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Last Updated: June 23, 2023

A Plea for Support in Pursuit of a Home for My Family

In a world full of dreams and aspirations, I find myself reaching out to you with a humble request. As a young man striving to provide for my family and secure a better future for my children, I am here to share my story and appeal for your support in fulfilling a lifelong dream: building a home for my loved ones. Through this essay, I hope to convey the importance of stability and the significance of your contribution towards helping us achieve a place we can call our own.

Since childhood, the concept of a home has held a special place in my heart. Growing up in humble surroundings, I witnessed the impact a safe and comfortable living space can have on individuals and their overall well-being. A home is not merely a shelter; it is a sanctuary where love, dreams, and memories flourish. It provides the foundation upon which families can grow and thrive.

Life has presented its fair share of challenges, and I have worked tirelessly to support my family. From early morning shifts to exhausting double jobs, I have persevered to make ends meet and ensure my loved ones have the necessities. However, the dream of owning a house has remained elusive due to financial constraints.

Having a stable home is crucial for the emotional and psychological well-being of every family member. It offers a sense of security, a place where children can grow, and parents can provide a nurturing environment. A permanent residence will not only shelter us from the elements but also foster a sense of belonging and stability.

As a young parent, I am acutely aware of the responsibility I bear in shaping the future of my children. A safe and secure home will provide them with the foundation they need to grow, learn, and become responsible individuals. It will serve as a refuge, a place where they can confidently pursue their dreams, knowing they have a loving and supportive environment to return to each day.

I firmly believe in the power of community and the impact we can have on each other’s lives. By coming together and supporting one another, we can create a ripple effect that positively influences future generations. Your contribution, no matter the size, will make a significant difference in the realization of our dream.

Every act of kindness and generosity has the potential to change lives. Your support will not only provide us with the means to construct a house but will also instill hope and motivate us to overcome the challenges we face. It will serve as a reminder that compassion and empathy still exist in the world, inspiring us to pay it forward and help others in need when we are in a position to do so.

In conclusion, I find myself humbly reaching out to you, sharing my dreams and aspirations for a home for my family. As a young man striving to create a better life for my children, I am deeply grateful for your consideration and support. Together, we can turn this dream into a reality and provide a loving and stable environment for my family to thrive. Your contribution will not only impact our lives but will also serve as a testament to the power of unity and the importance of lifting one another up. Thank you for believing in our dreams and for making a difference in our lives.

https://paypal.me/FlaviusClaudius?country.x=SK&locale.x=en_US

Filed Under: Mortgage Tagged With: EU

Last Updated: June 9, 2023

Desperately needing help buying a house.

Hello everyone, this isnt  something I would usually do but I’m getting quite desperate. Me and my partner are both 26 and we’ve recently had our first child, 4 month old. We are both really hard workers, always strive to do our best. The past 5 years we’ve been working hard, trying to save money so we can buy our first home.

Just before our son was born, we had some unforeseen things happen. My partners brother passed away in his sleep, he was only 20 years old. we still have no cause of death and that really took a toll on my partners mental health, ended up losing her job and struggling quite a lot through the pregnancy. Her losing her job wasn’t to much of a stress, I was still working a pretty decent paying job, although I was working 10-12 hours a day, 6 days a week just so I was earning enough to live off the bare minimum and save as much as I could at the same time.

About a month before before my son was born, I unexpectedly lost my job without any notice or warning and without an explanation. I ended up taking them to court for unfair dismissal and won but only received a small payout.

Now my son is born, I am now working for myself as a contractor and my partner is a stay at home mum. We are now struggling to even get by week to week, I’m doing everything I can to get as much work as I can, trying to start my own business. We are only able to live off whatever little money I get as my partner isn’t receiving any benefits or support from the government. Most of the time I’m having to dig into our savings because I’m not earning enough to pay the bills, rent and keep food on the table. My partner is also suffering from postnatal depression and the mental health support in this country is absolutely disgusting.

