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Financial Hardship Help

Being a single mother especially in today’s era can be extremely overwhelming. If you are one of those mothers who is doing it alone every day you know what I am talking about. It seems like the bills just continue to pile up and never end.

Researchers have said that just in 2015 year ending alone over 80 percent of the households in America that we’re single households we’re in fact ran by a FEMALE head of household which we’re mostly living very poor.

Many people may say well there is government assistance for them to get a grant but it’s hard to find and information regarding that said topic anywhere. So in hopes to help the single mothers out in the world this article will give you some insight on the different assistance topics we can cover including where and how to get a grant or scholarship. Also, you will read and see how simple it is to receive help with income expenses and medical insurance.

Are there really grants for a single mother?

Of course they do but these grants are not only for single mothers. However, that doesn’t mean there isn’t help for a mother to receive one. I know its mind boggling that the government hasn’t had any means created for money for a single mother that is actually in the shape of a grant. One thing the government does for a single mother is they assist them through a group or have set sponsors through a company, and sometimes they are covered by the actual income assistance completely.

Below are a few websites that will redirect you to free items that you can get just for registering on the website.

Low Income Assistance for Single Mothers / Government Grants

As I said there is not an official grant for a single mother available that is FEDERAL. However a single mother can go through federal programs and register and sign up for them. Those kinds of programs are usually for households with low income. Which means you would also qualify for Welfare. No matter what the case these are programs to help those who make below the limit and live poorly.

Below are different types of assistance based in the United States.

TANF – TEMPORARY ASSISTANCE FOR NEEDY FAMILIES

TANF is a crucial for many low income families located within the US.

With TANF you receive a small amount of cash every month that you can use toward your food, rent, and other necessities. However you only receive TANF for up to 60 month limit.

If you are a single mother and you have children in your home who are less than 19 years old you are eligible for TANF.

SNAP – SUPPLEMENTAL NUTRITION ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

Food-stamps or SNAP as other people may refer to is financial help for meals. You can receive money every month to place food on the table if you are on low or no income.

For most of Americans living in poverty SNAP is potentially the only assistance they can get.

Research has shown that in 2015 SNAP benefits have helped at least 45 million Americans. Most of the ones who receive the stamps are under are up to the age of 18.

When you go to use your benefits for SNAP you have your own personal debit card to ring your groceries up with at the register. If you are interested in trying to get on with SNAP benefits all you have to do is fill and application out and send it in or take it into a local office that deals with SNAP benefits.

NSLP – NATIONAL SCHOOL LUNCH PROGRAM

This is a program that gives free (or discounted) food to students whose parent’s income is bellow a poverty level. The income needs to be at least between 130-185 percent bellow the poverty line.

Most the time if a person is a receiver of SNAP benefits their children will be accepted into this program for free lunches. But, that doesn’t mean if you don’t have or receive SNAP that your children are disqualified.

You need to contact your child’s school to apply.

TEFAP – THE EMERGENCY FOOD ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

Food for the American families who are in the poverty range not matter what the age.

If you have received food stamps before or any other program assisting you and helping you such as the ones in this article you could also be approved for this program.

You will need to contact your State distribution agency to learn more about the Emergency food assistance program.

Local Food Banks

A food bank doesn’t exactly fit into the whole “Grant” program area as it is actually a location in your town where you can get food if you are in need.

Do not allow you or your family to go without food. If you ever reach that trouble you can call 211 and ask them where the nearest food bank is based on your location.

More then 200 food banks exist with the feeding america foundation and they supply enough food to feed over 40 million people.

WIC – WOMEN, INFANTS AND CHILDREN PROGRAM

This program includes a package deal where you as a mother are able to receive healthy foods, whether you are pregnant or a new mother, and also to children who are 5 or under.

WIC is a program that is temporary and only used for a short amount of time – usually between 6 to 12 months.

EARLY HEAD START / HEAD START

These programs are for children up to 5 years old.

You can receive free child’s medical and dental care along with their schooling, and dietary needs.

Find your closes headstart office on their website or call at 1-866-763-6481.

Insurance for unemployment

This is a special program which will pay you weekly if you are unemployed and it had nothing to do with you for you being fired or let go. You will only be able to receive this benefit for maximum 26 weeks. Different states have different benefit rules. But most states will average out at about 45% of whatever the average weekly income is.

Single mothers who are out of a job temporarily can find solace with these benefits and can help make the burden less for themselves because this pay will restore what you have lost from losing your work.

If you want to try and get this started and opened for you, you will have to find your local unemployment office or apply on the website for this specific program. Most states will allow you to also try to sign up for this over the phone.

Section 8 housing

Section 8 is basically a program that helps a family be able to pay for their housing. If approved you will receive a voucher of up to 70 percent of your bills (utilities and rent). You are expected to pay the other 30 percent.

If you want to apply and feel you qualify you can get in touch with your local office involved with public housing, the HUD office.

CCAP – CHILD CARE ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

This is a benefit for families who can’t afford to place their children in daycare while working.

