families improve their homes’ energy efficiency, and has assisted over 7 million households across many states, territories and Native American tribes since its inception in 1976.

According to the DOE guidelines, a household with anyone over 60 is eligible for the WAP, as are legally recognized disabled people. Most states make families with children eligible, and the website for the WAPTAC (Weatherization Assistance Program Technical Assistance Center) can advise others if the grants are available in their area, and whether they qualify.

LifeLine Assistance: Free Cell Phones

Americans in need of a cell phone plan but without the means to maintain one can get assistance from LifeLine Assistance‘s free phone program. This is indeed a lifeline as daily life and business in particular is practically impossible without a mobile phone.

LLA is an FCC mandated scheme offering a free cell phone with at least 250 monthly minutes included. It’s available in the 49 states, Washington DC and Puerto Rico, and typically requires a household income below 135% of Federal Poverty guidelines. For some states it is below 150%. Eligibility varies across participating states, with slightly different rules around qualifying income.

Other sources of help are available at state government level, or many national and local non-profit and charity organizations, and the energy companies themselves.

How to get Food For Free?

It doesn’t always require money to eat, and there are many ways to gain free food without adding to your debts or joining the 10% of Americans who have resorted to shoplifting. Ask people you know, or traders and restaurant and store owners.

Above all it’s important to explain why you are asking for food: because you can’t afford to eat. And not to be critical about what food you eat. Without a certain amount of money, there is no longer the choice of what to eat. So meat may become harder to get or if meat’s all that’s on offer and you are a vegetarian, it’s best to accept it with thanks.

Grow Your Own, Share With The Community

The most sustainable – and satisfying – way to provide free food for yourself is to grow it, and you can start with just seeds if you live in the country or with just a small space in the city. Guerrilla gardening is an interesting urban option, more organised community gardens and allotments can share space and expertise for growing, and seed swapping communities among gardeners are a good source of materials and encouragement.

Ask A Farmer

Out in the sticks there won’t be the option of stores and restaurants as a source of food, but ask any farmer and there’ll be some left on the fields that they didn’t or can’t sell. Many will let you pick these leftovers.

Food Banks

A rapidly growing movement in the United Kingdom and US is the organized and charitable distribution of food to those who can’t afford it. Most of the food is donated, and food banks are one of the easiest ways to obtain some nutritious food. Many banks have conditions for who they can give food to, but there is no need to be ashamed about visiting one.

Links to Food Banks in various countries

United States /United Kingdom /Austalia /Canada /Ireland /New Zealand /South Africa

Offers and coupons

Online and direct from the stores, many coupons are available to promote new products. And companies across the United States send out free samples of new products. They’re unlikely to provide a healthy, balanced diet on their own but could supplement free food from other sources.

Waste Food

In an affluent country there is an abundance of unsold or waste food, and a little social interaction and resourcefulness can unlock access to a surprising amount of it.

Ask at the market

Often around closing time, stall holders will sell off any remaining stock for next to nothing, and it’s always worth telling them you have no money and asking if they’ll give you something for free. You can often pick up some fruit or salad, and if they can’t offer anything, thank them anyway and ask at another stall.

Free Supermarket Food

Ask at the big stores and you’ll be too far down the chain of command: “My boss doesn’t allow us to do that” will be the usual answer. So smaller supermarkets and neighborhood stores are a better option, where you can talk to that boss. You may find warmth and generosity among Muslims and immigrants to the West who run stores.

Restaurant Leftovers

It requires some patience, a little nerve and a bit of practice, but it’s possible to get free, professionally prepared food, even a table to sit and eat it at. Restaurant districts in cities are obviously the best place to try this, and expect a success rate around 5%, so it requires persistence, but will sharpen your bargaining skills, and who knows where else that could lead?

Turn up at a restaurant after the busiest time but not too late, and explain that you have no money and ask if they have some left overs in the kitchen. It can help to have a container such as a plastic box ready in case they do have something, and if they’re friendly and can’t offer anything the first time, maybe they can put something aside the next day.

Searching and Foraging

It grows on trees, on the ground and some seasons there’ll be abundant fruit and tasty plants such as dandelions or chickweed. Even cities can produce some tasty wild food, and anyone near downtown Seattle has access to America’s first Food Forest in a major city.

Dumpster Diving

Growing media coverage of the colossal food wastage at supermarkets and restaurants has made it much less weird, and more popular, to search through the dumpsters in search of some quality food to turn into a meal.

Last Updated: March 20, 2023

19 homeless I need help.

