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Financial Hardship Help

Being a single mother especially in today’s era can be extremely overwhelming. If you are one of those mothers who is doing it alone every day you know what I am talking about. It seems like the bills just continue to pile up and never end.

Researchers have said that just in 2015 year ending alone over 80 percent of the households in America that we’re single households we’re in fact ran by a FEMALE head of household which we’re mostly living very poor.

Many people may say well there is government assistance for them to get a grant but it’s hard to find and information regarding that said topic anywhere. So in hopes to help the single mothers out in the world this article will give you some insight on the different assistance topics we can cover including where and how to get a grant or scholarship. Also, you will read and see how simple it is to receive help with income expenses and medical insurance.

Are there really grants for a single mother?

Of course they do but these grants are not only for single mothers. However, that doesn’t mean there isn’t help for a mother to receive one. I know its mind boggling that the government hasn’t had any means created for money for a single mother that is actually in the shape of a grant. One thing the government does for a single mother is they assist them through a group or have set sponsors through a company, and sometimes they are covered by the actual income assistance completely.

Below are a few websites that will redirect you to free items that you can get just for registering on the website.

Low Income Assistance for Single Mothers / Government Grants

As I said there is not an official grant for a single mother available that is FEDERAL. However a single mother can go through federal programs and register and sign up for them. Those kinds of programs are usually for households with low income. Which means you would also qualify for Welfare. No matter what the case these are programs to help those who make below the limit and live poorly.

Below are different types of assistance based in the United States.

TANF – TEMPORARY ASSISTANCE FOR NEEDY FAMILIES

TANF is a crucial for many low income families located within the US.

With TANF you receive a small amount of cash every month that you can use toward your food, rent, and other necessities. However you only receive TANF for up to 60 month limit.

If you are a single mother and you have children in your home who are less than 19 years old you are eligible for TANF.

SNAP – SUPPLEMENTAL NUTRITION ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

Food-stamps or SNAP as other people may refer to is financial help for meals. You can receive money every month to place food on the table if you are on low or no income.

For most of Americans living in poverty SNAP is potentially the only assistance they can get.

Research has shown that in 2015 SNAP benefits have helped at least 45 million Americans. Most of the ones who receive the stamps are under are up to the age of 18.

When you go to use your benefits for SNAP you have your own personal debit card to ring your groceries up with at the register. If you are interested in trying to get on with SNAP benefits all you have to do is fill and application out and send it in or take it into a local office that deals with SNAP benefits.

NSLP – NATIONAL SCHOOL LUNCH PROGRAM

This is a program that gives free (or discounted) food to students whose parent’s income is bellow a poverty level. The income needs to be at least between 130-185 percent bellow the poverty line.

Most the time if a person is a receiver of SNAP benefits their children will be accepted into this program for free lunches. But, that doesn’t mean if you don’t have or receive SNAP that your children are disqualified.

You need to contact your child’s school to apply.

TEFAP – THE EMERGENCY FOOD ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

Food for the American families who are in the poverty range not matter what the age.

If you have received food stamps before or any other program assisting you and helping you such as the ones in this article you could also be approved for this program.

You will need to contact your State distribution agency to learn more about the Emergency food assistance program.

Local Food Banks

A food bank doesn’t exactly fit into the whole “Grant” program area as it is actually a location in your town where you can get food if you are in need.

Do not allow you or your family to go without food. If you ever reach that trouble you can call 211 and ask them where the nearest food bank is based on your location.

More then 200 food banks exist with the feeding america foundation and they supply enough food to feed over 40 million people.

WIC – WOMEN, INFANTS AND CHILDREN PROGRAM

This program includes a package deal where you as a mother are able to receive healthy foods, whether you are pregnant or a new mother, and also to children who are 5 or under.

WIC is a program that is temporary and only used for a short amount of time – usually between 6 to 12 months.

EARLY HEAD START / HEAD START

These programs are for children up to 5 years old.

You can receive free child’s medical and dental care along with their schooling, and dietary needs.

Find your closes headstart office on their website or call at 1-866-763-6481.

Insurance for unemployment

This is a special program which will pay you weekly if you are unemployed and it had nothing to do with you for you being fired or let go. You will only be able to receive this benefit for maximum 26 weeks. Different states have different benefit rules. But most states will average out at about 45% of whatever the average weekly income is.

