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Being a single mother especially in today’s era can be extremely overwhelming. If you are one of those mothers who is doing it alone every day you know what I am talking about. It seems like the bills just continue to pile up and never end.

Researchers have said that just in 2015 year ending alone over 80 percent of the households in America that we’re single households we’re in fact ran by a FEMALE head of household which we’re mostly living very poor.

Many people may say well there is government assistance for them to get a grant but it’s hard to find and information regarding that said topic anywhere. So in hopes to help the single mothers out in the world this article will give you some insight on the different assistance topics we can cover including where and how to get a grant or scholarship. Also, you will read and see how simple it is to receive help with income expenses and medical insurance.

Are there really grants for a single mother?

Of course they do but these grants are not only for single mothers. However, that doesn’t mean there isn’t help for a mother to receive one. I know its mind boggling that the government hasn’t had any means created for money for a single mother that is actually in the shape of a grant. One thing the government does for a single mother is they assist them through a group or have set sponsors through a company, and sometimes they are covered by the actual income assistance completely.

Below are a few websites that will redirect you to free items that you can get just for registering on the website.

Low Income Assistance for Single Mothers / Government Grants

As I said there is not an official grant for a single mother available that is FEDERAL. However a single mother can go through federal programs and register and sign up for them. Those kinds of programs are usually for households with low income. Which means you would also qualify for Welfare. No matter what the case these are programs to help those who make below the limit and live poorly.

Below are different types of assistance based in the United States.

TANF – TEMPORARY ASSISTANCE FOR NEEDY FAMILIES

TANF is a crucial for many low income families located within the US.

With TANF you receive a small amount of cash every month that you can use toward your food, rent, and other necessities. However you only receive TANF for up to 60 month limit.

If you are a single mother and you have children in your home who are less than 19 years old you are eligible for TANF.

SNAP – SUPPLEMENTAL NUTRITION ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

Food-stamps or SNAP as other people may refer to is financial help for meals. You can receive money every month to place food on the table if you are on low or no income.

For most of Americans living in poverty SNAP is potentially the only assistance they can get.

Research has shown that in 2015 SNAP benefits have helped at least 45 million Americans. Most of the ones who receive the stamps are under are up to the age of 18.

When you go to use your benefits for SNAP you have your own personal debit card to ring your groceries up with at the register. If you are interested in trying to get on with SNAP benefits all you have to do is fill and application out and send it in or take it into a local office that deals with SNAP benefits.

NSLP – NATIONAL SCHOOL LUNCH PROGRAM

This is a program that gives free (or discounted) food to students whose parent’s income is bellow a poverty level. The income needs to be at least between 130-185 percent bellow the poverty line.

Most the time if a person is a receiver of SNAP benefits their children will be accepted into this program for free lunches. But, that doesn’t mean if you don’t have or receive SNAP that your children are disqualified.

You need to contact your child’s school to apply.

TEFAP – THE EMERGENCY FOOD ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

Food for the American families who are in the poverty range not matter what the age.

If you have received food stamps before or any other program assisting you and helping you such as the ones in this article you could also be approved for this program.

You will need to contact your State distribution agency to learn more about the Emergency food assistance program.

Local Food Banks

A food bank doesn’t exactly fit into the whole “Grant” program area as it is actually a location in your town where you can get food if you are in need.

Do not allow you or your family to go without food. If you ever reach that trouble you can call 211 and ask them where the nearest food bank is based on your location.

More then 200 food banks exist with the feeding america foundation and they supply enough food to feed over 40 million people.

WIC – WOMEN, INFANTS AND CHILDREN PROGRAM

This program includes a package deal where you as a mother are able to receive healthy foods, whether you are pregnant or a new mother, and also to children who are 5 or under.

WIC is a program that is temporary and only used for a short amount of time – usually between 6 to 12 months.

EARLY HEAD START / HEAD START

These programs are for children up to 5 years old.

You can receive free child’s medical and dental care along with their schooling, and dietary needs.

Find your closes headstart office on their website or call at 1-866-763-6481.

Insurance for unemployment

This is a special program which will pay you weekly if you are unemployed and it had nothing to do with you for you being fired or let go. You will only be able to receive this benefit for maximum 26 weeks. Different states have different benefit rules. But most states will average out at about 45% of whatever the average weekly income is.

Single mothers who are out of a job temporarily can find solace with these benefits and can help make the burden less for themselves because this pay will restore what you have lost from losing your work.

If you want to try and get this started and opened for you, you will have to find your local unemployment office or apply on the website for this specific program. Most states will allow you to also try to sign up for this over the phone.

Section 8 housing

Section 8 is basically a program that helps a family be able to pay for their housing. If approved you will receive a voucher of up to 70 percent of your bills (utilities and rent). You are expected to pay the other 30 percent.

If you want to apply and feel you qualify you can get in touch with your local office involved with public housing, the HUD office.

