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Last Updated: October 5, 2023

Urgent Appeal for Financial Support – Single Mother Seeking Help to Secure a Better Future for Her Children

I am writing to you today as a single mother who is facing a challenging financial situation. With the rising costs of living and the responsibilities of raising my children, I have found myself drowning in debt. The weight of these financial burdens has been overwhelming, and I am struggling to make ends meet.

Recently, I was able to secure a new job with better pay. While I am grateful for this opportunity, it has become clear that in order to truly see a difference and provide a stable life for my children, I need to address my existing debts. Unfortunately, the high interest rates and accumulated fees have made it nearly impossible to break free from this cycle without assistance.

I understand that everyone has their own financial obligations, but I am reaching out to you with a humble request for help. Any amount of financial support that you could provide would make a significant difference in my life and the lives of my children. It would provide us with the opportunity to start fresh and begin building a more stable and secure future.

I never imagined I would find myself in this situation, but life can be unpredictable. As a single mother, my children’s well-being is my top priority, and I am doing everything within my power to provide for them. Your generosity and support would mean the world to us and would give us the chance to break free from the heavy burden of debt and pave the way for a brighter future.

Thank you for taking the time to read this letter and considering my request. Your kindness and compassion would make a tremendous difference in our lives.

Sincerely,

paypal.me/HelenAlva83

Filed Under: Single Moms Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: October 5, 2023

Help me overcome my grief and avoid eviction

Dear Sir/Madam,

Warm greetings. I am writing this note praying I can get some help, urgently. I am a woman aged 46 grieving both the tragic loss of my only beloved child, son Dri aged 21 who passed away in May 2022 and my beloved Mom in November 2022. BOTH were my world. I have been in a state of utter shock but I couldn’t afford therapy or counseling. I just prayed all the time until end September 2023 when I could finally pull myself together. I feel I am ready to roll up my sleeves again, thank God.

However, I need some urgent help now please. My current apartment lease is up for renewal in November which I have to renew. But in one month arrear plus this month. I don’t have any money on me presently. Please assist me with $7,800 in total to enable get back on my feet, to bridge the following financial gaps:

(1). $2,000 rent (monthly rent $1,000 plus one month rent in arrears). Please help me pay my rent as I am about to be evicted (I’ve an eviction notice). I live in Temple, Texas.

(2). $800 toward food, basic bills as wifi, water and electricity please.

(3). $5,000 toward setting up my small business of scented essential oils and herbal hair/skin products from home this amount will help me toward obtaining an LLC, basic equipment and ingredients plus a website. Given that I don’t have a car presently and we don’t have access to public transport in Temple, I wish to do some work from home to build towards mobility etc. eventually.

Fortunately, whilst in my emotional shock due to my grief over my son and Mom last year, I embarked on a healing passionate hobby of making scented essential oil perfumes and herbal hair products. This helped me make some basic income through friends who bought from me as their way to assist me have some income as I wasn’t able to work at all for over one year now. Their reviews have been most encouraging including some making repeat orders. I wish to register this small business now and build a website. In fact this hobby probably was my main healing process in addition to prayers as I couldn’t afford counseling and therapy. Please assist me embark on this small business as it is both my healing process and will help me create some basic income to manage life without my 2 beloved only family I had (my dad had passed on many years ago and I’m single).

I sincerely hope I can get some help urgently to sustain my momentum of picking the pieces and embark on a new life without my son and Mom keeping my faith in God that I’ll be able to smile again some day. Thank you for your time in reading this note and I look forward to your positive response. Suzanne Jambo

Suzanne Jambo

4802 S 31st Street Apartment 706, Temple

Texas 76502-3476

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Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: October 5, 2023

