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Last Updated: September 28, 2024

***URGENT – Medical & Livelihood Financial Needs***

My name is Desi.  I am asking for funds to prepare for a corrective surgery in the abdominal area in October from the stomach bypass and will require at least 4 months to recover. I also have an urgent car loan and extensive repairs totaling $9,073.00 currently as a result of the high mileage placed on the car from my job as a deliverer of medical materials/supplies and driver for patients – need this by Wednesday, October 2.  Currently, my outstanding bills total $46,560.00.  For the corrective surgery and 4 months of recovery, my bills will be a grand total of $85,620.00.

I have always been challenged. But, I trust God, His process and live my life going beyond my means.  In the last few months, I have been sick, quickly lost 30 lbs. plus in a few weeks and have been unable to sleep. I am having eating and abdominal/stomach problems because of scar tissue and the obstructed area provides a small opening from my stomach bypass.  I do not have an appetite. I am scheduled to have extensive test and possibly surgery in October. I have been challenged to keep up with my medical bills, a loan and repairs of my car and monthly livelihood bills.

My story does not start just this year upon asking for your help.  It started before I was born. At birth, I was diagnosed with “arthrogryposis” (which is arthritis, polio, and visually have clubbed hands and feet with no ankles and wrist bones). As a result, I was identified as disabled, having extreme physical challenges of living a normal life with handling things with my hands and walking with my feet. From childhood to adulthood, I had millions of dollars worth of surgeries to maximize my independence.  I also had a stomach bypass as an adult to help my short and small body frame maneuver better – my weight was too heavy for my body frame. However, none of this hasn’t slowed me down at all.

As a child with a crutch or two, I played football, basketball, whatever I wanted to do. As a youth at just two years old, I served at Eastern Star Church of God & Christ as the drummer and this helped me develop a great love and appreciation for music. I played in my high school military-style marching band.  I am currently serving as the Minister of Music at my church where I have been a member for over 20 years. Then in giving back to the community and through travel, I live fully in my purpose mentoring and supporting the youth and adults in their musical endeavors.

One of my greatest accomplishments in life is building a beautiful family with a wife and two wonderful children (Dr. C’monee & Ethan).  You see, I was never supposed to be able to get married and have a child. As a result of getting married, I became ineligible to receive disability benefits.  I vowed to God and my wife that I would take care of my family, again going beyond my means.  As everyone else does, I work full time driving and picking-up/delivering medical supplies and tests, and transporting patients to/from their appointments.

My 1st wife, Monique got terminally ill with cancer and passed.  The two most beautiful and loving things that Monique did before she passed was take my last name as her own and introduce me to my 2nd wife Sonja. Sonja and I would be married 4 years after Monique passed. As I promised God and Monique, I also promised Sonja that I would take care of her.

I am in urgent need of your help. Sonja and I primarily depend on my income to sustain ourselves. I currently have:

  • Medical bills
  • Car loan and repair bills
  • Business loan
  • Mortgage
  • Utilities
  • Cable/Internet/emergency landline
  • Cell phones

In closing again, I am so grateful for all of your help in allowing me to live my life to the fullest in purpose and beyond my means.

Again, thank you, thank you, thank you.

My PayPal account is PayPal.Me/DesiCombs213.

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: September 28, 2024

Emergency Financial Assistance

My name is Destiny Marshall. I’m in need of immediate rental assistance. I have tried to contact multiple sources for help but all of their funds are exhausted. I have until the first to pay the balance on my rent, which is $1,958.70. That is what is due from last month that I couldn’t get help for and my October rent combined. My husband being laid off and me starting my new job after the loss of my father the bills have outweighed the income, in the beginning of him being laid off we have already exhausted our credit cards and loan options which now unfortunately have just added to our debt. I have four children, two of which of enrolled in Middletown City Schools as of right now, One of the two being special needs. In October of 2023 I fell asleep at the wheel of my van and crash into a tree totalling my van that I had only had for maybe a couple of months. So insurance payed off my car but only left us $900 which was not going to get us into a vehicle. We have since only had our 1 car which unfortunately doesn’t even fit us all and makes both us working full time jobs very difficult We just recently moved to Middletown in January into our first house. Everything was looking up for us meeting a goal that we arrived for to give our family. In July, My husband was laid off and told he could return in 3 months but they have yet to give him his job back and due to us only having one vehicle it hasn’t been easy for him to try to find something that works with mine and the kids schedules. I was with a great company for 4 years but after loosing my father unexpectedly in July My hours were cut and so I found a job doing what I love making a little more money and closer to home. Our landlord has worked with us the last month but everywhere I try to get rental assistance from I am unfortunately being told they no longer have funds available. We are still struggling as a family of 6 with a single car and our oldest having special needs not even having room for his adaptive equipment. I just want my family to be able to sustain having a roof over our heads and having two reliable vehicles. We do everything we possibly can to give our children everything they need and want to the best of our abilities. Anything could help and everything is appreciated.
paypal.me/destlaryl95

