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Help Alex’s Family Go Home

Hi, my name is Alex. I am married to Daniel and we have 2 beautiful boys.

Originally we are from an East European country, but in our search for a better life we came to the UK, and for 8 years we have been based here.

We have been working hard to save money and buy a forever home for ourselves, but life being so expensive and because we didn’t have enough experience of how to manage the finance, we ended up having 45.000£ debt, not saving money, and continuing to struggle with money.

We are passionate about animals, especially cats, Maine Coon cats. We decide that we want to be the best Maine Coon breeder. At this point in our life, we have 10 cats.

At the moment they are all too small for breeding and with patience, we hope to be there.

I feel ashamed about this post because God gives us more than we ask for, we have peace in our lives, we love each other, and we respect each other. I don’t know if I could ask him for something more than we have.We are healthy,we can work for our dreams but because just Daniel it’s working at the moments,our dream it’s so far to become reality with our montly income .

We have started to think that it’s time to go home, to be with our family, because in all this time we have been running for money and we lost a lot of moments which we cannot take them back. We have been dreaming of a small house, with a plantation of tomatoes and cucumber and having our cats around, growing our kids in a peaceful county environment.

We hope to make from our passion a living cost in the future, and we also want to offer them the best life with high breeding standards. Offering to people piece from our passion and a life friend.

I don’t know if my dreams will come true but I have the responsability to try.

We will use fund to clear our debt,pay for our home and with the money left take care of our cats with high-quality food and all supplements they need.

Nothing it’s more important than time,sometimes we forget about this and we run for material stuff.Enjoy your life ,even the hard moments,they are in our life with a purpose,we need to learn,we need evoluate,we need to learn how to appreciate small moments,we need to learn to appreciate people and accept them how they are.Having faith and give me life into God’s hand was my decision.And I am gratefful for this.

Thank you so much for reading our story.

Here is my paypal: https://www.paypal.me/ANicula747

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Debt acrued supporting family

I met my wife outside of the UK, we dated and got married in her country.

I chose to use credit cards to pay for her visa application and health surcharge, as well as for language lessons and exams to support her application, and flights for us both to return to the UK. At that point it was manageable, I had a well paying job, but following a redundancy we had to further rely on credit cards for us to move to be nearer to my family, and to support us both while we both looked for new jobs.

We have £25k of the debt remaining, trying to deal with it is affecting every aspect of our lives, our health, our marriage. It feels like my life is falling apart and we are working as hard as we can but we are barely making a dent, so I am relying on the kindness of strangers, I am begging you, please help with anything you can.

https://paypal.me/emergency146?country.x=GB&locale.x=en_GB

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Please I need help

Dear Kind Hearted Angels

I’m at life’s crossroads, feeling very tired and can’t do much to uplift my life.

I’m a mum of grown up children. Worked as a nurse and in health care all my life. I have taken very good care of my children, including educating them, without burdening them with any educational loans, not taken the money back. It was always a sacrifice looking after the needs of my family first. I support my elderly mother who is 83 years old, who lives in solidarity, after my father passed away. I got my mother to live with me for some time and got her total knee replacement surgery done, which was a total failure. She now walks with clutches, has ongoing knee pain and is a total invalid to take care of herself. I am in debt, can’t afford to rent a place, so living with one of my children. This has caused more misery due to persecutions; at one point I felt very suicidal and wanted to end my life.  My only hope is in God, who keeps me going.

I need to get my mum’s knee surgery rectified and the surgeon has said it is a major surgery. I want to bring my mother to live with me after the surgery, but I need a place of my own. I don’t have the funds to mortgage a property. I am still working, but struggling with my finances. This is the last major help I want to render for my mother, as she struggles to walk with clutches and she wishes that a re-surgery will rectify her knee. She also has other physical health problems. Dr has advised that if her knee implant breaks, she will collapse and fracture her hip or leg which will further intensify her current problems.

So here I am, reaching out for a lifeline. I am really tired working night shifts in the hospital, which is my only means of income and I’m getting old. I sincerely need help, just a last chance to support my mother and to have a place of my own. I want to bring my mother to live with me, instead of putting her in a care home, as I want to look after her myself. My mother has done her best for me, I love her too much to let her suffer any more, as she has gone through lots of sorrows, poverty and persecutions in her life due to family dynamics, especially her son deserting her.

