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Financial Hardship Help

Being a single mother especially in today’s era can be extremely overwhelming. If you are one of those mothers who is doing it alone every day you know what I am talking about. It seems like the bills just continue to pile up and never end.

Researchers have said that just in 2015 year ending alone over 80 percent of the households in America that we’re single households we’re in fact ran by a FEMALE head of household which we’re mostly living very poor.

Many people may say well there is government assistance for them to get a grant but it’s hard to find and information regarding that said topic anywhere. So in hopes to help the single mothers out in the world this article will give you some insight on the different assistance topics we can cover including where and how to get a grant or scholarship. Also, you will read and see how simple it is to receive help with income expenses and medical insurance.

Are there really grants for a single mother?

Of course they do but these grants are not only for single mothers. However, that doesn’t mean there isn’t help for a mother to receive one. I know its mind boggling that the government hasn’t had any means created for money for a single mother that is actually in the shape of a grant. One thing the government does for a single mother is they assist them through a group or have set sponsors through a company, and sometimes they are covered by the actual income assistance completely.

Below are a few websites that will redirect you to free items that you can get just for registering on the website.

Low Income Assistance for Single Mothers / Government Grants

As I said there is not an official grant for a single mother available that is FEDERAL. However a single mother can go through federal programs and register and sign up for them. Those kinds of programs are usually for households with low income. Which means you would also qualify for Welfare. No matter what the case these are programs to help those who make below the limit and live poorly.

Below are different types of assistance based in the United States.

TANF – TEMPORARY ASSISTANCE FOR NEEDY FAMILIES

TANF is a crucial for many low income families located within the US.

With TANF you receive a small amount of cash every month that you can use toward your food, rent, and other necessities. However you only receive TANF for up to 60 month limit.

If you are a single mother and you have children in your home who are less than 19 years old you are eligible for TANF.

SNAP – SUPPLEMENTAL NUTRITION ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

Food-stamps or SNAP as other people may refer to is financial help for meals. You can receive money every month to place food on the table if you are on low or no income.

For most of Americans living in poverty SNAP is potentially the only assistance they can get.

Research has shown that in 2015 SNAP benefits have helped at least 45 million Americans. Most of the ones who receive the stamps are under are up to the age of 18.

When you go to use your benefits for SNAP you have your own personal debit card to ring your groceries up with at the register. If you are interested in trying to get on with SNAP benefits all you have to do is fill and application out and send it in or take it into a local office that deals with SNAP benefits.

NSLP – NATIONAL SCHOOL LUNCH PROGRAM

This is a program that gives free (or discounted) food to students whose parent’s income is bellow a poverty level. The income needs to be at least between 130-185 percent bellow the poverty line.

Most the time if a person is a receiver of SNAP benefits their children will be accepted into this program for free lunches. But, that doesn’t mean if you don’t have or receive SNAP that your children are disqualified.

You need to contact your child’s school to apply.

TEFAP – THE EMERGENCY FOOD ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

Food for the American families who are in the poverty range not matter what the age.

If you have received food stamps before or any other program assisting you and helping you such as the ones in this article you could also be approved for this program.

You will need to contact your State distribution agency to learn more about the Emergency food assistance program.

Local Food Banks

A food bank doesn’t exactly fit into the whole “Grant” program area as it is actually a location in your town where you can get food if you are in need.

Do not allow you or your family to go without food. If you ever reach that trouble you can call 211 and ask them where the nearest food bank is based on your location.

More then 200 food banks exist with the feeding america foundation and they supply enough food to feed over 40 million people.

WIC – WOMEN, INFANTS AND CHILDREN PROGRAM

This program includes a package deal where you as a mother are able to receive healthy foods, whether you are pregnant or a new mother, and also to children who are 5 or under.

WIC is a program that is temporary and only used for a short amount of time – usually between 6 to 12 months.

EARLY HEAD START / HEAD START

These programs are for children up to 5 years old.

You can receive free child’s medical and dental care along with their schooling, and dietary needs.

Find your closes headstart office on their website or call at 1-866-763-6481.

Insurance for unemployment

This is a special program which will pay you weekly if you are unemployed and it had nothing to do with you for you being fired or let go. You will only be able to receive this benefit for maximum 26 weeks. Different states have different benefit rules. But most states will average out at about 45% of whatever the average weekly income is.

Single mothers who are out of a job temporarily can find solace with these benefits and can help make the burden less for themselves because this pay will restore what you have lost from losing your work.

If you want to try and get this started and opened for you, you will have to find your local unemployment office or apply on the website for this specific program. Most states will allow you to also try to sign up for this over the phone.

