Well it’s been hard these past few months me and my ex had a babyboy he is the most amazing little human being to me. and 2 years after she just toke my son and left me iam a good man I just didn’t make enough money as I work as a cook at a Vietnamese restaurant still working there but living out of my car I really need financial help I want to help give my son more money for child support and help to buy him what he needs and help I have nothing really I gave everything I had left for my son and his mother to be comfortable where there living at and amount of money will help I just wanna use what anyone money someone can proved to take care of myself and my family I want nothing more then to use the money for good I’ve been there for people when they barely have anything but no one has ever come through like I have for them I don’t want people to feel bad for me I would just really at the bottom of my heart to get some money help it’s all for the great or good any amount will help. I will leave my PayPal link and thank you to whoever reads this I appreciate you as a person.

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Long story short, I don’t like asking for help from anybody. I’m just at the point of swallowing my pride due to a situation I didn’t expect. I’m going back into being an independent contractor/handyman, and I have plenty of work, as my hometown and surrounding areas are booming with work. Because I make too much now, I can no longer live at the apartments that I can home right now. I have until the 1st to be out, and I have no one to ask for help. I also have been actively trying to get debt free, but it’s slow going, and I can’t get a loan from any banks or lenders. My daughters and I would be eternally grateful if any donations you can send. I would also be open to a loan agreement with someone to pay back anything borrowed. I’m desperate at this point, so my girls don’t have to know what it’s like to be homeless. Thank you for your support in advance!

Much love,

The Burk family

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Thanks for taking the time to read my story.

 

My name is Corey and I was forced out of the United States Army because of medical reasons. Just to name a few mental illnesses, asthma and sleep apnea. I am 90% disabled with four children and currently going through a divorce. My medical retirement is enough to provide for my children but nothing else. I am swamped in debt and adding a divorce to my plate has broken me. Lawyers want a retainer of around 5 to 8k in Colorado. I recently had to move back to Ohio to stay with family during this time. I left everything to my wife including the house so my children can continue with their life in Colorado with the good education and not having to change what they have been familiar with their entire life. I am seeking work but it has been hard with my medical conditions. I have been to the VA several times trying to seek any help they have to offer but it’s not much if you are familiar with the process of veteran affairs. (VA) I am completely starting from scratch. I have decided to bite the bullet and leave everything in my home as well as the house to my wife and children. If you ever been in my shoes you can definitely relate. My entire VA check goes to my children every month to help provide for them and the house mortgage until the divorce is finalized with the court and I’m not sure how long the process will be. I will say I appreciate anything you decide to donate. I am ashamed to even ask for any help but I am truly grateful for you taking the time to read my story and God Bless you. My PayPal account is Under my name Corey Williams and the username is @paymemommi

Thank you for reading.

To who may read this and feel compelled to lend a hand,

Hi, I’m AD, father of three kids and a full time employee in a steel mill. The hours are long and the pay is good, however I am now divorced for a second time and this has caused extreme financial stress on me. Over the course of our 12 year marriage, my ex wife never had a reason to put anything in her name because my credit was always sufficient. Fast forward to 2020 and we have approximately $35,00 in consumer debt that we, as a married couple have incurred together. In October of 2020, I filed for divorce.

During the next 18 months, I moved out and began to start over. I remained and still remain extremely active with my children. I moved back home with my folks to save money and wait for the right place to become available to rent, all the while I was still paying the mortgage on our home, all the debt payments and $2100 in child support per month. This is around when the minimums on our debts got to be an issue to keep up with and I began to dip into credit cards to survive. When the divorce was final, our debt had grown by $15k more dollars, all in the name of surviving and work became slow(it’s seasonal/cyclical with the economy). The judge determined that my child support wasn’t sufficient so he bumped it up by $200 and “awarded” me all of the debt because it was all in my name. In his words, “I can’t make her pay any of this because it’s all in your name, sir.” To which I replied, “Had I known that I was going to be here today three, five or nine years ago, I’d have made sure her name was involved with our debts. I didn’t marry to expect a divorce and me be pummeled in debt while trying to restart my life, make a home for my kids to come to.”