I will need money for her surgery, i.e. $4000 and funds to mortgage a property – around $90,000. I have always done my best for my parents, my family and others. I’ve always been a generous giver when people reached out to me for help.

I heard of this website and I felt that this was my only hope; if God can bring kind hearted souls as channels of restoration in my life. I have prayed too much, cried a lot and now looking to God for a miracle. Thanks a million for even considering it. May God bless all your heart desires richly. Your kindness means the world to us. Thank you for restoring hope for humanity and knowing that angels/vessels of God do exist. Any type of donation or help would be greatly appreciated.

With heartfelt thanks,
A dedicated & caring daughter in need of help.

https://www.paypal.me/FeliciaV33

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Need help to pay for caregiver

I’ll write a short summary and more detailed version further down.

I’m trying to raise $1600 per month to pay for a care giver for my wife which will get 40 hours of care per month. My wife has a rare autoimmune disease called paraneoplastic syndrome. It’s caused by the body detecting cancer and creating antibodies to kill the cancer. Unfortunately the antibodies also damage neurons in the brain and causes brain stem inflammation, collateral damage. It’s difficult to diagnose and very difficult if not impossible to treat if not diagnosed quickly.

 

4 years ago I went from being the sole breadwinner to full time care giver for my wife literally overnight. It was then a long and difficult battle to help my wife regain a very small portion of her life. We spent the savings and sold the house and now live in rented accommodation with little left in the bank. We are in the catch 22 of catch 22’s. We need money for rent and bills that we pay from savings and will do until the savings run out. I sometimes manage to do 1 or 2 hours work per week online but for me to work more we need someone to care for my wife which we currently can’t afford. That’s why I’m here. It costs $1600 per month for a carer for 40 hours per month. That will help us turn things around, I can then work more and get a carer for more hours and then we won’t need donations. We don’t have any family close by that can support us, I’ve been providing 24/7 care on my own for 4 years.

 

More details – 4 years ago my wife became sick, after feeling a bit off for a couple of weeks she started vomiting all day, she was so dizzy she could barely stand, her vision was troubling her, she was sensitive to light. The local doctors wouldn’t see her in person as they said due to the pandemic they were only doing telephone consultations. After several visits to emergency care with them basically only ruling out being pregnant and with no further diagnosis my wife’s condition continued to deteriorate.

 

I took sick leave to care for expecting I would return to work when she got better, neither of us had any idea that 4 years later I would still be a full time care giver and we would be in this position.

 

We were advised by the local doctors to pay to see specialists privately as that is the only way my wife will get diagnosed quickly. We saw more than 20 different specialists each time being told they would see it through to the end, only to be told on the follow up visit they don’t what to do and pointed us to another specialist.

 

Month by month, my wife’s physical and mental state changed considerably, she could no longer open her mouth and jaw more than ½ inch, she had double vision and couldn’t move her eyes sideways, she could only walk slowly and with me holding her up and she had lost a quarter of her body weight and she was slim before she was sick and she was having panic attacks constantly. By month 4 we fortunately found a doctor that took her seriously and diagnosed her condition but told us straight it’s very rare and difficult to treat, especially after the first 1 or 2 weeks of symptoms. He also found significant inflammation of the brain stem which was causing increasing damage. The doctor said treatment had to be in a government hospital, which we were fine with, but will take time to get her admitted.

 

Month 5 she finally gets into hospital and in month six they administer steroids to reduce the inflammation of the brain stem.

 

By month 12 and several hospital stays later, the brain stem inflammation had gone due to the steroids but the major symptoms remained. My wife could only open her mouth about ¼ inch by this time, could not mover her eyes, had double vision, had developed severe pain in the neck, back and jaw and had difficulty walking.

 

We paid for advice from the leading specialist on my wife’s condition and he wrote to the government neurologist advising chemotherapy and Rituximab. The government neurologist, for unknown reasons refused and said if weren’t happy we could see a different neurologist but would have to join the back of the 48 week queue to.