Section 8 housing

Section 8 is basically a program that helps a family be able to pay for their housing. If approved you will receive a voucher of up to 70 percent of your bills (utilities and rent). You are expected to pay the other 30 percent.

If you want to apply and feel you qualify you can get in touch with your local office involved with public housing, the HUD office.

CCAP – CHILD CARE ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

This is a benefit for families who can’t afford to place their children in daycare while working.

You still have to pay a certain percentage but it isn’t a big lump of money. The less you earn, the less you need to contribute.

EITC – Earned Income Tax Credit

It is a tax benefit for people with low income. You could potentially get as much as $6,000.

If you normally have a tax rate of $1050 but you are allowed $5550 then you get refund of $4500.

There is a Children’s Tax Credit too for as much as $1,000 for EACH child.

LIHEAP – LOW INCOME HOME ENERGY ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

LIHEAP is a program that is a one time help to help pay for heating / cooling expenses.

Most of the time this is for the disabled or families with children or disabled person in the home.

If you need any extra information regarding this topic you can get in touch through the number 1-866-674-6327 or a local number for your local LIHEAP office.

WAP – WEATHERIZATION ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

Weatherization assistance program lowers energy bills for families in need. Usually the elderly and families involving children are accepted and put to the top of the list before all.

Your monthly income need to be below 200 percent poverty level.

To apply, find a local WAP center.

Medicaid

Medicaid is help with medical expenses. If you do not have health insurance this gives you certain benefits as long as your income restriction meets the level it should.

A lot of single mothers may meet the standards to be recipients of Medicaid even if you are unemployed.

Every state has different rules about Medicaid plans. You can find out exact requirements on this website.

Together with ObamaCare it ensures that even single mothers who didn’t receive any health benefits will now be able to have coverage.

CHIP – CHILDREN HEALTH INSURANCE

CHIP gives children without health insurance a chance to have health benefits all the way up until they are nineteen. It is for families whose income is too high to receive Medicaid benefits.

It provides every type of benefit you can think of — dental, eye exams, and even annual doctor’s exams.

Every state has its own rules. If you would like to learn a little more about this specific benefit you can call 1-877 Kids now (1-877-543-7669)

Federal Pell Grants

Aid program for students of up to $5,815 for those in need to be able to set foot into college.

This is the best opportunity for a mother who is single to finally be able to finish her schooling and finally continue in the workforce. The money is completely free of charge with no interest rates or paybacks ever.

You need to fill out an application and submit it for a pell grant and have it turned in on or before June 30th of every year.

Federal Supplemental Education Opportunity Grant

Similar to the Pell Grant. If you already have had pell grants and you are at the top of the charts in need you will be first on the list to receive this. Depending on a persons needs that are wrapped in with their financial struggle will ultimately decide who will receive anywhere between $100 too $4,000 annually.

Charities

Charities can be a way to seek help for you and your children whether you are in need of food or clothing or even housing. A lot of charities around the world actually have their own food banks that they run and they will give you bags of free food.

If you go to salvation army a lot of the times they will let you sleep there if you have no where else to go especially if it is a result of violence.

Churches

Most churches will offer you food and clothes or maybe even a place to stay if you have been recently kicked out by the one you are living with.

To find information on this you should look through your phone books local listing or yellow page. You can also research online and see what churches are available to your area and call them and ask what services they do offer.

Loans

Single moms can receive loans usually relatively quickly but I would not recommended that at all. You could potentially go into debt and not be able to rise back from that.

Sometimes you have no choice because you have to fix your broken car or maybe pay for utilities and food and need the help right then. But you have to be able to pay that loan realistically quick.

Pay attention to your credit because if you try to get a loan through a bank or anyone they will check your credit score and see if it is even available to be able to place a loan out to you. If it is a loan that is for payday loans or credit card advances they will not run a check but you will end up paying more after fees and costs.

Line of Credit

If your credit is decent some people ask a bank for a loan personally. Most of the time this is a better idea then asking for a payday loan because if you need quick money with lower rates of interest this is it.

Personal Loans

On a personal loan interest is lower dramatically but you have to pay in instalments. It doesn’t really fit criteria for an emergency. Normally if you just tell them you do not have any more funds and that is why you need this they will turn you away. If your credit is poor you will not be able to even touch this offer.

Short term (payday) loans

This is a very popular type of loan. You may know it by the term “Cash advance.” The interest runs really high on these and it is a loan that is only for a small time frame.

This is a loan that would more then likely be considered if a problem arises and you needed to repair your car or had a disastrous dental emergency. You have to know for sure you will be able to give every penny back.