CCAP – CHILD CARE ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

This is a benefit for families who can’t afford to place their children in daycare while working.

You still have to pay a certain percentage but it isn’t a big lump of money. The less you earn, the less you need to contribute.

EITC – Earned Income Tax Credit

It is a tax benefit for people with low income. You could potentially get as much as $6,000.

If you normally have a tax rate of $1050 but you are allowed $5550 then you get refund of $4500.

There is a Children’s Tax Credit too for as much as $1,000 for EACH child.

LIHEAP – LOW INCOME HOME ENERGY ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

LIHEAP is a program that is a one time help to help pay for heating / cooling expenses.

Most of the time this is for the disabled or families with children or disabled person in the home.

If you need any extra information regarding this topic you can get in touch through the number 1-866-674-6327 or a local number for your local LIHEAP office.

WAP – WEATHERIZATION ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

Weatherization assistance program lowers energy bills for families in need. Usually the elderly and families involving children are accepted and put to the top of the list before all.

Your monthly income need to be below 200 percent poverty level.

To apply, find a local WAP center.

Medicaid

Medicaid is help with medical expenses. If you do not have health insurance this gives you certain benefits as long as your income restriction meets the level it should.

A lot of single mothers may meet the standards to be recipients of Medicaid even if you are unemployed.

Every state has different rules about Medicaid plans. You can find out exact requirements on this website.

Together with ObamaCare it ensures that even single mothers who didn’t receive any health benefits will now be able to have coverage.

CHIP – CHILDREN HEALTH INSURANCE

CHIP gives children without health insurance a chance to have health benefits all the way up until they are nineteen. It is for families whose income is too high to receive Medicaid benefits.

It provides every type of benefit you can think of — dental, eye exams, and even annual doctor’s exams.

Every state has its own rules. If you would like to learn a little more about this specific benefit you can call 1-877 Kids now (1-877-543-7669)

Federal Pell Grants

Aid program for students of up to $5,815 for those in need to be able to set foot into college.

This is the best opportunity for a mother who is single to finally be able to finish her schooling and finally continue in the workforce. The money is completely free of charge with no interest rates or paybacks ever.

You need to fill out an application and submit it for a pell grant and have it turned in on or before June 30th of every year.

Federal Supplemental Education Opportunity Grant

Similar to the Pell Grant. If you already have had pell grants and you are at the top of the charts in need you will be first on the list to receive this. Depending on a persons needs that are wrapped in with their financial struggle will ultimately decide who will receive anywhere between $100 too $4,000 annually.

Charities

Charities can be a way to seek help for you and your children whether you are in need of food or clothing or even housing. A lot of charities around the world actually have their own food banks that they run and they will give you bags of free food.

If you go to salvation army a lot of the times they will let you sleep there if you have no where else to go especially if it is a result of violence.

Churches

Most churches will offer you food and clothes or maybe even a place to stay if you have been recently kicked out by the one you are living with.

To find information on this you should look through your phone books local listing or yellow page. You can also research online and see what churches are available to your area and call them and ask what services they do offer.

Loans

Single moms can receive loans usually relatively quickly but I would not recommended that at all. You could potentially go into debt and not be able to rise back from that.

Sometimes you have no choice because you have to fix your broken car or maybe pay for utilities and food and need the help right then. But you have to be able to pay that loan realistically quick.

Pay attention to your credit because if you try to get a loan through a bank or anyone they will check your credit score and see if it is even available to be able to place a loan out to you. If it is a loan that is for payday loans or credit card advances they will not run a check but you will end up paying more after fees and costs.

Line of Credit

If your credit is decent some people ask a bank for a loan personally. Most of the time this is a better idea then asking for a payday loan because if you need quick money with lower rates of interest this is it.

Personal Loans

On a personal loan interest is lower dramatically but you have to pay in instalments. It doesn’t really fit criteria for an emergency. Normally if you just tell them you do not have any more funds and that is why you need this they will turn you away. If your credit is poor you will not be able to even touch this offer.

Short term (payday) loans

This is a very popular type of loan. You may know it by the term “Cash advance.” The interest runs really high on these and it is a loan that is only for a small time frame.

This is a loan that would more then likely be considered if a problem arises and you needed to repair your car or had a disastrous dental emergency. You have to know for sure you will be able to give every penny back.

If you do not pay this type of loan back you could be in loads of trouble financially.

Credit card cash advance

Do you own a credit card? If so you will be able to get money from a bank as easy as 1, 2, 3. This is not a method that is highly praised though because as soon as you start taking money out of the bank the interest keeps rising and you also are charged for using and pulling out of the bank a fee. This is potentially the easier options if you do need cash asap but you have to pay it back and make sure you absolutely can.

When it is all said and done grants will not solve your money issues within your home if that is what you expect. To get a grant is definitely not easy it isn’t a walk in the park by any means.

