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I may be knocking myself off the list of many with this detail, but I am an LGBT woman in a deeply red state. My wife — in name, not paper — pretty much just wrung me dry. After years of her not working, using my card, letting me pay for everything–perhaps a novice move on my part in being too trusting–she finally got a job! Which seems great. Until she decided she was suddenly too good for me after her first check in years and declared I get out. For long reasons, neither of us are actually the ones on the lease, and unbeknownst to me during the 60 hours a week I was working to keep us afloat while she had nothing, she had turned the person who was on the lease against me.

Yes, this seems like highschool drama and maybe, to some extent, it is. But what isn’t is that she let all of the bills charge to my card before pulling this stunt. And used it for some spending spree. Even the day after the breakup. And pretty much bottomed me out. I had to change my card number to get her to stop using it.

She “graciously” gave me to the first of July to get out, and I started working double overtime to start trying to get enough to move out. I DID manage to get a lease signed to move somewhere on the first, and in theory I should have the first month and moving costs covered if I keep on the 70+ hour weeks I’ve been breaking myself working.

Somehow, despite her not being employed for years, I can’t even remember since when, she’s even convinced herself she bought all the furniture in the place we just moved into last August and furnished from the ground up. And, considering she’s tilted the friend backup table, I have nobody to even argue my point on leaving here with anything more than my clothes. Because, again, in name and not on paper–so no way to make her split things equally.

Add in, my job–while good–is work from home. Meaning, like, if I don’t have a home? And internet? I lose my job?

So I started rebuilding rapidly.

I’ve mostly found free or extremely cheap furniture to pack in a side room, done supreme bargain shopping, and more–but I’m going to come up a little short on other important things like. I dunno. An air conditioner for summer. And. Like. Food. Those things would be very nice.

For an example of basics I’ve managed to scratch up from nothing (and since I took this my discount warehouse clearout mattress came in–I had got the free couch because I thought I might have to sleep on it)

I promise I’m trying to be as smart and economical as possible. The most expensive part of all of that was paying for it to be delivered, you’re looking at about 150$ investment for half a house (barring the mentioned mattress at 300 for it and the box spring).

I do have a good job, but there’s only so much recoup someone can do with like 3 weeks notice after being bled dry. And I think everyone knows. First month/deposit/movers/utility starting is E X P E N S I V E. Heck, air conditioners are expensive. Not to mention pots pans knives microwave whatever else comes with starting from SCRATCH. This woman is refusing to even part from a SET OF BEDSHEETS. And apparently had other “options”, and I’m quoting her and me, “lined up.”

So what I’m asking for is any kind of help I can get. I’m not someone that has, say, a 40K medical bill or something. But I’m at a point where every dollar can help and, in a perfect world, might find up to 1K in generous people. 500 would definitely help a lot (like air conditioner). I really doubt I’ll find a magical sugar momma that will offset me the few thousand in general move in costs, but this is definitely an “anything helps” situation

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I’m at a loss of what to do. I’ve accumulated a debt on rent and other things like car payment. My credit is not good and has derogatory marks on it. A loan to pay off my owed rent isn’t feasible at this point, and I can’t withdraw from my 401k for 12 months. I have less than 10 days to come up with $3700 to avoid being evicted from my home. I have no family and none of my friends are capable of helping me. I feel this is a last resort for me I don’t know what else to do.

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To whoever wishes to help in any amount of way:

My wife and I have each never had bad rental history, both before and after we met. The past few years together we have never missed payment on rent or on our other bills. But it seems ever since her losing a job due to Covid we have had quite the rocky road. I left a toxic job a while back and took up being a Doordash driver for the time being. She later accompanied me after losing her job and is now employed by Doordash too, but we share the same car.

The worst of it is that she lives over 5 hours away from her mother who is ill, and I feel it my duty to find any way possible to shorten the distance between my father and her mother while finding our own town close between both families. We also really need that change. My wife has PTSD on top of all of this and she’s really triggered by this town we live in. I can’t say I love it much myself. For those reasons it’s been very hard to want to get settled in a different job aside from Doordash. We make decent money with Doordash too, and it is a job we can at least mover further away with. The plan is to find a new more official job for each of us at that time.