So, I say all of that to say that it’s been since October of 2020 that I’ve been living paycheck to paycheck and sometimes, there isn’t always enough check so I have to dip into credit for a cash advance to help with expenses such as rent. This has snowballed into 60K in debt and the minimums are all I’ve been able to afford. I am on a budget, I live very poor and I could care less how I look to my friends or family, this is about the emotional struggle between doing my best and giving up. I have considered bankruptcy but that’s my absolute last resort and I don’t want to destroy my credit while trying to restart my life. This affects my social life as one can imagine. I’m asked all the time why I don’t date and the answer is simply: “I can’t, in good faith, date someone with the intention to get serious and drop the atom bomb on them that I’m in this insurmountable amount of debt. That’s not fair to someone who doesn’t have the same baggage.” I wouldn’t want that done to me, so I’m choosing to be alone until this is cleaned up.

If there’s anyone out there who can relate to my story and feels compelled to give, I would be forever grateful. It’s embarrassing to come on here and post this but I’m in a pit and the only things that keep me going are God and my children.

As I mentioned in a previous paragraph, I’m roughly 60K in the hole. Anything helps, God Bless.

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• Hi I’m a single father of 3 boys who’s just having a rough few years. Right now my son and I are currently homeless but, I’ll explain how we arrived in this position. Back during the beginning of Covid, my youngest son mom and me were not on good terms for some reason and decided to separate. She took my son and moved a hour away from me. So I decided to transfer my job to be closer to him and pick him up after school. I worked 3am to 3pm Monday -Friday. I had to drive a hour there and once off of work I picked my son up from school and helped with his homework until my older son got out of football practice. I was so tired from working all day and driving my sons to and from practice that I fell asleep at the wheel and recked at least 5 times with in a year but, I had to do what I had to do. With me damaging my truck all of those times I gained several points for missing work to get it fixed. Eventually I pointed out once my motor blew. While dealing with all of that my sister had a mental breakdown and was shot by Atlanta police department over 15 times July of last year. My mom was not mentally able to handle anything going on with my sister so, I had to. To be honest I feel like I’m pretty strong but this mentally, physically, and spiritually broke me down to my lowest. I wasn’t event able to be broken because my family expected me to handle everything, but to be honest I wouldn’t have it any other way. I had to approve her surgeries and visit her everyday to make sure everything was going smoothly. During this time I was living off of my credit cards to survive. Eventually I got further and further behind on my rent and applied for assistance but wasn’t granted the amount needed so I was evicted 3 days after losing my job. This happened at the beginning of August and I’ve been applying for jobs daily but, haven’t been having any luck. My son and I are living in my truck which has a bad motor and an expired tagged since my birthday just passed this month. I’m really trying not to break and I don’t usually ask for help but my sons are more important than my pride. Thank you in advance to anyone who helps. @tmartin870612

This is very hard for me to. I have never been in a position like this and its very uncomfortable to ask for help.

This all happened after C19 pandemic. I lost my business, my home and fell into a deep depression. I tried getting all of the assistance available but never got a nickel. To make matters worse I was unable to keep keep a job because of the depression. I never really understood people who struggled with it, thought they were lazy or lacked ambition. Thats not the case at all, its debilitating. My struggles spilled over into my marriage and home life. We, wife and kids, moved into a tiny apartment to survive. At the end of June my wife and I separated. My condition didnt improve and I became more of a burden than an asset. I don’t blame her, its been overwhelming. The psychiatrist has me on 5 different meds, tried them all in different combinations to no avail.I haven’t lived up to my role as a husband or father. I have failed them all miserably. I am currently homeless, I coach surf on occasion but hate troubling my friends. My moods are erratic and I’d hate losing them like my family.

I am here asking for help but its not for me but my kids. I am unable to provide financially to cover there needs. I know its my sole responsibility but they shouldn’t have to suffer. Their mom works 70hrs a week and does her best. Im the weak link! With that said I have swallowed my pride, ego and whatever decency I have left and am asking for help.