I’m here because this is my last resort, I’m desperate to stop my family from going homeless, I’m flat out 24/7, working, doing my own business, making time for the family, supporting my partner. My own mental health is deteriorating more and more everyday and I’m extremely worried about both my partner and myself. I’m worried about my son seeing his parents struggling and so stressed all the time. I also don’t want to have to resort to doing the wrong things to be making that extra money. Our dreams of buying a house and getting set up as a family just seem to be getting further and further away.

We are desperately seeking any help we can get before our situation gets any worse. I desperately want to give my son and any other children I have in the future the life they deserve.

Any donations will go straight towards putting a deposit down and buying a house and paying it off as soon as possible, my family will be forever grateful for any help and donations we receive and would completely change our lives .

Thank you for taking the time to read my story, I know there is some hope out there for us.

My PayPal.me is, https://www.paypal.me/MatthewH247

Thank you

Filed Under: Mortgage Tagged With: Australia & New Zealand

Last Updated: April 29, 2023

Fixing a roof, helping my sick wife and beating the mortgage interest soaring … Looking for donations but in reality we need £150,000 to get back on track…

Hello to anyone reading this who may be fortunate enough to be in a position to help. Thank you for clicking into my story.

What you need to know about me is that I have always tried to be self sufficient and despite the odds often being stacked against me, I have always tackled life’s numerous problems head on and with dignity – never giving up, always living in hope (even when the world has felt like it was collapsing all around me…)

I could not be more desperate with sleepless nights of worry.

I am fortunate to have a beautiful family – a wife and 2 kids (a girl and a boy). For this I am very grateful.

In my professional working life I have helped countless numbers of people with disabilities to connect with the services they need, know their rights and to find gainful employment.

I have been doing this for the better part of 3 decades and take enormous joy from the help I give to those in need.

Unfortunately, like many people in today’s climate, my family and I are now suffering and I am finding that the banks, rather than helping, are making things much worse.

I have never been a fan of money. To me it is a means to an end. It has never been a focal point of my existence.

But when you and your family haven’t had a holiday since well before COVID, you rarely get to go shopping for anything other than essentials, you are constantly working in a vocational job and despite all the good you do, only receiving a 2% Annual Payrise when inflation is between 10 and 13% and you watch costs going up on Gas, Electricity, travel costs, good and so on, you start to question what it is all for…

Are you living or surviving?!?

To add insult to injury, my wife has been in and out of hospital over the past 12 months and we are not in a position to go private with a mysterious respiratory condition that is only getting worse.

We are a non smoking household and the specialists are baffled to the causes of her condition.

Even though we express the greatest of respect for the UK’s NHS, we are subject to long waits, cancellations and at times not being taken seriously despite the facts speaking for themselves.

I myself have recently been diagnosed as Bi-polar with Emotionally Unstable Disorder (EAD) after years of experiencing what I was told was Anxiety and Depression.

I had to push to receive a psychiatric consultation and this diagnosis is welcomed as I can now learn to understand how I can live with this.

Although I try not to let this news impact on the important work I do daily with my customer base, I am reliant on regular counselling and daily medication which makes life much harder as I often experience bouts of suicidal thoughts. I now need help from others, as I have always offered assistance where I could.

I am on this site for financial help as I have explored all other options and am sinking further by just trying to keep our home afloat.

In a storm last year we had some roof damage that we were not in a position to deal with at the time. Black mold is now occurring and may be a contributing or at least aggravating factor to my wife’s lungs.

All estimates for repair are well out of our range and we have no family in a position to help.

Not only are the banks not prepared to offer support by way of a loan to fix this, but to add insult to injury out mortgage is potentially increasing from a rate of 2.15% to an estimated 7.99% from July.

Despite my wife and I working all the hours we can and trying to look after our children we will effectively be priced out of our own home.

If you can help with a donation that would be amazing.

Equally if you could offer a loan, I have crunched the numbers and would be happy to pay a reasonable amount of interest over a period of time equal to the remaining repayment period of our mortgage.

What we are facing is not fair. We put a lot into the society we live in and this is how we are repaid?

We were classed as Key Workers during COVID and expected to go out to work everyday – putting our lives and the lives of our children at risk – when others were told to stay home and many receiving government support.

I am not bitter and know the value of the work I do, but I don’t feel supported now we are facing such uncertainty.