 

So we searched and found chemotherapy and Rituximab treatment abroad, we knew it would be expensive, would be a very difficult to travel (I won’t describe the journey here but it was one of the most difficult things we’ve ever done) and may not even help but we had to try. So we sold the house and spent 18 months abroad getting treatment.

 

The result now my wife completed chemotherapy and Rituximab is that my wife’s vision has improved a little bit so she can read again, it’s difficult to read but this has given her a world she can be in. Even though my wife’s quality of life is only a fraction of what it used to be, we have to be grateful that the treatment gave her some life back, without that it would have been unbearable. Her vision is still double, and she can’t move her eyes sideways, she still can’t eat solid food or open her jaw more than ¼ of an inch and is in constant pain, we’ve tried every available medicine and treatment for this. My wife still needs constant care, she has panic attacks even if I need to pop to the shop and needs help with everything. We’re hoping the chemotherapy and Rituximab will stop any further problems developing.

 

So that’s our story and why I’m here, on a website I never thought I’d need to use.

There’s so much more to write about the past 4 years and I really want to do it when I can. It’s not a nice story, it’s more like a horror story but maybe if people donate I can thank them by telling all of it one day.

https://paypal.me/needcaregiver?country.x=GB&locale.x=en_GB

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6 months of life knocking me down – need help to get back on my feet

Since December I have gone through a personal hell that only a few friends know the extent of. It started with a break up of a 2 year long distance relationship when I found out through a social media post that the guy I was involved with actually started dating someone else being my back. This lead to a mental health spiral that led me to be off work with depression and anxiety. Mid January I was supposed to go back to work as my Doctors note had run out, I wasn’t really ready to go back but thought I should try. The day before I was going back I got a call from my Area Manager to tell me I had been suspended pending investigation for numerous allegations. This hit me like a ton of bricks as I had no clue what was happening. That night my depression was so bad that I had thoughts of ending my life. I saw no way to get through this.
The next few days were hard and one night I spoke to a couple of friends, one to say that if anything happened to me could she come to the house and the other was to ask her to look after my cats. One told me to call the Samaritans, which I did, and the other called the Police and told them what I was attempting and they had to go round straight away. Unfortunately it wasn’t a cry for attention, this was a genuine act. The Police came and were amazing, so helpful and understanding. They contacting a married couple friends of mine and they came and stayed with me for a few hours. The Police came the next day to check up on me and called me the following week to make sure I was ok.
I was put on su***de watch and was under the Crisis Team. They wanted me to stay at the crisis house for a week but because of my boys I couldn’t, so they visited daily for 2 weeks. All this time work wanted me to attend meetings and hearings and answer loads of questions, they couldn’t understand or didn’t want to understand what I was going through and had no sympathy at all. A new Area Manager was taking on during this time who took over the hearing and she was superb and so supportive.
Bottom line, I lost my job. Of the allegations my deputy had said, including being a racist and using the n word, being abusive to volunteers, stealing money and stock and giving volunteers more than the pathetic 10% discount that the company allows, the only true one was the discount. I gave volunteers 50% (which I have later learnt that pretty much every manager does) and I gave them free items if they had worked really hard or had taken abuse from customers. It was gross misconduct and after nearly 7 years, they couldn’t trust me!
I had friends turn on me but also had true friends stand by me. It has come to light that the Deputy was using me as a patsy and was actually doing something highly illegal which I can’t go into because he is now suspended pending action. He was trying to take the spotlight off him by painting me to be a villain. Unfortunately that just put the spotlight on the store and his actions came to light, so it backfired.
The Police, my Doctor and the Derby Crisis Team were all amazing and so quick to help me. I felt so supported and it turned things around.
Unfortunately this isn’t the end of my woes. I had a string of things happen during this time. My boiler is leaking, my diabetes was going screwy. My car has gone wrong, it also needs 4 new tires. I got a speeding ticket on my birthday visiting my mum (4 miles over the limit) so had to pay for the speed awareness course. One of my teeth has gone bad and I can’t afford to have it removed. Milo one of my cats is poorly and has blown up like a balloon and the vet wanted to put him to sleep, which broke me. I can’t afford to get him sorted though and I need the fluid drained. And my other cats, Thackery has an eye infection and Barney is losing weight and is skin and bone because of his age.
And the big thing, because I was dismissed I cannot get full benefits. I wanted to claim housing benefit and I asked my landlord for proof of rent and a tenancy agreement but because he is a friend and has done me a huge favour in letting me live in his house, it was never an official thing and he never told the official people he had to tell, so he cannot give me anything to say I live there, so no benefits. January 2023 I would have been homeless so I will be forever grateful for his kindness. And he is going through lots of issues himself. My claim for help is in but it takes about 3 weeks if not more to process and because I was dismissed I won’t get full help.
Unfortunately, grateful doesn’t pay the bills or put food on the table.
So, this is where I have to come cap in hand asking for help. And I am so sorry as a 53 year old man I have to do this but I cannot see of anything else I can do. If anyone can please see it in their heart to donate anything I would be eternally grateful. I have less than £100 in the bank and nothing coming in. I am so sorry for this and I feel ashamed but I have been through so much. I am going for job interviews and trying to get back on my feet but keep getting knocked down. This is incredibly humbling for me, and I wish I had any other option and I am sorry to have to ask.
And I am sorry for the huge message. Thank you for your time x
My paypal is: paypal.me/DamonHatton