Single mothers who are out of a job temporarily can find solace with these benefits and can help make the burden less for themselves because this pay will restore what you have lost from losing your work.

If you want to try and get this started and opened for you, you will have to find your local unemployment office or apply on the website for this specific program. Most states will allow you to also try to sign up for this over the phone.

Section 8 housing

Section 8 is basically a program that helps a family be able to pay for their housing. If approved you will receive a voucher of up to 70 percent of your bills (utilities and rent). You are expected to pay the other 30 percent.

If you want to apply and feel you qualify you can get in touch with your local office involved with public housing, the HUD office.

CCAP – CHILD CARE ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

This is a benefit for families who can’t afford to place their children in daycare while working.

You still have to pay a certain percentage but it isn’t a big lump of money. The less you earn, the less you need to contribute.

EITC – Earned Income Tax Credit

It is a tax benefit for people with low income. You could potentially get as much as $6,000.

If you normally have a tax rate of $1050 but you are allowed $5550 then you get refund of $4500.

There is a Children’s Tax Credit too for as much as $1,000 for EACH child.

LIHEAP – LOW INCOME HOME ENERGY ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

LIHEAP is a program that is a one time help to help pay for heating / cooling expenses.

Most of the time this is for the disabled or families with children or disabled person in the home.

If you need any extra information regarding this topic you can get in touch through the number 1-866-674-6327 or a local number for your local LIHEAP office.

WAP – WEATHERIZATION ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

Weatherization assistance program lowers energy bills for families in need. Usually the elderly and families involving children are accepted and put to the top of the list before all.

Your monthly income need to be below 200 percent poverty level.

To apply, find a local WAP center.

Medicaid

Medicaid is help with medical expenses. If you do not have health insurance this gives you certain benefits as long as your income restriction meets the level it should.

A lot of single mothers may meet the standards to be recipients of Medicaid even if you are unemployed.

Every state has different rules about Medicaid plans. You can find out exact requirements on this website.

Together with ObamaCare it ensures that even single mothers who didn’t receive any health benefits will now be able to have coverage.

CHIP – CHILDREN HEALTH INSURANCE

CHIP gives children without health insurance a chance to have health benefits all the way up until they are nineteen. It is for families whose income is too high to receive Medicaid benefits.

It provides every type of benefit you can think of — dental, eye exams, and even annual doctor’s exams.

Every state has its own rules. If you would like to learn a little more about this specific benefit you can call 1-877 Kids now (1-877-543-7669)

Federal Pell Grants

Aid program for students of up to $5,815 for those in need to be able to set foot into college.

This is the best opportunity for a mother who is single to finally be able to finish her schooling and finally continue in the workforce. The money is completely free of charge with no interest rates or paybacks ever.

You need to fill out an application and submit it for a pell grant and have it turned in on or before June 30th of every year.

Federal Supplemental Education Opportunity Grant

Similar to the Pell Grant. If you already have had pell grants and you are at the top of the charts in need you will be first on the list to receive this. Depending on a persons needs that are wrapped in with their financial struggle will ultimately decide who will receive anywhere between $100 too $4,000 annually.

Charities

Charities can be a way to seek help for you and your children whether you are in need of food or clothing or even housing. A lot of charities around the world actually have their own food banks that they run and they will give you bags of free food.

If you go to salvation army a lot of the times they will let you sleep there if you have no where else to go especially if it is a result of violence.

Churches

Most churches will offer you food and clothes or maybe even a place to stay if you have been recently kicked out by the one you are living with.

To find information on this you should look through your phone books local listing or yellow page. You can also research online and see what churches are available to your area and call them and ask what services they do offer.

Loans

Single moms can receive loans usually relatively quickly but I would not recommended that at all. You could potentially go into debt and not be able to rise back from that.

Sometimes you have no choice because you have to fix your broken car or maybe pay for utilities and food and need the help right then. But you have to be able to pay that loan realistically quick.

Pay attention to your credit because if you try to get a loan through a bank or anyone they will check your credit score and see if it is even available to be able to place a loan out to you. If it is a loan that is for payday loans or credit card advances they will not run a check but you will end up paying more after fees and costs.