Please help if you can – paypal.me/collectornotscalper

Filed Under: Mortgage Tagged With: UK

Last Updated: May 29, 2023

Nurse who needs help to save her home

I am normally the one who is in a position to help others. I have spent the last 15 years of my life healing those in need. I spent years independently raising money for my charity that helps children who have been effected by the opioid crisis. Although, I have now found myself in a position of in need of help myself. I have spent countless years supporting my family, tending to the sick and giving the last of myself to help family, friends, and strangers. I had a series of unfortunate events occur and I am now facing foreclosure. I have to pay 10,000 to save my home. I do and have been working countless overtime, so i will and do have partial of the money needed. I am not one to ever in my life ask for help, so to come to strangers in this time of need, is very realizing of the balance needed in humanity. I hope that who ever reads this understands how important my home is. My dad purchased this home in 2002, and after my sister tragically passed in 2017 he fled to Floridia to raise her children . He left me the house and the thought of me possibly losing it, kills me beyond words. He has lost enough. I am a very hard working nurse, spent countless hours through covid giving my all to heal the sick. I have 3 daughters who rely on me. I can not, and will not let them and myself down. thank you for taking the time to read this. I will also mention, I BELIEVE in giving and i will pay it forward by giving a portion to a family in need, even if that’s just a meal.

PayPal: Therosenonprofit@gmail.com

Filed Under: Mortgage Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: April 14, 2023

Grieving mom and dad lost their son in a tragic accident

IMG-5834.jpgThe police came knocking in the early morning hours of Sept 10, I knew right away something was wrong. I fell the the ground and I just screamed and screamed and screamed… i couldnt help myself. I cried and screamed. It all seemed like a dream in the moment. His truck had went up in flames just minutes after the crash and he was unidentifiable. It took them months to verify it was him and complete the autopsy. He had no smoke  in his lungs so he passed right away/immediately and didnt suffer. But me… his mom my heart feels like it was ripped out of my chest. I have trouble sleeping, eating, talking to people. I cant go out in public anymore, it makes me to anxious. So now we are 44 days behind on our mortgage which is 1150 a month… our phones are 200 a month, electricity bill 300, insurance 100, and vehicle payment 300. Both of our vehicles are broke down it is going to cost $7000 to get the truck fixed and the transmission needs replaced in a car with almost 200,ooo miles on it. So its not worth fixing. Our heater unit went out of out home this winter and thats 15,000. Everything just keeps falling apart, my whole life has been torn upside down. My first born baby… i cant ever tell him goodbye or how much he meant to me, or that I love him. I wish i had just 5 minutes with him. I know it has been some time since he left this earth but i am not in counseling and i should be but i have no insurance, my husband who made the income to support us got hurt at work and now has burnt metal and burnt fiberglass all through his body. His boss didnt turn it into workers comp in time so now hes not getting paid and he hasnt since October. I am paid on commission only, but sometimes it is 0 and sometimes it is 800. Still not enough to pay the bills. I have 2 other children. We get no food stamps or insurance and need money for food too…. I have 2 other children to support; no family and my friends helped as much as they could but it barely touched anything we owe. All the credit cards are maxed out because i had to use them for things we needed like toilet paper laundry detergent, etc. I know we need a lot of money. We did get a lawyer to take the workers comp case but he said that could take 8 months to 1 year. I am literally begging you all to give whatver and however much you can. It has been a huge struggle. My son was like me he would of given someone the shirt off of his back, before helping himself… but i/ we are really struggling. So please help us… Thank you. If youd like to call or text me you can at 4173801590, prayers are always helpful too. Thank you, and even though i still feel so angry with god i know he didnt take my son. For some reason it is only letting me download one of the pics but i have pics of all of the bills we are behind on so if you want prooof i will text or email to you.

Filed Under: Mortgage Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: April 14, 2023

I pray someone will here my cry for help.

