I am sure posts like mine are a dime a dozen…just another shameless struggling chick in college looking for an easy hand me out to assist her in just skating by and having it easy her whole entire life. And i guess in a way, i really am exactly the cliche type of chick that i have never wanted to be. And for that, and for actually writing out this post i will bite down, cringe a little and maybe even scorn myself in the long run. But if there is one thing that i have never seen myself as relating to…it would have to be considering myself as having it “easy” in any sort of sense in my entire life. But please, rest assured dear reader… i will not sit here and waste the next few minutes of your time (if i am fortunate enough to find that you have decided to have given me by your curiosity having caused you to click on my post( filling you in on my feeling sorry for myself sob story that I could probably write an entire book on.  No, there probably isn’t another person out there who knows it as best as I do, that not a lot of people take interest in that type of stuff. It will just suffice to say that my entire 28 years of existence on this earth has done a very thorough job in teaching me all about the art of the word, struggle.

I would, instead, like to focus my post on this site to write about what the struggle has assisted in molding me to be. Ever since the day that i graduated from high school, i never would have even in my wildest dreams imagined that I’d see the inside of any college. I was pretty much settled on living a life that would be all about my at that time significant other’s goals and dreams. And so that brought me into the life of large chunks of my life to follow consisting of sleepless nights filled with anxiety and missing my new husband who was shipped away almost directly right out of high school to months and months of boot camp and AIT training to become the successful military man that I couldn’t have been any more proud of. I settled working at part time paying jobs like serving at local restaurants and receptionist work that I thought I could maybe make into a career at my childhood pediatrician’s office to supplement our pretty steady income of a now E-4 Army soldier. Those job skills transferred with me to the many states that we would eventually move to having to follow strict orders from his job. I never sought after anything that could actually challenge me or even perhaps you know fill me with a sense of pride and purpose. As i entered my mid twenties, I was completely content with my husband receiving all the praise and recognition and me being the dutiful supporting “trophy wife” that stood beside him (but in all reality it was more like always a step behind him). As we would then become new parents to a beautiful little girl, he would continue to rise the ladder at his job while we agreed it would be time to put my job on hold to have all the time in the world to focus on our new growing family and being an even better mom.

Ten whole years of my life would pass by and just as I thought I had finally gotten down how to be an almost damn near perfect stay at home mother and wife, my whole entire world and cause for my existence would be challenged and I would eventually find myself completely knocked on my butt having almost losing it all. If it wasn’t for my then estranged husband allowing me to move back to my home state with my daughter in tow, I dont know how i would have honestly been able to wake up and get out of bed every morning. Every single day during my divorce, having to appear strong and keep my daughter and I on our feet living as comfortable as possible was my only motivation for how I got up and lived life from then on and out. And apparently that was and always has been quite the driving force. Since my divorce, my life has done a complete 180. Now i’d be lying if I tried to spin it like I haven’t had my FAIR share of both ups and pretty steep downs but through and through my daughter and I have gotten by pretty well. And i’d like to think that she will always know that her mother is strong because of my love for her and wanting better for her. And it’s because of her that I never let any type of defeat ever get the best of me. I always try to show her my best and if she just so happens to witness me not at my best, I hope she sees what I learn from it to one day eventually get me to being at my best again. She is even a big reason to me discovering what i feel to be my calling in life and what i have been busting my ass for the past three years now trying to achieve one day…my law degree so that i can one day practice family law and represent other parents who were once like me…hit unexpectedly one day with divorce papers and no explanation whatsoever, just a “It was good while it lasted, but now i am leaving you.” to eventually find out you have been replaced by another after having devoting significant amounts of time to putting their lives on hold to support the life of their significant other so now they are finding themselves completely lost with no idea how to get back up on their own two feet. I want to fight for them in court, assist in getting fair custody in the interest of the child(ren), and also be a lawyer who can provide and get newly divorced and jobless clients in touch with resources to help see them along on their new way of living a better, purposeful life where they can now focus on the one person who they should have always been focusing on in the first place, themselves. It’s extremely important to me to be apart of helping to empower people who may have lost their way a little and helping them to understand that it’s OK to feel confused or lost or hopeless or however they feel, and that those feelings should subside once they can get back to focusing on them and finding their purpose in life.

Now touching on those ‘steep lows’ that I mentioned above that I had to unfortunately go through…during those times I lost my way a little and seemed to have accquired a good amount of school loan debt that I have gotten way in over my head with paying back. I am a proud person and strive to show my daughter the importance of always paying back your debts. So even though I cannot even anywhere close to realistically afford the payments that i have been making toward my student loans, somehow I have pushed off other things to pay late to make every single one. But all of that can only last so long before you just completely sink and wind up completely drowning and finding that you don’t even have enough for groceries after having to use your entire paycheck to put towards paying back debt…

So I have figured out that if somehow, someway I could find some relief/help with my student loans that would seriously free up a good chunk of my paychecks that i could devote toward keeping food on the table for my daughter and I. We can only eat so much rice and ramens for dinner before we start to feel like we are starving for an actual good, hearty meal again. So this is my very desperate attempt at asking the anonymous world of the internet for any kind of help that they might possibly be able to find in their amazing hearts to share with a hard working, honest mom and her child to help relieve some of the financial burden of just trying to make a better life for her family. Any kind of donation will not be in vain and one day plan to wholeheartedly pay it forward with the type of work and career that I plan on going into as soon as I finish the necessary amount of schooling that is required.

If you’ve managed to make it through my long and I am sure very drawn out post, I am so very grateful for your time and interest in what i’ve shared with you. And my heart is forever filled with gratitude should anyone decide to donate whatever they can to help out my daughter and I. It is amazing people like you that make this world go round each and every day and who I hope I can one day be like and teach my daughter to be as well. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU. And God Bless.

Please make any donations to

https://paypal.me/aleyy27

Gosh, I don’t know where to begin………..

I was a single mother at 29 years old. My daughter’s father was never really in her life much. As a single mom, I held down 2 jobs and lived with my best friend. I did not want to become another statistic. For a number of years, I survived on the pure desire to give my daughter the best life I could give her. I ended up getting my own apartment and eventually my own single level 3 bedroom/2 full bathroom house. I was so proud of myself.

About 5 years ago, I fell in love and completely took for granted everything I put into place to maintain keeping my house, my car – my security. I lost my car (I did get another car – I actually bought 2), and eventually would lose my house.

About 3 years ago, my life truly took a downward spiral of heartbreak. My father died. Two days later, my step brother had died. During the passing of my dad and stepbrother, I was 6 1/2 months pregnant and newly engaged. Needless to say, Thanksgiving and Christmas are hard holidays to celebrate.