So my name is Toby, I’m 19 years old, to explain my situation and let you guys know why I really really need this help let me explain… it all started in the very beginning my parents were together lived with my brothers and one sister then boom she cheated dad went to jail lived with my mom she got on drugs and I went homeless at 11 years of age, then eventually made my way into foster care I’ve been in 7 homes All the way to this age 19 where I finally ran away after getting a car because the parents were beating me so badly and no leaving any visible marks well kinda but there methods left my body sore and hurting in the inside and they used the monthly foster care checks in the wrong manner. Anyways I ran away I am now currently homeless and I sleep in my car and yes it’s rough my whole life stored into this car I sleep in the drivers seat and barely get to lay it back due to the car full of stuff so I wake up sore everyday, being so isolated and beating in foster care and steadily moving around I never got a chance to build up friend groups and also Covid affecting a lot so I have literally no one my own brothers and sister went through the same thing we are all in similar situation just fighting to survive in life with no parents and no one who cares for us but us helping out where we can but still not enough. It’s hard to shower do laundry or anything in my car dirty laundry gets store into a bag and I shower at a truck stop which is so inconvenient because my town is smaller well we have a college here but no many travelers so one truck stop with the only showers is 30 mins out from where I stay and cost $7 so the trip all around cost close to $30 just to shower, that’s gas and shower price not soap included. Honestly I really need money from someone with a heart out there so I can finally have enough to get an apartment, I’m behind on paying my car insurance I currently have none and get tickets over and over and over because I can’t afford it get it and also my tags are expired which I can’t get tags until I have insurance so that’s all messed up as well. If I’m behind honest $1,000 will probably get me an apartment or at least pay the Downpayment but currently I need rough $2,000-$5,000 to help me out and get me into a good position and stable place in life. The hospital picture I put up there is also what I want to explain, my asthma’s so bad and being homeless this winter really screwed me over I couldn’t afford the $320 inhaler or the $250 nebulizer treatment medicine which I really really need in the winter or this happens… let me get further into this one, my lungs were inflaming every minute every hour and I eventually stopped breathing after two days of struggling so bad having my head up in the air trying to breathe and feeling like I’m drowning when I’m sleep in my car, my body went into some sort of shock if I didn’t call the ambulance I wouldn’t of made it because I was dead by time they got to me all I remember is things slowly going black and I past out due to no oxygen in my lungs or getting to my brain, that’s what the nurses told me I woke up in the ambulance and they said I died and called just in time or I would of not made it to live another day, my insurance won’t cover any of my medicine or medical cost so that’s another thing I’m struggling with, I’m still fighting my asthma everyday and it gets worse at night time and in the morning when it’s really cold I’m wheezing so bad and it feels like I’m breathing through a tiny coffee straw, all I need to fix it is, $320 for one inhaler and $250 for the nebulizer treatment medicine which I have the machine for it just no liquid. Well this pretty much wraps up my story and the situation I’m currently in, please please if there is anyone out there with a heart that understands it’s not every homeless person fault that they are homeless and don’t be quick to judge someone and what they been through please I desperately need this help, I’m a sober person with a good head on my shoulders I will never give up I have nothing but good I’m my heart and I wanna do good and make it somehere in life and be successful just someone please help me overcome this, sadly without money no one can be successful in todays world you can be happy no matter what position your in depending your mindset but still no one’s happy sleeping in there car it’s a forced happiness to the mindset to tell yourself everything okay and keep doing what you can everyday to benefit you and you will definitely %100 make it somewhere. So please once again I know there is someone out there that is willing to help me and this is an emergency and I mean a emergency I need this help I need it so bad it would be a blessing from god if someone would do this for me 🙏

please….

Paypal) TJ573como

cashapp) TJ_573 or $CovidSuck18 << same username for cashapp there is just two usernames on that money sending app

I beg someone out in this world to please kindly help me get a place to stay I’m tired of living like this it’s sad I get kicked out of places when I’m sleeping I get bothered by other homeless trying to sleep in my car with me just a lot of things.

Last Updated: March 17, 2023

Single father drowning – Spouse deserted our 3 children – Bankruptcy/Repossession

I’m feeling like I’m unable to provide for my children, and now I’m so distraught by all of the financial issues that I am fighting really hard not to give up. Here I am, begging for help to protect what pride I have left.

I’ve attempted to receive mortgage assistance from IHDA, got an approal for SNAP benefits in the amount of ~$90/month (myself, plus 3 children) , and have direct wage garnishments still taking place from a bankruptcy that was dismissed when my spouse wouldn’t give wage information to our attorney.

https://paypal.me/StruggleDad

Here is a timeline of how this all happened:

Moved into house in 2017, stable home for family (3 children)

Spouse couldn’t get/keep jobs, forced to file Ch13 bankruptcy Fall of ‘18

This included mortgage, auto loan on SUV, student loans, medical bills, etc
All bankruptcy payments made by TFS Bill Pay, by my bank account
My company was being bought out in winter of ’18, sought new job
Covid came right after new construction sales job – couldn’t cover bankruptcy and all bills
Spouse’s job statuses and spending habits never allowed bankruptcy/bills to get caught up, while I struggled to work extra for commissions
Couldn’t maintain job at false-promised income, got job in I.T. (Jan ’21)
Bankruptcy payments were now made by 100% wage garnishments (up to $1082/paycheck, every 2 weeks)

I held every to provide what I could, while spouse lived on social media from our bedroom, buying “needs” without my knowledge, which continuously put bills/maintenance/auto/car/necessities behind. Her reason was always “welllll we needed it and I don’t get paid for xx days”. But her paychecks also went to her own spending habits.

Never could catch up, and this caused further issues

Spouse requested open relationship in June of 2021, started becoming non-existent in household. I had to lie to my children and tell them Mommy was working late in order to hide the real truth (Let’s stick with “Exotic Dates”).

Still couldn’t qualif for SNAP benefits, as my income (plus $6k-$8k from spouse) was too much to gain assistance

Spouse moved out June 9 2022 , kept SUV as she was going to use income to buy new vehicle

Email sent to Ch13 attorney on June 16 (22) requesting split of wage orders, as I was at 100% (as opposed to spouse living freely, keeping the SUV that I was paying for, not being here for children, etc

Attorney requested expenses/income in 8/22
September 16, 2022 was first 50/50 wage garnishment

Sought support through employer in any way possible, was provided 6 therapy sessions in July of 2022, otherwise told to use PTO as needed

First 2 sessions, therapist said I need to find more time for myself
Stopped attending virtual sessions, can’t attend and parent simultaneously

Continued struggling with bankruptcy, bills, groceries, etc without spousal support

Note: Spouse not supporting children whatsoever, besides being their “soccer coach” for a season

No time except to be single parent, plus work, cook, laundry, clean, etc

Sent email to Ch13 attorney on 7/25 requesting immediate help, as my health conditions were worsening (at 6’5 I weighed 154lbs. I was so depressed I couldn’t eat).