If you do not pay this type of loan back you could be in loads of trouble financially.

Credit card cash advance

Do you own a credit card? If so you will be able to get money from a bank as easy as 1, 2, 3. This is not a method that is highly praised though because as soon as you start taking money out of the bank the interest keeps rising and you also are charged for using and pulling out of the bank a fee. This is potentially the easier options if you do need cash asap but you have to pay it back and make sure you absolutely can.

When it is all said and done grants will not solve your money issues within your home if that is what you expect. To get a grant is definitely not easy it isn’t a walk in the park by any means.

If you are looking to get a more stable source of financially being stable you should probably look in areas around you or find a women shelter until you can get back up on your feet.

If you think you have all the time in the world you can apply for other areas of assistance such as Food stamps, HUD, and etc. They do take a lot of time and effort for someone to get back with you and let you know if you have been accepted and enrolled. Try finding a part time working job as a way to financially start becoming stable again.

The moral of this is you can not expect a grant to fall into your hands without effort and take all your worries away. They are only here too do one thing and that doesn’t usually fix anything with your financial setting.

This is all on you and what you decide, no one else can decide for you.

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Corona kicking my Ass

So….. I move from Indiana to Florida at the end of Jan. I Packed up what I could and my kids and our Alaskan Malamute and drove down here in a 4 Dr Ford fusion. Sold what I could and put the rest away at a local storage near my mom. I left everything and everyone I knew. I was following a dream finally and getting out of the tainted small town I lived in. The drive here was comparable to the national lampoons movies with mishaps and unexpected hotel stays and almost flying off the exit ramp when couldn’t see due to rain. ughhh it was a trip. I finally get here and my house was no longer available so the kids and I had to stay in hotels, which meant more money and lots of it. Also factor in two teenage attitudes and a mom about to justifiably lose her shit daily from stress.  That went on for 4 weeks until I finally found a home. I had found a job and was comfortable again financially. Until, Covid showed up! I ended up getting laid off, then I was notified few days ago they won’t be opening back up. I’m thinking ohh golly geeze man lol ..another road block. .The car is making a weird noise and seems to be taking in more fluids then I am. LOL. My bills are starting to go up just like the most of us.  Its overwhelming to say the least. I was told about this site and personally I feel out of my comfort zone by telling my business, but if it helps, then i can swallow my pride for once. Thank You……Nessa

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Homeless on the street until June 1

My daughter and I have been staying with a friend but she lost her job and had to move so we are now on the street. I have applied for help with housing but there is a waiting list. I will be able to get some help on the 1st of June 2020 and I am just trying to get us out of the weather and off of the street until then. This is one of the hardest things I have been through in my life. My sister was murdered in August 2018 and since then I have lost everything. It seemed to be one fall after another. I was laid off from my job, my car insurance fell behind, my driver’s license was suspended, I was working when I was needed and able to stay with a friend. Then Covid 19 came. My daughter is out of school and we lost our place to live. This has been the hardest 2 years for me. I am applying for help everywhere I can but with so many people struggling and out of work it’s hard to find help. I just want to know my daughter is safe and out of the elements and I want her to have somewhere comfortable to lay her head at night. I am grateful for all help I can get and I will pay it forward as soon as I am able. I pray everyday and I know I am not in control, God is, and he will provide a way for us. It has always been hard for me to ask for help, but I am swallowing my pride now and begging you to please help a struggling single momma in need of a hand up, not a hand out. In this world today it seems more people try to push you down then those who try to help you up when you have fallen. I have fallen and I am am asking you to please just help me be able to stand, until my help comes in June and I am able to stand back up on my own. This life is hard and so many things seem to be against us now more then they are there to help us. I live in Florida and it is hot out here. It is supposed to rain today and this evening May 20,2020. Please help me get out of this weather, even if it is just for tonight, I am forever grateful to you for reading my story, I am forever grateful for any blessings I receive. I will keep praying, keep looking forward, and continue to try to stand when I feel I can’t. I am turning to you all, I will continue to apply for resources as well and if I am able to find any other help I will remove this post so that someone else who needs help can get it. As of right now 11:09 am Wednesday May 20,2020 I am on the street with no resources. Will update or remove post if something changes. Thank you for reading this and if you are able to help Thank you for any and all help. 1$ for a water is greatly appreciated. Have a blessed day and stay safe!

