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Help with Funeral debt

Anything Helps!!

I just want to start by saying thank you to anyone who is willing to help my family and I in this time of need. We greatly appreciate every bit of it.

On August 4th my husband got a call from one of his family members stating that his father was in the hospital on life support. They weren’t sure what was going to happen from that point. All they New was Anthony (my husband) needed to get to Indiana ASAP. We live in Texas. Already we knew this trip was going to cut us very short on money. He is the only one with a steady income and we have three small children at that. I stay home most of the time unless I can get a baby sitter and go do a house cleaning. Which is very random for me to get. It took us 12 hours to get to the hospital from home. We checked into our hotel room(which was just a hotel 6) so not much. We went up here on our last dime. We were there for 2 weeks on the money we had saved up for emergencies. Trying to figure out what the family wanted to do. Anthony being the only child was to soul decider on if he wanted to pull his daddy from life support or not. Consulting with his family. Everyone came to an agreement to go ahead and do so. Very hard decision for him. Nobody wants to see a loved one in that position. Ever. But his dad wasn’t going to get any better. He was suffering from bone marrow cancer and his liver was not doing good also. He was also brain dead from dying and being brought back to life. So with the decision made. He had him pulled on August 9th. His dad fought a hard day before he went to be with the lord. May god rest his soul.

Being such a bad running in everything we had to borrow the money for his funeral expenses. This put us behind and now we owe the person we borrowed from. I’m not asked no for anyone to feel sorry for us but to just help with what they can in this dire time. We literally put everything we had into this funeral and now we are struggling to catch back up. All we are asking for is 10,000 dollars. I know it’s a lot but that’s all we need to pay back this best and get our heads above water. It’s hard having 3 small children and only one steady source of income so please if you can help. That’s all I can ask! Thanks you very much for your time.

You can send any fund to PayPal.me/Haven0106

 

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My dads Cremation Arrangements

Hi my name is Ruthie I am here asking for help, on July 12th my day started off like any other day , I always call my dad who lives in new york to see how he was doing, conversation wa going great until he broke the news to me … My father sadly told me on top of having heart problems he had found out he had kidney failure, and his kidneys were in bad shape , he said his doctors have offered dialysis but he bluntly said he will not go through that he is tired of hospital doctors and he prefers not to go through all of the suffering, at that moment my heart dropped , he explained to me he is 80 years old and unfortunately he is tired and does not have the fight in him anymore and for me to understand that his day is coming very soon and he just wanted to prepare me. So as his daughter I promised to understand his actions and decisions. I next day called  doctors ,hospital  hes been in and got confirmation of what’s going on I was informed of he refuses dialysis his life expectancy is shortened by alot  with this said they said I go ahead and start thinking of the future and what it might hold. The issues I’m having are as follows this is something that has came.up unexpectedly and my father has noone no family no friends nothing that can help him I live 3000 miles away and  all I am trying to do is raise money to pay ahead for his cremation arrangements so when my dad passes away everything is good to go even me being here I’m Oregon and I am sure i will get my dad when the day god calls him. My father was refugee here about 60 years ago given a green card a social security and an identification card , and now that my dad is seeking help seeking his retirement they refuse to give it to him because they claim he is ILLEGALLY here which is NOt the case he has paid taxes for so many years and they have ko way of helping him now.  , and because of this we have no financial ways to pay for any of the expenses that are arising,  I am a mother of 5 and now have to find a way to come up with this money and I refuse to give up I cannot and don’t want my dad to die and be put anywhere I will live to have him here with me . Please if you find it in your heart to help me get some funds together so I can pay for my dads cremation arrangements it would mean more then anyone cam and will ever know and only God knows how much this will help make sure my dad is taken cared of they day he is called home,  since the last time my dad has been in and out the hospital more then 4 times not doing well  I just want to be able to take this one burden off his shoulder.

https://www.paypal.me/ruthnperez69

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Funeral Cost for recently deceased mom and dad

My mother and father both had recently passed away in a major car accident that happened when they were coming home from a business meeting…they were hit by a semi truck that failed to stop at the stop light, because he had gotten distracted by his cellphone. My mother and father have 3 kids, 2 being under the age of 10 and 7, and me being 19…we need help, raising at least $14,000 to cover funeral and burial cost for both of my parents :’( and to help feed the little ones so that they don’t starve 😔 if you would be kind enough to help us in this dire time of need…we will greatly appreciate it! Thank you and God Bless..

Please send the money via  PayPal.me/kingdragon21

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Buried in Funeral Debts

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I am 35, and I’m drowning in debt.

I lost all three of my grandparents within a 3 week span last August. They hadn’t really prepared for any funeral costs, as most in our family are very long lived, so we all thought we had years yet. Sadly, we didn’t. I had been working on my credit score, so I’d gotten a few credit cards in my name for the first time ever, and used those to pay the costs associated with the burials, or as much as I could.

I’m on disability, and a member of a disabled family. While this was all going on, my aunt was put in the hospital for a flesh eating bacteria infection. She eventually lost both her legs above the knee. My mom has had three bouts of cancer- Kidney, Thyroid, and Lung. Thankfully, they’ve both pulled through, but with Medicaid as our primary insurance, there are a lot of medical supplies that weren’t covered. I’m a loving and dedicated furbaby owner. She has had recurring bouts of a UTI, which cost me $250 each time to get the tests done and treat them, but I scrape the money together because I cannot let her suffer. I’d rather go hungry and without, myself.

I had an emergency gallbladder surgery last week. The portion that Medicaid won’t pay is $4,000, because I was transferred from the first hospital to another, since my original stomach surgeon worked at the 2nd hospital and everyone felt it was best that I remain under his care as he’d treated me before for ulcers and Ulcerative Colitis. Since the first hospital could have done the surgery, but I ‘elected’ to be transferred, they aren’t paying for the bed and tests from the first hospital. The doctor on staff had never given me the choice, or I would have remained there.

Every time I think I’m starting to get ahead, something else happens, and I have to stand up and save my family again. I just want to not cry myself to sleep every night, wondering how I’m going to afford the next month’s bills. I make $700 a month on disability, and right now everything goes to the bills, but I still can’t get ahead because my interest rates are sky high. I make so little that no one will approve me for a debt consolidation loan.

My current bills are $9,000. I’ve managed to get it down to that from the $12,000 it was when I started, but with the new hospital bill looming over my head, I’m officially at rock bottom and can’t fight anymore. I hate begging for help, but at this point, I just don’t know what else to do. Thank you for anyone who reads this and might be able to spare a little help. Once I’m back on my feet, I intend to pay it forward in whatever ways I can.

paypal.me/mandikauthor

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Praying for Help – Funeral Expense Donations

In late 2018 my mother in law was diagnosed with T-Cell Prolymphocytic Leukemia (T-PLL), which is one of the rarest and most aggressive of all known forms of Leukemia known to date. Even with all odds against her, my mother in law battled and fought as hard as she could. Even on her worse days she continued to hold her head high, have faith, and continue fighting. At first, after being diagnosed, all her treatments, procedures, and steps required to defeat this disease seems to be going exactly as the doctors were hoping and things were looking positive. She had found a donor for her bone marrow transplant and all her test results were exactly where they needed them to be to move forward with the procedure. Due to a scheduling conflict the appointment had to be rescheduled for the following week and in those 7 days her test results sky rocketed and the transplant was canceled. The original chemo she was on had stopped working and from that point she began trying several different kinds of chemo, which came along with roller coasters of rashes, swelling, side effects, misery, and in her case an extremely bad allergic reaction. cause a including Chemos that had not even approved her specific type of Leukemia but she was running out of options and time and never stopped praying for a miracle.