You still have to pay a certain percentage but it isn’t a big lump of money. The less you earn, the less you need to contribute.

EITC – Earned Income Tax Credit

It is a tax benefit for people with low income. You could potentially get as much as $6,000.

If you normally have a tax rate of $1050 but you are allowed $5550 then you get refund of $4500.

There is a Children’s Tax Credit too for as much as $1,000 for EACH child.

LIHEAP – LOW INCOME HOME ENERGY ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

LIHEAP is a program that is a one time help to help pay for heating / cooling expenses.

Most of the time this is for the disabled or families with children or disabled person in the home.

If you need any extra information regarding this topic you can get in touch through the number 1-866-674-6327 or a local number for your local LIHEAP office.

WAP – WEATHERIZATION ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

Weatherization assistance program lowers energy bills for families in need. Usually the elderly and families involving children are accepted and put to the top of the list before all.

Your monthly income need to be below 200 percent poverty level.

To apply, find a local WAP center.

Medicaid

Medicaid is help with medical expenses. If you do not have health insurance this gives you certain benefits as long as your income restriction meets the level it should.

A lot of single mothers may meet the standards to be recipients of Medicaid even if you are unemployed.

Every state has different rules about Medicaid plans. You can find out exact requirements on this website.

Together with ObamaCare it ensures that even single mothers who didn’t receive any health benefits will now be able to have coverage.

CHIP – CHILDREN HEALTH INSURANCE

CHIP gives children without health insurance a chance to have health benefits all the way up until they are nineteen. It is for families whose income is too high to receive Medicaid benefits.

It provides every type of benefit you can think of — dental, eye exams, and even annual doctor’s exams.

Every state has its own rules. If you would like to learn a little more about this specific benefit you can call 1-877 Kids now (1-877-543-7669)

Federal Pell Grants

Aid program for students of up to $5,815 for those in need to be able to set foot into college.

This is the best opportunity for a mother who is single to finally be able to finish her schooling and finally continue in the workforce. The money is completely free of charge with no interest rates or paybacks ever.

You need to fill out an application and submit it for a pell grant and have it turned in on or before June 30th of every year.

Federal Supplemental Education Opportunity Grant

Similar to the Pell Grant. If you already have had pell grants and you are at the top of the charts in need you will be first on the list to receive this. Depending on a persons needs that are wrapped in with their financial struggle will ultimately decide who will receive anywhere between $100 too $4,000 annually.

Charities

Charities can be a way to seek help for you and your children whether you are in need of food or clothing or even housing. A lot of charities around the world actually have their own food banks that they run and they will give you bags of free food.

If you go to salvation army a lot of the times they will let you sleep there if you have no where else to go especially if it is a result of violence.

Churches

Most churches will offer you food and clothes or maybe even a place to stay if you have been recently kicked out by the one you are living with.

To find information on this you should look through your phone books local listing or yellow page. You can also research online and see what churches are available to your area and call them and ask what services they do offer.

Loans

Single moms can receive loans usually relatively quickly but I would not recommended that at all. You could potentially go into debt and not be able to rise back from that.

Sometimes you have no choice because you have to fix your broken car or maybe pay for utilities and food and need the help right then. But you have to be able to pay that loan realistically quick.

Pay attention to your credit because if you try to get a loan through a bank or anyone they will check your credit score and see if it is even available to be able to place a loan out to you. If it is a loan that is for payday loans or credit card advances they will not run a check but you will end up paying more after fees and costs.

Line of Credit

If your credit is decent some people ask a bank for a loan personally. Most of the time this is a better idea then asking for a payday loan because if you need quick money with lower rates of interest this is it.

Personal Loans

On a personal loan interest is lower dramatically but you have to pay in instalments. It doesn’t really fit criteria for an emergency. Normally if you just tell them you do not have any more funds and that is why you need this they will turn you away. If your credit is poor you will not be able to even touch this offer.

Short term (payday) loans

This is a very popular type of loan. You may know it by the term “Cash advance.” The interest runs really high on these and it is a loan that is only for a small time frame.

This is a loan that would more then likely be considered if a problem arises and you needed to repair your car or had a disastrous dental emergency. You have to know for sure you will be able to give every penny back.

If you do not pay this type of loan back you could be in loads of trouble financially.

Credit card cash advance

Do you own a credit card? If so you will be able to get money from a bank as easy as 1, 2, 3. This is not a method that is highly praised though because as soon as you start taking money out of the bank the interest keeps rising and you also are charged for using and pulling out of the bank a fee. This is potentially the easier options if you do need cash asap but you have to pay it back and make sure you absolutely can.

When it is all said and done grants will not solve your money issues within your home if that is what you expect. To get a grant is definitely not easy it isn’t a walk in the park by any means.

If you are looking to get a more stable source of financially being stable you should probably look in areas around you or find a women shelter until you can get back up on your feet.

If you think you have all the time in the world you can apply for other areas of assistance such as Food stamps, HUD, and etc. They do take a lot of time and effort for someone to get back with you and let you know if you have been accepted and enrolled. Try finding a part time working job as a way to financially start becoming stable again.

