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Financial Hardship Help

Being a single mother especially in today’s era can be extremely overwhelming. If you are one of those mothers who is doing it alone every day you know what I am talking about. It seems like the bills just continue to pile up and never end.

Researchers have said that just in 2015 year ending alone over 80 percent of the households in America that we’re single households we’re in fact ran by a FEMALE head of household which we’re mostly living very poor.

Many people may say well there is government assistance for them to get a grant but it’s hard to find and information regarding that said topic anywhere. So in hopes to help the single mothers out in the world this article will give you some insight on the different assistance topics we can cover including where and how to get a grant or scholarship. Also, you will read and see how simple it is to receive help with income expenses and medical insurance.

Are there really grants for a single mother?

Of course they do but these grants are not only for single mothers. However, that doesn’t mean there isn’t help for a mother to receive one. I know its mind boggling that the government hasn’t had any means created for money for a single mother that is actually in the shape of a grant. One thing the government does for a single mother is they assist them through a group or have set sponsors through a company, and sometimes they are covered by the actual income assistance completely.

Below are a few websites that will redirect you to free items that you can get just for registering on the website.

Low Income Assistance for Single Mothers / Government Grants

As I said there is not an official grant for a single mother available that is FEDERAL. However a single mother can go through federal programs and register and sign up for them. Those kinds of programs are usually for households with low income. Which means you would also qualify for Welfare. No matter what the case these are programs to help those who make below the limit and live poorly.

Below are different types of assistance based in the United States.

TANF – TEMPORARY ASSISTANCE FOR NEEDY FAMILIES

TANF is a crucial for many low income families located within the US.

With TANF you receive a small amount of cash every month that you can use toward your food, rent, and other necessities. However you only receive TANF for up to 60 month limit.

If you are a single mother and you have children in your home who are less than 19 years old you are eligible for TANF.

SNAP – SUPPLEMENTAL NUTRITION ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

Food-stamps or SNAP as other people may refer to is financial help for meals. You can receive money every month to place food on the table if you are on low or no income.

For most of Americans living in poverty SNAP is potentially the only assistance they can get.

Research has shown that in 2015 SNAP benefits have helped at least 45 million Americans. Most of the ones who receive the stamps are under are up to the age of 18.

When you go to use your benefits for SNAP you have your own personal debit card to ring your groceries up with at the register. If you are interested in trying to get on with SNAP benefits all you have to do is fill and application out and send it in or take it into a local office that deals with SNAP benefits.

NSLP – NATIONAL SCHOOL LUNCH PROGRAM

This is a program that gives free (or discounted) food to students whose parent’s income is bellow a poverty level. The income needs to be at least between 130-185 percent bellow the poverty line.

Most the time if a person is a receiver of SNAP benefits their children will be accepted into this program for free lunches. But, that doesn’t mean if you don’t have or receive SNAP that your children are disqualified.

You need to contact your child’s school to apply.

TEFAP – THE EMERGENCY FOOD ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

Food for the American families who are in the poverty range not matter what the age.

If you have received food stamps before or any other program assisting you and helping you such as the ones in this article you could also be approved for this program.

You will need to contact your State distribution agency to learn more about the Emergency food assistance program.

Local Food Banks

A food bank doesn’t exactly fit into the whole “Grant” program area as it is actually a location in your town where you can get food if you are in need.

Do not allow you or your family to go without food. If you ever reach that trouble you can call 211 and ask them where the nearest food bank is based on your location.

More then 200 food banks exist with the feeding america foundation and they supply enough food to feed over 40 million people.

WIC – WOMEN, INFANTS AND CHILDREN PROGRAM

This program includes a package deal where you as a mother are able to receive healthy foods, whether you are pregnant or a new mother, and also to children who are 5 or under.

WIC is a program that is temporary and only used for a short amount of time – usually between 6 to 12 months.

EARLY HEAD START / HEAD START

These programs are for children up to 5 years old.