Unfortunately, Wilma had developed an extremely severe rash all over and everything from that point took a turn for the worst. Within a weeks time she went from normal everyday life of walking, talking, breathing on her own, etc. A couple days later she was needing her oxygen more frequently, losing her voice, needing her walker to assist her getting around, and so on. Little did I know over the next few days that followed she would get even worse. Within the short time period of a little over one week the cancer had completely taken over and unfortunately, Wilma Jean Lindday, at age 52, lost her battle and gained her wings home on June 27th, 2019. Along with the loss and grieving, the family has tried to come up with the money to bury her and give her the funeral she would hope to have and we feel she deserves. It has been nearly a month and my heart breaks not being able to lay her to rest over money. I am asking everyone to take a moment and imagine if it was your loved one just stuck, laying there in the hospital because you couldnt afford to have her buried. I’m begging, please, any amount counts and all the prayers are appreciated through this difficult time.

https://paypal.me/sbetscher?locale.x=en_US

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Please, help us

Hey. My name is Kenes. I want to tell you my story about how and why I had to ask for your help.
Two weeks ago I buried my mom. She had a weak heart. She was only 61 years old.
She raised me and brother alone. She was a very kind person.
To arrange the funeral, I had to take a loan. And now, I have no choice but to ask for help.
My brother has two small children. He works on a construction site. His wife does not work and is engaged in raising children.
I work in the collection point for scrap metal. My monthly income now is 250-300 dollars (in our country, this is the average salary).
Half a year ago I was treated in a hospital with a diagnosis of depression.
My previous job was a taxi. But after being discharged from the hospital, the doctor recommended that I change my job.
Now I take medicine.
In addition to the loan, I have debts to the employer. He borrowed me money for the monument.
I do not feel strong enough to work two jobs or start a profitable business.
The cause of my illness was a road accident and a divorce from my wife due to housing problems. We could not afford to rent a good house or apartment. We lived in a crowded hostel. There was often no hot water. Very noisy and uncomfortable for a young couple. We could not have children, and this is another reason for our separation.
Now I live at work in a transport container equipped for housing. Once a week I go to the hostel to wash myself.
Because of the prescribed medication, I began to gain weight. For six months, recovered by 6 kilograms. But I eat less, I try to be economical.
I believe that I can pass this difficult period in my life and become what I was – a loving husband and a reliable brother and friend. Unfortunately, I will never be a son. Mom is not with us now.
Our biological father left us when my brother and I were children, and my mother was unemployed.
Now he is not a poor man by the standards of our country. He is corrupt and greedy. In our country, a very high level of corruption. Our father now has a wife who is 20 years younger. And she is the third after he left us and mom.
It is very difficult to live for a simple person. At the weekend we want to look at the sky, at the stars. But the reality is that we cannot straighten out due to everyday problems and stand upright free as free people. We constantly have to work so that later when we die looking at the sky without blinking eyes.
I cannot ask friends and acquaintances to help me, because they are the same as me.
My illness made me think about suicide. But I have to live to pay tribute to my mother. She always believed in justice and the right of a person to live freely and with dignity.
I openly ask you for help, even though it is not customary for us to ask strangers because it is considered bad form.
Everything can fit in three words – please help us.

paypal.me/KenesTuanov

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Stuck in a rut

I did not think I would ever need to do something like this.
I am, as the title says, stuck in a rut!
I have been trying to get myself back on track for the past few years after having what I can only describe as a serious breakdown.
I saved myself from eviction, I landed a decent job, I’m still managing to keep my child alive ans well so that is fantastic!
Recently, I took out a loan to consolidate some of my debts and pay off my rent arrears. I made a lot of stupid decisions in life, especially with money, when I was in my teens and decided now was the time that I needed to step up and sort it all out. This worked out pretty well and I was feeling like things were going right for once. I still struggle and I’m still working on being financially stable but I was doing better and getting better.
Last week during the Easter break, we found out that uncle in Jamaica passed away. My family is devastated, my mum (as he was her brother) especially. Everyone is now trying to pull together to pay for everyone to get to Jamaica for the funeral. With my financial situation, I was feeling guilty that I couldn’t help. So I made the decision to apply for a loan. Because of my previous troubles with finance, it was proving difficult, but one loan company called me and accepted me..or so I thought. I requested 10,000 over 36 months. Enough to help cover a few flights at least, whatever else would be needed to cover funeral costs and if I was lucky, a bit left over to pay off some more debt. Instead, I was scammed. I did not have much money to begin with and they took everything I have. I can only blame myself for being so naive I guess. I’ve been left unable to help my family or even help myself. I don’t know how this works or even if it really does work but I have to give everything a try although I really want to give up. If there really are individuals out there offering help, I cannot even express how grateful I would be. Sorry for the long text.

It says I have to post a link: https://paypal.me/stuckinarut

Thank you

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Struggling with Debt After Grief and Caretaking of my Mom

Hola! Thank you for reading my request.

Five years ago my mom Jody passed away from breast cancer that had metastasized into her bones. Despite being put on hospice she bravely fought to heal herself through the pain. She lived for almost a year and a half, until it became too much and her heart stopped beating. My mom was my best friend. She always had my back and loved me so much. Her love was unconditional and that love has carried me through the last five years.

During her illness I worked part time to support her along with help from my brother Scott. I am grateful that I was able to do this. I found a person who lived near her to rent a room to me at a low price since I couldn’t afford regular rent on my paycheck. When I wasn’t at work, I was with my mom. I would show up early before work to help her as needed and would return to her after work, staying until 9PM. At that time I would ride my bicycle because I couldn’t afford a car. This was my daily schedule for over a year. I would even stay the night on the weekends. It was exhausting, but I knew that if she didn’t beat the cancer these would be my last memories.

It has been a long process of grief and healing.A year before her death my dad Bernardo and brothers girlfriend Vanessa also died. A year before that one of my best friends Cortney died. A year after my mom’s death, my cousin Tootsie died. Before her illness I was depressed for 17 years and had just started to get help when she was diagnosed with cancer. So, on top of my grief I was also trying desperately to heal my inner trauma.

I have continued to work part time jobs because full time work is difficult without an accredited college degree which I don’t possess. I have an old associates degree that is not accredited and the school is closed. I recently discovered this when I applied to attend college this autumn and was told none of my credits could be used. Because the part time job I had when my mom died was contract labor, I now owe the IRS just over $7,000. I struggle to pay the $150 per month I am required to pay. If I pay less than that the IRS has the legal right to garnish my wages. I am not asking for the full $7,000. Even if I could just be gifted $150, that would help me. I could buy a $72 buss pass next month instead of walking an hour each way to my current part time job and any odd jobs that come my way. Though I will gratefully accept as much as $7,000.

I imagine this is not the most tear inducing story you receive. My emotional pain is not as bad as it was. However, living week to week to buy food and pay rent is putting me in the negative. I am so tired and so frustrated. I am tired of being too poor to buy new underwear. I am tired of living in a house that doesn’t have running water so I have to bathe at the beach showers in my clothes. I want to be able to buy glasses that are not held together by bandaids. I want to go to college, study psychology and work in grief counseling. I will not let anything stop me. I am motivated and I am stronger than ever. The death of so many loved ones so close together taught me to enjoy life, to keep moving forward and be kind to others because I know that so many people suffer on so many different levels. I have felt extreme pain and I have survived. If you choose me as a recipient I will make sure to pay it forward. Thank you for considering me.

Peace and hugs, Leah

https://paypal.me/LOviedo

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Drowning in dept after husbunds sudden death

Hello, my name is Sabine and I can’t believe that I have to beg for financial assistance from complete but hopefully kind strangers.
You see my best friend and husband for the last 41 years passed away February 18th of this year of pneumonia complications. He got sick and died within 48 hours. If that is not bad enough, I am drowning in debt and here is why.