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: September 28, 2024

Appel à la générosité : Votre soutien, notre espoir

Chers amis,

Je vous écris aujourd’hui pour vous partager une épreuve personnelle et solliciter votre aide. En décembre dernier, j’ai été hospitalisé suite à un problème cardiaque soudain. Depuis cet événement bouleversant, ma vie a changé de manière radicale. Bien que je me batte chaque jour pour retrouver une certaine stabilité, mes problèmes cardiaques m’empêchent désormais de travailler comme je le faisais auparavant.

Récemment, un autre imprévu est venu aggraver la situation : mon chauffage est tombé en panne, et avec l’hiver qui approche à grands pas, cela devient une urgence. Je dois trouver une solution pour réparer ou remplacer le système de chauffage avant que les températures ne baissent davantage.

Aillent déjà des dettes que je ne peux plus augmenter sans risquer une faillite personnelle. Cette situation est difficile à vivre, et même si je n’aime pas demander de l’aide, je réalise aujourd’hui que cela est devenu une nécessité incontournable.

J’ai besoin de votre soutien pour m’aider à traverser cette période difficile, réparer mon chauffage, et subvenir à mes besoins essentiels sans augmenter mes dettes peut être la diminuer. Chaque contribution, même la plus modeste, fera une grande différence dans ma situation.

Comment m’aider?

Si vous souhaitez m’aider, vous pouvez faire un don voici mon
iban :  CH47 8080 8009 0936 6622 6

code BIC/Swift: RAIFCH22XXX

Je vous remercie du fond du cœur pour votre générosité, votre bienveillance et pour le soutien que vous pourrez m’apporter dans cette période délicate.

Merci infiniment.

 

Dear friends,

I am writing to you today to share a personal challenge and to ask for your help. Last December, I was hospitalized due to a sudden cardiac issue. Since that life-altering event, my life has drastically changed. While I fight every day to regain some stability, my heart condition now prevents me from working as I used to.

Recently, another unforeseen event has worsened the situation: my heating system broke down, and with winter fast approaching, this has become an urgent issue. I must find a solution to repair or replace the heating system before temperatures drop further.

I am already dealing with debts that I cannot increase without risking personal bankruptcy. This situation is difficult to bear, and even though I do not like asking for help, I realize today that it has become an unavoidable necessity.

I need your support to help me through this challenging period, to fix my heating system, and to meet my essential needs without increasing my debt – perhaps even to reduce it. Any contribution, however small, will make a significant difference in my situation.

How to help me?

If you wish to assist, you can make a donation to my account:

IBAN: CH47 8080 8009 0936 6622 6

BIC/Swift Code: RAIFCH22XXX

I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your generosity, kindness, and the support you can offer during this difficult time.

Thank you so much.

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: EU

Last Updated: September 27, 2024

Desperate and despondent

I’m out of ideas, lost, and about to lose it all. My husband and I are both hard working blue color people in a nurse and he’s a Welder/ machine operator.  My husband was injured at work earlier this year, he completely severed his right bicep (his dominant arm) and has been struggling with recovery.  Previously a veritable mountain of a man now struggles to lift a gallon of milk.  He always prided himself in doing the work of 3 people, which is frankly what caused the injury, his hard working nature was taken advantage of.  I’ve been nursing a severe knee injury for the last 3 years, I haven’t had it looked at because time and money make this impossible.  We are barely scraping by and now with him having been off money has been even tighter,  causing me to max out my credit.  I’ve been taking all the overtime I can handle to support us and our 3 children all while in mind numbing pain.  I’ve always helped everyone around me as has my husband but it would seem now that we’re the ones needing help everyone has disappeared. I never ask for hand outs or even a helping hand but I have nowhere else to turn

