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Last Updated: March 6, 2023

COVID Relief

Good is the day, everyone.

 

 

 

 

My name is Kacie.

 

I have COVID-19.

 

It wasn’t a bad start when I had tested positive for this virus. But, as days turned into weeks, I knew it was certainly more ugly than I could imagine.

 

With there not being any relief for those who have contracted COVID-19, it has become hard on those who have had to stay off of work for a prolonged period of time.

 

Behind the scenes, times have still been hard on us.

 

I have been so sickly that it even hurts to breathe. Nothing is appetizing to eat. My low-grade fever (99.8-100.2°) will not go away. I am cold then hot then cold again.

 

I am fortunate enough, though, that I am not among those who are in the hospital fighting for their lives.

 

It has been almost 3 weeks since I’ve been off of work. Unfortunately, I do not have a stable support system that have carry my bills until I get better.

 

I’m not asking for thousands of dollars to get my out of this whole. I just want to worry on one thing at a time, and that’s on getting better.

 

Thank you.

-Kacie

 

https://www.paypal.me/kaciekarma

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: March 5, 2023

WE NEED HELP

Asking for help was always an embarrassing thing for me to do all because of my EGO. I’m now finding out that it takes a bigger person to not be afraid to ask for help but I still feel somewhat embarrassed. The truth of the matter is that I used to be a youth councillor and a teacher at a private academy for trouble youth. I work there for almost 3 years but a severe accident playing hockey. My own player ran into me and I ended up somehow bed written with a Cerebral & Brain Stem Concussion, 6 Herniated disks, torn ligament that connected to the skull to the neck, and a severe whiplash in which the tissue under the skull and over the skull was severely, for 4 years. My wife had to help me go to the bathroom and feed me because I couldn’t get out of bed and couldn’t even lift a bowl. It was a terrible situation.  The accident happened in 2008 and I only started getting up and walking with crutches in 2013. Never thought I would ever get up again. It was after months of therapy and healing that I started to try to find work. I slowly began doing small landscaping jobs and bought an old SUV off my mother in Law. It was later that I started doing small interior jobs and was learning all the trades with the help of different people. By the time 2015 came around I was a complete full rounded handyman.

I later started my Contracting business. Slowly and surely I started build up a small clientele and things were starting to go well. But I realized that I had to expand to make enough for my family because in 2018 My wife was pregnant with our 5th. I had big plans on how to expand but then suddenly Covid hit, and everything slowed down. I went and worked for other people and did whatever I could to keep us afloat. Once Covid was over I had borrowed money and found myself just making money to pay those debts back with very little left over for our family bills. I decided this was no better time to expand. I hired someone who would help with phone calls and quotes, someone to help go see clients and more employees. I then incorporated my business officially and everything seemed to be moving smoothly. But then a big storm swept right through Ontario and the Kawarthas, the region in which I was residing and where most of my work was, had been hit hard. We had no power for days, some places for a week. All clients I had and was newly acquiring had decided to stop moving forwards with their projects and everyone decided they had to go through insurance for their repairs. So, for 2 weeks there was no work and I so many hours dealing with insurance companies for clients trying to get what was asking for the job. Only 10% of the insurance companies were willing to pay what was required of the jobs. But it was either take what they were offering or have no work at all. So, we manage for awhile but it was getting bad. On top of all this I soon found that my office guy I hired was not including his wages or mine or even the overhead costs for the business itself and I found myself doing jobs August 2022, & September 2022 out of my own pocket. So all the money I had made was put into those job. I still have jobs that are not finished and I’m waiting to make more money so I can go back to finish them. So, I started to book for November, December, January, and February, being the slowest time of the year up her in cottage country. It was then that I found out my mother was doing well. It was at a younger age that my mother was diagnosed with Paranoid Schizophrenia and from the age of 4 to 18 was not aloud to see her. As soon as I turned 18 I made my way to North bay Ontario and went and saw my mother for the first time in 12 years. We began a relationship we were never able to have and I told her that no matter what she was a good mother and she did the best she could. She cried for 3 hours like she had been realised from a burden she had been carrying for years. It was Later on that my mother was taken in by my aunt her youngest sister and with her care she improved drastically. She had lost bad weight, they were able to reduce her medication, she know longer had to take insulin for her diabetes. It was so exciting. But 2 years ago, the summer of 2020 I had a phone call from my aunt that my mother been diagnosed with Brain and lung Cancer and she had no longer then 6 months to live. But somehow with treatment and better eating the brain tumor was gone and the lung Cancer was diminishing. She was here longer then we expected and it was for the first time that my wife, kids, and myself were going to be able to see here for the first time in 5 years because of Covid. But it was Monday November 21st that I got a call from my aunt and she told me that my mother passed in bed.