Our Daughter Desperately Needs Tuition Dollars

Hello – My name is Blake DeFatta (my wife’s name is Kelli) and we have a daughter named Sydney who is a first semester freshman at the University of Arkansas in Fayetteville.  Sydney made straight A’s in high school, and although we live in Louisiana, we were so happy for her because she qualified for 90% “in-state” tuition, which helped us tremendously.  My wife and I have owned a Fitness Training Studio for the last 15 years and prior to Covid, we were making a decent living, but since Covid we have struggled tremendously financially, and to say the least, our lives have been very very stressful.  What money we had saved for college for our daughter Sydney, we have had to use to just survive the last 4 years.  We are heartbroken because we only had a enough money to send our daughter to college for one semester and since we have survived on low incomes and credit cards, we cannot qualify as co-signors for a student loan and I don’t know where to turn to enable Sydney to completer her college education??? Sydney is a beautiful soul with wonderful morals and Christian values, and I plead with you to please help us to be able to fulfill her dream of graduating from the University of Arkansas.  Please make that happen for us and I will be happy to provide proof (if necessary) that any money we receive from your generosity, will go directly to her fulfillment of her college degree.  Many blessings and thank you very much!  Blake and Kelli DeFatta

PayPal @ BlakeDeFatta

Filed Under: Tuition Fees Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: October 5, 2023

Help!

My name is Karol and I am writing to you because you are my last hope, literally the last breath of air before I go under. Let me tell you how I got here quite simply. They all forgot, and what does that mean? Well let me tell you, I was just six years old when I went to my aunt Ruby’s funeral. It was me, my sister, my mom and my dad. When it was over my parents put me in the car and my dad started the car, I looked around and got up to look out the back window my sister was there in the church window crying, I didn’t know why we began to pull away but I turned to my parents and said we can’t leave her, my sisters in the church and I see her. My parents looked at one another and said she’s not going to forget this. Let’s go get her, so my dad began to walk back to the church. I ran past him and opened the door, and she ran to me and didn’t let go till we both fell asleep in the back seat of the car.. Since then God has blessed her with a husband, finances, houses, land and sure I’ve asked her for help plenty of times but she forgot. 

  I was eight years old and I taught my brothers how to read and write, but one left to play with toys and the other enjoyed learning arithmetic, and became quite good at it so much that he was always ahead in mathematics, which gave him the opportunity to excel and go to college. I asked him for help. He owned a few businesses and land but he forgot. 

   At eleven my brothers played hide and seek in the house and as usual I sat in the den so I could see if anyone went out the front door and in order for someone to go out the back door they would have to walk right in front of me. My dad came around the corner in a panic asking me where’s your brother? I said he’s probably in the room and they’re playing hide and seek.  My dad said get up and help find your brother he’s not answering, I remember as I walked through the kitchen looking through the cupboards I would hear his voice faintly and I really did not know what to think. My dad came around the corner and had his belt and yelled at everyone to go outside and find your brother. I was the last one to the door and a man was there and he said as plain as day “thy  brother crieth out for you in the refrigerator, turn you about and get him out”. Just then my dad lifted up the belt as if to hit me, and he should have but it didn’t touch me. I turned my body to pull open the refrigerator and my baby brother fell out. He was crying so hard his tears were white, he forgot.

   At seventeen I was called to a phone call with my cousin, my dad, my dads brother, and my older cousins, and was told that my cousin had a brain tumor and that she needed an operation to save her life, however the operation would leave her wearing a diaper and dripple from her mouth for the rest of her days, so I asked my cousin what she wanted to do and she stated I want to go out in my right mind and if I die I die, so I said let her choose, and they did, she promised me later when her son came back since he was a branch manger he would help me, since then she has had houses, land and money, she forgot.

    Now finally my son had a lifelong friend they went to church together, he was over for Thanksgiving and Christmas, then my son went off to college and his friend was tragically killed and my son was unable to say goodbye for closure, so my son was admitted to a clinic for a while and I had co signed for him to go to Pratt, now the plan was for him to graduate and together working hard pay off his school loan and I would pay off mine within five years instead I was left paying for the house we rented, car, truck, lights, gas, all my bills and food, trying to hold us together. I am about to lose everything. I’ve worked so hard since I could remember and have stood in the gap for all. I don’t understand this, I cried out to God, he keeps sending people to say hold on. I have until the 27th of October, 2023 I just don’t know what to do, so I’m falling on your mercy. Please help us. I need 117,000.00 dollars to pay these tuition fees, then I could pay the rest of my bills please please help me.  paypal.me/KarolFleming 

Filed Under: Single Moms Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: October 5, 2023

A domestic violence victim single mom with two daughters in need of urgent financial help to pay rent, and life upkeep for her daughters 😢 😪.

