I don’t know what else to do. We need help bad. Things have gotten so bad and we just need help to get back on track. It started 2 years ago. I met an amazing beautiful woman. It was just suppose to be a friendship you know someone to have fun with but it quickly turned to more. We finally found THE ONE. But there were 2 problems. First she had only been with men and her neighborhood has a big problem with lesbians. Second her ex is a very violent person and they had just broke up 2 months prior and he had not moved out yet. He quickly became angry with me because she would come home with little things I get her. Nothing major just things I find on FB or Garage sales cheap. Then I came into a little money and was able to get the kids Xmas. That really made him mad. I would go to food pantries in my area to get her a little food. I go to a monthly clothes giveaway and bring over bags of clothes for her and her daughters and grand kids. Her 14 yr old would be so excited she come out and grab the bag and by time her mom get home she had already claimed what she wanted. It was cute. As much as she tried she couldn’t get her ex out of house and she couldn’t just kick him out because he kept threatening to kill me. I had been in similar situation so I understood position she was in. Several times he said he was going to leave and never did. He finally arrested on a 2 year warrant Apr 2016 but only spent 12 days in jail when he got out he threaten her yet again. Yes she tried go police and his friends caught her and stopped her. She was basically a prisoner. He would steal her rent money and since she lived in projects she only had til the 10th to get it or they evict her so I had pay her rent several times. Would have let her and daughter move with me but I only rented a room I didn’t have an apartment. So here I was paying rent and he was living there but I didn’t want her and daughter out on street. I paid her gas several times to. Last Oct I was attacked and beaten severely. I finally blacked out and only remember up to a certain point. I had gotten out of car at laundry mat and 4 guys ran up on me bashing my head with guns. Shoved me into drivers seat while they empty my trunk. I had BDay presents for her 14 year old daughter and a car seat and stroller for her 24 year old daughter and they threw it all out on the street. They pulled me out of car beating me more then throwing me into the trunk. They drove around and stop to get gas. I tried screaming but they open trunk just enough to tell me shut up or they find her and kill her and kids. They drove some more and then stopped. They opened trunk and took my grandpa ring, my dad ring and bracelet my girl gave me and my phone. They demanded money but all I had was a dollar and they were mad about that so they beat me more. They slammed trunk and then kept opening it and throwing my clothes they had set on fire on to me. Some how they kept going out which surprised me cause they had pretty good flames going. They drove around some more and that when I blacked out. How I didn’t end up with burns is a miracle. Next thing I remember I was freaking out in Hospital trying to get out of MRI machine and 2 nurses were trying to calm me down. I blacked out again and next thing I remember I was in a hospital room. I started looking over my body and they had to of taken me out of trunk at one point and beat the crap out of me more cause I had severe huge bruising over my body in places I have no memory of them beating me on. Plus I was shot and bullet is still in me. I was told my car was torched and I had some how staggered into a bar for help. I was left for dead in trunk of my car and had my trunk been latching I would have burned inside my trunk. Apparently I was lucky and my trunk was not latching so they set my car a blaze and ran and I managed to crawl out of trunk since it wasn’t latching. Doctors were surprised I was even consciousness even though I don’t remember going to bar or ride to hospital or anything in ER. But there were pics of me awake in ER. They thought for sure I would have been in coma or have severe brain damage because there was so much blood on my brain. The cops closed my case 2 and half months later never even tracing my cell phone. I was not able to lock my phone since when I called phone company they wanted my password and I couldn’t remember it so for 6 wks these people continued to call my girl, go in my FB and mess with people and send emails through my email. I finally got it locked after I got out of hospital 6 wks later and physically went to store with ID. I now walk with cane, I can not count money, I have problems with days of the week and barely sleep because of nightmares. I suffer from very bad PTSD. I ended up having to move to Florida to my moms because I was not able to live on my own at that point and her ex was still living there at her house. I was very hurt she did not kick him out for me but found out later she didn’t want to cause me more stress telling me truth. Her ex was increasingly threatening to kill me and beat crap out of her. Said if she went to cops it be her dumbest move cause he knew lots of people and was in gangs and he would simply get a hold of someone and have them kill me. To this day I am not convinced he didn’t have something to do with my almost murder. Her ex finally moved