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Last Updated: May 7, 2025

Make Memories With Adult Kids

Hi! I am asking for $150,000. Why? I would like to buy a truck and a 5th wheel travel trailer. I would like to travel back to my home city to see my father’s grave. I wasn’t able to travel back home for his funeral because I had no income. I would like to travel to another state to see my father’s last two remaining siblings, my aunt and uncle. I would also like to go to the south to see my oldest son. In 22 years I have seen him only 4 times. Then I would like to park the 5th wheel somewhere between my three other children. All of my kids are adults but I love them so much and they mean so much to me. I will be 60 years old this year and God only knows how much time I have left. I am also disabled. I had stage III Endometrial cancer from February 2022 to July 2023 and I went through chemo. I have a handful of side effects from the chemo and one of them is being unsteady on my feet which means I have to use a cane. So I would like my boyfriend and I to live in a 5th wheel travel trailer but visit the kids often and make many many memories with them to last their lifetime. We are all scattered and if we can live near the kids that would be so helpful. We could all travel to see my oldest son, their brother, and make many memories with him too. I would like my kids to look back on the memories and smile.

If you could help me I would be so grateful. Plus you could be one of my memories. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

CashApp-$WackyTracky

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: May 4, 2025

Thanks in advance for for any help 💛

I’m in the worst position I can be in, and I’m desperate for help, which is hard to even say out loud. I’m a mom to an incredibly sweet, kind, thoughtful, creative, loving and generous, autistic child. He’s been bullied relentlessly since he started school by teachers, kids, coaches, and administrators. Kids have been so nasty to him in every way you can imagine, but recently, they went way overboard. They collectively decided to pretend he committed a crime, and he was arrested and charged, and though the police were informed that he has autism, he was locked in a cell for 4 days and nights without his medications. I finally raised the money to get him out on bond, and then 3 years of absolute terror ensued. I had no money for a private attorney, so my special needs son was looking at being locked up for 40 years. I can’t imagine what’s wrong with the children who did this to my son. For over 2 years, I continued to ask, as his public defender supposedly did as well, for the ‘evidence’ against my son, but was not given any information. After over 2 years of missing what little work I had, finally losing my job over it, paying for gas and parking to go to court every month, sometimes twice a month, paying for clothes for my son to look presentable in court (he has sensory issues and only wears shorts and tshirts, even when it’s cold outside), and being absolutely horrified at the thought of my innocent son being locked up for decades, I sold my house and got him an attorney who agreed on a fee of what little I was walking away with after the sale of our home of 14 years. Thankfully, the attorney was able to get his hands on the ‘evidence’ and we found out that there was not one shred of evidence against my son to prove him guilty, and the ‘evidence’ actually exonerated him completely. Whywould a DA have taken this as a case? Though I knew from the get-go that he was innocent, the DA was making offers after 2 years of going to court dates, for my son to spend decades in a cell and all kinds of additional nonsense, KNOWING HE WAS INNOCENT! I should be able to sue her! I should be able to sue the families of every kid who lied about my son to get him into trouble knowing he was innocent. I’m just grateful to have gotten my son help before things became unfixable. By the grace of God, he is still with me, and safe. We are now homeless, and without a vehicle, bc it was 17 years old, breaking down, having transmission issues after all the trips downtown, and I can’t afford to fix it. We’re staying with a relative that wants us gone asap. I am desperate to get us a home, and provide minimal furnishings, as I’ve also lost my storage unit that I obtained when I sold my home, because I could no longer afford the bill after losing my job. I cannot express how this has all affected us. I have ptsd so bad, and I’m terrified to let my son be anywhere without me. He’s a great kid. A smart kid. He’s taught himself to work with power tools. He’s learned to build simple things, and I feel like he’s beginning to move past things, which has been much harder for myself. I’m begging for financial help so that I can start him a lawn mowing business where I can help mow and maintain everything, especially the financial side of things, as he doesn’t really understand money very well. I won’t live forever and need him to learn to maintain his lawn service, but I can’t do that without a vehicle and equipment. Of course a home comes first, as we’ve become a burden this year on a family member who is also struggling. Please help us get into a home and start a business so that we can be secure again. I sincerely appreciate any help, and genuinely wish you all joy and peace. Thank you for your time in reading this 💛