Good day everyone .

.I am an African single mother of two girls. I am a victim of serious domestic violence abuse. I have been going through a pathetic divorce experience since 2021. Our divorce just got finalized on June 28,2023.

My ex husband left me.in serious credit cards debts, which I am now paying all by myself.  We were both using my credit cards during the time were together.

Sometimes, he travels with my credit cards. We used my credit cards to purchase furnitures, house needs, foods, clothes, children needs and so on. He promised to pay me back on those credit card when he starts working in June 2021.  He was supposed to start a well paying job in June 2021 then, before he carried out his premeditated abuses that led toward our divorce.

He was studying at a nursing school then, while I dropped out of nursing school due to depression caused by my ex husband’s physical, verbal, emotional, and adulterous abuse and torture 🙃.

I stayed in our marriage for good 15 years, before I decided to set myself free from domestic abuse in 2021, and filled for divorce. This is because i notoce he wasnt ready to chnage.

And he graduated from heating me, to pushing me down the stairs. He has been abusing me back from African days before we relicated to United States.

Let me cut my long story short. He left me.in serious debts which I am.now battling with. My little income is not even enough to take care of.my bills. I live from hands to mouth.

I cry secretly everyday every time I think about how I’ve suffered in that marriage, and how i.am.still suffering with my two girls, while.my ex is out there living a lavish life and enjoying his trips.and holidays all over the world.

He is now a nurse. He used to beg me then while we were together, that I shouldn’t worry, that he’ll pay me back all of the money when he finishes out of nursing school, and when he starts working. But I didn’t know that he has his evil plan.

I came across this online beg for help. I decided to try it and see if I could get some people that will help me out of this pathetic situation I found myself.

I cried and hated myself before coming out to do this. I feel so ashamed of myself seeing myself in this deteriorating condition 😞. I never thought in my life that I could turn into a begger.

But I have to do this in order to take care of my children and start a little side business to add up to.my income, so that I’ll be able to take care of my bills, pay my debts and also support my girls living. I wish you could see the tears 😢 😪 rolling down my eyes as I type this message.

I haven’t paid my October rent, and I’m afraid the apartment office will soon send me a notice of non payment and eviction notice.

Kindly please help me.with anything the Lord lays in your heart. I pray that the Lord shall replenish your pocket as you help me and my daughters. May you or any members of your family never fall in a situation that will turn them into a begger. You shall all be blessed and favored in the sight of men and women. Amen.

You can zelle me any amount your heart releases to me on my phone number, 4698103919 or you send me a cash app on $sadeinfinity3. Your kind gesture towards me and my girls will be highly appreciated. Remain blessed.

Fola

 

 

 

 

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: October 5, 2023

Why Iam asking for money

Greetings . My name is Michael Earl Johnson.  I am 59 years old and currently employed full-time as a messenger/driver for a company named Messenger Distribution, Incorporated ( M.D.I. ). Although I’m employed full-time, I’m struggling just to make ends meet. My net pay is only about $2200 per month so between rent, car insurance,life insurance,cellphone bill , utilities, gas and food, along with credit card payments, I am barely making it ! I’m currently trying to find ways to make more money, including possibly investing in income property. I also want to help my sister, who is moving from California to Texas in 2 months and needs help with moving expenses and bills. Therefore, I am asking for $50,000,which would alow me to payoff debt, help my sister, and invest in property that will possibly increase my income .  In addition, I would like to be in a position to give more to my church and other ministries which I support

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: October 5, 2023

My last resort.

