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Financial Hardship Help

Being a single mother especially in today’s era can be extremely overwhelming. If you are one of those mothers who is doing it alone every day you know what I am talking about. It seems like the bills just continue to pile up and never end.

Researchers have said that just in 2015 year ending alone over 80 percent of the households in America that we’re single households we’re in fact ran by a FEMALE head of household which we’re mostly living very poor.

Many people may say well there is government assistance for them to get a grant but it’s hard to find and information regarding that said topic anywhere. So in hopes to help the single mothers out in the world this article will give you some insight on the different assistance topics we can cover including where and how to get a grant or scholarship. Also, you will read and see how simple it is to receive help with income expenses and medical insurance.

Are there really grants for a single mother?

Of course they do but these grants are not only for single mothers. However, that doesn’t mean there isn’t help for a mother to receive one. I know its mind boggling that the government hasn’t had any means created for money for a single mother that is actually in the shape of a grant. One thing the government does for a single mother is they assist them through a group or have set sponsors through a company, and sometimes they are covered by the actual income assistance completely.

Below are a few websites that will redirect you to free items that you can get just for registering on the website.

Low Income Assistance for Single Mothers / Government Grants

As I said there is not an official grant for a single mother available that is FEDERAL. However a single mother can go through federal programs and register and sign up for them. Those kinds of programs are usually for households with low income. Which means you would also qualify for Welfare. No matter what the case these are programs to help those who make below the limit and live poorly.

Below are different types of assistance based in the United States.

TANF – TEMPORARY ASSISTANCE FOR NEEDY FAMILIES

TANF is a crucial for many low income families located within the US.

With TANF you receive a small amount of cash every month that you can use toward your food, rent, and other necessities. However you only receive TANF for up to 60 month limit.

If you are a single mother and you have children in your home who are less than 19 years old you are eligible for TANF.

SNAP – SUPPLEMENTAL NUTRITION ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

Food-stamps or SNAP as other people may refer to is financial help for meals. You can receive money every month to place food on the table if you are on low or no income.

For most of Americans living in poverty SNAP is potentially the only assistance they can get.

Research has shown that in 2015 SNAP benefits have helped at least 45 million Americans. Most of the ones who receive the stamps are under are up to the age of 18.

When you go to use your benefits for SNAP you have your own personal debit card to ring your groceries up with at the register. If you are interested in trying to get on with SNAP benefits all you have to do is fill and application out and send it in or take it into a local office that deals with SNAP benefits.

NSLP – NATIONAL SCHOOL LUNCH PROGRAM

This is a program that gives free (or discounted) food to students whose parent’s income is bellow a poverty level. The income needs to be at least between 130-185 percent bellow the poverty line.

Most the time if a person is a receiver of SNAP benefits their children will be accepted into this program for free lunches. But, that doesn’t mean if you don’t have or receive SNAP that your children are disqualified.

You need to contact your child’s school to apply.

TEFAP – THE EMERGENCY FOOD ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

Food for the American families who are in the poverty range not matter what the age.

If you have received food stamps before or any other program assisting you and helping you such as the ones in this article you could also be approved for this program.

You will need to contact your State distribution agency to learn more about the Emergency food assistance program.

Local Food Banks

A food bank doesn’t exactly fit into the whole “Grant” program area as it is actually a location in your town where you can get food if you are in need.

Do not allow you or your family to go without food. If you ever reach that trouble you can call 211 and ask them where the nearest food bank is based on your location.

More then 200 food banks exist with the feeding america foundation and they supply enough food to feed over 40 million people.

WIC – WOMEN, INFANTS AND CHILDREN PROGRAM

This program includes a package deal where you as a mother are able to receive healthy foods, whether you are pregnant or a new mother, and also to children who are 5 or under.

WIC is a program that is temporary and only used for a short amount of time – usually between 6 to 12 months.

EARLY HEAD START / HEAD START

These programs are for children up to 5 years old.

You can receive free child’s medical and dental care along with their schooling, and dietary needs.

Find your closes headstart office on their website or call at 1-866-763-6481.

Insurance for unemployment

This is a special program which will pay you weekly if you are unemployed and it had nothing to do with you for you being fired or let go. You will only be able to receive this benefit for maximum 26 weeks. Different states have different benefit rules. But most states will average out at about 45% of whatever the average weekly income is.

Single mothers who are out of a job temporarily can find solace with these benefits and can help make the burden less for themselves because this pay will restore what you have lost from losing your work.

