I am reaching out today because I am truly at one of the most difficult points in my life, and I am hoping for a bit of help to keep my daughter and me afloat. I am a recently divorced father, and I have full custody of my little girl. She is the center of my world, and every decision I make is with her future and her wellbeing in mind.
Back in March, I was in a near-fatal accident that left me unable to work for months. The recovery was long, painful, and financially devastating. Even though I am finally back to working again, the damage from those months without income has pushed me into a position I never imagined I would be in. Sadly, the time I was injured and unable to work became the reason my ex-wife chose to leave after ten years of marriage—ten years in which I consistently paid more than half of every bill and did everything in my power to support our household.
I live very modestly. My daughter has her own small room, and I have mine. There is nothing extravagant or unnecessary in our home. I visit food pantries every single week just to make sure we have enough to eat. I work full-time, I work overtime whenever it’s offered—even though the extra taxes barely leave me anything—and at night I do DoorDash just to try to keep us going. Most nights my daughter sleeps in the back seat while I deliver food, something no parent ever wants to admit or accept. It breaks my heart, but I feel like I’m running out of options.
Even with all of this, I am still falling behind. Every paycheck is spent the moment it arrives, going straight toward overdue bills and basic necessities. I feel like I’m constantly trying to play catch-up, and no matter how hard I push, the finish line keeps moving farther away. I don’t see any light at the end of the tunnel right now, and I am terrified that if something doesn’t change soon, we may lose our apartment. I have no family in this city, and I have already borrowed from every friend I have—friends I have no way to pay back in the foreseeable future.
I want to be clear: I am not asking for money so I can get ahead or live comfortably. I am simply trying to keep my daughter safe, fed, sheltered, and in school without having to see or feel the crushing stress I deal with every day. I am doing everything I can, and it is still not enough.
Anything you can offer would mean more than I can express. Thank you for taking the time to read this, and thank you for any help, support, or kindness you can give.