Hello my name is Doug and I’ve had a hard few years lately it all started when my best friend hung himself since then I’ve been really depressed recently lost my job due to my depression and having to take care of my disabled parents that’s the reason why I’m here I’ve sold everything I own to help them they’re both on social security but that’s barely pays the bills so I’ve been paying for their prescriptions blood pressure etc. My mom goes in for surgery this Halloween her health isn’t too good I hope she can pull through this one ive never asked. Anyone for anything I’ve always been able to do everything on my own my goal is to make sure my parents live their last years comfortably no more worries my mom knows my registration is due 9n my truck and she knows I can’t afford it seeing her stress more bothers me that’s a little summary of my life thers so much more I don’t know where to begin or end my story I just hope that there’s someone out there that’s can help me get through the dark time and hopefully i can give my parents some good news i would love to see my mom smile again thanks for reading hope you can help.im looking to raise $10,000.  My PayPal is.

PayPal.me/Doughubbard909

Cash app

$shitgooseson

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: October 4, 2023

Help me, help others!!

So here’s my story, I’ve been in the Automotive field for quite some time (10 years or so), I am a licensed auto technician and work for a chain company. Day in and day out, I see people decline a service due to lack of funds. I get it, labor and parts, are very expensive, but when it comes to safety like brakes and airbags, I feel for those who can’t afford it. Or when they need the repair to get back on the road, or have kids with them, it bothers me so. So of course, I’m wanting to help those in need or even just give them a break, but I am not allowed to offer service to those who come to that particular shop. I sneak in my phone number to those who are on a budget from time to time and I repair their vehicles at home, where I do have a small garage and I can cut the cost dramatically! Now before you think I’m trying to make this a business, I want you to know that I find fulfillment in helping others, I myself sometimes don’t even charge to do repairs on the side, especially when parts are expensive. I’m asking for help here, in order to get equipment to provide a wider variety of service to those who can’t afford it. For example a small lift cost $7,000, now I wish I could do it all on my own, but since I don’t charge very much, it’s harder to invest that money back into helping others, so I give my time. I would like to share that I have a son and would love for him to gain this “want” to help as well, because through the years of helping, I have met and been blessed with so many good, respectful people that have most definitely become very close friends and almost family. Please take into consideration that you are not only helping me but those who we can reach together and help as many as we can, to have safe, reliable cars on the road, without putting such a financial burden on them. I hate that I work in this industry that really does take advantage of one’s situation, but it is the hand I’ve been dealt. So I wish to give back. Thank you, for your consideration. paypal.me/RicardoCorona71249

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: October 4, 2023

Trying my best for my 6 babies

  • Hello Everyone,  I’m here asking for help or any donations whether it be new or used. As of 2022 my best friend who is like a sister to me died from congestive hear failure leaving behind her now 10 going on 11 son, 8 going on 9 twins girl and boy, 4 going on 5 son and 2 more girl. 1 going on 2 and 2 going on 3, and her husband.  I dropped my life originally to help him raise them but he turned out to be a pedophile September 13th. I’ve been fighting for all 6 since. I have legal guardianship over 3 and fighting him for my other 3. They all live with me.  The day my sister died I left my job, home, and car I was financing to dedicate my life to our babies. Our vehicle could go out any day,  I’m constantly spraying, and wrapping mattresses because I seen bedbugs.  I been managing  but I want them  to experience a comfortable and clean living with all the things they need and deserve to the best of my ability. I’ve been working on making them clothes. I’m asking if there is an unused embroidery machine,  sewing mannequins, or material please keep use in your thoughts.  Anything is appreciated.   Cash app $NatayaLastead

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: October 4, 2023

Medical Bills on Credit Cards

At the start of Covid in 2020, I lost my job and things began to go downhill financially from there.  I was forced to move back in with my ex because the rent on my apartment had gone from $625/month to $1100/month in only two years.  It took many months to start collecting benefits and in the meantime, I was only able to pay the minimum amounts on my two credit cards.  I found a new job in early 2021 and have been paying on my credit cards every month, but the interest rate had made the debt balloon to $6,000 at that time.