You can receive free child’s medical and dental care along with their schooling, and dietary needs.

Find your closes headstart office on their website or call at 1-866-763-6481.

Insurance for unemployment

This is a special program which will pay you weekly if you are unemployed and it had nothing to do with you for you being fired or let go. You will only be able to receive this benefit for maximum 26 weeks. Different states have different benefit rules. But most states will average out at about 45% of whatever the average weekly income is.

Single mothers who are out of a job temporarily can find solace with these benefits and can help make the burden less for themselves because this pay will restore what you have lost from losing your work.

If you want to try and get this started and opened for you, you will have to find your local unemployment office or apply on the website for this specific program. Most states will allow you to also try to sign up for this over the phone.

Section 8 housing

Section 8 is basically a program that helps a family be able to pay for their housing. If approved you will receive a voucher of up to 70 percent of your bills (utilities and rent). You are expected to pay the other 30 percent.

If you want to apply and feel you qualify you can get in touch with your local office involved with public housing, the HUD office.

CCAP – CHILD CARE ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

This is a benefit for families who can’t afford to place their children in daycare while working.

You still have to pay a certain percentage but it isn’t a big lump of money. The less you earn, the less you need to contribute.

EITC – Earned Income Tax Credit

It is a tax benefit for people with low income. You could potentially get as much as $6,000.

If you normally have a tax rate of $1050 but you are allowed $5550 then you get refund of $4500.

There is a Children’s Tax Credit too for as much as $1,000 for EACH child.

LIHEAP – LOW INCOME HOME ENERGY ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

LIHEAP is a program that is a one time help to help pay for heating / cooling expenses.

Most of the time this is for the disabled or families with children or disabled person in the home.

If you need any extra information regarding this topic you can get in touch through the number 1-866-674-6327 or a local number for your local LIHEAP office.

WAP – WEATHERIZATION ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

Weatherization assistance program lowers energy bills for families in need. Usually the elderly and families involving children are accepted and put to the top of the list before all.

Your monthly income need to be below 200 percent poverty level.

To apply, find a local WAP center.

Medicaid

Medicaid is help with medical expenses. If you do not have health insurance this gives you certain benefits as long as your income restriction meets the level it should.

A lot of single mothers may meet the standards to be recipients of Medicaid even if you are unemployed.

Every state has different rules about Medicaid plans. You can find out exact requirements on this website.

Together with ObamaCare it ensures that even single mothers who didn’t receive any health benefits will now be able to have coverage.

CHIP – CHILDREN HEALTH INSURANCE

CHIP gives children without health insurance a chance to have health benefits all the way up until they are nineteen. It is for families whose income is too high to receive Medicaid benefits.

It provides every type of benefit you can think of — dental, eye exams, and even annual doctor’s exams.

Every state has its own rules. If you would like to learn a little more about this specific benefit you can call 1-877 Kids now (1-877-543-7669)

Federal Pell Grants

Aid program for students of up to $5,815 for those in need to be able to set foot into college.

This is the best opportunity for a mother who is single to finally be able to finish her schooling and finally continue in the workforce. The money is completely free of charge with no interest rates or paybacks ever.

You need to fill out an application and submit it for a pell grant and have it turned in on or before June 30th of every year.

Federal Supplemental Education Opportunity Grant

Similar to the Pell Grant. If you already have had pell grants and you are at the top of the charts in need you will be first on the list to receive this. Depending on a persons needs that are wrapped in with their financial struggle will ultimately decide who will receive anywhere between $100 too $4,000 annually.

Charities

Charities can be a way to seek help for you and your children whether you are in need of food or clothing or even housing. A lot of charities around the world actually have their own food banks that they run and they will give you bags of free food.

If you go to salvation army a lot of the times they will let you sleep there if you have no where else to go especially if it is a result of violence.

Churches

Most churches will offer you food and clothes or maybe even a place to stay if you have been recently kicked out by the one you are living with.

