I find myself in a challenging position, one that’s uncomfortable for me to admit. I’ve always been more at ease lending a hand than asking for assistance. But here I am, grappling with numerous situations, unsure of how to articulate them properly.
Let me start by introducing myself. I’m Tony, a 61-year-old and I live in Northwest Arkansas. I’m a disabled Air Force veteran battling an aggressive form of prostate cancer since 2014. Despite undergoing treatment, the cancer persists, adding to my medical concerns. I hesitate to share these details not out of a desire for pity but rather a desire to be forthright.
Over the years, my circumstances have been less than ideal, but the onset of COVID-19 significantly multiplied them. I found myself relying on credit cards and loans simply to get by. The thought of bankruptcy crossed my mind, but the reality of the fact that I could not afford to file for bankruptcy quickly quashed that option. It’s almost laughable, isn’t it?
Debts from credit cards, loans, car payments, rent, insurance, and everyday expenses have mounted, far surpassing my limited income. Regrettably, I failed to plan adequately for retirement, banking only on my VA disability and upcoming Social Security benefits. It’s a humbling realization to acknowledge this oversight, especially at my age.
Now, faced with a dire need to settle my debts and regain financial stability, I’m reaching out for support. My dental health, deteriorated by cancer treatments, remains unaddressed due to financial constraints. With a credit score in the 400s and dwindling quality of life, I find myself isolated in this struggle.
While the prospect of amassing $30,000 may seem daunting, I’m not expecting one individual to shoulder such a burden. Any contribution, no matter how small, would be a step toward alleviating my predicament. I’m hesitant to share more of my story, feeling like a failure for being unable to navigate this alone.
So here I am, humble yet hopeful, praying for God’s intervention and the kindness of those who might lend a helping hand. God bless you for taking the time to read this.
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