Between 2021-2023, I also added the following financial debt which amounted to around $9,000.

  • My sister tragically passed away and I had to pay some funeral expenses $1,000 and travel costs of $1,000 since my family is on the opposite coast.
  • I had some expensive dental work of around $3,000 out of pocket costs for a root canal and a partial denture.
  • I have a disease called keratoconus, which is slowly distorting my vision.  In an effort to slow the progression of the disease, I had cross-linking surgery done on both eyes.  The insurance did not cover all of the costs and I was responsible for $4,000.
  • I also suffer from lichen planus, a skin disease with no known cause or real cure.  Insurance didn’t pay for the tests or the doctor to the tune of $700.

I’m down to owing around $13,000 now.  Any amount would help and all monies will be paying Citibank and Chase.

Thank you for your assistance!

paypal.me/thankyou

 

Filed Under: Medical Bills Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: October 4, 2023

Unlocking a Brighter Future: A Single Mother’s Journey to Rebuild

I hope this letter finds you well. I am writing to you today with humility and gratitude, seeking your assistance during a time of great need. In 2020, my life took an unexpected turn as I faced a legal battle that ultimately led to financial hardship and an uncertain future for myself and my two beloved children.

 

Prior to this challenging period, I had made the courageous decision to move my family from Ohio to Arizona, driven by the hope of providing my children with access to better public schools and the promise of an overall improved life. With a strong background in banking, I left my job in Ohio with the intention of securing a new position in Arizona and using my savings as a financial cushion during the transition. Unfortunately, life had different plans for me.

 

The legal battle that followed was unlike anything I had ever experienced. Despite having a strong belief in the facts of my case, I unexpectedly found myself on the losing side without a contingency plan. This experience had dire consequences on my ability to secure meaningful employment. Even with an impeccable resume, I discovered that having an open case and a subsequent conviction made it nearly impossible for me to find work, not just in banking but in any field.

 

Trapped in a lease and with no income to rely on, I watched my savings deplete rapidly. Eventually, my financial situation deteriorated to the point where not only had my savings run out, but I had also accumulated over $10,000 in debt just to meet our basic needs.

 

Despite the immense challenges, my children were able to benefit from the better schools in Arizona, providing them with a brighter future, especially my son. I did eventually secure a banking job, but it paid significantly less than my previous position, and I was burdened by the debt I had accrued during my period of unemployment.

 

I battled fiercely to regain financial stability and provide for my family, but it seemed that every step forward was met with another setback. Eventually, I faced eviction, leaving me and my children homeless. In a desperate attempt to find a solution, I had no choice but to return to Ohio, where I at least had the support of family, albeit temporarily.

 

Back in Ohio, I was eager to start anew. However, even with my legal case resolved, I found myself repeatedly rejected by potential employers due to my background. Despite receiving job offers, I watched in dismay as each one was rescinded upon the completion of background checks.

 

I also tried to supplement my income by working for Uber Eats, a position I had successfully held in Arizona. However, my background check while signing up in Ohio led to my dismissal from the platform, leaving me with even fewer options for income.

 

The toll of these challenges has not been limited to my financial situation but has deeply affected my mental and emotional well-being. The inability to provide stability, a home, and basic necessities has been a source of tremendous shame and frustration. However, it has also been a profound source of learning. In times of hardship, I’ve discovered an innate ability to be innovative and resourceful, finding solutions where I thought none existed.

 

Prior to my legal ordeal, I had founded a business in 2017 focused on fruit and vegetable juice, inspired by my own experience in managing epilepsy. I wanted to share the health benefits I had gained with others and even authored a book on the subject. While the business showed promise, my reliance on its profits to sustain my livelihood proved unsustainable when my income disappeared.

 

My primary goal is to hire an attorney who can assist in expunging my records, a process for which I am eligible, having completed all requirements, paid all fees, maintained a clean record prior to this incident, and waited the specified timeframe. Expunging my record is not just about erasing the past; it’s about reclaiming my future and the opportunities that come with it.

