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Asthmatic creating safe home

My name is Suzanne. I’m 33 with a good job, but sometimes…life happens….

In October 2021, I moved into my house and finally escaped a financially and emotionally abusive situation.

 

I had lost most of my emergency fund to make sure we didn’t lose our housing altogether my ex chose to leave their job and not look for a replacement. They felt entitled to my income, despite us breaking up.

This home has been a sanctuary from my ex, but it has also financially cost me.

 

Since moving in, I have invested roughly 25k+ in emergency repairs: my foundation wall had moved about 3.5″ (13k), I needed emergency plumbing to move the gas line away from the wall (2k),  my water line broke in my front yard (3k), my electric box fried some electronics and I was told it was a fire hazard (5k), my sewer line backed up and flooded my basement floors so I had to have it all ripped up and replaced (2k, thanks to insurance)

 

I’m struggling with this debt. I want to create a room in our basement ao we can generate rental income and start to make headway on this debt and to build our lives.

I’ve been sleeping there myself with my partner, and I’m ok not having a wall or a proper fire exit, but it’s not safe for my health to stay in the basement and rent the upstairs room.

I have severe asthma that has been getting worse. Although my partner sleeps fine, I’m waking up almost nightly and coughing to the point of vomiting. Even with my air purifier, I can’t stay there.

Since my partner is fine, I know it’s just my hypersensitive lungs and it would be otherwise OK to rent out.

But to do that…I legally have to change the window to an egress, and i need to have a wall put up with a door to make it an official.

 

If we can rent out a room in the basement, we can start to generate some rental income to get our finances turned around. However, I’m still fighting the credit card debt from everything else, and I’m scared to take on more.

https://paypal.me/SuzanneRipley?country.x=US&locale.x=en_US

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My American Dream

Greetings and salutations to you all, thank you for your kindness in sparing your time. I hope that this message reaches you in the best of health. I am a 48 year old father to a 11 year old daughter and a husband to my 43 year old wife. It has been 10 months since we been evicted from our apartment and are living with family. I am the sole provider we can’t afford daycare so my wife is a stay at home to take care of taking our daughter to and from school. We just got blessed with a car about 5 months ago and now registration suspended because I can’t keep up with insurance and it lapsed and also behind on the monthly payments. Where we live at with family is far from my daughter school is a commute daily. I just can’t seem to save enough to get a place because of living paycheck to paycheck.

I humbly ask for help so I can get my family a place of our own again closer to where my daughter school is and to get caught up on our car bills which is vital part of my family now.

I am a true believer of the American Dream. Mine is going through some roadblocks right now due to not having enough income [Read more…]

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I live In a SafeRest Village & They let my car get vandalized, now deny responsibility.

So my story starts like a lot of others’ do here in Portland, I’m homeless. And I’m currently on, at least, a couple dozen housing lists. I have been for several years now. But as of now, I have made a somewhat decent life for myself, as much as I could living out of my car. I’ve come up with a fairly profitable Canning route, and was able to save enough for a safe car Now at this point all I needed help with was actual housing! It seemed like a dream come true, running into a friend who told me about Allgood, and they’re “Safe Rest Village downtown. So, naturally, I jumped at the chance at temporary housing, until I came up on the housing lists. I moved in 14 long months later(I ironically was put on another waitlist to get into the village), and lived there until the whole site had to move up to Multnomah Boulevard, just behind Barber Safeway. Reason being, the staff felt unsafe, because of the gunshots happening every half hour. Fair enough. I remember the area, and t neighborhood, close to a grocery store. So I moved with everyone.

Now, everything was amazing, for the first nine months at the downtown location. Upon arrival at the new “safer” area, my spirits were soaring! Everything was coming together for me, all the hard work id been putting in was starting to pay off in under 2 years, I’d put myself in position to be a productive member of our society again, I couldn’t of been more proud of myself! I was in the last hurdle of turning my life around. What started off as shamefully collecting cans out of peoples’ trash’s, had led me to a variety of other odd jobs, that the members of the community’s were blessing me with. I no longer was embarrassed. or harassed, when I arrived in the neighborhoods was still canning in. I was lucky enough to now have an income 6 days a week, where made-$35 a day, that is the daily limit allowed for turning in cans. Yet also had steady odd jobs on 5 of the 6 days a week. And I now owned my 2008 BMW X5 SUV free and clear! (It helped that I got family price on vehicle cost, so about a third of bluebook had just moved into the final stop before getting affordable housing! Since there was no “guide on how to get yourself out of the gutter”. I was definitely more than proud of myself.