I pray that someone will here my cry for help. I am out of my mind with worry. Can’t sleep and crying all the time. I’m in arrears with my mortgage and scared out of my wits. I had been paying but missed 2 months now since Christmas and I’m so worried if I could somehow get asap I would be somehow back on track and could pay each Month going forward but otherwise, these months are missed and I’m dreading waking  up every morning I just can’t face the day and I cry myself to sleep and worry nonstop during the day. The bills are mounting up also before Christmas that I can’t face opening them it makes me feel physically sick the  cooker went at Christmas and my boiler went in Novt it’s still not fixed because it’s an old one and I need to find and old replacement one so don’t have have any hot water or heating but have an electric shower and electric heaters  Thankfully. my freezer packed up also in January but I just use the fridge instead and my cat was diagnosed with a tumor on 31 Dec which cost a lot on vet bills he sadly passed away last week and this sent me further over the edge. I have never ever felt so low or sad in my life. I consider myself to be a go and kind person and would help anyone I’ve never borrowed anthing ever in my lifetime from anyone so this letter is extremely hard to write but I’m so scared. I don’t know what else to do I can show you  any proof without hesitation if  you like so you can see my situation is completely genuine. I don’t really have anyone to ask for money and anyone, I do know I just know they wouldn’t have it and would be too embarrassed to even ask..I would be more than happy to offer this money back any person if they did help me.I would be on a mission to pay it back and would feel better  if I did. I just want you to know that I’m a truly genuine person if you are a person of faith than please  ask for guidance if you have any douth to help me or not. I hope and pray that someone someone hears my cry’s for help because I just can’t face another day living this way.. I just want to pay  my immediate bills and the 2 months arrears any proof will be given freely just ask. I can give you 100% proof  to show you this is 100% genuine you have now idea what this would would  do to my life.. how if really would help me out of the darkness and help me to face life again…  and sleep at night and not  put my face up the covers every morning when it starts to get light outside because I just can’t face another day. who ever you are reading this if your in any douth please don’t pass by let me prove to you that I’m 100% genuine. I can give you w any proof that you want in confidence.. I’m praying for a financial miracle to help and that’s all I have. Thanks for reading.

Filed Under: Mortgage Tagged With: EU

Last Updated: March 22, 2023

Praying for a miracle

I’m sure my/our story is not unique especially while times are tough. But, I’m doing my best(even if that means doing something like this), to support my family. I don’t want to make this long, but please know this is a genuine plea for help.

My husband and I are hard workers and have always been, but for some reason we have never been able to get ourselves in a situation where we are financially secure. I went into so much educational debt obtaining my masters degree in hopes of securing the best life for me and my family. However, all that has left me with so far is a ton of educational debt and a low paying job(s). But that’s not what is immediately affecting us at this time.

I also want to be clear, that my husband and I both have jobs that we work hard at. But right now are not able to pay the bills. I’ve made the mistake of taking out all kinds of consolidation loans trying to stay caught up, but now am at a point where we cant even make the minimum payments on those loans.

My husband is a realtor. We have lived very simple lives in terms of just having a 3 bedroom/2 bath house with 3 kids. We have 2 older cars and the newest car being 5 years old which we still make payments on. The other car is 20 years old, but running rough. As a realtor, my husband suddenly seemed to not gain any new or existing clients over the past year. He’s pushing his hardest to stay the fight in order to stay in that business because he loves it, but unfortunately, business just plain stinks right now. I work in higher education and also love my job, but just don’t get paid very well. Not enough to support our family with my income alone. I even teach extra classes when possible for additional money. On top of that, insurance has to go through my check for my family.

2 years ago we were doing somewhat well financially and decided to move into a new home. New to us at least. Not an extravagant home by any means, but a big enough home for a family of 4 at the time in a safe neighborhood. Our previous home was in a neighborhood that had shooting frequently and break ins consistently.  After living in that home for 15 years, we were able to finally afford something nicer for our family. Last year, I found out that I was unexpectedly pregnant. We added a new baby to the family in September of 2022. She is a miracle in human flesh. I never should have gotten pregnant(physically should have been impossible), but here we are living with a newborn and 2 older girls ages 9 and 12. My husband hasn’t sold a house since her birth. I had to take at least 6 weeks off of work when I had her and my work only paid 2 weeks of pay during that time because that’s all that I had saved up. That’s when I finances started taking a turn for the worse. I’ve reached out to public/government assistance as much as I feel that I can. While some resources were available, we have been faced with the challenges of not being considered “poor” enough to receive help.

