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Last Updated: March 18, 2023

I could use some help

I’ve lived my life so far with my heart on my sleeve, helping anyone that needed it and some that didn’t but I did it anyways. Let’s see if karma will be on my side. I’ve found myself hitting rock bottom, I have always worked hard but made bad financial decisions, namely gambling. On 2022 Christmas day I met a wonderful woman and everything looked like finally I was on my way to a better life. I quit gambling and was doing really good. Everything was looking like 2023 was going to be my best year. Then disaster, I went off the road into the snow bank on my way home from a friend and I had alcohol in my system, I wasn’t drunk, just enough to blow a fail when the officer that just happened to be going by 10 minutes after I went in the ditch did the breathalyzer test on me. This happened Feb 23, so I lost my license for 90 days and my truck is on the impound. This  might sound no that bad but in my case it is. My work requires me to drive to remote locations and I lost it. I have no income. I’ve applied to several companies that provide fly in fly out employment so I’m confident I will get a job but I need help in the meantime. I’ve payed the fine and the plan ahead online course that I need to get the ignition interlock (blow box) but I have run out of money and I need to get the truck out of the impound or the fees are gonna be astronomical. I’ve got no one I can ask so I’m here. I’ve got food for about two months and rent is covered as well fur that time and if I don’t get a job by then I really don’t know what I’m gonna do.

If any of you could help…

PayPal.Me/achcube

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: Canada

Last Updated: March 17, 2023

Desperate request as am at wits end, would appreciate any help at all. Thank you if you will take the time to read the following narrative.

Hello, don’t know where and how to start but here goes. My names Tony, I’m 50 years old now, half a century, with absolutely nothing to sure for it. My troubles started many decades ago and I dont think the space given will suffice but primarily my existence literally/metaphorically ended on the morning of Tuesday August 23rd when I lost my partner for more than 30 yrs to Lung/Heart complications, namely COPD and secondary heart failure. For more than a month she was in ICU and I naturally visited her every day. Sorry, forgot to mention that I hale from Greater West London. Whilst the worst catastrophe in our lives was unravelling before me I had been holding down a job through a temping agency. This was our only source of income, was doing 4 nights in a food factory a week. The twisted irony is that the only time in our lives I started to get a regular income, my other half was in hospital. This all stopped as my partner became sick and the£200 or so I saved depleted. “Grief is the price you pay for love”, I read somewhere is so true. I recall that morning vividly as the Doc was discussing end of life, then put the oxygen and machines off and left me alone with Lynz. I think of it constantly.

We’ve only had each other in our lives, no support from family (both of us estranged from them), nomadic homeless for the last 4 years, just living in the smallest room and surviving on Govt benefits (for which we were grateful). Before Xmas 21, I started to work and therefore stopped the benefits but stopped when Lynz got sick begging July 22.

The other thing which rips my sole to pieces is the fact that the funeral of Lynz had to be from public funds (paupers funeral) but the Bereavement services at the hospital didnt do there jobs properly and the person I had spoken to, kept fobbing me off ( theres delays, many people wating for funerals, you should get a call within few days or next week). These were the responses I got when I did manage to get through to him after at least 20/25 calls I made. My partner had been left in the morgue for a month or more. So what happened ultimately, without any knowledge or me being informed was that my partner was cremated. For some reason I cannot pick up the phone to verify this and they just presume I’ve forgotten about it. It breaks my heart to pieces which I cannot bring to describe.

As I mentioned earlier, on that dreadful morning, I wish I had died too, am such a coward. After the loss, I managed to stay in my fathers house but I just stay in my room, surrounded by Lynz’s sketches, her clothes, every single thing of hers, even still the plastic carrier bag in which her possessions were kept in from the hospital. I know for a fact I’m suffering from chronic depression, my OCD is mentally/physically exhausting, I havnt changed clothes or showered  for a long time, basically lost the plot.

I have to make an appt with my GP and get some semblance of life back in order, financially destitute,  20p in bank. We were always kind of poor but happy with what little we had. I’m in a state but I have to get my life in some order, have no one to ask for financial help (would never dream of asking my father for a penny, cold heartless person).

I know there are good and beautiful people in this world, my partner was and still is for sure and i would beseech these good soles for ANY help, which would be extremely appreciated. Theres so much more to say, espeacially about my current plight, the straits I’m waddling through whist being completely destitute but more about the gentle, beautiful sole, Lynz,  her dreams and aspirations,  the beauty of them.

