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Help me bring my wife home

Hi

I’m in some desperate need of help. I’m trying to bring my wife to Canada. We are getting older and we want to have a child.

A little background about me. Over 10 years ago I went through a divorce and at the time my career was on an up swing. That all changed when I broke under the pressure.  I lost all my savings, my condo, my truck and my trailer. My brother and sister helped me to get on my feet. They found me a place to live and I found a low paying job. I never let myself go into bankruptcy but looking back it might have been a better choice. It took several years but I crawled back up. I traded my way up to a reliable car and advanced at my job. Things were looking up, I was able to pay my bills although they were increasing. 

Last year, I met my future wife and we had a long distance relationship. I was able to go and meet her. Everything was perfect so I proposed. We made plans to marry and in February we did just that. I had to borrow for the wedding and flight which completely maxed me out but I was still okay.

Then in April my work decided they didn’t want me anymore after 6.5 years. It took a month but I found another job at a 30% pay cut. Now i cant afford my bills. Each month im $1500 short. I keep looking for a better job but nothing yet.

My plans to bring my wife here are basically on hold. I hope someone reads this and is able to help in some way.

Bless you.

I do believe in paying it forward.

I humbly ask for:

$30,000 loans, taxes and credit cards

$15,000 immigration fees, lawyer fee, and flights

Thank you for reading this

 

https://paypal.me/TopGadgetsBC

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Behind on Rent

Dear All,

First, I would like to thank you very much for taking the time to read about our situation and let you know how much we appreciate any help received.

Please note that this is our first time asking for any help in this manner. We are a hard-working couple just wanting to get back on track.

This is our first time seeking help in this way. We are a hard-working couple who are determined to get back on track. Our goal is to raise enough money to catch up on rent and avoid eviction. Despite working full-time, we fell behind on bills due to a recent layoff. Although we are both employed again, we are finding it difficult to bridge the gap. We have three children who are also doing their best to contribute by exploring online side hustle opportunities and applying for jobs in our community. While they are optimistic about finding work, it won’t immediately resolve our current situation, as our priority is to pay our landlord to prevent an eviction notice.

We are open to providing our skills and services in exchange for support. I have experience in bookkeeping and can help out through online platforms. Additionally, I am proficient in data entry and willing to assist with any other tasks you might need help with.

I have set up a Paypal.me account for anyone who wishes to help support us in our quest to get back on track and will post the link below:

https://paypal.me/Merpaw

\Thank you for your time and understanding.
Warm regards,

Amanda Merpaw

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EMERGENCY TUITION FUNDING FEES.

EMERGENCY TUITION FUNDING FEES.

 

Hello,

 

I’m Ugochi, an international student at Brandon University, and I’m reaching out to ask for your help in supporting my education. I’m currently in my second year (sophomore year), majoring in Psychology and minoring in Sociology. I’m passionate about my studies and have worked hard to maintain a strong GPA.

 

My dream is to become a clinical psychologist, where I can make a meaningful difference in people’s lives. I’m driven by a desire to understand human behavior and help individuals overcome mental health challenges. After completing my undergraduate degree, I plan to pursue a graduate degree in Clinical Psychology and obtain the necessary certifications to practice as a licensed therapist.

 

However, as an international student, I’m facing a significant financial challenge. I still owe $10,700 CAD from last year’s tuition, which I need to pay before I can register for my fall term courses starting in September 2024. Additionally, I’ll need to pay for my upcoming fall and winter term tuition, which totals around $25,000 CAD.

 

To help cover these costs, I’m planning to start a small business, and I’m seeking funding to support my education and entrepreneurial venture. Your contribution would be a huge relief and would help me focus on my academic goals.

 

Any amount you can give would be a huge help, and I’m grateful for your consideration. Your support would mean the world to me and would bring me closer to achieving my dreams.

