Hello and God bless you all my name is Shane I am a father of four children first is Shane Jr. Second is Nikai and then my other blessings are my twin girls Layla and Lani they are my world and I do my very best to provide for them my oldest is 12 years of age my second son is 9 and the girls are 7 such a great set of ages they are all truly a joy. I have really been trying my best as a handyman to give them a stable life growing up but things have gotten so out of reach I can’t seem to catch up I have never tried anything like this before but times are very hard and I feel as if I am going to lose everything please if anyone can help us from ending up in a bad situation I would so greatly appreciate it I am a very hardworking man just extremely down financially I have lived in Florida for 20 years I just recently moved to the winter garden area and we really do like it once again any help I would very much be appreciated thank you and May God bless you every one $colvertshane

I’m not entirely sure where to start here. I have a penchant for TMI, and it often causes more problems than it solves, but here is my story and why I’m here today…

3 years ago I relocated back to America after living in England for 20 years. My first job back was cashier in a retail store I took, so I could save to build my credit from 0, and further get a car. Then I could be an Uber driver. I wanted to be a taxi driver ever since I saw a music video in ’92.

Once I got Sheila E. my Camry, I was ready to hit the road. Started driving with Uber and in 11 months I managed to save $4k, and built my credit to a very good score. I was proud of what I had achieved, and I was happy. And single. The only thing I didn’t have was my own place to live. It was alright sharing, but I wanted my own apartment. I was almost there. Then I fell into a relationship trap with someone who wasn’t at all who I thought. Everything you wouldn’t want from a man; cheating, lying, manipulating, etc. I confronted him, and he didn’t like that.

After leaving I got my own apartment but I wasn’t alone. He was cyber-stalking me, stealing identity, and much more. He was trying to financially and emotionally ruin me. Anyway, I couldn’t drive, and I lost my apartment within 3 months. I had to move back in with my father again. After a few months of heavy drinking, I started getting things together again, and then I met another guy in a local bar. I wasn’t looking for a relationship, but he was persistent and charming. At first anyway. He moved in with us and things were ok.

Then I wanted to move back to the city, because that’s where I could really make money again driving. What I truly love doing. I’ve had plans now for the last 2 years to go to Duke for post grad studies in Health & Wellness Coaching (which I feel is my true calling) but telling toxic family members about it was a mistake. Anyway, I still dream to go there, but that’s not the reason I’m here asking for help.

The guy I decided to move into a new apartment with in May this year, became a completely different person when we moved in. I helped him get a new job in a warehouse, earning more than ever, but he was never truly grateful. He never is. Nothing is enough unfortunately. He had bad spending habits and credit, and I tried explaining that we couldn’t be frivolous with spending, because bills and rent and more important things needed taking care of first. He became extremely controlling and jealous too. Didn’t want me to work as a driver anymore, because I liked it and picked up men. Even though it was strictly professional. He’d bought a car from my father, but didn’t want to drive it, because it was too slow, and he couldn’t drive on the busy highways. He said. So we shared my car. After 4 months of depression with me staying at home with our puppy, the penny dropped. And here we are. Here I AM anyway. Almost 2 months behind in rent. My credit card is maxed out (which I never had before,) all because I just had to give in to his whims and demands to keep some sort of peace. Emotionally beaten down.

Then all of the sudden a few weeks ago, I NEED TO WORK he told me. He can’t do it all on his own, and more types of verbal and emotional abuse. So I have been trying to get back to work, but almost every time I come home, there’s drama. He had my things packed at the front door once, or just makes me feel miserable to ruin the fact I enjoyed my shift. I have pawned things to come up with some money. He refuses to pawn things he owns.

I don’t want to be with him anymore, but we both signed the lease. And the only downfall of self employment is lack of healthcare. (I’m relying on his benefits as well, seeing the doctor I love, and saw when I was with the last headache.) He said I could take my name off the lease when we pay rent, but I know if I do, he’ll start saying it’s his apartment and I need to move out. I like where we live. Especially the location. It’s perfect for my work, being so close to the airport.

He’s extremely manipulative. Always playing games, and furthermore, I found out he’s also cheated. He has hidden dating apps on his phone. I have reason to believe he’s installed spyware in my phone as well. To keep tabs on me. Same thing the guy I saw before did. So, I am in a public library writing this to keep my privacy.

I don’t know what to do. I thought about going back to England, because I’m somewhat homesick, but I can’t leave my puppy behind. He’s a pitbull, and he’s not allowed entry there, and here, he’d be abused. I also have an adopted cat I love, too.

So, the only thing I can hope to ask for is enough money to catch up on my rent. Perhaps enough to help me get back on my feet again. To set aside, so I actually CAN leave in the near future and head southwest. Start a new life in another state. I have dreams and goals of getting so far in life with a career, though I feel I need trauma healing therapy, and abilities to create to create stronger boundaries to get there.

Thank you for reading my plea. And if you made it this far, thank you again for taking the time to. Genuinely appreciative. Have a blessed day.

 

 

I went through a monumental set back back in my life having to start with nothing and have climbed up out of homelessness into my own apartment.  I badly injured myself that has taken over 2 years to recover from and have started physical therapy the end of August.  My landlord has been patiently waiting for the amount I owe in back rent.  I cannot physically work yet.  I need $3,000 for back rent plus $1,000 for current rent and $3,000 to repair my car and get it registered.  It is parked with 2 flat tires that keep going flat after repair work at auto shop.  I need new set of tires for winter and  emission work and windshield to get my car to pass state inspection and get the registration and license plate for it so I have transportation to a job once I can work a job again.  I need $7,000 which will keep me from being evicted and being homeless and have transportation to get to work in the very cold snowy climate in Vermont in winter coming soon.

I had broken my leg and nearly ripped all of my ligaments on both knees.  I could not walk for a long time.  My apartment is upstairs and I was home bound because I could not go up and down stairs.  I am walking now but still have great difficulty with stairs.  I have a few more months of physical therapy and healing before I can return to a job.  I only receive food stamps and no other source of income.  It has been a struggle each month asking  for help with phone bill and car insurance paid by a disabled friend on very low income.  When I am healed, I can work again and support myself.

I just went through a terrible flood disaster in July in Vermont.  Everything  in front and back of my house washed away in the flood.  I am trying to hold on after having climbed my way up from nothing.   I have trained for good job when healed so am nearly back on my feet when I am recovered enough to start working if my financial need is met by caring people who can help me.

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Hi,

I hope this letter finds you in good health. I am writing this with a heavy heart to tell you about my current financial situation, which has left me unable to meet my most basic financial obligations, including my rent of $2,500.

Over the past few months, I have faced some challenges which greatly weighs me down, unexpected medical expenses, job loss, inability to pay my rent, which have significantly impacted my income. Despite my best efforts to budget and find work, , my financial condition has reached a point where I am extremely broke, and I find myself unable to afford even the necessities.

I understand the importance and responsibility of paying rent, and it deeply distresses me to be in this position. I value the home I have here . My intention is not to avoid my obligations, but rather to seek assistance during this incredibly challenging time.

I am actively searching for a new job and exploring assistance programs, and I am hopeful that my situation will improve in the coming months. In the meantime, I am asking if there might be any way i could address my rent payments. I just want to pay my rent so i can have a place to sleep.

I am more than willing to provide any documentation or further information you may require to verify my current situation. Once I am in a better financial position, I am committed to addressing any arrears.

I appreciate your understanding during this difficult period in my life.

Thank you for your consideration and understanding.

Warm regards,

odemijie osemudiamen.

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