No action, except requesting paystubs from spouse

Accidental Ch13 dismissal (9/14/22) resulted in false repossession of vehicle listed in bankruptcy

Repossession on 1/30/23 , 2 days of PTO to regain possession
Also resulted in foreclosure notices from mortgage lender (11/2022)
Attorney stated “This can happen”, no big deal

Applied for SNAP benefits in June of 22 , approved in August for ~$70/month

Covid emergency funds helped greatly, but bills all still behind during 100% wage garnishments and no help from children’s mother

Applied for IHDA mortgage assistance in November ’22 , keep getting ran around asking for more documents

Mental stress put me in the ER in Nov 2022

prescibed anxiety medication

Received divorce summons in Jan 2023

Responded, fee waiver issues with SNAP approval

Children informed me that their mother bought a new van, still no support for children

Covid Emergency SNAP payments ended in 2/2023

Bankruptcy dismissed in Feb 2023 due to lack of payments (my 50% was always made during the split)

Can further be proven from NDC database

SUV repossessed, again, on 3/7

Now I’m lost. $12k behind on mortgage, SUV “cramdown” repossessed, feeling unable to support my family, and wage garnishments are still taking place. My mortgage was transferred/sold after Ch13 dismissal and I can’t make any payments due to “no account”. IHDA says I am a “Special Case” and my application cannot be processed normaly. They even said “In April, we could ask for more before it’s approed”.

I make just enough money to be disqualified from programs, yet my “spouse” is living freely without consequences, not supporting my children and still posessing the same spending habits.

My children seek their mother’s love and support, new shoes and clothing, school fees to be covered, etc. I am unable to support my own family anymore, and I don’t know what to do. It’s hard-enough attempting to calm my youngest (now 8) who cries herself to sleep a lot because of how much she misses Mommy. How can I work til 5p, get dinner made, ensure homework and showers are done, do laundry, clean up the afternoon/evening mess (can’t afford daycare, so kids roam the house without supervision from 3p-5p whil eI work in the bsaement)?

I am only one person, and I’m failing. My parents are out of town, my closest relative (sister) has her own issues to worry about, as does everyone else.

So what do I do while I wait for foreclosures, info on how to get personal belongings from my SUV, and what happens next? Lawsuit against Ch13 attorney? Consultations cost money. Lawsuit against auto loan company for repossession? Consultations cost money. Lawsuit against spouse for emotional distress, mental abuse, financial ruin, etc? Seems everything is for women’s rights, and doesn’t account for a lot of “sngle dads”. How do I continue the next few months without having a vehicle, substantial grocery money, and money for basic necessities? InstaCart costs too much, no extra-cirriculars for the kids?

Please help me. I’ve sent emails, called offices and left messages, and I can’t keep taking PTO to figure this out… I can’t lose this job in my great time of need.

I will provide proof of anything needed if allowed by this site, as this is the first time I’ve done anything like this.

https://paypal.me/StruggleDad

Last Updated: March 17, 2023

Homeless and neglected by the council

My name is Carlo and I am accompanied by my partner Ellie.

We were evicted from our apartment 7 days ago at the time of this post as the result of our inability to pay our rent. The reason for that is that our rent has increased 3 times in the 18 months we lived in our apartment. It jumped from £900, to £1,000 to £1,100 per month. I work as a bartender and at first it was easy for me to pick up extra shifts to make up the extra costs.

However, a combination of factors eventually made it difficult for us to meet the new rent amount. This ranged from my partner’s mental illness (Borderline Personality Disorder) to her increasing need of mobility aid because of her having been diagnosed as having chronic fatigue which is sporadic in nature and drastically limits her mobility.

We were evicted from our apartment because eventually as time went on we started to fall into arrears and evidently I told the landlord that the rent amount is untenable and we’d need to negotiate as we have no place to go. Her family excommunicated her due to her mental illness and mine are not in the country (United Kingdom).

On the surface, the landlord seemed willing to just accept whatever amount we could give, only to then be served by multiple eviction notices over the past 8 months. When confronted with it, the landlord told us not to worry and that he was going to have them withdrawn and that he wasn’t really going to take action.

That is, up until the 28th of February 2023, 7 days ago. We were woken up to the sound of bailiffs knocking on our door and telling us that we are being served with a court ordered eviction and that we had to leave the property at that moment. We were booted out on the street with what luggage and stuff we could carry and have been sleeping rough around the borough of Haringey, sometimes we would get lucky and receive the donations of strangers so that we can find some shelter for the night.

This can only go on for so long obviously. We desperately need a sum of money that can end this by helping us pay for the deposit of a small, modest room so that we can be out of the cold for good, and that we can build back from the ground up. We need your help. Please.

Last Updated: March 17, 2023

It was 4 days before Christmas …

it was the 20th of December at 8am. Myself my partner and my kids had just woken up, about to have breakfast when my neighbour started banging on our front door yelling get out get out your house is on fire. It all happened so fast. One of the worst experiences we’ve ever been through. All we had was the clothes we were wearing and each other. Thank god.
but now we have to replace our hole lives , 4 x people’s lives who lost absolutely everything. We would love to be able to rebuild our home so our kids will have a roof over there head to grow up under. I no I’m asking a lot but until you experience something like this you never know how much damage it can actually do to a family.

https://www.paypal.me/thedalemma

Last Updated: March 16, 2023

Urgent! Help Jonathan Pyles (Prostate Cancer) with his personal bills/medical bills

Hi my name is Jonathan Pyles, I just turned 61 and I live with my wife Jen, and her 97 year old grandmother in Beavercreek Township, Ohio. We are 2 months behind on rent about to lose the house we love, and I’m feeling desperate & despondent….please help me out of this situation I’m in…

I was diagnosed with prostate cancer and went through 25 treatments of proton therapy at University of Cincinnati Health (which I had no side effects), then followed up with a one time brachia-therapy (they placed 56 radioactive seeds on my prostate and surrounding areas to keep it from spreading). Big time side effects from this procedure! The daily fatigue/illness has really set me back…

I’m a self employed restaurant management recruiter, the business is slowly making a comeback since the pandemic, but unfortunately I’ve fallen behind on my bills and I need your help getting back on my feet again…

I hope to raise $5000 for rent (2 months at 1650 per month), and the remainder for the rest of my bills (CareSource/electric bill/fuel oil/auto insurance etc…), this is very important/urgent!!