My venmo is; Broken-Barbie

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: April 25, 2025

Back up against a wall

Well where do I begin…last year I shared a house with an older couple and we lived in a house that was we rented that was falling apart. So we agreed to stop paying rent and we knew that eventually we would be evicted. Then my car broke down and it was a lot that needed to be done but I had no choice but fix it. So the couple ended up moving out before we was served an eviction. So while in the process of working, packing trying to fix my car my girlfriend took a trip to Florida with her mom to take care of some personal issues with her mom. She was there for about 3 maybe 4 weeks she was ready to come back home so I bought her a plane ticket for her to come back. While on the way to the airport once I got there I waited and waited looked for her checked terminals no site of her for 3 complete hours not one sign of her. Eventually I just went back home upset thinking that she lied to me about being on her flight. Talked to her mom she told me she had got on her flight back and that she should’ve been back. Well 2 days later I receive a text from someone that I didn’t know telling me that he had my girlfriend and that he was hired to kidnap her. i thought it was a joke and that she was playing games. Well this was a year ago and after her mom and me have paid almost 10,000 dollars we still haven’t seen her only talked to her on the phone. Well while dealing with that and still trying to finish my car during the summertime working in the heat being the heat working on my car and my house being extremely hot cause the electric got turned off I almost had a heat stroke and I got my eviction notice and already been to court so I was laid up for a week sick and lost my job.  So while packing my things and stayed with a friend the landlord decides he’s gonna empty out the house and set all my belongings outside right after I left that evening to go get a trailer for the next day to move my stuff. Oh forgot to mention when I almost had the heat stroke they was suppose to had showed up that day while I was packing my things. So it was obvious that I was going to remove my stuff so they set all of my clothes valuables and my studio equipment outside and almost everything u had got stolen and that was almost a year ago. By that being said it’s been a downhill struggle my music equipment was my second job and was going to be what I wanted to do as my main money maker but since I lost my job and no music equipment I have had no way to really make any money but survive off what I had saved and try to do what I can for my girlfriend and her mom. So I got a phone call from the guy that had kidnapped my girl saying that he wanted 2500 more dollars and he would bring her to me. Well I don’t have that and he gave me till the end of April to have the money or he was going to abandon here where she is being held at. I haven’t contacted the authorities this whole time cause of being afraid he would take her life cause he told me he would I barely got to tell her mom he didn’t want no one else knowing but I had no choice. I couldn’t live with myself not telling her and something happened. I don’t know what to do that’s why I’m here this is the first time I’ve said anything especially public like this it’s been very stressful

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: April 21, 2025

Broken, But Not Beaten-Help Me Rebuild

💔 Broken, But Not Beaten — Help Me Rebuild 💔

Hello, and thank you for taking the time to read my story.

I’m reaching out with an open heart and a hopeful spirit. My name is Kelly, and I am humbly asking for help so that I can receive the treatment I urgently need to begin healing from years of unaddressed trauma and PTSD — the root cause of my addiction.

🌱 A Glimpse of My Journey

I had 13 years of continuous sobriety. During that time, I was a single mother raising five young children. I went to college full-time, earning two associate degrees with honors. I served as the President of the Phi Theta Kappa Honor Society at my college and even earned a spot on the very same voter’s ballot as President George W. Bush during the primary elections as a Precinct Committee Person for my precinct.

Those years were filled with growth, service, and dreams I never imagined I could achieve. But that success didn’t come easily — it followed six years of painful attempts to get sober. Eventually, I found my footing, but I now understand that sobriety and following a program alone weren’t enough.

I never addressed the deeper wounds — the trauma and PTSD that silently haunted me. Over time, depression crept in, and unresolved pain turned into emotional isolation, leading to my relapse.

🛠️ Why I’m Asking for Help

I am determined to break that cycle for good. I’ve found a dual-diagnosis inpatient treatment facility that addresses both trauma and addiction simultaneously. I am ready to do the hard work, but I can’t do it alone.