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: September 27, 2024

A CALL TO HOPE: THE STORY OF A DREAM THAT NEEDS US ALL

HISTORIAS REALES DE LA ESCUELA BENÉVOLA DE ARTES Y OFICIOS PARA LA INDUSTRIALIZACIÓN

Desde 2018, la ONG DE GRACIA RECIBISTEIS es más que un refugio para madres solteras y niños huérfanos. Ha sido un faro de luz en la oscuridad para aquellos que no tienen a dónde ir, un espacio donde no solo se encuentra consuelo y apoyo, sino también una oportunidad para cambiar sus vidas para siempre. A lo largo de estos años, hemos contado con el apoyo de muchas personas de buen corazón que han entendido la importancia de elevar esta parte más vulnerable de la sociedad. Tenemos registros de nuestras actividades, de las donaciones que hemos recibido y de las visitas de figuras importantes que han recorrido nuestras instalaciones, conmovidos por el impacto que estamos causando.

Pero hay una realidad que nos duele profundamente: no tenemos suficientes patrocinadores para cubrir todos los gastos del Centro. Desafortunadamente, muchos de nuestros estudiantes continúan enfrentando la incertidumbre de un mañana desconocido. Sabemos que aprender un oficio es mucho mejor que vivir en dependencia de otros. Por eso, a pesar de todas las dificultades, hemos matriculado a más de 1.000 alumnos. Cada niño, cada madre, representa una historia de lucha, de superación y de esperanza. Y lo hacemos, a pesar de todo, porque creemos firmemente que el conocimiento es la herramienta más poderosa para cambiar sus vidas.

Hoy nos enfrentamos a un reto aún mayor: necesitamos renovar uno de los edificios de la escuela, pero nos faltan meses de recursos, sillas para los alumnos, pizarras y tantas otras herramientas básicas que hacen posible la educación. A pesar de estos desafíos, continuamos ofreciendo inscripción gratuita porque sabemos que no podemos dar la espalda a quienes más nos necesitan.

Queremos invitar a todos los que lo deseen a contribuir. Su apoyo, por pequeño que sea, puede cambiar la vida de cientos de estudiantes necesitados. Cada donación es otra oportunidad para que un niño o una madre soltera aprenda un oficio, crezca por sus propios esfuerzos y deje de depender de los demás.

La ONG DE GRACIA RECIBISTEIS no es solo una institución; Es un faro de esperanza en un mundo que a menudo olvida a los más vulnerables. Con su ayuda, podemos seguir cambiando vidas y asegurarnos de que cada uno de estos estudiantes tenga la oportunidad de construir un futuro mejor.

El monto recaudado es de $200,000 para la renovación y compra de mesas, sillas, pizarras, gabinetes y suministros de oficina. La ONG tiene un historial de transparencia con las autoridades y el público en general. También contamos con toda la documentación necesaria para demostrar nuestro compromiso con todos aquellos que aportan su parte.

Con su contribución de solo 1 dólar, estamos seguros de que juntos podemos alcanzar los $200,000. Cada pequeño gesto cuenta, y tu ayuda es esencial para lograr este objetivo. ¡Unamos fuerzas y marquemos la diferencia!