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Help me get out of the house and move to a downstairs flat or small house.

I have had two major heart surgery’s and cannot manage to get out on a weekly or monthly time scale. I have a wee flat that I own which is worth around £50,000 that I cannot sell. The local council own four of the six flats in the block and the stair well is in a terrible state I have asked them to paint this part of the building as two years ago they said they were going to do this, it has not been done and they are going to come out on the 18th of July to have a look at it. I have been stuck in the house for nearly  three years now and at age 69 it is a miserable prospect. I would just like someone to help me get a wee flat or house that would let me be able to sit out of a backdoor or Potter about in a wee garden. If you could help me it would be just till I am able to sell my wee flat, as no housing agency’s will help me as I am not in a property owned by the Local Housing Authorities. If you could help me I would be eternally grateful.  Thanking you for your help in this matter, even suggestions would help if possible. Thank You.

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HELP PROVIDE FOR OUR TWINS

  1. I am an NHS nurse who works full time and my husband is currently a full time student. We planned to have a baby and we ended up with twins. Having twins is a blessing but it comes with more expenses. Currently, we had to move to a bigger place to accommodate us all and rent is very expensive in UK. Buying baby food and baby stuffs for two is also expensive. We have run out of our savings at the moment and I am constantly thinking and worrying about my babies and what the future holds. The salary I receive as a nurse is barely enough to cover for our expenses due to the high cost of living situation. I am pleading with anyone to come to our aid and help us with any amount of money they can to supplement my income to look after my babies. Hopefully things will get easier for us. God bless

Paypalme account https://www.paypal.me/AngelAEhan

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I need help to get out of car repair debt

My name is Matthew and I have £5000 of credit card debit and owe £700 to my parents.

I took out a bank loan to buy the car. First mistake. I wish this kind of thing was taught in school. If i had taken out car finance I think a lot of my problems could have been avoided. Don’t get me wrong, I could afford the normal repayments so to me it made sense.

The car came with 6 months warranty and there were issues that were ‘sorted out’ with the turbo but the car ran great and it made me happy. After the warranty period passed the clutch went. I went to try contact the dealer, but they had stopped trading.  So that was £1000+ for a clutch and flywheel. A few months pass and the car starts having trouble changing gear. Needed a gearbox rebuild because the guy that replaced the clutch didn’t put the bolts in correctly and that wrecked something in there. Long story short, gearbox rebuild for £500 and a lot of he said she said. Some time passes and I notice my car starts drinking oil, which i keep topping up, but eventually the engine goes. Now i have a car loan on a car with a blown engine. I found a mechanic that would do an engine swap from a car from a wrecker. Swapped that one in and there was something wrong with it so it had to be taken out and swapped again. Mechanic still needed paid for labour. It drove for about a week then the same thing started happening again and the car was drinking oil. Back to the mechanic and in fairness he has done me a solid where he rebuilt me an engine out of the 3 and charged me very little labour and replaced the botch fixed turbo and egr cooler (i didnt know the dear had botched the fix on them). The car runs great now, i love it. My problem is the debt that its racked up. If anyone feels generous enough to help a guy out that made a bad decision id be grateful forever. It would take so much stress off my shoulders and enable my partner and I to start saving for a house.