Any and all assistance will go straight to my children. Despite my personal situation, everything will go to them. They are victims of my failure as a father.

I have enclosed a PayPal address where you can help. Thank you in advance!

paypal.me@Caffeinatedelixir

Hello,

I’m a single father of 2 wonderful girls. I need help with my bill. I need to go to the dentist really rally bad. I lost my job because I keep getting sick from swallowing infection. Every time I go to sleep for over a 2 hour period I wake up feeling like I’m going to throw up. And it takes me 3 days to bounce back and feel kinda normal again. My children’s mother abandoned us 5 years ago. My girls haven’t seem her since the day she left. I am all they have. My parents both passed away. And the girls other grandparents just don’t care enough to want to see them or have any kind of relationship with them.  I was an addict when their mother fist git pregnant in 2011. But from the day I seen the pregnancy test I stopped completely.  And thank the lord I never used drugs again. I’m so scared I’m going to loose the only thing that makes me happy. My kids. I need to get all my teeth pulled and get implants.  My rent is being 3 months and I’m fixing to be evicted. I need to get another job really.bad but can’t because  of how sick my teeth being infected makes me. Their all broke and rotten from the years of drug and alcohol use. I love my girls more than anything in this world . And if I get them taken from me because I can’t provide for them because of my teeth . I’m not sure if I could survive loosing them. The guilt and depression would kill me. I don’t have anyone who would take them . I don’t have any friends anymore because 100% of my time is with my kids if I’m not working.  They have never been away from me over night . They would have a very difficult time if they have to go live with strangers. Please help if you can. I’m so terrified of loosing my babies. They are my entire world.  Please help me. Excuse the paypal me link, was done long time ago and can’t edit it. https://paypal.me/gimmyyourmoney?country.x=US&locale.x=en_US

Hello, my name is Antonio, a 41-year-old with a family of 4, who I truly love and have committed my life to protecting and securing a foundation for. I’m deeply saddened to even be here asking for help, but things happen unfortunately. But as we all know the world is taking a slight turn for some families financially. I really hate to say I’m one of them. I’ve been let go of my employment of 12 years and it has put me and my family in the toughest situation we’ve ever been in. I’m still looking for work daily in this small town where everyone knows everybody (if you know what I mean), and oddly it’s been hard for anyone to give me a chance to get back supporting my loving family. I’ve even started a few things online called drop shipping business owner selling products on Esty. Also, I’ve created a couple of KDP low content books on Amazon, (Blood Sugar Logbook; Never Sugarcoat Your Blood Sugar Levels) and (Food Inventory Logbook). And like everything else it takes a while to generate sales because I just started all this which I do like, but it takes a little while to get going. So needless to say, bills are getting be hide, rent is getting past due, and this is putting me and my family at an increased risk of being homeless. But I’m a God-fearing man first that is deeply in the lord’s word and have been in deep prayer and fasting daily. Our church family have tried but it’s a small one and them have helped a little, and it’s greatly appreciated. I don’t have family that lives close by that we may turn to in case we can’t afford to stay but I really need my home for us to stay in until something gives. So, I’m asking with a very deep heart for help from anyone that have it and wouldn’t put themselves in danger of having they’re on financial problems. This is so hard for me as a man because I was raised on hard work and providing for my family. But I promise you anything would be greatly appreciated. You can donate to me and my family at paypal.me/Rambofamily or cash app. $Rambofamily5 thank you and God Bless you all.

Morning Kind World,

Back in the winter months, 2018, I lost the lost of my life. The mother of my daughter, and her 2 sons. Like most urban couples today, she was known as my Baby Mother. But we were talking marriage, if we were to ever get our crap together.

I wasn’t and still isn’t big on Christmas; but she was. Her job was having its annual Christmas potluck the following day so she was in her kitchen burning it down. She was an awesome cook. I was in my home, she was in hers. (She was suffering from bipolarism, so that put a strain on our relationship).

Suddenly, my phone rings and it’s her. She’s crying uncontrollably. All I heard was my head is hurting again. Please come over! I dropped everything! This was the 2nd time this week I had rush to her side. Not knowing this would be our last phone call to each other.