To find information on this you should look through your phone books local listing or yellow page. You can also research online and see what churches are available to your area and call them and ask what services they do offer.

Loans

Single moms can receive loans usually relatively quickly but I would not recommended that at all. You could potentially go into debt and not be able to rise back from that.

Sometimes you have no choice because you have to fix your broken car or maybe pay for utilities and food and need the help right then. But you have to be able to pay that loan realistically quick.

Pay attention to your credit because if you try to get a loan through a bank or anyone they will check your credit score and see if it is even available to be able to place a loan out to you. If it is a loan that is for payday loans or credit card advances they will not run a check but you will end up paying more after fees and costs.

Line of Credit

If your credit is decent some people ask a bank for a loan personally. Most of the time this is a better idea then asking for a payday loan because if you need quick money with lower rates of interest this is it.

Personal Loans

On a personal loan interest is lower dramatically but you have to pay in instalments. It doesn’t really fit criteria for an emergency. Normally if you just tell them you do not have any more funds and that is why you need this they will turn you away. If your credit is poor you will not be able to even touch this offer.

Short term (payday) loans

This is a very popular type of loan. You may know it by the term “Cash advance.” The interest runs really high on these and it is a loan that is only for a small time frame.

This is a loan that would more then likely be considered if a problem arises and you needed to repair your car or had a disastrous dental emergency. You have to know for sure you will be able to give every penny back.

If you do not pay this type of loan back you could be in loads of trouble financially.

Credit card cash advance

Do you own a credit card? If so you will be able to get money from a bank as easy as 1, 2, 3. This is not a method that is highly praised though because as soon as you start taking money out of the bank the interest keeps rising and you also are charged for using and pulling out of the bank a fee. This is potentially the easier options if you do need cash asap but you have to pay it back and make sure you absolutely can.

When it is all said and done grants will not solve your money issues within your home if that is what you expect. To get a grant is definitely not easy it isn’t a walk in the park by any means.

If you are looking to get a more stable source of financially being stable you should probably look in areas around you or find a women shelter until you can get back up on your feet.

If you think you have all the time in the world you can apply for other areas of assistance such as Food stamps, HUD, and etc. They do take a lot of time and effort for someone to get back with you and let you know if you have been accepted and enrolled. Try finding a part time working job as a way to financially start becoming stable again.

The moral of this is you can not expect a grant to fall into your hands without effort and take all your worries away. They are only here too do one thing and that doesn’t usually fix anything with your financial setting.

This is all on you and what you decide, no one else can decide for you.

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Lost for over 4 years

Hello

I’m not the greatest writer or communicator but to whom it may concern so here

it goes my world ended over 4yrs ago when my husband of almost 29 years came home from work one friday and packed his clothes and left me he was my first and only love in fact my love just grew stronger and stronger for him each year that passed he was my bestfriend. two weeks later he filed for a divorce i tried to fight it but i was forced by law to end my marriage i was a wife and homemaker that’s all i knew but he left me with nothing and i;ve been trying to get on my feet with the debt he left me with i worked 2 jobs 2 years straight but the money just wasn’t great enough you can say i’ve been struggling i was 51 years old at the time of my divorce so working 2 jobs 5 days a week took a toll on my body along while still being in shock from everything i’ve just been in a fog these 4 plus years but now i am beginning to feel stronger but i am still drowning in this debt but i do want to start my life Anew and live again i just want the past baggage of this debt to disappear my debt is far greater than what i’m asking a kind person to help me with which i fill kind of embarrassed to ask anyone for but $10,000 would help me to jumpstart a new life for myself even if nothing comes out of this it feels good to finally open up and get this heaviness off my heart to finally breathe again and thank you for listening

 

 

 