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Just lost my job! Please help me pay my bills

Hello everyone! I’m writing this to ask for help, I have never done this before so it is taking me some courage to write this. I am a single mom and  I just got fired from my full time job for absolutely no reason, my boss was on drugs and making sexual comments to girls under 18, I did not agree with any of this and I told him so he fired me 😟 and right now due to covid 19 I am having a hard time finding a new job. So I am writing this in hopes that somebody could please help me out get caught up with my bills. Anything will help and I greatly appreciate any help. Thank you for taking the time to read. Have a good day

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Single Mother, Job Program Reaching End

Hi, I am a soon to be 41 year old single mother of one (boy). I don’t receive child support, financial assistance, food stamps, and I don’t live on section 8. My income is me and my sons only financial support. My work is servicing stores with products. I’ve been employed with the company for a little over 4 years now. I was getting a weekly paycheck and a mileage reimbursements every month.  My income has drastically changed.

I haven’t worked since March 22, 2020 because of the pandemic. My son no longer has a babysitter. My mother who is 74 and retired was watching him for me but because of the pandemic, she said she can’t watch him until this is over…who knows when this will be over?

I bought my house 3 years ago, I have a car payment, I have a mortgage, I have school loans, and I have 3 previous loans that I have to pay on amongst everything else. My job is still paying me 1/3 of my weekly pay but I no longer receive my mileage reimbursements. My mileage reimbursements went directly to my mortgage account. I no longer have any money going into my mortgage account. I haven’t paid April nor May mortgage & car payment because I don’t want to be completely broke. When I received my stimulus money, I paid March Mortgage & March car payment…I still have a little left over after also buying a lot of food and essential items for my home so me and my son wouldn’t have to keep going in stores. My car insurance and my 3 loans come out of my main banking account automatically. Those 4 accounts takes most of my money.

I have no idea when I will be able to return to work because I have no one to watch my son. The program I’m on through my job for not having child care only last for 3 months…It will end soon. I was thinking about doing the unemployment  program but so many are complaining about the wait and I also read something about them running out of unemployment money. I have no idea what I’m going to do when this program ends. I’ve worked so hard through these years to be able to purchase a home and to have a dependable vehicle and it seems like this pandemic is just making it all slip through my fingers. I’m having trouble sleeping & my anxiety is through the roof. I honestly need help.

I tried to upload a picture of bills but the website says the pictures are too big. I don’t know how to make them smaller and in all honesty, how I’m feeling, I don’t feel like trying to figure it out. Here is a list of my financial responsibilities that I need help with. I don’t expect to get help with all of them, If so, I would be so thankful but just being able to get one bill paid is way more than I am hoping for. Thank you for reading my plea for help and thank you even more if you help me financially catch up.

-Tina

1. Mortgage $455.00 (April)

2. Mortgage $455.00 (May)

3. Car Payment $255.00 (April)

4. Car Payment $255.00 (May)

5. Water bill $190.00

6. Dpl bill $250

Thank you again.

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Just need a start….

    This is not something I would normally do but I am in need of a little bit of cash because of the circumstances I am currently in.

My name is Marissa, I’m a single mom of 3 beautiful children. My husband left us because I would not allow the kids around him while he was intoxicated. Also because I lost my job. He continued to stay because I was the only parent that was employed and that was having money coming in that took care of the family. Due to Covid-19 I was currently laid off because I was not an essential worker. Without a job I am having trouble paying bills and with the groceries. As soon as the pandemic crisis is over I’m going to for sure be looking for a new job to provide for my family. At the moment I need help though and I’m needing just about $400 just for groceries for my children. I want to be able to provide for them but since I am not able to do so at the moment I need a start, a little boost. As soon as this crisis and everything is over I am going to be on my feet again. Without my husband I am now struggling at the moment but I am willing to do whatever I can to support and care for my family. Yes, he was an alcoholic and did not seem to care much about his family. So now without him weighing me down it helps more. I do not have any family to help me either. I am pretty much on my own with no husband or family here to help. It is just me and my 3 wonderful kids. I have a 10 month old daughter and a 9 year old son and also a 13 year old son. They are the light of my life. As you know, my daughter needs diapers and formula because I, as a woman, can not provide breast milk to her. The reasoning being because I have disrupted lactation. It is where I have a low supply of milk so I am not capable of breastfeeding my daughter. My other 2 kids just eat a large extent of food. I am in the process of cutting them down on some of it so groceries last longer than they normally do. But they are growing boys and they tend to each big proportions of food. I am just in need of cash for groceries and it would be a huge help for my family.

 

My PayPal link:

paypal.me/MarisaHatch

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Need help starting a side gig to support my family.