We are now in a situation where we can’t pay our mortgage and getting behind on all of our bills. I’m worried that we are going to have to either sell or lose a home that we normally be able to afford. On top of that, I’m not sure that we have anywhere to go if we do lose our home. We don’t have family that can help. In fact my husband and I do our best to physically and financially support our single elderly parents(respectively). Again, in trying to help them, there aren’t very many resources out there that are willing to assist in their care either.

We are doing our best to do our best honestly. And raise decent, healthy humans in the meantime. I’m just hoping for a miracle and am going to as many lengths as possible to provide for my family. We are absolutely grateful for any assistance given. https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile

Filed Under: Mortgage Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: March 15, 2023

Urgent Appeal for Financial Assistance: A Family in Desperate Need of Help

Dear kind-hearted people,

I hope this letter finds you well. I am writing this personal appeal with a heavy heart and deep sense of desperation. I am a husband and a father of two children age ten and twelve, and my family is currently going through a very tough time.

For over a year now, my wife and I have been retrenched from our jobs since July 2021. It has been a difficult journey for us, and we have been trying our best to make ends meet. We did receive financial assistance from the government but it only last for six months. We have been doing odd jobs, and for the past three months, I have been working as an e-hailing driver just to cover our daily expenses.

Our financial situation has become dire, and we are struggling to pay off our monthly bills. To make matters worse, the house that we are staying in is leaking at the roof, and we need urgent repairs. We do not have the funds to carry out the repairs, and we are afraid that the condition of our house will deteriorate further.

We have some commitments with the bank that will be struck off in a few months, but until then, we are finding it extremely difficult to keep up with the payments. We are worried that we might default on our payments, which will affect our credit score and future financial standing.

We have no more savings in the bank due to the prolonged unemployment. We have been using up our savings to pay off our bills and daily expenses, and we are now left with nothing. We are at a loss as to how we can provide for our family.

We are reaching out to you, kind-hearted people, in the hope that you can extend your helping hand to us during these trying times. We are not asking for a handout, but we are humbly requesting for any financial assistance that you can spare. Every little bit counts and will go a long way in helping us to tide over this difficult period.

As a father and husband, it pains me to see my family go through such difficult times. We are doing everything we can to get back on our feet, but we need your help. We are grateful for your time and consideration, and we hope that you can find it in your hearts to help us in any way you can.

Thank you for your kindness and generosity. May God bless you abundantly.

 

Channel your donations here, paypal.me/crj950

Filed Under: Mortgage Tagged With: Asia

Last Updated: March 15, 2023

Financial Crisis

I had to take a medical leave from work at the end of September and during this leave I had to have my gallbladder bladder removed which was unexpected. This caused me to be out on leave longer and it used up my intermittent FMLA. In order to return to work a fitness for duty form was required and filled out by my doctor. My doctor requested reasonable accommodations for me and my work denied the request and placed me on a general leave status until the start of the next school year. I was supposed to return to work in December but not only was my ADA accommodations denied but they went on Christmas break and left my paperwork on the desk for review for after the Christmas break. Then they just forgot about me until the end of January and informed me that I was not allowed to return to work until next school year. All this leave has been without pay and I have reached capacity. I have borrowed all I can borrow and used up all my credit and I am now unable to pay my bills. I cannot even buy gas or food and it will be wasted soon enough if my electricity goes out. My credit score went from an 800 to a 520, and every creditor is calling me multiple times a day for payment and I don’t have any money. I have worked my entire life and I have always been able to at least if all else fails go wait tables but I no longer can work on my feet. I have 8 medical conditions and one of them is extremely difficult to manage and causes me a great deal of problems making everything I do exponentially harder. I have POTS syndrome and I have severe arthritis in my entire spine and hips making any type of labor intensive jobs and standing up for long periods of time impossible for me. I cannot just go get a job anywhere. I’m negative in my account and my house payment is due. All my bills are due and all my maxed out credit cards are past due. My house taxes are past due and everything is spiraling out of control. I am having to send my only child to go live with my parents because I cannot support her and I don’t know what I will do without the kindness of strangers because I learned quickly that when you really need help your friends and family will not help you. I have worked hard to get everything I have in life and in falling behind by one month my entire credit and on time payment history is destroyed and I am facing financial ruin and eventually I will lose my house and everything I worked for. I have to now sue my school district for violating my rights by denying me reasonable accommodations which will only mean many more months of time without any income and I just don’t know how anyone is expected to survive these situations when there’s really no way to speed up the process. I will be eternally grateful for any help afforded me by others because I have no idea what I will do if nobody steps in and helps me stay afloat. I have never needed help before and I am very humbled by this experience. Thank you deeply.

