Hello, I’m a 63-year-old divorced male in desperate need of financial assistance and I thank whoever takes time to read this post.
I spent almost 40 years financially trapped in an emotionally / psychologically / financially and physically abusive marriage followed by a Predatory Divorce.
( Manipulation / Extortion) My LLC consultancy was confiscated in the divorce. I was subjected to an induced Nervous /Psychotic breakdown that was orchestrated by my Ex and her Attorney who were both well-versed in my mental health infirmities which became weaponized. It was a case of collusion (which family and friends will attest to) I was served the papers while I was still just beginning to recover. It takes a minimum of one year to get over something like that. They had to lock me in a room for two days because I was very suicidal.
I still had trouble walking and standing for my next minimum-wage job which was all I had. I finally had to resign and go SSA benefits which didn’t even leave funds for reasonable rent costs. I had to live on two credit cards for over a year totaling $35k in credit and personal debt and housing costs of $24k.
I’d like to restart my LLC/consultancy that was confiscated in the divorce. Humanitarian Projects & “Ecopreneur Ing” but right now I can’t afford that. I have family that are keeping me off the street temporarily.
If I think back, my problems really began in June of 1998. I endured a catastrophic accident and suffered 4 of what should have been instantly fatal internal injuries.
Due to my Medically/Scientifically impossible survival, I feel inclined to give back to Humankind. But my Ex decided to retrigger my CPTSD repeatedly as an additional form of abuse to further derail my livelihood.
It is a terrible story that no one should have to endure but it is completely true and as I said I have numerous friends and family who will attest. It is a “Perfect Storm” of “Narcissistic Abuse” (With all the symptoms to show for it along with brain damage and hypervigilance.)
My friends began to disappear from my life, my savings began to crumble. As of right now, I don’t have any savings left, I don’t know how to get through that so that is why I’m hoping that somebody is willing to help me with a hand up to where I can start giving back.
My mental health is at its lowest right now and I feel like I’m drowning… I really hope that kindness still exists and that somebody will be able to help me. Thank you for reading up to this point and if you are able to help, here is my Venmo handle, @Dresslbr (my PayPal is maxed out because I had to live on that as well.
With Great Gratitude / Blessings,