Line of Credit

If your credit is decent some people ask a bank for a loan personally. Most of the time this is a better idea then asking for a payday loan because if you need quick money with lower rates of interest this is it.

Personal Loans

On a personal loan interest is lower dramatically but you have to pay in instalments. It doesn’t really fit criteria for an emergency. Normally if you just tell them you do not have any more funds and that is why you need this they will turn you away. If your credit is poor you will not be able to even touch this offer.

Short term (payday) loans

This is a very popular type of loan. You may know it by the term “Cash advance.” The interest runs really high on these and it is a loan that is only for a small time frame.

This is a loan that would more then likely be considered if a problem arises and you needed to repair your car or had a disastrous dental emergency. You have to know for sure you will be able to give every penny back.

If you do not pay this type of loan back you could be in loads of trouble financially.

Credit card cash advance

Do you own a credit card? If so you will be able to get money from a bank as easy as 1, 2, 3. This is not a method that is highly praised though because as soon as you start taking money out of the bank the interest keeps rising and you also are charged for using and pulling out of the bank a fee. This is potentially the easier options if you do need cash asap but you have to pay it back and make sure you absolutely can.

When it is all said and done grants will not solve your money issues within your home if that is what you expect. To get a grant is definitely not easy it isn’t a walk in the park by any means.

If you are looking to get a more stable source of financially being stable you should probably look in areas around you or find a women shelter until you can get back up on your feet.

If you think you have all the time in the world you can apply for other areas of assistance such as Food stamps, HUD, and etc. They do take a lot of time and effort for someone to get back with you and let you know if you have been accepted and enrolled. Try finding a part time working job as a way to financially start becoming stable again.

The moral of this is you can not expect a grant to fall into your hands without effort and take all your worries away. They are only here too do one thing and that doesn’t usually fix anything with your financial setting.

This is all on you and what you decide, no one else can decide for you.

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Single mom tryin to make a better life for her girls

Hi, my name is Keshia, I am 33 years old and a single mother of two beautiful, wonderful girls who are 7 and 3. I was a single mom for almost 5 years, it was an amazing experience I have that time with my oldest but I also was very lonely. I was in a miserable marriage where my husband couldn’t decide if he was gay or straight. We were married for almost 9 years after having our second child I left I couldn’t take it anymore. I had let myself go no makeup,over 300lbs, I was a diabetic and depressed. I had bariatric surgery so I could work and take care of my girls hopefully not be a diabetic, most importantly have energy to play with my girls and do things with them. I want to go back to school and be an RN, I thought this years tax return was gonna n to pay off my old student loans but because of the coronavirus they sent my refund back to me( which was much needed). When the shut down happened I was in training to drive a school bus so I could be available for my girls and go back to school. Schools shut down so training stopped. In May a distribution center started hiring that I applied for in February, I took the job. I was working 10 hrs a day 6 days a week,17-18 hour days were blurring together( after working 10 hours I’d come home cook dinner, clean house, do laundry, bathe the girls etc). The last few weeks they have slowed down our production, I was getting 60 hours a week, I’m barely getting 40 now. I need financial help in all aspects. I took over my grandmas rental when I got the job in May( instead of living at my dads, me and the girls in one room and no space for our things). I’ve been trying to pay on all te bills tht she let pile up( water, sewage, trash, internet, electricity & rent). I’ve barely made a dent and my hours are cut. I’m struggling to stay afloat and I’ve been so stressed out about bills, rent, gymnastics for the girls, food, school supplies and clothes, school the world!! I’ve caused an ulcer in my pouch( my stomach) and have to have surgey in the middle of August and will be out of work for 4-5 weeks with no pay because I’m only considered seasonal until they offer full time work!! I need financial help with my bills and my student loan debt so I can get back on track to go back to school. Thank you in advance and God Bless

paypal.me/mickelmonia

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If I am being honest I really need

If I am going to be honest I am not homeless and starving. I am healthy and shouldn’t complain.  If I’m being honest I do need 2500. Why? Well I am that much behind on my rent and utilities.  Why is that well if I’m going to be honest a year ago I left my husband. We had all the nice things and I walke
I lost two jobs due to Covid so times are tough.
But if I’m being honest I am glad my life has gone the way it has I now take time to appreciate what’s right in front of me which for some reason I was so blind to see before. Things like the beauty of outside. The stars the moon!
‍Thanks for reading. I hope your week is wonderful

www.paypal.me/akcas1

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Single unemployed mother in need during covid 19