https://paypal.me/cecireed77?country.x=US&locale.x=en_US

Filed Under: Mortgage Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: March 9, 2023

Please Help Us Raise $10,000 to Fund Our Home

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https://paypal.me/royceandmiko

Hello. We are two young men who have a simple yet challenging dream of owning a home in California. While we were well aware of how difficult this would be financially, we did not realize how emotional even the first stages of buying a home are. Truthfully, all we want to do is provide a nice space for our fur babies, Royce and Miko. From there, we eventually want to build our family, but we feel that we are currently wasting our resources by renting.

We were presented with an amazing opportunity to own a home with an amazing first-time homebuyer program. However, we realized all that we have saved up until this point would be gone. On top of that, the builder informed us that they miscalculated and our dream home would be $10,000.00 more than its original price.

We are not afraid to work for what we want. It’s just that we feel like we’ve been working so much, and no matter what we do, it’s still not enough to accomplish our lifelong dream of having a home. We have been saving up for our dream home for about five years. We understand that some people may have been saving for their first home for longer than that, but we come from very humble beginnings. Both our families were immigrants from the Philippines and did not come to America with much. They struggled to put us through school, and outside of that, they had to take care and fund our siblings as well.

We are trying very hard to make our dream of having a home come true. We believe we are not asking for much. Our calculations would have been great if the $10,000.00 addition was not presented to us. We believe we are only trying to get our home price back down to what made sense to us. We have done all the negotiating with the builder that we are capable of and are now turning to the hope that someone who is reading this would relate to the challenge we have at hand. We all had or have a dream that seemed unattainable, and then became closer to reality. Anyone who has experienced being so close to their dream and then something coming along to make it appear unattainable again knows how much it hurts.

We would give everything to have our dream home, but we also don’t want to start this next chapter of our lives with nothing. From the bottom of our hearts, we kindly ask for any amount you are able to donate. Please help us provide Royce and Miko a new home. Please help us start our family.

Filed Under: Mortgage Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: March 5, 2023

Running Out Of Time

I am in a mountain of debt for a variety of reasons. I have $128,996 worth of debt not including my mortgage. I’m about to lose my home. I have had so many obstacles to overcome the past few years. I’m 51 years old and a year away from being able to retire. I’m not afraid of work. I’ve been applying for numerous jobs online to supplement my income but to no avail. My current job prevents me from seeking a brick and mortar job because of my schedule. I’m an Athletic Trainer at a local high school. I’ve worked at this school for 27 years. I’m very giving of my time and skills to a multitude of student athletes as well as anyone asking me for help. In the past 6 years I’ve gone through a heartbreaking breakup with my girlfriend of nearly 20 years. In the past year she chose to become pregnant through AI without my knowledge. I began trying to help her in purchasing items for what turns out as twins. She gave birth a month ago but had severe complications which almost resulted in her death. Thankfully everyone has recovered and is doing well. In the past 6 years I’ve also lost my father in which I was trying to care for him during COVID but once I returned to work I had to move him in with my brother. At the beginning of the school year this year I had a student athlete collapse and pass away during a workout. Needless to say I’ve had a lot of emotional trying times recently. I’ve been in counseling for nearly a year. That is a portion of my debt. The greatest portion is trying to become a day trader. I have lost all control in pursuing this endeavor. I think I was throwing myself into learning to day trade to compensate for all the loss I have been experiencing. I also felt if I could make money day trading I could help my ex with the twins. I could help my daughter pay for her wedding. I simply want to stop drowning. I don’t want to lose my home. I want to get out of debt and turn things around and help someone else in need. I’d love to be able to be a financial coach and prevent others from falling into the same hole I’ve fallen into. I just need to get my head above water. I’m at a desperation point.

https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/jenak5

 

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Filed Under: Mortgage Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: February 28, 2023

Please help me!