That was until the 3rd day at “Multnomah Safe Rest Village”. I was told that if I didn’t park my vehicle a block down the street, at the end of an unlit gravel road, that Allgood was going to have my car towed! Then I was told that where I was parked, along with everyone else, was a ‘Firelane’. So after work, I parked where I was told to, by the Director and Case Manager. When doing so, I was a bit confused because no other cars were parked where I was now.. not only were they not parked there, they were all now parked in EXACT spot I was told I couldn’t park! Now, since it was later in the evening, and 2nd shift village staff was now on.. I was going to have to wait until morning to see why I was the only one who had to park off grounds! Irritated, and tired, I stalked off to bed.

The next morning, I was horrified to find my vehicle had been broken into, not only broken into but they had ransacked and destroyed just about everything in and on it. The messages left on my seats and dash, written in what I guessed was white paint, said un- kind things like “DIE HOMELESS FUCKS” “Go back to where you came from!” “die,die,die” “HA HA HA” “Fuck off!!” And, if that wasn’t enough, my backseat had been completely ripped out, and by doing so, that gave access to my fuel tanks, which were drained dry. Along with that, my transmission line(Sliced open) and both catalytic converters had been cut out. The Fan, and the entire radiator, were gone. The hood latch was busted off. And the drivers side window was missing. Among various other small things… I took a few pictures, then I got myself together and returned to the village, where I told staff and made a police report. Upon showing staff (the director walked down there and saw all of this) he told me to park my car back where it had been parked the very day before. I asked “How can I park there if it’s a Fire Lane? Won’t I get towed? And besides that, my car is undrivable. Hey, maybe I will need that tow after all!” My attempt at a joke didn’t make it far.. I was informed that was untrue, it was not now, nor had it ever been, a Firelane… What?

At that time, I was told not to worry! Allgood would take care of all of the damages involving my car. And for awhile it kind of looked like they were following through! A local garage came and fixed the drivers side window, and stated that’s all they could do, because they were just a body shop. I was asked how much I thought it would cost to fix everything I said “More than I paid for sure.” What needs fixed, that I’m aware of, is the fuel tanks, back seats, interior dome lights, tow package, transmission line, complete exhaust, hood release latch, radiator/fan, and various hoses, along with the entire interior replacment..

The Director, to this day, has not said one word to me about what’s going on. The last time we talked was when he returned from a vacation.. he pulled me aside after the Wendsday Community Meeting, and told me that “he’d been gone, but was now back!” And it’d all get “taken care of.” That was over a year ago. On the 9th of October 1 filed a grievance, where I asked for an update, or financial payment for the value of my car? Also 35$ per day that I’ve now been unable to work. I need my car to transport cans to the bottledrop, but also for the other odd jobs. Not a word. I asked how does the grievance procedure work? I was told that the Director probably tore it up, and that’s it. My car is still sitting outside the fence to this day, where we were able to pull it too, with the help of another villager.

Now none of this is my fault, I had my car downtown for over a year and never once was it touched. Had they not forced us into an area that once housed sex offenders, an area that they neglected to tell us, was literally run to the ground by the surrounding community, because they didn’t want them here. It would have been really nice to know that the community was against us moving here. But now, instead of my life moving forward, I’m now 100 steps behind, & nowhere closer to having a home.

That’s my story… But I have a few things to add;

All good claims to house people, right? Then how, out of the 30-40 people here, has only 1 moved out in over a year? And that 1 person actually paid for his apartment with his SSI checks.

Allgood has also recently gotten in trouble for overcharging their accounts, and possibly stealing, or using their funded money for anything other than housing people.

Allgood, in my opinion, is just another “NonProfit” saying they want to “help”, receiving funding, taking the money and using it on themselves. Doing anything and everything except getting people housed, and helping people. They’ve completely destroyed everything I was working towards.

