This is very hard for me to. I have never been in a position like this and its very uncomfortable to ask for help.

This all happened after C19 pandemic. I lost my business, my home and fell into a deep depression. I tried getting all of the assistance available but never got a nickel. To make matters worse I was unable to keep keep a job because of the depression. I never really understood people who struggled with it, thought they were lazy or lacked ambition. Thats not the case at all, its debilitating. My struggles spilled over into my marriage and home life. We, wife and kids, moved into a tiny apartment to survive. At the end of June my wife and I separated. My condition didnt improve and I became more of a burden than an asset. I don’t blame her, its been overwhelming. The psychiatrist has me on 5 different meds, tried them all in different combinations to no avail.I haven’t lived up to my role as a husband or father. I have failed them all miserably. I am currently homeless, I coach surf on occasion but hate troubling my friends. My moods are erratic and I’d hate losing them like my family.

I am here asking for help but its not for me but my kids. I am unable to provide financially to cover there needs. I know its my sole responsibility but they shouldn’t have to suffer. Their mom works 70hrs a week and does her best. Im the weak link! With that said I have swallowed my pride, ego and whatever decency I have left and am asking for help.

Any and all assistance will go straight to my children. Despite my personal situation, everything will go to them. They are victims of my failure as a father.

I have enclosed a PayPal address where you can help. Thank you in advance!

paypal.me@Caffeinatedelixir

Hello,

I’m a single father of 2 wonderful girls. I need help with my bill. I need to go to the dentist really rally bad. I lost my job because I keep getting sick from swallowing infection. Every time I go to sleep for over a 2 hour period I wake up feeling like I’m going to throw up. And it takes me 3 days to bounce back and feel kinda normal again. My children’s mother abandoned us 5 years ago. My girls haven’t seem her since the day she left. I am all they have. My parents both passed away. And the girls other grandparents just don’t care enough to want to see them or have any kind of relationship with them.  I was an addict when their mother fist git pregnant in 2011. But from the day I seen the pregnancy test I stopped completely.  And thank the lord I never used drugs again. I’m so scared I’m going to loose the only thing that makes me happy. My kids. I need to get all my teeth pulled and get implants.  My rent is being 3 months and I’m fixing to be evicted. I need to get another job really.bad but can’t because  of how sick my teeth being infected makes me. Their all broke and rotten from the years of drug and alcohol use. I love my girls more than anything in this world . And if I get them taken from me because I can’t provide for them because of my teeth . I’m not sure if I could survive loosing them. The guilt and depression would kill me. I don’t have anyone who would take them . I don’t have any friends anymore because 100% of my time is with my kids if I’m not working.  They have never been away from me over night . They would have a very difficult time if they have to go live with strangers. Please help if you can. I’m so terrified of loosing my babies. They are my entire world.  Please help me. Excuse the paypal me link, was done long time ago and can’t edit it. https://paypal.me/gimmyyourmoney?country.x=US&locale.x=en_US

Hello, my name is Antonio, a 41-year-old with a family of 4, who I truly love and have committed my life to protecting and securing a foundation for. I’m deeply saddened to even be here asking for help, but things happen unfortunately. But as we all know the world is taking a slight turn for some families financially. I really hate to say I’m one of them. I’ve been let go of my employment of 12 years and it has put me and my family in the toughest situation we’ve ever been in. I’m still looking for work daily in this small town where everyone knows everybody (if you know what I mean), and oddly it’s been hard for anyone to give me a chance to get back supporting my loving family. I’ve even started a few things online called drop shipping business owner selling products on Esty. Also, I’ve created a couple of KDP low content books on Amazon, (Blood Sugar Logbook; Never Sugarcoat Your Blood Sugar Levels) and (Food Inventory Logbook). And like everything else it takes a while to generate sales because I just started all this which I do like, but it takes a little while to get going. So needless to say, bills are getting be hide, rent is getting past due, and this is putting me and my family at an increased risk of being homeless. But I’m a God-fearing man first that is deeply in the lord’s word and have been in deep prayer and fasting daily. Our church family have tried but it’s a small one and them have helped a little, and it’s greatly appreciated. I don’t have family that lives close by that we may turn to in case we can’t afford to stay but I really need my home for us to stay in until something gives. So, I’m asking with a very deep heart for help from anyone that have it and wouldn’t put themselves in danger of having they’re on financial problems. This is so hard for me as a man because I was raised on hard work and providing for my family. But I promise you anything would be greatly appreciated. You can donate to me and my family at paypal.me/Rambofamily or cash app. $Rambofamily5 thank you and God Bless you all.