My wedding was set for 1/7/2017. This date became the date that I delivered my baby girl (32 weeks of pregnancy). She was stillborn. My fiance, at that time, and I were lost. My oldest daughter was lost. Life as I truly knew it was gone but the glimmer of light/hope I had was that following weekend, when I got married. How quickly that changed. In early February, my grandmother passed away. She passed a few days within my birthday. Several months later (June 2017), I am diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer after having my first mammogram in almost 15 years. How much can one person go through! Everyone called me strong. “You are so strong! I don’t see how you get up each morning.” I’d tell myself , I still have a daughter to take care of. She has ALWAYS been my motivation. I went through chemotherapy (lost my hair, nails and sense of taste), radiation (burned and darkened skin) and surgery (lumpectomy) for 1 year. September 2018, I had my last chemotherapy. In December 2018, I had my first mammogram – no signs of cancer. Thank you GOD! I only missed 4 months of work and that was due to my daily radiation treatments (35 in all) and recovery time from surgery. My reward for beating cancer was my husband leaving me over Thanksgiving weekend. How could this strong woman lose one of her biggest supporters?!

Here I stand defeated and lost once again. The face I display to everyone is not the face I I display on the inside. I just need a new beginning for my daughter and me. I want to be debt free, so when February 2020 comes, I am ready to live on my own once again. I want to take care of my soon to be 16 year old as she will be getting ready for college in a few years. I am no where near prepared for that financial obligation. My bank account sits on less than $50 after every paycheck. I’ve filed bankruptcy and while it helped, it didn’t take care of my federal taxes and school loans. Those 2 debts alone are almost $60-$65k. My retirement plan is under $9k and I’ve been contributing to this plan off and on for 15 years.

I’m so depressed. I need to find my sense of security again. I need to be able to show my daughter that despite all of  the things WE have gone through, WE can survive and overcome anything. With this help, I can build on my foundation once again.

To help me start over, I’d be so grateful if you donated to me: https://www.paypal.me/nicknack24

I’ve come to the point in my life where I have to ask for assistance financially,  I have always been a person with a big heart , always sacrificing my wellbeing in order to help someone else.  Problem is, I’m the go to person when help is needed because I never say No. Being taken advantage of has cost me more then money, I’ve lost everything except my life thus far, I don’t know how much longer I can survive being in Dept, not being able to catch up on payments, trying to endure the anxiety and depression every day of not having the payment, not knowing what to do next, I’m raising my grandchild, and I am single, I quit a job I had working on a fishing vessel, so that I could take responsibility for the child, and I’m finding it hard to get back on my feet, working jobs that don’t pay much, I suffer mentally and physically as well,  I’m asking for assistance now because I am so far behind I don’t know what to do , our water utilities has been shut off, back on now,  I received 24-hour eviction notice,  most all utilities have disconnect notices and payment arrangements. My credit cards are not paid and are over the limit, my bank account was closed for being overdrawn, and I have payday loans that I took out but now can’t pay because I got fired from  my job for taking time off  one week to get help with the eviction,  I have a 1999 Dodge caravan that’s continually breaking down and I can’t afford to fix it anymore,I was robbed by three mechanics, they charged me and never completely repair the car, today I hate to be labeled a beggar because I’m begging for help right now, I but at my wits end and I have no idea what to do and I’m just outright tired, but I can tell you I do what I can  everyday for this little girl, I don’t want her seeing me Break down, I have to ask for help to get out of my situation,  it’s beyond me without help. Please consider us if you are able and willing to make donations, anything is helpful and appreciated. Thank you kindly

paypal.me/JalaunaY

I am a single mother to a beautiful little girl. I recently left an abusive relationship, it was extremely toxic for both myself and my daughter. When I sent the break up text my next step was to head to the bank and take him off my account and start fresh. When I pulled up to the bank I received an alert that my accounts where below $50.00 and showed an amount 0.00. He wiped me clean of 3500 dollars.  I thought this couldn’t be right but when I went inside to my surprise he had beat me to the bank and wiped my whole bank account and savings clean. Obviously there was nothing the bank could do for me because he was still on the account when he made the withdraw. From there I tried to pick my spirits up, figured things couldn’t get any worse so I should just start fresh and rebuild continue to push forward. Two weeks later he harassed my job, calling them none stop,  messaging co workers of mine trying to intimate them until finally my managers had a meeting and decided it was best to let me go.  Within a month I was wiped clean of my savings and lost the best job I could ask for being a single mother. I normally don’t ask for help, I try to  conquer things on my own, but unfortunately I’m behind in bills now, I’m losing my house and have to be out within 30 days and that’s not including my student loans I still owe, daycare, groceries, phone, etc. After all the losses I’ve taken I think it’s best I pack my daughter and myself up and move to another town, somewhere he can’t find us or  cause any problems for us. Please help me raise money to move my little girl and I to another town, so I can get back on track and give her the life she deserves.

https://www.paypal.me/Brittany0488

Hello, my name is Nicole. I really do not even know where to start, this is embarrassing to have to do, however I am at the end of my rope and do not know what else to do. I’ll just explain what brought me to this site. I am a single mother of 2 in my early 30s, I have been struggling financially for quite some time, behind on all bills, but somewhat maintaining.

I encountered a blessing last spring, I received a letter advising me that I had been accepted into a degree program I had applied to (that is extremely challenging to get into) and the program would start in Aug 2018. This was the best news I’d had in such a long time, something I’d been praying for as the field has been a dream of mine, not only because it’s an interest, but also because it is a career that will turn my children and my life around tremendously. My kids are both under 10 years of age, but have missed out on so much (such as sports they are interested in, etc) because I just simply haven’t had the funds to make it happen, which is devastating for any parent.

So, not to drag this out… I started the program in Aug 2018 (and due to graduate in May 2020!! :)), which meant my hours working were reduced by half, I am now working half-time, which has been an extreme blow to my situation. As I stated, I was struggling to begin with and things have become increasingly worse and I have falling even more behind, especially on my rent. Well my landlord has been patient with me for as long as I guess she can be and has now drawn up court papers, so I have a court date on Monday, June 3, 2019, yes, right around the corner. I have gone out to try to get local assistance however I’ve been told they’ve run out of funds at this time, but also that they cannot help with the full amount that is needed.

So, currently I am 3 months behind on my rent (including late fees) in the amount of $3,853.00. I know, this is a great deal of money to be behind, I have done my best to keep a hold on my situation, I have failed to do so. I know this is my responsibility, however I am in a bad place at this time and have run out of options. At this time I only have $1,050.00 to go towards the due amount. I have reached out to family, but they have things going on and cannot help me right now.