This pandemic has been hard on millions of people worldwide. Even though our normal way of living is slowing opening back up there are still people that are facing financial hardship. I am a mother of 2 that is still unable to get over the backlash this virus has done to our country. I am willingly and available to return to work but do to the lack of childcare I am unable to return. While businesses  are slowly Returning to normal I am unable to partake in this advantage due to my childcare provider remaining closed due to COVID 19. Without this support I have declined employment with my provider due to the lack of childcare. Even though this decision helps the well being of my children it has caused a serious hardship financially. My children are not of age to look after there selves and a request for any possible donation is needed. Any amount is greatly appreciated. God bless all that have given to families in need like me and I hope your great deeds never go unnoticed. Thank u in advance.

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Out of options, over whelmed

I am doing this fundraiser for my mother.
The donation that we would receive would be used to help support my mother after the loss of her livelihood. 2 years ago she was taking care of her father with dementia while running her own day caring business from home. With 2 full-time jobs, 1 with managing a daycare and the other taking care of her father full time is a lot for one person to do. After the passing of her father, within a year she lost the business of 15+ years,  her father, her at the time boyfriend and the kid she helped raise from the age of a toddler from separation. The only kid she has is Raymond(22) who needed to drop out of college to help my mother take care of my grandpa and help around with what is needed. The will that was in place stated everything to be sold then mainly split between her and the brother do to the money it became a legal battle. Since the passing, Kathy has been living with friends and family unable to find a place to call her own. With bills also being a factor from medical do to diabetes/  arthritis with other monthly’s expensive
Some of the health complications she has had over the years have been. Surgery for a  football-sized hernia. The mesh was 1 foot by 6 inches. She is currently in recovery still. With the current COVID-19, it would be hard for her to get a safe job during the time currently.
This fundraiser is to help get a place for my mom while hoping to show generosity to the people that allowed my mother to be at their homes.
I am working full-time and doing college at the same time to pay bills for my family while getting an education. Personally unaware of what else to do. Asking the generosity of others in any form, from sharing, to donation for help in the time of need
This page will be used to help pay for bills, a place to live, medical bills, and show gratitude to others that allowed a place for my mother to live
Thank you
I am out of options for my mother please share any way . I have been stressed with working full time, college and trying to make sure my mom has a place. I nees help from the community in any way

https://www.gofundme.com/f/tnfph-thomas-family-fund

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SINGLE MOM OF AN 8 MONTH OLD

I didn’t want to get on here asking for help but it’s come to a point where I need to share my story. PLEASE READ SO I CAN BE FUNDED
My name is Natalie and my sons name is Cassious. He is almost 8 months old. His father went to jail 4 months after he was born and so I’ve been on my own working full time at a call center caring for him ever since. When the corona virus hit it made things very difficult. I had no care for my son because he can’t wear a mask to protect himself and I was unable to pay a provider and I could not trust most around my area because I saw that they were traveling. With that being said I had to let go of my position because internet was not available at home and so I resigned. Another job is looking to hire me and I was supposed to start this month but I am now starting in August I have no money to get the computer that I need to work from home on. I also start at Ashford University; the 21st so I will need a computer to do my homework on desperately.
I do qualify for government help and have reached I am waiting on the help now because didn’t get it done before because I was too consumed in my depression I was denied because I didn’t provide them with all of the information but I sent it in and I’m still waiting.
Another thing I have been trying to get done is get moved so so can be with my son alone. I have a current cps case because I called the cops on my moms alcoholic boyfriend for barging in my room and hurting the dog and so when I called they automatically sent cps because my son was there. They took him out of the home to my baby daddies moms house and I have to get my own place in order to keep my son alone ! It’s so stressful that all this is going on at once and after that happened I’ve been getting all my stuff together but unfortunately it’s hard to do that with no money at all and I’m in a mountain of debt at only 20 years old so leasing things are not an option.
Also my car is messed up and I would like to fix it because it’s been acting up really bad I’m scared I’m going to break down. The heat sensor in my car is broken and I need to
replace it for a 2004 Aveo
It costs $72.49 for the part
The last thing I will be mentioning is my health. It’s been crazy without my medical card and I never had the time to get my ankle surgery done after I sprained it in 2018 and it has been giving me really bad problems ever since. I need to get it fixed because I’m scared it’s going to cause bad medical problems. And I also need dental surgery. Because one of my back molars is still partially in my gum and it’s been also causing me swelling and discomfort.