PayPal: ongdgrvicepresidente@gmail.com

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: Africa

Last Updated: September 26, 2024

Any assistance is greatly appreciated! With kind blessings

I hope this message finds you well. I am writing to you with a heavy heart, as I find myself in a difficult situation that has left me in urgent need of financial assistance. Recently, my 16-year-old child was diagnosed with cellulitis, which resulted in significant medical expenses. Unfortunately, our insurance company denied coverage for these costs, citing it as a pre-existing condition. As a result, I had no choice but to borrow money to cover the medical bills, and I now find myself in debt to the tune of $30,000 AUD.
This financial burden has been incredibly overwhelming for me and my family. In addition to managing this debt, I am a foster carer for children who have complex emotional and behavioral issues stemming from their traumatic backgrounds. I am deeply committed to providing them with the support and stability they need to thrive. However, the stress of my current financial situation has made it increasingly challenging to focus on their needs and well-being.
Moreover, I personally struggle with several health issues, including fibromyalgia, intercranial hypertension, and high blood pressure. These conditions often leave me fatigued and in pain, making it difficult to manage my responsibilities effectively. Balancing my health challenges with the demands of fostering children and dealing with significant financial strain has become an uphill battle.
I have always believed in giving back to my community, particularly by helping individuals with disabilities find their way in life. Despite my own struggles, I strive to uplift others and create a positive impact. However, the weight of this debt is hindering my ability to continue this important work.
I am reaching out in hopes of finding support during this challenging time. Any assistance you could provide would not only help alleviate my financial burden but also enable me to focus on my health and continue fostering children who need love and care. Your generosity could make a profound difference in our lives.
Thank you for considering my request. I appreciate your time and understanding.

Regards and blessings, Betty

paypal.me/blessings284

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: Australia & New Zealand

Last Updated: September 24, 2024

Drowning and asking for help

Hi.. I feel a bit stupid writing this but I have found my back against a wall.

Around a year ago I found myself in a bad situation with a partner which has left me in a fair amount of debt (AU $16,000). These were debts that are in my name and I am responsible for.

The relationship ended and I have been making the payments. A month ago however I had to stop working due to medical issues. I am working through those issues and looking for suitable employment.

While I am unemployed I am unable to cover even the minimum repayments along with bills and groceries.

I have tried talking to the debt holders but if they lower the repayments it will screw me for even longer. If I can’t pay my bills I will end up on the street. I’m desperate. I have tried asking family and friends who are unfortunately unable to help, so now I turn to internet strangers. If you can help in any small way I would be so appreciative. I will also be paying it forward when I am back on my feet.

Please

 

paypal.me/VanessaWheatley

 

 

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: Australia & New Zealand

Last Updated: September 21, 2024

To make the collapsing roof of the home

First of all, thank you for considering reading this. I live with my old parents. My parents are 85 and 78 and have no income. The father receives a monthly allowance of 1,900 rupees ($6.33 per month) from the government, barely enough for two days’ worth of food. They have been sick for a long time.

I am working and I get a monthly salary of Rs 48000 (US$ 160 per month). A lot of things have to be done with that salary. Salary has to be spent very sparingly. I pay all our expenses like food expenses, medical expenses, bill payments, loan installments. As the salary is not enough for daily expenses, I do a little self-employment. My mother is  hearing impaired. She wants to buy a hearing aid.

But that is not my question. Our entire family is affected by the roof that is going to collapse in my house. I  Can’t even get a loan because the salary is not enough. I am from Sri Lanka. The economic condition of our country also affects it. I am very depressed. I try not to think about it, but I always see the roof when I go to sleep. It seems to fall on our heads at any moment.The area where we live gets rain all the time so the house is always wet with rainwater. Rainwater leaking from the roof wakes us up from deep sleep. It is stressful for my parents as well as unhealthy.

This house was built by my father and the roof is made of wood and tiles taken from an old house.That is why the house’s walls are in good condition but the roof is rotten. I already have some wood for the roof. More wood, roofing sheets, nails, etc. must be purchased. Labor hire is required to construct the roof. But I have no money to spend.

If I wait any longer, we may be in danger. I want my parents to live the little time they have left without difficulty. I am currently unable to find the money for it. A friend of mine told me about this site. I tried internet business for a while and I have the PayPal address created for it. That’s why I thought of asking for money in this way. I hope you understand my situation. The estimated cost for the roof is $4000. If we get your help, we will be able to live freely without fear. Thank you again for taking the time to read this to end.    

Thank you.

PayPal me : https://paypal.me/sra593

 

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: Asia

Last Updated: September 21, 2024

My electricity is going to be shut off!!!

Hi and thanks for reading this.

my name is Bonnie, I am 61 years old and I have run out of options. My electricity is scheduled to be shut off on Monday, September 23rd – just a few days from now.