If you are looking to get a more stable source of financially being stable you should probably look in areas around you or find a women shelter until you can get back up on your feet.

If you think you have all the time in the world you can apply for other areas of assistance such as Food stamps, HUD, and etc. They do take a lot of time and effort for someone to get back with you and let you know if you have been accepted and enrolled. Try finding a part time working job as a way to financially start becoming stable again.

The moral of this is you can not expect a grant to fall into your hands without effort and take all your worries away. They are only here too do one thing and that doesn’t usually fix anything with your financial setting.

This is all on you and what you decide, no one else can decide for you.

Last Updated: August 13, 2022

Any help would be greatly appreciated

I’m a single Mum who’s just lost her job, partner has left me recently and left me to foot the bill for rent, our child, our bills etc. I’m absolutely lost and don’t know if I can handle being here any longer. I’m so stressed out I’m losing my hair and can’t sleep! I’m trying to be as strong as I can for my 12 year old daughter. I’m hardly managing to put food on the table, I’m drowning in debt (the photo is just one of many debts I owe!) and I’m stressed about buying my daughter new school clothes etc. she’s just about to start high school next week! I’ve been rejected for more loans and credit cards and I don’t know where to turn. I’ve been selling my things to try to scrape money together. I’m asking for help, I’m a good honest woman, I’m normally proud but I’m in dire need of help. Can someone please help me? I will pay you back as soon as I can once I get on my feet again and get another job. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you so much 🙏🏻 My PayPal me name is @candyxox

Filed Under: Single Moms Tagged With: UK

Last Updated: August 12, 2022

Chronic Illness & need to escape homelessness

Hello…I’m a single mom of twins,8 years old. Needless to say, the last 8 years have been extremely difficult. I recently found out that I have lupus, which was both a relief (at least I know why I experience the symptoms) and another worry. I haven’t been able to work, I receive no child support (because the state can’t find him), and have to get by on very little income. I also at this time, am sick in bed with the COVID19 sub variant and I’m worried about who will take care of my kids if I have to be hospitalized. My family lives in another state and they could come take care of them but there funds are limited also. I also have an eviction notice for last months rent I can’t afford and a late fee ($1400 total) which I have until July 30th to pay. Also I need to find another place to live ASAP because I have recently discovered mice in my apartment and so have other tenants and the management so far is doing nothing about it. I keep my place clean also and the site of mouse droppings is really disgusting. I know that with a weakened immune system I could get extremely sick even deathly sick from that. So first of all, I don’t want to be homeless again as I was for 3 years after I had my twins. We lost our first apartment because my boyfriend at the time, also the father of the twins, turned to drugs, quit his job, then one day decided to beat me up pretty bad. So I had no choice but to take my babies and leave when they were only 3 months old. I lived in domestic violence shelters, family group homes, night shelters, until finally getting into a good program which was a long term shelter helping to find housing and pay for the move in costs. I was on that waiting list for 2 years. Finally getting into a place I could afford and now after living here 5 years I face eviction and I really don’t want an eviction on my record as that could keep me from being able to rent another apartment in the future. So I would really appreciate some financial support. I also need some new furniture—a couch (I found mice living in it) and a kitchen table and chairs because recently my apartment was broken into and for some reason they decided to break up my chairs and scratch up my table. I try and make beaded jewelry for a little bit of side income but my equipment and hefty bead supply was also stolen and beads thrown around and unusable which now I’m out an over $3000 investment in which I worked very hard even working overtime to get the extra money to pay for that hobby. I cannot begin to tell you how devastated I feel not to mention really embarrassed that I have to turn to asking strangers for help. I have always been an extremely independent and resourceful individual and now that I have a chronic illness diagnosis of lupus I am worried about my future, but I need to take care of what’s first which is my eviction and then securing funds for a new apartment and those furniture items. One of my kids also needs a new twin mattress because we found a mouse living in that too! And she has been sleeping with me but thank God she doesn’t have any symptoms of COVID. They were immunized but I know that they could still get the sub variant strain like I just found out I have. Needless to say, I am stressed out to the absolute max as I worry about all these things plus how I’m going to afford school clothes at the end of next month!! And my doctor told me that stress would bring on symptoms of lupus very quickly and a lot stronger and right now my body aches are so bad I don’t know if it’s from lupus or COVID but even laying on a soft bed is painful right now. And it’s a little hard to avoid stress when these very serious things are happening all at once. If I get the money I need, I also am going to get an exterminator to come to my apartment so atleast I could be ok until I can find another suitable and affordable place to live. I really really would be very appreciative and extremely humbled to receive any help I can get. I’m not at all used to being in this kind of financial situation and in the past, was on the other end of helping anyone in any way I could. Needless to say, I am embarrassed to be asking for financial help but have no where else to turn right now. I would also like to thank anyone in advance who chooses to donate to me, and as soon as I can improve my situation, find employment (hopefully from home) I can actually do, and get back on my feet I definitely will pay it forward. That’s really what I truly believe in doing as I have seen so much devastation being homeless myself, being a domestic violence survivor, and a single mom with 2 babies who was able to rise above all of that and more and get on my feet. And now my chronic illness diagnosis has devastated me but I have a very strong will to once again rise above all my issues and be successful again. Thank You very much for your time and consideration.

