After 20+ years with a narcissist, I finally came to my senses and got out. He was the one who wouldn’t admit that there was something wrong. I am broken and rebuilding myself from scratch.

I finally realized he was never going to change. I broke free with my life and my cat. I have so much trauma and chronic illness that I can’t work right now. I’m working through therapy to get my autonomy and my life back. I can’t pay the bills.  I moved 600+ miles to begin a new life and to be near family. It’s expensive here in this new state. I am trying to get my mental and physical health back. It’s harder than I imagined but I am stronger than I imagined.

The narcissistic abuse is so obvious in hindsight. The trauma has taken its toll on my mental and physical health. The anxiety, fear, depression and more have slowly taken away my freedom. I thought it would get better once I was away from him. I was wrong. The further away the marriage gets, the worse I feel. I was constantly in fight or flight. Now I am in constant freeze mode. I can’t leave my home without high anxiety and panic unless I am going to meet my sister or go to her house. I know what I need to do to get work or continue my education but I freeze. I can’t make decisions without panicking. I need help with paying bills like rent, electric, cell phone bill, medical bills, car payment and more. Just buying food is a struggle right now.  Please help.

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I REMARRIED AND AFTER 10 YEARS, I COULD NOT TAKE ANYMORE

OF HIS ABUSE, CURSING ME, HITTING ME AND KEEPING ME ISOLATED!!

H LEFT JUNE 14TH, 2022.  I DID NOT MISS ANYTHING ABOUT HIM.

I AM 66 YEARS OLD , HE IS 78.  NEVER IN LIFE HAVE I ASKED FOR A DIME,

HE TOOK ALL THE MONEY $40,000 IN CHECKING AND 10,000 IN MY SAVINGS.  I HAD TO ASK FOR FOOD ASSISTANCE AND I RECEIVE 178.00

PER MONTH.  THAT IS ALL.  MY SOCIAL SECURITY IS 740.00 I CAN NOT

LIVE ON THAT.  I  AM UNABLE TO WORK DUE TO HEALTH.

IF POSSIBLE, I WOULD GREATLEY APPRECIATE ANY DONATION.

THANKING YOU,

G.G.

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My name is Bianca Ortiz. I am a single mother of 2 girls. Currently,  I have a full amd a PRN job. Unfortunately its not enough lately. I live in apartment that is overcrowded and unsafe. Its all I can afford right now. My teenage daughter attends a private school, completely paid for by Scholarships she earned with her art. She is a junior..and works very hard to keep her grades up, for the scholarship requirements. She also works after school at Panera. Her father left us, many years ago and relocated out of the country. I was given sole custody, for reasons of abandonment.

My oldest child is 24, and currently lives with me. Her father recently passed, very unexpectedly. She was evicted from her apartment in January and has been dealing with the loss of her father. She suffered a head injury about 6 years ago. She was in a boating accident and was left with some residual trauma. She has been trying to deal with the PTSD since then. She works and does her best. I think its best for her to stay with me for a while. She has had enough loss lately.

As for my recent financial issues, the cost of living has tripled and the recent loss of health benefits has been an issue.  I have some chronic health issues that if left untreated,  can be life threatening. The stress over that past 4 months has been incredible. I have lost 20 lbs since Christmas. All of my bills are past due and my car has been hanging on by a thread. I hate being in such a terrible , desperate place. Its embarrassing.  This isnt the life I wanted for us. But I am doing my best. The stress has started to affect my work amd people are noticing.  I dont sleep much, but ofcoarse I will keep going. Keep working..keep praying for a change. I have researched side hustles and that is my next step. I will use the skills I have to start an online business, since I cannot split myself in two and physically work anymore. I just need a little help to get over the hump.