 

Thank you for taking the time to read my letter. If you’re able to support me, please use the link below:

 

https://www.paypal.me/UgochiAnyanwu453

 

Sincerely,

Ugochi

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Financial Aid for debt

I am reaching out with a heavy heart and a plea for assistance. Over the past few years, I have found myself increasingly overwhelmed by debt, a burden that has grown to an almost insurmountable level. The total amount I owe has reached a staggering $58,637, and this financial weight is crushing me.

My debts are divided across three primary areas. First, there is my credit card debt, which stands at $24,563. This debt accumulated over time due to unforeseen medical expenses, essential repairs, and day-to-day living costs that my regular income couldn’t cover. The interest rates on these credit cards are exorbitant, and I am finding it impossible to make more than the minimum payments, which barely touch the principal amount.

Secondly, I have a line of credit debt totaling $19,300. This line of credit was initially taken out to cover unexpected car repairs and some emergency home maintenance that could not be postponed. Despite my best efforts to manage and pay down this debt, it seems to grow rather than diminish due to the high interest rates and the occasional necessity of borrowing against it again for emergencies.

The third major area of my debt is my school loans, which amount to $14,774. Like many, I took out these loans with the hope and promise that an education would secure a better, more stable future. Unfortunately, despite having completed my education and finding employment, my income has not risen to the level needed to comfortably pay off these loans while managing my other financial obligations.

While each of these debts is a source of significant stress and anxiety, my greatest fear is losing my home. The mortgage is the bedrock of my financial responsibilities, and missing payments on it would lead to dire consequences. My home is not just a building; it is a place of safety and stability, the one constant for my family amid the financial turmoil. The thought of losing it is terrifying.

The reason I am reaching out now is that I have exhausted my options. I have tried budgeting and cutting expenses to the bone, but the weight of the debt has become too much to bear. I have explored debt consolidation, but my credit score has taken a hit due to missed payments, and I cannot secure a loan with a favorable interest rate. Bankruptcy is a looming option, but it is one I desperately want to avoid because of the long-term impact it would have on my life and my family’s security.

I am humbly asking for financial assistance to help pay off these debts. Any contribution, no matter how small, will make a significant difference. Your generosity can help lift this overwhelming burden from my shoulders and allow me to focus on rebuilding my financial stability and ensuring that I can keep my home.

I understand that everyone has their own financial responsibilities, and I do not take this request lightly. It is with great humility and gratitude that I make this plea, hoping for a chance to breathe a little easier and see a light at the end of this dark tunnel. Thank you for taking the time to read my story and for any support you may be able to offer.

My paypal account: paypal.me/jarakaza

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I’m in desperate need of financial help

Hello,

Thank you for taking the time to read this post.  I am in the process of renegotiating my mortgage, and I don’t think that it will be approved.  I’ve made some financial mistakes in the recent past and I’m trying to rectify them.  I’m currently working two jobs, working between six and seven days a week.

I’ve recently had to buy a newer vehicle to get to work, my old vehicle had some mechanical problems.  My financial institution wants to add my car payment to my mortgage, along with other debts to clear them up and make it into one easily manageable payment.  The problem is that I’m at my income threshold for them to approve the new mortgage.  Every five years we need to redo the mortgage in Canada.  The new mortgage would be $100,000.00 if approved.

If the mortgage isn’t approved I’d be homeless, living out of my car, and still be making payments for something that I won’t be able to live in.

I’m asking for $60,000.00, which would be used to pay off my car and other debts, and allow me to keep a smaller mortgage on my house.

Again, thank you for your time and consideration on this issue.

paypal.me/RTruthwaite

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Female In need of help

Hello, I’m a young female in need of help right now. I am currently between jobs and having trouble surviving. I am someone who is a Christian, not perfect but try to be a good person, and always wants to help others but right now I’m in need. I live alone in an apartment with rent, bills, and food to take care of. I hate to be a burden on anyone but if you can help in any way small or big, I would greatly appreciate it. May God Bless you. Paypal.me/Destinyme1000

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Seeking tuition fee donation for my 2 dyslexics kids