They resuscitated her even though she had a non-resuscitated listed on her medical. So, I made my way up to see her so we could as a family pull the plug. On Wednesday Nov. 23rd we pulled the plug and it was quick because she had no brain activity. The sad thing was the doctor came and told us that she never had a heart attack, she never died from cancer but rather she had gotten an infection and it got septic and it got into her blood stream. It could have been prevented.

I new at this point I was in trouble. Due to the timing of her death it was going to affect all the bookings I do for January, February, and I already postponed a basement Job to start that week. But my aunt informed me the night I arrived that she had life insurance and that I would be receiving $125000.00 so all my financial stress all went away that very second. I offered some of the money to my aunt because she was the one who took care of here for so money years. But she said this was there so for me, my wife and 5 kids. She and my uncle were ok. I took some time with my family and grieved. I released the clients to go to another contractor or to wait till after the holidays. 1 client found another contractor and the other one changed her mind after the holidays to finish the basement. This was ok because I was getting insurance money. I spoke to every single company I was indebted to and those I owed money to that as soon as the insurance money had come in I would take care of all my debts and what I had borrowed from them.

I waited and waited to find out from my aunt who was the executor of the will and who happened to be in charge of the insurance policy. In the middle of the holidays she informed me that there was a problem processing the policy. So it was 2 weeks ago Today that she informed me that the broker that sold the insurance sold her Accidental Death Insurance not regular Life Insurance but that they were looking into it. It was just today January 30th that she informed me that she was notified that there would be no money given to me. At this point I am devastated. We pushed every bill and debt you can thing off to the latest date. Everything is about to crumble, my business, our living, the people we owe money to, etc.

Our family needed this money so badly. I made decisions based on the fact that it was just a matter of time before we got the payout. The truth is it was going to save us. Instead everything is going to fall apart. I tried personal loans, business loans, and even private loans but couldn’t get anyone to lend us money cause I never started asking till it was too late. We need help. We have asked family, friends, even tried to find private lenders but to no avail. If there is someone who is willing and able to help I promise to build my business in such a way that I will pay it forward. Please I’m begging. I need to raise $16500.00.

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: Canada

Last Updated: March 5, 2023

Please Consider Helping

Hey, folks.

 

I’m not even sure where to start, this is not something that I’ve ever done more than consider. I am a very average 29 year old father of 2 and divorcee. I’m really nobody special and honestly, I know there are MANY MANY millions of others out there in the world in probably a much worse situation than myself.

 

If the tables were turned and I was living in such a situation that I could personally help those that had their own hardships I would. Do I even feel like I deserve donations? Perhaps not.

 

But here I am, I wanted to give this a fair attempt and see if it bore any fruit. For those of you that do choose to donate, I will personally attempt to reach out and provide my full appreciation in return. Gratitude may not be much but its truly the best I can offer at this time.

 

Also I feel I must add that I am actually employed part time and I even make fairly decent money for what I do. (Retail Stocking). The truth is I made a few bad decisions last year, had a few things happen that set me and my family back, such as a car accident involving my wife and 5 year old son. (No injuries thankfully). Not to mention that all of us are suffering because of the outrageous inflation that the US has been having.

 

Regardless, these events all led to me having to use all my credit cards just to afford enough food, utility usage, and gasoline to get by. The several months of $7 per gallon of gasoline was very rough for me due to work commuting and picking up my daughter each weekend from my ex wife (100 mile round trip).

 

Now for my financial situation currently… I bring home about $1500 per month in net income from my job. After I pay my monthly bills- utility, gasoline, phone, food, that kind of thing; I have about $300 in disposable income left. Now normally this would actually be wonderful for me, and I would feel comfortable. But I didn’t include any of my credit card bills in these deductions.

 

Now as I said earlier I was forced to use these last year essentially just to get by. Across my 8 personal credit cards and one outstanding personal loan, my debts are just exceeding $19,000 all together. Just my minimum payments alone combine to over $500 per month. I’ve burned through all the savings I had built up from the past 2 years of about $2000.

