I was a victim of several Dating Scams throughout the years 2019-2022.  I sent certain amounts of money to several different scammers, not knowing they were scammers of course, totaling up to about $7,000. Maybe a little more than $7,000.

It all began sometime back in the year 2019.  I signed up for a dating website and met a woman on the website named Sandra Caban. We chatted on the dating site and eventually moved the chatting to Google Hangouts and WhatsApp.  We also exchanged phone numbers (She has many phone numbers.) I told her I wanted to meet her in person. So she told me I needed to send her money for the Airplane tickets. I sent her the money of course and she came up with an excuse why she couldn’t come and eventually asked me for more money.  She did this to me numerous times and asked me for money for other various reasons. I ended up sending this woman a total of about somewhere between $3,000 to $4,000.  I regret every amount of money I sent to her and if I could go back in time and redo it, I would not send her any money and not talk to her at all. She lied to me about eveything she told me and to this day, she still tries to talk to me and asks for more money.  I do not send her anymore money.

The other women I sent money to was about the same amount of money in total. But there were 4 different women besides the first woman I just wrote about.  So I sent them all different amounts of money but totaling about $3,000 to $4,000. So along with them and Sandra Caban, I lost a total of between $7,000 to $8,000.  I recently stopped talking to all of them and do not send anymore money to them as well.

All of this happened during the years 2019 until 2022.  Just last month (March, 2022) was the last time I sent money to one of them.  And I sent that because she (the first scammer I wrote about named Sandra Caban) told me that she was going to send me $5,000 to help me. But she lied about that too.  I realized that after she told me I need to send her another $300 for her to send me the $5,000 that she already promised to send me. So I am done talking to her and the rest of them for good.

This has been very devastating for me because I worked very hard for that money and saved it for over the last almost 10 years (since 2013.) And to lose it that way to scammers is very depressing and upsetting as well. I pray and hope I can get my money back by using this website. I am asking for donations of a total amount of $7,000 to $8,000. It would mean the world to me if I could get all or at least some of that amount back. It was definitely one of the most important lessons I’ve learned and I now know better to not send any money to anyone that I don’t know or never met in person online. I most certainly will never do it again.

Thanks to anyone who donates and God Bless.

Here is my PayPal link below:

https://paypal.me/alexlanik717?country.x=US&locale.x=en_US

Debt $60,000

Hello! I found this page and thought, why not!  So let’s start out with what this is about. Help me pay for the past created for me by my own mother, so I can finally have a future of my own! Yes you read that right. We can’t get anywhere without credit, and I can’t pay for my past alone. Let me explain below.

I’m a 37 year old woman with type 1 diabetes, I didn’t get properly diagnosed until 31, but have likely been sick with it since i was 21. The medical debt is beyond belief. 10 years of misdiagnosis, loss of jobs, having to quit school, unnecessary surgeries and procedures that I am still paying for. But there is a kicker…. Most of my debt is actually from my own mother stealing my identity and racking up a home loan I never even had access to owning. We lived there for 1 year and my mom added me to the current mortgage of $70,000. I thought what a steal, she at first charged us $500 rent.  Then over time she increased that loan to $140,000 and jacked our rent in 2008 to over $1500 a month and went on spending sprees. Then when I was in too much debt, she removed her name from the loan so it was just in my name. Then sold the house since her name was on the deed, tons of super shady illegal things that happened.  I know it sounds crazy but the woman came out Scott free and I was left with all the debt that i have been paying since i was 18 years old then add staggering medical debt.

I should have turned her into authorities but my brother was injured and is now a C4 quadriplegic and he is begging me not too because she is his only caregiver. So I have paid it for my brother. I have zero contact with her and have to check my credit constantly because she still tries to take advantage of me.

