Financial Hardship Help
Researchers have said that just in 2015 year ending alone over 80 percent of the households in America that we’re single households we’re in fact ran by a FEMALE head of household which we’re mostly living very poor.
Many people may say well there is government assistance for them to get a grant but it’s hard to find and information regarding that said topic anywhere. So in hopes to help the single mothers out in the world this article will give you some insight on the different assistance topics we can cover including where and how to get a grant or scholarship. Also, you will read and see how simple it is to receive help with income expenses and medical insurance.
Of course they do but these grants are not only for single mothers. However, that doesn’t mean there isn’t help for a mother to receive one. I know its mind boggling that the government hasn’t had any means created for money for a single mother that is actually in the shape of a grant. One thing the government does for a single mother is they assist them through a group or have set sponsors through a company, and sometimes they are covered by the actual income assistance completely.
Below are a few websites that will redirect you to free items that you can get just for registering on the website.
As I said there is not an official grant for a single mother available that is FEDERAL. However a single mother can go through federal programs and register and sign up for them. Those kinds of programs are usually for households with low income. Which means you would also qualify for Welfare. No matter what the case these are programs to help those who make below the limit and live poorly.
Below are different types of assistance based in the United States.
TANF is a crucial for many low income families located within the US.
With TANF you receive a small amount of cash every month that you can use toward your food, rent, and other necessities. However you only receive TANF for up to 60 month limit.
If you are a single mother and you have children in your home who are less than 19 years old you are eligible for TANF.
Food-stamps or SNAP as other people may refer to is financial help for meals. You can receive money every month to place food on the table if you are on low or no income.
For most of Americans living in poverty SNAP is potentially the only assistance they can get.
Research has shown that in 2015 SNAP benefits have helped at least 45 million Americans. Most of the ones who receive the stamps are under are up to the age of 18.
When you go to use your benefits for SNAP you have your own personal debit card to ring your groceries up with at the register. If you are interested in trying to get on with SNAP benefits all you have to do is fill and application out and send it in or take it into a local office that deals with SNAP benefits.
This is a program that gives free (or discounted) food to students whose parent’s income is bellow a poverty level. The income needs to be at least between 130-185 percent bellow the poverty line.
Most the time if a person is a receiver of SNAP benefits their children will be accepted into this program for free lunches. But, that doesn’t mean if you don’t have or receive SNAP that your children are disqualified.
You need to contact your child’s school to apply.
Food for the American families who are in the poverty range not matter what the age.
If you have received food stamps before or any other program assisting you and helping you such as the ones in this article you could also be approved for this program.
You will need to contact your State distribution agency to learn more about the Emergency food assistance program.
A food bank doesn’t exactly fit into the whole “Grant” program area as it is actually a location in your town where you can get food if you are in need.
Do not allow you or your family to go without food. If you ever reach that trouble you can call 211 and ask them where the nearest food bank is based on your location.
More then 200 food banks exist with the feeding america foundation and they supply enough food to feed over 40 million people.
This program includes a package deal where you as a mother are able to receive healthy foods, whether you are pregnant or a new mother, and also to children who are 5 or under.
WIC is a program that is temporary and only used for a short amount of time – usually between 6 to 12 months.
These programs are for children up to 5 years old.
You can receive free child’s medical and dental care along with their schooling, and dietary needs.
Find your closes headstart office on their website or call at 1-866-763-6481.
This is a special program which will pay you weekly if you are unemployed and it had nothing to do with you for you being fired or let go. You will only be able to receive this benefit for maximum 26 weeks. Different states have different benefit rules. But most states will average out at about 45% of whatever the average weekly income is.
Single mothers who are out of a job temporarily can find solace with these benefits and can help make the burden less for themselves because this pay will restore what you have lost from losing your work.
If you want to try and get this started and opened for you, you will have to find your local unemployment office or apply on the website for this specific program. Most states will allow you to also try to sign up for this over the phone.
Section 8 is basically a program that helps a family be able to pay for their housing. If approved you will receive a voucher of up to 70 percent of your bills (utilities and rent). You are expected to pay the other 30 percent.