To fully focus on recovery without the fear of becoming homeless or losing my Cane Corso, Silver — who is more than just a dog, she’s my family, my emotional anchor, my life, — I need help covering my basic living expenses for three months.

Silver has been my silent companion through every moment — the highs and especially the lows. When I couldn’t find words for the pain, she simply laid her big head in my lap and reminded me that I mattered. I can’t imagine healing without knowing she’s safe.


📌 Here’s exactly what your donation will cover:

Essential Expenses for 3 Months:

  • Rent & Storage: $551 x 3 = $1,653

  • Electric (past due + 3 months): $1,250 + ($200 x 3) = $1,850

  • Water/Sewer/Trash: $100 x 3 = $300

  • Phone (past due + current): $525.04 + ($53 x 3) = $684.04

  • Internet: $90 x 3 = $270

  • Car Insurance: $121 x 3 = $363

  • Credit Repair Subscriptions & Tools: $140 x 3 = $420

  • Basic Living Necessities: ≈ $500

Care for Silver (Cane Corso):

  • Non-professional boarding (trusted caregiver): ≈ $1,500

  • Professional boarding (if needed): $65/day x 90 = $5,850

✅ Total Needed (Non-Professional Dog Care): $6,500.01
💡 Optional Total (Professional Dog Boarding): $10,850.01


💬 Final Words from My Heart

This isn’t easy for me to ask. I’ve always been the one helping others — now I find myself needing that same grace. I believe with every fiber of my being that if I can get this opportunity to reset and heal with the right trauma support, I can rebuild the life I once had — and more.

💖 Please consider donating — even a small amount makes a huge difference. If you can’t donate, I would be so grateful if you could share this with your network and help spread the word.

📬 I promise to keep all donors and supporters updated on my progress. Your help is more than financial — it’s a lifeline and a chance at true healing.

Thank you for reading, caring, and giving me a fighting chance.

With all my heart,
Kelly Hatcher

👉 Donate Here via PayPal

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: April 21, 2025

After the flooding,make my house

Hello everyone,

I am reaching out today in a state of deep urgency and hope, compelled by the severe challenges that my family and I are currently enduring. We have been through an incredibly difficult period, and I need to share our story, in the hope that someone may be able to help us in our time of need.
Like many families, we have faced our fair share of struggles, but nothing could have prepared us for the devastation we are experiencing now. I am currently six months behind on payments, and just when I thought things couldn’t get worse, a heavy rainstorm struck, and my life was completely changed. In the span of a single day, my home was flooded with four feet of water.
The floodwaters swept away everything we had, leaving us without any of our belongings or essentials. For three days, our house remained submerged, and in that time, we lost nearly all of our possessions. Our food, clothing, furniture, and even important documents were destroyed, leaving us isolated and struggling to cope.
To make matters even more heartbreaking, my children have been deeply affected by this crisis. They are too young to fully understand the gravity of what has happened, but they are old enough to feel the pain of seeing their home in ruins. The sense of helplessness we all feel is overwhelming, and every day has been a battle to try to find some form of normalcy amid the chaos.
While I have managed to secure some small part-time work, it is nowhere near enough to meet our urgent needs. The overwhelming weight of our current situation, combined with the loss of everything in the flood, has made it clear that we need significant help to recover and rebuild.
To turn our lives around, regain stability, and move forward with hope, I urgently require approximately $100,000. This amount will help cover immediate needs such as repairing our home, replacing basic necessities like furniture, clothing, and household items, and addressing the outstanding debts that have accumulated. Additionally, it will provide us with the opportunity to rebuild our lives and create a stable foundation for my children’s future.
While the small work I’ve secured provides some relief, it does not come close to covering the scale of the damages or the expenses we face. Without substantial support, it’s incredibly difficult to see how we can pull ourselves out of this situation and move forward with any sense of security.
I am reaching out to you with this request in the hope that someone will hear our story and offer a helping hand. Every contribution, no matter the size, will bring us one step closer to rebuilding our lives and finding stability again. Your generosity would make an enormous difference for my family and me in this overwhelming time of need.
Thank you for considering our situation. Your kindness and support would mean the world to us.God bless you.