The moral of this is you can not expect a grant to fall into your hands without effort and take all your worries away. They are only here too do one thing and that doesn’t usually fix anything with your financial setting.

This is all on you and what you decide, no one else can decide for you.

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Single mom of four hoping to find some financial help

Hello! I’m reaching out to you in hopes of finding someone willing to help me get back on my feet again. Being a single mom of four children, life has brought countless obstacles that I have been always been able to work my way through with my head up for my kids. But currently with the Coronavirus, the world pandemic and the line of work that I am in, in finding it harder to be able to provide the income that I need to properly support my family. For over ten years I have worked in the hospitality industry as a waitress and almost two years ago I was able to be promoted to a bartender at my current job. I was so excited because that meant a raise and the potential for more tips and a better life for my children whom I have for the most part solely provided for for the last thirteen years. The happiness didn’t last long because last year I was furloughed when restaurants were closed to try and stop the spread of COVID-19. Within the same month me and my children had found out that our home was structurally unsafe and also had extremely unhealthy amounts of black mold and were forced to have it condemned and relocate to a hotel. We were fortunate to stumble across and receive some government assistance after about a month or two at the hotel and got into an apartment. I thankfully was able to go back to work a day or two a week and I thought things were starting to look up! Little did I know I was wrong again. I received a phone call from my mom telling me that my stepdad had stage 4 lung cancer that had spread to his brain and urged me that he didn’t have long to live. I took my children to South Carolina so we could visit with him one last time before he passed. It was an emotional trip but brought us all a bit of peace knowing he was able to see his grandchildren before the dreaded day came. He passed away right before thanksgiving. When me and my children returned back home we were faced with having to make the decision to again move out of our home because I was making barely $15 a shift at work. People were and still are frightened of getting covid and are reluctant to come sit down and dine in a restaurant and have a couple drinks. I didn’t have the option of getting anymore rental assistance due to having previously received it and the man I was seeing at the time offered us to move in with him. I was very reluctant to do it because I didn’t feel comfortable giving up me and my children’s home because we hadn’t been together long and not even in a official relationship at that time. It was to soon. But I would have ended up loosing the apartment anyways because I couldn’t afford to pay it. So I caved and moved in the end of November. His sweet caring demeanor disappeared about a week in when he asked me to officially be his girlfriend. I found out very fast that I had just entered an emotionally abusive household and relationship. All the help he promised with my children and my bills I was already so very behind it were empty words. His “self employed” he boasted about has brought in not a penny. His bills then became my bills to pay. I currently have a water shut off notice for January 19th. My kids cannot go without water. The electric and gas bill are also months behind along with almost $1000.00 loan payment that is three payments behind and many others. I also need to get my children and me out of this house and into our own place again. Somewhere where they are able to be happy and themselves again without him being rude to them, telling them they are annoying and breaking there young spirits that I have worked so hard to keep happy and sparking. If there is anyone who is able and willing to help us out and overcome this rough part in our lives we would be forever grateful and have every intention to  pay it forward to another in need when I am capable of doing so. Thank you so very much for taking time out of your day to read this.

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I will name my child after you. My name is Julie, I am 25 years old, from Munich, Germany and been left alone pregnant by my ex fiancé without explanations.

My name is Julie, I am 25 years old, from Munich, Germany and been left alone pregnant by my ex fiancé without explanations.

I will name my child after you. My name is Julie, I am 25 years old, from Munich, Germany and been left alone pregnant by my ex fiancé without explanations.

He wanted me to have his child, I was very afraid but made this step for him, and now I am alone, 17 weeks pregnant.

I speak German, English and Russian fluently. I can offer you my service. Furthermore, I have very good basic French skills and can improve them for you rapidly. I have a gentle, calm voice and am a gentle, straight-forward and patient person in general.

I am excellent at calming people down and approaching their needs.

I currently am studying to become a teacher in Germany. But now I don’t know how to keep on with that, with a child and no money, no home.

I can work for you for my whole life if you can either offer me or pay me enough for:

A home, which is good and safe for my unborn child

Food and clothes for my child

A nice nanny and kindergarten for my child.

A driver’s license in case I need to drive my kid to the hospital or doctor.

I would do anything, so my child can grow up in a safe, socialized and cultivated environment, so this kid will grow up being intelligent and independent.

I am living in a good city right now but no one here can help me with finances and my baby. My parents came from Russia to Germany as emigrants. They are German but lived in Russia for 2 generations, and so they came here, not knowing the language and are working hard for very little amount of money. In Russia, they are academics but here they are nothing. They came here to offer me and my brother a better future. Unfortunately they don’t have the time to help me because they are dependent on their work.

I have my friends here, but I feel so judged because of my situation. I don’t feel comfortable here anymore, in fact I’m lost and hopeless right now. People in Germany are very judgmental. This is why I reach out to a stranger and pray for an opportunity to leave everything behind me and start fresh for and with my unborn child.