We have been self-employed since 1980 buying and selling horses. He did the buying and selling and I did all the office work. We never made a lot of money but it was his passion. He was now retired but a “good” friend of his ordered a specific horse, so my husband took a loan to buy it and get it to him. Needless to say, the good friend backed out. So now I am stuck with this $ 27,135.72 loan I can’t possibly pay back and board bills for a horse I can’t get rid of. I also have his funeral bill of $ 2,700.00 on my credit card.
I am 59 years old and I can’t find a job. Another hit in the gut came from the Canadian Government informing me that I do not qualify for a widows pension or death benefits. So now I have absolutely no income.
I have sold everything there is to sell. But all the things I held so dear, is worth pennies to strangers. I reached out to friends we helped over the years but all of a sudden everybody is so busy but they will get back to me shortly….never to be heard from again. So I am completely on my own, lonely and so very desperate. My sister managed to send me enough for 2 payments but she herself is on a small pension but I am forever grateful to her.
So this is at least part of my story and I thank you for reading and hoping you find it in your heart to help me out a little.

Thank you so very much

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A proper sendoff for those who deserved it but were deprived of it

This is request made with a heavy heart, all through out my parents’ lives it seemed as though life dealt them non-stop hardship. One example is: In the eighties, my mother had gotten into a car accident where a truck driver had tailgated her vehicle so badly that it launched her into a paddock and broke multiple of her ribs, my father at the time was a Pig farmer was dealing with a community attempting to shoot up his feed silos and mutilate stock, fast forward to 2006, my father is diagnosed with cancer and is dealing with the fact that he was had by a dodgy mortgage on his farm and my mother suffering from a stroke which left severe damage to her day to day functions. Three years later, my mother had major organ which had left her brain starved of oxygen and unknowingly lead to her developing dementia in later years. In 2011, my father had passed away and his death was not a quick or painless one, he suffered and that will forever be on my conscious, due to cold and borderline emotionless family members the funeral was a mere three days post his passing, we battled on for 5 more years and soon it came to my mother’s turn, she had been in nursing home for about ten months but she had passed away, a nursing home where they had been abusing and neglecting the residents, due to their negligence, she met her end drowning in her own bodily fluids and the same treatment had happened with her funeral, so here I am, I ask $20 000 to be able to fund a proper service for my late parents on my terms and with the people who truly cared about them and secondly take them back to their homeland of Germany to which they migrated from in 1960. Hopefully, you, the reader can empathise with my cause and help out, even if it’s slightly, every little bit will help in the long run towards the ultimate goal. I sincerely thank you for your time in reading this and hope that you find my cause worthy to help out as these are people who most definitely deserve a last bit of solace.

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I’m Alone

Hello. My name is Aidan. I don’t usually use things like this, I’m a very strong-willed, strong-minded individual. But I feel broken at the moment. I’ve just lost my father and my best friend in the span of little under two weeks. I only had those two people in my life along with my girlfriend, making it a grand total of three.

I’ve had to quit my job to resume looking after & caring for my grandmother, who’s in a seriously depressive state after the death of her son (my father.) No shit. I can’t blame her, I’ve lost a father – but that was her only son. She hasn’t got long left, and no child should ever, ever outlive their parent.

Why am I posting here? Because all of my savings have gone into helping out the rest of the family during this difficult time, funeral costs, ferrying relatives over to attend said funeral, tax costs, etcetera. I need money right now, and I can’t bring myself to gather the mental capacity to work.

 

I’m asking for ten thousand dollars. $10,000. I need a small loan (no Trump pun intended) in order to get back on my feet when all this is said and done. My PayPal is:

paypal.me/Froobs

 

I’ll be waiting for the payment to come in, but I’m not expecting anything. I am exceptionally aware of the greed that plagues society in this day & age, not to mention the scatter of posts being thrown up on this site day in, day out. Something my Dad used to say was ‘You’re only as strong as the mask you put on’, something he got from an old Chinese proverb whilst travelling there. He always had funny quirks & sayings such as that. I’m lost without him. I’m without words.

Thank you for your help, strangers, if you’re able to provide me with any. I appreciate every single one of you. I’m not religious personally, but whatever deity is up there, I hope he/she/it/they bless you. Time on this planet is short, life’s too simple and quick to dwell on things.

 

Live well, enjoy yourselves. Thank you.

 

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2 dying family members! Cancer sucks

Hello I am the niece and the cousin to the two family members in my family dying from cancer. With all the scams going on I am trying to raise money through a raffle and silent auction. Tougher than I thought.

Joe is 38yo Cousin married 16 years and 6 young kids he has been diagnosed with colon and liver cancer twice a year apart. Surgery we thought got it all, Thanksgiving 2018 we got the horrific news that it came back with a vengeance his markers have doubled in 1.5 months. We are looking at weeks to a few months on chemo. No more surgeries to save his life. Has been an accountant for 18 years and still trying to work the best he can as he’s the sole provider for the family. It’s only a matter of time.

Nathan 53yo Uncle married 18 years 2 daughters has had 22 mini strokes since September 2018. We recently had him transferred to the medical center. Since being in the hospital 5 months and moved from suburbs to medical center as of December 31 his birthday. We have also found out that he has a tumor on the outside of heart wall grew into a major artery, brain, drenal glands and spine so cancer with Metz. This type of cancer is a lymphoma that is very silent and found during autopsies. He’s completely confused, feeding tube, very thin and frail looks much older since 5 months in the hospital has not walked since admission. He’s worked for an oil company over 20 years. He’s currently on long term disability his wife has taken Fmla to be with her husband daily since learning of the cancer recently.

The money we raise will be split between both families for funeral expenses, hospital bills, and the kids. My cousins 6 kids are home schooled since being in school.  The uncles girls are in college that he was helping with tuition, form and food expenses. Both girls have had to drop college at this time to spend days with dad and looking for work to help my aunt as she’s not getting paid while on fmla. Our family has given to help pay parking, providing meals and doing as much as we can.

I have only been able to raise 1025.00 through raffle in 3 months. I saw this and Im skeptical as I’ve never had to do this and I have been in the medical field 28 years and see many scams. I can only hope that we still have a world of kindness without people thinking I’m asking for help for selfish purposes. I’m a giver not a taker. I’ve helped many in my lifetime and never asked for anything in return. We are a very close family, but can only do so much as we have our own families and bills.

My goal was $40,000 to give each family $20,000. Whatever we raise will be a blessing and much appreciated. Prayers are more powerful than money and we can wish this was a nightmare.

Thank you for reading Shanna

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Grandma’s final days:( and family hardship

Hi, my name is Rebecca. What I’m asking for today is not something I have ever done. My family and I are very simple family, we always make the best of what we have. Here’s our story. In may of 2018 my family fell on some very very hard times. We lost our home,I lost my job, and we were forced to relocate with family.I am currently working as an independent contractor but work is slow. We live with my sister and brother-in-law.my brother-in-law was diagnosed with cancer in his urinary tract.he is currently undergoing treatment to rid him of the cancer fingers crossed. His mother whom is also in the home is on her deathbed. She is in hospice care we gave her round-the-clock attention to make sure that she is comfortable and not in pain.she is 82 and she has lived a very wonderful life.when she does go which we have very little time with her we would like to be able to do everything properly and we don’t have the means to do so. We also struggle with other things on top of this. There is a total of 5 children in the home, four mine and one is my sisters. So as you can imagine with not alot of income and that many mouths to feed it’s a little rough at times.I’m writing this because we’re looking for a hand up and we are most definitely a family that will pay it forward. This is one of the values I have always instilled in my children.and bless their little hearts everytime they see someone on the streets asking for money they give it to them. I hope to whoever is reading this that you’ll find it in your heart to help a little even a dollar at a time helps. We want you put Grandma to rest properly and have a little breathing room for ourselves as well.and also I would love if everyone could say prayers for my eldest daughter who recently embarked on the journey of becoming a Marine and she is currently in boot camp.so all of that being said if you can’t donate which I understand not everyone can but even a prayer would be much appreciated. Thank you so much for taking the time to read this and have a most blessed day.
Rebecca and family
https://www.paypal.me/icebox12000