There are several reasons I’m desperate to not have that happen. First, I have severe sleep apnea and use an ASV machine (similar to CPAP or BIPAP) every night when I sleep, I am diabetic and need to refrigerate my insulin, I am disabled due to mental illness and need my phone to reach out for help if needed and I have been hospitalized three times this year for an infection resulting in sepsis at one point and need to keep my phone charged in case I get sick again and need emergency services. Sepsis can be fatal if not treated right away. On top of all of that, I would lose all the food in my refrigerator and freezer and can’t afford to replace it.
It is so difficult for me to ask for help but I have no choice at this point. With a list that long and the fact that I have exhausted all other options I am forced to reach out and seek the kindness of strangers. I am a survivor of childhood emotional abuse and neglect, childhood sexual abuse, 16 years of domestic violence and a complete mental breakdown. I have fought hard to become a survivor and speak openly about it in hopes that I will be a good role model and/or a positive influence on others that may be, or know someone that may be, affected by any of those things. I believe in paying it forward when able and truly hope that someone who needs it will hear my words.
I am no stranger to struggles and I’m a strong individual but I find myself unable to find a resolution to the problem I am currently facing.   If anyone out there could find it in their heart to help me raise the $2000 I need to cover my past due electricity bill I will be forever grateful.
Thanks for listening,

B Its PayPal.me/BonnieWoodhead

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: September 20, 2024

Desperate to Bond Out!

Hello, my name is Piper and I am trying to help my partner bond out of jail at Adams County Detention Center. His combined total bond is sitting up there at $18,000 so with a bondsman I would need about $1800. He is in there for missing court due to the inconvenience of experiencing homelessness. He finally got an opportunity to move into a low income apartment and is missing his opportunity by being stuck in jail. If there’s anyway you can help me please Cashapp $PiperShepherd94 or PayPal chakraplasticity@gmail.com/ Piper Shepherd

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: September 17, 2024

Please Help a Single Mom with a Rare Disease…

I am writing to you today to seek any help due to a significant medical hardship that has impacted my life and financial stability.

I was diagnosed with Rare spinal disease called Adhesive Arachnoiditis 4 years ago. Since then, I have undergone 12 surgeries and 8 procedures,I had 5 surgeries last year which have not only been physically and emotionally draining but have also put me in a difficult financial position and living from couch to couch.

Despite having [health insurance], I am facing substantial medical bills, and my condition has affected my ability to work, resulting in a loss of income and living from place to place i have no help besides receiving EBT.

I am a mother of 3 beautiful kids,I do not work cause i have issues walking and im in extreme pain 24/7 cause of my disease.

Given these circumstances, I respectfully request any help. This support would significantly alleviate my financial burden and allow me to focus more on my recovery and health and being able to take care of my children.

Thank you very much for your time and consideration of my situation. I look forward to your understanding and a positive response. Please feel free to contact me at [Mariaadelina.407@gmail.com] should you need any further information or clarification.

Sincerely,Maria

cashapp:$Mariaadelina1386

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: September 17, 2024

A drop of water in the desert, a lightning bolt in the sky


Let me introduce myself. My name is Gwladys. As I write, I’m mother of four children and my book, “Happiness,
my best Friend” is about to be published by www.austinmacauley.com.

You’re thinking: “So everything’s going well for her. why does she need some financial help?” Indeed, what I need is an act of kindness. To understand why, let’s go back eight (8) years ago.

Eight (8) years ago, I left my country to join my future husband in France. I was so self-confident then. No challenge frightened me. In fact, I have a bachelor degree in human resources and an associate degree in accounting. I speak English and French fluently, and I’ve always believed that difficulties are lessons that lead to higher levels of awareness, knowledge and openness. And my big faults were: pride, stubbornness and perfectionism. My father always said it would be nice if I knew how to ask for help. Eight years of material hardship taught me humility.

Once in France, I studied music therapy and took care of handicapped children. However, we lived in a small village, for peace, calm and love of nature. I had to work odd hours and couldn’t take the bus. So I gave up looking after disabled children because I didn’t have a car. I used to borrow my husband’s car, but he found a job with better paid than mine.

I wanted to try jobs that fitted in with my qualifications. In France, I was told that my diplomas were worthless. I was offered the chance to take tests to train as a receptionist for doctors’ surgeries. Although I passed all tests, the training was offered to a Frenchwoman. I wanted to start at the very bottom of the civil service by taking competitive exams, but I couldn’t because I didn’t have French nationality.