Hi my name is Emmanuel,

I’m from Montréal, Québec, Canada I have two kids who are diagnosed with dyslexia. My ex-wife found a high school two years ago that are specialized in kids with learning disabilities. They have less than 10 students in each class and the teachers are well tool to teach and help the kids success. My son started two years ago, and he has never had 80 to 90% scores in any courses in elementary school now it’s so common for him to have those numbers it’s so unreal. He told me that he finally understands what the teacher is explaining, it makes sense to him. I’m so happy for him and grateful for this school he’s less shy he’s more outgoing he express himself with more confidence and its just a blessing to see him like that. He’s going to sec. 3 this year, is sec. 2 was as good as is sec 1. Now his sister has been accepted in the same school because she also as dyslexia and face some on the same challenge as is brother. So the tuition fees are $23,500 just for one student, but I have two that are going to the same school this year. So it’s going to cost me 46,000 and I don’t have enough to pay, not even for the upfront fee and I can’t forget I’ll have to pay for her uniform same for my son since he won’t stop growing. On the other hand, I have to finalize the divorce with my ex-wife, I have to pay my lawyer and her lawyer because she didn’t make any money last year because she lost her job. I’m up to my neck this year. I have to move from my house and rent in Montreal as skyrocketed since the last year in a half, I’m so screwed right now. I cant’ take a loan this is not a good option for me right now I’m going to be more in the hole if I do so. I work in the medical field as a computer technician but they take so much on my paycheck it doesn’t make sense. I cannot let my kids down,  school is very important especially when It’s a place that can help them perform better in school. I don’t know if I’m in the right place, I don’t know if someone with a good heart can read my text and find in is heart to help me. Time are hard for me, and for everybody, but at the end I just want a helping hand. I know I’m asking for a hefty sum but this is what I need to help my kids this upcoming school year. I’m a working citizen I pay my taxes I don’t have a bad heart I just need some help from someone on this website that can understand my situation. Please don’t let me down I’m out of resources. Thank you for reading me in the hope someone can find a way to bless me.

Thank you  again

paypal.me=@EmmanuelJeanMarie

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Young woman start business

Hi there,

Before I ask you for your help let me tell you a little about myself. I am a Aesthetican. I have been own my own since I was 17 I am now 38. I put myself threw collage and went threw ovarian cancer at 20 and never had help. I had to work and pay rent while dealing with my cancer. My story is long so much i have overcome on my own. I don’t have anyone to turn to.

I want to start my own home esthetics business but have 30k of debt due to covid trying to keep up with my mortgage. I had to take a private loan from my boss to help pay the bills, it’s due Sept 1st.  As most of you know salons were closed for almost 2 years and that put me back like so many others. I feel very overwhelmed because I have never had debt till covid.  Do to my debt to Income ratio I can’t get a loan and I can’t refinance my home to even clear the debts.

I don’t know what to do at this point. I was planning on starting my own business and then this all happened.

I know its alot to ask for. It would mean the world to have help not to feel so alone.

Thank you so much for your consideration. And I promise to pay forward the kindness you show me.

https://paypal.me/rivcahm?country.x=CA&locale.x=en_US

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Our Freedom at Risk

Hi there to anyone reading this,

 

I know that this is the longest shot in the whole world, but this is really my only option at this point. So the story goes:

 

 

 

 

My partner and I were facing some really bad financial hardships this past winter, and I wasn’t able to make my car insurance payments to ICBC. Come tomorrow, my insurance is up and there is no way for me to purchase any kind of insurance with them until either my consumer proposal goes through (could be up to 40 days from now) or I pay in full. I am currently owing them $1100.

 

 

 

 

My partner and I live in a remote area, and are trying to leave come September first and move back to be with friends and family (moving here was a stupid mistake for us clearly). without an insured car, there is no way we can make this happen and either way our landlady is moving into our suite on September 1st so we are out whether we like it or not. The fastest possible way for me to solve this problem is to make the payment of $1100 in full to ICBC, and I’m not in a situation where I have anyone to ask for help in my life. I can’t get to work without this car, my partner can’t leave the house without this car and we can’t move forward with our life until this is sorted.