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Bereavement / Clinical Depression

Hi, I am asking for help as I am desperate. My mum died suddenly in September (I had been caring for her as well as working as she had cancer), and I have been diagnosed with clinical depression so currently I am unable  to work. I am a single parent who has worked all her life and even put myself through years of part time study to obtain a degree but at this moment in time mentally and emotionally I am unable to support myself. That is coupled with the fact that even though mum was a pensioner the dwp will only help with half of the cost of her funeral and so I also have that to worry about also. I am receiving some Universal Credit but it is pushing me further and further into poverty. To the point my son has had to miss days of school as I just cannot afford his bus fares and it is way too far for him to walk. I have sold virtually everything I own just to keep food on the table but I am completely out of ideas now.The depression is bad enough right now but the stress as well is just horrendous and I no longer know where to turn. I don’t want people I know or used to work with to know just how far I have fallen as I feel like a complete failure already.  I am looking for anybody who is able to help me whilst I work through this stage of my life and attempt to heal and rebuild my life. Thank you for taking time to read my post.  donations can be made to paypal.me/klh436

Thanks again.

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Both of my parents died, in the biggest hardship of my life.

I graduated high school in 2006. I have been working odd jobs since I was in high school, a lot of grocery bagging, things of that nature. I decided that I should try to get some further education, and since I liked computers, I wanted to enroll in computer classes. I asked a cousin what I should go for, he told me he was doing computer networking and loved it. So I went to school for 2 years mostly doing basic classes, a few computer classes here and there. The town I moved to is 200 miles from my original home town. I roomed with a friend of mine who I started a band with, he played guitar, I also played guitar and was a vocalist. A year and a half into this, due to needing to pay for my living, roomate suggested I get student loans. I requested student loans for 3 semesters, roughly received 6,000 per request. So I lived off that money until the next semester. Well I got a phone call, my father had a massive stroke. He was paralyzed on his left side. I decided to go see him. A couple days later, my mother was hospitalized. They diagnosed her with an old case of hepatitis C: her liver was failing, she was at stage 3 cancer. My father refused to go to a nursing home, they were both around 60 at this time. So my mother decided to take care of him. Knowing this, I had a feeling they might not last long, so I dropped out of college to go and be with them. I started working factory jobs, and ended up getting a woman spawned from satan himself pregnant. Debt collectors started calling about student loans. I started a payment program with them, like ten dollars a month, but they took every tax return I filed. Then a few months later, my father died. My mother moved into a small apartment afterwards, and in three months, she also passed. My brothers and I have signed for her funeral, but none of us have been able to pay for it. They don’t even have head stones.

And here I am. Currently a car salesman with a ton of debt. 13k in student loans, a couple thousand in comcast and at&t bills. Child support from the woman I got pregnant. Another baby on the way. I know that people file bankruptcy in hardship, but I also have experience turning them down when they try to buy a car. But I do not know how I am going to get out of the hole i’m in. I’ve asked banks for advice, they have none. I am naive when it comes to finances. I have no one to ask for help. All of my family are basically loners. After my parents died, I might as well have died also when it comes to them. So this is what i’m asking:

What is the best way for me to get out of this? I have never owned a credit card, but my credit is HORRIBLE. Currently I am financing a washer and dryer. I have a title loan for the car i’m driving, but it’s a piece of crap anyway- 02 VW jetta. Any advice at all would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you.  https://paypal.me/crbdonate

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Help me pay my sisters funeral cost

My beautiful sister, Jean, passed away tragically in a car accident and my brother and I need help to cover her funeral costs. We have our eyes on a coffin that costs $1500. The cost for the funeral director is also $1500, to get her body embalmed is $600 and the cost for her burial plot and gravestone is $800. The viewing and funeral service cost is $1200. We are able to cover some of the costs but we need your help in being able to cover the full cost of it all.

Jean Maggie Simonson was born July 18 1995 to Neil and Alissa of Saskatoon Saskatchewan. She was a beautiful young girl with an open and fun loving heart. She grew up with her two brothers, me (Seth) and Tanner. She grew up tough because we would always be fighting one another. When mom died in a car accident when Jean was only 13, she took it bravely. She was often the one to comfort Dad when he was having a rough time. She was such a pleasant girl and nice to everyone. She took care of dad after he had a heart attack but he was infected by his catheter and a few months later he was diagnosed with prostate cancer. He lost the fight and he passed away on July 17 2013, one day before Jean turned 18. She became very sad and depressed and went to live with her Aunt Viola in Winnipeg. There she worked at a Tim Hortons for 3 years and then decided to move back to Saskatoon where she met Adam McAllister from Prince Albert. They fell in love and after a year of dating she moved in with him. When the couple was driving home from Saskatoon on November 3rd 2018 they met a drunk driver who didn’t stop at a stop sign and caused Adams truck to roll 6 times. Our Jeanie was killed. She was 23. Adam suffered brain damage, a broken arm, and few broken ribs. The drunk suffered no injuries. She is dearly missed by everyone who knew her. We all loved her so much and we all long to see the mischievous twinkle in her eyes, to see her flash her dazzling smile and hear her contagious laugh just one more time.

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Peace and justice for Baylee & family

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*JUSTICE & PEACE for Baylee*

Prayers and support are in need for Baylee Anna Marie Allen. She is a strong tough little 3-year-old, who came into the world fighting with CHD. She has had multiple surgeries on her heart with the first surgery performed almost immediately after she was born and the last one being this in August of this year.
With a few surgeries under belt, the coast seemed clear, however, Baylee was thought to of went into cardiac arrest Friday (10/19) where she went without oxygen for 45 minutes. Not much hope was given when she arrived at the hospital where she was presumed brain dead.  Sadly, after many tests ran in the last 2 days the worst has been confirmed. The test showed it was not her heart to cause this tragic event but a traumatic brain injury.  It was believed this tragic event was caused by an individual and has been verified after autopsy. After an investigation into the death of Baylee Allen, which was ruled a homicide by the Mississippi Medical Examiner’s Office, an arrest has been made. Baylee Allen died of blunt force trauma and head trauma.
The family consented to organ donation so Baylee could help another family in need. Baylee’s loved ones are now left picking up the shattered pieces of their hearts. The average cost of a child’s funeral is costly and this sudden tragedy is a horrible enough burden on them, helping financially any amount can help making it even harder.
ANY amount, small to big helps this family. Please consider donating to help defer the cost of unfortunate funeral expenses. If you’re unable to donate at this time, sharing Baylee’s story and asking others to share as well, is just as much help.
As the sister of Tyler Allen, Baylee’s father, I am making sure all donations are in the right hands so the needs of Baylee’s memorial can be taken care of.  The total $ number for the campaign is to ensure I ask for enough to help, as loved ones take on the role of caring for Baylee’s siblings, Branson and Brooklyn.  However, if Baylee’s campaign is blessed enough to be donated any more than what it is NEEDED for funeral costs, any and ALL the remaining will be used to secure the care for Branson and Brooklyn, as their lives have drastically changed after this life altering event and help with things from clothing, daily necessities, to maybe even Christmas.Even small donations help tremendously. From the bottom of my heart, I appreciate and thank you.

https://paypal.me/justice4baylee

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Please Help a Vietnam Vet’s Daughter to get to St.Louis by Nov 1st

 I recently lost my wonderful, crazy, loving father. He passed away at home this last July in St. Louis, Missouri. He was a highly decorated Vietnam Veteran who spent his entire life being known as a humanitarian, constantly sharing jokes with everyone he met. I miss him so much!Me&GeoSr.png