Life is not very easy as we all know, yet my wife and I still feel somewhat responsible for not being able to fix our situation alone. We’re still working hard at it nonetheless. But we just missed our first rent and car payment and it’s making it that much harder to save to move by the time the lease is up in 4 months. We really cannot do another lease at the price that it’s climbing at here. Nor can I keep her from being close to her mother who she and her mom both need. It’s becoming more complicated all around. We got our eviction notice and are doing what we can to communicate with the leasing office.

What we truly need is to not resort to living in our car which runs great but has no AC which would really suck this summer while not having showers and trying to work Doordash. The eviction would affect us with finding a new place closer to her mom. I do not want that on our record. And, last but not least, we have 2 cats that we both love. They are therapeutic for her, and that’s important to me despite my cat allergies.

It said to make this at least 400 words, and at the risk of still sounding too wordy we’re just looking for any amount of assisance. We really need to find a cheaper place in a new town closer between both families, and pay off our debt that is now accumulating. This will give us a fresh start while helping us learn and grow from it. If able, we would like to even pay what we owe and break the lease to move sooner since it’s getting too expensive. Breaking a lease is $2,000. But we currently owe $1,300 already for late rent, and coming up it will be nearly $700 we owe for paying 2 months of our car payments. Our car is most important for working our delivery job and trying to move. It would be devastating to be evicted along with having a car repoed. We just want to move forward.

I would like to thank anyone ahead of time, because you need to know just how much of an impact this will have on us. It will really change our lives for much better. Even if it’s just something to help us eat. Special thanks from our cats too!

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I had enough savings to hold to keep me going from March 2020 to February 2021.  Fortunately, I was living below my means before Covid.

For the first time ever in my life, I sought services for housing assistance.  I was referred to VA programs by 211.  After 3 weeks of submitting all of the requested paperwork, ID, SSN#, tax statement, bank statement, proof that I don’t receive unemployment, and getting excited, I was informed yesterday that I was not in the military long enough to qualify for housing assistance.

The only assistance I was offered is free MST (Military Sexual Trauma), which is the only reason I did not complete the 4 years in the service, to begin with.

Since I have an honorable discharge and was released through no fault of my own, I had hoped that VS could offer assistance, but all they could offer was to pay my cell phone and car insurance.

I am so grateful for that assistance, however, I am shocked that for the first time in my life that I asked for help, no agency can do more. I have given back through volunteer work for the past 15 years. I have met so many homeless men who ARE NOT WORKING, but some agency was paying for them to live in a hotel or placed them in an apartment and paid the rent for 1 year.

I am in shock, because I have applied for Crisis, Ramp Charlotte, Hotel Committee, and every agency 211 offered for Mecklenburg County residences. I just don’t understand why no one has helped me or offered me a reason why they haven’t helped me.

I have no children, never married, never received section 8, food stamps, medicaid, or welfare.  I have a perfect MVR record and no criminal record. I passed a drug test in order to receive counseling.

All I need is financial assistance or someone to provide housing for me and my grief support pet until my hours pick up at the bank. 1 month would mean a lot, but 6 months would be great. Since Covid arrived, my hours gradually reduced at the bank.

Since all of the agencies who did an assessment over the phone made it clear that if I have no income, it will be difficult to receive help, I have been working at Home Depot in which I am removing the carts from the parking lot 8 hours a day.

There is a reason why you seldom see women work this job, as it is brutal and takes a lot of strength to bring in 7 carts with each hand as I normally do, rather than push all 14 and attempt to keep straight.  They don’t have one of those machines, so I connect the baskets, 7-10 each, then pull 14 in at once.

The arduous work has strained my neck and my entire body is bruised. I am not a complainer, but God knows that my body can’t take any more pulling and pushing the baskets for 8 hours a day. It has aggravated an old injury. I’m mentally hurting, but this job has me physically hurting.

I am in counseling which Monarch has offered, as I am classified as PTSD. I  know that I need counseling.  But right now, I am so focused on finding housing and securing another decent-paying job like the one I had at the bank, that I feel irritated when I go to counseling.  At $12 an hour, 31 hours a week, missing hours due to counseling appt, doctor appt, interviews, etc., I am only averaging $300 a week.

As you can see from the letter, the hotel will not renew my stay here, which is fine, as this location has shady characters living here, roaches, loud music played in the parking lot, and no security. I would like to relocate to the south side close to my storage.