Hello, my name is Allayna. I am a single mother of 2 wonderful boys. They are 9 and 3. I live in a small town of about 6,000 people. I am asking for help because I have exhausted all of my options and this is my last resort. I’m really on my own, as I don’t have family or friends that are able to help us out when I’m in a bind. It makes me so sad to even type this out right now, as I’ve never asked for help from anyone. I’ve always taken pride in struggling. This is hard.

I traveled for work, about 1hr. and 45 min. away from home. I was able to support my 2 boys and myself with my career. I lost that job back in December when someone hit my car and totaled it. I was unable to travel to work because I don’t have the best credit to get another one. I spent all of my tax money on another car, because that was the only way. I was jobless for about a month and I don’t get help from the state. So, that took quite a toll on my little family. I took a job as a local waitress/bartender (still my current job) because that was the last option after looking for a job for a month and no luck.

Now I am trying to play catch up after no income for a month. No income for a month kills a person like me who has no savings to fall back on. My house payment is 2 months behind ($1200) and my utility bills range anywhere from $500 to $900 depending on the month. I didn’t receive any of my stimulus check because of debts I owed to the state. (Student loans SUCK) I’m only about $7,000 in debt, which isn’t much compared to others, but for me… I will spend a lifetime trying to pay things off.

I really don’t want to ask for money to “pay my bills” because I really want to put in the work to feel like I deserve the help. I am an artist, a creative person. I paint on canvas and I try to sell my work. Living in a small town, there’s not a lot you can do to sell. I also work with resin casting and my plan is to start a resin casting business online. I have done the research and I need about $3,500 to get started. I don’t have that money laying around to drop on supplies and get going. I can’t be approved for a personal loan because my credit is not the best. I have tried every option I can think of and I have gotten nowhere fast.

I don’t need much, I just need help jump starting my side gig so I can support my boys. I have had a huge punch to the gut from life and I just want to get back on top and stay on top. My boys deserve the world and it breaks me when I can’t give it to them. I should be able to buy them clothes when they need it and fill the fridge when they are hungry, and here lately, it’s been very hard to do.

If you find the kindness in your heart to help me out, please know that I appreciate it more than words can explain. Being a single mother is hard, especially when I have plans and dreams to not only give my boys a better life, but a better life for myself as well. If you do find the kindness in your heart to help us out, please leave your information and I will pay you back as soon as I have the money to do so.

My paypal address is my email:

theblazedpainter@gmail.com

Thank you for listening to my story, and may you be forever blessed. Because if you are here helping people who need it, you’re an amazing person in my book. Much love!

 

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I come to you all today with love and light in my heart and faith that this being my last resort will see me through.

I am a single mommy of 3 beautiful children, I am also disabled, so we are living on a fixed income of $780 a month. I receive NO child support, I receive no cash allowances of any kind whatsoever, the $780 is ALL the monies we have every month, I do receive EBT and Medicaid for insurance for myself and children but they do not receive anything other than what’s mentioned above, so my ask would be very beneficial to not only myself as this hobby helps settle me and easy my mind and gives me and the children something to do together, but its beneficial to the children as it will help me be able to supply more than just their NEEDS I can give them some of their WANTS.

Several years back, I found myself drowning in the fascination of essential oils and found that I had a knack for blending, and stumbled upon the fun hobby of making facial mask, facial scrubs and body scrubs along with essential oil blends for perfumes, and moisturizers and toners as well!!. All organic, all natural, no additives, no preservatives, AND IM GOOD AT IT AND I LOVE IT!! But with living on a fixed income I could never get enough funding to get a small little side thing going, I could generate enough money monthly with this hobby to get us by comfortable, if I just had enough funds to get myself the supplies I need, such as jars, bulk of essential oils, organic Clay’s, salts, dry herbs and flowers Etc. Etc.

So i humbly come to you all today with just a small ask, and was hoping there was someone out there that could help fund this mommy for her project, once I start making these things the profit that comes from them we can get by on AND I would be able to restock as needed and when needed.

I’m not asking for 1000’s of dollars. Honestly it would only cost me right at $387.56 to get bulk supplies to cover making my items for the next 3 months long enough that I can save the money I get from every sale and at the end put into restock and also take care of our basic needs.

If someone could find it in their heart to help i would forever be grateful and indebted to your kindness and i would not mind shipping you some of my work once I’m able to gather all the necessities to get started. If you are able to help at all below is my PayPal account information.

Thank you and God bless you from the bottom

https://www.paypal.me/Cmc87

 

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Help our family pay for food

Greetings everyone.

I’m a 22 year old student from Honduras currently living with my mom, two siblings (20 and 12 years old), grandparents and an 11 year old cousin.