I have recently been able to eliminate several financial responsibilities that will allow me to keep up with my household bills with my current pay and the child support I receive, which isn’t much but I am grateful. However, I cannot afford that rears/back rent/late fees I am being taken to court for. After I went out to unsuccessfully get help within my county I got online to try to search anything that would be helpful and I came across this website. I am in dire need of help before my children and I are made to vacate our home. I do not have any family close by and if we have to move out I don’t know what we’d do. I do know that I’d likely have to quit my program because I would have to move back to my mother’s home which is too far away to continue the program.

I am asking for any help, I am a very stubborn person when it comes to asking for help, but as I stated I am in dire/desperate need and this is my last option. If you can, please help me with my situation. I absolutely appreciate any donations to help towards my mess. Thank you in advance.

Please let me know if you can help…

Hi my name is Karen and I’m a single mom,

I live with two of my mentally ill son’s & my oldest son’s cat in a small two bedroom apartment. It’s me, my oldest son, and my youngest son, and the cat in a small two bedroom apartment

We all live on SSI as primary source of income. I have bipolar & paranoid schizophrenia, anxiety, depression, and a little ptsd

and my oldest son has ptsd and anxiety and depression, social anxiety,

and my youngest son has ptsd, depression, anxiety, social anxiety, schizophrenia, compulsive behavior

we have all been living in apartments since 2003

The family dynamic is not healthy & we all just want out of this apartment in into living in a house

I’m also 61 years old in don’t know how much longer I have left on this earth in I want to make sure my two mentally ill son’s have a house to live in & not be homeless on the streets

They know how to pay bills, mop & clean, take trash out, yard work, etc

The apartment we are currently living in is very small & The family dynamic is also not healthy

My two mentally ill son’s unfortunately don’t get along with each other and i’m essentially the “Middleman” between them because I don’t want them getting hurt or going to jail

Its very stressful at this age to be dealing with this kind of drama!!!! I don’t need this kind of drama in my older years!!!!

The cat is also very aggravating and its not mine or my youngest son’s cat. The cat gets crazy “Spells” in will get wild he will start howling & running like a bull up and down the stairs & run in the kitchen & jumping over my youngest son’s equipment in start playing with wires & plugs. It’s just so very annoying!!!!

Their dad was basically sperm donor.

My youngest son is a very smart person. He’s the one that found this website!

My youngest son doesn’t have any credit & my credit is bad =[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[

Please at least help my youngest son to get out of this small apartment so he can get into a quieter environment in start learning stuff to move forward with his life in start making money! I’m very concerned of his future after I leave this earth

I know we are asking for a miracle here but houses are expensive here! My youngest son would need at least a $100,000 for a house with nothing that needed to be repaired

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Hi everyone, I’m Karen’s youngest son,

Man I gotta say i’m really truly blessed for me & for my mom. if its not for her I would either be in jail or dead……..

So I live with 3 people & 1 cat in a small two bedroom apartment. It’s my mom, my older brother, the cat, and me in a small two bedroom apartment

We all live on SSI as primary source of income. My mom has bipolar & paranoid schizophrenia

and my brother has ptsd and Anxiety and depression

and I have ptsd, depression, anxiety, social anxiety, schizophrenia, compulsive behavior

The family dynamic is not healthy & I honestly just want out of this apartment in into living by myself away from this unnecessary drama. There’s so many things I want to do but the environment is just not quiet enough nor healthy to be in.

I really truly want to help move my life forward but as I said the environment is not healthy nor quiet enough to do so.

I really wanna learn spanish so bad!!!! I literally have the best courses & materials to learn it. My father never taught me it but can i keep faulting him for not teaching me? No!

There’s too much damn Commotion & Racket going on in this apartment for me to even try to learn something!!!! I’m a person that needs absolute silence to learn if i’m going to try in learn something! I don’t see how anyone could learn anything with there being commotion!!!!

The living situation in this apartment is so unhealthy for everyone in here

See me & my brother never got along at all & Tbh I really don’t care at this point.

It feels like we’re all prisoners. My brother lives upstairs in one of the rooms and Me & My mom live downstairs in the living room with two separate mattresses on the floor. The cat also lives in the living room too.

My mom is like the “Middleman” between me & my brother. She don’t want any fights or anyone getting killed or anyone going to jail.

She brings food to my brother on the staircase so he won’t come down & we don’t come into contact with each other

and me & my mom have to use two separate portable toilets downstairs in the kitchen because the restroom is upstairs. she said she can’t climb up the stairs anymore because shes 61 years old and she has to wear ostomy bag because she had diverticulitis and it developed into a polyp and it ruptured or something =[[[[

and I use portable toilet because along time ago my mom didn’t want me to use the restroom thats upstairs because I use to use a lot of toilet paper in flushed the toilet paper in the toilet water came out of the toilet so i always had used portable toilet since then.

I can’t even go upstairs in take a shower because i’m not even allowed too!!!!

The cat is also very aggravating and its not mine or my moms cat. The cat gets crazy “Spells” in will get wild he will start howling & running like a bull up and down the stairs & run in the kitchen & jumping over my equipment in start playing with wires & plugs. It’s just so very annoying!!!!

My dad is a deadbeat dad.

He left my mom when I was at a young age to find another women just for sex because my mom was sick at the time………………………………

fast forward he moved this women in to a house that my mom had paid with her income tax money but the house was unfortunately in my dads name. My dad then wanted us to go live on the other side of the house but My mom was not women enough to sit & stay there in listen to them having sex

Fast forward since then in we have since been living in apartments

That woman that My dad cheated on my mom with had now cheated on my dad & my dad had been single for years in until recently he moved a family he had from mexico into that house.

He actually had two houses that were payed with my moms income tax money but when he cheated with my mom with that woman, that women then convinced my dad to sell the other house just so we couldn’t live there………………………………..

He’s very cheap would only buy ramen noddles & tortillas to eat.

He is just a very terrible dad if you can even call him that & I don’t want anything more to do with him.

I only needed him to get to & from school & to get dropped off at that house from the bus.

When I was young, I use to have a pet sheep in the backyard of the house. He was my only friend :3 I loved that sheep so much but after one day when I came home from school I was so ready & excited to see the sheep after I came off the bus from school. Because I remember I hadn’t seen him since the weekend!!!!

And when I got off the bus that day in went to the backyard to see him, he was not there!!!!!!!!!!!! I was so devastated & heartbroken =[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[

The fence that held the sheep was also torn down so I knew something was up =[[[[[[[[

I went to go ask my dad what happen to him in he said so casually like it didn’t affect him he said he “Ran away”…………………..

I don’t believe that BS excuse at all and this was the final straw with me being done & having nothing else to do with that

Because before this ever even happened. There was a time I rode with him and another man to some farm and he picked up another goat/sheep (I can’t remember which one it was) and I was in the back of the Bronco petting the sheep because I thought my dad got him as a friend to take him back to the house for the other sheep!!!!!!!!!