If you want to apply and feel you qualify you can get in touch with your local office involved with public housing, the HUD office.
This is a benefit for families who can’t afford to place their children in daycare while working.
You still have to pay a certain percentage but it isn’t a big lump of money. The less you earn, the less you need to contribute.
It is a tax benefit for people with low income. You could potentially get as much as $6,000.
If you normally have a tax rate of $1050 but you are allowed $5550 then you get refund of $4500.
There is a Children’s Tax Credit too for as much as $1,000 for EACH child.
Most of the time this is for the disabled or families with children or disabled person in the home.
If you need any extra information regarding this topic you can get in touch through the number 1-866-674-6327 or a local number for your local LIHEAP office.
Weatherization assistance program lowers energy bills for families in need. Usually the elderly and families involving children are accepted and put to the top of the list before all.
Your monthly income need to be below 200 percent poverty level.
To apply, find a local WAP center.
Medicaid is help with medical expenses. If you do not have health insurance this gives you certain benefits as long as your income restriction meets the level it should.
A lot of single mothers may meet the standards to be recipients of Medicaid even if you are unemployed.
Every state has different rules about Medicaid plans. You can find out exact requirements on this website.
Together with ObamaCare it ensures that even single mothers who didn’t receive any health benefits will now be able to have coverage.
CHIP gives children without health insurance a chance to have health benefits all the way up until they are nineteen. It is for families whose income is too high to receive Medicaid benefits.
It provides every type of benefit you can think of — dental, eye exams, and even annual doctor’s exams.
Every state has its own rules. If you would like to learn a little more about this specific benefit you can call 1-877 Kids now (1-877-543-7669)
Aid program for students of up to $5,815 for those in need to be able to set foot into college.
This is the best opportunity for a mother who is single to finally be able to finish her schooling and finally continue in the workforce. The money is completely free of charge with no interest rates or paybacks ever.
You need to fill out an application and submit it for a pell grant and have it turned in on or before June 30th of every year.
Similar to the Pell Grant. If you already have had pell grants and you are at the top of the charts in need you will be first on the list to receive this. Depending on a persons needs that are wrapped in with their financial struggle will ultimately decide who will receive anywhere between $100 too $4,000 annually.
Charities can be a way to seek help for you and your children whether you are in need of food or clothing or even housing. A lot of charities around the world actually have their own food banks that they run and they will give you bags of free food.
If you go to salvation army a lot of the times they will let you sleep there if you have no where else to go especially if it is a result of violence.
Most churches will offer you food and clothes or maybe even a place to stay if you have been recently kicked out by the one you are living with.
To find information on this you should look through your phone books local listing or yellow page. You can also research online and see what churches are available to your area and call them and ask what services they do offer.
Single moms can receive loans usually relatively quickly but I would not recommended that at all. You could potentially go into debt and not be able to rise back from that.
Sometimes you have no choice because you have to fix your broken car or maybe pay for utilities and food and need the help right then. But you have to be able to pay that loan realistically quick.
Pay attention to your credit because if you try to get a loan through a bank or anyone they will check your credit score and see if it is even available to be able to place a loan out to you. If it is a loan that is for payday loans or credit card advances they will not run a check but you will end up paying more after fees and costs.
If your credit is decent some people ask a bank for a loan personally. Most of the time this is a better idea then asking for a payday loan because if you need quick money with lower rates of interest this is it.
On a personal loan interest is lower dramatically but you have to pay in instalments. It doesn’t really fit criteria for an emergency. Normally if you just tell them you do not have any more funds and that is why you need this they will turn you away. If your credit is poor you will not be able to even touch this offer.
This is a very popular type of loan. You may know it by the term “Cash advance.” The interest runs really high on these and it is a loan that is only for a small time frame.
This is a loan that would more then likely be considered if a problem arises and you needed to repair your car or had a disastrous dental emergency. You have to know for sure you will be able to give every penny back.
If you do not pay this type of loan back you could be in loads of trouble financially.