I have 3 amazing kids and husband of 20 years;) I’m a full time self employed Photographer and do amazing work and work 2 extra jobs, yes 3 jobs myself. I’m a literal glorified hustler, but I cannot pay this debt. My husband has 3 also Right now. We literally work all day everyday to pay our rent and bills, but we have poor credit from getting married to young and I have a TON of medical debt I simply can’t pay even with 3 jobs each, the best part of this is that my own mother outswindled me on a home loan at 18 to get credit, to be an adult.  Convinced me that it was the only way. Convinced me that she needed money when she stole my identity and racked up more debt on my credit that never got paid. Since I’m an idiot, i didn’t tell anyone because i trusted her. I trusted my own mother and it cost me my financial future. We pay $2000 a month on a home we don’t own.
we desperately want to purchase a home but in this economy you need that 20% down and a credit score over 650 I’ve done nothing but hustle my way through life trying to make as much money as I can. There is just no way for me to ever get out of this loop unless I can pay off my medical debt, clean up my credit and purchase a home. I made mistakes when I was younger because no one taught me how to manage finances and my own mother ruined my credit before I even had a chance to do anything like normal people have. I can do that now, I am educated and work my ass off to get out of debt. I’ve paid off over $200,000 in debt over the past 10 years on top of trying to stay afloat.  but I can’t repair my past with out more money. It always comes down to money. I want to give my children a good stable life and we have yet to do that because we are stuck in this endless loop of, I could do that if I could get a loan- but then never qualify! It’s so messed up that we have access to all these amazing homes, surgeries, life and if you have bad credit, you will never qualify for anything. I’ve paid thousands to have people help me clean it up to no avail or get scammed out of yet again more money.  I trust no one when it comes to my credit.
I have a student loan that went to collections in my twenties, they literally take every penny I get back on taxes every year and still owe $10,000 on a degree that has been completely useless to both of us. I’ve had to have multiple surgeries and it’s amounted to a staggering amount of medical debt that I have been unable to pay and all the money that should have went to it, went to paying my own mothers bull crap. Yes I should have turned her in. But I was young and trusted my own mother to help. I got out hustled by a better Hustler and I just can’t leave my brother to defend himself in a full time nursing home when he is 34 years old and can only move his head.
if I could just pay off this past debt, we can manage our future debt- in fact it would open the door to our businesses growing, having our own home and working a job or two like any normal person does, maybe finally take a family vacation like I have always wanted. I dream of taking my kids to Disney land. We used to go all the time as a kid- and I have yet to take my own kids and my oldest is now 16.
please help save our family and put us on the road to a financially secure future like we should have had in our early 20s. My own mother set me up to fail and stole my future. Please help me start fresh. I am making a lot now and it’s still projecting to get out of debt fully in my late 70s which is no way to dream about life. I am trying to remain positive but my health is affected by this stress and I just want to finally live the life that I created and no one else messed up.  I can finally get a home that supports my photography business- having my own home means I can invest in a future that allows my kids to have access to a family own career that could help them be financially secure themselves with good credit.

Unfortunately we live in a world where money is what helps your future, gives you access to bigger and better things.  I just want to finally have freedom to have all this work actually show for something and have a literal score for credit, to not be denied by everything in life. Please help change my children a future and finally be able to start living like everyone else gets when they turn 18.
of you have read all that and don’t think I’m insane, please consider donating. It would not only change my life, it would change my children and future generations also.

Hello there, my name is Clinton and unfortunately I am in dire need of financial help.  It is embarrassing to say that I got scammed.  I am the one who gives advice to my parents about avoiding scams.  It all started about April of last year.  I matched with someone from the Facebook dating on the app.  As usual, it was great from the start.  We messaged a bit on there and then she told me get the WhatsApp messaging app so the responses could be faster.  From there, we chatted even more.  Now I know about dating sites and fake profiles, so I took precautions and requested pictures and we even talked on the phone.  It was an actual person.  She is Chinese with a degree in finance from Shanghai.  After chatting for about a couple of weeks, I wanted to meet up with her, naturally.  This was during the COVID-19 pandemic and we decided to wait until both of us had our vaccine shots before meeting in person.  In our general conversations, she mentioned she was investing in crypto currency on this app.

I did not tell her I fell on some hard times and was eager to make up for my losses.  She has been doing these investments for a while and had become quite successful.  Initially I was hesitant and she did not press the issue.  About a week after, she brought it up again saying it would be good for our future together if we both were investing.  She gave me a link to download the program and I did.  I also scanned it in case it was a malicious file.  Everything appeared to check out.  It is called UB Coins.  From there, I created my own account and signed up.  I also put in $10 just to check the legitimacy and sure enough there it was.

I told her I could only invest $10k as I took out a loan for that amount.  The way it works is like stock day trading, but with crypto currency.  She guided me though the processes as she took screenshots of her account.  Our returns were about $200 each time we invested.  This went on for about a week or so.  That 10k was now about 12k.  She also mentioned that processes was too slow and actually gave me another $10k from her account!  So now I around $22K.  From there, our returns have become in the thousands.  We had some gains and losses while doing this type of investment.  After about a couple months, my account grew to about $60k and it was time to cash out from crypto to dollar amount.

She guided me through this processes, but this time someone from UB Coins messaged me stating I needed to pay $20k in taxes by a set date in order to withdraw.  I could not get the money in time and asked for an extension, which was gladly given to me.  When I found a lender I was only able to get a loan for $15k and she gave me the $5k so I could pay the full amount.  I tried to withdraw again, but was stopped by an error message.  The UB Coins representative told me he would look into this issue.  A couple of days later, I was told I needed to pay a late fee of $5k.  This time I asked if I needed to pay any more fees or any hidden nonsense and was told no.  I should have stopped there, but the money in my account was sitting right there.  I owed $25k and had $60k, so I would have come out on top with $30K if I were to pay the late fee.  I managed to get, yet another loan for $10k and paid the fee.

Surely I thought I would have been able to take that money out, wrong.  When I tried to withdraw, I was met with another message stating the both her and my accounts have been frozen due to suspected money laundering on her behalf since she gave me $15k.  I would have put money into her account in order to prove that she was not laundering.  It was at this point, about three months later, I finally realized that I have been scammed.

I have tried to make the payments to the lenders, as I am literally paying for my foolishness.  For a while I thought it could work out, but due to all the prices going up and my other bills, I have fallen way behind on my payments as I can no longer make the minimum.

So please, if anyone who reads this can help out, even if it is just a small amount, it would be tremendously appreciated.  Thank you so much for your time.

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