Thanks.

https://paypal.me/mjohnston878

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Drowning in debt and I have no way out, please help me.

Hi there,
My name is Sam and I have fallen into a hole of debt that I can see no way out of, I now owe £22,700 in debt and this is my last chance to try and make it out alive.
Over the past month I fell victim to a cryptocurrency scam that drained me of all of my investments. I was going to withdraw this money at the end of the month to help pay for my mums rent as she was about to lose her place. After losing my money I went into debt to try and make my money back, and I lost it, so I had to take more debt out to help my mum.
I am now coming to the end of the month, with no way to pay my debts, I feel like the world is closing in around me, and like there is no place for me here anymore.
I’m so embarrassed I can’t even show you how I look.
This is my last effort of trying to get through this, so if you can, please can you help me.
Paypal link: @Sam12483
Thanks,
Sam

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I want more time with my son.

I have a son diagnosed buy the NHS with autism along with other issues. Myself and my wife work low paid Jobs. We have a mortgage with £48,500  left to pay.

if someone could help us clear that amount it would be life changing. We do therapy’s with our son at home but with that bill paid.
we could do more and be free to put it into our family. Early intervention is the key with autism and you would be helping us more than words could say. We would be so grateful. Thanks for reading

if you can please send Ethereum

address 0x3a3d397545706011a7173EE3c9D518c84eEd4b4C

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Urgent Appeal: Help me to complete my Master’s Degree

Dear all

My name is Chanaka. I live in Sheffield UK, and I am currently enrolled in the MSc Computing in the Sheffield Hallam University UK as an international student (started Sep/2023). I am pleased to share that, I have successfully completed my 1st semester in all the subjects with commendable marks, underscoring my commitment to the academic excellence that the university upholds. My main objective is to complete my master’s successfully.

I am writing to address a concern regarding the payment of the remaining course fee. My total MSc course fee is £ 14,385. As of now, I already made an initial payment of  £ 8,000 before the commencement of the course, and I made that payment from my home country before coming to the UK. Also, I am grateful for the opportunity to pursue my studies at Sheffield Hallam University.

However, I find myself facing a financial challenge that hinders my ability to make the remaining balance payment. A long years ago, my mother faced an accident, and I am grateful to share that she recovered and resumed her well-being. She manages her expenses through her pension. However, a few months ago, she required additional treatment, leading to unforeseen medical expenses. To support her during this time, I had to allocate my savings to cover the unexpected cost.

Due to non-payment, the university has initiated pre-exclusion measures, resulting in the blocking of my IT access since 08/04/2024. This has significantly impacted my ability to complete assignments and university tasks. To lift the IT block and continue my course, I am required to clear the outstanding balance of £ 6,385. Currently, I have paid an additional £ 3,000, leaving a remaining balance of £ 3,385. However, I am facing difficulties in sourcing this amount immediately, which is causing considerable mental distress.

I humbly request your understanding and support in finding the remaining course fee of £ 3,385. I am committed to providing full transparency by furnishing details of fees already paid to the university and my current academic standing if required. Your assistance during this challenging time would be immensely appreciated.

Attached below is my PayPal link for your convenience. Thank you for your understanding and support.

https://paypal.me/supporttomymsc?country.x=GB&locale.x=en_GB

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Can you help me

 

I am reaching out to you with a heavy heart and a sense of humility to seek your support during a challenging time in my life. I find myself in a situation where I am grappling with a significant amount of debt, and despite my best efforts, I am struggling to manage it effectively.

The burden of debt has been weighing heavily on my mind, affecting not only my financial stability but also my emotional well-being. I have been tirelessly working to overcome this obstacle, but it has proven to be an uphill battle. As much as I hate to admit it, I have reached a point where I cannot do it alone.

Your kindness, generosity, and understanding will be a source of inspiration for me. Therefore, I am turning to you in my time of need, hoping that you might consider extending a helping hand. Any assistance you could provide, no matter how small, would make a world of difference to me.