If you want to try and get this started and opened for you, you will have to find your local unemployment office or apply on the website for this specific program. Most states will allow you to also try to sign up for this over the phone.

Section 8 housing

Section 8 is basically a program that helps a family be able to pay for their housing. If approved you will receive a voucher of up to 70 percent of your bills (utilities and rent). You are expected to pay the other 30 percent.

If you want to apply and feel you qualify you can get in touch with your local office involved with public housing, the HUD office.

CCAP – CHILD CARE ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

This is a benefit for families who can’t afford to place their children in daycare while working.

You still have to pay a certain percentage but it isn’t a big lump of money. The less you earn, the less you need to contribute.

EITC – Earned Income Tax Credit

It is a tax benefit for people with low income. You could potentially get as much as $6,000.

If you normally have a tax rate of $1050 but you are allowed $5550 then you get refund of $4500.

There is a Children’s Tax Credit too for as much as $1,000 for EACH child.

LIHEAP – LOW INCOME HOME ENERGY ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

LIHEAP is a program that is a one time help to help pay for heating / cooling expenses.

Most of the time this is for the disabled or families with children or disabled person in the home.

If you need any extra information regarding this topic you can get in touch through the number 1-866-674-6327 or a local number for your local LIHEAP office.

WAP – WEATHERIZATION ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

Weatherization assistance program lowers energy bills for families in need. Usually the elderly and families involving children are accepted and put to the top of the list before all.

Your monthly income need to be below 200 percent poverty level.

To apply, find a local WAP center.

Medicaid

Medicaid is help with medical expenses. If you do not have health insurance this gives you certain benefits as long as your income restriction meets the level it should.

A lot of single mothers may meet the standards to be recipients of Medicaid even if you are unemployed.

Every state has different rules about Medicaid plans. You can find out exact requirements on this website.

Together with ObamaCare it ensures that even single mothers who didn’t receive any health benefits will now be able to have coverage.

CHIP – CHILDREN HEALTH INSURANCE

CHIP gives children without health insurance a chance to have health benefits all the way up until they are nineteen. It is for families whose income is too high to receive Medicaid benefits.

It provides every type of benefit you can think of — dental, eye exams, and even annual doctor’s exams.

Every state has its own rules. If you would like to learn a little more about this specific benefit you can call 1-877 Kids now (1-877-543-7669)

Federal Pell Grants

Aid program for students of up to $5,815 for those in need to be able to set foot into college.

This is the best opportunity for a mother who is single to finally be able to finish her schooling and finally continue in the workforce. The money is completely free of charge with no interest rates or paybacks ever.

You need to fill out an application and submit it for a pell grant and have it turned in on or before June 30th of every year.

Federal Supplemental Education Opportunity Grant

Similar to the Pell Grant. If you already have had pell grants and you are at the top of the charts in need you will be first on the list to receive this. Depending on a persons needs that are wrapped in with their financial struggle will ultimately decide who will receive anywhere between $100 too $4,000 annually.

Charities

Charities can be a way to seek help for you and your children whether you are in need of food or clothing or even housing. A lot of charities around the world actually have their own food banks that they run and they will give you bags of free food.

If you go to salvation army a lot of the times they will let you sleep there if you have no where else to go especially if it is a result of violence.

Churches

Most churches will offer you food and clothes or maybe even a place to stay if you have been recently kicked out by the one you are living with.

To find information on this you should look through your phone books local listing or yellow page. You can also research online and see what churches are available to your area and call them and ask what services they do offer.

Loans

Single moms can receive loans usually relatively quickly but I would not recommended that at all. You could potentially go into debt and not be able to rise back from that.

Sometimes you have no choice because you have to fix your broken car or maybe pay for utilities and food and need the help right then. But you have to be able to pay that loan realistically quick.

Pay attention to your credit because if you try to get a loan through a bank or anyone they will check your credit score and see if it is even available to be able to place a loan out to you. If it is a loan that is for payday loans or credit card advances they will not run a check but you will end up paying more after fees and costs.

Line of Credit

If your credit is decent some people ask a bank for a loan personally. Most of the time this is a better idea then asking for a payday loan because if you need quick money with lower rates of interest this is it.

Personal Loans

On a personal loan interest is lower dramatically but you have to pay in instalments. It doesn’t really fit criteria for an emergency. Normally if you just tell them you do not have any more funds and that is why you need this they will turn you away. If your credit is poor you will not be able to even touch this offer.