I will call my child after you or you can choose its name. I will forever be grateful if you can help  me. I can work for you as soon as I can after recovering from delivery. I will forever show my gratitude.

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Pregnant Help

Hi there! My name is Caroline, and I’m in some pretty deep with my financial responsibilities right now…. I’m 25 weeks pregnant and am trying my best to keep up my two jobs but haven’t been able to put any money aside in my savings because my old roommate left me with over $3,000 in bills (I owe about $800 in debts for aep and columbia gas but that’s all now). I’m now living with a different friend trying to afford my own place, but I keep having car troubles which pushes my plans back each time I need maintenance. I’m at the point where I’m asking for any kind of assistance if there’s anyone out there who’s willing and able to help me out. I still need to save up $2,000 for my maternity leave and pay off the $800 debt before I can move into my own place, so I’ve been stressing a lot but it’s bad for my baby. :( (due in May)

Thanks for your time! :)

if you’re interested in my case, here, my paypal is —— >   paypal.me/alexloves98

 

my paypal account is listed under that Alex name since I didn’t want to put my last name on here. Hope you can help, thanks again.

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Help with one Bill

Im a 25 year old single mom of a 3 year old from Iceland. We recently bought our house right before the pandemic, everything was going well until I lost my job last summer, after that I’m stuck on piled up bills that are going to court if I don’t pay it soon with additional costs. I’m trying to pay it down with other bills piling up on the meantime and it seems impossible. Ally I want to is to be on 0 so I can provide for my girl.

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Helping Hand

Being a mother is the most rewarding job that i could ever have. My two boys are the most important people in my life. They motivate me to be a better person and do better in my life period. I want my kids to watch their mother work hard to make a better life for them. The fact that I am a single parent raising boys I feel it is more imperative for them to see their mother work hard to show them that we do not have to live on job and family services.

I have made mistakes at a young age. These mistakes have ultimately hindered me in making a better life for me and my kids. My credit is in need of repair, I have seen a consultant who has explained that my credit is not beyond repairing.  When i do I also will need to build some good credit.

I will also need to reinstate my license. I also will need to pay fines, In order to get said license. I am 31 years old and my kids are 5 and 12. I feel that now is the time that I repair my life, my credit. I have goals including a business plan that I plan to set forth. I just want to be in the best position to do so.

I am not asking for anyone to do any work for me. I am asking for a helping hand. Then I will able to begin to work towards the goals that I set out to accomplish. I will be confident that I am in a better position to succeed.

My kids deserve to experience the better part of the world. If I can gift my kids the better part of life. Than that itself will be rewarding.

Breakdown of what I need to pay is as follows; (If necessary I can provide more proof( there was trouble uploading more than 1document  in the images box for proof):

LICENSE

*973.60 (CITY LIGHT POLE)

*155.00(REINSTATEMENT FEES)

CREDIT REPAIR

*$756 (MEDIATION RECOVERY CENTER)

*$2279 (FABCO)

*$355 AT&T (AFNI)

*$247 WOW (CREDIT MANAGEMENT)

*$1498 (CAPITAL RECOVERY SYSTEMS INC.)

*$2100.82 (CAPITAL ALLIANCE FINANCIAL)

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ANYBODY… Please read this.