Do you own a credit card? If so you will be able to get money from a bank as easy as 1, 2, 3. This is not a method that is highly praised though because as soon as you start taking money out of the bank the interest keeps rising and you also are charged for using and pulling out of the bank a fee. This is potentially the easier options if you do need cash asap but you have to pay it back and make sure you absolutely can.
When it is all said and done grants will not solve your money issues within your home if that is what you expect. To get a grant is definitely not easy it isn’t a walk in the park by any means.
If you are looking to get a more stable source of financially being stable you should probably look in areas around you or find a women shelter until you can get back up on your feet.
If you think you have all the time in the world you can apply for other areas of assistance such as Food stamps, HUD, and etc. They do take a lot of time and effort for someone to get back with you and let you know if you have been accepted and enrolled. Try finding a part time working job as a way to financially start becoming stable again.
The moral of this is you can not expect a grant to fall into your hands without effort and take all your worries away. They are only here too do one thing and that doesn’t usually fix anything with your financial setting.
This is all on you and what you decide, no one else can decide for you.
I am a single mom of two little girls age 4 and 7. I do work for a living but times are hard. With it being the first of the year hours at work have slowed down so not working as much right now as I would in the summer time. It is coming time for rent and utility’s as well as car insurance and car payment. I would greatly appreciate any help that I receive. Thank you for taking the time to read this and thank you very much to whom ever donates.
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Thought I’d put a joke as the title, since im trying to keep my spirit and attitude hopeful and optimistic. I’m a single mom of two beautiful girls. I am recently out of a domestic violence situation and I am going through the struggle of trying to maintain stability for my daughters with absolutely no help from family or friends. I work two jobs and go to school full-time, but with the cost of living sky-high its hard for me to manage. I could easily go back to my ex so I wouldn’t have to worry financially, but I can’t do that. I refuse to allow my children to think that violence in a relationship is ever okay. I want more for them and I have to show them by wanting more for myself.
Anyways, today I received a disconnect notice for my electricity. I have a total balance of $304.80 that needs to be paid by 2:30pm Pacific standard time on 01/24/2020. If the amount is not paid in full, then it will be disconnected. I wont be able to reconnect unless the bill is paid in full along with a reconnection fee. It is still extremely cold outside still and my place is not very well insulated. I need lights and power so my daughters can still live with the little stability that I have managed to give for them since uprooting them to a new home and a new situation. They need to be able to come home with the electricity on so they can sit and do their homework with me in the evenings. They really need lights for their sense of security as well. My youngest is struggling with night terrors because everything that we have been through and she absolutely needs to have a light on during the night. Please help me help my babies. They are what give me strength everyday. They make me want more. Right now, I just want them to be kids. To not have to worry about how much mommy is struggling. I have already received help through two state assistance programs for a very small amount. I’m reaching out on here as a last resort. Its been tough to stay positive through all the roadblocks we have met as a family, but we still are. No matter what we are grateful for how far we have come. Thank you in advance for every one reading and God bless anyone able to help. Prayers are appreciated even if you can’t help monetarily. Blessings.
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Hey! First of all I want to thank you for stopping by to read this. I’ll be honest, it’s hard for me to ask for help. However, lately I’ve hit a low in my life and decided to give this a try. I have to have surgery for a hernia repair. This will be my third hernia repair in the area so my surgeon is going to mesh the whole area to significantly lower my risk of getting new hernias and having more surgery down the line. I will be out of work for a while. I am a server and I carry trays and such which I won’t be able to do in the healing process.
I need help with my bills such as my credit card debt, car payment, student loans, rent and utilities, etc. While I’m out of work. Also some of what is donated will be to provide for my kids like food and rides to and from school while I recover.
I have been working extra to save up but unexpected expenses came up and I had to use my savings.
I am worried about having to cancel my surgery because I cannot afford to be off of work. I have already put it off because of this reason and it keeps getting worse.
If anyone can help, even just a little bit, I would greatly appreciate it.
Thank you so much for reading my story.