Short term (payday) loans

This is a very popular type of loan. You may know it by the term “Cash advance.” The interest runs really high on these and it is a loan that is only for a small time frame.

This is a loan that would more then likely be considered if a problem arises and you needed to repair your car or had a disastrous dental emergency. You have to know for sure you will be able to give every penny back.

If you do not pay this type of loan back you could be in loads of trouble financially.

Credit card cash advance

Do you own a credit card? If so you will be able to get money from a bank as easy as 1, 2, 3. This is not a method that is highly praised though because as soon as you start taking money out of the bank the interest keeps rising and you also are charged for using and pulling out of the bank a fee. This is potentially the easier options if you do need cash asap but you have to pay it back and make sure you absolutely can.

When it is all said and done grants will not solve your money issues within your home if that is what you expect. To get a grant is definitely not easy it isn’t a walk in the park by any means.

If you are looking to get a more stable source of financially being stable you should probably look in areas around you or find a women shelter until you can get back up on your feet.

If you think you have all the time in the world you can apply for other areas of assistance such as Food stamps, HUD, and etc. They do take a lot of time and effort for someone to get back with you and let you know if you have been accepted and enrolled. Try finding a part time working job as a way to financially start becoming stable again.

The moral of this is you can not expect a grant to fall into your hands without effort and take all your worries away. They are only here too do one thing and that doesn’t usually fix anything with your financial setting.

This is all on you and what you decide, no one else can decide for you.

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Working Single Mom Needs Help Living Unsafe Conditions

Hello, I am April, a Single mom who needs extra help with moving. I don’t make enough to move to a nice safe clean place for me and my children. We have been living in a not-so-good condition for months now. We have been breathing in mold and the ceiling in the kitchen has fallen cause of water damage now I can’t take a shower in my own home I have to use a gym shower. It’s a stressful situation for me and my kids. Trying to save up so we can move. If anything can help I appreciate it.

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URGENT HELP NEEDED – Single mom about to lose her home

Hi, my name is Ann, and I am a single mom to a wonderful 12 year Old boy.
I am usually not one for asking for help, I like to Think that I Can manage everything on my own, but at this point I have to face the fact that I can’t Make it out of this situation without help. I am about to lose my business and my Home if I don’t come up with the large amount of 65000$ This is due to a very stressfyldt period in my life where I had to have an assistant taking Care of all the paperwork in my business, because I was ill – she apparently did’t do her job very Well and never payed any taxes as she should have, and now I am facing this heartbreaking situation. I have tried everything I could Think of, to get the money, but no luck so far. I even tried posting on something called Cyberbeg, because I thought it was a legit site, but it is just a scam site – everyone contacting me through there wants to be payed upfront fees, and I have lost some money because of that. I even Got sexually harrassed because I didn’t want to Make sexual videocalls to get money.

I am trying my best not to let my son know how bad it all is, I try to keep a smile and pretend that everything is all good, but the truth is – we might not have a Home this Christmas, if I don’t find a Way to get the money. It is our truth at this point.
If the worst scenario happens, and I don’t find the money to pay the Long overdue taxes, I Will lose everything, and I Will have no Home for me and my son and no income. I am looking for kindhearted souls, who Can help me back on my feet. Donations would be greatly appriciated, but a loan could also really save my life. Thank you so very much, from the bottom of my heart.

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Please help FAST!

I am a 32 year old single mom and I have a 14 year old and an 8 year old. I work very hard everyday its just barely getting me by. Usually I can maintain, but with the prices of everything rising, its become almost impossible for my little job to be enough. My kids father is currently in prison and will be for the next 10 years. Which makes raising 2 boys a huge challenge! I hate asking for help usually but at this point I have no other options. I really don’t have family that is involved with our life its always been this way. Anyways the main reason that brings me to this, my sons birthday is this Friday December 15th!! And I do not have the funds for that my rent and my water bill all being due on the same day. Much less Christmas I have never been this hard off when the holidays and birthdays come around but I am now. Any little thing would be such a blessing for us! I promise the help will be used to help my kids and me survive another year. And I will use this to help get ahead so that I maybe won’t need to ask like this again. Thanks in advanced, I pray someone hears my cry for help!