My car payment is past due $155
My insurance has been cancelled due to non payment and without insurance they will take my car. I have to get insurance back and the outstanding bill is $1,821
My phone bill is due $149.75
My cashapp is $natandcass
Please I do genuinely need help so if you would like to help a single mommy out and you have it and want to give please donate 💕 when I am back on my feet I plan to give back.

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Mom of 2 Deeply Struggling

Hi there.

I’m just trying to keep this short and sweet, but provide you with enough details. For a few years now, I have severely struggled with my mental health. I was getting help from a counselor, and had some unforseen things happen in the family. From that point on, I quit going. I had a job as a bank teller from 2018-February of this year.

With my mental health declining quickly, I decided to quit my job, and be a stay at home mom to my two boys (1 and 2 years old.) There was nothing in the world I wanted more than to spend every day with them. Their dad works full time at a construction job. I decided I was just going to do DoorDash for extra income.

Right around the time I started getting pretty decent side money from delivering, the COVID-19 virus hit. Our daycare closed, as did all of our other options, so I had no choice but to stay home and lose out on my income.

I’m going back a bit further. In 2019, my fiancé car was stolen out of our driveway. It had 2 car seats in it. They started the car on fire, leaving us with no car seats, and my fiance without a car. He bought a Dodge Nitro for $4500 so he could get to and from work. He got ripped off with that vehicle ad well, as the moment he bought it, it had problems. It now needs the radiator replaced, which we cannot afford, so he has been using my car.

This leaves me without means to do any deliveries. I try to do some at night, which only results in about $20. After the virus hit, and I was unable to do deliveries, I applied for unemployment.

They said I would be eligible for $396 a week. So I charged our credit card for groceries, diapers, utilities I still needed to cover. I waited 7 weeks for them to tell me I was not eligible for unemployment. I used the $2400 I got to pay some of this off. Then after finding out I was not eligible, it ruined everything. My mental health has been even worse, as we now have $10,000 in debt. I have never been in debt in my whole life.

I have been trying to get back out there and find something at least part time, but don’t have the means. You need money to start a kiddo in daycare, and you need daycare to start a job.

This is pretty much my last hope, and I am very ashamed I have to do this. $10,000 is the total needed, however anything helps and is seriously appreciated.

https://www.paypal.me/HandyRandi

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I just need a little help

Hello,

I am extremely embarrassed to do this and it is extremely difficult for me so all I ask is that you please not place any judgement on me for doing so.  I am a single mother of three daughters, two of which are my biological daughters and one is a girl I took in after her mother passed away suddenly.  I have been a single mother for the past 16 years without receiving any child support or any sort of government assistance and have worked very hard to provide for my girls, I have never been unemployed and at one point I worked four jobs and got little to no sleep most of the time, I currently work 40 plus hours a week but cannot make ends meet, for years I had a roommate to help offset costs, but recently have been had two different roommates leave me stuck and been left to pay everything on my own, collectively they owe me over $2,500 dollars and it has put me in the hole financially, I am struggling to pay my $1,600 a month rent payment, $425.00 electric payment, $500.00 water bill, $150.00 a month gas bill, $200.00 a month medical bill and putting food on the table for my daughters.  I am not one to ask anyone for help, but I am becoming frightened of the fact that I may loose my home and if that happened I would be unable to get housing due to the fact that I cannot afford a deposit and the upfront money involved in moving.  I have no criminal history and am very involved with my kids and their school, which is a predominately black school of which many kids attend from the inner city and I have been involved closely with our football program as my daughters are managers on the team and I even took in four boys into my home for an entire summer and provided for them the entire time, food, shelter, rides to summer school and summer practice all at my own expense only to have one of them steal $1,000 in which I paid back to the person they stole from to protect them from getting in trouble with the police, maybe not the best way to handle the situation looking back, but in my eyes these boys were already having to face so many challenges being young black men and not having the same opportunities other young men have I just wanted to see them succeed and all of them have with the exception of one of them.  Anyways, I don’t mean to talk myself up, but I truly try to do the right thing and sometimes it causes me to suffer, but I have always been taught to help others less fortunate and I do the best I can to help others.   At this point I would appreciate ANY help I could get.  Thank you for taking the time to read my post.