Thank you immensely for taking time to read this, as I said theres so much more to say and express, making a Greek tragedy seem a comical farce, I’ll just end up probably ruining your day. Sorry about not sending an image because I’m not presently a pleasant sight to look upon. I hope I’ve done this properly tonyuppal6@gmail.com

paypal.me/tony478604

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: UK

Last Updated: March 12, 2023

Disabled Veteran Needs Help

Hello.

I am a 100% permanently disabled veteran and I am in need of financial assistance.

Mistake #1

I purchased a home in Iowa to be geogtaphically closer to my brother. I choose Iowa because as a 100% disabled veteran I am not required to pay property taxes. However, property assessments are setup and the timing of my purchase require me to pay property taxes until the fall of 2024 which is close to $250 per month. That would have been my grocery money.

Mistake #2

I was told by Veterans United that I would be getting a surplus of money at closing at about $3.500. They instead used $2,440 to buy down a point against my wishes. I intended to use this money to move my belongings from Las Vegas to Iowa.

Mistake #3

This one is not so much my fault. My landlord raised my rent in September with a 60 day notice by 36%. I was planning to move out by June of 2023. This caused me difficulty for me to move. My physical disabilities make it difficult and painful to move anything. I was unprepared and unorganized for this move. I am not good a packing my belongs and I am sure that the packing materials take up 50% or more of my storage space.

My dad passed away last May and my best and last remaining friend passed away a month later. Neither my dad nor my best friend could help me move, but it just added to my situation.

About 90% of my belongs are still in Nevada. I am not good at packing my belongs and I am sure that the packing materials take up 50% or more of my storage space. Right now my storage costs are $805 per month. The mortgage, the shortage at closing, the cost of storage and not expecting to pay property taxes has made life difficult. I am 10% over the limit of my $8,000 credit card and I do not have money to pay all of my bills or move my belongs out of storage. I damaged the suspension of my 2002 Chevy Tahoe towing a trailer to Iowa. It makes noise in the right front and it leans to the right in the rear. I believe it may be a ball joint in the front and a broken coil spring in the rear. My tools are in Nevada or I could get  my brother to do the labor as I instruct him. I have some mechanical knowledge. I don’t have the money for parts and I don’t have the money to pay someone to repair it.

Once my belongs are here, I won’t have to pay storage anymore and I could make it financially. Moving costs are insane. A Penske truck as of yesterday is $15,000 plus fuel and maybe mileage. U-haul truck and trailer is $7,000 plus mileage and fuel. Travel food and lodging adds to this cost. I would need to have $10,000 before I would attempt one trip. One trip with truck and trailer would reduce my storage costs to $571 per month. I will be able to sell some of these belongs and be able to get my head above water. My belongs are stuff you might find at a yard sale, eBay, Craig’s list or Facebook.

Yesterday, I spent money that was meant for my utility bill on groceries and essentials. The utility company said they would work with me. I remain hopeful.

I could mention all the things thst need repairs in this house. I was able to repair the microwave. The oven doesn’t work, but the broiler does, so it needs an igniter and maybe a safety valve since turning on the puts out gas and it isn’t igniting. It is a bomb waiting to detonate. Two of the burners ignite on their own, the others don’t, so perhaps they are electrically dirty. There are plumbing and electrical code violations everywhere. I paid for an inspection, but the guy missed a lot.

This house was an expensive purchase, but I saw potential in this place. I knew it needed some work, but this is  more than expected. Someday, about two years from now, I hope to have refinanced at a better rate, my belongs will be here, no more property taxes and two Cost Of Living Allowances (COLA) increases on January 1, 2024 and 2025 will make life enjoyable once again.

I am a firm believer in accepting responsibility for my mistakes. I messed up and I own this burden.

I thank everyone who read this post and if you can help, thanks for that as well.

It wasn’t just one thing that went wrong, There were several things that have gone wrong. I am a survior and I never give, but a strategic retreat is sometimes necessary.

My immediate needs are utility costs and repair costs for my Tahoe’s suspension problem. It also leaks oil which is most likely the rear main seal. Money to move would definitely be a God send. Despite all of this, I am grateful to be a homeowner again and for all the other good in my life. I am especially grateful to my brother and his wife. They have done so much to help me. I am blessed despite myself.

God bless our country and everyone everywhere.

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: March 12, 2023

Need help paying off a portion of my debt so I can start to get ahead

I want to make this as sincere as possible so I would like to start by saying I am very fortunate. I have some lingering debt that I cant get on top of and with inflation after the pandemic its becoming harder and harder.

I was in a relationship which ended in 2019 and in that relationship I was paying “rent” to my partner  who owned the house I was living in with him. During that time I was also going back to college for a program I really wanted to be in and all the financial burden for that was on me. I relied on student loans, a line of credit to get me by plus any money I did make working part time. I was also commuting 1.5 hours everyday to go to school because I couldn’t pay rent for a place close to school and to my boyfriend at the time.