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Single Mom Of 2 Needs Help

Hello, I am a single Mom of 2 who’s in financial trouble. Me and my kids are living in unlivable shelter. It has bad conditions and not healthy for my children and I. We have to take showers at the gym because the showers here don’t work and they refuse to fix it. The ceiling is falling apart. Am starting to see mold. I have an infant and 8 year old. I do work but it’s not enough for getting a place. I would like some help so I can get a place for me and my kids.  My PayPal is business page Started a business but couldn’t stick to it due to situation am in. Thank you I appreciate your help.

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Car repossession -Eviction single Mother.

Hello,

          My name is Jessica, I am a single mother of 4 children.

I have A 20 year old daughter Savanah.

17 year old son Antanie.

14 year old Alizeah.

11 year old Xavien.

My husband recently left us after gambling all the rent money! I am in need of help My car just got repossessed owe 1,176.54  plus the company that took my car .fees 200$ Then 40$ A day after Today is day 8 On day 10 they will auction my car, I recently got hired for UPS the day before my orientation my car got repossessed I desperately need my car for this job .

My power is about to be shut off that’s 187$
I am about to be evicted my rent is 1100 plus lates fees .

Total amount for all. $ 3,021.56
Any little bit helps

Thank you

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Struggling single Mom with 3 Kids

I am a single Mom with three kids between the ages of 9, 7, and 5. Life has been very difficult for the past 6 years. I came across this website on YouTube. I was hoping to find out more about how to seek financial help.

I have been behind on my mortgage payments  during the pandemic. I still haven’t been able to redeem the payments due to hardships. I would greatly appreciate financial assistance with food and rent. Its difficult to keep up with all the bills especially with three kids. My older  son has a special need and he is receiving special education in a public school. I will be grateful for any assistance.

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Unemployed Single mom down to the last $200

Hi My name is April Miller 38-year-old single mother of a 3-year-old boy from the state of California I currently lost my job working at the school district as a special education teachers aide and I am down to my last $200 I was just recently hired through another agency for the same position but do to no vacancies at the time I have not been job placed so while waiting I have still been applying for other jobs daily I am asking for 2,500 that would go towards rent,bills, groceries food etc but of course anything would be greatly appreciated. My cash app name is $Nasj85 under the Name April Miller,Thank you all And God Bless.

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I had and accident made me disabled for work

I am a single mother of 2 children, I used to work full time as a senior carer and receiving Child Maintenance from their dad, I fell of the stairs and broke my tailbone which made me disabled to work.

I am struggling to pay £10,600 for my car finance plus he left me with £1974.56 electricity debit.

I am really struggling to keep the house warm for my children. Help me please

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Young entreprenuer building an Empire on her own

Great day,

Hope you are reading this well. My name is Nyasho I am a child of God, a bright light, born in total darkness. I have spent over half of my life, healing myself from trauma and pain I did not choose. I was born into two separate toxic families, riddled with curses needed to be broken. My mother, only 17 when she met my father in Paterson, NJ. Was a mistress to a man almost twice her age with an entire family and wife. Seeing and sleeping with other woman was not unusual in addition to the physical and sexual abuse he also took part in.

Although he and my mother were not involved much after I was born I spent a lot of time with him. That was until I began being molested by my father from the ages of 8 to 10 y/o. After telling my mother I was cut off from my fathers side of the family, and fell into an even deeper depression at the age of 10. My mother, although we lived in the same house, I barely saw her. Waking up in darkness after she promised to stay home that night was a regular thing, I was extremely afraid of the dark by the way. I stayed busy with church activities and often latched on to the families of friends I had at the time. Being left alone from the age of 5 made me used to being alone very quickly.

Even though I did not know it. The time I was alone was time that God was able to spend with me. Comforting me, loving me, guiding me. After years of cutting, at 15 I decided I was going to make a change, commit to myself and finding the truth. This led me an abundance of love, gratitude and self realization.

After a mental breakdown, I was forced to drop out of college after 5 years of studying forensic science and psychology. Although I was unable to go to class I used my time working and taking both individual and group therapy at Pace University, where I had studied. Although I had been in therapy since the age of 10 my experience at Pace was one of great effect. I continued to grow and at 25 I starting to become familiar with myself. I met my son’s father 3 years later and had my son just before I turned 29. I quickly found out his father was not who I thought he was as he made promises that resulted in my demise. Abandoning us and consistently making attacks on our well-being.

