Several years ago I met an elderly man by delivering pizza to him! He would order twice a week! Over the years I became like a granddaughter to him. I would visit weekly, do chores around the house that he could no longer do, grocery shop… He didn’t have any family so I decided to take up time with him. Here about a year ago Mr. P decided he wanted to have surgery on his knees because they caused him so much pain. He requested that my family and I move in because he knew he wouldn’t be Able to take care of himself after the surgery. So that’s just what we did! The surgery went great with no complications…. When Mr. P went to the rehabilitation center that’s when things started going down hill. This facility some how allowed 2 liters of fluid to fill in his bladder and that caused his kidneys to bleed. From that day forward his health continuously got worse as the weeks passed. In the process of all of this I had to stop working so that I could give him the proper care that he needed. Mr. P stayed in and out of the hospital and rehabilitation for several months. Saddest thing I’ve ever had to deal with. He couldn’t walk, he couldn’t eat, he could no longer use the bathroom on his own. It was so devastating! At one point he went into a coma and he was like that for days. After being Readmitted into the hospital and rehabilitation so many times they told him he had the option to go back or to be put on home hospice 😢 He chose hospice. I took care of this man until he took his last breath! 😭
After Mr. P passed away I became his beneficiary. Because I took care of him for so long he left everything he had to me and my two girls. With things going down hill for him so quickly we never got a chance to talk about any kind of financial things. There was the house and the property that I have been so grateful for. Mr. P did not have a life insurance policy and there is a reverse mortgage that he had on the property. The bank now wants the property back and I am not that financially stable to be able to get a loan that big. I’m so terrified that me and my girls are going to be out of a home. So I’m hear asking for help and praying that a miracle will happen. I would love to keep this house but if not get a house for the three of us. If there is anyway you can help me accomplish this for my girls I will be forever grateful!! Bless you all!!
Now we are currently staying at a motel and it is very expensive. I really need help.. my surgery is coming up Thursday and I’m so worried I won’t be able to keep up 😩