Hi, my name is Din, I’m in my late 20s. Im unemployed and currently living with my parents. It is important for me to let you know my backstory that led me to this path in asking for financial assistance to help me get my life back on track.
In my early 20s, i had a bright future ahead of me, got accepted into a college, being one of the top student in my class, almost got engaged and working for a big company. But its all ruined, i failed my internship on my last semester because of my current health and physical condition. I was diagnosed with Hypertension Stage 3. Hypertension or high blood pressure, is a chronic condition in which the blood vessels have persistently increased pressure. Each time the heart beats, it pumps blood into the vessels. Blood pressure is created by the force of blood pushing against the walls of blood vessels (arteries) as it is pumped by the heart. The higher the pressure, the harder the heart has to pump.
|Category||Systolic (mm Hg)||Diastolic(mm Hg)|
|Prehypertension||120 – 139||or||80 – 89|
|Hypertension Stage 1||140 – 159||or||90 – 99|
|Hypertension Stage 2||160 or higher||or||100 or higher|
|Hypertension Stage 3||180 or higher||or||110 or higher|
Systolic refer to a pressure in the arteries during the contraction of the heart muscle while Diastolic refer to the pressure when the heart muscle is between beats. I also had severe Asthma condition. I had Asthma attack almost everyday. Sometime, i need to be admitted to emergency department in the middle of the night because of Hypertension and Asthma attack at the same time. Dealing with Hypertension and Asthma is not easy because i had to experienced severe headache, shortness of breath and sometime mini-stroke.Without proper supervision and care, im most likely to get a Stroke and a Heart Attack soon. Its like a time bomb waiting to explode.
Due to my failure, i’ve been received an insult from people who’s supposed to support and love me the most. Till this day they still bring that matter up by insulting me and made me feel guilty. They only see bad and negative side of me. They will never appreciate the good thing i had done for them. They even belitte me in front of my siblings and the others.
I just want to find my passion, become succesful and live a happy life without burdening the others, but with my current health condition i wouldn’t make it far. I need your help to make my dream come true or im gonna stuck in this loop of failure. I tried so many time to rebuild my life again but it ended in failure. I just need a little bit of help to throw me off this loop of failure so that i can rebuild my life again. My priority is to lose weight and achieve a good health condition before its to late (already lose 8lbs). Also i wanted to improve my certain skills escpecially in Programming and 3D Modelling, so i can make a good use of it in the future.
I will use this funding to help me improve my health and rebuild my life such as :-
Getting Health screening: Health screening is an effective way to help me understand my body and it will detect a specific disease or condition early, even when there have been no symptoms or signs of the disease. Detecting a condition early means getting the right treatment at the right time and this gives me better control over my health.
Getting Driver License: I can legally drive my own car on the road and go somewhere without asking for help and burdening the others.
Getting Health Monitoring Equipment: Such as Blood Pressure monitor, Blood-glucose Meter and Pulse Oximeter. With this i can monitor my health condition regularly at home.
Getting a Proper Exercise Equipment: Im an obese, with BMI reading over 40. I used to go the gym, but i stopped because of this pandemic. Its convenient for me to have this at home because i can exercise more regularly without going to the gym. Its a long –held dream for me to have a proper exercise equipment. In the past 3 month i manage to lose 8lbs. My target will be 80lbs.
Getting a Proper Bedroom Setup: Around 2015 , i had an accident and it greatly damaged my spinal cord. ever since that day, i used to feel pain if i slept in wrong position. Sometime i cant even make a move because of this unbearable pain. An affordable comfy matress will help me alot. All this year i slept on the floor without matress and pillow while my others sibling get a brand new setup worth thousand. I don’t even have my own bedroom. My parents dint even care about me. But now, i got a chance to use my late older brother bedroom as my own.
Getting a Water Heater and an Air Purifier: Both of this greatly help my asthma condition. Water heater provide me with hot shower that will helps open up airways and loosen up the mucus lining. Air purifier help by remove small particle in the air that triggered my asthma.
Getting a Full Desktop Setup/Notebook: I will use it as an educational and productivity tool. I wanted to learn and sharpen my skill in programming and 3d modelling because it can help me in the future and im pretty good at it. I do have a notebook but its very outdated and dying. This will bring many opportunities for me later on, because nowadays most of the profession need computer to get a job done. It will benefit me alot.
Getting a Smartphone: My smartphone also very oudated and dying. It only matters of time before it die or explode. There was one time when i charged my phone, it become very hot and goes from 7% to 3%. New smartphone will also benefit me as productivity tool later on, because nowadays many profession also need smartphone to get a job done.
I made a rough calculation and i will need not more than 10,000$ to make all of this come true. Thats a lot amount of money but its gonna make a very big change in my life. I had enough with my current miserable life, i want a better and happier life than this in the future and im ready to figth and die for it. With every donation it gave me hope because it make me me believe there still someone out there willingly help a stranger like me and put their trust on me. It means a lot to me.
I really want to success, i want to make myself proud and show everyone that anyone deserve a succes despite how many time they fail because human tend to make a mistake and learn from it as long as they know what they want and work hard for it.
I’ve always hated asking for help and burdening those around me is something that makes me feel sick to my core. But this time of my life is made or break, and if the people who see this are generous enough to help, it’ll mean I have even ground to start from and I’ll be able to build a life for myself.
If you’ve read this far, even if you don’t donate, please know I appreciate your time so much and I hope that you get through the rest of this pandemic as safely as you can.