 

Additionally, I am determined to repay my accumulated debt, which would enable me to move forward with a clean slate once my record is expunged. This financial assistance would not only help me regain my footing but also allow me to provide the stability and security that my children deserve.

 

Finally, I seek assistance with a down payment and the first month’s rent for a rental unit. This support would enable my children and me to move into our own home, as my family has kindly allowed us to stay temporarily. Achieving these goals would not only reset the trajectory of my life but also provide the stability my children urgently need.

 

In closing, I want to express my deepest gratitude for considering my request for financial assistance. I am wholeheartedly committed to overcoming these challenges, not only for myself but for the well-being and future of my children. I understand that my situation is complex, but I am determined, resourceful, and dedicated to creating a brighter future for my family. Your support would not only provide us with a lifeline but also the opportunity to rebuild our lives.

 

Thank you for your time, understanding, and potential assistance.

PayPal.me link:

https://paypal.me/KWilliamson142?country.x=US&locale.x=en_US

Filed Under: Eviction Notice Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: October 4, 2023

Help me stop eviction

I am here seeking assistance to avoid eviction. I have been out of work for almost a year while caring for my sick elderly mother. Allow me to provide you with an explanation of why I desperately need $2500 to clear my past due rent balance:

A safe and comfortable living environment is essential for one’s overall well-being, and being at risk of eviction can create immense stress and uncertainty. By addressing the past due rent balance, I can ensure that I have a stable place to live, allowing me to focus on other aspects of your life, including my new job which is a work from position.

The fact that I have been out of work for almost a year while taking care of my mother just highlights my commitment to family and my dedication to providing care for loved ones. However, during this time, my  finances have been completely strained. This event lead lead me  to falling behind on my rent payments. Despite relying on my savings, the prolonged period without income has made it challenging to make ends meet.

I do have a new job offer that I  have received starting on November 6. This presents a positive opportunity for me to regain financial stability and independence. However, in order to fully benefit from this opportunity, it’s crucial to address the past due rent balance promptly. By clearing this outstanding amount, I can start my new job, (which is a work from home position)with a clean slate and focus on rebuilding my financial situation.

Furthermore, eviction can have long-lasting consequences, making it difficult to secure future housing or rental opportunities. Avoiding eviction will ensure that I maintain a positive rental history, which is crucial for your future housing prospects. This will allow me to move forward and create a stable and secure living situation for myself and my family.

I am not just begging,there are various resources and organizations that are able to provide assistance for my situation. Before coming to this platform I tried every organization I could could,I have yet to get a response back from any of those organizations.

I haven’t given up! I’ve just about sold most if not all of my valuable items. I have also recently started giving plasma for extra money. I have about a 4 days until the eviction is filed and although I am scared I am hopeful that I can make it through this hard time with the help of other kind people. I am also grateful to all that are able to help monetarily or just with prayer.

Filed Under: Eviction Notice Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: October 4, 2023

I want to escape my nightmare!

I am seeking help because I am in a situation that I would wish on No-one! I am trying to raise money to get myself out of an abusive home. The money will go towards my own place and towards a vehicle so that  I can finally get a job and not have to worry about being stalked while at work as well as not having to worry about a way home because he decided he was mad and reported his vehicle stolen to try and get me arrested! Have you ever just sat and cried yourself to sleep because you are in such fear that you won’t see another day? That’s a daily occurrence for me! I cannot express how much I appreciate anyone that is willing to help me! Thank you and God bless

 

paypal.me/Mimito3angels

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: October 4, 2023

Emergent Financial Help Is Needed

Hello!

I am a 64yo man that, at the moment, is in serious financial need. This ask is not something that I take lightly… I struggled with the idea of doing this, but the need drove my final decision to take this step. I am encouraged in this by the fact that, because of my upbringing (parents were ministers), I have helped many people along the way with spiritual direction, companionship, time, food/clothing, shelter, finances, muscle, and much more. So I have a clean conscience that I am not asking for something that I have not spent a lifetime doing for others.