So I’ve just stumbled across this website, and the funds I need to either replace or fix my car Is around ~$12,000. I have pictures from that day, If you’d like to see them? It’s worth a shot, right?

Paypal.me/Anixxic

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New being Sole Provider, Running Deficit, Need help with investment into product idea in order to provide.

I am a new father to a newborn son, and adopted 6year old. I need help with resources in order to start building carbon filtered nightstands to sell and bring in money to provide for my family.

Credit cards unfortunately were maxed out during the end of the pandemic, and not working during the three month demise of my late father. I started working a new career doing maintenance in a hospital, have good benefits for the family, but run a deficit of close to $800 monthly with using all income on bills and groceries. (We have not eaten out or fast food in over a year)

I desperately beg for a little outside support so I can attempt to bring in more income and at least break even every month before I go into default on my debts.

Any amount will be most greatly appreciated and never forgotten.

Thank you in advance, and to everyone, have an amazing week and stay strong!

 

paypal.me/balauskas

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PLEASE!! Urgent Financial Relief Request for My Family – Help Needed for Food, Rent, and Bills

Hi, my name is Sarah, and I am struggling to make ends meet as I have recently lost my job.  I am writing to you with a heavy heart and a deep sense of urgency to seek assistance for my family during this incredibly challenging time. I recently lost my job, leaving my family in a precarious financial situation. We are struggling to make ends meet and require immediate support for essential expenses such as food, rent, and bills. Losing my job was a devastating blow that has left us in a state of financial crisis. As the sole breadwinner of my family, I have always strived to provide a comfortable and stable life for my loved ones. However, circumstances beyond my control, including unforeseen company downsizing, have left me without a source of income. This sudden loss of employment has made it impossible for me to meet our basic needs. I am a dedicated parent with a strong commitment to providing a loving and nurturing environment for my two wonderful boys, who are aged 4 and 15. Our primary concern at the moment is putting food on the table. With limited savings and no incoming income, affording nutritious meals has become an arduous task. It pains me to see my family go through each day with anxiety about where our next meal will come from. Your assistance would provide an immense sense of relief. Additionally, the threat of eviction looms large as we struggle to cover our rent payments. Keeping a roof over our heads is of paramount importance, especially considering the well-being and stability of my family. Your financial support would go a long way in preventing homelessness and ensuring that my family has a safe and secure place to call home. I am reaching out to you with humility and a profound sense of gratitude for any help you can offer. Your support will not only help us meet our immediate needs but also provide us with the hope and motivation to overcome these challenging times. My rent payment is $1900 per month, electricity is $250-month, food $300 per month on the low side.

If you are able and willing to provide assistance, please contact me at greeneyez452@gmail.com. Any contribution, no matter how small, would make a significant difference in our lives.

Thank you for taking the time to read my request. Your compassion and generosity can help my family. We are immensely grateful for your consideration and support during this trying period.

Cash app: $sarahangel43

With heartfelt thanks,

Sarah

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Help needed to pay for a healing program

I have a virus in my body called Epstein Barr Virus. This particular strain that I have gives you Mono. So just like Chicken Pox comes back later as Shingles the Mono strain attacks many parts of your body. It attacks your endocrine system which includes your thyroid, adrenals, pituitary & ovaries. Basically goes after everything that makes your body function properly. It has affected every part of my life. I have absolutely no energy at all. I drag myself wherever I need to go. If I walk the slightest distance I am completely winded. I have always been athletic & very active. This has completely turned my life upside down.  I don’t sleep well at all so when I get out of bed in the morning it takes me hours before I can function even a little bit. This has completely gotten in the way of me working. At least in regards to me going to a job because I would never be able to get myself there on time or not be in a zombie state the entire time. I found a great program that will help me get healed from this so I can function again & have my life back. I am starting a business from home so I don’t have to worry about getting fired but I still need to pay my rent & other bills but it would be nice to not have this virus causing me more problems. I need about $6000 for the program & another $3000 to cover rent & other bills. If anyone would be so kind to help me in any way you can send money to PayPal at tinacalcara@gmail.com

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Relief from the straitjacket of poverty

Hello, I am reaching out in hopes of loosening the grip poverty has on me and my family’s life. I am 38, recently married, around $45k in debt due to the pandemic and work issues the last few years. Our goal is to save to get out of debt and then eventually buy our home. Unfortunately, it has very much been 1 step forward 2 steps back.  I know that money is tight everywhere, and there are a lot of people who are worse off than I am, however I am hoping to use this help to eventually help others when I am able. Thank you for taking the time to read this and consider our situation.