Morning Kind World,

Back in the winter months, 2018, I lost the lost of my life. The mother of my daughter, and her 2 sons. Like most urban couples today, she was known as my Baby Mother. But we were talking marriage, if we were to ever get our crap together.

I wasn’t and still isn’t big on Christmas; but she was. Her job was having its annual Christmas potluck the following day so she was in her kitchen burning it down. She was an awesome cook. I was in my home, she was in hers. (She was suffering from bipolarism, so that put a strain on our relationship).

Suddenly, my phone rings and it’s her. She’s crying uncontrollably. All I heard was my head is hurting again. Please come over! I dropped everything! This was the 2nd time this week I had rush to her side. Not knowing this would be our last phone call to each other.

I packed up the Tyler,her 4yr old son, and put him in thebcar first. Then our 2yr old daughter Kennedy into the car next. Her older son had moved in with his father near the Tennessee border. Before walking Vanessa into the car, I turned off all of the burners she had cooking.

Vanessa was also suffering from bad migraines, but she hadn’t had one in quite a while. When we got to the hospital, got checked in, and was called to the back, we were both in great spirits because she was in her comfort zone; the hospital.  So we thought!

As the kids slept,  Vanessa and I actually tried sharing a laugh or two about her food not being done. She was more concerned about feeding her co-workers than her migraine.

Her doctor came in, checked her out and went over some things with her. I can’t honestly say what was said because we’ll use to it. But I did hear the doctor say that she’ll be heading home soon.

After a good time waiting to be released, a nurse walked in. I watched this nurse insert one shot in Vanessa’s left shoulder, walked around her, and inserted another shot in her right.

In 10 seconds, Vanessa fell face first! And that would be the last time we would share a laughed.

The nurse must have hit the panic button because it seconds we were surrounded. They literally kicked the kids and I out the room for over and hour. And at this point, I am sh*** bricks!

The wait was so long that I called my best friend at that time to come sit with me. After what seem to be a lifetimenof waiting, the doctor called me to the back.

In the doctor’s exact words, she said,

“We put her in an induce comma to stop the pains he was suffering from. In the morning, we gonna have a brain doctor come check her out, wake her up,  and send her home!”

Me not knowing anything about medicine, I Fell For It!

About 7ish the following morning, I get a weird phone. It’s her sister from her father side.

“McKey, I’m at the hospital and I could’ve sworn I just saw Vanessa getting into an ambulance.” They said that they’re taking her to Augusta, Ga.” (A little over an hour drive).

I’m calling and calling but no one would give me any answers. I was meet with resistance. Since we weren’t married, they didn’t have to tell me anything. (Even though I’m her only emergency contact)!

By this time, my mom had arrived to my home and took the kids with her. I drove back to the hospital,very fast.

She was indeed gone.

I made some more phone calls to the hospitals in Augusta until I found her. And when I arrived, the doctor there was just as puzzled as I was.

Why is she here? He kept asking me. And I couldnt give him any answers.

For.5 days, I drove back and forth to Augusta just to meet up with this doctor who was more angry then me. He said, I’ve done everything for her at this point. Every test! The final test is up to you.  Allowing me to remove these breathing tunes from her. If she can breath on her own, I will keep fighting for her.

December 23rd, Two days before Christmas, Vanessa lost her life.