I am desperately seeking help for a very dire situation for me and my children. If you’ve read to this point, PLEASE finish reading my message. If you can’t help, please point me in some direction, any direction, that will help me. I am struggling to get out of a very bad domestic situation. I have suffered mental abuse and physical abuse (more of the former than the latter). And a series of awful events have transpired in the past week that make it evident I need to leave ASAP, including being choked to the point of not being able to breathe. (Not for more than a few seconds, but it scared me.) I have no bruising, no abrasions, and no proof. There are no shelters here (very small and rural, and I mean in the mountains) and my family has been turned against me by this manipulator. (Long story short: After numerous occasions of being belittled, mocked, threatened, and physically assaulted, he attempted to withhold my medication and car keys from me so I couldn’t leave. I lashed out and smacked him in the face, which, coincidentally, his mother recorded on her phone and shared with my entire family.) Now, my family is angry, at me of all people, because I carelessly and physically assaulted someone. I have always made him out to be this incredible person, and covered his abuse because I was taught not to air your dirty laundry. So this excellent perception of him, along with his mother’s video, makes me look like an abuser. Nobody will answer my texts, or calls, and I’m starting to worry. The police, who are also family to him, have seen the video as well, and let me know that I’m extremely lucky not to be going to jail and I should thank my husband for not reporting me. This was gut wrenching to hear. The only avenue I have is leaving with my children (whom he treats like princesses, and I’m glad he does). We have three little girls, ages four, two, and ten months. He will viciously come after me when he realizes I have taken his children. I own a small business (which has been shut down since April of last year due to COVID-19, and is suffering financially), but, to keep us afloat, I started doing Instacart more frequently. He works as well, and receives a paycheck, which I never see. I am making around $500 per week, not including cash tips. (Any claim I make to you can be verified.) I also, up until last week, have worked on my family’s farm since before I was an adult. (I’m a 30 year old female.) I have a dependable vehicle as well. I would have access to money, but my earnings are deposited into a joint account, of which I was threatened if I changed. He was unexpectedly called to work tonight, which he initially refused but eventually accepted. I have been slowly, and discreetly, packing mine and my children’s bare necessities, and have hidden them. I will not have another chance like this to gather what I can without conflict or abuse. I am asking for financial help (whether it be a loan, donation, or anything) to get me through a week or so, which would provide me ample time to churn out some overtime from Instacart, and for food and gas. (I initially sought public assistance, but aid is only by appointment now. It would be two weeks before an appointment is available.) I also would qualify for the minimum, because of our combined earnings and because we are married. The opportunities to make money are there in the neighboring county, as there is only a handful of other shoppers and a growing list of orders that sit unfulfilled until the grocery store closes because we can’t get to them. I have arranged childcare from a trusted friend who isn’t charging me a dime, thank God. I have a Cash App card that I use on occasion. It’s the only card he’s not taken from me because he thinks it’s tied to our bank account (which it isn’t) and would be notified of any activity. I am desperately seeking help. If you, or anyone on here can help, please do. He also took my stimulus deposit and withdrew the cash at the ATM so I couldn’t access it. I’m not ignorant, and I’ve stayed as long as I have because of my children. This is the only world they’ve ever known, but enough is enough. When someone restricts my way of breathing, I consider that an imminent threat to my life. I apologize for my post being so long, but hopefully someone will hear me. I don’t even know how much to ask for because I would hate to insult someone or be laughed at. I have roughly six hours to get out (assuming he doesn’t come home early, which he tends to do to keep an eye on me). If anyone can help, or directions to someone else, I will be forever grateful. I have frantically searched Google for assistance, been denied so many loans due to lack of credit, been pointed to so many dead ends… I’ve embarrassingly contemplated illegal and/or promiscuous avenues out of desperation, but I couldn’t bring myself to do it because my children might see the results of those actions later on in life. I’m starting to have no hope, and I’m afraid I’m stuck here. Thank you for reading. The author of this website told me to include my PayPal.me. Please locate it below:

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Need help with rent

Hello I’m a mother of three and I am here to beg you desperately for help. I lost my job back about a month ago and have not been able to get unemployment. My stimulus check went on last month’s bill and I have no way to pay my rent and electricity bill. My rent is 350 and my utility bill usually runs 450. I am begging any little bit helps and so desperate and I have nowhere else to turn no family and no friends

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Help me support my daughter!

I am a single mom to a lovely 5 year old daughter. I’m a waitress right now and times have been very tough. We’ve had to live with my parents because I cannot afford to pay all my bills, credit cards, car, cell phone AND be able to afford rent. Any little bit helps! We would greatly appreciate it.

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Free homeless children with three cats And Single orphaned mother so we have no family other than each other

 