https://www.paypal.me/twinsmom501

Filed Under: Single Moms Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: August 11, 2022

Young mom of 5

I’m a mom of FIVE. It’s been a bit tough to say the least. I’m so far in debt that I don’t even want to mention the amount. But EVERY LITTLE BIT counts and helps out big time! I’m trying to start over and don’t even know where to begin with the debt that I’m in. It’s very hard when you have so many over due medical/ regular bills on the table just sitting there collecting dust. It’s all I can think about at the moment. My kids need me back to my happy self so I can be more present with them all. My kids age range from 2-11. Three are still toddlers. Please! If you can find it in your heart to help out my crew, I will be forever so so grateful. I promise I will pay it forward when I get back on track. I have big dreams to help as many foster kids as possible. Its sick with all the things they have to go through in this life.  Thank you to anyone who even considers.

paypal.me/ellemandi

 

Filed Under: Single Moms Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: August 11, 2022

Single mom looking to buy a home

Hello, I’m not the best at talking about myself but here it goes. This is definitely out of my comfort zone. I’m a single mom of two, and I also have my mom with me. The whole Mom thing is a very very long story that would take over 400 words but long story short on my dad left when I was 17 she quit life and ended up picking up her slack and I don’t have the heart to leave her on the street I guess because I have been responsible for her since that day. I raised my siblings and she still lives with me. She’s never worked a day in her life 😑 She has a lot of medical bills and of course having the expense of another human living in my house is definitely rough but again don’t have the heart to just put her on the street even though she is not my responsibility. She’s been more of a child than a parent nevertheless she’s here. I have my two kids at home. No child support.   I love them with all my heart and definitely love having them. I like to say that I’m a pretty good mom.  I honestly have a decent job. But I am just surviving. I don’t make enough to  save.  I have been trying to buy a house for a few years now but when I tried a couple years ago for the third time it was right around the time when people were just out bidding and I could not compete   I had about 6000 from tax refunds I’d saved for a down payment and I needed more but I couldn’t save more.  The next two years I ended up spending what I had for a down payment because my mom needed some medical bills handled she doesn’t get social security or any type of income and it’s just heavy. I know that I have done my best. I’m a hard worker and I don’t get any type of assistance or anything like I said my job is decent but it doesn’t allow me any wiggle room. My kids and I have not had a house that is our own and I’m sorry for that. I’m even open to accepting a job if I could make more than I make note to save. I have my college degree and I have many years of experience and probably could do just about anything. I said I am living in a rental right now my rent is going to be raised just like everybody is dealing with around lease renewal time with inflation and I can’t afford it. I’m already living paycheck to paycheck and I’m just dreading the fact that I may even be stuck not having money for basics but recently I make “too much” for assistance. I’m looking to buy a home around 225-250k Sadly those houses used to be like 190 before all this mess but it is what it is. I would like to put my kids in a decent neighborhood and like I said I can afford to pay mortgage (of at least 1000-1200) and it be less than my rent so I know that I would be able to have a little more comfort in my life. I’m so stressed all the time and I’m so tired. I’m only one person and take everything for myself for my kids and for my mom and this is the only thing I have wanted. So I don’t know how this thing works and I don’t know if anybody would ever read this but If you would like to help I would appreciate it. My kids would be grateful and if I had family or somebody else that I could ask to borrow and figure it out I would but I don’t have that. Thank you so much for taking the time to read this I’m sure this is a bit scattered But if you want to know a little about me and who I am as a person can you can visit my website and also Photographer on the side www.rhisestudio.com. Actually that is probably the other reason I’d like to have my own house so I can actually shoot more. I don’t have any space to do like a little mini studio and that would allow me to make extra money.   Thank you so much.

Filed Under: Single Moms Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: August 8, 2022

Help with bills

paypal.me/TamaraPav

I work for 60,000 dinars, which is about 500 dollars.

I’m doing my best, but the last couple of months my bills have piled up.

Such life circumstances are unfavorable for me if I am alone and have no one, so I will trust in people of good will.

The problem is not a one-time thing, I need help in the next period to get back on my feet and get out of trouble.

Electricity, kindergarten, I stopped driving a car because I simply can’t afford the abyss.

Any help is welcome, thanks in advance and I wish you good health and happiness.