My life has completely and totally flipped upside down in the last 4 months with a few traumatic ordeals in a very short amount of time. Besides the unexpected death of my father… I just lost my job as a Motel Manager on Sept. 23rd, due to the selling of the business to new owners, so I also have to be moved out of my home by November 1st. I have no transportation or vehicle, or even a place to move into. Not to mention I have two savannah cats Khajki and Arreaux. I just found out today that I have inherited his estate and must be physically present in St. Louis to file papers in Probate before November 4th.  And I need to find and retain an Attorney, UGH! I’m feeling so overwhelmed and don’t know what to do anymore, so here I am… begging for help. It has taken a lot of dignity and strength for me to ask the public for help, and I just need to get to Saint Louis to settle my dad’s estate, as soon as possible, which has been ransacked and gone through for the last few months by his estranged step-sons. Who just settled a Probate case in April of this year against my dad over their mom’s (my step-mom) vehicle. She passed in January 2016. The oldest step-sibling is trying to be the executor… which he has no right to do. My dad’s accruing bills are currently at 25K and the costs of his cremation and estate/probate drama (estimated at 15K), which is beyond my ability to handle alone right now, with not having an income and a savings of $150 towards gas to get there. I do have a ride out there, but no where to stay and I need to find and retain an Attorney as soon as I get there.

I appreciate and hold onto the hope that you may be able to help us out somehow. Thank you and God bless!! -Heather

EVERY DOLLAR HELPS AND COUNTS. Can you spare 5 bucks today?
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12 Day Old Nephews Funeral Costs

On August 12th of this year, I received a phone call from my sister saying my nephew wasn’t breathing and to meet her at the hospital closest to our house. I immediately left and when I arrived I had been told he was in the care of his father and he called the paramedics after calling my sister because my nephew wasn’t breathing and was blue. 2 days later he died of 2 skull fractures and lack of oxygen to his brain. We then found out that his dad not only beat him that night but axed him into the coffee table because he couldn’t get him to stop crying. Not only did he spank him and hit him, he squeezed him and shook him and smashed him into a table but he also left him on the floor while he googled what he had done for over and hour and a half before actually calling it in. Oh and my 2 year old nephew was also in the room and knows only that “Daddy baby boom ambulance” It was horrifying and I can’t even Express what it was like to see a casket that’s a foot long. Now we have thousands of dollars to pay to bury him.

Not only did that happen but this summer I left my daughters dad for him hitting me and abusing me physically and mentally. I couldn’t allow it after what had happened and my 10 month will not be subjected to that type of behavior. Needless to say he’s no longer helping me with anything including diapers wipes etc. The best part is he’s now living with my sister and my family is not an option for help. I am now facing eviction, my utilities are behind my truck is going to be taken if I can’t pay it this month and I’m trying to work but two jobs isn’t cutting it and I don’t have anyone to babysit for me on a consistent basis so I’m falling behind quickly.

I truly have lost so much this summer, I am trying so hard and getting knocked back every step I take. My story is sad and my life is sad. I’m struggling to keep up as it is with my mental stability as an issue already I am trying to provide structure for my daughter niece and nephew but can’t get away from the effects that drugs and alcohol have trashed my family.

I’m sober, I don’t even drink alcohol, I’m 27 with a 10 month old and am a single mom. I’m working towards school or a third job but will lose valuable time with my little girl if I commit to those things and all I want is to show this little girl a decent life without chaos and pain every minute of everyday.

I need your help and can’t Express how frustrated I’m getting not moving forward when I do so much every day.

I want to change the pattern my parents have set in play for us as their children, and show my youngest family members they can depend on me and if they ever need a home or meal I am here. However if I lose my home I won’t be able to do that for them and they need it. Please help me start something new for a dysfunctional family and help me provide a better place for 3 children who deserve a better life.

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Please Help Me With My Fathers Funeral

Hi, my name is Anniqua Spencer I’m 20 years old and I wrote this story just to give myself some strength to inform you that my father passed away. This is what my Grandparents told me on how they found him. His parents went to check up on him because they hadn’t heard from him in a while when they got their they tried to get in, but the door was locked so they tried to use a spare key they had that didn’t work. Next, they went to the front office to ask if they could unlock the door for them and they said “No we can’t do that” his parents then went outside and were thinking of a way to get in. They came up with one my dad’s apartments was on the bottom floor, so they were able to climb over and get to his patio door which they were able to open when found him they told me how his skin was very cold to the touch. Once they found him and realized he wasn’t here with us anymore they called the ambulance. The Forensic Pathologist told his parents that my dad had been dead for about three days. They gave me a call and told me my dad passed away when I heard that my world was turned upside down. I really need your help, whatever your willingly to donate It would be greatly appreciated. It still hurts to accept the fact that he is gone so soon but I know god has him and is taking care of him. My Father’s name was Robert Erik Spencer he passed away at the age of 42 from alcohol poisoning. Thank you so much for the help, even a little amount is a big help for my father`s funeral. The picture is of My dad and me when I was a little girl.

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A Daughter’s Heart for a Grieving Widow

Hello, my name is Onajite Ekpere, I’ve gone by Jite all my life. I’m 29 and the  youngest of five children. I would like to tell you a story. On July 14, 2018, my world was turned upside down, and it became the worst day of my life. It is the day that my family lost my father to Alzheimer’s.  He was only 71 when he passed, and was first diagnosed with Alzheimer’s in his early 60s. My Dad was a Medical Physicist (dealt with cancer patients and worked with the Radiation Oncologist), before he was diagnosed and could no longer work in his field. He helped people for a living. He was passionate about doing everything that he could to fight cancer, doing his part. He was passionate about his wife and kids. Even though he was always at the hospital, he made time for us. Family was always important to him. He was passionate about being a good example to my two brothers and showing them what it means to truly be a Godly man and good husband. He was passionate about singing and worship. He could never carry a tune, but that never stopped him from praising and worshiping God to his best ability. He was passionate about life.

Then one day, his life slowly began to be taken from him, by Alzheimer’s. There are many stages of Alzheimer’s.  It was a slow and gradual process of deterioration over the years. By the end, my father was a shell of himself. Watching someone you love deteriorate over a period of time, and know that there was nothing you could do about it, was probably one of the most painful things I experienced. When he passed, apart of me was glad. He was no longer in pain, no longer suffering. The rest of me though is heartbroken. I feel that I’ve lost a part of myself.

But, this fundraising isn’t about me. This is about my mother, and my heart for her. My parents were married 40 something years, and now my mother’s other half is gone. My mom’s a teacher and the school year has started, so it’s helped to keep her distracted, but my heart breaks for her. She went from having a Physicist and Teacher Salary, to just a Teacher’s. She’s been living with just her salary since my Dad was first diagnosed years ago, and she’s made it work, but we all know a Teacher’s salary is not much to live on. Then, a month ago, my father died, causing her to have to use a lot of her savings for all of the memorial/funeral home preparations etc.

I don’t know how to help my mother right now, except offer my support and love. What can you really say to someone who has experienced such loss/grief? What I do know though is that, if I can help relieve any financial stress, even if it’s just a little off of her, then it’s something. She’s grieving, the last thing she needs is financial stress. So, I come to why I’m asking for money. This fundraiser is for her, to help relieve some of her financial burden. I won’t profit from any of these funds. I don’t need to. I have an amazing job. I just want to do this as a gift to her. My parents always did everything that they could for all of us. I want to give back to her.

So please, if you’ve ever experienced loss of a loved one, or find my cause worthy, send a donation to: http://paypal.me/OnajiteEkpere

Thank you all so much.

Jite Ekpere

 

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Praying For A Small Blessing!