Yours
Ajith

Paypal link is

paypal.me/easyyamuna

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: Asia

Last Updated: April 14, 2025

Seeking Support After First-Time DWI – At Risk of Losing My Job

I’m reaching out with a heavy heart to ask for support during one of the most difficult times in my life.

I’m currently at risk of losing my job due to my first DWI offense. It was a terrible mistake, and I take full responsibility for it. I’ve been doing everything I can to manage the legal and personal consequences—but financially, I’ve hit a wall.

To cover attorney fees, court costs, and related expenses, I need to raise $12,000. I’ve managed to gather $4,000 through savings and small loans, but I’m still short by $8,000.

I’m not looking for sympathy—I’m asking for a second chance. This moment doesn’t define me. I’m determined to make things right, keep my job, and move forward with more clarity and responsibility.

If you’re in a position to help, even a small amount would mean the world to me. Every bit truly helps. My Cash App is $nick270895.

Thank you for reading. Please consider sharing this with others who may be willing to lend a hand.

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: April 10, 2025

EMPOWER HER: HELP US GIVE WOMEN AND GIRLS A SECOND CHANCE AT LIFE

Empower Her: Help Us Give Women and Girls a Second Chance at Life

Dear Kindhearted Donors,

My name is Pastor Mercy Isogie, founder of Helper of Destinies Kingdom Women Influencers Network (HODKWIN) — a mission-driven initiative birthed from pain, passion, and purpose. We are a growing network committed to restoring hope, dignity, and wholeness to women and girls who are hurting, abandoned, and broken by life’s challenges.

Every day, I receive heartbreaking messages from women who have nowhere to sleep, nothing to eat, and no one to turn to. Single mothers who have been left to raise their children without support, women battling serious health conditions with no funds for treatment, young girls who have suffered abuse and emotional trauma — many of whom are on the verge of giving up completely.

At HODKWIN, we offer more than encouragement — we offer tangible support: emergency shelter, food supplies, medical assistance, trauma care, and counseling. We help women stand back on their feet, not just spiritually, but emotionally, mentally, and financially.

However, the needs have grown, and we cannot do this alone. That is why I am humbly appealing to you for help.

We are seeking to raise $5,000 to urgently assist the most vulnerable women and girls within our care. These funds will go directly into:

  • Providing accommodation for displaced single mothers

  • Supplying food, clothing, and hygiene kits for families in crisis

  • Offering medical aid for women with urgent health challenges

  • Facilitating trauma recovery and counseling for survivors of abuse

  • Empowering women with small startup support to rebuild their lives

This is not just a donation — it is a seed of hope. A chance for a woman to smile again. A pathway for a girl child to believe in her future again. Your support can be the difference between despair and deliverance.

No gift is too small, $10, $20 or $100 donations will change lives and every dollar will be accounted for and directed toward transforming lives.

Please, help us give these women and girls a second chance at life. Be part of this healing story. We are grateful for your love, your compassion, and your generosity.