 

Filed Under: Single Moms Tagged With: EU

Last Updated: August 7, 2022

I’m in debt due to my bills and little income

To whom it may concern,

Hello, my name is Britannica Martin and I’m a single mother of three children. Their ages are 8 months, 2 years, and 4 years old. From July 2017 until now I’ve been a stay at home mom, as I’ve always wanted to be able to care for my children at home until they reached the age of 2, an age I felt comfortable putting them in someone else’s care. In that time I’ve earned my Associates Degree in Health Sciences, a Pharmacy Technician certification, and I’m currently a year into earning my Bachelor’s Degree in Business Management. I’ve recently gotten out of a mentally and emotionally abusive relationship, that lasted from October 2014 until August of last year, during the pregnancy of my baby girl. It was hard but I had finally gained enough strength to put my foot down, especially with my first baby girl being born months later. I lost what little financial help I had and I haven’t received voluntary child support from their father since February 2022. I’m in the process of complying with Child Support Services but he doesn’t work right now so I don’t see that being of any help any time soon. Since December of 2021 I’ve been doing delivery gigs to try to stay on top of my bills but in the last 3 months I’ve fallen terribly behind and things are at risk of falling completely apart. I was doing these deliveries with my children in the vehicle with me as I didn’t have enough proof of income and enough hours to qualify for help with childcare. I finally did enough gigs to qualify; I put my 4 year old in childcare 3 weeks ago and my 2 year old is due to start 7/11/22. Though I made enough to show some type of income it is not enough to cover my bills and gas (I drive my own vehicle to do deliveries), as I make about $600 a month. I am currently behind on my truck payment, which is $556 a month. I also fell behind on my insurance, which was $230 a month, but now my license has been suspended due to lack of insurance. It will cost $351 to renew my insurance, on top of a $150 reinstatement fee at the DMV. I’ve fallen behind on my electric bill, which has reached $856.48 (I was unable to get help from Lake Community Action through their LIHEIP program because I had help with my electric bill in August of last year and they help once every 12 months). I was able to get Lake Community Action to agree to pay something toward the balance from their crisis program but I have an email that says it can take up to 45 days to process. I also have a few credit cards that are maxed out and I have debt from using Pay Later services (Klarna, Deferit, etc.) I’m literally drowning right now and my only consolation is that my children don’t realize how tough things are for me. I pray that this reaches the person who can help relieve this stress and help me get on track so that when I find childcare for my 8 month old (which I hate to have to do because she’s so young but it’s necessary) I can start a job with a clean slate instead of trying to play catch up or losing the things I’ve worked hard to keep before I can get a paycheck. I thank you for taking the time to read this, blessings.

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Filed Under: Single Moms Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: August 6, 2022

Abusive Relationship – Stole from, drugged, etc. Need help.

I’m a single mama of two children. My youngest child has autism, non-verbal and developmentally delayed. We attend many appointments each week for him such as therapies, etc. Each appointment is anywhere from 20 minutes to 3 hours away as we live in a small rural community. My oldest child is also in counseling, which he attends every two weeks. We are trying to get it to where he can have it here in town, but right now it’s 30 minutes away. As well as all my appointments for my health issues that are anywhere from 30 minutes to two hours away every two weeks to every month. I’m currently trying to get on SSDI as well as my youngest child. I have not been able to work due to my youngest child’s health issues since he was born and will not be able to work for at least the next year as his doctor signed off that he will need constant care for the next year and does not feel he should be in a daycare setting. As well as all of our appointments, I would miss a lot of work.

I saved my tax returns and child care credit payments. I used them to pay my bills, get us to appointments, our needs, etc. Money was tight, but with my savings I always had it worked out.

