I was married with my x husband for more then 20 years. He was very verbal abusive. I felt I needed to stay with him to keep the family together. My x husband was so negative that we had to get rid of our house in 20963 E 40th pl Denver CO 80249, we had to do a short sale and he decided to rent, that’s how negative he was. A family of 5 living in a 2 bedroom apartment because he preferred it that way. My boys decided to join the military and at the moment they are independent. One is living on the base and the other is working, and got his degree to move up in the military, so he is going back. I divorced in 2021. My daughter has depression since 2016. A therapist told me she was suicidal and gave me a lock box for sharp objects and medication. I was living in a studio with my daughter since my x wouldn’t give me child support. I couldn’t get FMLA quick to keep an eye on my daughter after I found out she is suicidal so I moved in with my sister in Fountain CO because she works from home and she can keep an eye on my daughter. My daughter was doing way better since she got along well with her cousins. I have a friend background Italian American, if you would like to include some help for him too I can email his name since he doesn’t know I am including him on this story, so his name at the moment is private. He was living in his van because he had it worse the me with his x wife. We are just friends and room mates. Colorado is cold so I offered that we can help each other with rent. We are renting a 3 bedroom 2 bath apartment. He has the master bedroom with a restroom. I have one bedroom for myself and one for my daughter and a restroom for me and my daughter. He was so depressed because he doesn’t see his son and he is paying about $800 for child support. I am paying $1,000 for my part of the rent and he is paying about $600. I pay the electricity and he pays the internet, water and gas. He now found a great job, I am working from home for a good health care insurance company and this month is the last month my room mate has to pay child support. I am working on paying off my debt and I am very close. My debt is now about $1,500. My credit was bad after my divorce since I was on my own without child support. Thanks to living with my sister I paid off most of my debt. I can’t live forever with my sister and I felt they needed privacy and so did we. We are living with my Italian American friend and making sure he is doing well. And he is helping us too. But we don’t have savings for a down payment for a permanent home. Naca has a program for 0 down but when I attended their online work shop they talked about fee’s that add up to $11,000. I can have a permanent home for me, my daughter, and an additional room for my sons when they are back. I really would like to help my room mate in some way. If you would also like to help him I will give you his name in an email, in private, since he doesn’t know I am including him in my story. He has a son and he was very depressed because his x wife would say negative things to his son so his son wouldn’t visit him. He would like to have a permanent home for him and his son since his son is a little older and is understanding more and talking to his dad more. My room mate is driving a bad old van that breaks down often, he needs a car to get to work. I have moved about 100 times in my life and would be nice to finally buy a permanent home and my friend has been moving allot too. I am glad I found him to help each other but we have different tastes and I feel we can’t be a couple. But I still want him to be happy. We are here for a reason, we meet people for a reason, to help each other. We have a good job but we don’t have a saving, we were paying our debt and we are almost done. This wouldn’t only help me but also my daughter and my two sons because anything that is mine will end up being theirs. And they have a place to stay. If you would like to help my friend it will also help his son and my room mate, his mother needs help too it would help 3. My room mate has a mother living in Corning NY that needs help and he plans to bring her to Colorado. He can use the same program Naca. I can show him how. Or he can try FHA depending on credit and any $ will help towards down payment or closing costs. Or a car for work. I love my work from home job, I can stay with the same healthcare company for ever but I also would like to start other projects to bring more income. My future goal is after I move into a permanent home, is to get started on 3 affordable projects I have in mind that will hopefully bring more income and since part has to do with a channel on YouTube, it can bring enough to help others. But at the moment I need to concentrate on me and my family and also help my friend. If you send enough for $11,000 I will be so thankful. If you send more then $11,000. I will give that to my friend.
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