With heartfelt thanks,
Pastor Mercy Isogie
Founder, HODKWIN

https://www.paypal.me/mkathy101


Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: Africa

Last Updated: April 2, 2025

In desperate need of help to clear debt and return to my child back home

Good day everyone I hope this fine you well I am in desperate need of help, I recently found out I owe $147000 in dept in a foreign land with someone using my identity and now there is a travel ban and a legal case against me, I met a guy here in Dubai who trained me to and others to be baristas he was a head /manager at the coffee shop,after passing he offered to hire me with a salary of about $520 I was very grateful as getting a job here was tough even after struggling to pay flight and visa to relocate, after a few months he said he will help me open a bank account which he did 2 separate banks  and he requested to used on as he was having trouble applying and being rejected I didn’t think much of and agreed as he had helped me I felt I owe him that much and I was still left with the other one use not that I had enough money to put number and email on the bank he was using under my name was his so he he access to the whole account fast forward to about six months ago which was about 6-8 months he opened the account , I wanted to go home for my vacation to visit my 6 year old and my mom only to be stopped at the airport but they didn’t tell me why I was banned from travelling and they asked me to go find out at the police station which I did and they said they don’t see anything just travel ban and I stayed like a month worried  until someone who I trained with reached out to me about the same issue but he found out that the guys used his details to open a bank account and was doing forex trading and apparently the bank doubled credits his withdrawal by error to everyone who was trading and they later discovered 5 months into it and claimed their money back so the was using as many bank accounts to trade to receive the visa refund as they called it I got to find out after I visited the bank only be notified I owe equivalent to about 147000 usd 😭😭😭 and I have travel bank and a legal case against my name the guy relocation in November after finishing his contract and I explained to the bank that it wasn’t me but they said all I can do I ask the person who did to pay off which he phone no longer connectes 😭😭 and my salary is only 520 usd where do I start from I have a child and mother plus my own expenses on the same salary I leave in fear that police will arrest me anytime what will become of my child please any Good Samaritan out there am begging you and am scared am desperate nothing is too little am trying by all means I only manage 5000$ from my related who Still want there money back you can contact me for proof that got from the bank after calling them ,thank you my God bless you @blessingpetronella21@gmail.com

my PayPal @Nella68

 

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: Asia

Last Updated: April 2, 2025

Desperate Teachers

My wife and I are teachers.  We have both enjoyed our choice of profession for over thirty years each.  During our careers, we have been very careful with our finances.  When we purchased a house, we had it planned where we could pay it off before retirement (which we did).  When we purchased automobiles, we took turns and paid off a vehicle before purchasing another to avoid having two car payments at one time.  It looked like we were doing everything right.  But when I got ready to retire, trouble found us.  Our home needed a few repairs, so we hired a contractor to oversee the project.  He seemed to be doing a good job at first.  Then, the issues began.  In pouring a new slab for an additional bedroom and bath, he measured incorrectly (3 feet short).  In installing a new roof over the new section, he cut the metal too short which allowed for leaks.  In subcontracting the plumbing, he did not supervise what was being done.  Well, “sewerage” doesn’t run uphill.  There were many other issues which he said would be addressed.  At the completion of the main work, he told us to make a list of problems, and he would be back to fix them.  We believed him because he stayed in constant communication and would come occasionally to fix one item at a time.  But, now he does not answer my calls or texts, and we are left holding the bag. Some of the immediate problems I had to hire someone else to fix before they caused other issues with the house.  Sadly, the minor things, we have had to learn to live with.  My fence is half down—because of the plumbing issues, my yard does not drain properly and holds water like a pond—there is no electricity to my shed anymore, etc.  The list of issues is long.

Little did I know that was only the beginning of our financial woes.  My car that I have had no problem with for 12 years “died.”  When I took it in to diagnose the problem, I was given a list.  The price to repair far exceeded the car’s worth.  While dealing with this problem, my wife was involved in a wreck with her car.  Her car was totaled.  She was in the right according to the witnesses and the deputy sheriff, but the other person’s insurance company is questioning everything.  In the meantime, we need at least one car.

In trying to deal with the house issues, the car issues, and my wife’s health issues, we have maxed out our credit card and gone through our savings.  I have taken on another job to try to help with paying off our debt, but even with that, we are struggling to make ends meet.  With such a great debt, each month is “scary.”  My wife would like to retire, but she doesn’t think she can.  We planned carefully but never thought we would be in this shape.  I also never thought I would get to the point where I would be putting my personal business on the internet and begging for help.  But, we are desperate—If we could just get back to where we have our head above water.  We dream of just being even again, so we don’t leave all this to our son who will soon be in college.  Our debt has grown to $ 258,815.76 as of today.  Any help you can provide will be greatly appreciated.

PayPal.me link:  @Mayberry0813

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: March 30, 2025

Request for Support for Underprivileged Children

Dear Sir/Madam

I hope this message finds you well. My name is Alexander, and I am reaching out to you today with a heartfelt request for support. I am deeply concerned about the welfare of underprivileged children in our community in Africa who face numerous challenges in accessing basic necessities like education, healthcare, and nutrition.