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Single mom stolen from

Putting this out there is extremely difficult. I am the person people can rely on. I give and give to my Detriment.  Despite the fact that I’m posting here to ask for help I’m not usually the person who ask anyone for help,  I just figure it out someway somehow I figure it out. Well here I am. A few weeks ago my child’s father took my bank card and drained my bank account. Unbeknowns to me he has a gambling addiction.  For obvious reasons we’re no longer together. After that kind of betrayal, There is no repair. I will not deal with an addict. And that is definitely an addiction. Thankfully I had enough money to pay the rent because of how my paydays fell.  Unfortunately I can no longer pay for daycare and I am living paycheck to paycheck.  I juggle and borrow when I can, However in reality this situation has made me see that though I can be counted on for everyone else around me, I have no one to really call when I’m in need. I feel like a burden, I’m now a single mom of an 18 month old child and I’m not really sure what I’m gonna do to get by. I’m searching for alternate ways to create an income however I’m already struggling because I can’t afford daycare to work the job I already have at this point. Thankfully I work from home and I’m pulling it off most days. But it’s been an extremely stressful few weeks and I don’t know how much longer I’ll be able to do it. My boss’ are definitely taking note. He took just about $5000 for me. Had it not been for the fact that he did this before I got paid I am not sure if I would have been able to avoid eviction.  I’ve done everything I can to cut down any unnecessary expenses and juggled or put off things that don’t need to be paid immediately. He took money that should have been allocated towards monthly and daily living expenses and whatever little cushion that I had in case of a rainy day. And frankly it feels like it’s pouring and I am drowning. So please if you have the means, I would appreciate anything you can afford to give. Thank you in advance I promise to pay it forward when I get my feet back underneath me. Thanks for taking the time to read.

https://paypal.me/Inspire2bebetter?country.x=US&locale.x=en_US

 

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Light at the End of the Tunnel.

My name is Courtney and I am 33 years old and a single mother or a 13 year old. A little over a year ago I went back to school to get my bachelor’s degree because I wanted to be able to provide a better life for my son. Not long after I started school I lost my job due to down sizing. A few weeks went by and I found a part-time position while waiting for a full time position to come available. during that time the part-time income was not enough to make ends meet, but thankfully I received a school check every two months that allowed me to just get by until the next one. I have never received a dollar in child support despite the fact I have had opened four cases over the years though it never really bothered me other than times like these  I ended up being part-time for 9 months and accumulated a lot of debt from the bill i was unable to pay during that time. Now that I am full time, there have been some new set backs making it hard to catch my breath. Due to the slight pay increase I no longer qualify for food stamps, I have been served due to the non payments of the bills that I could not afford at the time. In addition my car has been in the repair shop for the last 57 days and because of my situation my job agreed to deduct my cheek weekly until the repair bill is paid in full, though it helps not having to pay it in full before I can get my car, it does make it tougher to get caught up and to see the light at the end of the tunnel. To be honest I do not even know what to ask for, I just know that absolutely anything will help take some weight off, which I will be forever grateful for.

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Only by the grace of God

It’s truly a blessing to be here today because, I am a single mother of 3 wonderful, bright children, but only have access to one since 10/2019. My older children were kidnapped by their father and taken out of state. I have been alienated from them since then and been fighting to be reunited. Covid and my high-risk pregnancy kept me from getting there, but super grateful the trial is soon (August ’23) approaching for them. My baby and I were in a car accident just a week after her 1st birthday and 2 weeks before the start of my work from home position in August last year. Thank God she was not injured, but I was and have since been in a lot of pain and therapy during my medical leave of absence since Jan 2023. I am fighting for disability benefits to continue from my employer as well as applying for SSI. I am ever grateful to be able to spend this time with my baby girl without the concerns of work and minimal childcare expenses however I have exhausted the funds that I did have on bills and out of pocket therapy expenses. I am grateful for the blessings that allowed our rent and lights to be paid this month for July, but I truly don’t know what will happen moving forward. I do not have any relatives and nowhere to go and agencies are tapped. I am behind on my bills and car insurance and my food benefits have not renewed for the month of July. My injuries prevent standing or sitting for extended periods so house cleaning, cooking, and driving are not easily completed. Her birthday is in August I hope to be able to celebrate her life because she’s so amazing and I am so grateful for he because she saved me from the depths of depression and anxiety from my children being taken. It pains me to say this, but I haven’t seen my son since he was 11 and he is now 15 and my daughter since a week before her 7th birthday and now she’s 10. The patience, perseverance and faith that all these experiences are forcing me to have is truly building me into a stronger woman, but I really need help. I am asking for help with $5000 for rent, utilities, food and clothing for her, to help celebrate my baby turning 2, and the retrieval of my children after trial. I am in a 1br apartment and need a 3 or 4bdrm home for my family. Any blessings towards my bills and goals of moving into a home are greatly appreciated. Thank you so much for reading and helping us, Have a blessed day!  paypal.me/Coley1111