I need housing, money for cell, insurance, credit monitoring, legal shield, car insurance and to pay on my credit card.

Everything was fine until I moved out of the most perfect apartment near Piper Glen in June 2020 – with the intention of saving money.  But it didn’t work out.  The elderly couple that I moved in with had a crack/heroin/crystal meth-addicted son who returned to the house AFTER I moved in.

Although I never dated him, as he sells his body to men for crack, I was terrorized, along with his parents, until a domestic violence program placed me in housing. By then, he had kidnapped me, pulled a gun on me, threatened to kill me, thre the dog off the porch, stolen my car, broke every window, and sold it for $300 worth of drugs.  The two warrants and protective order were a waste of time.  He has never served even one day in jail for what he did.

My lab died of cancer, so I didn’t have a pet at the time I was housed by a domestic program agency.  But now, in order to receive their assistance, I would have to separate from the only thing that loves me, my grief support animal.  My pet has kept me off of antidepressants.

I can’t find an agency that will keep my pet if I go into a shelter.  Even if I were to give away my plants, I have no place to keep my clothes, books, food I have boxed up, shoes, tv, etc. My storage unit is packed.

I currently owe this hotel the first 14 days of March. I owe $$2800 for the last two months at the apartment I last rented.  I am anxious to pay this so that my credit will not be messed up. I’ve never had an eviction and I’ve never been late, but my high credit card usage has reduced my credit.

The ideal situation would be to have enough money to put a down payment on a house so that I will not have to return to an apartment, ever again.

I had enough savings for 1 year, which ran out in February 2021.  The $7000 in debt that I have is due to charging car work, rent, medical, etc.

My parents, grandparents, aunt, uncles are deceased. I have no husband, boyfriend, children, or companion who can assist me.

I would like to leave charlotte and start a new life in a new city, as there is a lot of pain associated with this city with the assault, the domestic violence situation, having a gun pulled on me, being choked, kidnapped, losing my income, giving up my apartment to save money to no avail, and now the humiliation of begging every agency in Charlotte to help me.

I live such a private life, but to submit all of my personal business and show the police report, protective order, and warrants, my bank statement, is humiliating because not one agency has offered to pay any rent.

I don’t get it. I have no drug or alcohol problems. I have worked all of my life and paid taxes into the system and made sure that I did not get pregnant or depend on government assistance to help raise my child, yet I can’t get any help.

I’m not asking for a handout, I just want help. If I were to receive enough funding to leave my career altogether, I would focus on my project in which I make homeless kits for men and women and give them away.  Each one contains socks, a t-shirt, toothpaste, sanitizer, washcloth, soap, cologne or perfume, etc. I’ve been homeless before and can recall all the items that would have been nice to have while I was on the streets 20 years ago when my mother abandoned me.

The only other hotel that is affordable that will allow pets, is located in Ft. Mill South Carolina, exit 90.  I would be grateful if someone could pay ever how many months they are willing for me to stay there until I can secure another good-paying contract and save enough to get an apartment.

My goal is to pay down my $7000 credit card debt, pay my $85 monthly storage 6 months in advance, pay for my stay in a hotel because earning $12 hr will take me a long time to save up $1500 monthly rent that hotel charges.  I would love to have the braces and dental implant that I needed.

If I receive enough of a donation, I will leave Charlotte.  If I receive enough to pay rent, I will move to Ft. Mill.  If I receive enough beyond paying rent for 6 months, I will get the dental work that I need and pay enough on my credit cards to bring my credit score up.  Paying off  $1560 would increase my credit score.

What I find most shocking is the inordinate number of men – and women who say to me, “you’re a pretty girl.  You can’t get any of these guys to help you?”  So in other words, I’m supposed to do what millions of women feel pressured to do and compromise my self-respect and integrity – simply because I’m vulnerable and alone?

This is why I am online seeking assistance, anything to avoid having to resort to a loss of the character I have worked hard to maintain.

With what I owe in rent and credit card, my debt is $10,000.  $5,000 will move me to another state.  $10,000 will give me closing money on a house, $2,000 dental, etc. I will set a goal to ask for $30,000, but I will be grateful for the $1500 I need to move into a new hotel in a different city.  I am tired of looking over my shoulder, fearing that I may run into the paranoid schizophrenic again.