PayPal.me/MelissaHallich

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Desperate Mother Needing Help

Hello. Thank you for taking the time to read my story. I am a young mother to five beautiful boys. My children are my world and I am trying my hardest to be the best in the their eyes. I was married to their father for 15 years, until it became toxic and I had to make the hardest decision to walk away. It was very hard, but it had to be done. I couldn’t continue to put myself and our children through it. I am now trying everything in my power to come up with money to get by on to pay my bills. I do work as a CNA but I only get 6 hours a week. My paycheck is $113.00 every two weeks. It’s so hard to get by on with just that. I also am in college full time pursing my degree in nursing. I am trying to so hard do all I can on my own. I never in my life thought I would be having to beg and ask for any help. I am the one who has always been  on the look out and go to helping everyone else. I am a giver and it makes me so happy to do  for others, that has always been my nature. Doing for others and always putting  myself last. I do not have family help or support. My family is just toxic and have bad issues. I wont allow myself and children around the way they choose to live their life.  I have stretched all lengths and resources that I know to do. This is my last resort of asking for any help/donations that anyone feels in their heart to give. It would mean the absolute most to me! I am an very honest and open person. I will say that my car payment is behind a couple months and my mortgage is as well.. I am trying my hardest not to lose my home and car. These are our main resources that we need. That is why I am here begging and It absolutely makes me feel so horrible. But I will pay it forward to others as soon as I can.  I am praying for a miracle and I will be praying for everyone else as well, that is struggling and in similar situations as I am. This is so hard on our mama hearts. But we will make it so how, stay strong!  God Bless you all!! Thank you in advance!! Much Love, Heather! paypal.me/Heathernhart

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My children and I need help.

Idk what to do anymore, and I’m not sure where to begin.

I try to be positive in life, despite so many obstacles and so many consequences resulting from poor decisions. My life is a mess.

I have been out of work since my pregnancy, where I had to be in bed rest.  I eneded up being hospitalized for the last 4 weeks of my pregnancy and my son was still born a few weeks early. I am beyond grateful that he’s now 2 and healthy (along with his 12 year old sister)! His father was with me, at that point we’d been together 5 years. During that time his drug abuse became worse. More so when we decided to move to FL where I could be with my family since I was pregnant and I had already been in the hospital for bleeding (thinking I’d lost him like I did my previous pregnancy)…anyway…bringing a struggling addict to Florida, the epicenter of FLAKA was a big mistake. I lost him to the drugs completely. Living with him became hell! I grew up sheltered or maybe blind to drugs and all that comes with it. I was raised by my mom, she doesnt drink, she doesnt use drugs. So I didnt know much about it. I thought it was an easy choice to pick between your family and your habit. I now know its a disease. I now know he couldn’t help it…he had tried to be sober…but in my ignorance I took each relapse as a slap to the face, as proof he didnt care about me or his son.

This was all at the beginning of the corona virus pandemic. I couldn’t believe he’d be out drugging and coming home after days of binging and just crawl in bed and be around my son, not bathing not being clean…just totally unrecognizable behavior. So I decided I had enough and I couldn’t help him, I didn’t allow him back in our home, he had no choice but to ask his family for money to move back to his home state. He took the car and his stuff. I had been speaking to his mom before he was gone, asking her and other members of his family for help. His mom never liked me…and she’s an addict herself. She said I should cut him out of my life and force him to go back home where all his family would help.

She lied. Nobody is helping him.

