I am a mother of 2 kids. I am 43 years old. I was married but 2 years ago I separated from my husband and recently I got a divorce from him. when I left his house I kept my kids with him also. Because I am a South Asian citizen and he is a European citizen. I married my husband in 2009 in my country. That’s where I met my husband. Then he brought me into his country. 12 years I was living with him with so much stress. Psychologically he abusing me too much. But I hold onto myself because of my kids. But finally, I couldn’t anymore. After I decided to go back to my country. But I asked him to take the kids with me. But he doesn’t let me. For 12 years I lived with him in his house without having any friends or any of my family members or any relatives. Except for him, I don’t know anybody in his country. Or where to go or who to ask for help for me and so on…..
So, unfortunately, I have to leave my kids with him. I also asked with kids if they wanted to come with me, But he told the kids not to go with me. So they said no to me. With all the stress I left his country with the help of my brother. while in my country I always have a connection with my kids. then I found out my daughter had a scoliosis problem in a very bad way. Then I came back to his country again and found a job. also found a small studio to live with another roommate. This is my story very very shortly.
But, now I want my kids to at least stay with me when I am having off from work. But my ex does not like to send them to my place, because I do not have a house or any other facility. He said whenever I have my own house, then he will allow to kids to come to stay with me. At the moment I have a job. But the salary I earn every month isn’t enough for me to rent a good house or buy a house. Also, I asked the government for help. But they said they can’t help.
Please I am suffering too much without my kids next to me. Day by day crying without knowing what to do. Also, my daughter suffering from her scoliosis problem too. She needs to do some therapy and it costs so much, So, please help me to buy a small house or rent a house, so I can closes to my children. That’s all I want.
Thank you so much.
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