When I broke up with this boyfriend I moved back in with my parents but I had one more year of school. My mental health declined and therefor my mental capacity commute and attend school made it difficult for me to work on top of all that.

Im lucky to have a job that pays me above minimum wage however my job is seasonal contract and my winter contract is part time. This makes it difficult to pay off my credit card which is my biggest concern because the interest just builds up so fast.

I am in a better relationship now with a much more supportive person. My partners income goes mainly to our home expenses. I pay a portion of the bills that I am able to pay. With utilities costs increasing and the inflation on groceries I have not been able to pay off my credit card the way I planned over the winter and if I could, I would be able to focus more of my income to my student loans and line of credit and maybe finally clear up my debt after years.

My partner and I want to have kids in the near future and I do not want to be paying off this debt and trying to manage the expense of raising kids. I also really don’t want to raise kids with lingering debt because I saw the stress it caused my parents and I don’t want that for my future family.

I am really just hoping for some kindness and the ability to finally free myself from this credit card so I can start getting ahead on my other debt. My credit card balance is $5000 and that is all I am hoping for. If you are able to donate I would really, really appreciate any help.

Thank you for reading,

paypal.me/276563

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: Canada

Last Updated: March 10, 2023

Eggstravaganza

Dear Valuable Community Supporter/Partner,

My name is Pame Adams. I am the owner of C’WeetPeas Special Events Planning and Catering. C’WeetPeas is an unofficial non-profit organization and has been operational since 2016. C’WeetPeas has provided School Supply Drives, Winter Coat and Jacket Supply Drives, Thanksgiving and Christmas baskets for families, Valentine and St. Patrick’s Day giveaways, volunteer worker and financial supporter for numerous local and national non-profits.
On behalf of my organization, C’WeetPeas EPC and the community we serve, I am writing to ask for a donation in the form of a gift card, gift certificate, financial, service or product donation. C’WeetPeas EPC will sponsor for the first time an Easter Event. The event will take place at Battery Park (basketball side) on April 8, 2023, from 12pm-5pm. (flyer attached) All donations will be used towards easter baskets, hunting supplies, activities, food, entertainment and resources. Attendees will include but not limited to, The Sheriff of Richmond, Richmond Fire Station, radio station, community leaders, Motorcycle Clubs and three-character bunnies, balloon twister, face painters and ice cream trucks.FB_IMG_1678114088629 (1) (1) (1).jpg

Donation options.
CashApp- $Cweetpeas
Venmo- @Cweetpeas
Chime-$ CweetPeas
Checks and/or money orders make payable to Pamela Adams
Services

As of March10, 2023 the balance owed is $907.81

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: March 10, 2023

Struggling after domestic relationship. Can’t do it anymore.

It wasn’t always this way for me. I once had good credit and savings. All my bills were paid in full and on time. I was happy and lived a good life. I was sociable with many friends and on my way to building a career for myself. I worked and studied hard for everything I achieved. I had a little boy and we were the best of friends and content with life. I then met my ex partner, who I went on to have another child with.

He turned our lives upside down and still continues to effect us. He is a narcissist who physically and mentally abused me. I left this toxic relationship and it
had a massive impact on myself and the children. I was left with thousands of pounds in debts and struggle every day with the trauma that still remains.
Myself and children have help for this, but we are unable to get back on our feet and become stable again. I went back to work full time whilst my child was new-born to try and repay the debts, but I had to choose each month whether to pay the bills or the nursery fees. Eventually, I had to quit this job that I was only a few months away from qualifying and living the career I had been working to do and work part time somewhere else to try and bring back some balance and stability as my bills were getting more and more into arrears and it had taken a huge impact on my mental health. I had a massive breakdown.

However, during Covid, I became unwell and went on the sick for a few weeks. During this time my employer made me redundant, I lost my car and by bills began to spiral out of control. I suffered extreme anxiety and depression and didn’t know how to manage or deal with it all. I found the strength and after several months, I put all my bills into payment plans whilst still having arrears. Therefore, I have never been able to catch up. I only have an allowance of £50 a month after my bills are paid and that is to do my grocery shop and
anything additional that we need such as clothing, emergencies etc. We don’t have luxuries and we don’t go out and socialise unless it is visiting family or at the expense of someone else. Even these outings are a struggle as we have to rely on people being able to transport us or fund us and it makes my anxiety and depression worse. All my outgoings have been stripped to the bare minimum and I only pay the main bills/creditors that we all have to pay. I don’t have subscriptions or an allowance for clothing and travel. We are completely
isolated in our house and it’s taking a massive toll on our mental health’s. Our lives have been torn upside down and as the cost of living keeps increasing, I don’t know how to survive anymore. I lost all my friends due to the relationship and no longer have the confidence to try and rebuild them also due to my anxiety. I feel lost and trapped and don’t know what to do. I am constantly shaking and have panic attacks.