Salvation Army offered me a room, but I would have to separate from the only love and comfort that I have in my life, my pet. It would be traumatic for both of us.  Please help me.  Thank you in advance for your consideration and concern.

P.O.Box 241812

Charlotte, NC  28224

Please, I am reaching out and begging for help from anyone that can help me, my partner and our three children, ages 11, 3 and 1, with getting the money to move our home by March 12, 2021. We are being evicted and because I wasn’t able to afford to move the mobile home from the rental property by Dec. 31, 2020, my Landlord’s Estate has brought a judgement against me in the amount of $14,900 and are also trying to take our mobile home as well.
I have been renting a mobile home lot in Alabama since July 2014. The mobile home is mine. I lost my job due to health issues and due to Covid pandemic, I have struggled with paying rent on time. My landlord’s daughter in law was in charge of collecting rent. She was very patient and understanding, when I was late, due to me losing my job and due to the Covid Pandemic. My landlord developed health issues and then made his daughter Power of Attorney. She served a 7-day letter in November and I paid the amount in full on Nov. 19, 2020, before the given date. November 30, 2020, she texted me a copy of my receipt and the money order I had given her and told me that she would send me proof of address for other reasons. My rent was paid in full and not due again until Dec.1, 2020. On Dec. 1, 2020, I came home to find another paper attached to my door. It was a Notice of Non-Renewal of Renter’s Agreement, typed up by a lawyer on Nov. 30, 2020 dated Dec. 1, 2020 telling me to remove myself and my property from the rental property by Dec. 31, 2020. I called her to talk to her about the notice, but she did not answer. She texted back and told me that her lawyer was handling things and to contact him with any questions, moving forward. I called her lawyer because I was confused about why I was having to move after paying the rent in full and also, when I talked to my Landlord’s daughter on Nov.30, she did not tell me that my rental agreement was being terminated. Her lawyer wasn’t available and never returned my call.
My partner tested positive for Covid in Dec. I did develop symptoms, but wasn’t tested. Due to being exposed, I had to be guaranteed until Jan. 5, 2020. So that, too,kept us from meeting the 12/31/2020 move out date.
My landlord died Jan. 5, 2021 and an Unlawful Detainer was placed on my door Jan. 8, 2021.
I spoke with my Legal Aid Lawyer about the Eviction Moratorium. He did represent me(?). But said the Eviction Moratorium didn’t apply to my situation. I even told him that the property was listed on a realistate site, not for rent or sale, but the future site of a 200 home subdivision, thinking maybe he could find that to be the reason for the termination of my rental agreement and perhaps she would be responsible for relocations fees He said that was all irrelevant and that the land done everything the right way He said he knew the Landlord’s lawyer and all he has done is side with them telling me that it is very important that I remove my home before they take possession of it. I told him that it was a little different than packing boxes and moving and more costly. He had no idea how much it costs. I told him I was quoted $2400 to move it only 10 miles, but the company could not give me a date that it could be moved. Other companies quoted prices between $2500-$3500. The Legal Aid Lawyer also told me that there was no type of aid or help with funding to have it moved.
I went to court 2/26/2021 and, as of now, I have until March 12, 2021 to move my mobile home. If it is not moved, according to the Legal Aid Lawyer, I will have the $14,900 judgement against me, if not more, and the Estate will attempt and probably succeed in taking possession of our mobile home. I even had to provide the Landlord’s lawyer with proof of a clear title to my mobile home, the Bill of Sale and current registration. I was told by the Legal Aid Lawyer representing me if I didn’t provide the requested documents, I could be found in contempt of court.
Anyway, after paying my rent in full in November, not knowing my rental agreement was being terminated, my partner and her children moved in with me. Now, after all of the excitement of setting up the girls rooms and getting settled in together, we are all about to be homeless and I do not know how to fix this. We are in desperate need of prayers and help with coming up with the money, $2500 to $3500, because we are running out of time to move and save our home. Anything will be appreciated Thank You

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Hello, i am a struggling mother of one . I recently lost my job due to the pandemic and are backed up on bills and loans. I am soon to be evicted from my apartment also. If anyone out there can help pay off My bills and out food on the table for my child . I will appreciate it to the fullest . Please ..