Twelve years ago, I made the life-changing decision to move to the Big Island of Hawaii to be closer to my daughter. She married a wonderful local man, and they’ve created a beautiful life, and are now blessed with two amazing children. While many people dream of owning property in Hawaii for vacation getaways or picturesque views, my motivation is deeply personal: I want to remain an integral part of my family’s life.
One of my granddaughters has type 1 diabetes, a condition that has brought many challenges and complications. As a grandparent, my role has never felt more vital. I fear the financial burden of renting could one day force me to move away just when my family needs me most. The thought of not being there for them, especially during difficult times, is unbearable.
Currently, simply paying rent has significantly drained my resources. The reality is that owning a home here is more affordable in the long run than continuing to rent. I am not seeking luxury; what I desire is modest—just a small piece of land with a simple house. Nothing extravagant, just a secure, clean, and dry space where I can feel at home and be close to my loved ones.
Having my own place would mean stability and the ability to support my family when they need it most. I envision a home where I can help with childcare, provide meals, and be a shoulder to lean on. Every moment spent together—celebrating milestones, sharing laughter, or navigating challenges—would enrich our lives.
The Big Island isn’t just a beautiful location; it’s where my heart is, intertwined with my family’s journey. Owning a home would allow me to deepen my roots in this community I love. It would offer me the peace of mind that I can always be there for my granddaughter and the rest of my family.
By securing a small piece of land, I can establish a home that fosters connection and support, making sure I am always there for them when they need me most. My social security plus my small business allows me enough to support a home, just not enough to purchase one. With a home of my own, I can create stability and know that I can remain here to be with my family.