My recent relationship started out great. I had known him for years. We were two peas in a pod. We did everything together. We always worked as a team, it was us against the world. We took care of my kids together and life was finally so good. In December of 2021 I found out I was pregnant with twins. Things took a turn for the worst in January 2022. He got drunk and lunged at me. I ended up hitting him in the face out of complete fear and reaction to protect myself. I have been abused in previous relationships. We broke up. A couple weeks later I lost one of our twins. In mid-February we got back together. He quit drinking. Things were back to nothing but good. Our relationship got stronger. In March I lost our other twin. That took a toll on both of us, but we worked through it together. Things started getting rough at the beginning of April. He was working a full-time job, 40+hrs a week, making $18 an hour, yet asking me for money every week even though I didn’t have a job. Promising me he would pay me back when he got paid. Manipulating me, guilting me with all these reasons as to why he needed it. When I told him no, when I wasn’t seeing any of it back, he would get so mad. He would start bashing me, etc. He then just started taking money. I ended our relationship on Memorial day weekend. He ended up taking my $5k tax return, stealing my youngest autistic sons savings money $600 and $2k of my insurance claim from my car. I have never seen a dime of his money. When I went to return his belongings, he drugged me. I ended up waking up in his gravel driveway behind my car. I couldn’t move, I was super confused and I felt super drunk. I had only had 2 shots of Fireball in 2 hour time span. My youngest child was sleeping in the backseat of my car. All I could think was I needed to get into my car, but I couldn’t move. I don’t know how I got in my car, but I got into my drivers seat. Once I did, he took my child out and took him into his mom’s house. The next thing I remember is hearing him and his mom screaming. I just wanted to get my baby, but I couldn’t move! I remember mustering up the strength to go in the house to get him. I walked into his bedroom and grabbed my son. As I was walking out with him, my Ex told me I wasn’t F’in going anywhere. I remember I just kept walking. I remember his mother even trying to make me get in her car and I just kept walking to my car. I knew I wasn’t going to drive, but I just wanted to be in my car with my son. I remember getting into my car and leaning my seat all the way back and talking to my son, him laughing. My ex came and took my phone. He kept telling me he was going to call the sheriff if I was going to drive. I kept telling him I wasn’t going anywhere I just wanted him to leave me alone. After that I don’t remember much. The next thing I remember is bright lights shining into my car and I looked over toward the fire he had going, I seen a deputy. The deputy came over to my car and opened the door. I remember sitting up and thanking God it was one that I knew and that I lived in a small town like this. I have known this deputy all my life. I told him I wasn’t going anywhere. He could clearly see that. I remember the deputy asking me over and over if there was something I wasn’t telling him, but at that time I was so confused, I couldn’t piece anything together. He asked me if my ex hit me or pushed me and I told him no. He asked me if my ex was abusive, I told him not physically and the deputy asked if he was mentally and emotionally. I told him he is a narcissistic abuser to the fullest. He told me that he could definitely see that. The deputy breathalyzed me just to see where my blood alcohol level was at and I only blew a .098. Where I live the legal driving limit is .08. Yet, I could barely talk or walk.  My ex became all nice and concerned once the deputy was there. Telling the deputy that I was more than welcome to stay there, etc. I had no one to call. So, I ended up having to stay there. I remember when I took my leggings off they were full of sand and like pail loads of sand. I was filthy of gravel. My girdle already unsnapped. The deputy called me 2 days later when he went on duty next and talked to me. I told him everything I remembered and pieced together. I lost an hour and half of time. He told me he knew something was wrong as soon as he looked at me. The only reason my ex is not being charged is because we can not prove what he used to drug me. My ex of course went around saying I just got sloppy drunk and passed out in his driveway. But, I was always the bad one and he was always the good. I am now in extensive therapy to try and get through everything.

Meanwhile all this happening. I had hit a deer with my van I had in December. My insurance company totaled in out. As I said previously, my ex took $2k of this money. So, I was only left with $3k to get a vehicle on top of my van for trade-in, which wasn’t much. I went to trade it in to a local small dealership. I gave the lady all the pieces it needed to be fixed to the minor damage. I ended up getting a newer vehicle that I thought was going to be reliable for my children and I. I was so excited! That came to a halt real quick. She had told me it was mechanically safe and that the only thing was that the back tires were very worn and needed to be replaced. They created a washboard affect due to them being super worn. When I got used tires to replace them, that wasn’t the case. The rear sway bar had been snapped for quite some time and became bent to heck! She never ordered the replacement pieces for the little damage this vehicle had. The back bottom bumper side piece by the bumper and lift gate. The lift gate only had a tiny dent at the very bottom. That was part of the sale deal though. Then the vehicle started going dead all the time. Everyday I would go to get into it, I would have to jump it. It got so bad I would have to carry a jump pack. I could go six blocks away to the local gas station and if I had just jumped it to go there, shut off my car and went to turn it on, I would have to jump it again. The battery was fried. Multiple fuses were missing from the fuse boxes as well as the wrong amp fuses in it. When I asked her about all these issues she admitted to me that she did not inspect the vehicle before she sold it to me, she only drove it. She also so it to me as a 4WD with a 2.5L? (maybe 2.0L) ecoboost engine and it’s acutally a 2WD with a 1.6L engine which made a price difference of $3k. She took two months to get me my title. After the first month when I went to her for it, she re-wrote my bill of sale to give herself more time to get it. After she didn’t have it for another month, I turned it over to a DOT investigator who ended up getting it and closing her down by August of this year. I have tried to reach out to her and talk about all of this. Negotiate with her. She has blocked my number. Blocked me from the dealership facebook page and everything.

I have been robbed of basically $10,000 in the matter of months. That I was using to take care of my children. We now live with my mother. I do not have a reliable vehicle. I can not afford to get it fixed. We are skipping appointments due to lack of funds. My son had his $600 savings money stolen. I don’t know what else to do. I have done everything I can to try and make ends meet.

I have always been the type of person to have my priorities straight and have a plan. Everything organized out so I can get what I need done. My children have always came first and had what they need and deserve. I have always helped those who need it out whenever I can and however I can. I raised my niece and nephew as a single mother myself when I had pretty much nothing myself while their mother was addicted to drugs so they didn’t get put into foster care. I have always believed that everyone deserves a second chance. I believe you should always help someone in need no matter the situation if you can because someday you may be in their shoes or in need of some type of help. That is me right now. Everyone I have helped or that were supposed to be my friend has turned away from me, but that’s okay. I believe there are still good people out there that will be the blessing and helpful soul I desperately need in this hard time right now.