I need help to reduce my debts so we don’t lose our home. I would love to be able to take my kids out occasionally, but without transport anymore or spare funds to pay for transport, the most we can do is a walk to the park. I only leave my house a few days a month. It’s been several years now and I have tried so hard to be strong and make it better for my kids, but all I want to do is cry for them every single day. Just to be able to take them into a shop and buy them an outfit or even to do one food shop.

I hate and blame myself everyday for getting us into this situation and for what my kids have been through, but if I hadn’t of met my toxic ex, I would not have my beautiful child.

We just need some help. As a single mum, it’s really difficult and I feel scared. I did have hope for us as at one point, for example, we were all sleeping on a mattress in one room and now we have beds, I regularly used the food bank, but now with the interest increasing on everything, I am not going to have anything and we could barely get through as it was. We don’t want to struggle anymore and I say we as in myself and 2 children because it effects us all, if anything, it effects them more because they don’t understand why they can’t have or do the things we used to.

I fought every challenge that’s been thrown my way and have never stopped fighting battle after battle, but I don’t know how much more I can take or what else to do.

I’d truly appreciate any help at all. We all would and thank you for taking the time to read this.

paypal.me/bml89

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: UK

Last Updated: March 5, 2023

There’s a first time for everything I guess

Even a month ago, I couldn’t imagine I’d be desperate enough to ask for money online, but here we are.

I guess it’s best just to lay it all out. About 3 weeks ago, it came to light that my wife of 21 years was addicted to meth. She’s been in treatment now for about a week. I wasn’t aware of it, but she had been a regular user for 3 years. We’re using an outpatient clinic that my insurance covers, Thank God, but she’s not bringing money in right now. She drives for Instacart, DoorDash, And a few others. It’s apparently a bit of a  trigger for her. We’ll see if she’s able to come back to it or if she has to get a different job.

She’s the one who handled the household bills and we’re also apparently behind on basically everything. January and February house payments, Electric, gas, water, trash, and internet are all late and sending me shut off notices. (well, except for electric and gas of course because of the cold weather rule, But they’re Not shy about letting me know they need me to at least have payment arrangements made by the day the cold weather rule expires). Since I sometimes do some work from home, internet is a must and the shut off date for it is Feb 16.

We have two daughters and our youngest one’s birthday is coming up on the 22nd. She doesn’t want much but honestly at this point, I don’t think I can get her I’ll be anything. She’s turning 12.

And I just found out yesterday that my brakes need to be fixed in my car for it to pass inspection. I have I tell the end of the month to get this one taking care of but it’s just another bill I don’t have the money for.

I’m a college educated professional employed as a public school teacher. I already tutor on the side and am trying to pick up more shifts this week. I also do handyman and gardening work from time to time. I’m doing everything I can to earn extra money, but I know I can’t make it all myself. Anything anybody wants to send me to help would be greatly appreciated.

Added together, I need about $600 total to get all the utilities caught up and pay for a little more food for my family as well as a little gas money so I can get to work and back. My older daughter informed me all my youngest wants for her birthday is a pre-order for a new Zelda game for her switch. So I guess I need enough for that as well. And then another $300 for my brakes but I’m confident I can take care of that. I’ve already filed my taxes And if my return gets here when it’s scheduled to I’ll be able to use that to cover the last two house payments that were missed as well as the March payment. So I’ll be happy with anything a generous doner would like to give.

I love my wife but hate the position we’re in right now because of her addiction. This is definitely the Worse the minister was talking about when he was saying for better or worse. I’m normally a very private guy and it’s killing me to even ask like this. Believe me when I say that you will forever have my gratitude and I pledge to pay it forward to others if you generous donors help me and my family out of this tight spot.