out beginning of February 2017. However he only moved like 5 mins away and talked his way into getting her to talk to him yet again about the same shit. You know “I sorry I love you lets be a family” You know BS stuff cause if her really loved her he would never have beaten her, called her names, hacked her FB, used her, never had job expected her to paid for everything, screamed at her in front of kids and basically abused her emotionally, physically and mentally. She was to ice and would let him talk. There were times I paid her rent and gas cause I didn’t want her and daughter evicted but at same time it saved him to. I got her heaters, fans, clothes , food, air conditioning, Xmas for kids and her, Easter, etc and he had nerve get mad at me .. Ok whatever. Friends have dropped off 2 cats to her knowing she couldn’t leave them out cause she cares to much so she brought them in and ended up with bed bugs. She got rid of bugs and cats. She cleans her house every day so it not like she dirty. It was the cats. Then last month she let cat back in cause it was about have babies and she got extremely infested with bed bugs. This time she lost her bed and huge couch. She only has full bed her and daughter share now and 2 dining room chairs. She keeps saying she come see me but something with her kids come up. Was suppose to come Sept but the only airline I could afford, Aliegent, has no more flights. Her daughter is into who only knows what and has been bringing her kids to her moms house with nothing, She has a 7 yr old boy, 3 yr old girl and just had baby girl on May 17th. So she been expecting me and her mom to get her diapers, food and formula. She been bringing them almost everyday because she is in fear of her life. We no idea what she got herself into but the babies come first. My girl want to move to Florida with me. We are awaiting housing to come through. We are number 35 on list so hopefully by beginning of year. The neighbor hood she lives in is so bad that someone getting killed or taken hospital every other day. Didn’t use be like that. But kids have seen too much. Kids shouldn’t be hitting the deck when they hear something that sounds like gunshots. But in that neighborhood you have to cause that what it is. It isn’t fireworks or something. She won’t ask me to come home cause she scared to death for me and for her and her kids. That neighborhood hates gays. Plus the 14 year old needs surgery but insurance won’t pay for it cause it considers it elective. Umm sorry but when we have keep taking child to ER to get these lumps under her arms cut open and drained of pus because it becomes so painful for her to even move her arm that isn’t elective. So between that and my medical bills from my attack and from what ever infection I got when I got down here we have that to. I got some bad infection that 6 oral prescriptions didn’t touch and it was so painful but no prescription pain killers helped. I had have surgery but infection came right back after 3 days and started forming huge painful lump behind ear again so I ended up having to go on IV meds going to hospital every day for 2 months to get them. First IV med didn’t work finally second did.
So we need move safer place, deposit and rent, medical bills, car and at least beds. I be happy with just getting my family out of there and safe and having a place to live with some beds and hopefully be able to get daughter her surgery.
I not sure how much I need but I want give her and kids a new life. I am not looking for anything shiny and new. JUST SAFER. I want bring her, both daughters and 3 grand kids down here. They all deserve a better safer life. I want so bad to spend Xmas with them. I been picking away at presents for them anything I can find off the Buy, Sell, Trade sites on FB so it very cheap but stuff they will like. These kids are great. Doesn’t have be new in box for them be happy. I am scared they will not have Xmas because yes I have presents but I will NEVER be able afford shipping for this stuff. I scared my kids will be disappointed. Oh and plus my girl has have all her teeth pulled in Sept and I want be there by her side so bad but I can’t. I be happy with a little 2 bedroom. Three would be great but I don’t care. I just want a safer place. Don’t care if we crammed together. Once I get them all down here then we work on finding a place for 24 yr old daughter and grand babies. Her and I have both had very abusive relationships. Her and kids deserve to know what it like to not be scared every second and to have a fresh start.
PLEASE I NEED ENOUGH MONEY FOR DEPOSIT AND A FEW MONTHS RENT AND TO GET THEM ALL DOWN HERE .. Shouldn’t need more then maybe a small U haul and a car to get them and stuff here .. Actually I rather not even bring her daughters couch and beds cause that neighborhood full bed bugs surprised after her being there 15 yrs this first time she had them .. I like just to bring maybe a couple end tables cause my girl really likes them cause I got them for her and toys the kids don’t have many and clothes and my family so maybe I could just get a cargo van and a small rental car.
PLEASE HELP ME GIVE MY KIDS A BETTER SAFER LIFE AND TO BE TOGETHER FOR THE HOLIDAYS .. THEY ARE GOOD KIDS AND DESERVE A CHANCE AT A GOOD LIFE .. PLEASE HELP ME
I LOVE THEM ALL SO VERY MUCH .. PLEASE HELP ME GIVE MY KIDS SAFER LIFE