I packed up the Tyler,her 4yr old son, and put him in thebcar first. Then our 2yr old daughter Kennedy into the car next. Her older son had moved in with his father near the Tennessee border. Before walking Vanessa into the car, I turned off all of the burners she had cooking.

Vanessa was also suffering from bad migraines, but she hadn’t had one in quite a while. When we got to the hospital, got checked in, and was called to the back, we were both in great spirits because she was in her comfort zone; the hospital.  So we thought!

As the kids slept,  Vanessa and I actually tried sharing a laugh or two about her food not being done. She was more concerned about feeding her co-workers than her migraine.

Her doctor came in, checked her out and went over some things with her. I can’t honestly say what was said because we’ll use to it. But I did hear the doctor say that she’ll be heading home soon.

After a good time waiting to be released, a nurse walked in. I watched this nurse insert one shot in Vanessa’s left shoulder, walked around her, and inserted another shot in her right.

In 10 seconds, Vanessa fell face first! And that would be the last time we would share a laughed.

The nurse must have hit the panic button because it seconds we were surrounded. They literally kicked the kids and I out the room for over and hour. And at this point, I am sh*** bricks!

The wait was so long that I called my best friend at that time to come sit with me. After what seem to be a lifetimenof waiting, the doctor called me to the back.

In the doctor’s exact words, she said,

“We put her in an induce comma to stop the pains he was suffering from. In the morning, we gonna have a brain doctor come check her out, wake her up,  and send her home!”

Me not knowing anything about medicine, I Fell For It!

About 7ish the following morning, I get a weird phone. It’s her sister from her father side.

“McKey, I’m at the hospital and I could’ve sworn I just saw Vanessa getting into an ambulance.” They said that they’re taking her to Augusta, Ga.” (A little over an hour drive).

I’m calling and calling but no one would give me any answers. I was meet with resistance. Since we weren’t married, they didn’t have to tell me anything. (Even though I’m her only emergency contact)!

By this time, my mom had arrived to my home and took the kids with her. I drove back to the hospital,very fast.

She was indeed gone.

I made some more phone calls to the hospitals in Augusta until I found her. And when I arrived, the doctor there was just as puzzled as I was.

Why is she here? He kept asking me. And I couldnt give him any answers.

For.5 days, I drove back and forth to Augusta just to meet up with this doctor who was more angry then me. He said, I’ve done everything for her at this point. Every test! The final test is up to you.  Allowing me to remove these breathing tunes from her. If she can breath on her own, I will keep fighting for her.

December 23rd, Two days before Christmas, Vanessa lost her life.

Her brother(who’s suffers from substance abuse) wouldn’t allow the hospital to do an autopsy on her because he didn’t want her scarred. Again, because we weren’t married, and even though I’m her emergency contact, and she did not and do not interact with her family at all, I HAD NO SAY SO.

The doctor and I both felt that was a dumb decision.

I, with the help of my mother, paid for everything when it came to her homecoming. We didnt even attend her funeral because of death threats from her side of the family who she didn’t even talk too. Well.at least not in the entire 5.5 yrs we were together.

Not only did I pay for the funeral, but months later, I.paid the cost to adopt her son Tyler( who was a result from a one night stand). His father wouldnt come to court because of a warrant he had for his arrest!

Doing that time, I was working as a correctional officer of 9 yrs. I had to resign because i couldn’t figure out how to be a single father.  All my money was going to daycare.  She was on Medicare and receiving Childcare.  I wasn’t so lucky.  I kept getting denied.

No law firm will take my case cause again, we weren’t married.  I can’t really work cause of child care expenses.  I own and operate a 360videophotobooth business but even that’s tough finding reliable babysitters.

I travel back and forth to SC to pick my brother up; who’s a recovering substance abuser himself, to watch my kids while I go to didn’t events to earn a dollar. But even that gives be bad anxiety.