Thank you for reading my story. Any help would be a true blessing.

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Filed Under: Single Moms Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: August 5, 2022

Hard Working Mother Needs Help

Thank you to anyone willing to read this. My name is Kim and I am a 40 year old single mother of 2 plus and additional child staying at my home. I work very hard in the world of Hospice care. I am a nurse and also one of the directors for the company that I work for. I love what I do and take pride in being able to guide my patients and families through the end of life process. I inherited a manufactured home and land when I lost my mother to ALS in 2012. The manufactured home was poorly put together and is crumbling down around me. I am asking for assistance with paying off a little bit of debt so that I might qualify for a loan to build a home for myself and my family. Asking for help is very hard for me as I am very independent and very hard working. I am not behind on any payments as I keep up with everything I owe. I am just not in a place where I would qualify to provide my family and myself with a safe living environment. I am a very compassionate and loving person who is willing to help anyone I can when I can. I appreciate any and everyone willing and able to help me into a better living situation.  Thank you again for taking the time to read this and God bless.

https://www.paypal.me/KimberlyWilson520

Filed Under: Single Moms Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: August 5, 2022

Young single mom in need of serious help!!

I am a 29 year old single mom who is working my butt off to make ends meet. I work 60-80 hours a week and still have gotten behind on bills in turn lowering my credit and making the phone ring constantly with collectors. It’s just me and my kid, no support from his father or anyone else but now I have gotten into a hole I am afraid I may not be able to get out of. I am a month late on my mortgage, up to my eyeballs in credit card debt and a car payment that I’m praying they don’t come after you after 1 late and 1 non payment.I have never asked for money from anyone let alone a stranger but I have no other avenues right now. Literally anything helps to get caught up and keep my son in a safe environment.
Thank you!

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Filed Under: Single Moms Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: August 2, 2022

Single Mom of one

Hi, I am a single mom of one asking for $3,000. I have a baby girl named Aria. After her dad passed away i’ve been struggling with food, transportation, and child care. I currently have no car as mine was totaled and i’ve been trying to save to get a new one but its been hard because a lot of my money goes towards transportation and things for my daughter. I am hoping I can use some of the money to get a car and finally be able to work more so I can get more money for my child. I would really appreciate it if yall could help me out. Life gets harder and more expensive every step I take. I just want the best for my daughter.

Filed Under: Single Moms Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: August 2, 2022

Young Widow

hello there everyone. I’m writing this regarding the situation I have been put in. I’m 24, almost 25 in two days (august 3rd) and I am now a widow to three young kids. My rent is due, amongst many other bills. All of my accounts are in the negatives and I haven’t had access to any of his yet, but I know we were struggling already previously. At this point I can’t even have a service for him. I’m a very hard worker, two jobs and again three kids. I’m not lazy and I work my butt off. I really need some help and compassion right now. I live thousands of miles away from any close family and have absolutely no support here. I’m at a loss and still grieving and don’t know who else to turn to.

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Filed Under: Single Moms Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: July 28, 2022

Lost Everything

I think we all can agree that the aftermath of 2020 has been nothing short of painful and catastrophic. It all began when I got the virus and spiraled from there. I do not know how it got to this point and so fast. It’s been absolutely devastating.