I want to say, from the outset, that I have worked since I was 10yo, and have been diligent about my responsibilities as a husband, father, and citizen throughout the years. For the last 5 years (even thru the pandemic), I have worked as a substitute teacher in public schools in central Ohio.

The reason for this ask is because this past Spring I came down with a severe case of Shingles that covered the right side of my face (nose and upward) and scalp. Lamentably, the Shingles also made its way into my right eye, and caused an abrasion that has subsequently affected my eyesight. This is in addition to the condition of severe hypertension that I have been diagnosed with (9 yrs) and getting treatment (medications) for.

As a result, I was not able to work during the time that I was recovering from this. The Shingles onset was in mid-March, and I was not cleared to work until after the school year was over. I received a lot of physical and financial support from my family and some friends during this difficult time. Furthermore, I was not able to find summer work until vacation was almost ended, so my finances did not get back on track.

In the meantime, between rent, bills, loans, gas/car-related costs, and medication, I am really struggling financially.

I am appealing to your generosity and good will to help me with $3500 to at least get my head above water while I work towards resolving this more permanently. Anything you can help with will be very much appreciated. I am grateful for taking the time to read this, regardless of whether I receive anything or not.

God bless you!

PayPal:    paypal.me/pirm59

CashApp:   $pirm

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: October 4, 2023

Please Help Us

I have nowhere else to turn!
I have always been independent, I have always had big goals and I was working towards them. After I graduated High School I went to a Community College for 2 years where I completed an Associate Degree in Hospitality and Tourism Management, major in Food and Beverage Management with Extra Credits in Sustainable Tourism after which I attended a vocational institution to study Marketing and Promotion. During which time I was an entrepreneur rearing chickens, pigs, selling baked goods and whatever products I could think of, up to that point I was never ever broke. My goal then was to open my very own restaurant and I wanted to have hands on knowledge of Food and Beverage production as well as how to market and promote my venture to customers and investors. However during my second module at school my father who was working overseas at the time said that he wanted the family to be together and so I deferred from school and he arranged for the care of my animals, equipment, the family home and everything in it. All of this I accomplished at 17! When my mom and I got there we had a work permit but no real job, I worked very hard when I had the opportunity to but wasn’t paid, that was the beginning of life in a third world foreign country. I begun looking for work elsewhere and got a job at a supermarket, on my interview I was told that although I am over qualified for the post I would be starting on basic salary $7.70 per hour working 45 hours a week. My job required heavy lifting, pushing and pulling, cutting, labelling. These were all things I used to pay people to do for me. Not long after I sustained an injury at work, I cut my finger very badly, I had to be rushed to the hospital where I got 7 stitches. Not long after that I developed Bursitis from the constant lifting. I was unable to work for sometime and although the company policy states that I should be compensated for monies spent as a result of the injuries that never happened. Needless to say as a foreigner the government department in charge of labor did nothing but report everything I tried to enquire of back to my employers. I tried to ask my supervisor and the HR manager for a transfer to a department that is less strenuous but they told me that “every department is as strenuous”. Things got worse, the department bully threatened me and I tried to report it to the authorities but my attempts were thwarted by the security guard, instead he sent me to the HR Manager and I was transferred effective immediately to another department. I later found out that I was bullied by this girl because she was told about how I aced the entrance tests and about my educational background by her sister that had sat in on my interview which I did know that they were related let alone that she felt threatened by me. My problems continued to worsen, while trying to retrieve an item from the top shelf I suffered a subluxation and was unable to work for quite some time, I had to pay for treatments and other things including physical therapy out of pocket as I ran out of insurance and was told by the HR Manager that “You kept referring this as an ‘injury at work’ and I got the opinion that you were somewhat blaming the company. This was merely an accident…you subsequently tried to reach for an item and your arm partly dislocated itself. This was an accident, and not an instruction that was given to you directly.” Even though my doctor report stated that my subluxation was inevitable and resulted from the bursitis that I had developed I had to foot the bill and had to return to work and I