My Dad passed away in 2013 and his sudden death was a huge impact to our family especially my mom who nearly went into depression. I was careful with her emotional and mental state and i am thankful that she is fine mentally. As i am the eldest in my family, i took up the role to manage the family. While i was working to make ends meet, i was also studying for my degree. Where my salary was not sufficient, i tap on credit cards to help me out financially. I thought i was able to manage until my mom and my health went under the weather. My mom and myself went for surgeries on different years and that puts stress and burden on me and my family financially. I realised that i was getting little breathless in paying all the interest and dues for the credit cards.
However, being the eldest, i try to provide as much as possible to my family. On top of that, i gave almost half of my pay to my mom as pocket money or household expenditures as she is no longer working due to her health.
Few years later, i fell in love and got married. Though He was a great guy, he was just starting his first actual career (he was already in his 30s then). Again, the vivacious cycle continues as i tap on the credit cards to live my life and manage 2 households now after marriage.
I thought i could continue to work and get my salary and pay. But i realised the amount has come up to about $65,000 and every month on pay day, my salary is cleared out in seconds. I barely has some money left. And i am worried about my mom’s health. What if there is an emergency and i do not have any extra to help out. My cards has been maxed out i couldn’t rely on that. I am financially stressed and i am also facing some new work demands which are draining me mentally and physically. I am usually quite an optimistic person. But my work demands and the financial stress is consuming me alive. I thought of changing my work so that mentally i am sane and my blood pressure doesn’t goes up to 200/120. But leaving this job would also means i will have lesser financial means to pay for the outstanding amount that is due monthly. With my mom due for another 2 surgeries and me on constant checkup.. How could i help more when i am not having extra to help my family. I would need $65,000 to clear my cards so as to free myself up to continue to care for my family and the ability to change a job that can let me stay sane. I chance upon this website and perhaps its a god-sent opportunity for a change to take place. I believe in the kindness of people. I humbly ask for kind soul like you to give a helping hand and empower me the ability to go on in life and to continue to provide the necessity and support to my family. Any amount counts. 🙏 please click the link below to make a difference in someone’s life. I am appreciative.🙏❤