I’ve always been the person donating to these things and paying it forward helping others but this time I need a little help !!

About 6 months ago my grandmother was diagnosed with stage 4 bone cancer . We moved her in and I quit my job and stayed with and took care of her 24/7 . Over the last 6 months we were able to barely scrape by and make ends meet even though we live 30 minutes from the nearest town and the motor blew in my car and we were left begging and borrowing a ride to dr visits and the grocery store . The last week of June she started going into heart failure and even though she was having a lot of medical issues and in so much pain she tried hard to stay positive and smile ! Around 5 am July 1st she past away , and unfortunately for me her insurance policy had expired so she had no burial insurance  the church and family members have pitched in but I still owe the funeral home $7000 after giving them the money from church and family and the $800 I had been saving for a car ! The last few weeks have been really hard I wasn’t prepared to loose the woman who raised me and to Make life even better my oldest daughter starts her senior year of high school in less than 2 weeks and Today she was rushed to the e.r. For what turns out to be a torn acl in her knee which requires surgery…..  I really have no idea what I’m going to do or where to turn ! I cannot afford school clothes and supplies for my 2 teenagers , I’m struggling to pay for a funeral,I have no vehicle to get my daughter back and forth to surgery and dr visits for her knee or to even go back to work so I can make it .. at this point anything will help! even the smallest donation will be greatly appreciated !

https://www.paypal.me/HoldingOnToHope

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Unwed Widow Requesting Grave Site and Child Support Donations

I’m asking for $3,750 for a grave site for the love of my life (Allen J. Bates 12.08.1979-12.05.2017) and to reimburse the money from the funeral (that was used for the funeral) to his children. 

December 5th was the worst day of my life; the second worst day of my life was February 2nd, the day the oldest two children of the love of my life told me they didn’t want my help, they never did, and I was “stealing their Dad’s house (despite having been on the lease and all utility bills prior to his passing)…they told the younger two not to talk to me, thus rendering me completely broken. 5 & 1/2 years of dedication and love just gone. I’ve debated posting about this for fear of sounding like I’m throwing a pity party; I’m not. Death does crazy things to people, and children are never to blame. Despite informing them that the landlord had already told me he wouldn’t be willing to rent to kids, they didn’t want me there; I had no choice but to leave. I live on my own now, and the kids are all split up. It’s awful. 5 & 1/2 years of revolving my life’s purpose around for these beautiful, innocent children, and now they think I’m an enemy. My heart is broken. 

Allen worked 16+ hours a day, 9 months out of the year, hibernating the remaining 3 months of the year during his off season. I was honored to fulfill so many needs for OUR family, as Allen called it.  Everything from filling in and filing paperwork for health care, food stamps, taxes, making & taking them to doctor, dental, orthodontia, and optometrist appointments, urgent care, school registration, behind the wheel registration, taking them to and from school, jobs, orchestra, wrestling, dances, friend’s houses, organizing and planning birthday & graduation parties, baby showers. Everything gave me such a sense of purpose. 

All I ever wanted to do was help. I gave without any expectation of getting anything in return, aside from love and maybe respect. Now all I want is for them to be ok. All I want is for them to know I love them, and I’m still here for them even though they wanted me gone. But. I’ll always love them, and I still want to help them. 

I used the $1600 from the funeral and the $4000 from the go fund me my boss set up for the funeral. I want to raise $1600 to give back to the kids plus the $2150 for a grave sight for his urn. I can barely afford to live much less save. Please help. 

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Uncle Loveil Funeral Fund

My Uncle Loveil was found dead and he was dead for 2-3days before they found him. We are devastated. His family and our community needs help to provide him the funeral he deserves. The Funeral home wants $2000 up front we have no insurance Me and my family are short we still need $1,600 Please donate what you can. Every bit helps. Thank you in advance. PayPal.me/Sahira26

You can also go to gofundme.com

Type: Uncle Loveil Funeral Fund

This man Body has been sitting for 2weeks

Please!! And thank you

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Dont wanna lose my fathers ashes

my father passed away recently and he was my best friend now his ashes sit at a funeral home waiting to be claimed by me and I have no money to claim him with. I need help genuine help to retrieve my father’s ashes, to bring him home where he belongs. My father was an awesome man he was a 9 year Vietnam veteran he served his country well, very well. My father deserves to have his resting place at home with me. At times I often think what if it were me in that urn, I’m sure my father would want me home with him instead of some Funeral Home Shelf. I really do need this help and if anybody anybody is willing to give me this hand up not hand out to help get my father home it would be much more appreciated then you would ever know. I just don’t have the kind of funding that it takes to get my dad’s ashes now and bring him home. I am disabled myself and have very limited funding. I too Am terminal. I have wolff-parkinson-white syndrome a condition where the heart has too many electrical pathways and I go into cardiac arrest out of nowhere. I have had 13 heart attacks and died from two of them, lucky to be alive I’d say. I just really really really want to bring my father home to be with me before I pass if anybody out there could find it in their heart to help me, it will make my day and the rest of my time on Earth. Thank you ever so much God bless whoever I’m talking to.

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Saying Good-Bye costs more than heartache!

image.jpegI’ve been drowning in debt for years, but I’m not writing this for me. My name is Mandy Broadbent and recently a good friend of mine was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer, I immediately registered for a nonprofit group to help him get what he needed to get through this. We were successful, however getting funding is another story. My friend endured 9 months of cancer treatments and spinal surgery that left him in a wheelchair. The nonprofit group we have put together is called Calgary Cares Society our mission is to help those effected by cancer with finances to help with the burdens that come with this aggressive disease. The group was trying to raise money for a vehicle to get Tyrel to and from his appointments, because the day after his spinal surgery his wife Rachael was in a car accident, and their insurance was not enough for a new vehicle. Unfortunately on April 20th 2018 his 2nd wedding anniversary Tyrel Stevenson passed away in his young wife’s arms. I’m writing this for Rachael Stevenson. She needs our help with the cost of saying good bye, and although she went the cheapest route she possibly could, the costs still exceeded $8000. Racheal has not been working because she needed to take care of her husband, Tyrel needed help in and out of the wheelchair, as well as the embarrassing part of needing your wife to change your diaper on a daily basis. She was his primary care giver for almost a year, she never left his side. Rachael deserves a helping hand, she is selfless and caring, and already has had to deal with the worst time of their short lives together. Our group had raised over $2000 together before he passed away, which helped them pay for a few bills that were over due. Sadly our nonprofit group is not kicking off as I would have hoped. I’ve been looking into more ways to advertise the group and gain members, with very little success. I plan on putting on an auction to help raise money for Rachael, but that too costs money to put on. I’ve roughly put together some event costs and I would need $5000 to have a successful event take place here in Calgary, Alberta. On one hand $5000 could help the nonprofit group and potentially Rachael, or on the other hand $8000 could help Rachael move towards a brighter future. If we are aloud to put a foot in there as well, we also need to replace a vehicle for Rachael so she can return to work and lead a somewhat normal life while coping with the loss of her husband. As a registered nonprofit organization I could potentially add you and/or your company to our list of donors, depending on the sponsorship type or agreement, we can advertise our partners and sponsors on all platforms of marketing. Calgary Cares Society has a website if you are interested in what we are about www.calgarycaressociety.com We have made a section for Tyrel Stevenson which has a link to chuffed.org while there you can make a donation and receive a receipt for income tax purposes if you wish. I eagerly wait for your support. Thank you! paypal.me/MandyBroadbent