My mother has always been my hero, she’s been a single mother for the past 13 years after our father moved out of our lives, she has kept an exhausting full-time job since then, taking jobs on the side and still somehow managing to have time for her family. With my grandparents in retirement and my sister and me being unemployed students, my mom is the only financial support of a family of seven.

With the current situation the world is facing, she has been one of the lucky ones whose job allows her to work from home in this situation. It was all good until last month. She is a secretary at a public school, which means the government pays her, and sadly our government is incredibly corrupt. Lately it has become more and more evident how they are taking advantage of these hard times, approving budget after budget for medical supplies and relief for the affected only to pocket most of that money for themselves and continuing that cycle. This has affected so many families in so many ways, and right now mine is one of those families.

At this moment, most public workers are not getting paid. Teachers, doctors, law enforcement, etc. they haven’t been paid despite still doing their job. We’ve asked the authorities about this issue several times and their response is the same: “there’s no money to pay employees right now”. They don’t give a reason, they don’t give a date when payment could be available, they just say no and still expect people to keep working. So at the moment my mom is working from home in order to not lose her job, but she’s not getting paid. We’ve received no help from the so called relief packages the government claims to be giving either.

With our family’s limited budget it’s always just enough to make it to the next month, and now we’ve reached a low point. At the moment we have about 10Lps. in our power, which is less than $1, and have ran out of food, gas and are close to running out of drinking water as well as my mom’s high blood pressure medication and my anxiety medication, which are both quite expensive since we don’t have anything like health insurance.

I honestly feel quite ashamed for doing this, because I know there are so many people facing far worse difficulties at these times all around the world. But I’m desperate at this point.

If it’s in your heart to help us out of this situation, we greatly appreciate your kindness.

Thank you, and have a good day or night.

 

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Homeless Mother & 2 yr old little girl

SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME IM SCREAMING THIS AND NOT A SINGLE PERSON WILL EVEN LOOK MY WAY! I’m losing faith!!! 😭😭😭😭

My daughter and I are living in a hotel after having to call 911 on her father for him keeping us held up in our home for 12 hours after beating me (yes I fought back finally escaping and calling for help) but I have ZERO family and I’m not working right now due to corona. I can prove ALL that I say with black and white documentation. I honestly don’t know where to turn or what to do Bc I seriously have 1.61 to my name. I’ve helped ALOT of ppl over the years so I’ve been calling in favors to help me pay for the room. He did something to my 2015 expedition to where it no longer runs thinking I wouldn’t leave if I didn’t have a vehicle. I’m out of favors to pay for another night and no vehicle to even get anywhere. We are in New Orleans where the virus is soooo bad and I’m TERRIFIED of not having anywhere to go with her. I need enough to get stable with her so I can fight him in court seeing as how he’s already making threats to take her Bc he comes from plenty of money and resources and he knows I don’t. I’ve worked for everything I’ve ever had. I’ve never swallowed my pride and asked complete strangers but from a scared momma, PLSSSS help me.

PLEASE. Cash App: $Hottmess88 PayPal: ashleyriccardi1@gmail.com   This is no scam, it’s all 100% real and I’ve NEVER been in a situation where I was lost and had no where to turn. If it was just me, I wouldn’t ask in a million years, but it’s my little one that I can’t let do without nor can I allow someone to take her from me, She’s my reason for breathing… I would be more than happy to answer any questions or send any proof I have. 

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HELP with $387.56 for start of at home business

I come to you all today with love and light in my heart and faith that this being my last resort will see me through.

I am a single mommy of 3 beautiful children, I am also disabled, so we are living on a fixed income of $780 a month. I receive NO child support, I receive no cash allowances of any kind whatsoever, the $780 is ALL the monies we have every month, I do receive EBT and Medicaid for insurance for myself and children but they do not receive anything other than what’s mentioned above, so my ask would be very beneficial to not only myself as this hobby helps settle me and easy my mind and gives me and the children something to do together, but its beneficial to the children as it will help me be able to supply more than just their NEEDS I can give them some of their WANTS.

Several years back, I found myself drowning in the fascination of essential oils and found that I had a knack for blending, and stumbled upon the fun hobby of making facial mask, facial scrubs and body scrubs along with essential oil blends for perfumes, and moisturizers and toners as well!!. All organic, all natural, no additives, no preservatives, AND IM GOOD AT IT AND I LOVE IT!! But with living on a fixed income I could never get enough funding to get a small little side thing going, I could generate enough money monthly with this hobby to get us by comfortable, if I just had enough funds to get myself the supplies I need, such as jars, bulk of essential oils, organic Clay’s, salts, dry herbs and flowers Etc. Etc.