Its been almost 5 months, he said he’d send money but he’s been blowing it on drugs and spiraling out of control so thats not going to happen. I’m trying to put him on child support but his name isnt on my sons birth certificate, so that will be a whole different financial battle with court. My son was born too “white” looking so he thought I cheated. I gave him and my son a dna test to prove it.  I am living with my mom in a room with my kids. I am doing uber to help her with some of my bills and my share of rent, but I have to use my brothers account. I cant just get a job because of the pandemic and I didnt mention I’m not a US resident. My mom brought me here at 9months old. I have saved all the money I’ve made working less than minimum wage jobs, or babysitting, anything that paid cash, i spent thousands on applications and forms and scams of legal advice to help me become a citizen. I keep getting sucked into loopholes and still nothing.

My mom is overwhelmed helping me because she is also helping my older brother who lost his job due to corona.

I just want to help her with what I can and still be able to have enough for my kids and for my own health. I have not been ok due to this and so many other stressful situations, I have really bad anxiety attacks i have other mental health problems, I cant get treatment because I don’t have insurance and I cant afford it.

I am both of my kids only parent. I need help getting better so I can better help them.

I need help saving up enough money to find a good and real lawyer who can help me with my case so I can become a citizen, get a trade and live on my own and not depend on my family.

I need all the positive vibes and blessings sent my way.

paypal.me/savisari

Thank you.

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Mom of 4 leaving abusive marriage

Hello, I am from TN and am 37 years old.  I have 4 amazing kids aged 15, 13, 9 and 3.  A few months ago I made the very difficult decision to leave my marriage.  The reason for this is years of psychological, emotion and mental abuse from my husband.   If I didn’t agree with him or I didn’t go along with whatever he said, he would rage on me and say things to me that no human should ever hear.  He would control me with money, not giving me access to our family funds.  He would take the keys to my car as a means of control.  He did this for years to me.  But as our daughters got older, he began to do it to them too.  That was when I knew I had to get away.  No children deserve that.  He would not be a father to them at all, never participate, never listen…..But the screaming and cussing us was the worst part.  And the last few months before I made him leave, it was every single day.

So now we have been separated for a few months and I have barely been making it.  I have relied on help from family, but it’s at a point where I can’t ask them anymore, they have already helped so much.  I can’t work right now because of the pandemic.  I am a licensed nurse, but my license isn’t active and it is going to cost $200 to get my license back, which I just do not have.  I was a stay at home mom for many years, so getting any job is hard, but if I had my nursing license back, it would be much easier.

He refuses to pay me child support, and he continues to be manipulative and hateful to us.  He tries to bully me into canceling the divorce and tells me I will never make it without him.  I want to prove him wrong.  So far I have somehow made it without him, but I am running out of options.

Please, if you can find it in your heart to donate and help us, I would be forever grateful.  I don’t know what else to do and I am desperate.

And yes, I do plan to take him to court for child support.  However, because of the pandemic, our court hearing has been delayed several times and it will be a few months before we can go to court.  I have spoken with an attorney and there’s nothing I can do until then. I do get assistance from the state, but it is not enough to last all month long and to cover everything.  It only pays one or two bills and then it’s gone.  Please help us.

paypal.me/jrwhite31

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Requesting $1000 to escape abuse

Hello my name is Mal and I live in upstate South Carolina. I am currently stuck in an abusive household with my 7 month old and his father. I met my child’s father around two years ago when I had started working at a restaurant he also cooked at. He was nice and charming at first and remained that way for the first year of dating him. We had moved in and after that first year I became pregnant and his whole persona changed. Suddenly he worked late every night and would lock himself in the bathroom for hours texting other women. I found out a few months in and attempted to break our relationship off. When I presented this news to him he became enraged and started screaming punching holes in the wall. When I tried to leave our apartment he blocked the entry way and started screaming and crying about how he was going to kill himself if I left, he then grabbed a bottle of pills threatening to take the whole thing if I attempted to leave or call the police. Not even 3 days later I found him texting the same girls on his phone as he was before, I attempted to leave in secret while he was at work but he came home early and saw me packing my bag. He grabbed me up by my arm and started cursing at me, when I explained I wanted to end the relationship he hit me across the jaw and then started screaming about how he didn’t want to do it I made him do it. Before I could grab my car keys he grabbed them and put them in his pocket where I couldn’t get to them. What I thought would only be a one time thing turned into months of  psychological and physical abuse. After I gave birth to our son I started collecting all my things while he was at work and left to stay with my parents, My parents don’t have a lot of money and liked the idea of me living with someone else, especially with a kid. My now ex has started driving by the house, parking out front, and even in the driveway screaming and cursing at me to talk to him, he’ll even started banging on the doors and windows. He also showed up to my new job and demanded my manager let him talk to me.  My parents have some bad lifestyle choices and therefore they’re not at home a lot so they didn’t care about this situation. When I called the police all they did was make a report and left. My parents finally worked up enough sense to talk to my ex about his behavior at their house, while they were supposed to be telling him to leave us alone unless it’s regarding my son. He convinced my parents to allow him to move in with them in exchange for rent money, which they accepted. My stalker now lives with me, I can’t shower, sleep, or eat without him there watching. Everyday i am degraded both physically and emotionally. My life is complete hell and my stress is at an all time max. I’m also scared for my sons life, as he doesn’t keep his patience with my son very well. I have a friend that lives in Stuart Florida that agreed to allow me to move in with them for a month until I find a job and then can start paying them rent. I don’t have much money and am asking for $1000 to cover the cost of gas to drive there, to buy formula and diapers for my son, first months rent, and food for that month once I arrive there. It doesn’t have to be the full amount I’m just looking for anything that will help start me on my way to a new life.