My PayPal me info is below

 

PayPal.me/scottwoldridge

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: March 5, 2023

D.D. Drowning In Debt

This is something I have never tried before. I have a lot of debt but if I can get any help with one specific card that would be immensely helpful! I have one card that has a balance of $7,700.00 I am a business owner and while my business is growing I am still paying myself a smaller wage either $2,000 a month or less, I have other debt/loans that I am still paying off so I pay myself enough to make those monthly payments which equal out too about $1,800 a month. Any help would be greatly greatly appreciated. Please know that I am not just sitting back just asking for handouts I am trying to get more clients, I am in the beauty business and I am trying to expand by getting people to come and rent from my salon. I can’t get a second job because I have two young kids and it would cause immense pressure and problems in my marriage. I cannot ask my husband for help because he already is working extra hours and has picked up a teaching job a few Saturdays as much as he can pick up. I also feel like I cannot come to him with this because he has already helped me so much and quite frankly I don’t think my marriage could take it. I also have signed up to donate for plasma and I am looking to see of I can do some type of online side work that I can fit into my schedule.

https://www.paypal.me/CristinaP190

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: February 21, 2023

Family in need.

I am asking for help for my family because an accident my husband had seven ago. He had a business doing roof work and he backed into a skylight. He fell 25ft to the concrete and landed on his head. The doctors did not give us much hope that he would survive but the Lord had other plans! We have had a hard road to this point, but we are so blessed he is still here with us today. He has been left with a blind eye and one ear deaf with the other ear 50% hearing loss. The biggest challenge has been the anxiety and depression. So back up to the accident, he lost his business, his eyesight, hearing, home, best friends and a ministry he had. The loss of everything has caused the anxiety and depression as you can imagine. His desire is to start another business in the construction field again but this time on the ground instead of roofing. He has found a concrete flooring business he would like to do but the cost of the machines to do the work is something we cannot afford to purchase. The cost for the equipment is 16,000.00.  He is needing a second chance in this life, and I believe this would help his depression to be able to have a business again where he can provide for his family.  We have 3 children and 2 grandchildren. We have been married 37 years. My children are having a very hard time watching their father in such a depressing state. He has said many times he wished the Lord had taken him on that day and it’s so heartbreaking to hear those words come out of his mouth. I have always been a stay-at-home mom raising our kids. I have had no work experience or college so me finding much of anything to help out has been difficult. We are just asking for help to buy this equipment if that would be something you could afford to help with. Aso would love to have your prayers for our family. My middle son was also with his dad when he fell and has had pretty bad ptsd from what he witnessed with this accident. If you could pray for him as well. I want to thank you for your consideration, and I also want you to know that we have been givers throughout our whole marriage. We love to give and will be paying it forward as soon as we are able.  Many blessings to you all

https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/lynetteb44

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: February 20, 2023

Homeless from abandonment

Good day to whomever wants to help me,  I am a 52 year old female and I was married for 22 years and my so called husband, which has been physical, mentally, and verbally abusive for the past few years. I have been trying to get away from him but he stalking me, even at work. One day over a year now while I’m at work he packed up everything, I mean everything, changed the locks on house and disappeared, left me with the clothes on my back and my purse. I’ve tried to get help through the system but if there isn’t any children they refuse to help you. I’ve lost my job and I can’t get ahead for nothing. I’m sorry to have to ask this of you, HELP!!! I Thank You BLESSED BE 🙏

paypal.me/Cohn156

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: February 20, 2023

Critically in Need of Financial Assitance

Hi I am trying to raise money for my family as we have faced some horrible injustices and we will be facing some financial difficulties in the next few months. The first thing happened to one family member who worked in the school system. That family member faced harassment, intimidation, bullying and as result of it faced extreme stress which may have contributed to internal bleeding which lead to that family member being hospitalized. The situation was so bad that the family member had to file a lawsuit against the school that lasted 2 years and guess what the lawyer was incompetent and the lawsuit got dropped and went nowhere. Ultimately due to the horrible environment and health problems the person retired from their job. Before I go any further I want to also mention that while this was going on we had a boiler crisis as well. We needed a new boiler as the one we had was too old and was becoming extremely dangerous to use. So we ended up having a company come and replace it. The problem is that the company that installed it did such a poor job installing it that an inspector came and failed the boiler twice. We called the company and told them to come and fix it but they refused saying that we used up all our visits and we ended up having to get another far better company to come a correct the issue. The owner of the company came and corrected the boiler issues but told us that the previous company owed us money and that we were entitled to it. We tried getting the old company to pay us what we were owed since they did not fix the issue but they refused and to make matters worse they started calling us demanding money from us so we had to start ignoring their calls which did end after several months but they still have not paid us. Now back to the work situation. The other family member’s pay while get cut due to retiring and in April the person will not get paid for the whole month. Also this person has also had to have surgery due to neck issues and will have to make monthly payments to pay for the surgery as they cannot pay it in a lump sum. Any and all financial assistance would be extremely helpful at this point in time. Just an update. The other family member has had the surgery and is now at home recuperating once again any final assistance would be extremely helpful. Just another update. The other family member is now home to get better. There are some evil people however at work that are refusing to give the person their pay even though they have followed all the needed steps to do so. The other family member’s only other source of pay will be social security which will help for a few days but that is it. Any financial assistance as soon as possible would be extremely helpful.