 

I have looked into secondary employment of all kinds, while there are many places hiring, there wasn’t any that would be able to be as flexible as i need them to be with a toddler who needs a lot of attention when he isn’t at school. I have attempted to get another personal loan many times to consolidate everything but as you can imagine my credit is entirely shot due to the usage of my cards being consistently high and missed payments. I still have an option of debt settlements but this is a last resort for me as I know from my own previous experience that it destroys my credit even more. Just 6 years ago after my divorce I had to file for bankruptcy over debts that came from my previous marriage. I was able to get this bankruptcy discharged in 2017 and I truly never thought I would end up here again, so close to needing one again. And mentally I just can’t make the decision to file again. I wanted to explore every other way to help first.

 

Here I am now, this is likely the final option I am trying before I may need to make another big decision. And I hope that it doesn’t need to come to that for me again.

 

Now to all of you who see this, if you are able bodied and willing to help me climb back on top of my finances, I would be immensely grateful. Even the smallest donation from anyone who can would make a world of difference for me.

 

Thank you all for reading. And to anyone who got this far in the letter, thank you so much for your time.

https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/kaosuprizing

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: March 4, 2023

Help to move

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Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: March 5, 2023

Have you lost Home Family and All Possessions… Again

Have you lost Home Family and All Possessions… Again

CALLING ALL ORGANIZATIONS/AGENCIES -CHURCH/CIVIC & FRATERNAL GROUPS AND/OR CHARITABLE INDIVIDUALS AND FOUNDATIONS WHO WOULD LIKE TO HELP
HOPING FOR A MIRACLE FOR THIS GENTLEMAN AND HIS EXTENDED FAMILY.

PRIOR ATTEMPT WAS MADE at a late point and did not reach the original goal by A LOCAL ORGANIZATION with the support of FOUR
ORGANIZATIONS/INDIVIDUALS AT $333 EACH.

Prior ORGANIZATION DID NOT COLLECT PLEDGES UNTIL ALL SPOTS FILLED!!! ALL SPOTS DID NOT FILL!!!

WE ARE NOT ASKING FOR COLLECTION UNTIL MONDAY AND ARE ASKING THAT INDIVIDUALS SENDS FUNDS AS THEY ARE ABLE AS THE DEADLINE IS NEXT WEEK!!!

NO MONEY WAS COLLECTED OR DELIVERED to the gentleman and he had to barter his time to save temporarily his possessions but neglecting the
possessions of his deceased family and some personal and work items. DETAILS FROM PRIOR CAMPAIGN BELOW.

HE borrowed the money from a work opportunity pledging the next month of time to repay working 7 days, which left him and his family with NO
FUNDS FOR CURRENT BILLS.

TWO MONTHS LATER he is facing auction again having received NO other SUPPORT and only periodic work opportunities. He is DISABLED but has
studied and worked in technical and labor fields as well as VOLUNTEERED AFTER SUFFERING MULTIPLE LOSSES personal as well as shared in the
events that have affected ny over the past DECADE.

“Eric” is currently living in his vehicle and a good portion of what he will loose are items for his work.

PLEASE CONSIDER HELPING – Even if you can’t pledge the full $333. We will combine pledges!! Thank you for caring!!!

Please pass this along to Foundations, Agencies, and individuals who may be able to help!!

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***PLEASE PRIVATE MESSAGE ME on FB or E-MAIL us at losthomefamilyallagain@gmail.com

 

We are Looking to fill all these spots and if the goal is reached to fill them a second time to provide the Gentleman the time to clear out
the space, decrease his burden and make some improvements to his circumstances.