My pay pal is PayPal.me/malessajade

 

Thank you to anyone who took the time to read this.

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Single Mother- Trying to invest in her future

Hi everyone,

Thank you for taking the time to read this :) I’m a single mother of a too smart for his own good one year old lol. I’m asking for donations because I’m trying to invest in both our futures. I bought a car from the auction that worked and now it doesn’t. (I posted a pic of how the car looked inside there was stains everywhere, I got it detailed but it’s still pretty bad)  I want to be able to buy a brand new car to transport my baby and I to various destinations. I also am going to further my education and become a nurse and would truly appreciate being able to pay off all my debt I will occur. Thank you so much in advance for any contributions.

https://paypal.me/kaygray766

 

peace and blessings

 

 

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Single mom really needing help! No car.

Hi my name is Ashley and I am a single mom. I have a 7 year old special needs son. He has adhd and has really bad eyesight problems. He was put in special ed this year and I’m feeling really bad for my son and want better for him. The corona virus made everything worse and I had to quit working and sell my car to pay my rent. I’m struggling really bad and I’m about to lose the house I’m in. I have no car. I’m trying to save money to at least get a car for us to get around in. I’m working side jobs right now but that isn’t cutting it. His father believes that he doesn’t have to pay me anything and Has abused me for years now. With the new school year coming up I have no idea what I am going to do due to them trying to do half the week at home and the other half at school. I want to put my child in a small class schooling program where they can work with him individually and can focus on his needs rather than him being in public school and they not even trying with him at all and I just don’t have enough money for that.
What I’m asking is for donations to help me buy a new car, catch up on rent so I don’t lose my house, and s little extra to put towards a school or program that can focus on his needs better.

cash app: ashleykeasler

PayPal.me/Keasler

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crazy time

hello, hello anyone there,

with a good heart and willing to care,

times are hard in these desperate times,

so hard have started talking in rhymes,

never has a year given so much stress,

cant pay my bills, feel like a test,

this a plea for me to say,

if you could help me financially in any way,

you would be a legend and save the day,

I am so distraught on what to do,

i will forever be grateful because of you

https://paypal.me/kennedy642

 

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when does it get better

hello there,

I am a 32 year old who suffers with bipolar personality disorder along with stomach scaring from a hysterectomy making my mobility limited and get around using a mobility scooter or a walker. Last few years life has truly been difficult escaping domestic violence and starting fresh with my daughter. During these desperate times i have become in debt and truly starting from nothing including broken mobility scooter.Enough of all the doom and gloom though although times have truly been testing me I am on medication and much more settled in life. My only issue is i have so many debts and do not want to loose another home any help to get me in a place am more stable again would be a dream come true. If any money is not going towards bills or a new scooter i am desperate to see my youngest sister who is pregnant but lives in new mexico. I have never asked for support before like this. whoever you are even if it 1P it would truly help. I had to borrow a laptop to even write this. I am Determined to begin a future instead of being stuck in the past. Thank you for taking the time to read and i wish you every luck for the future

https://paypal.me/kennedy642