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Help Bury my Mother

Hello my name is Tantinisha Martin recently my sister, brother and myself lost our mother to a sudden massive stroke. Unaware that my mom didn’t have life insurance we are unable to bury her until we come up with the $5,560 to bury her. So far we have come up with $1700 but it’s hard we have hardly any family or anybody to turn to for help and the state of Louisiana doesn’t offer any assistance and it’s been almost 3 weeks since her death and my heart is breaking because we can’t give her the going away service she deserves it pains me and breaks my heart that she has to sit in that Morgue lonely we’ve set up various fundraisers go fund me pages but it’s hard when you have no close family to rely on so me and my sister are doing what we can I honestly don’t want my mother to have to sit in that Morgue 2 or 3 months she deserves so much more than that her beautiful soul deserves so much more than that I work as a cna at a nursing home I’ve been doing that for 11 years me and my sister have been taking care of my mom since she had moved back in town only 4 months prior to her death. My mom worked hard her whole life and worked hard to provide for us and I just feel like she died unhappy in pain without the happiness she deserves.. My mom was a good lady a Christian woman she also was and organ donor her liver saved a mans life already that brought a little light in our lives.  This whole situation has been painful and stressful and we haven’t been able to properly mourn because all the stress of how and when are we going to bury her it’s a horrible feeling it hurts my feelings because I feel like I’m failing her and it breaks my heart. That is why on behalf of my siblings we desperately need some assistance a little help any donations will be greatly appreciated if you’re interested in helping but might not be comfortable I understand you can send donations directly to the funeral home Heavenly Gates Funeral Home 1339 Jewell st. Shreveport Louisiana 71101 phone#318-222-8010 we have and account set up in her name Floyd Vanessa Jones

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Hoping to keep a promise to my late fiance

Hello my name is Anthony i am 37yrs old and divorced and have 3 daughter in witch the oldest who is 18 just had a child of her own so now I’m grandpa and 2 boys i have raised since they where born so they to are my boys. I’m not really sure how to do this or who this well reach so I’ll just leave that in God’s hands. Instead of telling you my whole life i well just start with the most recent of events n where i feel my life began again and ended in the blink of an eye. I was engaged to the most beautiful woman i have ever met in my life and to my surprise she chose me over so many other opportunities to be with a person who had the means to give a queen all she deserved. We have been together for 5yrs and on 8/19/2017 between 9pm and 10pm my fiance and it had a conversation i wish would have never taken place for in that Moment she believed i had fallen out if live with her and pulled out a small caliber pistol and was making it seem that if i where to leave her she would have no reason to be in this world anymore but if you got that chance to know us you would have known there would never be a chance of that ever happening. Needless to say at that moment i reacted by raising my voice and telling her “what are you doing ” as i went towards her before i knew it the gun had went off. As she reacted to the sound of the shot or even mabey my voice she had ducked forward rite in the path of the bullet. Since she had told me many times before that she might do something like that if i left she never really would do it. And even now i still don’t think it was intentional people tell me it’s not healthy or doing any good to blame myself but i keep thinking what if i had just stayed quiet or just assured her i wasn’t leaving or even waited to even have that talk. I have never found a more loving and giving and caring women in all the world she was a good send. I have tried to work in the past but she would always make me stay home eventually because she would hate that i would not be here when she got home from work. She made enough money to take care of us and our family that she made me the house husband. She was the best thing that has ever happened to me since the birth of my kids. With that being said when she passed we had not saved anything for bills or my child support payments or any of our bills do to that fact that she made money daily so we where always on time with our bills. And if that wasn’t enough our landlord has let our house go into foreclosure and still wants rent for me to stay till the beginning of October and to make matters worse me being a good person asked the hospital to contact her ex husband so that her kids could come to the hospital and say goodbye to her well since we weren’t officially married they had left all decisions you to her younger sister and older brother. And with out even giving her a chance they made the call to pull the plug on her and it was then that they left all other decisions up to her ex. Who has already said i would not be aloud at any service they have for her or giving any if her ashes because her family doesn’t have money and her ex has a business he took from my fiance in there divorce. So because he said he would pay for it all they have kinda just left me th off man out. But its only because they want to make sure he pays for everything. As of yet i have heard he is not having a service but planting a tree for her in his backyard and only having so many people over. Well i don’t think that’s rite and i believe my fiance disserves more then that she disserves a place where everyone who knew her can visit her and say goodbye witch brings me to why i am asking for help i am past due on my child support and being fresh out if court we are on a 12mo probation if I’m late or miss a payment they well send out a warrant for my arrest. My payments are $375 a month with all that has been happening losing our place i was planning on following my girl to where ever it was she was going to go. After talking to my sister i made her a promise i would go to Cali see my new grandson check in to the hospital she wants me to go to and continue to live my life better then we where we had so many plans and it all seemed so pointless i have asked my finance to talk to me and tell me want to do. And so i guess if i can’t be with her in death i would honor her in life and become a better person then i had ever been. And hopefully help someone along the way suffering from depression i well always listen now no matter what cuz you just never know when someone is crying out for help. Honestly i don’t mind going to jail for my child support i should have never out that responsibility on her like that. But i would be so great ful if someone anyone would be so kind as to help me give my queen a proper service. All in all i would need close to $10,000 to get my life back together and for her service at the very least. But even if i could get close to $3 or $4,000 at least she would get the service she so deserves. I could go on for days telling you how wonderful she was. I’ll never find anyone who could ever take her place. Thank you for taking the time to read my story and thank you in advance for any help i might receive from you.

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Inheritance Help Needed

Family Passing and lack of Funds to complete Inheritance . With lack of work and health issues , its been very hard to meet time lines with probate and government Fees . I need approx $12,000.00 Canadian to complete process and have Inheritance Fund put into my account here in B.C. Canada . Persons that can Help with this situation will be contacted and have double their money Help returned in appreciation for their kindness and maybe pass it on to others . Small Family and I wouldn’t be here asking if not needed . Picture is of late Aunt and Uncle . Thanks for looking , Randal

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Please Help with funeral expenses for my Grandma

Hello I am writing this today because the only family I had passed away on May 20, of this year. She was all I really had over the last 26 years and we were extremely close all of my life. She was the only one who stood up for me, and loved me. She was 84 years old.

I grew up in southern California, and my parents split up when I was around 12 years old. I ended living with my father, who was very abusive, and the only safe place I had to go was my Grandmas house. So I tried to spend as much time there as I could, even sneaking out, and riding my bicycle there to hide out because she would not let my father hurt me. When I was 15 my father literally in the middle of the night, without telling anyone, moved me and his new family to the Northwest. I was told that if i tried to contact any of my family he would kill me and I believed him. He wouldn’t even put me back in school because he was afraid that we could be traced through the transfer of my school records, so instead he made me go to work. I got a job pumping gas at a gas station and worked 40+ hours a week. When I was 16, he had my stepmother kick me out of the house, and she dropped me off on MLK Blvd and she never looked back. I lived on the streets of Portland for a year, until a very kind woman with kids my age, rented me a room for $50 a week. She encouraged me to go back to school, ( which I did!) And subsequently earned my G.E.D. I finally reached out to my Grandma when I was 19, it took 3 years for me to build up the courage in fear of what my father had told me, but once I did I never lost contact with her again. I ended up getting into a union apprenticeship, getting married, and did very well for my family for a while.

2009 I was involved in a tragic accident on a construction site that took out  L4,L5, and S1. It required me to have 2 major back surgeries, and has since left me disabled. My wife left me once I could no longer make good money because I only make about 1/4 Of what I used too. I have adjusted to it and raised my son, but I did not realize, nor was I ready to endure the cost of a death, and her and I were all we had. I was able to pay for the funeral and mortuary service but I am about to loose everything because I paid that instead of the bills I have. And I still have to come up with the money to ship her to Arkansas to be buried next to my Grandfather, I have never asked anyone for anything before, but please help I need around $11,000 to pay for everything. My PayPal is paypal.me/jasonpecksr anything will help please, I don’t know what else to do,

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My Grandmother passed away and I am disabled, I need help with funeral expenses as she was all I had!