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: February 18, 2023

Can’t get ahead

Hi, thanks for reading. I am seeking donations to help with large debt that has accumulated over several years due to many reasons. Making minimum payments leaves me with nothing every month, many months less than that. It’s a cycle I cannot get out of. I went from having excellent credit to poor credit pretty quickly and cannot qualify for a loan.

I will add some issues that have contributed to this problem below.

My dog of 12 years passed away a year ago after months of expensive treatments. I have adopted another dog, who was diagnosed with an incurable eye disease. The visits to see these specialists are very costly and surgery is recommended.

I was in an abusive relationship. He put me in a bad space emotionally, physically, and financially.

I work full time and even overtime, but I do not make much, despite having a college degree. I have some serious health conditions that cause me to miss work and even though I work for a healthcare facility, they do not pay when I’m out of work. Not even the 3 times I contracted COVID from work. I missed weeks of pay just from that and I have a lot of medical bills of my own.

Everything is more expensive these days, as you all know. I have a medical condition in which I have some strict dietary restrictions. Those groceries are even more expensive. I am in a bad place and tried to just eat ramen because that’s more economical, but I got very sick from doing so. I am getting by with one meal/snack per day but I don’t even have the available funds for that at the moment.

I have a car, but I cannot afford the necessary repairs to be safe, or much less on the road. I have missed work due to not having gas money. I need to work to make money but I can’t even get there sometimes. There is no public transportation where I live.

I do not have family and I don’t know where else to turn. Daily expenses are too much, and especially when there is an emergency situation, I have no other options.

I have fallen into a deep depression and I can’t see the end (I am on antidepressants). I am riddled with anxiety. It is a constant fight to function in any capacity.

I spoke with a debt consolidation company yesterday, and hope it will help. There are definite downsides, and it won’t be a cure all. I have also been selling household items and saving in every way I can think of. I do not live extravagantly by any means. It’s been years since I’ve spent money on anything unnecessary, entertainment or socializing.

Thank you for reading and I any bit helps. Even if it’s advice or good vibes and prayers sent my way.

https://paypal.me/Lala12210?country.x=US&locale.x=en_US

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: February 9, 2023

Help me get a car please

You think you know a person until you find out you, You don’t know them at all! I am 51 and suddenly single, after 23 years of marriage 2 children 3 affairs , he left I Sadly suffer from PTSD. My so called friends robbed me , my mom got cancer I loaned my car to a friend in need who totaled it , my ex stole the insurance money I have no money, car or hope.

https://www.paypal.me/sophianordlie

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Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: February 8, 2023

The Best Part of Me is My Kids

I always knew life could be unfair. And I always understood that sometimes bad things happen to good people. But at the same time, I truly believed in my heart that if you put God first, tried your best to be a good person, and worked hard that things would generally be ok. Be strong and persevere through the tough times because they too will eventually pass. I was wrong….

Or at least that’s what it’s starting to look like. This is my last ditch effort that I’m making to hopefully prevent what’s about to happen from happening. Because if it happens, my life is over. I will have no reason to live. And no… I’m not suggesting I would ever harm myself. But I would basically just be waiting to die. I will never again experience joy or love or peace of mind. And it’s not fair. It’s not right. Someone please help me.

If there were any kind of alternative to what I’m doing here, I would try it. But I’ve already tried everything. Sometimes I can’t even believe this is real. This is like the stuff you see in movies. I guess reality can be stranger than fiction. Because this is real. It’s happening to me. To us. And I don’t know how to stop it.

I have 3 beautiful daughters. 14, 10 and 3. I met my oldest when she was 3. She was my wife’s child from a prior relationship. The bio dad wasn’t around, and I eventually adopted her. She quickly became my child. As for the other two, I raised them both since they were born. And when I say I raised them, I mean it more than most fathers could probably identify with. Because I was a stay-at-home dad.

My wife and I got together in 2011. We both worked but she always had a much better job than I did. In 2012, after our first was born, because of the drastic difference in our wages, it made more sense for her to return to work following her maternity leave. We had discussed several options. Neither of us were comfortable sending our infant to daycare. No judgement on anyone else’s choice to do this. It’s just something we weren’t comfortable with.

When they get a little older, we liked the idea because it starts to socialize kids for kindergarten but even then, it was only part-time. The cost of daycare isn’t cheap. Plus, my wife worked 50+ hours per week, and she enjoyed being able to come home and have the house cleaned, the laundry done, the beds made, the kids fed, the diapers changed, etc. Anyone who has ever held the position of homemaker knows it’s a full-time job. And I did it very well.