I grew up in foster care so I don’t have any family but my kids who are 4 yrs , 12yrs and 14 yrs old and when I was young I was moved around so much throughout my life I never really got to establish any root or make any lifelong friends So my children don’t have any family either which had already been hard on us throughout our life they never had Any cousins or grandparents or aunts or uncles to see or play with on the holidays and spend time with; they just had me and I have just had them ; their father was abusive and he was charged with 2 felony accounts of abuse and child torture we have not seen him in years nor does he care anything about us Then my youngest sons dad only cares about him when we were together he miss treated my older two children and it was obvious because he had two kids in the situation and he did not treat them that way and It just became where we were afraid ; even his own biological child was afraid and felt bad for the way he treated his brothers  but then my stepson got where he could not take it anymore either so he left and moved In with his biological mother he just could not live in the situation anymore he hated it and he hated living fearful and not having a family environment anymore because we used to have a family oriented environment before my children Moved in and his daddy and me were a happy family but things just changed when my kids moved in and When my stepson moved out it just became worse he got to where he cursed us out all the time because his child  wasn’t there for him to hold his tongue and our child was only 2 so he Felt like our younger child couldnt recognize what was going on so he could just treat me and my children any kind way  so we  Moved out too a little over a year ago and I was financing a Camper trailer  for me and my kids Which isn’t ideal for me and three children but it was just me and my boys so we were happy but then my car broke down in October  and I couldn’t get back-and-forth to work so I was fired and then they repossessed my home for $200 on November 22 I wasn’t even there I had gotten a ride to go pick up a grocery order I placed at Walmart and they put my 14-year-old and a 12-year-old on the street and they gave them less than 10 minutes to get anything out that they wanted mostly just because we had animals in there and they wanted them to get the animals out because they threatened my children with animal cruelty charges if any of our pets were left in there And they took everything from us And me and my kids were sleeping in my broke down car because we don’t have any family We don’t know anyone To call for help and  we live in Alabama and I don’t even think there’s a homeless shelter down here Or at least there’s not A shelter in the area we live in the only thing they have close to a shelter is the Salvation Army where you pay $7 to $12 a day to live there per person so I had to call the only person I know that my youngest sons dad and he doesn’t like my kids I didnt really want Me and my children I have to stay here with him  but I didn’t have a choice and I was forced into asking him if we could stay with him but he’s already trying to force me to put my cats into an animal shelter Or Have them euthanize and he’s doing it just to be hateful ;  he’s so cruel to us and We have nothing we Iost everything we had I believe he is secretly planning to take my youngest child from me and kick me out and he’s going to put my older two children  in foster care and he is going to be successful if I don’t figure out something to do this already happened to me once with my ex-husband and my older two children it took me years to finally get the DHR to look and see what their dad was doing to my kids and get them back because they just looked at the situation seen that I have no where to stay , family and no support system and I would actively need help and assistance So they just let them have my kids and they mentally and physically abused my children they starved them locked them In their bedrooms they made them go outside to use the bathroom when and when they were taken from him they were placed in faster care and they were 7 and 10 and then they were brutally raped for three months by a 15 Yr old male foster child and Once I got them back from my abusive ex and out of the foster care system an I finally got them out of these terrible situations and moved them in with me they were just placed into a new abusive situation with their stepdad because he went from being a spouse and father to his bio kids to the villain of Our story who robbed them further of being children and having a childhood and my kids have been through hell  And if I don’t figure out something soon my ex is going to take my younger child and our family is going to be torn apart and we’re gonna lose each other please help Prevent this from happening to us again We fought so hard to be together and now five years later were on the verge of losing each other again because We’re in a desperate situation and we have no one to turn to  ; we need a home something that no one can take away from us a place That Will be our home and one day will be my children’s childhood home and One day it will be grandma s home to their children  a place that my children can one day run too when their in a desperate situation their selves if you are able to afford to help us please help us if if everyone can donate one to five dollars and hope that enough people see this to make a difference maybe we could raise enough money to get us a place to Leo doesn’t have to be anything extravagant just a small piece of land and a trailer or even a decent camper trailer I just want something that no one can take from us Something that is ours forever that we never have to worry or live in fear of being homeless and separated again If you could donate please donate to my PayPal link below thank you so much for everything And the image below is just a house and some land that I found our trailer and some land that I found that I would love to get but we do not have to raise that much money The site ask you to put a photo of something that you’re asking for money for so I put the photo of this place for sale that I’d love to get but it doesn’t have to be that extravagant I’m just hoping to get something decent that is ours

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White flag

Hello everyone, my name is Alisha and I’m a single mother. I’m currently in a very abusive situation with my child’s father. Firstly, I’m embarrassed to even be on here as I’m usually self reliant. But I’ve found myself between a hard space and rock. I don’t want to get into detailed events because it’s beyond traumatic and frankly, I’m tired of feeling like a broken record. I just finished school, through this pandemic to become a clinical massage therapist. I’m working really really hard to build my clientele but I can’t build fast enough to get out from underneath this guy’s fist and sociopathic tendencies. I’m in desperate need of securing a down payment and first months rent to escape, to rebuild and to take the right steps for my daughter and I to start the healing process. I know that current times are hard for everyone and I would be greatly humbled for any help. If you are unable to help us, please say a prayer. I’m scared and alone.

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3 Homeless children with orphan mom no family to help please

