Hi, I’m a mom of four children. I was married to my husband who is the father of my three oldest children. I received an inheritance when my grandfather died and my now ex husband used all that money gambling, buying himself cars and paying for sex workers. He then left when I give birth to my daughter. She was five weeks old at the time. He left me with massive debts that I could not pay as I was unemployed in 2011 and the country was in recession.
I signed up for benefits and I applied to go back to college as a mature student. This was incredibly stressful as I had 3 children under the age of 7 at the time and the bank was trying to take my house from me. I worked with a government agency to keep my home and set into a payment plan that meant I eventually cleared my debts.
I secured a full time nursing position and cleared my debts. I then meet another man whom I thought loved me. We had a baby together. My fourth and he is four years old. I’m good will i took a loan out for this man as he said he would pay me back in a few weeks. I have been paying back this loan myself as he does not help me with it. The loan is €10,000.
My eldest son crashed my car. He was ok which was the most important part of it. However I needed a car for work. So I am now paying back €20,000 car loan plus €10,000 that is in my name but I never had any of the money from it. My good heart was scammed again.
My eldest son is 19 and in college. I pay his fee’s in college. I also pay his dr fee’s as he has ADHD and is dyslexic. I get no help from my sons father.
I have two other children in high school aged 13 and 17. My 17 year old boy wants to be a lawyer but I worry how ill help financially in college.
My youngest son father is mentally unwell. He does not work and is a burden on me financially. I pay all household bills for 6 people. All food bills, all heating bills everything.
Currently I am behind in my bills. I owe €1000 to the electricity, I need to raise money to fix the heating system as that’s broke, I need to fix the hole on the roof, I need to fix the ceiling in the kitchen as there is a big hole where the shower is above it and I need to fix the toilet and shower as they are both broke. I have no money to do this.
My mother died aged 65 last year and I need the money to pay for the headstone which is €3000.
My car needs repairs. The breaks are broken. It needs an oil change but I can’t afford it.
My ex husband wants to sell the house so he can buy a new house for his new wife and family. He has never helped me with the children financially. So much that my oldest boys have changed their name because they know he has let us starve in the cold with no food. Now he wants the house sold for the value of the mortgage which is €50,000 left. That’s all that’s left in the mortgage as I have paid on my own for over 10 years.
please help us
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