 

 

 

 

Please, if there is anyone out there, even $500 would help as we currently have about $600 saved (albeit for moving… but one thing at a time). I can provide proof of the situation upon request, I can send photos or documents or whatever you may want.

https://www.paypal.me/mrnordino

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Finish my schooling and make my own money

At the wonderful age of 76, I find myself in the untenable position of not having money to take care of myself. Never in a million years did I anticipate this situation. It started  in February of 2017, when my home burned down. It was 8:00 in the morning and I got out of the fire wearing a pair of panties and an old bathrobe I grabbed as I was running out the door. I was never to return as I had lost everything. I suffered horribly from PTSD and soon was to leave my job as a Sales Manager at Parkwood Master Builders. PTSD is nasty and it took me two years to be able to function in the workplace again. I started working as a fundraising coordinator for Wheelchair Sports Alberta in 2019. I loved every minute of it and did very well. Then the pandemic came along and I was laid off as of March 2020 until November 2021. The business was not the same as pre-pandemic and it became very part-time until December 2023 when we shut it down. In the meantime, knowing that the end was near, I accepted a sales position at American Income Life, a subsiduary of Globe Life. I need a licence to sell insurance and have been working at since then. To be honest, I found the course more difficult that I anticipated, but I have persevered and am almost done. In the meantime, when my savings started running out, I began to look for part-time work, and much to my chagrin, nobody would hire me. I find myself competing with 200+ applicants, most of them in their early to mid-twenties; apprently a 20 year old is a more valuable employee than a 76 year old. I am devastated. I have worked hard to provide a quality of life with lots of university and lots of  training. If I had known that I would not be able to find work, I would have done things differently, much differently. No work and no money makes it impossible to finish my Insurance course and impossible for me to build a future for myself at this age. Recovering from the fire took much of my savings. This is a very lucrative position and I know I will be good at it. I need $5000 so I can live, pay my bills and focus on the course until completion. If I am unable to get help, I will lose my services: Telus (internet and wi-fi), Epcor ( power company), and Bell (cell phone). Without any of  these services, it is impossible for me to continue. I am terrified I will end up living in my car! I am asking for $5000 to cover me while I finish the course, write the final exam and then write Provincials for the certification. The sales training is about 4 weeks and then I am good to go.

I am more than happy to take a loan with a repayment plan. Please help me.

PayPal.me/marvelousmikey

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Help Me and My Daughter Escape a Traumatic Past and Start a New Life !

Hello,

My name is Giovanna, and I am a 25-year-old woman from Kitchener, Ontario. I am reaching out with a humble and sincere plea for assistance as I work to rebuild my life and leave a painful past behind, not just for myself but also for my 5-year-old daughter.

Three years ago, I came to Canada from Brazil, hopeful for a bright future. Unfortunately, the man who brought me here, who I believed to be my husband, turned out to be my abuser. For three years, I was trapped in a nightmare, forced into the sexual promiscuity with his so called friends and cam modelling.

A year and a half ago, I was got into the adult film industry, further deepening my trauma and isolating me from any hope of normalcy. Recently, I found the courage to break free from this man and escape the life I was forced into. I am determined to start anew, to reclaim my autonomy and my dignity, but I need your help.

My daughter, who is only 5 years old, deserves a safe and stable environment far away from the shadows of our past. My family a supposedly conservative christian family, has disowned me because of my past, leaving me without a support network. I am looking to raise funds to move out of Kitchener and start over in a new city or province where we can rebuild our lives.

Your generosity would help us cover the costs of relocation, secure safe housing, and access the resources we need to heal and start fresh. I am committed to staying away from my past life and finding a path to independence and peace for myself and my daughter.

Honestly, I could write a book to explain you were I am coming from and what I have been through, and it would never be enough.

Any amount you can contribute will make a significant difference in our journey towards a safer and brighter future. We will need about $ 4,000 to break free and move to a new city where I can rent my place, find a decent job and take care of my daughter.