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A New Beginning for My Son and Me: Seeking Support to Rebuild Our Lives

Dear compassionate souls,

I come to you today with a humble heart, seeking assistance to lift my 4-year-old son and me out of the depths of our current struggles and embark on a journey towards a fresh start. Life has presented its challenges, and I admit to making mistakes along the way. However, I am determined to rectify those errors and provide a brighter future for my beloved child.

One of my foremost desires is to break free from the burden of debt. I acknowledge the poor decisions I made, such as turning to unconventional means like an online platform to provide for my son’s basic needs. It was a choice born out of desperation, and I deeply regret having to resort to such measures. As a result, I now face the looming challenge of substantial tax obligations that I am ill-prepared to meet.

I yearn for stability and the ability to provide my son with a secure and comfortable life. Essential necessities like food, clothing, and a safe home should never be in question for a child. With your generous support, I hope to alleviate these immediate financial pressures and create a solid foundation for us to rebuild upon.

Additionally, I find myself in dire need of a reliable vehicle. Unfortunately, my current one has succumbed to disrepair, making it difficult to carry out daily tasks and seek opportunities for a better future. The prospect of obtaining affordable insurance coverage is also beyond my current means, leaving us vulnerable and exposed.

However, I have recently experienced a revelation. Through extensive reading, including “The Big Five for Life” and other inspiring works, I have come to realize my true aspirations in life. I yearn for happiness, to be a devoted mother, and to lead a peaceful, purposeful existence while aiding others in need. This fresh start presents an opportunity for me to pursue a passion that will fill my heart with joy and contribute positively to society.

In envisioning this new chapter, I dream of a camper that will allow my son, our faithful dog, and me to explore the places we love freely. This mobile home will provide us with cherished moments of adventure, while also symbolizing our liberation from the internet-based profession, in wich i have to sell my body, I so despise. To complement our nomadic lifestyle, I dream of owning a small house in Denmark, a place to call our own and create a secure haven for my son.

The desire for self-sufficiency has awakened within me. I long to cultivate a homestead garden, where we can grow our own food and share the bountiful harvest with neighbors and friends. My thirst for knowledge is insatiable, and I aspire to study health sciences, ultimately teaching and assisting others in their pursuit of well-being.

I envision a future where the prosperity I build from your generous contributions allows me to give back to those in need, extending a helping hand whenever the opportunity arises. This is the path I was meant to tread, and I am determined to make it a reality.

Your support in this endeavor would mean the world to us. I pledge to keep you updated on our progress and the impact your kindness has on our lives. Your compassion will forever be etched in our hearts, and we will be forever grateful.

To contribute to our journey, here is my Paypal Me link: paypal.me/aalexandrawbr
Please help us take the first steps towards a brighter tomorrow.

 

With utmost gratitude,
Alexandra

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Single Grandmother raising a 5 year old

Hello,

I am raising my granddaughter, who is 5 years old. I received full custody of her a 10 months ago; due to her mother being on drugs and has mental issues. My bills are behind; I’m just trying to make sure my granddaughter has what she needs. I would like to get a better job.