 

https://paypal.me/hardtimes37

 

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Cancer Survivor Still tying to survive

Hello everyone!

I’m a cancer survivor, tennis pro, husband and father at the young age of 35. I’ve been in remission for about 3 years now and I’m beginning to get back to regular life. As precaution, I’m still getting MRI scans on a monthly basis and they can be quite expensive. I recently started a new job in  the same field as the one I lost but the transition has been quite hard on me. I do have a savings account but it’s nearly depleted due to recent events. My car was stolen so I used a lot of money for uber to get to and from work. Child care is pretty expensive so I’ve been maintaining that. I’ve had my car back for about 3 weeks and it’s back in the shop currently with transmission issues so I know that’s going to be an expensive feat. Also, still trying to maintain my scans for my cancer is very much a priority to keep up with. Even though I started my new job, lessons and income are very light. Things will get better as my business grows but things seem to be happening one after another. Any donation towards getting things handled would be very much appreciated! I’m a hard working man that has some unfortunate events happening all at one time. I just need a little help. A closed mouth never gets fed and I’m never too proud to ask for help.

paypal.me/southpawnation

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Please Help a Single Mother with a Toddler Make October’s Rent

Hello everyone. First, I would like to say God Bless You to anyone reading this. I had no idea that there were people in this world who would help someone like me, out of the kindness of their heart. I have to say this is not an easy thing for me. I have never asked for help in this way. I have always just suffered in silence and tried to figure it out. I have been begging God for a miracle and today He led me here. I am so grateful for people like you. I have a 4 y/o and I have been struggling to provide for them since January of this year. I was laid off from a work-from-home/remote position during that time, and EVERYTHING has gone downhill since. Since I had a work-from-home/remote position, I did not have a car. Working from Home while caring for my kid was literally all I had time for, and Walmart would deliver my groceries. So a having a car was at the bottom of my list of things that I needed. When I was laid off in January, I was devastated because I had no idea what to do next. I filed for unemployment but was not granted it for almost a month. Meanwhile, all of my bills are starting to fall behind. Eventually, I started to receive unemployment benefits. Unfortunately, it was barely enough to cover my rent. So I had to pay what I could and make payment arrangements for the rest. Eventually, I lost the few credit cards I had, and I had to take out loans that I am now behind on because my unemployment ran out in July. My child does not have a second parent, only me. I sacrifice all that I can to make sure they are healthy and have a full belly. They have no idea that their mother is struggling to provide the bare necessities. Most nights I cry after my kid goes to sleep. I have to be strong them. But this is the hardest thing I’ve ever dealt with in my life. I have no family that I can rely on, and if I did they would not help me. I’m mentally and emotionally exhausted and the only thing keeping me together is knowing that I have to make a way for my child. I understand that there are tons of situations similar to mine, so I am beyond grateful that you are taking time out of your day to read my story. I just need assistance keeping my head above water. Whatever you decide to help me with will be greatly appreciated. I just literally don’t have any other recourse at this point. Feeding my child ramen or rice and gravy everyday is so disheartening. They need fruits and vegetables, and this is just stressing me out because I don’t even know how I’m going to pay my rent for October. I really need another work-from-home/remote job since I don’t have a car. I have no problem working. I just don’t have transportation and can’t begin to afford daycare. Any REAL leads on a job along with financial assistance would be greatly appreciated. I really need your help, please. Thank you for your time today. You are much appreciated and loved.

paypal.me/BrainsnBeautyTV

$BrainsnBeautyTV

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Praying for help paying bills due soon.