https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/RamonaJanson

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: March 2, 2023

My Daughter & I are Being Abused – Help Me Start Over

I have never asked for this kind of help before but I’m almost to the point of living in my car with my daughter to escape the abuse we are living in. My partner of 17 years is a severe alcoholic that has mentally and verbally abused our daughter and myself for the last 16 years. It has now escalated to financial abuse and physical abuse. Tonight was the last straw. I came home to him drunk and all I wanted was to talk to him about my day and he accused me of liking my boss because I told a story of something funny my boss said. The next thing I knew I was laying on the floor because he shoved me so hard I hit our kitchen island, then the floor. I hit my head and I think I was out for about 1 minute. When I finally regained my composure, I sat up to see him push my daughter down to the ground by her forehead because she wanted to check on me. I grabbed my keys and told my daughter to run to the car. I didn’t think about grabbing my purse. When I came back home the house was trashed. He was gone and my purse was emptied. He took my debit card and the $700 in cash I had to pay the current and past due balance for my daughters braces (I’m behind on payments because of him). I have a great job but when I have to pay for all the bills, groceries, maintenance on vehicles and all expenses for our daughter, I have nothing left and I’m back to living paycheck to paycheck again. That doesn’t include the money he steals from me. I want out. I have to get out. I have found a place to live but it’s $700 a month with a $700 deposit. I also have to pay deposits on my water and electricity as well as furnish my home as I am not taking anything but then are necessities like clothes, my deceased mothers things, my daughters things and my two cats. It took a lot for me to post this but I am fearful for my daughters safety, as well as my own. Please consider donating to my fundraiser. I’m so afraid that my daughter will have lifelong PTSD because of the hell we are living in. I have got to get her out of here and get her some help so maybe she can recover. Thank you for reading and be blessed.

 

 

 

 

PayPal.me/Linzhere

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: February 24, 2023

Seeking help to support basic needs!

As much as it hurts, I am asking for help from any kind-hearted individuals who are willing to give a small portion of what they have to someone they will never meet.

My best friend’s family is in a hard way, and I’ve been trying to help, but my own hours at work have been cut so bad and raises refused due to the company trying to save money, so I am barely managing to support the two of us, let alone more. I am making less than those below my position at work right now due to what my company is doing right now to cut corners, and I’m beginning to worry for my own survival as well as that of my friend and his family. We are both technically homeless and have been staying at my mother’s in a small upstairs room, half of which is dedicated to storage, so really we only have less than half of a room that is already only about 90 square feet to begin with. I’ve never felt so humbled in my life.

My friend has a disability that prevents him from working easily and it’s hard for him to keep a job that’s willing to work with his pain levels since he has also had his disability denied due to doctor lies on his medical record, putting him in a very bad position. His mother is a single mother who struggles with chronic pain and disability, although her case has been continually denied and so she is unable to get the help she needs in that regard. She also has a young son (my best friend’s little brother) with a disability who requires a lot of her shared time and resources, making it very difficult on her, and especially right now where she has so little for herself. Right now she is struggling to keep food in her house, and enough money to pay her bills, pay for repairs to her only vehicle, and put gas in the car to go to the doctors that she needs to see to improve her health and make it so she CAN support herself again. I am able to work, of course, but my hours have been cut so badly, I’m barely making it from paycheck to paycheck, and that’s being weekly instead of biweekly. We have been seeking out the resources we have available, but it’s simply not been enough. I no longer have a working car and depend on borrowed transportation to keep my own income flowing, what little there is.

Through all this, I am not asking for help for myself, I am asking for her. I think I can manage on my own, if it were just myself and my friend to support. I simply can’t help her out in the way she needs, I’m not making enough money or getting nearly enough hours, so I am here earnestly asking for help from anyone who has a little to spare. What I do have right now is internet and a computer, and so on her behalf I implore anyone who reads this to consider offering just a little. It doesn’t have to be much, if enough people pitch in. Even if it were just $10 or $20, from enough people it would be a huge help and is a big appreciation, and any money donated to me will be given to her to help her with her survival. I swear that I will not keep a penny of it for myself, but neither will I ever be able to pay it back.

If you donate to my link, know that you will be helping a single mother and her two sons (my friend’s younger brothers), and you will have my eternal thanks and appreciation. With enough help for these three people, I can support the needs of myself and my best friend. I have never begged for money before, truly, but I am asking now for you to please consider just a little to help us out and keep a small family of three from starving and going cold in the months to come until warm weather arrives to stay.

paypal.me/emunah1138

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: February 21, 2023

On sick leave and struggling to pay bills

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Hi, I’ve never done this before, but I am truly desperate. I can’t keep going on like this. I’ve been forced to go on sick leave since November and lost most of my main sources of income since then. I am currently receiving checks from the government, but I was already working for a low wage, so I have even less money, resulting in me being unable to save anything. I live alone, am quite isolated and I cannot ask for anyone else around me, because they just started living comfortably. I am currently unable to eat properly and can’t sleep because the fact that I have so little money makes me anxious. I’m supposed to recuperate to be able to work again and want to go to school again, but it’s difficult for me to save at the moment. I can’t start any projects, because I have so much anxiety. I’ve been living on my credit cards to pay for food and I am doing my best to pay it, but recently I had to pay some medical fees and I just can’t. I feel like I won’t ever be able to recover and I will constantly be trapped in this. I haven’t been able to eat properly in a few months now and I am looking to find jobs that will able to accept me once I will come back from sick leave, but it’s so difficult right now.

