My name is Barbara and for the last 7 years I have suffered domestic violence.

Because of my upbringing I took it in thinking that this is normal. Over the years things have escalated and now it has turned from verbal abuse into physical abuse. I told my family and friends and all along they asked me to leave but I refused. I kept insisting that I am fighting for my marriage and that God will intervene. To be totally honest I truly believed this. I kind of still do but reality sets in every single day.

Now I feel Ashamed to even go back to my family or friends because they honestly asked me to leave so many times.

I currently do have a job but I am actively looking; I had saved up some money and moved into an apartment but bills are pilling and I am starting to feel overwhelmed. My plea is that you aid me to leave this situation once and for all and to start over.

I have lived in a women’s shelter before, and they really helped me. Right now, I have my puppy with me and as you all know some people are allergic; which makes it quite hard to find accommodation. This little puppy has honestly saved me from drowning into dark thoughts and depression. He puts a smile on my face every singe day.

If you have it in your heart any thing big or small goes along way. I would very much appreciate and I promise once i get on my feet I will pay it forward.

People keep asking me; why do people, especially women stay in an abusive situations. I honestly do not have a n answer to that because every situation is different. I only speak for myself here when i say at times it is because I felt like I am at a dead – end point. I felt cornered and kind of suffocated. I was ad still am embarrassed that people will look at me and say but we told you so . So ended up just staying to save face. So to Speak.

It is easier to ask for help from strangers who are impartial and non judgmental . To anyone inclined to give please know that ;you are saving a life whether literally or not. I lost myself and I am just starting to find my bearing again.

I get startled easily just because of what I have gone through over the years. I was caught unaware ; moving and settling costs are quite hefty . Your Consideration is highly appreciated.

Thank you so much and as you give I pray that may your pockets always overflow.

With gratitude

Barbara

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Mustapha Mahamudu

Date: April 5, 2025

Subject: Urgent Appeal for Medical Assistance for Ms. Fatima – $100,000 Life-Saving Surgery

To Whom It May Concern,

I write this letter with the utmost humility and sincerity, in my capacity as the legal representative and son of Ms. Fatima, a beloved mother, community member, and the heart of our family.

Ms. Fatima is currently facing a critical medical emergency requiring urgent surgical intervention in India. After extensive consultations with specialists, it has been determined that the total cost of her life-saving treatment and associated care amounts to one hundred thousand U.S. dollars (USD $100,000) — a sum far beyond our financial capacity. This surgery is not elective; it is necessary to save her life and restore her quality of living.

As a family, we have explored every available option, exhausted our resources, and reached out through all official channels for assistance. We now find ourselves in the most vulnerable position one can be in — placing our hopes in the kindness and compassion of others.

This is a direct appeal to generous individuals, philanthropic organizations, humanitarian institutions, and global citizens: we are in desperate need of your help. Any contribution, regardless of the amount, will bring us closer to the miracle we are praying for — the chance to save our mother’s life.

We are prepared to provide all supporting documentation, including medical reports, cost breakdowns, and hospital correspondence, upon request. Transparency and accountability are paramount in this appeal.

Should you be in a position to assist financially or help us spread this message to others who may be able to help, we would be eternally grateful.

Donations can be made securely via

https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=Y7FT4SHFDJ4VS.

On behalf of Ms. Fatima and our entire family, thank you for reading this appeal. May your kindness return to you in immeasurable ways.

With deepest respect and gratitude,

Mustapha Mahamudu

It has taken me days to finally calm down enough over this and sit down to compose it. I realize no one has to help with this but pray for some miracle, that there are people who know how it feels to have one lone opportunity that is still so far reaching , if it happens at all. I shouldn’t be doubting myself but after moving here 3 years ago and finding no work, I’ve applied in desperation to cities elsewhere. I didn’t expect a reply but I actually got one. Then I didn’t believe the interview would lead to an offer. When the email marked “employment offer” showed up, I’m surprised I didn’t ’fall off my chair’ in shock. Now comes what appears to be the hardest part yet…Making it happen.

In making it happen, it sounds simple:  the rental I found requires first/last month’s rent (2 x $1,500, so $3,000), auto insurance because the vehicle has been parked ($700 total and includes reactivation/late fees etc), travel (likely needs an oil change/tune up and gas, say $400, and if very fortunate it definitely needs new tires and a spare, say $600). I am seeing these as all that is needed to make my new work a reality. The position pays enough that I can make rent once there for a month, I believe.
Please, I’m so close to having my life back that this is very stressful. Without the generosity of humanity, I am out of luck to make this dream happen. It’s been horrid being unemployed. PS. I also have an emotionally abusive partner to leave and cannot afford it, unless I can afford it. Yes, I’ve been through the women’s shelter and on a waiting list for two years now. Domestic abuse is rampant and there are lots of ladies waiting ahead of me.
Wow. To say one never knows what life will present has been an understatement for sure. But I think I’m doing what’s right to get my life back.  So close. Life can be generous but it sure can be humbling. I’ve experienced both now and feel the knowledge learned is invaluable and should be something I can help others with when I see them seeking to take back their life too.
Please, whatever you feel you can help with so my new future happens, would be wonderful. Thank you for taking time to read my plight. It’s been a long road.
My PayPal to my link is shoelessbruce12@gmail.com

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hi, I’m Ashley. I live in Alberta, Canada. I finally, after four miserable years supporting my narcissistic boyfriend who was awful towards me, realized that I used to be so confident, but now not so much. He bugged me about my teeth (which were supposed to be fixed, but he took that money too) and my weight. He would cheat and always made it my fault. I was so close to the money I needed to buy my home until I was with him, supporting him, and what did it get me? Nothing but anxiety problems. I can talk to people this way, but face to face, it’s not so easy.

It’s sad it took him throwing a can of kerosene and a torch lighter at me to finally be done with it, but before that, things weren’t good at all. I made a stupid promise that I wouldn’t ever give up on him, and that was thrown in my face forever. Now I’m left with nothing, barely making it by. My landlord informed me he would be taking back the place in October unless I have the money to buy it, which I’m now starting to try to do to get on my feet again. It hasn’t been easy, so I’m Here maybe someone will hear my story and wanna help. Thanks for your time

 

 

 

 

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