Less important is an additional $5000 for my medical bills (I owe $3891 to the Kettering Health Network and $1802.60 to UCHealth)

I can provide documents to you that will verify my bills (copy of my lease, my personal/ medical bills etc…) as well as my Prostrate Cancer diagnosis and the treatments I went through at UC Health…

Please, it is urgent….whatever you can offer to help…thank you for your time and consideration for reading this.

Jonathan Pyles

My PayPal account can be found at:

paypal.me/JPyles1961

Last Updated: March 15, 2023

Needing Help

I’m Bobby G. a 57 year old male who has always been a generous person. However, the tables have turned and as embarrassed as I am doing this I really don’t have any foreseeable solution to my financial situation anytime soon. I am currently unable to work due to physical(mostly) and mental issues such as depression and anxiety. I’m on medication to help me with that and have been for over 4 years now. Back in 2013 I was diagnosed with eye cancer(Coroidal Melanoma). Yes the big C. That was a painful and crazy ordeal for the next year and a half or so. I am blind in my left eye as the result of the radiation treatments. That didn’t stop me from carrying on a normal life. I went back to work a short time after treatments. I look at it is that’s why we were givin two eyes to begin with. I do have issues with depth perception but I adjust. I also don’t allow it to change my lifestyle.

In 2017 while riding my motorcycle to work early one morning, a car pulled into my path and I couldn’t avoid it. I hit the car at around 40 miles per hour or so. I crushed and broke my pelvis. I broke my wrist and also sustained a knee and back and shoulder injury. I was unable to walk and do anything without requiring assistance for several months. I have plates in my wrist, pelvis and a rod inside of my body that occasionally give me trouble. I’m unable to stand or sit for extended amounts of time. I’m pretty tough so I didn’t allow that to stop me. While going through physical therapy I cam down with Diverticulitis and had to have surgery to remove a portion of my colon. I had to wear an ostomy bag for 6 months. I was approaching a year of being out of work but short term disability kept me afloat. My employer of 10 years contacted me and said if I didn’t return to work by a certain date that they would have to terminate me. Not to worry they said, they would hire me back. I asked them if I would have the same pay rate and they said they didn’t know about that. I agreed to return on the day they instructed and went back to work. I knew I wasn’t 100% but I felt I could handle it. During the course of the next two years I developed six hernias all in my abdominal area. I ended up losing that job after twelve years of going above and beyond my pay rate. I immediately obtained a better job with higher pay. I was blessed I thought. I was having issues with medications that made me temporarily ill and I had to excuse myself to the bathroom in order to vomit practically the same time everyday. I was still having follow up doctor visits and would schedule them around work so I wouldn’t be absent. I’d either come in late or leave early as opposed of taking the day off. After six months they terminated me. I wasn’t to upset because it was an hour drive through Atlanta twice daily and I figured I would use this time to get my hernias and shoulder repaired while pulling from my 401k. Turns out I was diagnosed with Type 2 Diabetes and my numbers were out of range to have surgery. I was put on medication, changed my eating habits and tried to do exercise which is mostly only walking due to my conditions. I would get tested every three months to see if I was fit for surgery but my diabetes was still out of control. They changed my medications and after a couple of months I was finally approved for surgery. Surgery to repair six hernias took place last Wednesday March 8th. I am currently recovering. Bad news is due to all the delays I used all my 401k and any savings I had. Still not real worried because things seem to always work out. I did some side gigs by portraying Santa Clause and fell in love with that but as you know that is a seasonal thing. I managed to purchase an easter bunny costume so I can make appearances around the area. I have two gigs scheduled for next month. Hopefully I will be recovered enough to perform. All that being said I have no current income whatsoever and don’t know what to do. That’s what brings me here. I must mention I have applied for disability last year and I haven’t been approved or disapproved. It’s at 86% which means it could still be months before a decision is made and the fiancial responsibilities are still there.

Paypal.me/Bassplayag

Last Updated: March 14, 2023

No more domestic violence

Hello & thank you for taking time to read my story!
I am a DV survivor, I have been away from my abuser for almost a year now. I suffered for 6 long years, in a relationship with my children’s father.
he abused me in every single way.
He had control of my entire life, from finances to family. I wasn’t allowed to work, I wasn’t allowed to see my family. I wasn’t allowed to leave the house unless he was with me. He would hit me in front of my kids, scream at, belittle, throw things at me, all while they watched this happen. When I finally got the courage to leave him, last year, I packed my things and was planning on moving in with my parents. A fresh start. I ended up meeting a man that started helping me make plans and have the guts to defend myself and stop being a victim. The last time I seen my abuser in person, face to face I guess you could say, he raised his hand to hit me and I’m not sure what came over me but I hit him first.. no one should lay another hand on a person but I couldn’t stop it. Anyways, he called the police on me. The first and only time I ever raised my hand back/at him and he called the police on me! After 6 years of me just enduring his abuse and making excuses for him… he called the police on me. Shortly after, I found out it was because he found out I was leaving him so he had to have some kind of control over me, some type of way. I was put in jail, taken away from my kids for 2 months over this. Again, almost a year later and I’m still facing problems because of this man and because of me FINALLY defending myself against him.
Between court costs, fines, having to call off work, losing jobs, child care…. I cannot make ends meet. I can’t afford a proper lawyer that can fight for me and help me fight this case to prove that he is the abuser. I have SO MUCH evidence from physical abuse photos, screenshots, statements, police reports, etc to have on my side but what I don’t have is money…. And that is what makes the world go round apparently. All I want and ask for is justice for myself and to stop being made to look like abuser, to be able to pay my bills, keep a job, get this paper trail of nonsense off of me and make this man get what he deserves and to finally face the consequences of what he put me and children through along with all the other women he has done this stuff too, which is more than 3 and I thankfully have the proof of!

I know me asking for this amount is absurd and probably far fetched but between lawyer costs and to catch on bills, it’s what is needed and honestly the bare minimum just to play catch up:(

for any one willing to donate, you’re more than a savings grace and it’s more appreciated than I could ever put into words! Thank you a million times over!!

asking for $1000

https://www.paypal.me/cynnerxo

Last Updated: March 12, 2023

Civics And Econ Did Not Prepare Me For Inflation (Majorly Struggling To Pay Bills)

For the sake of making this as easy to read as possible, I am going to list out my situation, my issues, and my needs, as quick and swift as possible.