I formed my company NOASBOAT INC last year October, and have been diligently working towards building it since. Being alone with my son and no support has made this extremely difficult. I currently have an e-commerce store www.BuyGoldenGadgets.com and will be launching various digital products designed to heal with healing from generational trauma and growth. In addition I am set to launch my course in January. Check me out on instagram https://www.instagram.com/thenya_sho/?hl=en

I am currently in Colorado springs and was invited by someone I had known online for over a year. She said she wanted us to raise our children, she has 3, and build out businesses together. But when I arrived she was a completely different person. It resulted in me having to call the police for safety upon our departure. Sine we have been hopping for air bnb to air bnb and the settlement I was blessed with the day I left that girls house is dwindling quickly. I have invested money into my business and have seen so much growth in the past week alone. However, maybe just not fast enough. Although I was able to get one pre-sell for my course the day I released it, two days ago. That is the first sell I have made to date.

I need help. I have been outcast by my family, I have no friends and I have always found that the best support was received from others around me or in passing. I am looking for investors, angel investors, or anyone willing to give/ help. I pray everyday to fulfill my purpose and help others here on this planet, I just might need your help first.

Thank you,

Nyasho

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Emergency Help Single mom living in motel

Greetings

I am reaching out in need of help I am a 46 year old single mom I have a 9 year old son we have been living in a motel when I am able to get one when I am not .We have been staying in the foreclosed home of my mother in law whom passed away in July from a brain aneurysm this was devastating to me and my son whom he was extremely close to her. After she passed I found out that the house was in foreclosure and we could no longer live there. I have a full time job however my wages is not enough to rent an apartment due to having to make 3 times the rent payment.

I am 2 car payments behind since I have been  using the moneys that I make for motel rooms so my son can have a bath and a warm place to sleep.

We live in Texas so the weather is cold right now.

. I would like to do door dash or Uber eats but my car needs an oil change brakes and it has a gas smell in the inside which is not idle to deliver anyone’s food .

Each morning I wake I thank goodness that I am still here and ask for a way to provide for my son. Almost daily my son says to me Mommy hopefully we will have money for a room.  To have your 9 year old worrying about a place to stay because he is afraid of being in the cold abandoned house is depressing. I hate not being able to give him a piece of mind

We were sick late week from a stomach bug so I had to use all the moneys for a room instead of staying the night at the house.  I have a sister that helps when she can even though she is going through her on hardship her 16 year old daughter was beating by a so-called group of friends the teenagers got into a car wreck we assume heading to dump her body.  she was in trauma ICU got  2 months and is now going through physical therapy.

We are so thankful that the car got into the wreck because we may not have founded her

So miracles happened everyday.

During the time we got the news about my niece I was in the middle of moving out my mother in law house.  I have a brother that is not working so I asked him for help to get my belongings out the house. This was the best and worst ideas I have ever had my brother who is on meth ran off with my U-Haul truck he sold most of the valuable items off the U-Haul the items I was able to save I but in storage needless to say I am also about to loss  my storage.

I feel lost and hopeless but I know I have to be strong for my son.

I hope that I will be able to be in a apartment house anywhere with a little bit of financial stability by Christmas to give my son a gift of a save warm place to stay and tell him merry Christmas I love you and don’t worry money.

Thank you everyone for taking the time to read about my life any and all help is greatly appreciated

Thank you so much in advance for your help.

Katisha 

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Single mom of 3

Back in July of 2023 my family was displaced after living in a home that I rented for 5 years. The  walls literally started to collapse. The roof collapsed after years of neglect of property maintenance. The property management company was no longer doing maintenance on the home after going bankrupt so the home I lived in with my family, it’s no longer my home. I was fortunate enough to have a place to go staying with family but that was short-lived and very unwelcoming for me and my children. I continued to drive my children more than 200 miles a week to get them to school just so we had a roof over our heads. I don’t receive child support. I don’t receive government assistance though I’ve tried and been denied many times. After working two jobs and countless side gigs I was able to save up enough to move November 2023. Within a week of living in our new place,my car was backed into. I can barely afford groceries,let alone christmas on top of having to pay rent again, now my car. The deposit and move drained all my savings. I understand I’m blessed in many ways but it is also detrimental to always be behind when you’re trying to get ahead. I don’t have much of a support system. I am the whole village for my children. I work so hard to set an example for my children to never give up on life no matter what hand you are dealt. Life hasn’t been easy or kind, it’s been difficult and exhausting. I would love to be able to give my kids a good Christmas. They deserve the world and weve all been through so much since i left their father. This time of year has always deepened my depression. Ive lost so much to gain peace. I would want nothing more than the pressure to be relieved. Im struggling to pay rent/bills/groceries and provide Christmas.  Thank you for reading my story if you made it this far. These words cant even begin to touch on the struggles of my life but i hope that many peoples blessings will be met.