To begin, I am a single mother of 7 kids. I say single because unfortunately the person I had planned to spend my life with is consumed by an addiction and has become a complete stranger to me. My kids ages range from 19 all the way down to 5. To say it’s been struggle to get to where we finally were, would be an understatement. However, I worked relentlessly hard to rebuild my life and to secure my family and basically live safely in our own little bubble. That is until 2020 came along and burst my bubble. First, I caught the virus and battled it for 11 weeks with a fever of 101 or greater. We made my end of life plans as I genuinely did not feel like I was going to recover. Once I did get better, my mom and my grandma fell ill from the virus and tragically they both passed away within a week of each other. My stepdad lost his mom and exactly a week later, my mom. My moms funeral was also on my grandmothers birthday. It was not an easy month. 2 weeks later, I was served with my first eviction. For nonpayment of rent. Keep in mind we were under quarantine for 4 and a half months with no pay. I honestly don’t know how we survived at all. It was also my birthday that day. Also was the same day that my partner, completely totaled my vehicle. Engine in the dash. Still had some of my mothers things in there from her funeral but was unable to get them out due to it being registered to his grandma and she had unexpectedly passed away in May of 2020. Opened the title, but the following day everything literally shut down for 4 months. No one would have mercy and let me retrieve my moms things or transfer the title. Finally someone at the dmv took care of it for me but it took 6 weeks. During this, I was fighting for my home and my family to not lose it all together after all of these extreme events. Added in said partners addiction beginning because his inability to cope with his grandmothers passing. She was his…… everything. Managed to hold off court to December and after she tried lying and fabricating just about everything, the assistance place I called for help in august when I got the notice, finally called me and they thankfully stepped in and caught us up on rent and some utilities. Best part, my landlord LIED on the federal form so that she could get more money. Selfish and absolutely disgusting taking  from those who so desperately need it. I fought it. They don’t care  They just paid her to keep a roof over our heads. Thankfully. Landlord switched up her game and served me with papers to do an inspection and changed the date last min. Despite the fact that I had a not so friendly dog at the time and he had nowhere to go that day, the next week, yes but not the new inspection. They inspected and said they would come back 20 min to an hour. Never showed. Not my fault. WRONG. They lied in court, I have proof of all of their lies and regardless, the eviction was granted. Rendering my family of 9 completely homeless. Due to nobody having room for so many people, unfortunately we had to disperse. I have been slowly dying ever since that dreadful day. 3 of my children are out of state, 1 is at my dads and 3 are with me stuck in a home where I am hated and blamed for my partners inability to be not this monster that his addiction has brought out and for all of the ways that he completely screws everybody over. He has become awful. He is awful to me. In front Of my kids and sometimes gets physical even. It’s heartbreaking to watch this once amazing human being, become nothing more than an abusive, pathetic and disgusting drug addict. I really have needed my partner through all of this. But there I was, a lone man in trenches taking  on grenades. Still am. I cannot live like this anymore. I’m dying having all of my kids apart. It’s killing all of them too. We’re broken. On top of all of that, I asked my partner to follow up with my 2 storage units with all of my belongings and he failed to do so, resulting in me losing absolutely everything I own. I was so completely shattered. As well as losing many of my animals. My landlord slaughtered all 6 of my pet pigs, poisoned what cats I couldn’t get out in time, through out all of my pond fish and turtles and I’ve had to disperse my dogs as well. My old neighbor that was keeping 2 of my dogs for me till I found a home, adopted out 1 and put down the other. Both without my knowledge. She didn’t even give me the opportunity to find somewhere else or the option. It still hurts. Additionally, my partner totaled my other vehicle that I had bought with some of the money my mother had left me and it is now gone as well and I never got the chance to clean it out. My life is in complete shambles. This is a small part of everything. The biggest parts anyway. I am so pathetically desperate to get out of this unstable and potentially dangerous environment. With the housing market and economy in general so insane. I literally have no possible way of achieving that. I just want to be with my kids. I’d give anything to be able to reunite my family and strengthen and rebuild together. As we always have. I cannot breathe without my children. Each passing day, gets harder and harder. It has all traumatized me to the point where I can’t go anywhere without breaking completely down because of all the memories. Everywhere. My house is STILL vacant by the way too. Ask for nothing.  I need to be able to provide a home that I can afford. If that’s even possible. I need my kids. They need me. They are my life. I can live with all of the loss we endured. Maybe not quite my mom. Or her dad. Who died 2 days after her 1 year death anniversary. Being away from my kids? I cannot accept or live apart from them much longer. Please? I have searched anywhere and everywhere you could think of for something affordable. And resources for help. And nothing. Not one single thing was fruitful. I am missing moments I never wanted to miss. I shouldn’t be missing. Because greedy, awful people told a lie and got away with it. With no feeling whatsoever as they made my family of 9 broken and homeless. If anyone can find it in their heart to to help me work towards a home for me and all of my kids to be together again. Or guide me to the resources I need to be able to obtain a home, I would be forever grateful. If not, I completely understand. It’s alot. Thank you for taking the time to hear my story. Thank you for being the kind of person looking at these sites with hopes of helping people 💜 definitely need more people like you in the world. Thank. You.

Filed Under: Single Moms Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: July 27, 2022

Single Mother of 3

Hello,

I am a hardworking mother who just gave birth to her third child 7 weeks ago. During this time I found out my children’s father cheated on me and left me right before our child was born. I am an oncology registered nurse and I do have a good income. However, my children’s father lost his job and I have been supporting our family for a year by refinancing my home and using my credit cards. I have hit rock bottom emotionally and financially. I am writing this in hopes I can pay down my credit cards and get assistance with my mortgage payments. Thank you.

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Filed Under: Single Moms Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: July 23, 2022

I have no other option

I am an RN working full time and overtime. I have recently gotten custody of my two step children and I am responsible for a lot more bills. I would never ask for help if I didn’t need it. With all of the hours I work, it still isn’t enough. I need $10,000 to keep our home, vehicle, and bills paid. Anything would help. With the step children situation, it is a sticky situation that I’d rather not elaborate on.

Filed Under: Single Moms Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: July 22, 2022

Please help me financially to keep the apartment and custody of my Daughter

Please help me financially to keep the apartment and custody of my daughter!

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