My situation

I have a family of 7, including myself. 3 have full-time jobs, 1 is an elderly man with dementia, 1 is a 10 year old child, 1 is an 18 year old high school student and I am a full-time college student, staying home to care for my partner’s dad and child. We have 2 cars between all of us that drive. We live with another family that sometimes helps us, but still expects rent and help buying household goods. 5 of us have monthly medical bills, 2 with credit card debt (due to bills from emergencies and student debt), and plenty of other expenses (clothes, school activities, college prep, etc.) with the 7 of us combined. We also have 3 cats and 1 dog, that we try to take to the vet at least twice a year.

My issues

With only 3 working, and sadly no one eligible for government assistance or loans, aside from my partner’s dad, who receives a monthly social security $900 check, we already struggle enough. Recently a couple of our hard workers have had to stay out of work for a week and a half, due to illness. We made sure that our food is covered, but because of inflation we are seriously lacking in funds to cover bills. That includes rent, phones, insurance, medical, car, and debt.

My needs

I need $2,500 to help cover this upcoming month of bills and anything we will be soon to owe on.

Final statement

Only 3 months into the new year and me and my family have already been sent on a wild ride. I know we’re all just doing what we can to stay afloat. So, if you happen to see this and you are struggling too, remember patience and persistence pays off. Don’t give up. If you see this and you’re able to help, just know that even the smallest of support would help this big family. Thank you, at the very least, for reading to this point. I hope this year is a year of good health and prosperity for you.

PayPal Link

paypal.me/MIHOLLA

Last Updated: March 11, 2023

Almost Blind at 39

So I am 39 years old and I’m from Seattle Washington. I have five kids . my only girl she’s 21. I have four boys ages 20, 19 , 8 and 5, and I just about a year ago well right when the pandemic hit just before the shut down I had an eye exam because my eyes are bad and they told me that I had a mild case of cataracts. They didn’t say that it was anything that I needed to run out and get help with right away so I said OK and then we got stuck in to quarantine and then I kind of just wasn’t able to go back right away, but it was last year that I had noticed like I can’t see in my left eye and it freaked me out for a while and I thought maybe OK maybe it’s just from stressors and I did just hit it when I was trying to build my son a play fort outside. I had hit my eye on a slide metal bar so I thought well shoot maybe I should go get checked out so I went and got checked out and the doctor was pretty brief with me and said well you really shattered your eye. You broke the lens and everything inside of it and had a retinal detachment and now your cataracts is full-blown , and that It was so much that it was unable to be fully examined all the way through without a specialist and so now currently my other eye, the Cataracs is kind of starting to give me signs that is getting worse and I’m fearful that I’m going to be completely blind by the end of the year . My main goal was of course to try to get cataract surgery but I don’t have medical and I don’t have that type of income or the credit to just go and get. A loan so I am unable to get seen by a specialist because they are not pro bono of course so I’ve just been reaching out to organizations I’ve written about 62 emails I’ve applied for numerous grants and I’ve done everything I can with no prevail and since I’m young, I don’t you know get help from people for Cataracs grants because they’re for the elderly and There was one place that was willing to help me , but they are so far away they’re not even in my state so I’m kind of at a loss right now what to do because yes I would be able to do that surgery with $10,000 but I also don’t know if the one eye that was broken is savable, but it would be great to at least try to repair the vision that I did have so that was where I was first going with my ask, but then I went with another ask about help with getting some sort of electric vehicle. Now I know that’s very far out there as far as an ask from somebody but any type of help towards that goal would be amazing because right now I am like I said mother of five and my entire life I’ve spent Pretty difficult you know it’s been a difficult life and so I’ve had to grow up fast and so it’s been me who has been atheist main person of everybody’s lives and I take pride in my children and I want to do nothing but be there for them and my eight year old is in second grade now and my youngest one is going to be going into kindergarten next year and it’s not only different because I’m older this time around but my vision is going bad so bad that I can’t get to my kids anywhere they need to be in time or in one pieces as far as not being frozen to death as we walk somewhere up it’s actually getting really dangerous for me to even walk anywhere because I can’t Just differentiate the difference between distances, so I’m not sure whether a car is going up a certain direction than it really is or where the sidewalk is the other day I fell in the dark as I didn’t know there was a big curve there so distance and judgment on it’s just been really bad I can’t see what the crosswalk sign says so a lot of pressure is going on other family members but I don’t like I said have very many family members and so who I do have around it just on different work schedules and stuff so now I’m kind of stuck at home and I’m just really feeling inadequate and Unable to provide my mom duties like I should and it worries me because there’s been incidences where my kids have been somewhere in an emergency situation and I can’t be there for them because I can’t get to them and I thought well your eyes are pretty important so why would you ask for a car ? and I have to give you an honest answer and it’s just because with that car I know that I still have independence and with that car I know that I can get to my kids safely. I can buy the groceries that I need instead of losing the only money I have with the online order that didn’t come to my house and I can pick up my kids from school and he doesn’t have to be soaking wet when he gets home or carry heavy books home or do any of that and I’d rather have that than my complete eyesight if I had to make a choice because I don’t even need 100% eyesight to be a mom I just need to be there and right now that will be helpful to the family but like I said, I mean my dream is yeah of course to get my i eyes fixed. I would love nothing more I’m 39 I Have quite a bit of life left and that’s a long time to be in the dark so that’s scary on my my mental awareness of it is pretty terrifying but I just want to still be able to be an adult and a human and have my independence and take care of my kids and be there for them and not have to rely on everybody else and feel like such a burden on that one Saturday that everybody has off of work that I need them to get up and run me around and nothing is still even really fully completed. Everybody stressed out and tired and so that’s where I’m at. I am by all means not gonna die if I don’t have it and I’m not thinking that My ask is way more serious then everybody else’s. I just really need some help. I just need a little boost in life so that I can try to navigate life as a low vision or maybe no sight at all person and I don’t know it might be silly but right now it’s just something that I hope I can accomplish. I just don’t want to have people see me fail at everything while I am losing my eyesight because this is something I can’t control and it’s hard.