These children often lack the resources and opportunities that many of us take for granted. Their families struggle to provide them with the support they need to thrive, and as a result, these young individuals are at risk of falling behind in their development and future prospects.

I am eager to contribute to making a positive impact on their lives, but I need your help.I believe that together, we can make a significant difference.

Here are some ways in which your support could be invaluable:

  1. Education Support: Providing educational materials, scholarships, or access to educational programs can help these children stay in school and build a brighter future.

  2. Healthcare Access: Ensuring they receive regular health check-ups and have access to medical care when needed is crucial for their well-being.

  3. Nutritional Assistance: Offering meal programs or food assistance can help combat hunger and malnutrition, allowing them to grow and develop healthily.

Your support would not only improve the lives of these children but also inspire hope and resilience within their families and communities.

Thank you for considering this request. I look forward to the possibility of working together to create a more equitable and supportive environment for these deserving children.

Warm regards,

Alexander

email address alexjane50@yahoo.com

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: EU

Last Updated: March 28, 2025

Desperate appeal for help to deal with debt – Sinking fast

This is a second post – my last month’s request didn’t get me any support, instead 2 or 3 reached out over email asking for upfront fees to be paid for donation & asking for personal details. Obviously scams, I ignored these emails. Realized that the original post was very cryptic (purposely so as to avoid inconveniencing everybody with my sob story)  & also that I needed to share of myself for people to know me & to want to help. In today’s times, one cannot be too careful. Hence, waited for a month to get the $20 to repost this, hoping to get some attention & much desperately needed help.
I find myself in a situation where my loan installments far exceed my salary. Dealing with the bank’s collections department is taking a toll. I hope my story below shows that I have done everything in my power to come up on top of the situation. The cycle of ongoing debt, mostly due to medical issues, trying to get on top of the situation through few ventures, facing financial challenges in those & being saddled with medical bills intermittently without any warning contributed to my current situation. In short, my debt kept increasing.
In the spirit of full disclosure, I would like to state that I am just a human being (no saint) who underwent emotional, financial turmoil, never giving up & always trying to get on top of the situation & get a better life for my family & myself. However, I have made errors in judgement. I realize that I am not entitled but seek to reach out to your kindness. Your help will get me out of a sticky situation. 
Always have battled it out. Never thought of giving up or accepting defeat, while trying my best to give back to society – apart from individual assistance given whenever possible, setting up the Haemophilia Foundation of Uganda with help/guidance from Laurie Kelly. This was during a short stint of 9 months in the country. Later when we left, we handed over the foundation in capable hands. Joseph had taken this forward in a very good way with help from Laurie. I hear that he later became a MP in the Ugandan Parliament & the foundation’s work is handled by his sister.
This is very gratifying & I felt a sense of fulfillment, to be one of God’s instruments in getting this done.
Pursuant to the above, I commit that any excess donations received will be shared with others who are in need.
Please find links & screenshots (if allowed by the site) below.
https://haemophiliauganda.blogspot.com/
https://www.hfuganda.org/about-us/story
In an attempt towards sharing myself, here’s my story.
In 2002, we were blessed with a baby boy. This was our second child, the first being my daughter who was delivered naturally & was healthy.
With the immense pleasure that his birth bought with it, I soon realised that it came with challenges & few tests for us.
My wife was hospitalized for a period of 2.5 months following the birth & needed to undergo 3 surgeries.
Within a couple of hours of giving birth via C-section, the doctor advised me that she was bleeding internally & needed to be shifted to a secondary hospital. There, a second surgery was carried out & an emergency hysterectomy was performed because the doctor said that when they opened her up (doc speak), there was a lake of blood in her stomach area & that if they wasted anytime searching for the source of the bleed, we may lose her. The surgeon informed that she needed to be monitored for urine output. If that was low, it would mean that she had developed complications & would need further attention.
Meanwhile, on son’s front, on his second day on this planet, he developed a huge bulge on the right side of his head & needed to be moved to a NICU in a third hospital (paediatric hospital). He was kept ina glass cage with a red or blue light on him. Not a medico but I guess that was UV. He was later discharged a month down the line.