 

Please send your money to help me pay my bills at www.paypal.me

I would enjoy a nice meal and returning to school and work without constantly having panic attacks.

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: Canada

Last Updated: February 21, 2023

Hardworking Therapist In need of $10,000 to get through financial hardship

In search of a generous donor to help a struggling therapist through a financial hardship. I am looking for about $10,000 and would plan to utilize the money to pay down credit card debt (that has accrued as a result of living pay check to pay check), as I am newly out of school and have been financially independent from a very young age due to an abusive home situation that I was forced to leave before I was financially ready to. I would also like to create a financial cushion for myself in the event that an unforeseen expense should arise, so that I no longer have to utilize my credit cards. Also, I am currently in the process of seeking out a second job, and am open to taking on a third job if needed. I would be eternally grateful to receive help through this financial hardship. Donations of any amount are much appreciated, and I am happy to provide additional information on my situation if needed- I am all about transparency! Thank you in advance!

http://paypal.me/marisabc97

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: February 21, 2023

Please help my Mom and Dad

Hi, I try not to ask of people like this, but we really need help, so I am going to reach out and pray. My name is Joseph I grew up in Memphis Tennessee in a small little midtown house my mother and father worked so hard for. If you’re not familiar with midtown Memphis, it’s an historic district of Memphis. My parents bought the house i grew up in when my mom was six months pregnant my dad was working two jobs and is the greatest dad in the world I know everyone thinks that about their dad but my dad really was even at a young age I noticed how long he would be gone for work every day twelve fifteen hours a day most the time to try and give us the best of course it wasn’t the best but it was pretty good in my eyes,  I got my work ethic from my father. He taught me to the best I could be and never give up because the job was too hard just get it done then you can complain. He never made that much money he was a pressman at a printing company an artist in a dying art he used to say, but he would break his back to the best he could. Ok back to the house I grew up in they bought in 1976 right before I was born.my brother and I grew up in this old house that was built I think around 1911 or in the twenties for sure but yea it’s that old and it’s their house. Around 2001 my brother was killed in a tragic automobile accident and i watched my parents slump into a deep depression which I did too. The house fell into disrepair during that time and that’s when the giant oak tree in the back yard started to die my dad didn’t have the motivation or the youth to deal with it after losing his oldest son, and I had a new daughter wife and another on the way I didn’t have time to fix up the house. Keep in mind were just a blue-collar family living paycheck to paycheck, one thing led to another and its 2023, I have a daughter in college and my family is broke. The giant oak tree in the back yard is dropping a limb is every storm that comes through and is destroying the roof which is leaking in certain spots. I actually have pots and buckets in the attic to catch the water when it rains. I would give anything if I could pay for the tree to come down give my mom and dad a new roof and fix(rebuild) their deck that a giant limb from the big oak demolished. The price for the tree to come down is 7500.00 and a new roof is an easy 15,000.00. The deck we could do without but since im here it would 5000.00. if anyone feels it in their heart to give, please do it all for my mom and dad both in their 70s now. All together we are looking at probably 32,500.00.  anything would be greatly appreciated. Thank You and God bless.image7.jpeg

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: February 20, 2023

Family in desperate need

Hello and thank you for your consideration, I’m a 41 year old husband/father who has just experienced identity theft and cyber attacks in the worst way, depleting our bank accounts, repo letters, destroyed the credit it took 40 years to build, leading to the doors being closed to a small business I started back in 1999 that has been 100% of our family’s income since. We have been evicted from our home, the 1 vehicle we still have is going on 5 months now in repo that at the moment luckily is a suv that we can fit in to at least keep warm. I have never been in a position to where as I “Need” the help, I’ve honestly always been more on the donating side, but my name and credit right now are disgusting and my kids are sleeping in a car, hotels, couch surfing friends house. I’m a honest man that feels as the world is on my shoulders while treading water in the ocean. I’m a strong believer of what goes around comes around, one hand washes the other, etc… and that’s why I’m hoping if there’s anyone out there that is in alittle better position than we and able to help us, I know of 2 parents and 3 little girls who would ever be most grateful.