I am a 72-year-old woman and am struggling with my mortgage and with life in general. I retired early to care for my parents. Back in the 90’s they had no prescription insurance, so my father was paying out over 10 thousand dollars a year for both of their prescriptions. I helped them with food, gas for the car and utilities.  They burned through their savings quickly, but I would not see them do without their medications and other needed necessities.  I also burned through my retirement funds to assist them.  When they passed, they deeded me the house and that is where I now live. It was free and clear but needed repairs.  So, I had to mortgage the house.  Now, I owe 67 thousand dollars on it.  I am only working a small part time job.  I am on Medicare, Medicaid QMB and Anthem Blue Cross Blue Shield.  I was in an auto accident on January the 18th of this year.  I had a brain concussion, contusions and really bruised up.  I am trying to buy a car, but they want a down payment which I do not have.  I am very discouraged.  I need a used car.  And help with the mortgage.  I tried to get a reverse mortgage but was told I would need seven thousand dollars to make that happen.  I am praying someone will help me.  Any way that you can.  Thanks in advance for your help.  Christine I could not figure out how to put a picture in.

Filed Under: Mortgage Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: February 26, 2023

Dream of home ownership

I’ve never asked for money before and this is hard to do. I’m an optimist by nature and tend to see the glass as half full. I kept hoping things would eventually “work out” financially, but now I’m pushing 60. It feels as though the years have caught up with me and there’s no time left.

 

I’ve worked since age 16. I did all the right things – got good grades, went to college, worked my whole life. I’ve worked in nonprofits for 20+ years, providing social and mental health services to vulnerable adults. Obviously, folks don’t do this work for the money. But I always believed that if I worked hard and played by the rules, I’d be okay. But housing costs have sky-rocketed over the past 30 years while pay in many industries, including social services, has stagnated. 

 

I always wanted to own my own home but there was always a barrier – student loans to pay, underpaid in NPOs, unemployed former spouse, living in high-cost-of-living areas, situational setbacks, and admittedly a couple of financial missteps. 

 

I’ve been paying back the student loan for almost 25 years and I still owe more than $50,000. I’ve applied for loan forgiveness (SLFP) but the initial application was denied and the request for reconsideration won’t be decided until after June 2023.

 

In early 2021 I was diagnosed with retinopathy and macular edema, after it was misdiagnosed for more than 2 years. As a result, I will have to get injections in both eyes, every 6 weeks, for the rest of my life. I’ve been worried that this will cause me to lose my job, resulting in years of lost income. 

 

I am also playing catch-up on my retirement fund, for which I take responsibility, and on which I am diligently making progress. Despite my hard work, frugality, and progress thus far, I don’t see how I’ll be able to have both – a home of my own AND a financially secure retirement. As it is, I foresee working at least another 10 years, up to age 70, if not longer. In the meantime, I continue to rent in an increasingly expensive rental market. 

 

I am hoping for some relief – a lower monthly housing payment that actually builds equity – but more than that I want the pride of home ownership. Thank you for reading this far.  paypal.me/aniiarbo

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Last Updated: February 24, 2023

Behind on house payments

I’m a substitute teacher and honestly, the pandemic wrecked me financially. If I don’t work, I don’t get paid. Like most subs, I’m employed by an agency and while work is steady in normal conditions, I may work in four different school districts during a school year.  I don’t qualify as a full time employee because of my on-call status and because working five school days every week simply doesn’t add up to forty hours. We fell behind in our payments and our mortgage company granted us a forbearance. I was really thankful. Unfortunately, when that expired we were expected to come up with the payments that were “paused” in a very short time period. We have cashed out a life insurance policy and have sold possessions to try to get caught up but it’s just not enough. Between the rise in grocery costs and previous cut in wages, it seems like we just can’t get ahead. In a perfect world, I could gather enough to pay a year’s worth of house payments and be able to just work and not have panic attacks regularly. $12,000 would do wonders for my sanity.

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