I must admit I was disgusted. Then we had our three children and, as we were always short of money, I devoted myself to looking after them at home. Despite having studied seven years beyond high school, my husband found himself doing nothing but odd jobs. He was French, but had studied in Italy. So no, he was considered like me: without diplomas. So he focused on hard jobs so that we wouldn’t lack anything.

We had enough to eat, clothe the children and send them to school. We didn’t have any extras: no extra money for vacations, new car, or the kids’ activities. But we were happy. We like simple things: walking in the woods.

Socially, we were rejected. In our little village, material poverty was a contagious disease. And inevitably, the arguments began. He was tired of the hard jobs and the constant problems we had. I was ready to leave. But then something happened.

I love reading. I read a lot about neuroscience and lots of books on personal development. I’d forgotten to mention. Just before the birth of my eldest, I had caught a very rare virus (SHAG) and ended up with a general anesthetic and a cesarean section. For two years, I couldn’t remember anything. I couldn’t say words, cook without recipes or drive a car. I had panic attacks. But I was absolutely convinced that everything would be all right. After all, I’d always been brilliant at school. So I spent some time trying to understand how the human brain works.

And with help of music therapy, I tried a lot of sound wave therapies. Then something clicked. I wanted to write, and nine months later, the book “Happiness, my best friend” was born. It was the greatest gift I’d ever been given. I got all answers to my unhapiness. Better still, I spent the most beautiful nine months of my life: joy, contentment, euphoria, wonder. Better still, I told myself that there might be people like me who had reached the end of the tunnel and that this book could help them. The publishing house was incredibly happy to have found me. And I got a good contract. But ?????

Yes, very quickly I understood that it was a house of great renown, which liked to do things right: 6 months for production, a year for publicity before doing the accounts and paying the author. Plus I signed a participatory contract where I had to pay £5500. Any normal person would jump up and down, but not me. I’d just spent two (2) years self-publishing and I spent 130€ every month on the web master, the advertising agency and the pro bank. I also paid a lot for Facebook ads, website creation, Pinterest ads, etc…. I did pretty well. However, I closed the website, my micro-business and I owe 3250€ to the translator and 650€ to a friend. In fact, my French book was translated into English and Italian and put on the website. My husband was very unhappy because he felt we couldn’t afford all those expenses.

Then I took out a personal loan of €8,500, thanks to my publishing contract, to help with household expenses. I had small contracts for translation and AI enhancement with Tellus, Neevo and Oneforma. Soon, with the new baby, I couldn’t do it anymore. Maybe I’d given too much. I couldn’t pay my debts.

There was a time when I wished someone would solve all my problems for me. I’ve discovered that these problems have led to the creation of such a magnificent book, and I’m about to write a second one: “the storms of marriage”. What I’d like today is to be able to pay off my debts of $21,017 (£5500 + €8500 + €3250 + €600) and have a surplus of $15,000 (for the next few months), just long enough to reorganize. I see this boost like water found in the desert after a too long walk.

Of course, I would love to change our old car, or do some work on our house, or go on vacation with the kids. However, if I can pay off my debts and benefit from a surplus, I’d be delighted.

Whoever you are, I realize that you owe me nothing. So I’d like to say thank you whatever your decision and especially thank you for taking some time to read my story.

Here’s my paypal link: https://paypal.me/Behappy552?country.x=FR&locale.x=fr_FR

Thank you again.

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: EU

Last Updated: September 17, 2024

Diar Need for Help

I’m a single mom of a 17 year old young lady. I must say that I am very green when it comes to borrowing or asking for money.  I’m the type of person that if I can’t buy it, I don’t need it. At this point in time I have no choice. It has taken me a week to come and post this, but we’re in diar need for some help and I have no one that can help me, so here I am.

It all started on September 3, 2020 I woke up and got ready for work like I always have, not knowing my life would be totally changed by that afternoon. I worked for Louisiana Department of Children and Family Services as a case analyst. A co- worker and I were on our wayback to the office to call it a day. We we setting at a red light when we were then rear-ended. I don’t remember much of it except for the excruciating pain and telling my coworker I couldn’t move. Next thing I know is paramedics we’re putting a neck brace on me and putting me onto the gurney.