It’s hard to take certain shift; due to childcare is expensive and I cannot afford it. My granddaughter would have been in the system; if I didn’t step up and told the state, I would take her! she’s, my world. School is coming up soon and she needs school supplies and new clothes; she will be going to first grade this year. This year has been difficult for her. She was behind, when she went to kindergarten, and I had to get tutors for her and finally she was able to get ahead and not be held back in school.

 

Rent is hard to keep up and all my credit card bills are behind. I took out loans to help pay for things, bills and my grand baby tutors and other things a 5-year-old would need. High rent, inflation and groceries are making it hard to keep up with bills and things she needs as a child. I believe it, it takes a village to raise a child. This statement is so true. I just want to make sure I can take care of her and have the option get a better job.

I believe in working hard; just need to find affordable childcare. Summer is very hard, since she is out of school, and I cannot afford to put her in childcare or any type of summer activities or programs. I’m starting to have car trouble, the car is an older vehicle.  I keep up the insurance and oil changes as well. I just want to keep her environment stable and get ahead of the bills. My granddaughter witness her mother doing drugs and tried to kill herself.  I just want to help my granddaughter and position myself to get a better job.

Thank you for taking time to read my situation!

paypal.me/lovelondon955

 

 

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Single mom paying off Debt

Single mom of three talented children (12, 12 and 10). After many years of litigation in Family court, I ended up with huge debt and had to apply for consumer proposal. I have been paying my debt for the past 3 years and still have two more years to go. I need help paying off the remainder of this debt so I can restore my credit faster. It will also free almost $600 monthly which will help me in paying bills and basic needs. I also have $1550 in credit card balance and a loan of $1450 that needs to be paid off as well. The total amount needed is $11, 550.

www.paypal.me/BNa777

Thank you!

 

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Knee Replacement Surgery, Need help with living expenses

Hi there, my name is Susan. I need to have my right knee replaced ( torn meniscus & torn PCL ) I’m asking for $6000 to help cover living expenses for a couple of months so I can heal. I am unable to save up the money myself due to my employer reducing my hrs to 2hrs a day as they are unable accommodate me & my injury. (Warehouse job) your donation will mean the world to me & I thank you endlessly to the moon & back. The sooner I raise this money, the sooner I can schedule the surgery & heal. The sooner I can get back to work & be the Super mom my 2 children need & rely on.

paypal.me/susangram01

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Please Help Single Mom of 4 Teenagers

Hi and God bless you for reading my post.  My name is Donna Johnson and I was born and raised in Orange County, California.  I’m 55 years old and have been homeschooling my children the past 16 years.  I relocated to Florida in search of a better living environment.  I was living with the kids father for many years in hopes that we would get married.  Our income is solely based off of me if I can get a house cleaning gig.  We sold my car in California and I have not been able to save any money for transportation.  I have been earnestly looking for a job with no call backs. It’s literally impossible to find work due to an old domestic violence case from when I was 26 years old.  My boyfriend at that time threatened to kill me and when the neighbors called the police, the boyfriend lied and said I was the problem.  I was young, naive and scared so I refused to give my side of the story.  If only I could go back I would tell the officers what happened but I was scared so I kept my mouth shut.  I was put in jail for a month and have a felony on my record.  Fast forward to today, I have been raising 4 kids by myself.  I have never asked for assistance before.  Not ever in my life.  If I could just get a car and a little financial help, then I can get back on my feet without struggling.  Our electricity was shut off the other day.  This is the truth and if you can help me it would be a miracle from God.

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Looking to start a cleaning business

I am a single mom raising my two daughters and grand daughter. I was recently subjected to theft and I have not been able to get back on track. I am unable to get help because this theft (by a very close friend) resulted in me falling behind on my bills and getting evicted. My daughters and I have been living in one room in an extended stay because I can afford a loan at the moment. I have, however, found a cleaning franchise that has been in business for 35 years plus. My daughters and I have tried to find cleaning jobs which we can do after I get back from work but the market is not easy to break into. We have only managed one apartment in 5 weeks.

