Since starting my journey as a coach, I’ve done some deep soul searching about who I should work with as an audience.
I have lots of life experience that has brought me to this place; however, as I write this request, I think back on the days when at church, marriage counsellors held three-day programs and how I would be so involved in their trainings. I’d stand and ask questions, as well as give my feedback about different things that were part of the discussions.
I remember one time I stood up and made a contribution, and while everyone around me laughed and carried on, a senior called out to me and said that I should sit down and shut up, and that I should allow the married people to speak because I was not married.
I enjoyed those programs; they were so eye opening for me in my early twenties. I wish they still existed today, and I see this as the reason lots of singles, me included, have difficulty navigating dating that leads to finding love.
As a single woman navigating my dating journey for many decades without any success, I have been spending money on dating sites that haven’t led me to finding my person, I feel drained from all my effort.
It’s for this reason, I’m making this request of $30,000 to pay to learn the skills that I need to navigate finding love, pay for expenses involved with travel to attend an upcoming retreat, and join a mastermind that deals with supporting me further, as I undertake this deep dive to find love, get married, and finally have my partner to do life with.
In return, I plan to give back by working with struggling singles who want to have success finding love.
Life is short, and I really don’t want to continue advancing my life if I’m not working at finding someone with whom to spend the rest of my life.
Since I was younger, I’ve had to put off having my person for so long. During high school and college, I listened to the lies that said I’d have enough time to be in love and have romance. I also complied with rules for peace’s sake, and to calm the threats of what would be done to me if I was found speaking to boys.
Sadly, my love life was always on the back burner as I supported people in my life, but then when I needed them, they were not there for me, and I had to support my life, and when I looked around, it was just me and my adversity.
I missed out on so many life events, like beginning a family, because, as I did my life by myself with my financial challenges, my finances have only been able to take me so far. I have repeatedly put off things that were important to me or struggled to give them to myself because I have only earned so much to take care of my life and advance myself.
I seek to empower myself this time and celebrate this upcoming opportunity to really work in an industry that fires me up. It’s taken me this long to figure this out, as I was in limbo, feeling unable to share what’s on my heart, and build a community.
From giving you, a bird’s-eye view into my life, I hope you’ll find my request worthy of your attention, consideration and contributions.
I appreciate this platform, all of you who came up with this idea to assist financially, and all of you who will share your funds with me so I can work at creating this well-meaning difference for myself, in my life, and eventually the lives of many others. I say thank you.
There is a deadline for May 19, 2024, and I would like to receive at least a third of the total amount before May 19, 2024, to help me be in attendance from the beginning of my class.
Thank you.