Her brother(who’s suffers from substance abuse) wouldn’t allow the hospital to do an autopsy on her because he didn’t want her scarred. Again, because we weren’t married, and even though I’m her emergency contact, and she did not and do not interact with her family at all, I HAD NO SAY SO.

The doctor and I both felt that was a dumb decision.

I, with the help of my mother, paid for everything when it came to her homecoming. We didnt even attend her funeral because of death threats from her side of the family who she didn’t even talk too. Well.at least not in the entire 5.5 yrs we were together.

Not only did I pay for the funeral, but months later, I.paid the cost to adopt her son Tyler( who was a result from a one night stand). His father wouldnt come to court because of a warrant he had for his arrest!

Doing that time, I was working as a correctional officer of 9 yrs. I had to resign because i couldn’t figure out how to be a single father.  All my money was going to daycare.  She was on Medicare and receiving Childcare.  I wasn’t so lucky.  I kept getting denied.

No law firm will take my case cause again, we weren’t married.  I can’t really work cause of child care expenses.  I own and operate a 360videophotobooth business but even that’s tough finding reliable babysitters.

I travel back and forth to SC to pick my brother up; who’s a recovering substance abuser himself, to watch my kids while I go to didn’t events to earn a dollar. But even that gives be bad anxiety.

And to top it off, my suv transmission just went out trying to take my brother back home to make sure he made it to his doctor’s appointment. ($3500)

I love being a business owner.  The freedom to show my kids things and take them places is worth every struggling dollar I make.  But I’m tired.  I’m in my 50s raising a 9yr old and a 6yr old(turning 7 this month), and I’m at my wits end.

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Hello, my name is Pedro Aledo, I became a widower two years ago, when my nurse wife, developed blood clots after receiving her Covid shot. She left me with two beautiful children ages 3 and 6 at the time of our loss. I am a mental health therapist who works with foster children and kids who have been traumatized by the loss of a parent or parents to COVID-19 and other tragedies, as well as sexually assaulted and battered children.

I am working on attaining my Mental Health Therapist License which requires many hours of internship where I am paid a reduced rate for the first 1000 hours of practice. My desire is to become licensed by the State of Florida and then continue to receive my Ph.D. in Psychology and open my own business that helps children to find direction toward a family unit after a tragedy in their life has occurred.

I have been fortunate to find a mother in a similar situation as myself, having recently lost her husband, the father of her two children ages 4 and 7 at the time of their loss, to a tragic motorcycle accident. So, you can say that together we fill the missing part of each of our lives and that of our children’s lives. And even though we are taking this process very slowly due to the feelings each holds for their past spouses, we can both appreciate and see how this union would benefit all parties involved and bring much healing.

My needs are simple, I need to bring these families together, much like the “Brady Bunch” sitcom from the past, we believe this to be a match made up in Heaven. I need starting capital to get my business off the ground, while at the same time putting a downpayment on a home that will fit 4 kids, a dog, and 2 adults. I believe that somewhere in the ballpark of $150,000 to $250,000 would help us make this family strong and at the same time help me open a business that will help countless children become part of families that will love them and make them prosperous individuals of our communities. The need in this area is so severe that this business will prosper and continue indefinitely, helping children and families come together and making our communities better places to live in.

In the short time, I have been part of the foster system, I have had the privilege to bring many children together with families that love them and give them the opportunity they did not believe they would ever obtain.

Helping my family will go on to help countless families multiplying blessings upon blessings.

Please consider sending your donation to paypal.me/pedrolaledo

I  am Seeking help with my medical bills ,IRS back taxes and mortgage.I was in the hospital recently,so my bill pilled up.I also have 2 daughters that I have to pay child support for.my utility bill were increased recently.my property taxes is coming up soon and I have nothing save for it.also my home insurance is coming up in December.I am asking for any help I can get, which will be very much appreciated.thank you God bless you.my PayPal account PayPal.me/asalmon704