The franchise we have fund comes with clients –  and if we choose we can find more after we start. They offer training and support as long as we need it. Please help us raise $40, 320.  This will allow us to work and get paid and be able to pay our 15% to the parent company every month and allow me to send my girls to school.

Please help us.

Thank you

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Single mother of two in desperate need of help!

Hello,

I am a single mother of two adorable children.

My husband filed for divorce in 2020 when my son was only three months old. I pleaded and pleaded with this man but, he insisted on going ahead with it. I also asked his friends and reached out to our local church leaders for help being that my husband was an assistant Pastor but, he refused and insisted he wanted a divorce. I had suffered a second degree tear from the pregnancy, severe medical complications and I was facing redundancy at the time the divorce was filed. I had to use my redundancy money to survive with my children and also pay for a solicitor. My redundancy money soon ran out and I was faced with the awful decision of taking loans so that I could get legal representation in the court. I found myself going to court trying to fight for custody of my children.  I also found out he had numerous affairs with so many women, he soon moved out of the house and removed himself from all the bills of the house.

I was left to take on the bills of the house alone with no income coming in. He had moved himself and his mother to a luxury apartment leaving I and the kids to fend for ourselves. I had to take out more loans to look after my children hereby plunging myself into more debt. Then there was the ever growing legal costs I had to pay for. He sold all joint assets we owned together while we were married prior to the filing for the divorce and by the time I found out it was too late. I was left broke and in debt. I soon recovered after the injury sustained from pregnancy and tried so hard to look for work which I found but, I am now in so much debt that all my monthly income goes to paying off debts and bills. The former matrimonial home is now up for sale. The debt I am owing will not allow me get a house for myself and the kids as I currently can’t show affordability to get a mortgage with the amount I have to pay towards my debts every month. The money I get from the child benefits can barely buy enough grocery for I and the kids every week.

My health has been impacted from the whole situation, I have been so anxious and I barely sleep. I have done series of medical tests CT scan, chest x-rays, endoscopy etc but doctors can’t seem to determine what is actually wrong with me.  I am in about £80,000 worth of debt. I am in urgent need of help to pay off my debt and hopefully I can be able to afford to buy a property for I and the children to live in.

Please can anyone reading this help me.

 

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Single Mother of 4 Escaped a Domestic Violence Situation, needing help with Rent, Bills and a Car

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Single Mother of 4. We escaped a domestic violence situation with my ex husband of 20 years, he is also all of the children’s father. Unfortunately we had to move out of our hometown because he would not stop stalking us, we were moved for our own safety. We were displaced from having a home for 7 months. We were finally able to move into a home and my car broke down, I had to stop working because we moved over 3 hours away from my place of employment. I am in need of a car to be able to work, I have fallen behind on rent and utilities. In need of a pick me up financially after being in deep waters for so long. Thank you in advanced for considering blessing my kids and I, it would be such a huge weight off my shoulders and a much needed fresh start.

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Single Mother In Need of Help

Good morning,

My name is Lolitha Terry, and I am 54 years old.  I have a 14-year-old daughter whose name is Saraiyah.  We are currently residing in Kansas.   I have been a single mother since 2012.  The short version of my story is that my husband and I divorced, and he left me in a world of debt and bad credit.  I am not here to bash him in any kind of way.  It is unfortunate that he had many challenges that led to him becoming addicted to drugs which became a nightmare for me.  I had no choice but to file for divorce in 2015.