If you wish to assist us, please use this link below :

https://paypal.me/Freedom11ON

Otherwise, please keep us in your prayers !

Thank you for taking the time to read our story and for considering helping us during this critical time in our lives.

With heartfelt gratitude,

Giovanna

 

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Faith takes over when hope fades, praying for help to pay off/reduce mortgage debt.

God has been really good to us with so many things including a beautiful baby (girl) which we had been praying for for many years. My wife and I have always worked hard and take great pride in being responsible, dependable, kind and respectful. After many years of saving up we could finally invest in a townhouse to build a family. My wife recently lost literally all her immediate family members due to age, illness and/or violence so since then we have worked our behinds off to make our home a place of joy and comfort. Unfortunately my body is showing the wear and tear of my many years in the work force and I am not as capable as I once was to put in the overtime hours or work multiple jobs. Some injuries could very well be career ending if I’m not very careful and I would like to remain healthy enough to live and raise our little girl. Our faith in God has always helped and protected us in the past; sadly we now find ourselves being completely overrun by steep increases in general living expenses including insurances, property taxes, strata fees, food, utilities and the list goes on. The stress has been overwhelming and it has created a cloud of anxiety and depression over our home. I’m reaching out to ask for assistance in paying off or reducing our mortgage debt. I wasn’t sure if it was appropriate as a person of faith to ask for financial help but today at church my uncertainty was put to rest. It was as though the sermon was directed at me personally. It said “I have not failed you before and I will not fail you now; place your fears and needs in me and cast your net. I will fill it with unimaginable abundance. Have faith in me and you will see my glory” (paraphrased). Well I have faith in God and I have faith in the kindness of good people. If you are in a position to help a little or a lot; I would be forever grateful and if you are not able to help I would be grateful for your prayers.

May god bless you and your loved ones and thank you for your consideration.

https://paypal.me/RogerS8880?country.x=CA&locale.x=en_US

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A loving family in need of your generosity to save our home

Dear kind and generous souls,

Every morning I wake up and thank the universe for our blessings and send a prayer to my fellow humans for peace, love and good health.  I believe in the goodness of humanity and feel it deep in my heart that there is someone out there who will help us.

Who are we?  My husband and I are in our early 50’s, happily married for 25 years  (together for 33 years) with two university aged kids. We currently find ourselves in a dire situation related to our finances.  My belief is that we were prevented from a far worse scenario (me becoming a widow and our children losing their amazing dad) so I willingly surrender to having to lose our house and becoming homeless if it means getting to live life with my husband for many, many more decades.

In June, my husband had been having chest pains and expressed his fear of dying early from a heart attack like his father. It didn’t make sense to me because we have worked hard to create a happy, stress-free, loving life.  A week after the ER visit, my husband informed me that he had slowly put us in a 5 million dollar debt over the past 12 years because of bad timing of certain business decisions and the downward fast spiral of debt load.  I was in charge of our finances on the home front and was thinking we were on the verge of a debt free life in a year.  His news came as a complete shock to me.  My husband’s biggest fear was that our marriage would end immediately when he finally shared the news with me.  The chest pains and visit to the ER helped him realize he needed to crack open and stop carrying the burden on his own.

He grew up in a scarcity mindset home as his dad brought the family to Canada in his middle age and was never able to re-establish himself financially.  My husband worked extremely hard as a young man and eventually was accepted into the field of dentistry.  In the last 23 years, I can count on one hand how many days of work he missed.  He is the hardest working individual I know.  His childhood wounds caused a deep shame in him as he never had enough as a child and this led to him to overcompensate for me and our kids.  Never saying no or telling us that there wasn’t enough being earned on the backend. He was depositing the same paycheque each month while taking on loans to ensure our needs were always met.  We have raised our kids to take joy in the simple pleasures such as quality family time.  My husband has always insisted that our kids have ‘bills’ of cash with them so they should never feel lack.  I feel that he also felt a sense of entitlement to buy whatever his heart desired to make up all that he lacked as a young child.