There were times that I questioned our decision about this. But my wife used to tell me that I was worth more to her at home then working some minimum wage job. I didn’t have any kind of career or profession like she did. I thought I was doing the right thing for my family.

But I also knew that the kids would grow up eventually. And the need for a full-time caretaker would become less and less as they got older. So during these years that I was the “house-husband,” I put myself through college. I was technically a full-time student but because I could take many of the courses from home online, I was able to juggle both things.

So the years went on. My wife continued to get raises and be even more successful at her job. And I did my thing at home. The two older girls turned out to be the most well-rounded, intelligent, talented, and beautiful children you could ever meet. I expect the same for our 3-year-old in the future. I’m not perfect by any means. But I knew I was a good dad. I could tell by the results.

We ended up buying a home. And even though we were living off of one income, we all lived pretty comfortably. My original plan was to go back to work once the two older girls got old enough to be on their own a little bit more. But right after I graduated from college, my wife expressed to me that she wanted another baby. Our youngest was born in 2019.

So even though this was quite a change of plans for me, here I was with yet another infant. I don’t regret anything having to do with my kids. The time I spent home with them was some of the greatest most fulfilling years of my entire life. I loved my kids, and they loved me. And even though I wanted to utilize my degree, when my wife decided she wanted another child, I was happy to oblige her. It’s not like we needed the money. We were doing pretty good. So why not make her happy?

We had a good marriage for a lot of years. My wife was a little controlling in some regards but hey, when you truly love someone unconditionally, you take them for what they are – both good and bad qualities. She insisted on controlling all of our finances. She paid the bills. Everything was in her name (except our house). And maybe I was being naive, but I didn’t ask questions. I mean I trusted her. She was the one earning the money so I figured it was her right to maintain that facet of our marriage.

After many good years together, in 2020, things started to fall apart. The painful details are not important. But I discovered she was being unfaithful. There was even a question as to whether our youngest was biologically mine or the product of one of her affairs. And unfortunately, it wasn’t a matter of her transgressing, getting caught, being sorrowful, and maybe us attending some counseling to keep the family together. That’s not what she wanted. She wanted to continue to do what she was doing. And she wanted me out.

But I was the stay at home parent, remember? She controlled everything. I had no money, nowhere to go, no resources, nothing. And she had no plans on helping me get on my feet or get into an apartment or something. She just expected me to leave empty-handed. After building a family and a life with her for almost 10 years, she just expected me to leave having nothing to show for it.

I refused to leave. I didn’t want to leave my girls. It’s not like I was the dad getting home at 5:00 p.m., spending a few hours with the kids, and maybe doing something on the weekends. I was with these girls morning noon and night, since they were all very small. I had such a close attachment to all of them. I suggested cohabitating under one roof, co-parenting peacefully, but no longer being together as man and wife.

That may sound crazy to some, but I didn’t want to leave and be the “every other weekend visitation” dad. That’s not who I was. I wanted to wake up in the same house as my children. And I was willing to put up with all her extramarital, extracurricular activities just to be able to do that. We tried but it didn’t last very long.

I had no desire to be with anyone else. In fact, to this very day, I still have not been with another woman intimately. My faithfulness and my honesty never really seemed to matter to my soon to be ex-wife though. It was December of 2020, not long before Christmas, when my wife decided she would get rid of me no matter what it took.

We have domestic relations laws in this country for a reason. For a lot of years, abusive husbands got away with way more than they should have because of how the laws used to be. The way they are set up now allows someone who has been beaten, or someone who is afraid for their life, to quickly go obtain a restraining order without any questions asked, and without any proof being required. The new laws were written specifically to be this way because someone who is truly trying to get out of an abusive relationship shouldn’t be hampered by the usual rules of evidence, or by a slow moving judicial system. The way the domestic laws are set up now, I’m sure it has saved many lives. The downside of the whole thing is that it leaves a person who wants to misuse the system plenty of room to do so.

I never hit or threatened my wife. And she had absolutely nothing indicating I did. She didn’t have bruises or any type of injuries. All she had was one hell of a story to tell our local family court system. Needless to say, her lies were believed, and the next thing I know state police showed up at my house and gave me about 10 minutes to gather everything that belonged to me, and put me out in the cold.

And the worst part about all of it is that temporary custody of my children was awarded to my wife, meaning if she did not want me to see my kids anymore, unless I wanted to go to jail, I could not. All I had known for 10 years was my wife and my home and my family. And now all of it was ripped away from me. I never understood what having the rug pulled out from underneath you meant. But I do now.