I grew up in foster care so I don’t have any family and I was moved around so much throughout my life I never really got to establish any root or make any lifelong friends So my children don’t have any family either which had already been hard on us throughout our life they never had Any cousins or grandparents or aunts or uncles to see or play with on the holidays and spend time with; they just had me and I have just had them ; their father was abusive and he was charged with 2 felony accounts of abuse and child torture we have not seen him in years nor does he care anything about us Then my youngest sons dad only cares about him when we were together he miss treated my older two children and it was obvious because he had two kids in the situation and he did not treat them that way and It just became where we were afraid even his own biological child was afraid and felt bad for the way he treated his brothers and me we love each other we had no animosity between us for what he was doing at all  we would All stick together and talk And spend time together whenever he was not around but then my stepson got where he could not take it anymore either so he left and moved In March 2020 now he lives with his biological mother he just could not live in the situation anymore he hated it and he hated living fearful and not having a family environment anymore because we used to have a family oriented environment before my children Moved in and his daddy and me were a happy family but things just changed when my kids moved in kids in and Once my stepson moved out it just became worse he got to where he just cursed us out all the time because his child  wasn’t there for him to hold his tongue and our child was only three so he Felt like our younger child couldnt recognize what was going on so he could just treat me and my children any kind way  so we left and I was buying a trailer for me and my kids and we left there in July and then my car broke down in October  and I couldn’t get back-and-forth to work so I was fired and then they repossessed my home for $200 on November 22 I wasn’t even there I had gotten a ride to go pick up a grocery order I placed at Walmart and they put my 14-year-old and a 12-year-old on the street and they gave them less than 10 minutes to get anything out that they wanted mostly just because we had animals in there and they wanted them to get the animals out because they threatened my children with animal cruelty charges if any of our pets were left in there and they didn’t take one of our pets so we  have three cats that are also homeless with us and the only person I know is my youngest sons dad an he is letting us stay with him but he’s cruel to us and I have nothing I don’t have a car that I can drive I don’t even have an I’d  lost everything in trailer I have two pair of pants I don’t even have a pair shoes my kids lost everything and I’m afraid that my ex is trying to take my youngest child from me and once he does that he’s going to put me and my older two children and he is going to be successful if I don’t figure out something to do this already happened to me once with my ex-husband and my older two children it took me years to finally get the DHR to look and see what their my ex husband was doing to my kids and get them back because they just looked at the situation seen that I have no family and no support system and I needed help with everything because I was 19 years old and they just let them have my kids and they mentally and physically abuse my children they starved them lock them In their bedrooms they made them go outside to use the bathroom when and when they were taken from him they were 7 and 10 and then they were brutally raped for three months by a 15 Yr old male foster child wand Once I got them back from my abusive ex and out of the foster care system where they were placed for what their dad did to them then they were sexually abused in foster care when they finally moved in with me Mas their stepdad started becoming abusive they have been through hell  And if I don’t figure out something my ex is going to take my younger child and put all three of my children back through hell he’s going to lose his whole family his mom and his brothers and my older two children are gonna lose their brother and they may be taken for me to please help us I know that he is planning on doing something  he’s gotten to where he takes My youngest child and leaves a lot and he started trying to contact my older two kids abusive father and their grandparents on their dads side who lied and helped their father hide what he did he’s trying to contact them and get my older children to stay with them and he’s trying to get me to let them have my children and I’m not going to let my kids go but I’m afraid that if I don’t do something they’re going to try to take them for me and or they’re going to take my younger child and me and my older kids are going to be on the street or worse my children’s daddy‘s family is going to make a move to try to take them while I’m in this vulnerable situation with no home or running car and I can’t live through this again I need help .
When you’re going through things in your life and you  just wanna go home sometimes you just need mom and dad to make it better and help you to feel safe ; well I long for that because I never had it and my children are looking to me for that and I can’t give it to them at least not now but you can help me give it them them and myself so Please help us I need to raise money to buy a place to live something permanent something no one can take away from us something that will be there for me and my children through their  childhood and when they become adults and they start going through a hard time and they just want run home to their mom and feel safe and have someone their for them they will have a home to run too and somewhere for my grandkids one day to come home to an associate with their grandmothers house please  I know I’m asking a lot but you could change the entire Dynamic for my family and my children’s future family help me put something in our life that will be there forever something that will be a part of our history and I’m sorry I’m asking but I don’t know what else to do I don’t have anyone to turn to and when my kids grow up it’s going to be the same for them please help us have a place to call home something for ever something that will be there for me for them for their kids kids if everyone could just donate one to 5 dollars. We could raise up enough money to get a place I need to raise 20 or $30,000 I could probably find a good used place with land for about 20 If you could please help us then please help us please donate to my paypal link

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Desperately needing assistance.

Hey. I’m asking for help on behalf of my good friend Mavis. She’s a mother of 4 and a childhood sexual abuse survivor, who spent many years in group homes leaving an abusive husband. She has seizures from blows to the head. Starting over she and her kids 4 months to 14 years need everything. My family is secretly putting aside money for them and was hoping we could do even more! If not. Thank you for your time and be blessed to be a blessing

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Single Mom In Desperate need of HELP

I am a 44 year old mother of 5.  I have struggled my whole life. Both of my parents were addicted to drugs my younger life.. Had a step dad that was beyond awful. I got married when I was 17, had 3 kids with him before i was 21. He worked, I was at home. We divorced after 8 years. Husband number 2 came around 2 years later. He has 2 kids i had 3. 6 years later we added 1 of our own kids to the mix. 8 years later blessed with another surprise.. My last child.. Spent 20 years with him. We were homeless in Chicago. He lost his job with uber because our car broke down. Lost our place and stayed at shelter for 7 months. Filling out housing applications brought us to Elkhart in a 3br subsidized house I found. We started to argue so bad we got physical. I left one night with my two youngest daughters who are 8 and 16. Because of their school my girls wanted to go back to their Dads to finish out school year. I stayed with my friend. It lasted about 2 months. My girls started to complain about not eating til midnight. House was a mess, dog peeing in house. So I did an unannounced visit. I could not believe my eyes. House was a complete mess.. Garbage and food everywhere. Peed in laundry everywhere. I stayed there a week and cleaned whole house. Took all laundry to laundromat and left with my girls.  My ex will not leave that house. Not only will he not leave the house, he is claiming we all still live there so he can keep the house. I left early Jan of 2019. From Jan to Oct 2019 I paid all the bills in that house. He was also on my family cell plan until Sept 2019. I got my taxes and stimulus around same time. Bought my girls new clothes, shoes, school necessities, etc. He bought a new tv, sectional couch, laptop, new shoes for himself etc. He did not pay 1 bill.  He 2as on verge of electric being disconnected. If. It was he would have been evicted if not on in 1 week. They have a zero tolerance for utility shut off.  I paid around 500 in july, and another 800 in Sept. In Sept i took all bills out of my name. Paif what I could on most. Have small balances on all He. He has never given me 1 dime to help my girls in a year, nor has he bought them ANYTHING.  He has also not tried to pay me any of that bill money back. I spent my new apartment money on his bills..