NO this sorry ass excuse of a father took this sheep to the back in tied this poor little sheep by the head in hung him up high in killed him right in front of me. BROOOOOOO I ALMOST FUCKING LOST IT RIGHT HERE DUDE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I WAS CRYING MY EYES OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ALL I HEAR IS THE SHEEP WEEPING FOR HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AND I CAN’T DO ANYTHING TO HELP HIM WAS THE MOST DISGUSTING FEELING I’VE EVER HAD IN MY LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AND WHAT HURTS ME THE MOST WAS MY SHEEP WAS LOOKING AT ME LIKE WTFFFFFFFFFFFFF IS GOING ON???????????????? =[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[

I’m just at a loss of words to express that horrible situation. At this point I want nothing else to do with that bastard except making sure my sheep was safe. As I said above I came home from school one day in my sheep wasn’t there. I don’t believe that BS excuse that he “ran away”.

I have strong feelings he hurt my sheep too but I have no proof of that. I will unfortunately never know what really happened to MY ONLY BEST FRIEND MY SHEEP =[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[

I have since officially cut ties with that sorry ass excuse of a father

I was recently at my lowest point of my life recently. My mom had cellulitis/ chronic venous insufficiency in I thought she was gone man =[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[

I wrote all this to express how I genuinely need the money to buy a house so I can get out of this small apartment in into a much quieter environment so I can move forward with my life in start learning stuff to generate me money so I won’t be poor for the rest of my life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Because I’m very scared & very hopeless for the future when my mom leaves this earth =[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[

paypal.me/MrsKarenN

My name is Deborah Brown. I was adopted in 1976 and have finally found my biological family through Ancestry DNA. I have been on my own since I was 16, married twice to complete loosers who abused me and the children. We finally got away. I have 4 children, all boys. My adopted father passed away when I was 16 and adopted mother never liked me and wouldn’t let me live with her after my father died. She is now in a nursing home.

I have never received child support for any of my children even after applying for state help in getting it. I’ve worked 2 and 3 jobs just to support my family and I have finally found my biological family. I would love to move closer to my father and brother. They are 7 hours away from me. (My biological  mother is autistic and is in a group home and doing well there.) We live in a RV at the moment because that’s all I can afford. Minimum wage barely covers rent and this RV was alot cheaper. I have done odd jobs to pay for utilities and kids clothes and shoes. I get my clothes at food banks that offer clothes. Haven’t had anything new in years. My car is not new but paid for. I am asking for $4,000 for gas money, rent on a cheap home, utility deposits and some cheap furniture to start off with. Mainly we need mattresses and a couch. We have no furniture. I have done the best I can alone. I can get a job somewhere if someone could please help me move so I can be near my biological family. They will help me get on my feet and possibly finish college. I have tried several times but bills always got in the way. I have no credit cards or any way to pay for anything except what we have to have. We live paycheck to paycheck and it doesn’t cover everything. I am alone with my boys and just need some help getting on my feet and close to my family. I can do better and have some support. Something I have never had is support and someone to believe in me. I am asking for the bare minimum just to get started off in the new place. Thank you for helping or taking the time to read my plea. My phone camera is broken so I can’t post a picture of us.

PayPal.me/deborahbrown42

I am going through a divorce right now because my husband of 10+ years was abusing my oldest daughter. She is now in a residential treatment program for ptsd, depression, anxiety, and for attempts at suicide. She is currently 4.5 hours away from me. I also have another daughter who is younger and doesn’t understand all that is going on. I am trying to get our lives put back together and be successful kn our own. I have lost my vehicle, my home, a large portion of the family, and above all else our normalcy. Needless to say our lives were uprooted tremendously. I do have job and an apartment now. I am needing help to pay my bills and to be able to get caught up enough to be able to start saving for a forever home for us. Its been a very hard year and I need to turn things around for us. If you can help at all it would be greatly appreciated. Thank you so much for everything.

I have been a single mother of 3 beautiful children for over 13 years. My husband and father of my children died in an accident. He did not have life insurance. Since then, I have put myself through school and worked as much as possible to take care of them. However, I have also racked just over $60,000 in debt, between education for myself and children, a small amount of credit card debt, and medical bills. My oldest child is on the autism spectrum, so not only requires time, but also money.

Seven months ago, while working, I injured my knee and have been unable to work since then. I have filed a worker’s compensation claim, and am having to go through court to have it taken care of, because the owner did not have worker’s compensation. I am now out of any money I have saved, but the bills are still there. If anyone would like to help me, I would appreciate it more than you can imagine. I also pledge to pay it forward when I am in a position to. Any help is greatly appreciated.

Hello to all that are reading. I’ve for the first time since my first job in 2005, have been fired from a job 3/7/19. I’ve always worked and been reliable, low maintenance and just function off of the necessities in life. I was unhappy at my previous jobs (1 I stayed with for 7 yrs, lack of appreciation, I trained the management, only missed work when I or my children were sick but they didn’t want to pay me over $15/hr…after almost 7 yrs.) nonetheless I gave the job my absolute all. I left there and started a new job that hired 300+ people and after 8 months laid off approximately 100-150, me being one.

I’ve always known how to do hair (learned from my mother) and in 2017 while pregnant with my youngest I went to school for natural hair. I have my license and have began working on building my clientele in a salon as of 3/27/19 but it’s not enough to pay any bills at home. I’ve had to even take my baby to the salon with me on the few occasions as I’m not allowed to take him back to daycare until I’ve caught the payment up and able to maintain it. It gets quite depressing thinking about the bills piling up (daycare, rent, electric, water, car payment) everything, absolutely everything is behind and I’ve not had luck finding a job as of yet but certainly looking. I’m the go getter type worked two jobs at a time while taking care of a newborn, school and work while pregnant twice…my pride makes me this way, I do everything I can to provide for my family…but I’m sinking horribly, depression is still lingering though I’m fighting it and as hard as it is I’ve had to check my pride and ask for help. I want to be an entrepreneur and work on opening my own salon spa in the future but I have to get my home life in order first. Please help!

Thank you for taking the time out to read my story. Anything that you can give I and my babies greatly appreciate.

PayPal.Me/knisem

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Hey. I am a 22 year old single female who recently had to leave my job and country I was living in due to the fact that my unborn child’s father is abusive and harassing even with a restraining order against him. I am currently unable to be hired because I am just days away from hitting my 6 months pregnant mark. Where I currently live, no one will hire me because like they said ” no one wants to hire someone for just a couple months”.

I am trying to meet ends with all of this and I’m in-need of someones help. I also currently live on my own in a family house where bills wont be so much of a strain on me.

PLEASE!. I am trying to raise  8,000 so that I can be can be covered before and after my baby is born. Just until i can get back on my feet to work.