I’m a 53 year old father of 5 struggling as a single parent. With 3 children grown and out of the nest I thought I had everything at home under control. And I did for a while. Then a couple of automobile repairs and a bout with sickness put me behind in my financial responsibilities and soon it began to snowball. In time I had maxed out my credit cards just trying to provide a normal life (something that their mother never allowed any of us to have ) for my remaining pair. My once good credit rating is long since gone. This led me to using cash advance apps just to get through the week. This helped for about 2 weeks and then I could clearly see I was working to pay them back only to turn around and borrow right back from them. Now with an unsecured loan delinquent and credit cards in collections, the threat of garnishment is extremely likely and would bury me for sure. I work 50 hours a week to barely break even. Just to make matters worse, I recently was informed that I probably have a tumor on my colon. I have not shared the news with my kids yet. They all see me as the strongest man in the world and a great provider. I have been their rock and held our family together since their mother tore everything apart. I don’t know what to tell them. I’ve never asked anyone for anything. I’ve always been the one helping others with whatever they needed. I’m embarrassed and ashamed to be in this position. More than anything, I’m scared. I can feel the walls closing. I feel depression taking over. I just can’t see a way out of the debt that I carry and I’m quickly losing hope. I don’t want to drag these 2 innocent beautiful souls down with me. I just need to get things even and I literally  have no where else to turn. If you can help me, even just a little, I will be eternally grateful and can head into the next chapter with some renewed confidence. I’m going to need it! Thank you just for reading my story.

PayPal.Me/Daddiojames

Hello,

My name is Michael and I am requesting some help. I wouldn’t typically even consider this approach but I am in a situation I don’t think I ever saw coming.

A bit of Background on my situation:

in 2017 i suffered an injury while working as an Arborists Assistant where i compressed my spine and herniated 12mm. of soft tissue into my spine. I was paralyzed from the waist down on my right side for over 6 months and spent most of 2018 and early 2019 recovering 80% of the use and feeling from my right foot at the tip of my toes to my hip. I went back to work and was fine for the most part (Here in 2023 and I still have mobility issues that severely limit my performance but I still work) until the pandemic in 2020 brought most of my work to a grinding halt. My Wife and I worked at adapting to the new struggles that came with the “Shut-In” lifestyle that had become the norm in almost everything we did.

We worked through it, Together we achieved what we originally were worried was an unmanageable situation being that she had to find new work and I had to work out a new and reliable source of income as well. Harder still managing all of this while Monitoring my until this time uncontrolled Diabetes that had been slipping under the radar for years until my Insulin production ceased almost entirely during a prolonged incident with an Abcess in my gumline.

The worst seemed behind us and as we stabilized my Teenage children reached out to me interested in getting to know me better, (we had been seperated for 10 years when their mother relocated across the country to live with distant family) So we pooled our resources and got our home ready for the Reunion. Everything was going well, until I got an infection in my lower back in the form of a Pilonidal Cyst. I toughed it out for a few weeks and the infection got so bad that it immobilized me. I had the Drainage Surgery done but my Diabetes made me to high a risk to be put under for Excision.

I changed my lifestyle further, recovering from the initial Drainage procedure and healing process, going to the gym, changing my diet but the road back was harder this time then recovering before from the injury pre-existing in 2017. Shortly after recovery another discovery of Degenerative Disk Disease increased my Recovery time.

My Wife covered every expense she could on her check and my side of the finances were not covering the lack of full employment. We chose to persevere, I recovered and the Kids moved back with their mom until this year in April. We were reunited again and all seemed well, Happy and functioning at what seemed almost 100%.

But as my story has outlined time and again, it wasn’t over. Until it was. With almost no explanation other then “We Didn’t work” and she “wasn’t happy for a long time” , My Wife left with little fanfare or tolling of alarms. She took the car and the better of our paychecks. I was working on temporary assignments trying to bring myself back from a rough series of employment gaps. I landed a Job as she was leaving. and so we come to current events.