So i humbly come to you all today with just a small ask, and was hoping there was someone out there that could help fund this mommy for her project, once I start making these things the profit that comes from them we can get by on AND I would be able to restock as needed and when needed.

I’m not asking for 1000’s of dollars. Honestly it would only cost me right at $387.56 to get bulk supplies to cover making my items for the next 3 months long enough that I can save the money I get from every sale and at the end put into restock and also take care of our basic needs.

If someone could find it in their heart to help i would forever be grateful and indebted to your kindness and i would not mind shipping you some of my work once I’m able to gather all the necessities to get started. If you are able to help at all below is my PayPal account information.

Thank you and God bless you from the bottom of our 💗hearts💗

https://www.paypal.me/Cmc8

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Rebuilding A Life For My Children

Hello,

Thank you for taking the time to read this, and for your altruism in being a part of this site. I am a single mother of two children, aged 1 and 3. I stayed in an abusive, manipulative, deceitful relationship because I was always told “marriage is hard” and did not want my children to grow up in a broken home like I did. My ex is an Active Duty military member, and we spent our entire marriage overseas, isolated from family. He controlled the finances, sold a vehicle I had applied for a loan to buy for his own profit, cheated on me throughout the relationship, and always managed to convince me he had a genuine problem and wanted to change for the kids and I. Before asking for a divorce and starting the process to be sent back to my hometown from Germany, I was forced to give my life savings to him to pay off his government travel card (he had used the allocated refund given to him to buy car parts and hobby items, and servicemembers can be kicked out if they are irresponsible with government funds). I had no money to my name. Due to moving twice overseas and starting a family, I had not had a consistent paycheck for several years- although if I had, it would have been taken to fund whatever he deemed important. In June of 2019, I returned to my hometown with my two children and everything I could pack in a few suitcases. The rest of our belongings were shipped to me, and I am now renting a storage space. The kids and I live at my mother’s house in my old bedroom. The three of us share a twin XL bed, and spend most of our time in the small room. I found a good job, but during my marriage, I was forced to take out unneeded loans in my name to make up for my ex’s own poor spending so that I could make sure bills were paid and food was on the table. As a military spouse, you lose the rights to your vehicles, any reports made against abuse directly impact your spouse’s employment, and reports are with military police, so they do not carry on into civilian life. Everything his command knew to be true about my situation was swept under the rug- including his eventual diagnosis as having antisocial personality disorder. I have worked really hard to pay down debt and get back on my feet, but I’m not gaining much financial freedom to be able to put my paychecks toward a space of our own. Right now, the quarantine is saving me daycare costs, which are roughly $1500/month, but once things return to normal, if my job brings me back from furlough, I won’t have enough to leave this bedroom and give my kids a better life. They are happier than ever, and I know I did the right thing leaving, but losing housing and the significant benefits the military provides leaves me losing hope I’ll ever be able to find a place to call home. I have an extreme amount of debt. I have been able to pay off about $10k since I moved home, but I have student loans from earning my associate’s degree, a car loan to pay off for a car that was sold out from under me, and personal loans that I used to pay bills and cover expenses- especially when I first moved back. If you’ve read this far, I appreciate you so much. I have learned so much from this experience, and am eager to get my family back on the right path. I have always been determined and a hard worker. I will find a way to make it, but a blessing of help would be so appreciated.

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Single mom out of work due to virus

Hello my name is Jennifer I am asking for help with any donations to be able to provide for my children right now. I am currently out of work due to the Virus Pandemic, I am a bartender and I make cash so I am unable to collect any unemployment at the moment I have 5 beautiful children my youngest just turned 6months, 3yrs, 8yrs, 9yrs, and 13yrs, I need help with stuff like formula, toilet paper, food, basic household items I am drowning here I’ve been off work for almost 2 months now I hate asking anyone for help but didnt know what else to do. Any help at all is appreciated thank you my PayPal link is. Paypal.me/JRayburn223

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Annabelle is a fighter, help her to finish her law degree and she will help vulnerable people like her

Annabelle met her second husband 5 years later after she left her first ​husband. At that moment she experienced an unsuccessful business and raised two young children without anyone’s help. Annabelle’s family helped her to pay off her debts and Annabelle’s mother bought a small apartment for her and her two young children.

The second husband was a chief financial officer in a state government organization when they met.

Annabelle originally came from Asia, speak limited English. Annabelle was running an international education business from 2006, unfortunately, the Australian government dramatically changed its immigration regulations and policies in 2019, and Annabelle made the wrong decision to expand the business before it. Thus her business was failed.