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: February 19, 2023

Needs help

Dear Sir/Madam,

Thank you for taking the time to read my story.  Please bear with me as I write this as I have never asked for help through a platform such as this.

My name is Taufiq, I have 2 twin daughters who are 14 months old, both of them are not breastfeeding, from the age of one month they only drink formula milk, which is expensive for me.

My wife decided to teach since my two children were 6 months old to meet our daily needs, even though to be honest it’s still not enough, in fact now I have a debt about $ 400 which is due, until now I haven’t paid it off, namely debt for shopping for diapers at the store  online, now I even lost my job, now I’m confused to pay the bill.   Until now my wife and I are still living with my wife’s parents because there are no funds to build our own house.  ​I have lost my job this week, I am still unemployed, I want to open a small business, but to eat everyday my savings are running low, if this week I don’t find a new job I don’t know what to do anymore, while in  my country is very difficult to find a job.

My wife and I each don’t have a father figure, my wife’s father died 5 years ago and my father died 2 years ago, so we still have an obligation to help our two mothers financially.  My mother sells a staple goods at home, where her income is only for food everyday, and my wife’s mother sells fruit at the market, where her income can only last a day.

I really hope there are donors who are willing to help me, if I am given enough money, I will pay off my debts which if not paid soon will be getting bigger every month, , help my two mothers financially, and I will make good use of that money, by opening a small business, because I also want to be independent  , do not depend on the family.  ​I also really hope that there will be an improvement in the lives of my children so that my children can live happily, unlike their parents who struggle to even buy a box of formula milk.

Thank you for taking the time to read this story and any help/assistance that could be given, would help and be much appreciated.

Thank you again!

paypal.me/mtaufiq7

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: Asia

Last Updated: February 19, 2023

Small donation will go a long way

To whom it may concern,

I would like to start off by saying thank you for taking time and reading my request for a small donation. In the past recent months I have accumulated debt that I can’t dig myself out of, and am asking for help with $2,000. Here is my story:

From August through October, I was forced to take work off and was placed on Short Term Disability due to medical reasons. In that period of time I accumulated medical bills, along with my everyday bills, that my disability did not cover. After my medical treatment, I decided life is too short and to better my life, and my health, I made the decision to quit drinking alcohol. During my sobriety, I realized my relationship with my girlfriend of 2 years was not healthy, and I made the decision to end it to focus on myself and my health. I own my own home, so my girlfriend was living with me at my house. In our breakup she had to move out, which meant I was the sole provider now for all housing payments, which I was not financially ready for. At the time of our break up, I was already in debt to the medical bills. Now I was taking on all utility bills and full mortgage payments. On top of this, I did not want to lose my puppy in the break up, because he has been my best friend and my son since the day I brought him home. In order for me to keep him, I had to buy him off of my ex, with money I did not have. Along with purchasing my dog, I had to pay off the furniture that her and I were making monthly payments on.

All of these unforeseen payments have spiraled me into debt I cannot get out of. I am now 160 days alcohol free and I am happier and healthier than I have ever been before. Making the decision to end my unhealthy relationship, and to become forever sober, was the hardest decision of my life, and ultimately has put me in debt. With that being said, it has been the best decision I have ever made, and wouldn’t change it. I choose my life, my health, and my happiness over money. You truly can’t put a price tag on your life.

I am thriving in life right now, in terms of health, both mental and physical. But I am drowning in debt and can’t dig myself out of this hole. If anyone out there would be willing to help me get out of this trouble, I would be forever grateful. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for taking time and reading this.

I am politely asking for a $2,000 donation, or anything you would be willing to contribute. My PayPal is paypal.me/wiegmanj

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: February 19, 2023

Help For Mom After Pitbull Attack

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Hi! My name is Phillip, and I’m not one to usually ask for help. In fact I’ve spent most of my life doing right the opposite. From military service to working as a Paramedic and in ERs, I’ve tried to help others who were in need. Now, it’s I who is in need. Or, more specifically, I’m an in need in order to help my mother.