Thank you for your consideration.
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I live in a small town where their is only a hand full of jobs that would be hiring. i was working in a restaurant as a cook and was fired. during this season there wasn’t many places hiring because they had already hired their crew for the season. a convenient store by me was hiring i applied however they didn’t call me back till after a month by this time i had left my town to Colorado Springs to find more work. i was able to have a friend of mine pay my rent for that month which i would have to pay back once i started working, so due to my work history of security for 11 yrs in nyc i figured id applied for corrections, someone suggested it to me because of the experience i had, so i did, however, its a waiting process for the job and may not be able to start till the end of the month and after i start my first pay would be after the first month. while i was in Colorado Springs i was doing some freelancing with Door dash to make some cash for my rent and my storage in nyc only made $150 before going back home. so I’m behind I’m on my rent on the 10th the fee will be added and behind on storage also i have all my valuables in storage and i really don’t want to let it go to auction i have till the end of the month to pay it. once i get this job in corrections I’m planning to make that trip to nyc for all of valuables. I own my mobile home its just the lot rent I’m behind on. Social services worker told me they only offer leap assistance until march so that out of the question. And because my town is so small there isn’t many services they offer here. if anyone could help i would be very grateful from the bottom of my heart.

my cashapp is $joelle69luvkindli

Hi,

I am an LPN who is pursuing my BSN and my own breadwinner. I was hospitalized for an Ulcerative Colitis flare after Entyvio failed to respond any longer. I used all my PTO because of the complications, which also left me behind on all my bills. Short-term disability/FMLA helps, but it isn’t paying the bills.

My rent is $1,375 every month, but with late fees, it $1,425, and it is only going to get worse because another month late will cost me another $50. But it gets worse, I am behind on my February rent too because my check was not enough to pay February’s rent either.

I just really need some help, so I am not left homeless because of an autoimmune disease that has destroyed my finances.

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In the face of an unexpected career setback—a recent layoff—I find myself navigating through a particularly challenging time, compelling me to reach out with a request that is deeply personal and crucial. This moment has highlighted the significance of community and mutual support, values I’ve always appreciated but never so keenly felt the need for until now. My immediate concern, which brings me to you today, is securing funds for my rent, a fundamental need that, if unmet, threatens the stability I’ve worked hard to build.

As someone who has dedicated years to mastering the art of sales, I’ve learned the importance of transparent communication, strategic negotiation, and, above all, the integrity of standing by one’s commitments. It is with these principles in mind that I present my situation to you—not merely as a plea for financial aid but as a proposal for what I view as a short-term partnership during this pivotal period in my life.

Your assistance would provide more than just financial relief; it would offer me the gift of time. Time to recalibrate my career, actively seek new opportunities, and regain my footing in the professional world. I approach you today not out of preference but necessity, and in exchange for your support, I commit to using this aid judiciously, focusing on immediate needs while strategically planning my reentry into the workforce.

I am already in the process of seeking new employment opportunities, enhancing my skills through professional development, and leveraging my network to uncover potential leads. To ensure accountability and demonstrate the impact of your support, I am prepared to offer regular updates on my progress.

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The assistance I seek is modest, aimed solely at covering my rent and basic living expenses for the upcoming month. This support would significantly alleviate the immediate pressure of my circumstances, allowing me to focus on securing stable employment.

I assure you of my commitment to transparency, respect for your generosity, and a promise to pay this kindness forward. I am available to discuss this request further and provide any additional information you may require. Your consideration of my situation is deeply appreciated, and I thank you sincerely for your time and empathy.

My name is Gloria and next week March 7 going to court because of back rent for $3, 000. I’ve been living in my apt for 25 yrs. I’m divorced for 5 yrs and just getting by. I didn’t receive anything from the divorce so Ive been basically started over in life. I work seasonal so im off during the winter so I struggle with financial expenses. I desperately need help and appreciate anything you can help me with. My PAYPAL.ME [Read more…]

I turn 25 this year, have a Bachelor’s degree in biology, the best job I have ever had, and yet I am still struggling to keep myself afloat financially. After a car accident in February 2023 and a long fight with bad insurance, I completely drained my $4,000 savings and was left with a new increased car payment. A year later, I am still facing the consequences of this financial upset, and haven’t been able to keep more than a couple hundred in my savings account at any given time. 