So that’s my story in a quick little glance, and I appreciate your consideration in helping me because that would be amazing. I’ve been praying that I’m gonna be approached by something that would be able to help change my life for the good and even if you decide not to help me, you still reached out to me in attempt to hear my story and I really really appreciate it. That means the world to me either way.

Bless 😊

Last Updated: March 11, 2023

Homeless – NEED HELP

Hello,

My name is Lindsey and I am 38 years old. I am writing this because I am looking for some help. I am currently homeless and on the streets in Santa Ana. I am super depressed and have been trying to get off the streets for some time now. I have been through a lot in my life and I am so tired of being taken advantage of, being told I’m scum, getting robbed, stereotyped, degraded and put down all because I don’t have a home to go too. I lost custody of my 2 kids and I can’t seem to forgive myself for this. They are healthy and with family, but I still have this guilt that pushes me to want to get high to numb the pain! This is what my life has succumb too because of stupid decisions I made almost 14 years ago!! I have reached out to certain people and have just had the door shut on me. It’s super discouraging to have everyone turn their back on you because I don’t have a place to live and no job. I know that I have done this to myself and I accept full responsibility for my actions, but that doesn’t mean that I can’t reach out for help. I’m struggling. I don’t know what to do. I just want to take a shower and wash my hair!!! Is that too much? I’m not a bad person and I still look decent, but inside 8 am dying and crying scared. You can’t cry while living on the streets! I need to find a motel to crash at for a bit because if I don’t, I’m going to lose it. I have a dog that needs my full attention and I’m running low on food for her as well. I would be lucky to eat food myself everyday, but my pup comes first and I make sure she’s well fed. I am a good person, I am just lost and am asking for some help!!!! The last 2 nights have been the coldest and it’s only getting colder! I’m already feeling sick. I’m just asking for help with a place for me and my dog. To shower and eat and be warm and finally get some sleep. I’m sleep deprived because you don’t get to sleep on the streets. I’m a mess to be honest. If you can find a way to help me, I really am truly appreciative and grateful. Please don’t look at me as some freak or disgusting homeless girl. I am a person looking for guidance. Please help me and my dog stay warm and I need to eat. I can’t take this anymore. I’m losing hope!!;

paypal.me/lindsdawg1503

Last Updated: March 10, 2023

I need help… Any amount of help is appreciated

Hello, my name is Gianna. I’ve never done this before but I’m giving it a try because a friend recommended it. I do not know where to begin. In recent months I was forced to move out of my mom’s house and create a whole new life for myself; causing me to have to become financially independent. While living with my mom, I endured a lot of emotional and even some physical abuse. From a young age, she had me on strict dieting regimens and forced me to exercise because “no one would love me if I was fat”. I always tried to satisfy my mom’s wants. If she said no one would love me if I was fat, I’d exercise and starve myself. If she said I was ugly, I’d wear makeup. As a child, I had to learn how to take care of myself and my little sister because I could not count on my mom to be there for us. I taught myself how to cook certain meals, do the laundry, and how to properly clean the house. Normally, if there wasn’t food on the table by the time my mom came home from work, she’d be infuriated with me and tell me how ungrateful I was. At this point in my life, the only thing I had taught myself to cook was pancakes. So from that point on I made my mom pancakes for dinner every night so I could avoid being yelled at. That soon was not good enough for my mom, and she just began to demand more and more from me as I got older. Now being 21, I realized that my mom should have helped me more, she should have helped me become the best version of myself. Instead, she created someone who is fearful of the people around her. I now am trying to navigate the world on my own and I realize how challenging it can be.

My mom kicked me out when I was 19 years old and I was able to find an apartment. I managed to live paycheck to paycheck for a while. However, my job isn’t paying me enough to where I can afford rent anymore. Additionally, I also cannot afford to pay any of my bills. I am a full-time college student working a full-time job. I am making so little to where I am considering taking on a second job to provide me with more financial support. However, there are just not enough hours in the week for me to do that.

I am supposed to graduate with my bachelor’s degree in May of 2023 but I have not been able to focus on school. I’ve been so preoccupied with stressing about how I am going to afford dinner and rent this month. I do not know how much money I need, but I do know I need a lot of it. I’d never want to take advantage of someone else’s generosity so I will be grateful for whatever amount I am given.

I’m a big believer in “paying it forward”. Meaning, if someone helped me when I was in need, I’d one day want to be able to do that for someone else in need too. I hope that this post gets the attention of someone out there who is willing to help. And if this post happens to come across someone’s feed and they are able to help, please know that I appreciate your generosity and willingness to help others when they are in crisis. Thank you all again.

Paypal info: @GBonamassaCimino

Last Updated: March 9, 2023

Daughter. Mother. Hero?

Hello and thank you for choosing to read my request. It is really a long story, and it breaks my heart every single time I tell it. I would like to say, before I go any further, I am not asking for something for nothing. I am 50 years old, mother of 3 and grandmother of 3. I’m a college student studying for my Associates of Science in Business Administration Degree and fully intend on acquiring a Bachelor’s Degree with a concentration in Entrepreneurship. I am capable of a better quality of life, but I have found myself in a situation that affects many members of my family and there is a time limit that has put pressure on me in a way I am not prepared for

In short, I lost 2 job, my car and apartment while caring for my elderly father. His needs were demanding and his disposition was foul, nonetheless, this is what you do for your loved ones, so I moved in to care for him around the clock. I watched as he struggled to stay positive. He was trapped in a deteriorating body, losing his dignity, his hope for a future, his desire to go on. He was fearful of dying in a nursing home and he sobbed and pleaded with me to promise to let him die at home. I promised and he was so grateful. He played with our 3 kittens and I saw joy in his heart and the smile returned. Then he began to weaken and his attitude toward me changed. He was cruel, degrading me and blaming me until finally, he slammed a loaded pistol in my lap and told me to kill him. In a panic I ran. I returned the next day and found that he had severely injured himself. There was blood throughout the house. It was his feet. on foot had a bone sticking out. The other was deformed. He was crying and finally agreed to go to the hospital. His friend took him.