I’m hoping and praying for help to catch up on bills. I’m a 66 year old living on ssd. I live a quiet life and don’t buy unnecessary junk I don’t need. Haven’t had a shopping spree in years. Thats spending 100 dollars on clothes to me BTW.  I started getting behind on bills when my daughter who lives 6 hours from me lost her job In March. With 2 grandchildren of course I sent as much money to her as I could resulting in my financial condition now. Now that she’s back to work and the kids are safe and fed i need to concentrate on myself.. Specifically I could use 3000 dollars to catch up on everything to include mortgage, electric bill, internet bill, past due oil bill for 250, and a few misc things like An eye dr appt next week and car inspection. All of this is looming over me at the end of this month. Its hard keeping up these days and I don’t regret helping my daughter. If some kind soul clicks with my story my dream is to move to her state and spend my life with my grandkids. I can show bills if you would like to see proof of what I need. Thank you and Bless you.

https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/vlmom

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Empowering a Single Mother’s Journey: Building a Bright Future for My Children

Hi there! First of all, thank you so much for taking the time to read my story. i appreciate you showing up here.

My name is Mel. I am a diligent small business owner on a mission to create a better life for my two incredible boys as a single mother. It’s not easy for me to ask for help, but I want you to know that every day, I put my heart and soul into my work to provide for my family. I live in gratitude, keeping my hopes high, my motivations strong, and my humility as my guiding light.

The Journey So Far: My life story is one of resilience and determination. While I grew up in a reasonably safe family, I faced the harsh reality of homelessness during high school. College was an unattainable dream as I needed to work from a young age to survive. At 21, I fell in love with a man who had dreams, but those dreams remained unfulfilled. Despite my loyalty and support, the relationship eventually became a danger to me and my children’s safety. With just $50 to my name, I made the courageous choice to leave and protect our lives.

The Battle for Our Future: Over the past two years, I’ve navigated the complexities of the family court system. This unfortunate exposure to an unfair system has made it incredibly challenging to grow my business successfully and secure financial stability for my boys and me.

A New Chapter: In 2023, after years of healing and self-improvement, I found myself in a new relationship that promised safety and stability for my family. However, circumstances took an unexpected turn, leaving me pregnant and heartbroken with no support from the father, who now resides in another state.

Turning Pain into Triumph: I am determined to transform this story into one of triumph. With self-awareness and street smarts, I am committed to overcoming our financial instabilities. As my business, a high-labor cleaning company, will require me to step away before and after the baby arrives, I’m seeking your support to provide peace of mind during this critical time.

Our Vision: I have ambitious goals to expand my business, including hiring a team, pursuing education courses, hosting workshops, and launching new products. My vision extends beyond my own success; I want to empower other single mothers by offering them opportunities to build their businesses through mine.

Supporting My Birth Plan: In addition to the financial challenges, I’m a natural, home birther. To ensure the safety and well-being of myself and my baby, I need to pay my midwives $1,000 by April. Furthermore, I aim to take March and April off from my physically demanding business. This time is crucial for me to go inward, focus on self-care, and prepare for the arrival of my newborn.

The Importance of Your Support: Your support will not only aid in the successful birth of my child but will also allow me to be fully present for my two boys as our family dynamics change greatly. It’s about creating a nurturing environment during the last month of pregnancy and the crucial fourth trimester for the well-being of all my children.

Closing Thoughts: Thank you for believing in me and supporting my growing family. Your generosity is cherished beyond words, and I look forward to the day when I can pay it forward to others in need.

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Redemption for Tia and Beginning for Ace

Hi; my name is Tia. Though I wish my first time communicating with you all had better circumstances, there are many things in life that are out of our control. I am submitting this message to explain why I’m in need of financial assistance with hopes of getting a place for my son to call his own. I am now back in college online to pursue my bachelor’s degree in hopes of finding a mentor that can take me under their wing, so I can one stand on my own in the real estate business. In 2019, I was evicted from my apartment in Hammond. I was experiencing trouble with pursing my degree at Southeastern Louisiana University and handling rent alone. I also was having trouble with my car. I had no transportation. When my car did work, it was always taking a chance at life driving it. There were oil leakages everyday: having to actually get out the car in the middle of the road to put oil in the car because it would be leaking as I was driving. Also, I could not drive at all when it would rain because my windshield wipers were broken completely. As we know, it rained a lot in Hammond, Louisiana. When I did not have a car, I would have to find rides to my job at Target because I could not afford to uber to work every day. Still to this day, I don’t have a working vehicle that’s why I’m taking online classes. It’s hard finding a babysitter, but I’m not quitting on providing a better life for us. 