On April of 2001, I ended up having to have neck surgery because of the accident, which now makes me disabled and unable to work due to the surgery and back injuries.

While on medical leave for my surgery, I was terminated from LADCFS by my review stating (summing it up) that I refused to follow orders from management and i wasnt learning fast enough. Which it basically meant that I did not to take children out of their homes, away from their families and into the state’s custody. So by that, I lost my job, a nice income.

I’m still receiving workman’s comp disability. My bills got behind but before I ran out of my savings I called each one of my creditors and asked to use my insurance that I purchased for my credit cards or if they had some type of hardship assistance. Needless to say, I was denied both and was told that they would not look at my account until I was further in debt. My credit cards started going into collections, along with a few judgements.

Then on May 7, 2024 I almost lost my son in a collision with a big rig. His truck was totalled and I thought I’d never see him again, but thank God, he was able to walk away from it with a rod in his leg, so he could walk again, and several scars. He’s doing great now walking with a little limp, but he’s here and walking.

This has all taken a toll on me, not to mention the overdue bills, especially an overdue electricity bill that I have been having to pay an extra $100 on a month. This is all so very hard to do especially when you can’t even do for yourself much because you have limited movement and at times you can’t even walk.

Doctors still do not know what is wrong with my back from the accident in 2020. They’ve said possible surgery but they want to do more injection procedures first to see if that helps me be able to walk, stand and sit normally because I can hardly stand to take a shower, but I fight through the pain to get it done.

All I do really know is I have to keep fighting to keep my head above water so that I can pay off my truck ($28,000) and I can get us a forever home. Then when I got my check over $450 was taken out of my bank account, for God only knows what but that money was part of half of my truck note, so now I’m a half of a month behind on that and still fighting with the company that took my money.

Now I have to figure out what to do so that my checking account doesn’t go south with everything else, which it probably will. It’s already hard to make it on the income that I have, but now it’s even harder to catch up.

My father was helping me financially, but now he says that he can’t help us anymore, because he’s paying his girlfriend’s bills and he’s retiring in October even though the deal when I moved here, was that my father would pay all the utilities for me and my kids, which consists of the electricity, gas, and water. It’s mostly because it’s his house and all the utilities are in his name but he doesn’t live here.

I wish angels would come and assist me with these financial burdens. That way me and my daughter can move back around my mama where we know we would live happily ever after.

I was able to get in touch with FHA, but since all my credit cards had messed up my credit I have to get that taken care of first. It will take at least $1,000 to fix my credit, so that we can move into our forever home and we would finally have a house that we can call ours. If those angels are reading this and can assist me financially, I would be forever grateful.

https://www.paypal.me/lissa111818

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: September 16, 2024

I need a new water heater – installed!

My brother recommended this website to me, despite knowing I prefer helping other people… not asking for it.  I moved back in with my folks over 12 years ago, to help around the house because my mother had such back problems, she couldn’t clean, cook or do much of anything else physical.  She had 3 back surgeries – the first two, didn’t help much.  The third one eventually was the one that really fixed her back problems, so she would have better mobility with little pain.

Sadly, my father never got to see her recover fully from her back surgery and have a more normal life, as he unexpectedly died – 4 days before Christmas 2013.  It’s been my mother and I since he died, and I made it a point to make sure she was happy as much as possible, since she missed him so much (they were married for 50 years)!  She died almost 2 years ago, and I’m sure she lived as long as she did… because I was here and kept her spirits happy!!

This is where things got really bad.  Two days after she died, the water heater blew (literally… it was spewing water from the top of it – fortunately, I was home and turned the water off within a minute of it happening, to prevent flood damage everywhere).  My mother’s retirement/social security was what paid all the bills.  I was already deeply depressed, after losing my mother – and my best friend.  We ate our meals together (I did most of the cooking, but let her help when it wasn’t too taxing on her physically); we watched TV together – even if it wasn’t my favorite shows… just to keep her company; and I took her shopping, when it was a store she really wanted to go to (I did all the mundane shopping for food, supplies, etc.).