My paypal:
Paypal.me/alyssagough
Here I am… sitting in a chair in the dark at 5am. My life has completely changed over the last 30 days and I’m still trying to figure out how I got here. I admit I made a mistake and I hate myself for it. I was unfaithful and my husband can not forgive. Over the last month he has taken all control over the money and my life. I can not go anywhere or do anything. He’s forcing me to sell the house. I work part time as a preschool teacher and barely make $1000 a month. I have a credit card that I don’t know how I will ever pay off making that amount of money. I plan to go back to school to get my teaching credential but for now need to figure out how to survive before I even begin to think about school. I need to support my three kids in getting through this while still supporting their father who is so angry with me. I need to help my kids and myself with a fresh start. A start that is debt free. Free from the anxiety of laying in bed in the dark wondering how to make ends meet. I have a plan and a goal and need to get there. My plan is to get my credential and work full time as a single parent. My plan is to show my children that although my life took a different turn, I will not let it beat me down. I will continue to be present for my children, continue raising them and guiding them into the future. I need to show my children my true self and that a mistake does not define you. One choice or one action does not have to be your entire life story. Just as I can not let a mistake define my children I can not let mine define who I am. Every experience in life has a way of shaping us for the good or bad. Although my choice was horrible I choose to let something good happen from this. I have yet to know what that may be but I know there is light at the end of this dark tunnel I am in. I know that with time healing happens and my children and myself need time. I hate the saying everything happens for a reason but I feel like there has to be some truth in that. Without that hope how does anyone continue on. When bad things happen it is so hard to simply put one foot in front of the other. Hope is the only thing helping me to get through each dark day. I have faith and hope that I will come out the other side of this as a better mother, friend and person.
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I need financial assistance, first and foremost, I don’t think I am entitled to or expect someone to give me their hard-earned cash.
However, if anyone would like to support me in clearing my debt I would be very grateful.
I am not sure where to start, I have never taken out loans, credit cards of catalogues because I am materialistic or because I want the best things. I am a lone parent, even though I have always worked and do get some benefits to supplement my income, I have never really had a disposable income to afford items such as a new cooker when my old one has broken, this is just one example.
I understand that most people are in this situation, however people like myself who are on a low income, are targeted by creditors and charged a much higher interest than let’s say a person who is earning a great deal per year.
Due to a poor understanding if interest rates etc, I would start out being able to afford the minimum every month, then they would give me more credit, this resulted in the minimum payment going up.
Before I knew it, I was in a position where I could no longer afford the pay which resulted in extra charges. I have tried to get assistance with the debt from step change, citizen advice, however unfortunately, they were unable to help.
Last year I made complaints to the financial ombudsmen, in regards to irresponsible lending, with the hope that I could get the debts written off. The financial ombudsmen have only suggested that the creditors remove the interest and charges. Despite this, the debts are still too high for me to be able to pay them off.
You’re probably thinking ‘well get another job, earn more money’. I have thought about this, however, when on universal credits, the way the system works, the more you earn, the more they deduct from your benefit. So whilst I am earning more money, I would still end up with the same income (but it would be made up of earned income rather than benefit income and earned income combined).
So I am in a rock and a hard place, I want to do better and be better. I have recently signed up too higher education, in the hope that I can get a degree. This should help with getting a job that pays more than the minimum wage so that I can see a rise in my earned income, which would give me a disposable income that I can work with to pay off debts.
The only issue with this is I will be putting myself into more debt. I just can’t see a way out of this, I have been unable to find a guarantor so I can get a larger loan to pay off my debt. Even with a guarantor loan, the interest would still be too high. So this is not a viable option, long term either.
I would just like a second chance, a chance to start from scratch with a clean slate. Complete my five-year education plan, so that I can set up my own business and become solvent.
I would be thankful for any donations. I am unable to add photos of my creditor letters as the files are too large, but if you email me I am happy to provide. Thank you.