was issued a warning for excessive sickness and they threatened to fire me. As a result my query only led to more problems and I was constantly picked on. Things at home started to change, my dad’s behavior changed drastically, he began to accuse my mom of having an affair, he tried to get her fired and wanted her to be deported, whenever I tried to have a say in the matter I was verbally abused and he threatened me with physical violence, none of this made any sense to me and as a result I fell ill at work on several occasions and was diagnosed with Clinical Depression. To mask my pain I begun wearing makeup and became very good at it against my fathers wishes. Things at work kept getting worse and things at home kept getting worse, in my attempts to avoid the expletives, arguments and verbal abuse, I did not use the kitchen or Bathroom facilities while he was there which meant days without a home cooked meal, or standing under the shower. I would catch large containers of water whenever he was out and would use a bucket as the toilet, I would empty it when he left and I used to brush my teeth when I got to work. Things at home kept getting worse, the things we left back home are all gone, his friends stole them, my animals were given to his brother, all my equipment gone! He threatened to kill us, I had to call the police and we were urged to leave for our safety, we secretly found an apartment for rent and I used my savings accounts to pay our deposit and rent for the apartment we found and I closed another savings account and paid my dads rent and all his bills. After we left he did not stop, he stalked us, punctured our car tires, spread lies and rumors about my mom and me, my relatives do not talk to my mom and me, he told those same lies to our religious community and they believed him as well. My mom and I were trying our best to pay our rent, our bills, and feed ourselves barely living from pay cheque to pay cheque. In the end after 4 1/2 years my work permit was not renewed and my position was terminated in 2022. After which I acquired employment with a popular fast food chain which lasted a few months as I spoke out about improper food handling among other issues. We had to get a restraining order against my dad, my part of the restraining order only lasts for one year which expired in August of this year during which he tried to run me off the road with a truck while I was on my way to work. I could not work in an environment where I was seeing people drop bread and still serve it to customers, fake temperatures to avoid paying for equipment repairs, serve customers 4 day old vegetables that they washed the slime off of and so much more very very wrong things and not speak about them, In the end my position was terminated last month and I was told that I am not the right fit. We recently found out that my dads behavior towards us was all because he was having an affair with a woman who promised him citizenship through marriage and so that is why he mistreated and abandoned his wife and only child. Now some people who once ignored us have started to come around, others have apologized but the damage has already been done, I am still depressed, we do not have a home to return to in our home country as he threatened to kill us, I have serious abandonment and trust issues, I am very stressed, I am in therapy as a resullt of the depression and feeling hopeless. I am now unemployed with unpaid hospital bills, with many plans and dreams on hold not because I did not try but because I trusted and believed in the person that is supposed to protect and keep me safe but was betrayed. I do not have a home to return to or anything back home at all, he now controls everything back home with his friends. I am now 24 years old, I am a good person, I am honest and I have a good heart. I would love to leave this country, I would love to get the opportunity to see the world, I have never had a real vacation, I have never stayed in a hotel, I would like to experience that, I would like to open my restaurant, I would love to continue my education starting with a Bachelors in Human Resource Management because of how poorly I have been treated and disadvantaged in the workplace and then a Masters in Business, I would love to own a functional vehicle, I would love to own my very own house. I would love to live in the United States of America it was and will always be my oldest dream, I am afraid of ‘Love, of people trying to get close to me, I don’t know who to trust’ I would love to have a healthy relationship, I would like to be happy, to be mentally and emotionally stable, financially secure and spiritually healthy. I have never asked for help, I have never begged in my life, but right now my mom and I are literally in a box in a foreign country with nowhere to turn and continuously being disadvantaged. I want to close this chapter of my life, I want to pick up where I left off with my goals. I want to make something of my life, I do not want to be just another statistic. I promised the officer that took my statement that I would not repeat some of these things but I need help. Please, please, please help me, I will put your contributions to good use and I will continue to be the genuine soul that I am. Please help us.

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