The day after sharing the news, I felt a divine knowing pass through me that we were prevented from him dying of a heart attack.  Immediately my shock and despair turned into gratitude.  I would never leave my husband as he has a heart of gold and is the kindest human being.  It hurts my heart to know he was carrying such a massive burden on his own for so long.

We both have been on a path of spiritual healing and learning about our childhood wounds.  As we become whole I am learning not to play small anymore and gaining confidence in my infinite potential to achieve my huge vision of helping heal humanity in a meaningful way.  Since becoming empty nesters last fall I have begun working on a business idea with great potential.  This current situation has lit a fire in me and increased my faith in myself that I can make the idea come to fruition.  My husband is learning that his insatiable appetite for material things was due to feeling lack his entire childhood.  As we address these wounds, we have developed a deeper and more meaningful connection as husband and wife.

I have had a folder on my desktop labelled Billion in which I have a list of people that I meet randomly or are in my circle. I write a vision for each person on how we will assist them with gifts of abundance to help remove blocks from their life.  How interesting that I now find myself in need of the same.  The universe works in mysterious ways!  I believe strongly that we will achieve our vision but we need help at this moment in time to allow us to re-build our wealth over the next 10 years.

The spiritual journey of healing within has helped me endure what would have broken me in the past and instead has taught me to live moment to moment and focus on the miracle of each breath. What I ask of you is that you find it in your heart to help prevent a decent, kind-hearted couple from losing everything we have worked tirelessly for over the last 25 years.  The lessons we have gained from this experience are not lost on us and it is exactly what we needed from the universe to help us align on what truly matters.  We are on the same page with our desire to pay your generosity forward and make a meaningful difference in the lives of others just like us. It is what invigorates us.

Thank you for taking the time to read my letter.

With immense gratitude and love.

A wife, mother and future entrepreneur

https://paypal.me/saveourhome604?country.x=CA&locale.x=en_US

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Please help my family, we are struggling.

Hello,

For personal reasons I am leaving mine, my fiancé’s and daughters’ name out of this letter due to privacy; I am very protective over my daughter and choose to keep her off of all social media platforms.

I am a 26 year old first time stay at home mom, with one daughter who is almost one.

This past year my fiancé and I have been struggling to save money, with the tax increase, and rent increase, we have been just managing. We keep most of our finances separate, like my student loans and our credit cards, but share bills that are for our apartment (rent, electricity, etc) and since I had my daughter, we made the choice for me to stay home. With only having one income coming into our home, and fiancé possibly being either laid off from work, or working jobs that only pass us by, as well as he leaves town often so I am on my own 95% of the time with my girl, we need help.

I would love to go back to work, but daycare is extremely expensive and I don’t have any immediate family around who are able to babysit my daughter weekly, I also want to be there with her for her first years of life, spending lots of one on one time, and would eventually like to homeschool her while I go back to school in business and also look into mental health therapy, as well as open a small side business for my local community that will sell affordable items for their homes for those who are also in tight budgets.

Every penny counts to us, we will only be using any money we receive for our apartment, daughter and any additional debt that we owe.

Thank you for reading, and I hope you have a wonderful rest of your day/evening.

Here is my PayPal @

@fxckingmoonmoon

https://www.paypal.me/fxckingmoonmoon

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Finally asking for help!

Hello,

 