 

​In 2019, my grandmother was diagnosed with dementia. My family took a hard hit because my grandmother was not in a nursing home, and this put a lot of stress on my mom. This is where my relationship with my mother dwindled most, and I began facing many of these problems completely on my own. My parents stopped communicating with me to avoid helping, and I ended up homeless. I went through a rough patch during this time, and I genuinely did not know where to go.

​Since then, I have been proactively working to get my life stable so that I can focus on school. My baby and I have been staying with my boyfriend’s mom. It has been hard trying to get this eviction of $3600 off my credit. I can’t get a place because my credit is significantly low. I need a safe place, so that I can provide a better life for my son and me. I can efficiently work on my studies all of while keeping a great and positive life balance. Thank you so much for taking the time to read my letter. I hope you all consider me heavily.

 

My PayPal link: paypal.me/TiaTheodore24

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Narcissist Family

Hello everyone, thank you for taking time out of your day to read my story. I have always had a rocky relationship with my mother. I finally made the decision to move out into my own place in hopes that it would help our relationship. I was doing great financially then I got covid last year  for three weeks and was unable to work. Those few weeks put me behind in everything…. Car, rent, utilities, etc.

My mother has never been good with money and has always looked to me to pick up her slack even though I had my own bills to worry about. And she refuses to save money. But being that I didn’t want to see her struggle I helped where I could even though I was still trying to dig myself out of debt. Finally I came up with the idea for us to move back in with each other to try to get some financial relief on both our ends. In my mind I was thinking that since I am now 27 I should be able to peacefully coexist with my mother in the same household and if not just be as cordial as possible. Well it’s been nothing but fights ever since. I’ve come to realize my mother is very narcissistic. She will continuously tell me I am what’s wrong with her life. She threatens my personal belongings that I have paid for with my own money because I tell her ‘no I can’t do this ‘ orbit I try to discuss with her how something she said didn’t sit right with me she will get very defensive and turn the situation around on me. Once I again I try to ignore it all because she is my mother and basically the only family I have left. After hurricane Ian hit SWFL we entertained the idea of moving to GA and I was fully on board until we visited to look at houses and the environment did not sit well with me. I have a history of panic disorder and while we were there I had a horrible panic attack and she just told me I’m being dramatic. When we came back to Florida I told her I don’t think it’s a good idea to make such a big move that will put us into EVEN MORE debt. And I am also not mentally ready to leave my home, career, friends and basically entire life yet. That statement did not sit well with my mother and she told me that I am dead to her. Then proceeded to tell me that if she commits suicide, that’ll be my fault because I made her stay here in Florida.
This among many other awful things that I feel a mom should never say to her children have been told to me.
I’m at my final straw. My mental health has declined drastically and I can’t take much more.
I want to move back out on my own but have nothing in my savings because i used it all to help her.
Anything helps so I can save up for deposits and moving fees.
I love my mother but I refuse to let her treat me as she has over the years.

paypal.me/babybleu00

https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/babybleu00

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Trying to get back on my Feet.

Hello,

My name is Michael and I am requesting some help. I wouldn’t typically even consider this approach but I am in a situation I don’t think I ever saw coming.

A bit of Background on my situation:

in 2017 i suffered an injury while working as an Arborists Assistant where i compressed my spine and herniated 12mm. of soft tissue into my spine. I was paralyzed from the waist down on my right side for over 6 months and spent most of 2018 and early 2019 recovering 80% of the use and feeling from my right foot at the tip of my toes to my hip. I went back to work and was fine for the most part (Here in 2023 and I still have mobility issues that severely limit my performance but I still work) until the pandemic in 2020 brought most of my work to a grinding halt. My Wife and I worked at adapting to the new struggles that came with the “Shut-In” lifestyle that had become the norm in almost everything we did.