I am a Baker, I clean and rehab houses, babysit, I also do Some landscaping.. What ever i need to do to keep bills paid. My ex plays video games.. Is filling for disability because he has diabetes.. Makes no sense. My daughter’s and i have been displaced for over a year while he just sits pretty, collecting money under our names. He is in school claims we live there with grants and FAFSA.. Gets mute more money that way. He has never given me one penny of it. I only found out because the housing authority manager told me that i am on everything including those documents.

I finally got my girls and I I our very own 3br home. My landlord is cool, there’s so much space… We love it. I’m here today to beg for help. My girls are the youngest of 7. They have never had a new bed.. New blankets.. New pillows, their own dressers or bed frames. I would very much like help to make their rooms special, unique just for them.. A mirror, some paint, pictures etc. They are both straight A students, are extremely loving and would protect anyone they saw getting bullied..

I just need help in one area. I am great working in offices. I have been away from Admin positions for quite a few years.. Waitressing or bartending was quicker money. I really want another 9 to 5 office Job. I have no nice clothes or shoes to even begin looking for one. Please help me buy 5 outfits and 2 pairs of shoes. I usually shop at goodwill for my clothes.. I have so much on my plate.  I have to begin my divorce with my ex soon. I handle all bills and rent here on my own. Its so hard.. Most weeks i have no clue how I even made it that week. God is on my side and a job usually shows up just when I need it most. Usually at crunch time to keep me on my toes.. Truly making it paycheck to paycheck.. I can prove all of what I am saying if necessary.. I would forever be grateful for help with these requests, and when I open my bakery in Elkhart one day… I will pay it forward.. Thank you for reading, and for any consideration.. God bless and Happy NEW YEAR.. XOXO

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I lost it all

I recently lost my job and everything has been tight since then. As a mother of 3, it’s hard as it is but since I lost my job I sleep maybe 2 hours a day and eat one meal a day from stress and anxiety. My children will always come before me and I will do what it takes to supply them with what they need. With being in the situation I am in I thought I had a good idea to invest some money but everything made a turn and I lost it all. I’ve been looking for jobs however no one is hiring due to Covid. Luckily my children are young enough they don’t know or realize the situation. I haven’t been able to make rent and although I haven’t been kicked out yet, i don’t know how much longer I can pull it off.

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Seeking Financial Aid, Recently Divorced and Orphaned Single Mother of Four Beautiful Bright Children. Please Help <3

hi :) I am a recently divorced, single mother, as well as recently orphaned by both my parents deaths. I had a terrible miscarriage right before the divorce and was alone in hospital to deal with it alone. I am deeply still processing the grief brought on by the four events.

I have four beautiful intelligent children, two in primary school and two in highschool. They are what has kept me alive and given me hope to keep striving. I wouldn’t be alive today if it wasn’t for their existence on this planet. They are my heartbeat!! I love them with all my heart and soul.

I was married for 18yrs.  Mentally abused and gaslighted. Manipulated into believing i was mentally ill by my ex as a way for him to cover up his multiple affairs with other other men throughout the marriage.
My mother passed away before the divorce from sudden death where as my father passed away after the divorce, due to his cancer coming back in the brain. Be them both together in bright warm light.
I was a stay at home mom for 15yrs and started working my first job two years ago. I have been struggling to hold on to a job because of post traumatic stress as well as high anxiety. I am still learning how to be independent and mentally strong again. It has a been a slow progress but progress nonetheless.
As i have four children to care for, I must keep financial stability while trying to get back on my feet. It has been a huge emotional and mental struggle but I feel I have made progress.
I recently became unemployed due to the Covid-19 pandemic. I now have to go home to my parents house and start clearing everything out and do it alone as my children are currently staying with their father, due to my financial situation. My family has also migrated back to the USA, leaving me alone here in Malaysia.
I am broke. I have no income or financial aid. I am greatly worried and concerned for the future of the children and mine.
I would deeply appreciate some financial help from anyone who is willing to help me get back on my feet and gain the confidence and mental strength to repair and clear out my late parents home. From there I plan to rent out the house so I have passive income. I can then rent a small apartment and my kids can come live with me again. Please, help me.
I feel lost and hopeless and in a state of panic because of my situation and not being able to be with my children. Everything i do or achieve feels pointless when I cannot have my children under the same roof as me.
Any financial help you can provide  me will be deeply appreciated and paid forward when I am able to reach my goal of passive income from renting my late parents home.
Thank you for your time reading about me, this was very hard for me to do but I just dont know what to do anymore. I hope someone out there can help me. Please take care of yourselves and keep safe.
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