Thank you soooo much to anyone who is kind enough to help me, and may God continue to bless and watch over you and you family.

Paypalme> paypal.me/TaieshaSmith

Ok, here’s the deal.  I am a single mother who has been searching for a new position but I am in the middle area where I have too much education (have an Associates and 30 hours into my Bachelor’s).  Up until 4 years ago, I was balancing School, Work, son’s activities, Sunday School Teacher and helping my grandmother when she needed to go to the doctor. Needless to say, When I finally made it to university, I would drive from home in Dallas to Arlington, 17 miles, then drive from Arlington to my job in Dallas which was another 25 miles away, not including the days, my son or I would get sick, he was Never deathly ill or anything, but highly susceptible to diseases.  He had the Flu and Strep Throat at the same time, so, which were those resting days at home, so the next year, I quit volunteering to assist teaching Catechism but my son still went. I forgot to mention that I lost my financial aid at this point because I had missed so much school. My family is against me obtaining my Bachelor’s and would not help me with taking care of my son and not understanding why I was needing to do my homework or go to class.   I couldn’t afford a sitter and if I had tried asking a friend for help, I would never hear the end of how this person or that is a child molester.  He was about 10 at the time.  About a month or so later, I lost my job. So the Trifecta hit. For three years, I have been searching for a job but have found that I am in this purgatory place of job seeker unsatisfaction. I am too qualified for low paying jobs and not qualified enough, because most jobs want a Bachelor’s degree. I need job or I need to create one. One of my passions is photography and I have actually been hired a few times for shoots but here is the problem. Although I know I can do the work, working even as an assistant I have the major problem of not having money to purchase the very costly equipment. Many photographer jobs that are available want you to already own a full frame camera and a few choice lenses.  So again, I am stuck. I want to finish college. I want to buy my own home and car. I never seem to have had a decent paying job that would allow me to make it on my own, you know, be able to pay the bills, car, insurance or anything. I once held down two jobs and still brought home less than 1500 a month. When my son was first born, I did do real estate and was pretty successful as an apartment locator but since my son would get sick often, the majority of the money I made, would pretty much go to the doctors since he was under 5 then. This is the person I used to be until my son was born, I had a job, at an entertainment/dinner theater place legit, I don’t want to use the name, just as a cashier, and I worked very hard during until the day he was born.  I actually would go to work at 8 am till 2:30 then come back by 4 pm til a little after midnight.  Go home and start over again. I did this for 5-6 days a week until my 8th month, About 8.5 months, I was given better hours and had to do M-F  8-5, so much easier for me then.  The only time, I ever called in sick at the time, was when my son was born and even then, I didn’t know I went into labor a month early.  A week, to the day after he was born, I received a letter, giving me notice that I was fired. So, I went to work on obtaining my real estate license, again, certain members of my family would continuously berate me and harp on me for getting a job that had benefits,  which I understood but, could not find, because I didn’t even have my associates then. For five years, I did this kind of work, then I had wanted to switch offices to what I thought would be a better location, the funny thing is, the better location had a very high turnover rate and which as a locator, these referral sources are what made you or broke you.  I had no knowledge at the time what the location would be like. So I took on an additional part-time job as a telemarketer, while still working the real estate and trying to raise my son.  He was so cute then, he still is.  Very talented too. A true athlete. He never cared for cartoons as, usually any sport on television he could find. 

I one day looked at him, realized I was working two jobs and still not making over $1,000 a month.  That’s right, working over two jobs, rarely seeing my son and he seemed to be growing so much, he was about 4 or 5 then.  Needless to say, I quit the now unsuccessful locator job and kept a part-time job. I thought I had landed on my feet when I finally got a job that was close to home and full time.  Well, about 6 months later, I was let go 1 month before that business shut down after 60 years.  Good times. So unemployed again, I made the decision to return to school, so I could earn a bachelor’s degree to find a job that would offer me some sort of benefits or at the very least insurance.  Fast forward to now.  I can’t go to school without financial aid. I had an almost job interview to do but had to turn it down because I realized at $11 an hour and nearly 36 miles away, that I would only make a $260 month, after spending that money on gas. My son would lose his insurance and I would too.  I accomplished my associates, I finished half of my bachelors

I now live with my parents, my kid is 14, and I have yet to show him that I can provide for him.  I know there’s the saying, if you work hard, you get what you need in life.  I have yet to find that to be the case.

I actually find it, quite the opposite.  I have worked since I turned 16 years old and the only time I was able to make near $2000-3000 a month was when I was a locator.  I no longer have my license because of that industry has changed beyond compare.  When I worked in it, I would make anywhere from $200-1200 on a one apartment rental, because the apartments were willing to pay 50-100 percent in commission.  Now, they only want to pay 10-25 percent in commissions and sometimes that is only if you show a client.  I have applied at Target, Walmart, and many other stores, filling out their online application to get the same letter, that I would not be a good fit because I am overqualified. I don’t see how.  Since those last two jobs, I had found work, working for one of the colleges I went to but it was only temporary and the other as a CSR agent that did not help me to further my education.  That is when I took my first Hiatus from a community college.  When that temporary job ended, I went to three different community colleges while I was working on my associates so that I could have a schedule that fits mine and my sons’ needs.  I finished my associate’s degree about six years ago.  I am just tired of not hearing back from employers because of whatever reason.  I continuously update my resume, enter online applications and cover letters but I don’t hear back.

Well fast forward again to 2015.  I had taken a photojournalism course from an actual Pulitzer prize winner  In that semester, I listened and soaked up everything he had said about photography.  He never bragged about his Pulitzer, I happened to find out from another professor.  My photography improved immensely after taking another photojournalism course at the community college.

I guess I should explain that, while I went to Junior College and the on to a University, it was the University that tripped me up most, as far as my education.  There were very little courses to take online, which would have helped me immensely as far as traveling from south Dallas area to arlington and then to the north Dallas area.  This is the time, I was working, going to college and my son had been in baseball about 3 years at that time.  I am a single mother.  The father has not been involved in my kid’s life.  Well, one year for about 4 months he was involved and then he took off again.

As much as I want to finish my degree, I realize, I needed a career that has a very flexible work-life balance along with all of the benefits and pays a decent salary, you know enough so I can pay back student loans, provide a home, I want to have a house of our own.  I never once, in my life, had a job that allowed me to make enough to pay for my own place, bills, and groceries.  Not working one or two jobs. I’m a hard worker and have always been.  this is why I need a break.

Because of this photography course, I had taken and practicing since and people who have asked me to take photos of them since where family and friends.  They are professionally done but not professionally done.

I have attempted to find jobs as a second shooter or real estate or weddings, however, the main requirement these types of jobs to help save money, want you to already have the photography equipment. The expensive lenses that cost about $600 or so, a full frame camera that costs over$2000.