I am still without a water heater!  I was planning on buying a water heater at the beginning of January 2023, but the state of California passed a law that mandated ALL natural gas water heaters must be Low-NOX compliant or something like that.  I “had” the money to buy a 40-gallon water heater – but that was for the model that didn’t have that new requirement – the newer model was one-third higher in cost, putting it over a thousand dollars!  That put me into a downward spiral of depression, not knowing what I was going to do.  I had a limited amount of savings, but spent more time trying to figure out how I was going to get a cheaper water heater… instead of just biting the bullet and just getting it (being depressed REALLY screws-up clear thinking – at least I don’t drink or do drugs).  If I would have just bought the more expensive water heater, I could have gotten a job back at the beginning of 2023 – without worrying if I could bathe quickly, so I could function normally.  Heating water in large pots on the stove top and putting them into clean 5-gallon buckets to use in the bathtub… made bathing a “3-hour” process.  That made me MORE depressed, from the start of heating the water, until the time I was finally able to finish.  I called several agencies in my city, so see if there was a way around that expensive water heater, but to no avail.  After a month or so, I gave up… and also found out that available job was no longer available.

I’ve used up all of my savings, and though that job is available again (and I “am” going to take it)… I *REALLY* need a new water heater!  If I am lucky, I will be able to keep paying my monthly bills, but I can’t afford to buy a water heater.  I haven’t taken “a shower” in almost 2 years!!  Although I still bathe with water heated on the stove, it is a VERY difficult and time-consuming process.  I don’t know if I would have the time to install a water heater on my own (or if I can even do it), and there’s been a change in the code for installation requirements – which I’m not sure I can do correctly.  I made a few calls, and it’s looking like a cost of around $3000.00 (probably to correct some of the non-compliance things my father and I didn’t do on the last one we installed).  There’s also going to be a gap (lag?) in my ability to pay my bills at the beginning of next month, based on when I start working and what I’ll have earned by the time I start getting paychecks.  I’m also not sure what the take-home pay will be exactly, after taxes.

I would like to get at least $5000.00 (that’s 5 thousand, not 500 thousand) – in case there are unexpected expenses on the water heater replacement, and to make sure I keep the lights on and so forth.

https://paypal.me/KenInSanDiego

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: September 14, 2024

Subject: Urgent Plea for Help to Avoid Homelessness for My Disabled Daughter and Myself

 

 

Your Honour,

I write to you today with a heart heavy with desperation and fear for the future of my disabled daughter and myself. As mandated by a court order, I am facing eviction from our current rented home, thrusting us into the terrifying possibility of homelessness. This situation is compounded by my dire financial state, worsened by the denial of educational services for my daughter, which forced me to cease work and accumulate substantial debts.

My daughter suffers from severe disabilities that profoundly impact her daily life and necessitate specialised housing and constant care. Despite these challenges, we face continuous denial of adequate support and are subjected to bullying and manipulation. The current rental, though not adapted to her needs, is being taken away from us unjustly, leaving us without a secure shelter.

The toll of this instability is grave. My daughter’s condition has deteriorated during the year she was denied access to suitable education and care, making her increasingly difficult to manage without appropriate accommodations. My son, witnessing the struggles we endure, has also fallen into depression. The emotional and financial burden of repeatedly furnishing new homes due to damage inflicted by my daughter has pushed us deeper into debt and despair.

I implore you to consider our plea for assistance. What we need most urgently is stable housing where we can adapt the environment to suit my daughter’s needs and alleviate her distress. Whether a modest home or otherwise, any place that ensures we will not face homelessness again would be a lifesaving blessing.

Additionally, financial aid to alleviate my debts accrued from past homelessness episodes and the costs of setting up new homes would provide much-needed relief. The toll on my health has been severe, with recent incidents leaving me near-blind and battling severe anaemia from stress and physical strain.

Your compassion and intervention at this critical juncture would mean more than words can express. Please do not let us suffer further. I beseech you to grant us the mercy and assistance we so desperately need to ensure my daughter’s well-being and our survival.  Landlord have told us that they cannot meet with my daughters rental needs, and the local authority has denied us housing support. I have been to court, but the judge and the local authority are playing with our lives. I fainted last month due to all the long lasting torture. Please help us.

With profound gratitude and hope,

Here is my PayPal link paypal.Vme/whosacelebritym

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: UK

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