Less than 24 hours later, I was told my father was having many toes amputated and his kidneys failed. I was immediately evicted with my kittens and nothing more. No clothes, groceries, vehicle, job, phone, home or father. His friend said that my father gave him power of attorney and he would be selling our family farm, home and everything in it to pay for his residency at a nursing home. In shock, disbelief, heartbroken, angry, paralyzed with confusion and sadness, I spent the next 3 days reading everything I could about the law, Power of Attorney, sound mind, family law. I searched for documentation and talked to multiple law enforcement agencies and lawyers. I don’t know if I’m on the right path or if I’m doing the right thing at all, but I want answers. That is my father. The farm is my home. My heritage is within the walls of our house. My father had me promise to keep him home and now there may not be a home at all.

I got a text from my dad telling me I was an embarrassment and a failure. I’ve made mistakes, but I’ve accepted consequences and gained wisdom from it. I don’t think my dad really feels that way, but if he does, that ugly perception of me is his image to live with (perhaps not for very long it would appear). I’m not a failure. I’m not a quitter and I will not stop until I find out what is happening to my Daddy. This is not what he wanted.

As of today, my two teens and I are sleeping on the floor of my sister’s very tiny two bedroom trailer. Her landlord said that if we don’t leave within the next few days that she will be in violation of her lease and is at risk for eviction. I have no other relatives or friends that are willing to take me in and the shelter is currently full. We are in a rural area outside the city. It is too far to walk, there is no public transportation this far out of the city and without money, I can’t pay for Uber or a cab or even pitch in for gas. Times being what they are, money is the only thing that matters.

To summarize, I was unlawfully evicted by someone who supposedly now speaks for my father and is in control of every part of his estate. My father is dying, without family and alone. I’m in the process of finding out if the things that have happened over the past 10 days is really what my father wants or if he is being manipulated. I’m trying to find a home for my children and me, a vehicle, a job, and keep my grades up. In the midst of all of this, I am also trying to care for three of the sweetest kittens in the world and replace our belongings all the way down to our toothbrushes. This downward spiral started 10 days ago when my father grabbed a gun. I don’t know how much time he has left because he will not return my calls. My sister’s home is at risk and time is running out.

I ask, with all the humility I can muster, for a hotel room for my 2 children and me for at least a month, but two would be better. I’m exhausted and if I want to save my family, I have to alleviate one of the biggest issues…we need a safe place. I don’t want my children to think that caring for others would have negative results like this did. I don’t regret it, but I don’t want to expose my kids to any more negative situations. They need to be teenagers. They do not need to be burdened with worrying with me. I need to rest my mind and my body so that I can continue seeking help for my father while looking for a job, car and home. I should have my income tax in the next 3 or 4 weeks, and I fully intend on being employed again soon. If I am in the city, at least I have a fighting chance at getting a job or two and we can utilize the amenities provided to the public like transit, food bank, workforce, etc.

I do not give up. I don’t want to let my children think that “begging” is the answer either. I want them to understand that help is there for those who need it but are still continuing to work for better things. I want them to understand that you don’t give up on family even if it appears they have turned on you. We don’t have answers and I will not stop until we do. In the meantime, I must be gentle with myself and I need to rest. I talk myself back into the light but it is getting harder everyday…yet I keep going. I cry when no one is looking…but it I fear without rest and a hint of security for a couple of months that I may slip and I may break. I’m only one woman. I am exhausted and I am so scared I can barely breathe. If you can help, please consider me. My family is depending on me and unfortunately it doesn’t seem to be in my stars to be the hero this week. I pray that time doesn’t run out before I do.

I know things will get better in time. With your help, things could start to turn around. Sometimes, it just takes one good thing to get the ball rolling. Thank you for sticking with me and reading my story. Blessings to you.

Lainie Marie

https://www.paypal.me/lainiemaries

Last Updated: March 8, 2023

Emergency injury

My story is I’m a husband and father of 5 beautiful children and 4 just as beautiful pets. For 10 years now I have been working in the gasoline field. I am a driver under DOT strict rules and guidelines. I have had an unexpected injury at work which resulted in shattering bones in two of my fingers in my right hand . In my line of work I am no longer allowed or capable to work at this time. One I can no longer firmly hold steering wheel with both of my hands which would not be safe while hauling 9000 gallons of gasoline. I’m looking at 8 weeks out. As well looking at pins and surgery. Iv never had to beg or ask for money Iv always worked hard for what I have. I am scared of losing all Iv worked for as well as roof over my children head. Please consider and thank you 🙏 god bless

PayPal.me/kennethdeimler

Last Updated: March 8, 2023

My girls and I have nothing left to loose

My girls and I need a chance

My girls and I need HOPE.