Of course, If I had the photography equipment, I wouldn’t need to apply or ask for help with these companies, I can do it.  I just don’t have the right lenses.  To rent some of these lenses can cost up to $50 a day.  So here’s how I’m asking for help.

I want to build on my photography equipment. I don’t care if it is used but I do need it to work with Canon.  I have a 60D camera but it is the lenses and lighting equipment I need help with the most. I know at some point, I will need to buy a full frame camera, those are like the Canon Mark V and above. I don’t want anything too old.  I want to be more involved in Photography Clubs like AMSP or Professional Photographers Association but again, those run into $500 or so a year, maybe less but  I am at my ropes end here but I still have hope that something will work out.  I don’t qualify for a credit card or flex lease situation.  I already tried.  My student loan debts and the fact that I usually have about $100 a month aren’t helpful.  So if you can help out in any way, I would be grateful, I know my son would be grateful.  I will pass on the kindness one day.  So thank you for your time.  Have a great one!

Eternally,

~T

Thank you for taking the time to read my letter I appreciate it very much. I wanted to reach out to you because I think you can help me out. My name is Chanetta Smith, am a 40 year old single mother of two boys and I am also raising a little girl because her mother doesn’t want hardly anything to do with her. I am living on a minimum income so I am working. Since I been on my own I been raising my kids alone without any financial help from family. I have never done anything like this before and honestly I hate having to reach out to strangers asking or I feel like I begging for help. I understand you don’t know me but what I am telling you is true and I can send you everything you need to show proof of what I am saying is true. February 2018 I started experiencing shortness of breath and fluid around my heart. I went to the doctor and they told me I had an enlarged heart and my heart was beating at 17%, and I was on the verge of having a massive heart attack. As you can imagine all I could think of was my kids growing up without their mother. The doctor put me on a very strict plan and I have to take about 6 pills a day. In July 2018 I had to have a defibrillator put in so I will be able to live a long life and be here with my kids. While going through this I have accumulated a lot of medical bills which has caused me to fall behind on my regular bills. I live paycheck to paycheck and half the time I don’t even get through the month before I am broke. I have to drive an hour to work there and a hour back so I have to fill my gas tank up, also I’m not even able to put money on my kids account at school so most of the time they have to eat vegetable trays until I get paid. My oldest son graduates and it’s sad that I can’t really do anything for him to celebrate his graduation. I behind on my light bill which is $1145.00, we don’t have groceries in our house so I bring stuff from my job. I work for a university and I use my meal account which has $200 on it but that also comes out my paycheck which lowers my monthly check. I feel like I’m drowning in so much debt that I’m suffocating and don’t know where to turn. I can’t get a loan because I have all these student loans that I’m not able to pay. If there is any way possible that you can help with anything I would be so grateful. When I totaled my expenses that I’m behind it’s over $10,000 but if you find it in your heart to at least send $10,000 I will be so happy. I wish that I could take my kids somewhere special so we can actually say we had a family vacation but I cannot even afford that. I know I don’t need to stress and worry about my situation because it puts a strain on my heart but I cannot help it. Please pray that my situation changes and my heart gets better. Thanks for reading my letter.

Sincerely,

Chanetta Smith

Hello! My name is Amber and I appreciate you taking the time to read about my problems as I’m sure you have your own as well.

I will start off by what started the long journey of getting to where I am. Two years ago, my father had told me that the people he was renting my childhood home to, stopped paying for over a year. (Yes, he let them live in his home while paying the mortgage he owed on the house himself..a better man than I would be). Anyway, he asked if I would like to stay there with my son and just take over the mortgage so of course I jumped at the idea. When we had left the house, it was a doll house in perfect condition so I had only expected to have to paint and clean…boy, was I wrong. The entire place was trashed, absolutely disgustingly filthy, numerous windows broken, holes in walls and doors..you get the picture. Long story short, I had to put almost $15,000 into the house and of course made the stupid decision to put it all on credit cards and I’m paying for it now..literally.

Hours at work have been cut and it’s getting to the point of either pay my credit card bills or feed the family. I have weighed out all of my options, balance transfer cards and consolidation loans are a no because of debt to income ratio. I have also called my credit card companies to work with them, but they are unwilling. Bankruptcy will cost more than I could ever afford and letting them go without payment can result in years of bad credit and lawsuits. I’m feeling very defeated and at a loss. Not to mention that I am a “stresser”, I stress about everything and I’ve spent many sleepless nights trying to figure out how to get out of my situation and see no way out. Which is why I have come here, that’s how I know I’m getting desperate because I have never asked anyone for anything. (One reason why my credit card balances are outrageous)

So I have come to begging money to, well, beg. I hate to ask and I hate to be in this position but here I am. So please, if you can spare even a dime, it will help keep me, my son and my fur babies, afloat.

The link to my paypal is below, thank you from the bottom of my heart!

paypal.me/astucker1

My mother is currently 30,000$ in debt because of my sister in college, myself, and my cat having surgeries. Cats truly do have 9 lives! My father passed away 5 years ago, leaving my mother with a bunch of bills. We gave our car away and got our house in New Jersey repossessed by the government. My mother works everyday from 8 am to 8 pm. She works so hard but managing rent, medicals, and school is so extremely hard. I try my best to be the best daughter I can but she tells me how tired she is everyday from working day in and day out to pay the bills and there’s nothing I can do about it. Any help/support would be much appreciated :(

PayPal.Me/rosiebou

I heard of the word narcissist often used by women mad at their significant others.  I never really knew what it meant or that I was actually married to one for over 18 years until the day I left him.

Over the years the control, verbal abuse emotional abuse isolation and at the end of our marriage physical abuse didn’t want my children to believe this was healthy love. I was starting to lose myself. In  2011 I left,  ironically on 9-11- 2011 is when I signed my lease agreement to a rental property for myself and three children. I had full faith it was my turn to be happy.  This was going to be our start to a new healthy life.

Narcissist if I had only knew the term was so much more than just an adjective to describe someone if I don’t do my homework or prepared myself to divorce a narcissist man after 18 years. 18 years with a man and mother to his children I just never imagined or crew prepared because how can someone who you spent most of your life with I want to destroy you without taking into any concern for the well-being of his children merely for his own self game and that was to ruin me.  I quote my ex husband

“I will burn you, you will never see your kids you will never see a dime for me I’m going to watch you burn!”

I’m sad to say but he’s winning and reason for asking for help.  I’ve given it a good fight to prevail but this is a battle that I’m not going to ever win on my own. I’ve now found myself disability for PTSD, major panic anxiety disorder along with ADHD.