In the past year, I have accumulated almost $10,000 in debt (credit and personal loans) to keep up with all my bills. I live in an area where my field of biology (animal science and conservation) is not well funded and supported, so finding a well-paying job in my field is difficult. So, I currently work as a catering coordinator which pays me well in comparison to my past jobs, but I am still living paycheck to paycheck as 90% of my income goes straight to bills, groceries, and my pets. 

I was splitting $1,900 in rent with a friend, who had a personal emergency and had to return home with her mom, and I have been paying that rent on my own for almost half a year now. I am fortunate enough to be moving to a more sustainable living situation now, but I am stuck unable to pay my last month’s rent at this old apartment, as I prioritized the bills for my new rental this month. 

I am in a position where I am trying my hardest to just get back on the right track and improve my life and well-being. I even feel like I can nearly see the light at the end of this tunnel as I find ways to stretch my dollars and earn a little side cash here and there. I am just looking to receive a small push to help me over these last few humps on my road to financial freedom. I know nearly every young person is feeling the weight of the economy right now, and I certainly do not even have it the worst. I am simply in a place where any amount of help would be a blessing, especially being able to meet my final rent fee at my old apartment so I can put that stressor behind me once and for all. 

I am just trying to find a bit of footing in this economy to be able to grow in my career, and my personal life, and hopefully begin saving to go back to school again (I dream of getting a Doctorate in Animal Conservation). I am immensely grateful to have this opportunity to reach out to such giving people. Thank you!

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Hello!

I am in need of help this month to pay my March rent that is now due.  I am on disability and I am looking for a part time job to supplement my income.  the disability is not enough to cover my monthly basic expenses so I’ve had to use my savings and rely on family to help, which is now depleted.  I would appreciate any help I can get to cover the $3000.00 for my rent.

I am hoping that moving forward I will find a part-time job soon that will help to off set any future expenses.

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Thank you!

Hi my name is Kerry and I am in need of help with a portion of February rent and all of March rent.  I have fallen behind on rent and doesn’t have  enough support to get caught up. Why have you fallen so far behind you ask? Life has a way of throwing rocks at you that you  aren’t able to get out of the way  fast enough. I got hit and depressed almost gave up, my children kept me a flout.  Where I have managed to buy food and pay for utilities the rent has been the heaviest of them all. I owe $5525 and this includes late fees a portion of February and all of March. Knowing that today is March 1st and I don’t have rent kills me. Anxiety about loosing my stability and housing keeps me up at night. My 40 hrs work week  is now  29 hrs to make day care work and I am still struggling with paying that but that is the least of my struggles. Usually, I problem solve through my challenges but this time around I am tired and out of options. I wont give up but acknowledges that I am tired, sad  and feels like a failure for being in this situation. It breaks my heart that I am on here asking for help. But this time I absolutely need  help. The 15th of March is my dead line to make a payment . I am hoping that there will be enough to pay off the balance or as much as.  This would give me the opportunity to get caught up on the other bills that I have fallen behind on. As well as enough breathing room to plan a head and make adjustments for April and moving forward. The plan is to not have to ever do this again.  Whatever  is contributed will be much appreciated my paypal me account is paypal.me/kerryannproper

Hi,

I am an LPN who is pursuing my BSN and my own breadwinner. I was hospitalized for an Ulcerative Colitis flare after Entyvio failed to respond any longer. I used all my PTO because of the complications, which also left me behind on all my bills. Short-term disability/FMLA helps, but it isn’t paying the bills.

My rent is $1,375 every month, but with late fees, it $1,425, and it is only going to get worse because another month late will cost me another $50. But it gets worse, I am behind on my February rent too because my check was not enough to pay February’s rent either.

I just really need some help, so I am not left homeless because of an autoimmune disease that has destroyed my finances.