Hello, I am writing this today because my Grandmother passed away on May 20, of this year. She was 84. Her and I were very close, growing up my mother and father divorced when I was 11 and my father was very abusive, she was the only one who stood up to him and protected me, that established our bond, and over the years we became very close even though I lived in the Northwest and she lived in southern California. My father moved me up to the Northwest when I was 15 and forbid me from contacting anyone in my family because he did not want to be found (mainly to avoid paying child support from my mother I presume since my other 3 siblings went off with her), He wouldn’t even allow me to return to high school because he didn’t want my school records to be traced, but he did make me go to work to help support his new family. So I got a job at a gas station pumping gas at a gas station in Portland, Oregon Working 50 hours a week. He ended up kicking me out of the house a year later, but I was so afraid of his threats, it took me three years to contact my Grandmother. Things ended up working out for me, a wonderful woman took me in, allowed me to rent a room from her,  pushed me to go back to school, and I was able to join a union, where I made very good money. I subsequently had a family, bought a home, and provided(by working very hard) a good life for my family. Then tragedy struck, I caught a valve that was slipping out of the rigging while we were 160 feet in the air that weighed around 3 to 4 hundred pounds. I took a step with all that weight in my arms and unfortunately, destroyed L4, L5, and S1 in my lower back, which required me to have 2 back surgeries, and disabled me from my career. Well when I got hurt, because I couldn’t make the kind of money my ex wife was used too, she left me liteally laying in a hospital bed. Hence why I am disabled today and do not have much. And I lost literally everything.

My Grandmother was there through it all, she was tough on me when she had to be, and consoling as well. Her and I shared a very deep bond, intact she used to tell everyone that she would just look at my picture and say “Jason call me!” And within 15 minutes I would. Well that little trick of hers helped get her emergency services once, back in 2006, she had fallen in her kitchen, she was having a major stroke. I, at the time, was working a construction job in Washington state. When I was overcame with an urge to call my Grandmother even though cell phones were outlawed on the job. So in front of everyone, I opened my cell and called her. It took me a couple of minutes for me to realize that she was in grave danger because her speech was garbled, but once I did, i contacted the emergency services in L.A. county and was able to get her to the hospital. Unfortunately the stroke took it’s took on her and physically she couldn’t do somethings that she could before, but she was as sharp and feisty as ever!! I made it a point to come down at least twice a year to see her and bring my family down for thanksgiving. We were all we had. She is the reason I am the man I am today, she raised me to have integrity, character, to strive to be the best at whatever you do, and most of all to love God and your family. She was not much over 4′ 11″ but she commanded a presence that made you listen and take notice, I love her so much and she will be missed by many!

I have never asked for money from anyone before today, but I cannot do this now without help, I have already spent almost $5000 dollars, that only covered her coffin and funeral in L.A. and left a balance with the mortuary of around $3600. Then on top of it she is supposed to be buried in Arkansas. The house is in reverse mortgage, to the amount of $480k, and almost $100k in credit card debt, so there is nothing left in the estate. Please help me through this, I am only looking to try and recoup what I have spent and her burial in Arkansas, which amounts to around $15k . Thank you so much if you took the time to read this!!!

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Children in need after unexpectedly losing mother

I am writing on behalf of my step children who unexpectedly lost their mother this week.  Her son, Jalyn, is 19 and will be starting his first year of college in a month.  Her daughter, Allie, is 16 and will be starting her senior year in high school.  Their father and I are prepared to provide day to day support in school, sports, etc.  However, we were not prepared for their mother’s unexpected passing and having to cover the costs of some funeral expenses, getting Jalyn set up at college and get Allie a workable vehicle.

We were already struggling financially due to my husband and I both losing the ability for overtime pay and numerous medical bills for myself.  We have gotten behind in bills and things have been sent to collections.  We were already in the process of trying to get things back in order and our lives back on track so that we could help in the financial duties for his two children as well as my two children.  Then his ex-wife passed away and now instead of helping with the financial duties for his two children it will all be up to us.  We are trying desperately to come up with some solutions.  Due to our poor credit we are unable to apply for any loans.  Neither one of us has wealthy family members that can assist.

I am not trying to turn this request into a poor pitiful me story about my husband and I.  This is about his two children and that they have lost their mother unexpectedly and way too soon.  I feel helpless.  I am not their mother, I will never be able to replace their mother.  I just want to be able to help them any way I can.  WE want to provide for them as well as we can.  We just need some assistance in getting over this initial hump and getting them settled into their new lives.

Any amount would be extremely helpful and greatly appreciated.  Big or small.

I hope you can find it in your heart to help these children out. 360

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Desperately need help with funeral expense for my mother

Hello my name is Maryellen Romero, I am asking for help to pay for the cost of my mother’s burial/cremation. Sunday morning on May 28, 2017 I got a phone call from a family friend that my mother Krisjena Butler was at LSU hospital in ICU and on life support in Shreveport Louisiana. I didn’t want to believe it was true praying it was a mistake, I went to the extent of trying to call my mother hoping that it wasn’t true but no answer. An hour after receiving that phone call Tina ( our family friend) sent me the phone number so that I could speak with the doctors to find out what had happened and the state that she was in. The doctor I spoke with told me earlier that morning my mother had called 911 complaining of chest pain and abdominal pain and that the fire department had brought her in that they had resuscitated her twice before they reached the hospital during that time of being resuscitated she didn’t get enough oxygen to her brain and had to be on put on life support . The doctor said she had 0% chance of coming out of it, that I should make the trip from Lafayette Louisiana to Shreveport Louisiana to be with her. My younger brother and sister which lived with my mother decided it would be best to take her off of life support so that she could pass peacefully. So my husband, my two kids and I made the trip to Shreveport but an hour 1/2 before we made it to the hospital she passed without me being able to say my final goodbye and to tell her that I was sorry for being so stubborn and not putting my pride aside to fix our relationship and put the past where it belonged in the past. We had an estranged relationship because I still harbored resentment from being in foster care for 15 years and for the lifestyle she  had chosen to live. Boone Funeral home in Bossier City Louisiana was the only funeral home that would meet with us (on Memorial Day) the following day after she passed. My mother wanted to be cremated, so we tried to find what was the cheapest as my older brother and I were the ones that anyway to an income to try and pay for funeral arrangements and we both have kids/family of our own and are barely making enough to get by as it is.  We chose direct cremation which is $2051 and the cheapest they offered. My husband created a gofundme page so we can try to raise the money to cover the cost, and have only raised enough to cover the cost of the ern ($150). The director of the funeral home said they would give us 30 days to cover the cost which would be June 29, 2017 is our last day of the deadline. I am asking for any help if possible. She had no life insurance that would help elievate the cost and we do not have any family to help pitch in. Even though I was estranged from my mom I am doing the best I can to make sure that everything is taken care of and trying to keep it together( not doing so well with either). But I am trying to do right by her the best I can. If anyone would please help if at all possible

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Thank you for taking the time to read this and God Bless.

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An orphan who needs financial help

Hello everyone, I am writing out of frustration and loss of hope for the future. I have passed through so many issues that as i write, tears drop down my cheek. To loose a brother, father and mother to cancer is the most traumatic experience that i will not wish on my enemy.

 

I have become someone who suffers from depression and anxiety,fear of dying and so many illness which has prevented me from reaching my potential. I feel ugly and unaccepted and everything i try to do does not succeed.

I am desperately in need of £20,000 to help with the cost of my mum’s funeral who is currently in the morgue.

I also have outstanding medical bills and utility bills to pay. I will be evicted should i not be able to raise some of the outstanding £6,ooo rent arrears owed.

 

Each day i wake up feeling worthless, and pray that as God moved me to do this, he will also move you to assist me.

 

Thank you and God bless.

 

Amen