On my disability income, I feel so hopeless scared for myself on how am I going to handle anymore trauma.  How am i going to make it, how am I going to be okay, if  not for myself for my children. I’ve been raped, attacked, victimized because of my vulnerable state just trying to survive.  I am a shell of a woman, a mother ,friend or person I used to be.

I know I have so much to offer this world. I’m creative and hardworking. I was 100% full time mother. I was there rock until I could no longer afford the cost of living. Now homeless,  I was forced to have my children live full time with my ex-husband.

I just need  a helping hand.  I just need that jump-starts so that I can be who I was supposed to be.

I used to own my own photo business until he had to sell my equipment for food on the table. I need help to afford to re purchase my equipment and start my business back up.

I need help to pay for first and last downpayment on a rental home – a roof over my head.

I need help to go back to school and get my real estate license.

I would love help to be able to repair my car or if anyone has a old car they like to donate.

I know with just a lift off that I am sure to soar.

https://paypal.me/PhotographybyKolbe

Sincerely.

KSB

Hello, to start off my name is Miranda, and I am 20 years old. I hate that I am even having to ask for some type of money from anyone but here it goes. In September 2018, I met a guy. By this time I already had a daughter who I had late January in 2016. When I met him, he was soooo sooo charming, and sweet and caring and loving. And anything you can think of, It was him! As time goes on maybe 3 months in the relationship I started noticing red flags. Mind you though, before I met him i had a steady job as a manager at a restaurant (I was only 19), so I think I was doing pretty good. I had my own car, and i had a house even though I did have roommates. I would say I was living pretty decent.   But anyways, a few months in I started noticing red flags. He ended up quitting his two jobs he had and then moving in with me, so I ended up having to take care of him. And I know you’re thinking I was stupid, and trust me i know. But I swear I thought I was in love. The way he was acting towards me wasn’t anything I had ever had before. Well, we started arguing all the time, stuff ended up just getting worst and worst. Let’s fast forward to March of this year 2019. He ended up taking my debit card and doing fraudulent checks, and leaving state after he did the check thing. Making me in debt now with my old bank 1,800 dollars. he ended up making me lose my job by showing up and causing a scene, and my car, because i lost my job so i couldn’t pay my car payments and getting me kicked out of my house, because I also couldn’t afford it anymore. My whole world came crashing down around me. After all said and done I am now back to a single mother, which is ok with me. But I am having a very hard time getting back on my feet. I do now have a job, I’m just now trying to move into an apartment again, but it’s very hard while working minimum wage and rent is over 800 a month. And I’m still needing help with a car as well. I’m asking for about 6,000 dollars. Just something to help me move, help with a car, and to get me out of this debt. Anything helps, please. My PayPal is PayPal.me/mirandad1122

I am 19 years old. I am currently 22 weeks pregnant and homeless. My baby’s father, whom I was in a relationship with for years, left me shortly after we found out I was pregnant. I suffered mental and physical abuse from him. I lived with my mother and siblings. My youngest sibling would constantly bring drugs into the house, random people, and take my things without asking. I confronted my mother several times, and she never did anything about it. This causing us to get into a fight that will not be fixed. She would rather live with her child that does bad, and put her pregnant child out on the street rather than help her. I don’t have a home for my baby and I’m terrified. I work at a nursing home and the pay is unfortunately not well. I’m in need of funds for my child’s things. I haven’t been able to start buying the first thing for my baby girl because I’m struggling to find a place to lay my head at night. I don’t have enough to even start paying rent somewhere or put a small down payment on a home.

My biggest concern is that I will have my child in an unsafe environment and I won’t have any thing to take care of her properly. My parent has brainwashed the rest of my family into having nothing to do with me so that is out of the question. I have worked so hard since the age of 15. I’ve never asked for help until now. My baby’s father knows what’s going on in my life and he refuses to have sympathy for me. I do not like being in such a weak spot. I’m asking for any of the help that I could possibly receive. Whether it help with the baby’s things or a place for me to live. All of the apartments around here have waiting lists that could take months, and I’m afraid I don’t have that kind of time. I don’t want to raise her in an unsafe environment either. Most of these apartments are full of gangs and drugs. I’m at my last resort. Thank you.

https://www.paypal.me/kcmuston is my Paypal info.

Hello! I’m not too sure how to really start this. I’m 20 years old, working a part time retail job and getting ready for college. My mother has given me everything. I have two older sisters and an older brother, all who couldn’t agree more that our mother is the most generous person in our lives. She had gone through so much with raising my sisters and their addictions, and also also her own. As we have all grown older, I’m very proud to say that all three of them are clean and have successfully started happier and healthier lives. Now, part of that life for my sisters was moving an hour away, which is hard on my mom. None of us live at home anymore, and she is a single parent. Going down to visit my sisters and her grandson is one of the main things that give her joy. I visit her as often as I can but with work, trying to get back into school, and my own relationship I can’t say I feel like I get to spend enough time with her. She has always struggled financially, living paycheck to paycheck. I’ve gone too many days visiting her house and seeing an empty fridge, and I’ve gone too many days going home feeling guilty that I didn’t have enough to give back to her without hurting myself. My mother ended up losing her job. She was also working retail when two thieves came and stole from the store she worked at. Her manager at the time took off after the two thieves and got herself into a dangerous situation, leading my mother and two other workers to go help her. This resulted in them all getting fired, and the money my mom relied on vanished. She has been doing random work since then and relying on unemployment to pay for her bills. Now to be completely honest I’m not too sure what it is that I want to do to surprise her with yet. I’m stuck between helping her get a newer car so she can visit my sisters more often to get out of the house, giving her money to pay her bills for a few months if I can manage it, or giving her what I can so that she can sell my childhood home and downgrade and possibly move closer to me and my siblings. I guess whatever is donated will eventually decide the fate of the gift. This woman has truly given me everything. She went without food so that she could spend her extra money on buying my siblings and I and our S/Os and my nephew candy and small treats for Easter. She’s also the only one in my entire family who still saves up her money months in advance to be able to buy everyone Christmas presents because giving really is what makes her happy. I’m just ready to give back to her, even if its as small as buying dinner for us some night, or getting her a new outfit. She appreciates everything, and I really will appreciate every cent donated to help me help her. Thank you to anyone who can give in advance!