 

My father Father passed away in January 2014, followed by Step-Father in 2019. My Father was diagnosed and went down hill rapidly in 2012, and a testament to my Step-Father, it was agreed that my father come stay with both of them. He passed away January 2014.

 

The night before my Father’s Funeral, my Step-Father collapsed and I performed CPR, nearly losing him. He was taken to ER by ambulance. We stayed overnight with my Mother and he, and I went straight to Dad’s Funeral from my Step-Dad’s hospital room. My mother missed the Funeral to stay there with him. We were given his cancer diagnosis the next day.

 

They would both go on to lose battles to cancer, both in January, both days after my Birthday. Myself and my Mother took care of both of them throughout their tragic battles and passing, alternating 24/7, my mother being semi-retired, the more selflessly giving of herself. Be it exhausted or seemingly overwhelmed, she never once complained or shied away from her “responsibilities” to be there for both of them to the very end.

 

While I helped how I could, having a career, marriage and family, while traveling back and forth to stay and help her from where I lived, meant I was not there like I truly wished I could be. I took them both on their last camping and fishing trips, and to see their last College Football games. Perhaps if my siblings had helped more, it wouldn’t have taken such a toll on my Mother and both of our finances.

 

In September of 2020, with the medical bills from my Step-Dad still piled up on her, my Father’s expenses weighing on my shoulders, that I was still receiving, the worst thing that could have occurred other than her own passing, did exactly that. My mother dog sat for a very close family friend, while she was having to move after her divorce. Her 4 year old pitbull, Marley. Tragedy ensued.

 

One night, myself, my nephew and our family friend were at my mom’s playing games and cards. My mother went outside to play with and feed the friends PitBull. While we laughed and talked at the table waiting for her, she screamed to us for help. The Pit Bull had attacked.

 

I’ll save the details, and visual cues of that horrible experience, as even for someone trained in combat and with a mixed martial arts background in Aikido, Krav Maga and Jiu-Jitsu it was a life and death battle. I sustained some injuries that have eventually faded to jagged scars. And we still don’t know why the dog attacked. But my Mother was the primary outlet of the animals fury. Her left arm and hand were nearly amputated in the attack and irreparable damage was inflicted on her mangled extremity.

 

2 years later, she’s still in pain most days, limited use of her left arm, and Financials ravaged by my Step-Dad’s Funeral and Medical costs, and her own Medical bills. Then in 2022 my brother, who owns a roofing and construction company took advantage of her by getting her to file an insurance claim on her roof for his company to do the work and then took the money and ran. My mother could not bring herself to go after her own son, so that’s how that ended. With her barely avoiding am insurance fraud investigation and losing her homeowners insurance thereby possibly losing her house.

 

So, to bring an end to this story, I’ve helped every way that I can, given every spare dime I could, and ran the wheels off my truck taking extra clients, work orders and side gigs to do what I could. Literally. I burned through 2 trucks in 2 years taking jobs for clients all over the country. Breaking down in Wyoming and having to fly and leave truck and tools and fly back to Tennessee to start over. This last truck blew the engine and was $5000 for the new engine and install. Given that, I’m strapped for what else I can do.

 

My Mother still owes Medical bills for herself, we have paid off my Dad and Step-dad’s debts, the roof is in desperate need of repair as well as other areas of the house, and she risks losing her insurance again of repairs don’t start soon, and now her truck just blew its engine. So she has no way to go anywhere easily, without myself or her best friend taking her, nor the money to really pay for Ubers or Lyfts.

 

My goal is to gather the money to pay off her remaining medical bills, fix her truck or use it and some funds to trade it in and pay off a decent, dependable used car or electric vehicle, do the most critical repairs to the house required by insurance, and send her on a modest vacation with her best friend, so we can surprise her with the repairs and car when she gets back. I want to send her on a road trip across Route 66 to California and back, to see the all the splendor and Landmarks on the Mother Road. Nothing extravagant. To rent an RV and her, her best friend and myself as the chauffeur, take her on a once in a lifetime adventure, as she’s never ventured far from her home in Memphis.

 

My mother is an amazing woman and I’ve done everything I can on my own to pay her back and be there for her as she has been for me and my Fathers. And there has still been no help from my family for her. She deserves to not have to worry about her roof leaking, being able to go get milk and bread or run what errands she needs to without wondering how she will do it, or waiting on me or her friend to get off work.