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Needing help with a lawyer for my boys

Where do I begin.. a little back story, I just got out of a Narcissist relationship with my ex, and everything was going very very well for me, until the unthinkable happened, he decided out of nowhere to put a restraining order on me!! Out of nowhere, we have two boys together so this is very hard because I haven’t gotten to see my boys since the week of Thanksgiving. With that being said lawyers are not cheap at all and I don’t have the funds anywhere to drop $5,000 to help fight for my boys and it’s heartbreaking. I’ve been so stressed and so depressed over it, because I can’t loose them. I am now trying so hard to come up with the money but $5,000 in a week is a lot. So any little bit helps out. Thank you so much

 

 

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In need for car

Hello my name is Stacia I’m a single mom of two recently I have lost my car also lost my job because I have transportation no to get there if there’s any out there that can please help me back on feet by just helping out with funds for car  I’m be very blessed an appreciative any donation would help. Thanks an God bless.
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Single mother facing eviction and trying to start a business to provide a better life to her children

First of all, I would like to thank anyone who will take the time to read my story and eventually assist me.

I am a single mother of two children, I separated from my husband 3 years ago due to domestic violence. The children live with me since then but I do not receive any help from the father, he does not pay alimony or any other type of support, I take care of my children alone and with my small salary it is not easy, I have been struggling to pay my bills, we always reach the end of the month with difficulties. I am trying to launch an online business to get out of this situation but I have no funding. I use my little salary to pay for food and the expenses I can and I invest  the rest in my business. This situation has forced me to stop paying the rent. I currently owe 6.900€ in rent and I am facing eviction. If some one could help me with this debt I would be very, very grateful.

Thank you so much for your help.

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Single mother of three young kids in need of a blessing/ a break

I am a single mother of 3 young kids. My kids father is mentally and emotionally abusive. Very controlling in the matters of my life and uses pretending to want to be a dad as a way to keep tabs on my life even though he left me and the kids for a woman who had more money and no kids with him so he didn’t have to use the money to take care of family. He would offer to help us only if I do what he says and wants which includes me letting him have any kind of access to me ( financially and sexually) and my children ( seeing them when he wants which is not often for only an hour or so at a time) even though he will not commit to being apart of our family
I am exhausted, I take care of my three kids by myself every day doing every thing for each and every one of them. I am not able to get a job due to my youngest being 16 months and not able to find a daycare that has available spot for his age. We live in a house that has no running hot water, a majorly leaking roof, and infested with field mice. I believe in the lord and I do the very best I can to make sure that even with all this hardship my kids are taken care of and healthy. I make sure they go to school and appropriate doctor appointments and I feed them as healthy food as I can.
We need somewhere better to live that I may be able to be the best mother I know I can be without all the hindering aspects of living in a broke down house. I’m so stressed out about our living situation that I feel I can not be the attentive mother I would like to be. As I said I do make sure the priorities of being a good mother are done like getting them to school etc., but I would like to be more present and not always so stressed and worried.
Looking for a place with limited finances is hard, nobody has apartment or home available for my income. If I could just get a place that is up to par ( running hot water, no mice, no leaking roof)  I feel my life and my kids life would be better because I could then work from home since I can not get my youngest into day care as I am a hairstylist
I’m here asking for monetary donations to possible help with finding better shelter or to help fix the shelter we have however to fix the shelter we have will cost hundreds of thousands of dollars. I am also open to any help on securing better shelter ( if any one has a home or know of a home they can let us stay in or rent to me at an affordable price for me). We are currently located in Northern California about 30 -45 mins from the Bay Area.

I am sure my story is a story that others may have as well but to me this problem I am having is big and heavy. I have always been the type to make things happen on my own but I have reached the end of my rope and must ask for help. I do not have any one around who can or is willing to help that I know personally which is why I came here. I pray the lord lets this touch the heart of some if not many to help my family out. All we need is a little help/ a little break from the hardships of life so that I may once again be able to provide for my family on my own. Thank you to any one that took the time to read and or donate. Please share my story to any one or anywhere that you think would get me some help. God bless

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