Not without an emotional test – one week after the delivery, I was advised by both the teams of doctors (my wife’s & son’s) to let them pass on. Since I wasn’t (still am not) capable of taking decisions for God, I refused to consent.
Moreover, when they were fighting it out, how could I as a husband & father withdraw. I remember going to the NICU window & silently asking my son what he thought of the doctor’s advice. He flicked a finger & my decision was sealed :D
On the wife’s front – the next day (3rd day after birth), her urine output was below 100 ml in 24 hours & doctors advised us to move her to a tertiary hospital for further care.
Then started our tryst in a multi-speciality hospital’s ICU (where she spend the most time). Her kidney function was already down & dialysis started. Her platelets kept dropping down to dangerous levels (in the range of 8000 if I recollect correctly). I soon learnt that there were 4-5 different blood products – Whole blood, RBC, WBC, Plasma and Cryoprecipitates (these were not in much use back then & needed a MD specialist to advise the doctors to start her on Cryo). She needed to be infused with one of these every 4-6 hours to sustain her platelet count.
She went through a plethora of medical issues – heart, loss of peripheral vision, liver failure (prompting the doctor to advise me to let her pass).
Somewhere during all this, the MD specialist was called on for his opinion & he advised the doctors to immediately start her on cryoprecipitates. Her platelet count started improving after Cryo & we heaved a collective sigh of relief.
However, the challenges were not over.
On the 21st day, she underwent a third surgery to remedy a sudden vaginal bleed.
After 2.5 months in the hospital, we returned back home, she was a physical wreck, me a financial wreck but very grateful that we were together. Slowly settled down, coming to terms & taking stock of the situation.
This was the first time I incurred a huge debt & didn’t realize then that this would become a lifestyle for me.
When my son was 6 months later, we discovered that he had hemophilia. Thinking back, this was the cause for the huge bulge on his head on the day after birth.
This felt like a death blow – somehow we had come to terms & were trying to pay back the loans & trying to get on top of the situation (the intent was very clear). This seemed to be crushing all hopes.
We soon realized that hemophilia was incurable & that my son would need factors for the rest of his life & that the dosage would increase with his weight.
In India, we do have a Hemophilia Foundation who get factors (some fresh but mostly expired). Since the afflicted population was huge, they charge people who can pay for the factor while giving the poor treatment free of cost or at discount.
Thus started the cycle of paying from future salaries for his factors. Moreover, these are expired factors that we were paying through our nose for.
Thus, the cycle of ongoing debt, trying to get on top of the situation through few ventures, facing financial challenges in those & being saddled with medical bills intermittently without any warning. In short, my debt kept increasing.
In 2008, I got to consult for 6-9 months for a company in Uganda. When the proposal came, I searched for support for my son. However, I found that there was no support for PWHs (Person with Hemophilia) in Uganda. Two months prior to departure for Uganda, I started writing to any email address I could lay my hands on. Though nothing concrete came out of these efforts & finding ourselves very close to the departure date, we took a leap of faith & left for Uganda. The first thing to strike was the pristine beauty of the country whilst the stark poverty for most also was evident. Slowly, the need to provide support to my son turned into a burning desire to do something for the PWHs in the country. A month after reaching Kampala, I came across a blog by Laurie Kelly & wrote to her. To our absolute desire, she responded & we started the journey. As we progressed, more good hearts joined. We had to leave the country soon but am happy that the HFU is helping PWHs across Uganda. For a more detailed account of the journey, please visit https://haemophiliauganda.blogspot.com/  & please read all old posts.
Though spiritual my entire life, Bruno Groening decided to allow me into his Bruno Groening Circle of Friends & gave it a deeper meaning & understanding. I remember feeling peace for the first time after everything started.
Now, I am 56 years old & will have to retire in another 4 years, Having spent my life taking care of my sick son’s medical bills, children’s education & going through the emotional roller coaster mentioned above, I find myself close to retirement & drowning in debt. No house of our own yet & having lost family, I am left alone to tackle my debts & life.
I seek help in paying off my debts only, totaling to $35,000, so that I may get on with the task of rebuilding my life. I seek help from kind souls to pay off said debts. I would like to celebrate this life, which is God’s gift & hence request kind souls to help me pay off my debts.
I pray to God to bless everyone & wish all the very best in life!
Request to please send your contributions to – https://www.paypal.me/satishapillai
Warm regards to all!