 

So with our story out there for the world to see, and show how brave, compassionate and amazing a human being my mother is… I humbly and gratefully ask for help, to do this for the SuperHero I call “Mom”. I love this woman, and should this fundraiser fail, I will only try harder to get the money to give her the quality of life she deserves and the vacation she would never be able to take on her own.

 

Thank you for taking the time to consider helping me make this all come true, and for donating should you have the means to do so. I know that times are hard for most, if not all of us, but my Mother’s health was not helped by all that had happened and I just want to see her happy again and know that she never has to worry about her house being taken away or falling down around her anymore.

I’ve included my Self-Employed/Side-Gig PayPal.me below, to offer more peace of mind that this is a legit request for help.

Thank You Again!

https://www.paypal.me/DevilDogSystems

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: USA

Last Updated: February 17, 2023

Really Need Some Help.

Hello, Thank you for your time, (and possibly your donation!).

I have got to the point where i am literally begging strangers online for help. My wife has no idea i am writing this, while i type this plea, she is curled up sobbing and exhausted on the bed after her 18th consecutive day of work.

She is working 3 jobs while also trying to study for a degree and is 6 months into a 3 year course where she is learning to become a qualified podiatrist. She is working almost 60hrs+ and studying 16hrs each week.

I am currently working around 55hrs+ a week and take what little overtime and weekend work is available whenever possible. I have been with my current company for just over 5 years now.

We are both in our 30s, work full time, have no children and yet have still managed to spiral into substantial debt. Weve been far from the most needy people out there but are hardly well off either. We have the usual monthly outgoings, mortgage, council tax, insurances, phones and internet etc. we do not have a lavish lifestyle by any means. I cannot afford my own car, i help my wife pay for her car (a skoda citigo) while i am lucky enough to have use of the work van provided.

Before Covid hit, we took out a loan to clear up some  credit card and various other small debts and also spent just under £2000 to fix up the kitchen and a few bits around the house, we had been in our home for about 2 years at this point and hadnt really done anything to it since moving in, seemed manageable at the time.

Then, Covid and a whole bunch of other financial problems arose pretty much at the same time and completely out of the blue. I was put on furlough for 3 months at the start of the pandemic, my brother lost his job, his girlfriend and the roof over his head and was at rock bottom. He asked for some help so i tried to be the good big brother, got another loan out to help ourselves and my brother. He hasnt managed to stay in full time employement since which means i get little to nothing back from him. Then the boiler broke, then a couple of unexpected vet bills, then we forked out over £1200 trying to keep my wifes previous car going, which later turned out to be a complete waste and as you can see things really snowballed very quickly from there. We cut out any unnecessary expenses and also sold anything we could live without just to keep paying the bills.

Flash forward a couple of years, we now have no savings, reached our credit card limits and are deep into our overdrafts, we have just been paying out more than were getting in for long enough that we have literally reached the very limit. our only next step is to sell the house we have worked long and hard for to pay everything off, move to one of our parents and start all over again.

My wife suffers with her mental health and has done for most of her life but this has put so much more stress on her that she really isnt coping. I came home one day last year and found her being carted off in an ambulance after she attempted to take her own life. Thankfully she survived but everyday ive lived with the fear that next time she would succeed ever since. I try to be her rock, something solid to help keep her grounded but we are both just so emotionaly and physicly exhausted.

I just dont know what else to do at this point.

With pretty much everybody else we know in similar financial situations, there really isnt anybody we could turn to for help. I am not asking for you to pay off our mortgage or pay our loans but if we could raise enough to get out of our overdrafts and possibly our credit cards we could get back on track. hopefully our run of bad luck is over. We have 7 years of repayments left on our biggest loan but if we are no longer making credit card and overdraft repayments i think we can manage. Just those expenses alone would free up around £250-£300 a month which would be

Thank you very much for taking the time to read our sob story, and a very big thank you to anybody in a position to donate! Anything you could spare is greatly appreciated!

Currently our accounts look something like this..

Mine:

overdraft: – £560

credit card: – £4,380.49

loan: – £17,705.04

Wife:

overdraft: – £1000

credit cards: – £3500

 

paypal.me/thedeadendz

 

Filed Under: Emergency Money Tagged With: UK

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