I’m so glad that I was able to graduate with a bachelor’s degree prior to this taking place. Don’t get me wrong, I am still struggling, because I had to start over with absolutely nothing. I work full-time as a social worker. The pay isn’t great and I barely survive. But I do survive. I live in a pretty run-down apartment, but it’s really all I can afford right now. And it wasn’t long before I started receiving divorce paperwork.

My wife has money for an expensive attorney. I cannot afford one. I tried getting help from several legal aid agencies, and all of them have a waiting list a mile long. I’m forced to represent myself and I’m not doing so well thus far  She has gone into these divorce hearings and completely lied about almost everything. She claims that her wages are much much lower than they actually are. And I know this to be true because we were together for so many years. I know what her income is. I’ve seen our federal tax return statements. But again, her lies are believed because they are coming out of the mouth of a paid attorney, and this resulted in in order for child support that is crippling me.

Believe me, I’m not bitching about having to pay child support. Of course I want to contribute to my children’s financial needs. But it has resulted in a situation where I will not be able to save for an attorney, she will continue to lie, she will continue to utilize the money and resources she lies about having, and I will never see my children again.!

She lies about her own situation, and she lies about my part in all of this. I have not seen my children in over 2 years. She has moved on to a new boyfriend. She wants to start a happy little family with him and she wants me to be a distant memory that she can soon forget. I have tried several times, asking the courts to allow me to see my children. Because of her dishonesty, and my inability to retain an attorney, I have not been successful.

If I had a lawyer, or if I knew what I was doing, I’m sure I would be entitled to a lot more than she wants to give me in the divorce. We own the house together, but by the looks of things, I’m not going to end up with anything. And I know, I know, people get screwed in divorces all the time. That’s not my issue.

She can have the house. I don’t want a thing from her. But she is asking for sole custody of the children. Between the restraining order she has, and that, I will never be able to see my kids again. And this is all based on lies that she told. I was a damn good father. I don’t deserve this. And I have learned what a narcissist truly is and what they are capable of.

Please be clear about something. Her goal is to completely take my children away from me. If I don’t retain some kind of representation, she will be successful. I don’t care about anything material that we accumulated while we were married. She can have all of it. I just want to see my children.

And I am running out of time. I am already working and earning as much money as I possibly can, but the more I make, the more they will take in child support. Child support for children I’m not even allowed to see. None of this is fair and none of this is right. I don’t deserve this. I’m not an unfit parent. There have never been any protective agency investigations on me or anything of that nature.

Her job in our small community gives her a lot of power and a lot of influence, not to mention the fact that her family is also a very important family in this area with a lot of money. I’m not even sure exactly how much I would need. I know lawyers are expensive. But whatever anyone can find in their heart to help me with I would appreciate. God bless all of you.

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Last Updated: February 8, 2023

House for my sick mother

Hello, my name is Yeison. I am a 20-year-old farmer who was forced to stop studying to take care of my mother, all because of the death of my father. Although we have lived in the countryside for a long time, we do not have a home, since we work on a farm in exchange for money and a place to live. The reason for requesting your help is because my 50-year-old mother is sick, as a consequence of a long life working in the fields. She has developed a problem in her hip and lungs (a consequence of cooking with firewood), for which she needs therapies and medications. To carry out the therapies we have to go from the countryside to the city for about 4 hours and stay somewhere for 1 day, this is impossible for us since we don’t have that much money, but we have managed for example I had to borrow money and sell some things we had at home. In addition, to complete the situation, they fired us from the job we had in the fields because we must be constantly traveling to the city, the bosses gave us a month and a half to vacate the country house. After that time I don’t know what we are going to do, where we are going to go live and continue with my mother’s therapies. At the hospital, the doctors told us that my mother needs to leave the field and start therapy (since we stopped all the treatment), so I would like to be able to buy her a house in the city and for the initial expenses, I need $24,000 USD, so that We can go live there and thus continue with the therapies without having to pay for a hotel, tickets and food continuously, since that is why we leave the therapies. I would like to be able to help my mother to have a better quality of life, I can work for medicines and city expenses and while my mother recovers I would like to be able to continue studying to have a better job and better pay to survive in the city. I am someone who is willing to do anything in order to improve in life, I would wholeheartedly appreciate your help to this humble peasant family to recover their mental and physical health, I am desperate, I don’t know what else to do to help my mother to buy the house in the city. I don’t want to buy him a big house, just one where we can live comfortably for a better quality of life. More than for me, for my mom, since I don’t want to abandon her because I don’t have anyone else in life. please I need help

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