 

My Children, My Two Canine companions, and My house are all standing on a knife edge of me getting back to work full time, while going to school for Data Sciences. I have no car which means no way to keep going to work and my neighbors are of limited ability to assist me further (They have been a blessing)

I am Trying to Obtain 5,000.00 Dollars to Cover the expense of a used vehicle and make sure i keep food in the house and the lights on for the first month back to work at a full time job. The Car for daily commuting and everyday running, the electric and the groceries because the children go to school online and everyone needs to eat. I am grateful for any assistance and I am looking toward the future even after everything with hope in my heart that with Perseverance and a bit of Help, that I can get back on my Feet and keep providing for the four out of the five people I Love Most in this world. Blessings to any and all who have read this, and those who choose to help.

 

Thank You Humbly, Michael

Cashapp Info : $MichaelRyn

I hope this words finds you well. I am reaching out during a particularly daunting time in my life, seeking financial assistance to ensure a safe and stable environment for my 14-year-old daughter and myself. The combination of personal losses, financial setbacks, and my disability has made our current situation especially challenging.

Years ago, I was married to my first love, and together we were blessed with a beautiful daughter. Unfortunately, life took a devastating turn when she passed away, leaving me alone with our young child. The loss of my wife was profound, not only emotionally but also in terms of the support structure she provided for our family. As a single parent, I strived to give our daughter the stability and love she needed, ensuring she felt the warmth of both parents even if one was no longer with us.

In time, I remarried, hoping to rebuild and provide my daughter with a complete family once again. Trusting and optimistic about our shared future, I entrusted our combined finances to my second wife. Regrettably, that trust was misplaced. She made financial decisions that drained our savings, and by the time our relationship ended, we were left with barely anything to fall back on.

The emotional and financial strain has been immense. However, my primary concern remains the well-being and future of my daughter, who has already experienced significant loss in her young life. She stands at a crucial age where stability, a secure environment, and access to education are of paramount importance. The expenses of daily living combined with her educational needs weigh heavily on my mind every day.

To add to our challenges, I am also grappling with a disability that has severely hindered my ability to work and provide for my daughter. Prior to this disability, I was gainfully employed and took pride in supporting my family. But now, due to the limitations it imposes, I am unable to contribute financially as I once did. Medical treatments and therapies related to my condition only add to our growing list of expenses.

While I have explored various avenues for assistance, such as disability benefits and social services, the aid they provide barely scratches the surface of our needs. The gap between our monthly expenses and our income has grown alarmingly wide, and without external assistance, our situation may soon become untenable.

I turn to you with this request for financial support, not just for myself but more importantly for the future of my daughter. Assistance at this juncture would mean a world of difference, offering her stability and the chance at a brighter future. It would alleviate the agonizing choices between essential medications or her school fees, between rent or utilities.

I understand that many individuals face challenges and that resources are often limited. But I humbly ask you to consider our story as a plea for a second chance, an opportunity for my daughter to rise above our current circumstances and achieve her potential.

Your assistance would be more than just financial support; it would be a lifeline, a glimmer of hope during our darkest times.

Thank you for your time and understanding.

Warm regards,

Noel

PayPal.me/noelsantanapr

https://www.paypal.me/noelsantanapr

 

I’m a 32yr old first time father to a 2yr old, and I recently went through a divorce in February. I was granted temporary custody of my now 2-year-old son and they were taken. Since my divorce has been finalized, and my ex-wife gained soul custody, I haven’t been able to see my son. Even with court records stating that I’m supposed to have visitation rights, my ex-wife won’t comply. I went back to chancery Court and explain to them my situation and was told that I needed to hire an attorney because the courts didn’t provide the proper paperwork to subpoena her for being in contempt. I wasn’t making enough money in my hometown to do what needed to be done so I went to Alaska to work as a processor to get money for an attorney so that I can be in my son’s life. I made living arrangements with a family member before coming back home from Alaska, but they didn’t fall through. I was able to get a attorney that worked with me with a payment plan, but I’m currently going broke in a hotel. I was told that it would be hard for me to gain custody due to me living in a hotel. I found a job in the two weeks that I’ve been home and don’t start until next week. I’m seeking help getting into a two bedroom for my 2yr old son and I before I have to go back to court to show stability before requesting full custody. I found a place for $1000 a month and desperately asking for help with 1st months and deposit of $2000 total. I’m not sure if this was done correctly, but I’m in desperate need of help. Thanks for your time.

paypal.me/Dre228Wilson

 

I hope this message finds you well. I am reaching out to you today as a truck driver who is currently facing numerous challenges and struggling to make ends meet. Despite working tirelessly, I find myself living paycheck to paycheck, unable to escape the cycle of financial instability.