I work as a housekeeper for the family. I have two daughters and my husband left me they my kids are aged 5 and 3 years old. My ex husband left and left nothing and never gives any support. I raised my daughters on my own. However difficult to raise them in my own, I tried to give them happy and comfortable life. They are good children and very loving. As a mother who was raised with nothing, I tried to give them whatever they need and the my financial situation is getting out of control. And pilling more debt. I have a job but my job does not pay enough to to cover my bills and expenses. As much as I would like to save up to own a house or a flat one day so I don’t need to rent, I can’t. Because I have to pay first my credits and bills otherwise the interest will be much worse. I don’t know anymore how to cope with my bills and at the same time help with my family. My dreams of having my own house is slowly fading away. My hopes of having a business is crashing because I don’t know where can I get a fund to start with. All I can afford now is my rent and house bills. The rest goes on my credit card and borrowed money. I work 10 hours a day. Sometimes taking a weekend job just to earn more extra. But it wasn’t enough. My daughter wants to go to university but I’m so scared to turn them down because I know that we can’t afford it. Please kindly help me. Thank you so much for your time reading message and please kindly understand my situation. God bless your heart.
I’ve worked almost my whole life. Majority of it working 2 jobs at a time. Going from one to the other, sometimes not even having time to take a nap in between. I wanted to be able to afford things I wanted, to have something to build up for the future. I was never one to ask my parents, or anyone for that matter, for any kind of help. I actually liked being the one people could come to for help. I’ve got the biggest heart, and I always try to see the good in people. Unfortunately, my generosity was constantly taken advantage of. Rather then being seen as a friend lending a hand, people saw me as this nice, dainty girl with money.. too nice to do anything if done wrong. I gave everyone the benefit of the doubt. They’d promise to pay me back, offer their help in other ways that would be beneficial.. but never would be true to their word. Never would even see a penny back, before they’d come and ask me for help again. Being the type of person I am, I hate telling a person in need No. I’m a big believer in karma, and always felt like being kind hearted and true to myself, would eventually come around.
After having a baby I tried going back to work. It didn’t last very long, the baby’s father kept leaving. Unwilling to take or care for our son. With everybody else working and the daycare not taking walk-ins, I constantly had to call in. Eventually they stopped putting me on schedule. That took a major toll on my savings. Constantly having to buy diapers and formula without any income adds up. Then my car ended up breaking down so I had to put money into getting another car. During the time in between having no vehicle, my baby’s father decided to end our relationship and kicked me out of his house. I had to rent a car and a storage unit. Another chunk of money I had to spend. Not having any luck with rentals so I have to pay for a hotel room almost every night. Eventually it got to the point of maxed out credit cards and an overdrawn bank account. I have no money to pay off any bills. Which results in me owing even more for a late payment. Since my checking account is at a negative balance, I also get charged a monthly bank fee. Because I have no money, I get charged for it. No luck with job interviews and no money for child care. I never imagined I would ever be at this point. It’s like when you have money, everything else is just handed to you, people treat you better and offer help. Now that I actually need help, I get rejected, turned down, can’t get approved for anything. Accounts being closed and negative marks on my credit report. The father does not help financially or personally. He doesn’t pay child support and refuses to take care of our son so I can work. I went from being able to pay off thousands of dollars a month, thinking money would never run out. Now, I’m scraping the bottom of the barrel. Having barely enough to get by, never being able to even get a full tank of gas anymore. Constantly stressing out about how I will get by the next day and day after. Feeling like it all keeps getting worse, no break, no time to just take a breath. Always one problem after the next. It sickens me how all the problems I am now facing are all because of not having enough or any money. Phone calls, voice mails, letters.. all about owing money to so and so and if I don’t pay by a certain date then they’ll tact on another charge on top of the charge I Don’t have the money for to begin with. And if I don’t pay then legal action gets taken, and now I have to show up to court and pay a fine.. when I didn’t have the money to pay the first one, so now the amount has about tripled. Adding more to what I owe and putting me deeper in debt, now I’ve got collectors calling. All because I couldn’t afford to pay off the 1st payment.
Hello,
Thank you so much for taking the time to help me and my family. We are soon to become homeless. We stay at a hotel for now until I can get a apartment. Unfortunately I am going through a divorce right now and I am doing my very best for my babies but like any mother I just feel like I am failing them and it just hurts me that we will possibly live in a shelter soon because I can barely provide at the moment. So yes I am extremely scared at this point. Anything will help and very much be appreciated.