When the man realized Annabelle does not need to pay any mortgage for the apartment, he immediately proposed and begged to move into her apartment. Then Annabelle married him in one year even the man had bad health conditions and lost his job. Annabelle looked after him and family until he recovered. And requested her mother to him $46,000 to pay off his mortgage.

Soon after that, he decided to buy a cafe business. During the time of running the cafe, the man controlled all the financial matters, Annabelle had not got any payment from him but worked in the cafe 7 days a week. What she got were only staff meals.

The man forced Annabelle to sign a document without any legal advice, even did not give her time to read, ended up that is a loan agreement which said Annabelle owes the man $290,000 AUD. Then he forged Annabelle’s signatures to transfer the cafe’s directorship under Annabelle’s name.

In two months time of the above, the man stopped showing up at the cafe, except every afternoon came to the cafe to collect all the money and do the accounting jobs, the excuse he gave was he did not feel well.

One afternoon Annabelle requested to have a look the bank statements for the period without the man working there, she realized the man took about $5000 out from the business. The man said that was 12% p.a interests of the $290,000 loan!

Annabelle suddenly waked up, they had a horrible argument. Obviously, they separated. And the business was shut down. Immediately the man started the litigation asking Annabelle to give him $500,000 the amount Annabelle sold the apartment, which her mother bought for her.

Since Annabelle showed the court all the bank statements which show the money belongs to Annabelle’s mother. The man afraid of the judge would not favour him, he started the litigation to sue the landlord since the landlord has been chasing the rent (even there was no any lease agreement and the lease term was already expired). The man and the landlord made an under table deed, without my involvement and consent, that the man agreed to pay the landlord $180,000 from the $500,000 (as he called that is the matrimony assets pool).

As my mother is 82 years old, doesn’t speak English, all her saving is that fund she gave me. That fund has been frozen from the beginning of the litigation, and my mother was ordered as the second respondent. Annabelle and her mother already spent more than $300,000 for the litigation fees.

This legal proceeding has been more than 4 and a half years, the said final hearing has been attended twice, unfortunately, it still has not done yet. The judge ordered to have the part-hearing proceeding in August this year, which would be two days hearing. God, cross fingers, wish me the proceeding could be finished.

I used all the $250,000, which borrowed from my 5 friends, for the legal costs. I appreciate my friends so gratefully. However, my mother and my solicitors keep sending tax invoices for the August hearing retainers.

Annabelle has started her Bachelor of Law/ Bachelor of business study at Victory university from January 2017. This is a five years course, it could be finished at the end of this year, which means I can finish my study within 4 years.

It is petty to have a full time job instead of finishing my law degree. I rather to be a pro bono lawyer to help up the vulnerable single mothers like me. Yes, I promise I will be.

I so much need $50,000 to fight for my case.

My Paypal link: PayPal.Me/annabelleyixiao

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Maybe I Should Write a Book

There’s quite a story to be told. However, before I begin to ramble my goal is to be reunited with my 6 year old daughter.

Post partum depression hit hard considering I’ve suffered from OCD since I was a child and lets face it, I was in the relationship more than the father of my child was. Not knowing how to help he shut me out so I slept for about 12-14 hours everyday for almost a year before I got some help. After that it took me until 2018 and him celebrating my birthday without me with my so called best friend to leave him. Sadly, six months later Christmas came and the holidays made me crave my little family. Yes, this created nothing but problems for us. It didn’t help my dad was in a nearly fatal car accident and was greeted at the hospital by his wife asking for a divorce. Now he was an alcoholic growing up which at times would bring out his anger and it would get the best of him. My mother chose guy after guy so i moved out at 16. Therefore, it felt so good to have him need me but my heart couldn’t be cruel. I feel he felt guilty about the way he was growing up so he didn’t want to tell me he wanted to try to go home causing him to overdose in my bathroom 4th of July weekend. My brother called an ambulance who brought cops. They got him no help and just threw him in jail.

Meanwhile, we lived in the house we rented for 5 years. EACH winter, for 5 years, the boiler went down which also heated our water, was down for about a week and a half total. This caused us higher electric bills, days without showers ect. The judge ruled in my landlords favor after I alone fought them for raising rent without making repairs. Even though i studied my rights and know i am owed money since i didnt go to law school i lost.

This caused me to be homeless and all im asking is $400 to stay in the cabin i was offered till the end of the month. I have a delivery job however the motor just blew and im praying the stimulus check can help me get a car to continue working.

Please help me reunite with my baby.
https://www.paypal.me/sweetestpie