We worked through it, Together we achieved what we originally were worried was an unmanageable situation being that she had to find new work and I had to work out a new and reliable source of income as well. Harder still managing all of this while Monitoring my until this time uncontrolled Diabetes that had been slipping under the radar for years until my Insulin production ceased almost entirely during a prolonged incident with an Abcess in my gumline.

The worst seemed behind us and as we stabilized my Teenage children reached out to me interested in getting to know me better, (we had been seperated for 10 years when their mother relocated across the country to live with distant family) So we pooled our resources and got our home ready for the Reunion. Everything was going well, until I got an infection in my lower back in the form of a Pilonidal Cyst. I toughed it out for a few weeks and the infection got so bad that it immobilized me. I had the Drainage Surgery done but my Diabetes made me to high a risk to be put under for Excision.

I changed my lifestyle further, recovering from the initial Drainage procedure and healing process, going to the gym, changing my diet but the road back was harder this time then recovering before from the injury pre-existing in 2017. Shortly after recovery another discovery of Degenerative Disk Disease increased my Recovery time.

My Wife covered every expense she could on her check and my side of the finances were not covering the lack of full employment. We chose to persevere, I recovered and the Kids moved back with their mom until this year in April. We were reunited again and all seemed well, Happy and functioning at what seemed almost 100%.

But as my story has outlined time and again, it wasn’t over. Until it was. With almost no explanation other then “We Didn’t work” and she “wasn’t happy for a long time” , My Wife left with little fanfare or tolling of alarms. She took the car and the better of our paychecks. I was working on temporary assignments trying to bring myself back from a rough series of employment gaps. I landed a Job as she was leaving. and so we come to current events.

 

My Children, My Two Canine companions, and My house are all standing on a knife edge of me getting back to work full time, while going to school for Data Sciences. I have no car which means no way to keep going to work and my neighbors are of limited ability to assist me further (They have been a blessing)

I am Trying to Obtain 5,000.00 Dollars to Cover the expense of a used vehicle and make sure i keep food in the house and the lights on for the first month back to work at a full time job. The Car for daily commuting and everyday running, the electric and the groceries because the children go to school online and everyone needs to eat. I am grateful for any assistance and I am looking toward the future even after everything with hope in my heart that with Perseverance and a bit of Help, that I can get back on my Feet and keep providing for the four out of the five people I Love Most in this world. Blessings to any and all who have read this, and those who choose to help.

 

Thank You Humbly, Michael

Cashapp Info : $MichaelRyn

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Need Help Escaping from an Abusive Household

A few months ago I left a relationship where I allowed myself to become inappropriately financially dependent on my partner. I was very young when we got together, and I made a lot of young, dumb mistakes that led to me having nothing to my name when I left the relationship. So, I moved back into my parents’ house to work hard and earn enough to get my own place.

My father has been physically and emotionally abusive all my life. My siblings and I were beaten from the time we were literally 3 to 15. I grew up hearing my mother scream at my dad, defending us. When my brother and I were teenagers, she had to literally plea with him to not actually take us out into the yard and beat us up, and the only thing that ever stopped him from doing that specific thing was her threatening to leave him – not his love for us, his children. Long-story-short: He was a drywall puncher, to say the least.

My dad has chilled out some now that we’re all older, but my brother no longer speaks to either of my parents after an episode with my father. That has really shattered my dad’s narcissistic view of himself and he’s continued to talk about how he wishes he could physically abused us again, and I’m really scared that this is all building up to an episode where he finally beats my mom – something he’s talked about doing a lot in our one-on-one time. I’ve tried to get my mother out of this, but she won’t leave him, so now I have to worry about myself and my own safety.

So, this is a call for help. I need money to move out of this toxic situation. Anything helps – I just need to get enough to be able to afford a security deposit and a rent payment. I really don’t want to ask people for a specific amount, because it feels like too much to ask for. So, really, anything you can give, I will greatly appreciate.

Thank you for reading, and thank you for being respectful. I wish this wasn’t my life, but it is. Please be kind.

God Bless You All.

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