Good day to you and thank you for reading my story. I wanna start by saying that as much as I have been through in life, I am still grateful for where I am today and have much to smile for.
I will try to keep this short. I promise.
So I used to be an auto technician for about 7 years, I met my husband during the “covid season”. We had our first child, and agreed that I would be a stay home mom due to how we felt about the school system. We even agreed to homeschooling. We got married and needless to say our child thrived. I was so grateful to have been put in a position to be a stay home wife. We still still had our issues, as any married couple, right? Or so I thought.
Darker things began to arise as I got to know his mother ( who runs a daycare) and her boyfriend. Around 6 months I started to let our child stay with relatives (overnight). My child was showing signs of “suspicion” when she would stay with my husband’s mother, and her boyfriend ( such as not wanting to be changed all of a sudden followed by hysteric crying). Now I’m no psychic but my daughter has not left my side since her birth! Homebirth (in our same home) breastfed and homeschooling all in the same home. I know my child. Anyway, I tried to have this conversation with my husband and his mother to no avail.
August 2023, I decided to get a job to boost our funds. My daughter enrolled at my mother in law’s daycare and by the end of my first week at work, my daughter had shown me many signs that made me uncomfortable. I stopped work and talked to my husband again. After much evasion, the step father would not take a lie detector test and yet still insisted he continue to babysit our child, sometimes alone. Fast forward…
My husband and I did not agree about his “step father’s position” in our child’s life and my concerns were completely disregarded despite our child’s behavior. I ended up moving to my mom’s because she got sick. We still went back and forth because it was not far. Because I had to move, my husband felt like we were not his responsibility anymore and just stopped supporting us. Took the 2 years worth of tax money and bought a property in W.V. He changed the locks and moved in another lady friend that “needed help”. He refused to meet for play dates out of assumptions and paranoia. At this time I stopped attempting and sought a lawyer for a divorce.
All of this happened in quite a short window and I did not think about all the bills about to come my way. Since I stayed home I took care of the bills. With an immediate shift in finances, I was unprepared to survive. I have had jobs, but not long enough due to shift not meeting the needs of daycare. I am getting around that making the best that I can with what I do have. But I do need the help. Being left with a $7,573 debt blindly was a hard pill to swallow on my own with spotty work. I do have promising things coming up in my future but I need time to finish school and establish my career. I am currently in school for Real Estate.
I would really appreciate any help that is given. I also have a small business that I would love to get back up and running as a travel agent. I am willing to give free discounted quotes ( up to 3) on any travel destinations in exchange for any assistance. info below
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