I am asking for help so that I can pay my bills and buy groceries. In 2019 I got divorced, had 3 immediate family members pass away (all at different times & all suddenly without warning), and when I thought nothing else could get worse – Christmas time and I have no job. I have a son in college, who I keep having to tell “it will be okay” as I worry for the both of us. I don’t live lavishly at all since the divorce. I’ve moved in an apartment, which isn’t a home and looks more like a storage facility, but the rent is more than what my mortgage used to be. I also have my sons rent at college to maintain as well. I have a small tv but no cable or anything, so it’s a decoration in the living room basically. I have internet, because I have to hunt for jobs!!! Then there’s the electric bill, water, sewer, and phone (so hopefully I will get a call about a job). Lately, I feel like I’m wading in an ocean about to be overtaken by a storm. My accounts are drained, so there’s nothing to squeeze out there. I’ve never been this desperate in my life. I am a smart woman, so I thought finding a job would be much easier than it has turned out to be. My picture I included was all of the job applications I put out there this weekend. Applying for jobs is also a full-time process too, with the same redundant questions over and over because they don’t want to just look at your attached resume. You have to copy and paste all that information back into their format.
In the meantime, I teach free yoga classes at a local church for those students who cannot afford to go to a traditional studio class. Those individuals have kept my spirits up and brought joy to my heart even in these troubling times. I love seeing them progress in their poses and make physical healthy changes to their bodies. It really makes me proud to be a yoga teacher and that kind of profound effect on someone. I’ve gotten more students now that come on a regular basis and need more equipment to supply them to use in class (other than a beach towel) – but that will have to be on hold until I have money to do so. I plan on that being my “paying it forward” deed once I’m not in the red and have a job. I want my first paycheck to be able to help those individuals out in whatever way they need also.
I am not the kind of person to ask anyone for help either, so this type of request is way out of my zone. But I thought about how much my yoga teaching does for me, and I know there are wealthy individuals out there that give money away because it gives them the same joy in their heart as well.
If you cannot donate but have a remote/virtual job that I’d be qualified for, I’d like that also. I’ve got a BA in Business Management and have worked in legal compliance for the health industry for 12 years. Before that I was a paralegal. I pray several times a day to bring some kind of sunshine in my life so I know that it is going to get better.
Any donation that you can spare can be sent to: paypal.me/BeachesandSunshine
Writing this is the most humbling and hardest things I have ever done.
I am a 31 year old single Mother of 2 boys ages 11 and 6. They are the smartest and most amazing kids. They think about others before themselves and they love each other more than I remember loving my brother at their age.
Ive been a single Mom for almost 2 years. After I left him, my credit took a major hit. He blew over $100k that he got from a settlement and never offered to help pay for school supplies, or medical bills. My ex is re married and he and his new wife see the kids every weekend. I do not receive steady child support from him. The last amount I received was $15 and some change. Everything relies on me.
I am a full time employee working for a casino. I work mostly nights and weekends. I am a salary employee so there are plenty of weeks where I am putting in more than 40 hours a week but I do not see the hourly increase reflected on my pay.
I try to make extra money working for postmates, uber eats, and doordash. The money I have made has helped buy groceries or put more gas in my car or buy medications. No matter what I do I cant seem to get ahead. I cant seem to break out of this cycle. The tipping was was when I received a notice last night that my paychecks would be garnished for a payday loan balance from a year ago would be garnished from my wages. The loan amount left was $480. With attorneys and filing fees, they will be taking out over $1600 from my checks.
I see a bright future for myself. I see a light at the end of this tunnel. I just need a boost to get over the bump in the road. I have so much I need to get taken care of that i cant afford and put in the back burner. I just need a little help from someone that can help. I have always donated to other when I could. I am really hoping and praying that someone can pay it forward and help us. When I get back on my feet, I will definitely do the same.
I came up with a total of $8000. That will cover so many medical bills I am behind on paying for my youngest sons extreme asthma. It will help me pay for an oil change on my car that been very much needed, my balance to both the elementary and middle schools for lunch fees or after care fees. Pay my rent next month without worry, catch up on my car payment so im not behind on it anymore. honestly, it will cover life expenses. I dont know anyone else to ask. No one I know has that kind of money or are all in a similar situation as me.