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Last Updated: March 27, 2025

Retired credit card debt

I retired 4 years ago. I sold the house I had, and bought a house in another city to be close to my family. I had enough money buy the new house and a some money left over. When I was working I always had enough to pay for everything I needed. The problem was now I had half the income and no background in budgeting or money management. Buying what I wanted was an old habit and I found it hard to resist even though I knew things had to change. I did research on money management for advise on ways to change. The one interesting thing I found was consumerism which is what the stores and others lead you into buying things and it becomes like an addiction. You do it to make yourself feel better. I got myself up to 13,000.00 dollars before I got better control of myself. Now my balances are going down, but very slowly. The payments reduce my income which makes it harder and paying them off will now take a long time. So if any kind soul can help me out I would deeply appreciate it.                                                                                                                  paypal.me@stevekelly2202

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Last Updated: March 26, 2025

:)Deposit for Divorce Freedom

I’m a respectful disabled Veteran Separated, Female, Ex Army, Infantry and single mother. Age 55.5 yrs. And, in need of a 10,000.00 deposit, asap, to start with, for a good divorce strong lawyer slash Attorney in Tallahassee, Florida where I live and divorcing. My ex to be has taken my money and hid it. He texted me he hid it. At least 55,000.00 in a secret account and showed me on his iPhone but covered the bank name. He also took over our home illegally. And when he did I was framed but case dropped, based on my evidences. But, I was forced to live in a couple hotels until I could rent a room. And now I lease a place with a roommate for two years.
And I realize I might need more for a Discovery, also. To get back all the money he took of mine. But, at least I can start with 10,000.00. And I’m willing to show you receipts for it all. Thank you so much! For your help. Namaste. Have a good day.

my PayPal contact info
Leah Ramos@sushi203

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: March 25, 2025

Replaced sewer line

About 10 years ago or so I was told I should replace my sewer line as there were breaks and tree roots in the line. I could not afford to at the time. A few months back my line clogged and I snaked it out like I had been doing regularly. The next day it was nearly completely blocked again and had to have a plumber look at it. He said I really needed my sewer line replaced, and they cleared it out and inspected and told me it could be relined as it was cheaper than having it replaced. I opted for that. I figured about 5000 dollars in cost. He quoted me 16000 dollars. I figured I had no choice, and was able to get financing , but with what I could afford it was 206 dollars a month for 15 years, meaning after it’s paid for I would pay around 20000 in interest. I’m also still paying for the electrical panel I had to have replaced in the basement about a year and a half ago. Other work needs to be done on my house but can’t afford it right now. I am hoping some generous souls could help me pay at least some of amount I owe on my sewer line so I could get it paid off quicker and not have to pay such a high amount of interest. Also I’m almost 60 years old, and by the time it’s paid I’ll be 75.

Thank you in advance for any help you can give.

Send anything you can give to:

www.paypal.me/Bruce19650

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: March 22, 2025

I’m at a crossroads in my life. I could use some help.

  1. The title says it all. I’m at a crossroads in my life and making a career change late in life. I’m 39 and my body is broken from 16 years of hard labor in the oilfield. My knees are busted, back is busted, shoulders are busted. You name the joint I have arthritis in it. And I need help to get my debt settled, as well as funding to get the necessary computer for my next career change. As well as help me get married. If you could find it in yiur heart to help I would greatly appreciate it. I’m just stuck at the moment and feeling overwhelmed. Please send what you can to my paypal link.  https://paypal.me/Tankers1985?country.x=US&locale.x=en_US
  2. Really if you could find it in your heart to help I would greatly appreciate it.

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