Over the past year, my living situation has deteriorated significantly. My apartment is plagued with water damage, and the ceiling has even caved in. To add to my troubles, my air conditioning unit broke down, resulting in a higher-than-normal electricity bill. Unfortunately, the rising cost of living in Houston, Texas has made it increasingly difficult for me to keep up with these unexpected expenses.

Moreover, I have been unable to afford basic furniture for my apartment, which further adds to the feelings of instability and discomfort. As a result, I am unable to provide a comfortable living environment for myself and my daughters it breaks my heart that I can barely support them, let alone provide them with the necessities they deserve. Feeling trapped, exhausted, and restless, I find myself constantly losing grip on the things I hold dear. If you can help here is my cash App

Cash App $Marcusjthompson

God bless. and thanks for even reading it.

We’re reaching out with a sincere plea for support in a situation that’s been anything but easy. We’re a hardworking couple, holding down full-time jobs, who unexpectedly had our lives turned upside down three years ago.

Our son, now 8, and our daughter, now 7, were taken from their mother’s care due to her ongoing struggles with addiction. In that challenging moment, we stepped up to the plate, offering them the love, stability, and nurturing they needed. We became their rocks, their protectors, and their source of hope.

Yet, it hasn’t been without its challenges, particularly on the financial front. Their biological mother, despite her legal obligations, has refused to provide any child support. This left us grappling with the significant financial burden of raising two wonderful children, including the hefty cost of daycare, which rings in at $250 per week!

Watching our savings dwindle and accumulating debt with creditors has been disheartening. Our dreams of owning a home, which once seemed achievable, now feel out of reach as my credit score has taken a hit. Despite our hard work and best efforts, the mounting financial stress has begun to take its toll on our family.

Unfortunately, child support enforcement hasn’t provided much relief. Their actions, like suspending her driver’s license, haven’t done much to address the core issue. So, with humility and a deep desire to offer our children a stable home, we’ve decided to ask for help.

Our son is a gifted student, excelling in math and science, with a passion for soccer. Our daughter loves to dance and sing, and we’d love to give her the opportunity to pursue her dreams through lessons. Recently, their school introduced them to club scouts and baton twirling, dreams they’ve had to put on hold due to our financial constraints. It’s 

We’ve already cut out all non-essential spending and tightened our belts, but that light at the end of the tunnel still seems distant. It’s with utmost humility and a profound love for our children and my incredible wife, who’s a steadfast stepmother teaching them values and grace every day, that we’re turning to you for support.

Our goal is to raise $25,000 to clear my student loan debt, $7,000 to eliminate credit card debt, $16,000 to pay off a personal loan that initially helped us but has now become a burden, and $15,000 for a down payment on a home within our work commute. An extra $10,000 will be used to rebuild our savings account, which we’ve tapped into over the years.

We understand this is a significant request, but please know that your generosity will directly affect our family’s life. Your contribution will be a glimmer of hope, providing a brighter and more secure future for two wonderful children who deserve the best. Know that this amount will put us back on track, as we will continue to work hard, and make it count!

From the bottom of our hearts, we extend our heartfelt gratitude to everyone who chooses to stand by us. Your support won’t just ease our financial struggles but will also be a powerful testament to the goodness and compassion within our community.

Please help us via our PayPal link or our CashApp link.

Thank you, and may you be blessed for your kindness and generosity. Together, we can build a brighter tomorrow for our family and for our children, who truly deserve it!