I’ve always been able to work and good jobs with decent pay.  My background is Executive Assistant.  I’ve worked in Public Schools, Government,  and Higher Education.  My last job was in Higher Education, Executive Assistant to Chair of Interdisciplinary Studies in Atlanta, GA.  In 2018 I was forced to leave my job because my daughter at the time was 10 years old and was having a very hard time dealing with our divorce and one day while at school, she attempted suicide in the bathroom by trying to cut her wrist with a pair of scissors.  It was at that point that I realized, I was drowning in trying to take care of us and not paying close enough attention to her.  She was crying out for attention from her father who never came.  She barely talked to me because she was angry thinking it was my fault.  I had to get her help which was so expensive because she had to see therapists continuously.   I ended up depleting my 401K down to $13,000.  I had to keep going in it to try and get us out of the debt we were in.  So, in March of 2018, I had to quit my job to see about my daughter because I was missing so much time at work and eventually, I was going to be fired.  So, I quit so that I could go to her school, be home when the bus came, and give her my full attention.  She got better and I had two heart attacks from the stress of it all.  I recovered from my heart attacks and started my own Virtual Assistant Business.  My business did really well until Covid hit.  My clientele was hit by Covid and my business declined.  We became homeless in March 2020.  We lived in a hotel from March 2020 to September 2021.  One of my clients in Kansas was willing to help and offer my daughter and I the opportunity to move to Kansas to get on my feet.  We moved and my business became stable again until July 2022.  In July and August of 2022, I developed Covid and was not able to do anything.  On September 6th, 2022, I had two strokes and became partially paralyzed on my left side.  In October 2022, my doctors found two polyps which were cancerous, they removed the two polyps only to find a huge mass in my colon.  I was diagnosed with colon cancer.  I had my first surgery November 4, 2022, and because the cancer was aggressive it was spreading fast to my rectum, so I had to have  robotic sigmoid resection surgery on December 13, 2022.  The doctors didn’t think I would live simply because the strokes had caused damage and they felt that the surgery would take 6 hours and I would bleed out on the table because of blood clotting.  Needless to say, I’m still alive and so grateful but after the surgery, they found more cancer in two of my lymph nodes and they recommended Chemotherapy. when my body was strong enough.  So, in January and February of 2023, I was supposed to begin chemo, but I was still too weak.  In March 2023, my son, 22 was killed in Atlanta, and in April, I found out I was being evicted.  May 2023, someone stole my car while I was in Atlanta attending my son’s funeral.   I have not been able to work or operate my business since September 2022 and I need help getting back on my feet.

I am doing so much better and now my cancer is in remission.  I am asking for enough help for the rest of this year to get back on my feet.  I am currently 4 months behind in rent and I have been trying to get rental assistance.  I need to get all of my bills paid in full, I need to get my daughter uniforms and tuition paid for school by August 1st.  I am humbly asking for ANY assistance you can offer me.  I have been without lights and gas several times and I’m still trying to get work from home jobs as a Virtual Assistant.  My daughter’s birthday is July 15th and I have absolutely nothing to give her, my dog needs to go to the vet, and I can’t take her because I just don’t have the money.  Please help me!

I am grateful to all of you who take time to read this post and help others.  It is my desire to help others just as you are doing right now.  Before getting sick, I was creating an Academy for Single Moms to learn how to become a Virtual Assistant, Author, and Entrepreneur.  I know the struggle of being a Single Mother and my heart desire is to become so financially abundant that I can help other Single Mothers become financially abundant.  I’m not saying this to impress you, but to impress upon you that, I appreciate what you all do because it is my desire to do the same.  Thank you in advance for your assistance and support.

https://paypal.me/LolithaT

 

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Mom and kids

Hi…I’m a mom of two little kids we are currently in a very bad domestic abuse situation. Financial, emotionally, and mentally abusive. Need financial help to find a place to live get a car, pay bills, he controls everything, you try to go to court but the court gives them more control of you and the kids and tells you he have the right to put you and the kids out to live on the street. I always work but he had control everything. Need help this mont of July 2023 he’s in the process of putting us out on the street, I did try to get help from the State but there is no help. I have nothing to hide if you have questions here is my number

Natalie.

640-209-8308

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