I want to own a home, I want to be a mother my children are proud of. I truly feel like if I can get out of this hole I have been in I can turn my life around and start over. I can be someone who helps another in need. Thank you for your time and god bless!
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Everything started six months ago when I thought that I was ready to date again after my sons father after being together since high school. I found myself on those typical dating apps and I matched with a very handsome man. he told me all about his past. And it wasn’t pretty. But I was always taught that I shouldn’t judge someone by their past because the past doesn’t always define a person. (it was also easier for me to understand because I too had grown up in the childhood of neglect and trauma I was taken for adoption twice put through foster systems and became ward of the state along with my little sister ) when I heard about his past yeah it was dark but I didn’tThink it was something no one could over come. he told me he was over two years sober and we went out a few times and started today and that’s when things basically went downhill from there.
He needed a place to stay that was a safe environment for his daughter. Being the kind hearted people that we were we let him in. living with my best friend and her son and my son as well. And not long after that mental and emotional abuse started he wanted to take over every part of my life trackers on my phone who my friends were which family members I could talk to anything he could possibly control He would control. that’s also about the same time that the physical abuse and life threats started as well I won’t go into much detail about that.
That’s when then accusation starting i was accused of everything under the sun and when nothing came of that that’s with the threats and physical situation would a rise. Later on we found out that he had a relapse and didn’t say anything and also had severe mental disorders that we weren’t aware of . I was terrified I finally had the courage to get out of it I had to call the cops in and things got worse from there. he ended up getting as many credit cards and checking accounts as he could through or relations and the whole time right under my nose and I have no idea. and so my credit is horrible can’t qualify for even a dollar he stole it All even my rent money and my savings everything was gone at that point after he got arrested I was staying in a hotel because his bail was still allowing him to be able to get out and I was able to get two night Voucher from the state which so far has been the only help I could get….which was nice until I wasn’t able to come up with rent fast enough and I lost my place to live and if that wasn’t the worst part. Went to stay with a family friend and we ended up getting the house broken into by two guys at gunpoint basically trying to scare us as much as a could police informed us that my ex had been Gang affiliated and they had an issue with us being subpoenaed to court so I got kicked out of there I’ve been staying in a hotel and maxing the one working Credit card that I have Left filing for every possible grant financial assistance that I can anything that I could get my hands on just nothing has been coming back. now I am fighting my ex husband for more time with my son because he thinks that my mental stability is going downhill because of all of the stress I’m under trying to make ends meet and to be honest he’s Mostly right.
I’ve lost almost everything that I’ve worked so hard for over a relationship that lasted six months and ended with him being served with five felonies and one misdemeanor that’s all it took to destroy my life and on top of that my physical health is also deteriorating I find it hard to walk and eat or to do any normal every day activities without assistance still trying to figure out what’s going on I know part of it is probably my mental status but some of it is also physical as well.Anything that I can say is that I’m happy that my son never got to see you never had to witness or hear I’ll be put in the middle and that’s something that I think God for every day I reached out to almost everything that I could possibly think of and now I have you guys. Anything helps thank you
SnowQueen
PayPal.me/SnowQueen9219
Hi I’m a young single mum and in need of assistance to pay some bills that I got behind on through no fault of my own. My child’s father left when I was pregnant leaving me with little to no income after having my little boy this in turn has caused me to fall behind on a few bills and would like some assistance to catch them up.