And to top it off, my suv transmission just went out trying to take my brother back home to make sure he made it to his doctor’s appointment. ($3500)

I love being a business owner.  The freedom to show my kids things and take them places is worth every struggling dollar I make.  But I’m tired.  I’m in my 50s raising a 9yr old and a 6yr old(turning 7 this month), and I’m at my wits end.

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Hello, my name is Pedro Aledo, I became a widower two years ago, when my nurse wife, developed blood clots after receiving her Covid shot. She left me with two beautiful children ages 3 and 6 at the time of our loss. I am a mental health therapist who works with foster children and kids who have been traumatized by the loss of a parent or parents to COVID-19 and other tragedies, as well as sexually assaulted and battered children.

I am working on attaining my Mental Health Therapist License which requires many hours of internship where I am paid a reduced rate for the first 1000 hours of practice. My desire is to become licensed by the State of Florida and then continue to receive my Ph.D. in Psychology and open my own business that helps children to find direction toward a family unit after a tragedy in their life has occurred.

I have been fortunate to find a mother in a similar situation as myself, having recently lost her husband, the father of her two children ages 4 and 7 at the time of their loss, to a tragic motorcycle accident. So, you can say that together we fill the missing part of each of our lives and that of our children’s lives. And even though we are taking this process very slowly due to the feelings each holds for their past spouses, we can both appreciate and see how this union would benefit all parties involved and bring much healing.

My needs are simple, I need to bring these families together, much like the “Brady Bunch” sitcom from the past, we believe this to be a match made up in Heaven. I need starting capital to get my business off the ground, while at the same time putting a downpayment on a home that will fit 4 kids, a dog, and 2 adults. I believe that somewhere in the ballpark of $150,000 to $250,000 would help us make this family strong and at the same time help me open a business that will help countless children become part of families that will love them and make them prosperous individuals of our communities. The need in this area is so severe that this business will prosper and continue indefinitely, helping children and families come together and making our communities better places to live in.

In the short time, I have been part of the foster system, I have had the privilege to bring many children together with families that love them and give them the opportunity they did not believe they would ever obtain.

Helping my family will go on to help countless families multiplying blessings upon blessings.

Please consider sending your donation to paypal.me/pedrolaledo

I  am Seeking help with my medical bills ,IRS back taxes and mortgage.I was in the hospital recently,so my bill pilled up.I also have 2 daughters that I have to pay child support for.my utility bill were increased recently.my property taxes is coming up soon and I have nothing save for it.also my home insurance is coming up in December.I am asking for any help I can get, which will be very much appreciated.thank you God bless you.my PayPal account PayPal.me/asalmon704

I’m a 53 year old father of 5 struggling as a single parent. With 3 children grown and out of the nest I thought I had everything at home under control. And I did for a while. Then a couple of automobile repairs and a bout with sickness put me behind in my financial responsibilities and soon it began to snowball. In time I had maxed out my credit cards just trying to provide a normal life (something that their mother never allowed any of us to have ) for my remaining pair. My once good credit rating is long since gone. This led me to using cash advance apps just to get through the week. This helped for about 2 weeks and then I could clearly see I was working to pay them back only to turn around and borrow right back from them. Now with an unsecured loan delinquent and credit cards in collections, the threat of garnishment is extremely likely and would bury me for sure. I work 50 hours a week to barely break even. Just to make matters worse, I recently was informed that I probably have a tumor on my colon. I have not shared the news with my kids yet. They all see me as the strongest man in the world and a great provider. I have been their rock and held our family together since their mother tore everything apart. I don’t know what to tell them. I’ve never asked anyone for anything. I’ve always been the one helping others with whatever they needed. I’m embarrassed and ashamed to be in this position. More than anything, I’m scared. I can feel the walls closing. I feel depression taking over. I just can’t see a way out of the debt that I carry and I’m quickly losing hope. I don’t want to drag these 2 innocent beautiful souls down with me. I just need to get things even and I literally  have no where else to turn. If you can help me, even just a little, I will be eternally grateful and can head into the next chapter with some renewed confidence. I’m going to need it! Thank you just for reading my story.

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