I am a 52 separated/divorced mother of one child, that is 26 years of age.  As soon as I married, everything went down hill, literally.  Knew him since I was 14 years old, I saved money since I was 7 delivering 1000 flyers and catalogs, twice a week.  I did that job until 13, then I started working in a bakery for a couple of years, moved to work the Customer Service Desk/Post Office at Zellers, then ended up eventually taking an office manager/legal assistant job with my boss that was an older gentleman that was an accomplished lawyer who also had other businesses such as owning buildings and renting out space, was a Trucker for a spell, etc., that collected old cars, ran the family farm and kept care of the books, distributing it accordingly to family (rented out homes and land), took care of all family members from grandparents to great grandchildren.  He was also was very close to his brother, Very Reverend O. Olekshy, Ukrainian Orthadox, and his daughter and grandchildren, he also became like a second father with family to me.  His best friends were The Honourable Allan Wachowich, former Chief Justice of the Court of Queen’s Bench of Alberta, Harold Smith of Harold Smith Travel, and oh so many more from that generation … always came in to “have a meeting” on most Fridays, smoking cigars and having their whiskey.  His wife was amazing, and I lost them both in 2003 and 2004, I am so proud that they were so kind. I had also started working for a partner in a firm full time when RO semi-retired.  I ended up having a breakdown at that firm, due to stress of mom ill, Dad slowly getting ahlzeimer’s, and I was ill as well and trying to figure it out, going and helping my cousin take care of her mom that was dying of cancer, who had just lost a daughter to the dame thing, taking care of my baby, chores, and finding out my ex was sleeping with my mate at work.  Actually, I was told I did not have a breakdown, I was ill, overworked, and treated like a dog, do you have anywhere to go … I said no, my child, my animals, my house that only I put money into (he brought debt), I felt broken.  I put him out the morning it became more physical and insulting than normal, in front of my daughter and her friend.  I ended up with black bruises on my body, and a soft ball on my head.  Sold the house and he was gleeful, all his debt was paid by my money I put into the house, and he wouldn’t talk of alimony, and would not pay child support as per the guidelines given he was making so very much more each year.  He paid a hundred here and there, and I was on welfare disability which he made fun of in front of our child, kicked me when I collapsed on the floor, in front of my daughter, and he didn’t file income tax for 14 years … didn’t want me to find out how much he made.  I got sicker, he told my daughter I was just lazy, and she should do as she wants and she did.  We don’t even talk, and it is still hard as bills are so high making so littl

 

I also have to take my brother to court, he has hated me always, just never showed it in front of mom and dad, I never told anything after he molested and threatened me (he is 6 years older).  He was worried, forced me out at 17 because he needed to save money, I didn’t, and so on.  At 33 I found out through a letter that I was adopted, did I want to meet my birth parents, I was in shock.  Mom and dad were hurt, they wanted me to be theirs always, different from my brother’s words.  My birth mother tried to put me in the hospital, with ex, daughter, and the main brother, but my doctor told them they are cruel and need to leave me alone, I know what I am talking about as she has known of the abuse since I was 16.  I couldn’t ever tell my folks or they would die, as I was told as a kid and it stayed with me sadly … I just never wanted them hurt.  He changed dad’s Will to delete me and include his wife, I was not a family member he told me, just someone that needed taking in.  I was picked up by my folk’s the day after I was born, and they loved me, brother did not and did something to me, it just never ended.  I let him have all if I could have the home that mom and dad promised me, but now he is wanting me out on the street as he wants to sell.  I have to finally deal with him, I couldn’t before, then I was kind, then hated because I was adopted and literally wish death upon me.

I am ready to deal with them, but haven’t been able to save a thing, plumbers, electricians, all because he wanted to get the cabin renovated from mom and dad’s to his first, I can live with it … but I can’t, I need to deal with the problems.  Then the bills add up due to it, my little old car, just everything, and I don’t get seen for a disease the doctors think I have until December.  That’s alright given I had a heart attack 12 years ago, and following the covid shot, I had a double sstroke .. just a mess.

I don’t expect anything really, not sure if I am beaten down so far that I don’t see, but I need help to start the process if possible.  I am so sorry for asking, and we can arrange for me to pay you back, as I am unable to even get a loan … was told yes today, then no, I don’t know anymore.  There is much to the story, and if you ask I will tell you, it just hurts and they still bother me, because they know I can’t afford anything so I can deal with them accordingl

I know I need three thousand to complete the divorce, and some to pay the stack of bills, but I can hopefully save some when I get alimony and child support going, and pay you back.  You are very kind to just read this, there is so much, and it’s ugly, I am so sorry

I thank you again for reading the same, it means alot.

I am to put my PayPal link here: PayPal.me/CindyDiepenbroek