Hello,
I’m asking for any help from anyone out there to help me move out of my current living situation. Currently I sleep on a hard floor, work 40 hours a week and deal with very controlling people. With my former friend also constantly harassing me. I just want to get out and on my own, even working as much as I can, my money slips away for my child’s school things, food, keeping my car in good condition. Anything would help me get back on my feet and I would for be grateful. Please and thank you for anyone who even just took the time to read. I really appreciate it. Below is my paypal link.
www.paypal.me/mylink45
Hi my name is Raina Surber and I’m a single mom of a 2 almost 3 year old. I started struggling financially when I was 27 weeks pregnant with my daughter. I went into early labor and had to stay the night in the hospital. Me and my daughter were monitored all night long. Once I got out and got the bill I cried. There was no way I could pay it off especially because I didn’t work at the time. I had to pick up a job but after the first week it made things worse. I went into early labor 3 more times before I was 37 weeks and had to stay the night every time and was given additional medicine and shots to make sure she was fully developed. I racked up 5000$ in Medical bills and not to mention regular checkups on top of the hospital stays. I couldn’t return back to work and couldn’t pay the bill so I waited until I could work again which I knew wouldn’t be until after I gave birth to my daughter so I didn’t put her in harms way. The day before my due date I woke up with sharp pains and was rushed to the hospital. My daughters best rate was really high so they broke my water and found out I had a serious infection in my uterus that was killing her. They induced me but nothing was working and she was getting weaker. I had to have a emergency c-section and had an uncontrollable fever. When they pulled her out she wasn’t breathing and had a fever of 106. They finally got her to breath and put us in a heated room. I had to stay longer than the average c-section. I stayed for a total of 6 days and got a 7000$ hospital bill for it. When I got to go home me and my daughter were fine for the next few months. All of a sudden I had major health problems, I had huge ovarian cysts and tumors and had multiple surgeries to drain and remove them. Eventually I had my left ovary and tube taken out and I was left with chronicle pain and a 3000$ hospital bill. Once I healed I got my cosmetology license and started working. I payed off 5000$ out of my 15000$ hospital bill but sadly my ovarian cysts and tumors have returned. They want to give me a hysterectomy which i can not afford at all right now. Not only am I trying to pay off my hospital bills I also have to pay to live in my moms house, grocery’s, phone, and anything my daughter needs. Since I’m holding off my surgery it’s making working harder and harder because of the pain I have to deal with when my cysts burst or twist. Life has been hard for me the past couple years but my beautiful daughter keeps me going. She caring and very smart, she can count to 10 on her own, knows colors, can tell you her name and age, and recently potty trained. Any donations would make a great impact on me and my daughters life. Thank you for reading my story and have a blessed day.
https://paypal.me/rainasurber?locale.x=en_US
7th January 2020
Hello,
I’m a single mum of a beautiful Autistic boy whom I adore dearly.
I’m in a bit of a pickle due to lack of funds.
My only son is 9 and he’s autistic (high functioning) and I think he’s amazing.
We’ve been through a bit of a rough patch with school due to bullying and his
educational needs not being met so I’ve taken him out of school to homeschool him.
It wasn’t an easy decision and it’s been a hard few years of tears and tantrums
(both his and mine 🤔) and I finally just had to make a decision for his
emotional and educational wellbeing and take him out.
It’s been hard but it’s the best decision I’ve made and I can see he is much more stable and his learning is coming along so well now. We use an online curriculum that has been created by teachers called Time4learning and on another site called KiwiCrate we get what’s called a “Tinkercrate” sent to us each month which has a creative science or technology based project to make. It’s really neat even if it does cost a bit much.
Anyway at the moment I can’t work as I have my son 24/7 with no break whatsoever. Its tiring of course but he needs me and I’m his mum so that’s just how it is.
Unfortunately the money side of things is pretty dismal. We live on $439 per week and I’ve had to take out a loan to pay for a new fridge as ours was just not working right anymore
(a block of cheese would go mouldy in one week!) and some educational bits and pieces of course such as
a printer and a reconditioned laptop as we couldn’t use the old desktop anymore as it was just too slow. So I really would be so grateful if I could get some help paying off this debt.
I need to free up our money so we can get on with our everyday lives. I want my son to be able to go to the shop and get a treat once in a while or to be able to save some money for a holiday at the beach for a week maybe.
I have a two credit card accounts that I’d like to pay off and a loan.
The amounts are ;
Finance Now Card $1,486.00
Finance Now Loan $3,455.00
Mastercard $480.00
I would be so very grateful for any amount towards these accounts.
Thank you so much.
misssmith1973@yahoo.co.nz