So, every which way I turn I hit nothing but dead end roads and brick walls. My youngest has been saying the past few weeks how she wants her own bedroom. A HOME with a real kitchen. It kills me inside, it hurts.. I am a self taught, strong independent woman. After having my twins Genesis and Caroline who are now 4yrs old, I have had trouble getting back into steady work. Reliable income. I also have a 10ur old daughter Ellanore as well. She is so smart and I am so proud of her. She has never had it easy. As much as I try to shield her away from bad and hurt. She was abused when she was 3 by a close family member. Shortly after her father died at 4yrs old. By time she was 6 I was now pregnant with twins, not able to work anymore, depending on a man who was the best actor I have ever met. Ever since I allowed him into our lives all he has done is being me down and anything to hurt me physically and mentally. I have lost 3 homes bc of him. He put me in debt with Xfinity. He has broken into home and robbed me andy girls of our rent money and every electronic thing he could grab. He has stolen my car, had me arrested on false accusations 3 separate times. I finally was breaking free from him. Getting my girls and I away from him and his abuse. After 2 yrs of living in a hotel, FINALLY MOVING INTO PUR OWN HOME! A TOWNHOUSE in Pennsylvania. Our move in date was 1-20-22. 12-21-21 I allowed the twins to go with him till after the new year, that way I could pack and start moving our lives 5 hrs away. As agreed on 1-02-22, I came back to pick the twins up. He has other things in mind. As soon as I arrived he started yelling and screaming and then the hitting followed right behind. I grabbed my girls as fast as I could not knowing he was on the phone with the police. Needless to say, I was soon arrested and sent to jail under false accusations of second degree burglary sitting on 12,000 cash bail. THERE WENT OUR HOME!! I SAT IN JAIL TILL MARCH 2,2022 BECAUSE OF HIM. BECAUSE WE LOST THE HOME WE HAD WAITED AO LONG FOR! We were so heartbroken and still are. Since then we can barley afford the hotels on a weekly basis. Somehow I have managed this far. Along with paying storage fees. I am constantly looking for work and the next job I can make more money. The next gig I can do. Nothing that is getting us further in life. For the past few years I have had this goal/dream to start up my own Mobile Detailing Business. With this, I would have another opportunity to get away and be free. I could afford a lawyer to defend us on court against him when I can take him. (Which I have been documenting everything since I was let free)

So I have slowly started collecting items I would need to successfully do the jobs I would be hired on for. Only a few more things I need. I need a trailer. I would use my Honda Odyssey to pull the trailer till I able to purchase a work truck to use for the business. I them would need to purchase a water tank. I already have a gas powered pressure washer and an electric pressure washer too. I have all the towels and rags possibly needed and scrub brushes. I need all the products to clean and wax and shine. The most important thing of all would to aquire my license first before doing any job. This way, with starting up this mobil detailing business, I would have a reliable income for my girls and be able to provide so much more. They deserve it. They deserve to have a place to call home. They deserve to have somewhere they know is their home and not worry Bout leaving to some place else. My girls would be there learning from me and watching. Learning how to be strong independent woman. This wouldn’t be the end. Starting this company would only be the beginning of much more goals and dreams I have.

I have never asked for help. This was quiet a pill to swallow. Always want to do things on my own because I know I am quiet capable. Lately, I just don’t understand. We need a fresh start somewhere new. I have no family, no friends. So we wouldn’t be leaving anything behind but bad memories. Even as a child myself growing up in new Castle. Life was hard. I have raised my self since 5. Mom would leave home while going to work all day. My father used to abuse me an also tried to kill me. Would have, if he wasn’t put away for murdering his apparent boyfriend. After that my mother’s boyfriends were not any better. They would abuse me andy sister as well. My mother was always worried about dying alone and would blame us for them leaving her. Didn’t matter the abuse we took from them. Or the uncles that touches us, having to fend for ourselves at 5. At 16 I was kicked out the house and been on my own since then. I haven’t been able to create a stable home. I have failed so far. One thing I have not failed and WILL NOT is being the best mother I can be. Everything I went thru as a child prepared me to be the mother I am today. Over protective. I always miss them and tell them how much I love them. Most importantly, men is not something I bring into their lives. I refuse to allow that. I refuse to take the chance of bringing them around my girls in trusting them with the safety of my girls unlike my mother…

My whole point… I know I am rambling on, but my point is, I just need the chance. I need the help to start something up to change our lives. We have no one. So here I am reaching out. I pray, God I pray someone reaches out. Help us out in anyway. We would be so grateful.

Please…

A. Magner

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Last Updated: March 8, 2023

Beacon for hope

Young subcontractor hit rock bottom with a hungry puppy dog

Hello, I am a 25 year old subcontractor that has tragically hit rock bottom. I have a genetic life threatening hyper thyroid storm condition that I have been battling for 10+ years, I’ve lost so much weight from not being able to keep my calorie intake up and the stress is killing me. After losing my whole family due to suicide and cancer, I’m left with no support system or safety net. I have a pup named Chance that I rescued and I can’t afford to feed him the diet he requires. Please help, even the smallest amount would go along way. I have no clue what to do. I was evicted from my trailer due to trespass notice from management. Which is bs if you ask me because they only kicked me off property because they were involved with pushing my mother to commit suicide after setting her up in a 15 year sentence and false reports to dhs to get her rights terminated from her kids wrongfully as they tried taking guardianship of said kids and were denied due to unfit conditions. They don’t want to pay for there wrong doings and them choosing to be taking it out on me is obscene. I lived in the court before they even became management so I find it completely screwed up. But yet it’s winter, so concrete work is out of the picture until the weather warms up, along with not having no bids on paint jobs in the last few weeks, if that’s not bad enough my best friend died two days ago & idk how to make it to his funeral; my car broke down and got impounded so I can’t do door dash anymore, along with losing my car I lost all the clothes I own besides the ones I’m wearin and an outfit I left at a friends. The homeless shelter won’t accept my pup and request I allow the humane shelter to take him. He’s all I got left, I’d be a fool to not fight to keep him. Even if I’m struggling to get on my feet again. I know that I’m going to, this too shall pass. So please please any donation would be huge. I just need to collect enough investment in my cause, in me, in my chance to make a difference; So I may hire a good lawyer, pay for some shelter, food, and or transportation. I have one last beacon of hope that I will live to see justice served after 23 years and finally no longer have to worry about how imma eat next or where can I sleep next….. life was never supposed to be this way….F building character I got enough character through my expirence, I need help, I need a hand, I need hope that good people still exists and that my Story doesn’t end like this. Alone. Hungry. Hurt. Confused. Cold. And Sad. So please please please hear my plea, my prayer, my cry and help. I have CASHAPP (please don’t judge my cash tag name I thought it was funny and all the other ones I tried were taken.) ••••CASHTAG•••• [$suckaniggadick666]

Sincerely, Keõnna 🥰