Your support would not only alleviate my immediate financial struggles but also offer me the hope and motivation I need to move forward with renewed determination.

Thank you for taking the time to consider my request. Your kindness and generosity would mean the world to me.

www.paypal.me/cjohnsonb92

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home restoration

 

In the midst of the holiday season’s festivities, our family faced an unexpected tragedy. On December 23rd, a devastating fire swept through our home, leaving us without shelter and stripping away the tools we rely on for our livelihoods. My wife, our three children, and I now find ourselves in a precarious situation, grappling not only with the loss of our residence but also with the challenge of rebuilding our lives from the ground up.

Adding to the complexity of our situation, my wife is currently unemployed, and my own employment situation lacks stability, with no permanent job prospects on the horizon. The fire also consumed my pickup truck, along with all of my tools, leaving me without the means to provide for my family.

Amidst the chaos, we are grateful for the kindness of a dear friend who has provided us with temporary housing. Their generosity has been a beacon of hope in our darkest hour, offering us a safe haven during this tumultuous time.

Unfortunately, we were forced to leave behind our cherished pets – a dog and a cat – as we evacuated our home. The separation has been particularly difficult for our children, who dearly miss their furry companions. Despite the challenges we face, we are committed to ensuring the well-being of our pets, though providing for them has been a daily struggle.

As we navigate this uncertain journey, we hold onto the belief that with resilience, perseverance, and the support of our community, we will overcome these obstacles. Although the road ahead may be long and arduous, we remain determined to rebuild our lives and emerge stronger from this adversity.

Your assistance in this endeavor would be immensely appreciated as we work towards reclaiming what was lost. We thank you from the bottom of our hearts for any support you can offer during this challenging time.

During this challenging time, we find ourselves reaching out for assistance as we endeavor to rebuild our lives after a devastating loss. The fire that consumed our home and belongings has left us in dire need of support. Our aim is to raise $40,000 to aid in our recovery efforts. Every contribution, regardless of size, brings us one step closer to achieving this goal.

We understand that many are facing their own challenges, which is why we are humbly asking for your support with a donation. Together, we are seeking to raise an initial $10,000, which would be a significant step forward on our journey towards rebuilding.

If you feel inclined to contribute, please consider making a donation to our PayPal account at paypal.me/delsonoctave. Your generosity and compassion mean the world to us, and we are incredibly grateful for any assistance you can offer.

Together, we can overcome this adversity and emerge stronger than ever before. Thank you for your consideration and support during this difficult time. paypal.me/delsonoctave

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Seeking startup capital for open a restaurant

Hello, Thank you in advance for reading my message. My name is Jean, I am 28 years old and I have worked almost all my life in the hospitality industry. I started working in Spain and now I am working in London and my great passion is to be able to open my own restaurant.

I am not looking for free money, I am looking for a partner with whom he supports me with the money so that I can open the business. It is clear that I would have a part of the business until all the borrowed money returned. Once all the money is returned, it would still have a percentage of the business.

My idea is to be able to open a fancy restaurant with Italian food (pasta and meats) in one of the most important locations in central London such as:

Kensington high street

Covent gardens

Oxford Street

Marylebone high street

Etc

I would love for the decoration to be striking, lights, elegant that people go enjoy homemade food, drink, wines and cocktails, take photos and videos.

I want to grow and be able to form a group of restaurants in the future and of course I would like the person who helped me from the beginning to be in the growth of the company.

I’ve been finding out everything about renting and buying restaurants.

If you buy a business the minimum they ask you are 300k plus the change of interior design, restaurant name, licenses, propaganda and staff would reach more than 500k. I know it’s a lot of money that’s why I’ve been looking at the rental option that would be minimum the first month between 30-50k only rent, bills and staff.

I have all the details needed for this business and I would like to be able to count on the support of someone and I would be willing to talk about everything, whether via email, zoom, call, WhatsApp or in person to resolve doubts, modify or change the details of the project.

My email is: 19jotav@gmail.com

Any help to be able to achieve my dream would be grateful and returned.

https://www.paypal.me/jeanandrade674