paypal.me/hopeyoung78

This may sound a bit like a mid-life crisis, and it just very well may be, I’m really not sure. However I am sure about one thing, and that is that I desperately want to make my kids lives better. I’ve dedicated the last 6 years of my life working as a nursing assistant, working 12 hour night shifts, three to four days in a row, and that has been my life. My life has been constant, I have five children which needless to say I love and adore, they are why I am here on this earth, but beyond the love, I can only look at them and feel sadness and guilt for not being able to do more. Most of my life seems spent at work or in bed sleeping trying to regulate my sleep schedule, and it just dawned on me that they have grown up so fast, and my time is running out. I know I’m still partially young but really if you really think about life, its really not a long time at all. We will never get these years back or go back and fix this or that. We all get one chance to make the best of it and a lot of people get wrapped up in the nonsense and forget that life is not limitless. It can and very well may end at any moment. I only wish and hope that my kids will have enough memories of us together and not only see me as a struggling mom always broke and never having extra money for the fun stuff, like school book fairs, school t-shirts, or even a happy meal is pushing the limit these days. I know I am unfortunate and I no longer want to just accept it. I could go on and on about all the “not so simple”, milestones I have endured in my life, and for some reason I feel like I may have experienced more than my peers, but I have always had that kind of “luck” since I was a kid myself. I grew up with 3 siblings and I was just that kid that always got the broken happy meal toy, broken candy or popped balloon, it seemed to always just be me. So enduring hard times and going over countless bumpy roads, just became my “normal”. I have always been okay with that, but now I realize it’s not just me that has to suffer my unfortunate luck, my children have to ride right along.

Now I recently came out of denial and realized I am 31 yrs old and even though I’ve worked so hard my whole life, I still have nothing to show for it. I’m literally still living pay check to pay check, what kind of life can I really provide for my children’s future? I can’t even financially set one kid up for their future so how will I manage to do so for 5 kids?

Well I’ve scrambled my brain trying so hard to figure out a solution to all my financial problems and that, is no easy task. Im running out of ideas, and that is what brings me here. I know this post may sound silly and people will have their own set of opinions of me, and I am 1000% okay with that.(Yes I meant the extra “0” )

Im specifically asking for assistance in getting on my feet and helping to fund a small business. My goal is to create a ,”Rage Room”, here, in Amarillo TX. In hopes it can provide some sort of outlet for teens and adults impacted by anger and stress.  A Rage Room is a business that provides an individual or group to purchase time in a room to destroy , break, and shatter all of its contents for a certain length of time. Sound silly? Well it just may be but I rather have it silly than angry.

In my unlucky life I have also endured domestic abuse a few times, hence, why I  am now a single mother. Having to expeirence something like that and knowing people with such anger built up inside, I feel like a lot of people would benefit from a business such as a, “Rage Room”. I know it would also benefit the ones who (for the lack of a better term) end up getting the, “bad end of the stick”.

Now asking people for money is a new thing for me and I just hope that eve though I am not currently experiencing some sort or traumatic event or something similar, but instead I’m just a a regular single mother out here just trying to make the best of what life brings and just finally taking a chance and seeing where this goes. I know this was pretty long and I’m sure it’s not as good as others but it is sincere and even if I don’t get your support, I do thank you for donating your time to read this and may you have a blessed and happy life.

Hi, I am afraid to put my name up here because of predators but my nickname is Queenie. I live in Georgia and I am 36 years old. I live in the states, I live on my own with my 3 children: two boys, and a girl. I used to live with my father, but my family put him in a nursing home where he still lives.

I’m not the first child he has done this to, I have 2 older siblings who had just gotten out of the same mess my father had put me though but because I was taking care of my father at that time, they never decided to help me. they told me they would help me if I put him in a nursing home.

So, here’s what happened.

My father had an extra copy of my Social Security Card. He had a female friend who had helped him with this to voice me since I am the only female. They have stolen my ID cards so I had to order new ones because I did not know where it was. And my father had also used the copy of my birth certificate that he had already had and would not give me. They made bank accounts and had a few credit cards in my name. And now I am $3 million in debt for payments I had not used.

I did put him in a nursing home. but I am in debt with my 3 children. There was a time where my children had lived with me in the van I own now, and I begged my brother to take them in so that they would not be on the street with me. So they are in his care. But he does not want to take me in because I took too long to put my father in a nursing home.

I really need help getting out of debt so that I am able to get a home for my children and myself. I have been living in my van since 2016 and I had nowhere left to turn. GoFundMe took my account down because someone reported my page and they thought I was lying.

If you happened to click on mine and decide to help or not either way thank you and prayers are always welcome to be sent my way I need them.

Here is goes. I’m a mother of 3 children and have been in a mentally abusive and draining relationship for 8 years. I have been a stay home mom for the last 4 years because he did not allow me to work and wanted me home with the children like a “woman” is supposed to do. I was stripped of everything my job my car my things everything. I didn’t realize what he was doing until it was to late. A couple months ago I decided enough was enough and saved every single penny I possibly could and got myself a house woohoo! Got myself a job also. Now here is where I ran in to trouble. Once he found out he kicked me out, no big deal I stayed with a friend till I could move to my new home! so far I haven’t been able to get my things to bring to my new home ( he is holding them saying he bought them so they are his) and I have no money at all because I used everything for the deposit and first month rent. My job doesn’t start till next week and then I’ll still have to wait for a check. I’ve done the best I could to find assistance in my area and so far I got food in my home and that’s such a blessing! I’m really in need of some money to help me pay for daycare for 2 weeks, get beds for my children, furniture, and gas so I can get to my job and start getting checks. I’ve prayed and prayed and god has delivered for me but now I’m just in a tough spot getting on my feet fully and making all the next steps to be successful and never have to look back and feel so worthless.

If you can help thank you but if not just say a prayer for me ❤️

PayPal.Me/mama9722

This is me and my daughter, Sky. Recently there were allegations she was being molested by her father. Our marriage had always been tremulous, but with concerns over her well-being, I immediately contacted DSS and left. It seems I was just in time- very shortly after, my husband was arrested for murder charges. But not before he was able to move all of my and my daughters belongings into a storage unit, which he didn’t put my name on. According to the storage owner, because the contact was in my husband’s name, I wasn’t allowed access to it. According to the police, it’s a civil issue and they wouldn’t help. The unit went up for auction. I went and tried to bid on our belongings. And lost. We lost everything except the clothing and toiletries we had taken with us.

I have a Masters Degree and work full time. My grandmother helps somewhat by watching my daughter when I can’t and temporarily letting us stay with her. I’ve picked up a second job, which I start on 4/25. And I’ve just found out I’m pregnant. I’m trying everything I can to get our life back together. But right now it’s just not enough. It will be months before I’m able to save enough to get us a place of our own. There’s not room at my grandmother’s house for me, Skylar, and a new baby. I’ve reached out to a few non-profit organizations in my area, some local churches, and have even started a GoFundMe. I received $80 on the GoFundMe and now receive $15 a month in food stamps. I don’t know what else to do.

I would literally do anything to get us back on track. Please help. I don’t have an amount in mind. I would be so grateful to anyone able to offer assistance and would definitely “pay it forward” when I’m able to.

Paypal.me/sabrahart